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Man called his 2nd wife free sex MashaAllah. Does he know anything about emotional intimacy? Most women require that as well not just a community penis. Oof.
Thats killed me, Mashallah
Very disrespectful
Yeah...astagfirullah!
But it true. Free sex. Muslim woman have been brain wash to lower their standards and to be so desperate for someone especially if she has children or if she’s over 35 years.
Tbh most people would have the same thought passed through in their mind in that case but just wouldn't say it out loud like this guy. This guy as we all know is a person who speaks bluntly.
Prophet Mohammed sal was really really really an excecption. Handsome, forgiving, leading, exceptionally loving & caring, mindful, strong, honest.... Even having some fraction of the time in his company was a gift. That is why he married 13 times.
You do know that he almost divorced all of his wives multiple times? And he was very annoyed by their nagging?
@@hassanshafiq3347 salamakum akhi. Could you provide hadiths the messanger pbuh doing this?
Thanks
@@bbqquid3152 Yes. Pick up any Seerah book.
Sheeas are always insulting prophets wives. They are respected by muslims and disrespected by sheeas. Why so, because they disrespect the Prophet sal. They only consider Ali, the greatest. This is not islam.
@@englishteacher3145 Shias do not consider Ali to be greater than Muhammad PBUH. You need to check your sources before you spread false information.
جزاك الله خيرا،
Bro, you are saying exactly what I have wished I can say in public to my brothers about marriage, etc. I love my job and wanna keep it, so thank you so much for speaking my mind bro. Well done!
--Another divorcee brother ;) salaam
You called her a bargain here though brother, it sounds like you didn't want to provide for her as much as the third one because you perceived more value in the third one (approaching her, planning to provide for her and wanting children with her etc) and of course at that part it's going to sting being the bargain bin wife.
Cause he didn't want to marry her in the first place, but she insisted amd gave up her rights, plus she is old and can't have kids
She offered him a good deal.
There is no such thing as a free lunch, men! Remember that. Lol
Amazing brother 👌
I don't always agree with what Mahdi says in his videos However In this video Alhamdulillah he spoke truth.
@@SurfyStories she agrees with what he says here and sometimes disagrees in other videos
Of course, they wanted to marry our Prophet pbuh, even though he was financially not rich, he was the prophet, the most remarkable man who ever lived! But you cannot compare him to any other scholars in this present world, finance is still important in this case. But for our nabi pbuh it's an exception! He had Allah!!!
before 100 years ago 50% merriage was polygamous
I pray to get a God fearing, companion man .
Just noticed your wearing a robe, smashed it.
Must be rare to find women who just say they only want a companion.
That makes sense what you said brother.
I don't think the thing about Sauda is correct. She gave up her night long before the prophet's (pbuh) death
15:47 now that's a T-shirt idea 👌🏻
Community 🍆
You are an exceptional man brother, if they do this to you they can do it to any other
Assalam alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I didn't catch the brother's name.
Bro in Islam men must provide with whatever they can for the wives and children... It is not like you could make your own agreements Am i right?!
marriage is a contract of agreement
Yes u are the prophet swl did say to be fair in all fields
That was informative and entertaining LoL
Yes, indeed, it's funny. Love to see how women are treated like cattle
@@nightrider9376 what's your body count???
How many 1 night stands did you have without knowing their names???
@@abrahamsasa3439 I did what your prophet did. I had sex slaves
@@nightrider9376 no you are nothing like him He took responsibly for his actions you take no accountability for your actions
I had a muslim nurse offering me this same thing. She was a divorcee and said i didnt need to spend on her financially and she was desperate for nikah. But she was weird and obsessive and freaked me out so i broke contact with her. Although she didnt approach me i approached her first and convinced her. I feel her plan was to come in as a second wife, make my first wife leave and then keep me to herself because she knew my wife may not accept it.
Was she attractive
@@ridwan_z you want her contact details
@@realspill9530 lol
Allah saved you then bro. Alhumdullillah!🤲🤲🤲
No worries bro if she gets in touch again send her my way.😝I'm divorced. I've been an NHS employee in the past too. Just what the Doctor ordered!😎😇
“ Women will only share exceptional High value Men”
No.
@@blessiness i'm guessing you're a female. Trust me you would do so without wasting a second if a handsome multimillionare guy asks you to be his. There is nothing wrong in that , it's just how the world works
@@dechiffrer9700 I loved him so much and he loved me. At first I felt desperate to stay with him and be the secret wife. But barely a few days later I realised that when you truly love someone you are not able to share them and it has nothing to do with jealousy, it has to do with earth shattering heartbreak. I also realised that he clearly just see all the woman in his life as warm wet holes and that actually he loved none of us, it was all just future faking. So I left him and blocked him 😭😭😭. He can now go take his 4 warm wet holes and one day go explain to God why he treated woman like vagina access only.
I love this explanation..open mind..🙏
@@dechiffrer9700 no money are worth eternal damnation in hell, polygamous relationships are a sin.
This is one of most interesting and insightful video on this topic ive watched or read.
Being a halal male giggalo for older muslim women doesn't bode well 😂
Haha
Good video
Had to pause the video and write this comment. Brother just some humble piece of advice as I do follow your channel. Even though what you said there may be true in your mind there are some things a person should not say out loud. Saying you saw her offer as "free sex" is totally bang out of order. Not only that but it puts a huge Question mark on your credibility and your general character as a human being. You have basically said out loud how you view women and that is nothing more than a piece of meat, or at least that is how you viewed her anyway. If I'm offended and deeply troubled by that remark I can't begin to Imagine how incensed it would make a female viewer watching this. Like I said, some things just because you or I may think it it doesn't mean we have to say it out loud, so try to use a better filter before you make such statements.
If it is true then this is not a character issue but a courage issue - the courage to speak frankly. Free sex is exactly how most men would view that arrangement; if that is troubling for you, unfollow the channel.
@@MahdiTidjani you're clearly delusional if you believe you're being courageous here. Your point would have been just as valid without the use of such expression, there was absolutely no need to go there. Whether most men think it or not is irrelevant. You have proven you lack hikmah as you clearly can not distinguish when to speak your mind and when not to.
#Unfollowed
@@MahdiTidjani unfollow the channel??
@@lost_poet_ he absolutely needed to use that langauge to get his point across, it's the truth of the situation, no need to sugar coat it
On the one hand, as a Muslim woman, I agree with the comment. On the other hand, when men speak frankly like this, it helps women understand how men think and then women clearly know to never ever ever put themselves in that situation, or make such an offer, because they’ll end up feeling and being perceived as worthless. Women have this idealism that their worth is within, but men don’t see things like that. They need factual and materialistic markers of worth. Women need to know this.
Just don't marry a 2nd or 3rd wife when your only intention by doing so is to get more sex 🤦♀️
Why not?
agreed 100%
@@criminozs lot of divorces will follow
@@d.bcooper2271 why? Why would divorces follow? Who would divorce?
Why would you marry then? Make a little army of your progeny? Most men don't want that.
Asalamu alaykum bro. May allah bless you. Please re edit/ reshoot or at least censor your old videos like this one as the bad language is too off putting for me no matter how valuable the information is. Also I don’t know if you’ve changed some of your opinions but maybe you should reconsider reshooting if you have
Walaykum Assalam, yh I agree.
I agree ...please reedit without the foul vulgar language. There's other ways of saying this
didnt sauda radi allahu anha give up her night when she made a comment that angered the prophet and he was about to divorce her not when he was dieing and wanted to stay in aishas house correct me if im wrong please
No you have the wives mixed up.
I personally (!!!!!!!) believe she just lost interest in intercourse due her age. That can happen after menopause. Allahu alem.
Can you please next time make a video detailing how can a man be exceptional or HV in a way other than finance
Dean and fitness
A Man of exceptional integrity and honor in society. A Man who has shown exceptional bravery in war, saving a life or protecting the meek.
Also a Man who is an exceptional Islamic scholar AND he possesses the wisdom of Confuscious, etc., etc.
Why would a man want a woman who works and leaves the house whilst the first wife sits at home? Sounds like a dayooth husband.
My husband has done the exact same thing!!! A woman just needed a part time husband with no money cos she has it all! And only wanted 3 days as we have 5 kids and I said to my husband she will change! He said no she's on the Deen she won't. But I know even women on Deen will change! SubHaanaAllah 😔
May Allah swt guide us all. Aameen 💗
Why did you let your husband sleep with another woman?
How is it going now?
So woman should stay little and remain in lifeless marriages. Where are men’s circumstances?
What about your first wife? Are her feelings considered at all in these arrangements?
I think it depend on which corner that we/her think
1. No he is my husbanb my man, only me forever
2. my man is responsible man, he is take care of me like a queen, it will be good if i give a opportunity to other woman to experince what i've got from my man, i'm sure he will make justice among us as his wives, because nowadays we know that woman Population is more than male
So i think in his case it going to be 2
😀😀
My thoughts exactly, he's mine, the other women can find their own man, not sharing him. I divorced my ex for thinking he could take me for granted. This is no different to cheating, just with the prefix of a marriage.
@@58jennypenny I can almost guarantee that you are not as valuable as you think. And neither is the man you left for wanting to do something that is completely Halal. If the man was truly worth it, you would share him. That os a fact. Why would you blame a man for his polygamous nature when you yourself have a seemingly blameworthy hypergamous nature? Why do you blame men for simply wanting more women, when it is instilled in them the same way it is instilled in you the desire for a taller stronger man? Should I now blame you for not marrying a >5ft ugly man?
@@58jennypennyastaaaaghfirullah
Well done for keeping it so real here!
I think its dubious for a '2nd' '3rd' woman to offer herself to a married man. They hide behind 'halal' and 'deen' - but if the tables were turned would any wife be happy with a 2nd wife offering herself to her husband? Theres a word for that type of behaviour. Its not a done thing ethically, morally or culturally. Yet they convince themselves its halal and so they even think thmesleves on a higher moral platform than everyone else.
Keep your head down in your nuclear family, especially if you have kids and make things work. Live in separate roofs even, fast, seek counselling, make the chidlren the focus, get a second job....but please please do not go down this path unless you are wise and have good counsel.
Can you guide me to marry 4 wives in this modern society where everyone is focused on marrying only one?
i merriyed four wives, i merriyed first wife by telling her that i have already one wife
This guy is a walking red flag. It is a husbands obligation to provide and protect the wife. Him neglecting his second wife was wrong. Not everybody should be married more than once
Weren’t you paying attention? He said he did because HE WANTED TO..WHEN HE COULD! Obviously the first wife needed more because she had children and the second wife SAID SHE DIDNT NEED provision.
@@mujtab8siddiqu1 oh so you take advice from a criminal who beats his wife. I am listening buddy listen better and realize he isn’t fulfilling his wife’s Islamic rights over him
@@Elkoshairiyous159how is he a criminal?
@@Elkoshairiyous159 you don’t have an logical reasoning argument so you revert to an ad hominem comment “so you take advice from him”
Focus on the actual argument instead of who said it. You’re dodging the point
@@MK-hw2ir I do have an argument. Let me ask you this. What gives this guy credentials to speak about relationships. He never had a successful relationship. He beat both of his wives and they both divorced and have restraining orders against him. Now he’s giving advice about marriage? He can’t give that advice because he’s not successful at what he does
Listen to this man....he is talking from experience
I think it's sad that you made these decisions, which you say made your first wife jealous. Did you speak to her before deciding to marry the second or third wife? I may be wrong but I suspect that you could have saved yourself a lot of trouble.
I would not recommend anyone to go into polygamy, even if you consider it to be halal and even if the first wife is willing beforehand. It would be very naive to think that there will not be negative feelings of jealousy in the short term and resentment in the long term. Unfortunately it is in the nature of a lot of women to compare themselves to others often, and I think that the majority of women would become jealous based on their perceptions of how the other wife\wives are seen by the husband or are being treated by the husband.
Feel free to reply to my comment if you disagree as I find the conversation about this very interesting, and would like to hear other views without arguing.
@ogbmt Whilst I agree that discussing the matter of a having multiple wives would have maybe given the first wife some perspective and also show signs of care and appreciation. I disagree respectfully with what you stated regarding not re marrying a second wife, third, fourth. Granted that it is not easy for a man to navigate his way through these affairs, it is still halal to do so therefore advising to make halal haraam in this context is wrong. I agree that women have a jealous nature to them and compare themselves to other women however that shouldn't be how we measure it due to the fact that our prophet PBUH had multiple wives, some sahaba had multiple wives also to this day where this is practised with all parties involved genuinely content. Looking at this topic from a standpoint of jealousy doesn't take into account the feelings of other women who are divorced, widowed, with children, and would want companionship and wouldn't mind being second, third, fourth wives.
You can marry who you want without consulting the first wife theirs nothing in the shariah stating a man has to consult her , it's just out of respect you should , a man to begin with has to have a backbone before considering polygny you can't be swayed by a women
@@The-roman-muslim "out of respect you should" as Muslims it is mandatory to strive to have a good character and not be deceitful so it's pretty clear that you should tell your first wife. Let's use some critical thinking and not need Allah to spoon-feed us.
@@The-roman-muslim Allah doesnt directly say alot of things since are common sense and as humans we should have intellect and not need God to baby us
@@The-roman-muslimholy crap your statement is baffling to me. I am not Muslim. What you stated is completely selfish. The way I look at the entire premise of polygamy is selfish and cruel to women. You say women’s nature is jealousy? What about men? Would you like to share a woman with three other men? Why do you think it is any easier for women to share a man than men having to share one woman? That is ignorant thinking. Yes, I realize this is your religion, but polygamous men are selfish because they are thinking about what they want and not about what would make their wife happy. It is impossible to make a spouse completely happy if you are sharing your time, money, and bed with other women. I am sooo blessed that I have a husband of 23 years that has treated me like a queen. He has only ever had eyes for me. We are best friends. He loves me more now, wrinkles and all, than he did when we first got married. And unlike you Muslim men, my husband cares more about his relationship with me than having sex with other women. He cares about my feelings and our relationship above anything else. There is a reason why a spouse gets jealous and hurt when her husband has a relationship outside of the two of them. It’s because it is not right! I am so grateful that both me and my husband’s needs are met in the relationship. My husband’s entire focus is on me and our children. I feel horrible for women that have to share a husband. And, unlike in the Muslim faith, I know tons of women who have gotten divorced after 40, or who have become a widow, get married again to men their own age. Emotionally mature men do not want young wives because they have nothing in common.
Laughing to death 😂. Beneficial content but very funny
i realize the cultural differences are paramount but at least in the western world, is no man saying "brotha this is amazing" about a 40 something cougar interested in an arrangement, whilst he is married or receiving attention from younger women. Secondly even if your second wife had kept true to her original promises which is in fact entirely possible that a woman could, once she hit 50 you wouldn't want to stay married anyway. So her becoming demanding is really a mute point.
It's prob true women are more likely to share an exceptional man but it should also be considered that these women have less possessiveness over the avg "Abdullah" than they would over the exceptional one. So maybe they could share him just as well if you look at it that way. Being willing to share the most exceptional man around would be the E PIT O MEE of strange, however a compromise many would be willing to make if necessary in getting a piece....
I believe in part your correct but , providing isnt the what you think it is , when Allah talks about the wives , he states clothe them and feed them , and we know from a sahih hadith , that their would be 6 months where a fire wasn't lit in the house of the messenger of Allah because their was no food , what you see today is polygny with a mix of the west
All those divorced sisters need to go back to their fathers, brothers, uncles and community. Its nonsense that they play single parent. It's a modern diseases from the west. Brother please do something on this matter. In my mums generation their was no single parent, the children went to the father the mother went back to her family. A woman has always got a home. Now if she's a revert she may not, but then its for the community to look out for her. But these single sisters want to go alone and keep annoying their ex husbands and their future so his new marriage fails, they are so sick they use children to control him.
There is a lot of truth in this comment
@@MahdiTidjani In the good old days of family, a divorced sisters situation would be taken care of by her male members of the family. And if she wanted to marry again, they would take care if that too. The new trend of being single and alone needs to be looked into. This new attitude from sisters need to be eradicated. Its the children that suffer, marriages need to be protected from crazy exes. All I hear is people getting married and divorce, it's a bloody joke! All parties need to stay in their lane! Stop jumping over to cause trouble. Western dieases I tell you brother. I just spoke to a sister who doesn't have this dieases in her culture, she said they don't have these issues. Children know where they belong, ex wife knows who to go to, ex husband can't come near her, this helps her to recover and not plan some revenge attack using the children. She then can also move on. All sides can think about the consequences of what happened and try not to repeat it, but in the western Muslim community, they keep repeating the same shit. I say again, people need to stay in their lane.
you realise it’s the men’s role aswell as women’s to lol after children
@@daisybee5943 there are exceptions where the father is not available to take back his children and a woman cannot rely upon her male mahrams for support. In this case, the children are doomed to be raised by a woman and turn out a bit messed up. Allah's decree.
Unfortunately, nowadays even in Muslim countries fathers, brothers, uncles and especially the community isn't taken care of divorcées, widows or orphans. Our religion teaches this, it's all encompassing yet it isn't being implemented for the most part. Many families even turn their back on the woman after marriage
Saying that now she's married, she's not their problem. No mercy or understanding at all. We all need to realize that followship requires proper leadership from start to end of the relationship. Marriages may end, but blood ties relationship (Qawawan I mean) is from birth to death. Also Allah gave men degree above women and he will be judged mostly for how he handled his family so let's not just pick choose parts of the religion that either side likes. Allah created man. Then woman as his helper. Allah made man the leader, woman the follower. The leader needs to know how and be willing to lead in a way that benefit the family unit.. Not just himself. And thus the woman needs to follow the leader in the way that benefits the family unit. It's like an infinity sign. 2 circles intertwined, working together like a cyclical machine. If one side is broken, the whole thing is broken. May Allah guide us all to the right path.
The problem is that you married more than one woman. Every woman wants to be the one and only love of her husband. I feel horrible for this man’s first wife. How would he feel if his wife had another man? I guarantee he would be jealous and he would not put up with it. That is exactly how his wife feels, but he downplays her feelings because of religion. His wife’s feelings should be top priority. I am Mormon and obviously there was polygamy way back when in the Mormon church. I think polygamy is never a good idea. It causes jealousy and no one in the situation gets her needs met. In Mormon polygamy, the wife had to agree to her husband marrying again. Also, only some men were asked to take on plural wives. The only men asked were men that could provide for more women and children. Without polygamy, the Mormon religion would have died out. There were many more women than men and the women needed to be provided for. I am grateful that marriage is between one man and one woman. My husband is my best friend. He loves me dearly and treats me like a queen. Unlike the man in this video, and most men in today’s world, my husband is not obsessed with sex. Of course he loves sex, but he treasures our relationship more than having sex with another woman. It sounds to me like the Muslims use polygamy as an excuse to have a younger wife and sex with someone new. So sad for the first wives. Very heartbreaking. My husband loves me more at 45 than he did when we got married at 22.
Becoz its halal.
I cant relate to this guys like i barely can find one
Wow. That’s definitely different than how things in the west are done, lol.
I am not a Muslim but I love your wisdom and experience 😂
Theres that comparison again. Average men v exceptional men v Prophets of Allah(S.W.T). Please please please don’t use Prophets of Allah(S.W.T) as examples of comparison to “normal” men. Is this also egoistic on your side, meaning you have multiple wives, does it mean you are exceptional and not average “Ahmed”? Isnt that putting yourself on a pedal-stow and bashing all other men who are not polygyny?? Providing for multiple wives does not make a man exceptional, its the basic necessity, its a requirement, otherwise dont marry multiple women.
He says himself that he was a average man
Brother, that was definitely NOT what he implied at all. IMHO, he is absolutely correct "EXCEPTIONAL" can be likened to GOLD. And the golden rule is, he who owns the GOLD
rules!!!....In addition, if you clearly listen to him, he is actually admitting that he is not exceptional, hence the problem with his 2nd wife. To be clear, EXCEPTIONAL men have
none of these problems because their noor and their power, it transcends the limitations of ordinary men. I hope this clarifies it for you.
That's not true. Women wouldn't even share exeptionel men! Unless she is financially dependend or she is doing it for the kids or because she has a low chance to get married again as a divorced women. Otherwise she wouldnt go through hell just because you're high value. Especially if you're doing it for your desires that disgusts women actually. It degrades you automaticly.
You men don't know how hurtfull it is, it breaks a woman into pieces.
A men who has a strong iman and truly loves his women would never marry another woman because of his desires.
The sister he married , also married for her own desires, and her own desires led to divorce.
I used to have 3 wifes once upon a time and only the 1st and the 3rd never knew of eachother and the 2nd was my favourite she kept it secret. Anyways good times
That just sounds grimey have some shame
@@lionofallah3441 it's facts bro
@@YallaGoetheTV its not good to show your sin publicly my friend
@@idkidk315 it's actually not a sin . Not recommended or ideal but certainly not a sin. Your wives simply have no say in it nor is their knowledge required.
In certain muslim countries it can be needed for the man to go that route, in some societies it's a huge problem and a definite family breaker if you even mention you want a second wife, so instead of breaking the family apart and leaving your kids, some men do it this way.
@@hamoudsk8972 really?I thought it was a sin to hide it from eachother
"I'll be the community halal pen*s" wow 💀💀😂
U can see on his face that he’s now right
Why not create a great relationship with a first and only Wife?
check your t3stosterone
How would you feel if your Wife married a second husband?
These.people.dont.think like that. They get their wisdom from a man who had sex with 9 years old child.
cry @@nightrider9376
logically thinking
Average Abdullah, Exceptional Ellias 🤣
Mahdi is basically the halal version of fresh and fit😂 allahumma barik
habibi
@Black Roses Lol no it's not. Man's awrah is from the navel to the bottom of the knee caps.
Fresh n fit is filthy
Brother, you are the Halal version of Andrew Tate
@@MahdiTidjani I every time feel sick to my stomach listening to you. I check your posts to see what the Muslim men really think about woman. Love most definately is not part of Islam. You all say you want love but you trample and destroy it. Woman are just warm wet holes that's for sure
man has ultimate right to merry four wives
Hello No!!!
Faithfulness to one Woman and only One...This is a real man.
So what was the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم)?
real men who merry four wives
men who merry one wife is simple man
I don't get it. What is he doing for Islam.. Just experimenting with women that's it. Prophets were exceptional men. Not lame like these. He will make every guy suffer
Does this guy know Islam discusses things other than sex? Bc it doesn’t seem like it.
Dude was just down bad , otw he wouldn't have married another woman knowing he aint prepared for providing for her , HE JUST TOOK HER FOR HIS FAVOUR , DIDNT GIVE A DAMN BOUT WHY SHE NEEDED HIM AS A COMPANION . , listen brother u uploading these ain't doing no good to Muslims living in countries where Islam is called pedophile and womanizer u are adding more fuel to the oil and u should be ashamed .
This is nothing new, history tells this. Brother your ending analogy is wrong, and very disrespectful. Choose wisely, and mature inshaAllah. SubhanAllah.🤲🏽
Mahdi is such a boss.
say that about the prophet PBUH
polygamy is better than monogamy
🤮🤮🤮🤣🦠
You no deffirent,, the last 2 left behind..and you carry with the one has most money.. marriage of convenience South Asia chicks..ect ) you have issues with your ego...you are no algerian.algerians don't diss hijabis...you haven't learnt nothing out of life...driven by totestorone. Rubbish.
@London UK I mean you probably know it they are taken advantage of these women due to the poor background ect...that is just the ice tip...
Is he Algerian
@@jasiperroni1421 the dogs bullocks too
Is your present wife the first wife?sorry for the loss of ur child
That’s not of your business and he doesn’t owe you an explanation.
@@The88Nomad is not your bussines to answer in his place
@@centric145 EXACTLY! So, you agree that it is not your business to ask such a question.
@@The88Nomad no I don't agree .
@@centric145 3rd wife
Define Exceptional...like Elon Musk exceptional?
The rules of Islamic patriarchy state you must provide for all wives. You broke the rules by allowing her to change the rules of marriage. You are to blame for lack of leadership not the system of polygamy.
Misyaar.
you jump around commenting on his videos as if you know everything about him and Islam, read about the conditions for a Misyaar marriage contract.
He accepts the blame. He didn't know it before but now he understands. Polygyny is allowed but not everyone is recommended especially if they cannot provide for their wives. That's what he was saying.
@bramejm Keep big house, expensive car aside. You should be able to provide the lifestyle she is used to. That's the minimum. Why did she marry you? For air??
"You broke the rules by allowing her" wow! women don't take responsibility for their own ideas and own decision. Always blame men even if the proposal is made by women first. It's now his fault because he allowed. You Milahan is such a dishonest individual.
Not related specifically to this video, but i would like to remind you that the benefits of mgtow is that it makes you jump out of the societal conditioning that we have sunk into. But i think you regurgitate the mgtow theory a bit too much. Mgtow is not a good thing, it is like the two political parties, right and left. Both of them are just a capitalistic science of gaining more followers. We can learn from it but we shouldn't accept all their theory. I am not saying that you are. I am saying that you are accepting more than you should. And to add bits and bobs of islamic words in the mix makes it look like it is islamically legitimate. Gist: You have gone so deep into mgtow that you are not realising where it is islamically correct, and many times you are wrong. You may have an opinion, but then dont legitimise it by mixing islamic words into it. I'm comfortable hearing all your opinions as long as you dont give the impression that you are backed by islamic recommendations.
You are correct. Red Pill is simply the reality of things, Manosphere is notes men share about intersexual dynamics, MGTOW is men leaving the system (positive: voluntary celibates / free agents) or (negative: nihilistic) , and INCELs are those who can't compete. Everyone should be red pill, but some MGTOW go down the black pill route and leads to self-destructive habits. But, we as men have access to knowledge that no one had for most human history, so there is no reason why we can't combine red pill truths under an Islamic framework to have happy lives.
Bro the problem was you should mot married a woman who has kids and looking for only companionship. She was the problem not you. You wanted kids so you married again. The third wife was better for you because she was fertile. You did well by letting the second wife go and find a man who dont want kids and who may be older. So your situation was simple you were not compatible with her because you wanted kids and she could not give you. Her jeaulosy was more of that nature seeing you cared for the mother of your children then her. Its natural bro. So its better to marry a women who is single never married and fertile for kids. Allah make easy for you
Virgin women most of the Time dont know if they are Fertil or not. You wil see it after the Marriage is done and after Years there is no Baby. So you wil never be 100% sure.
totally against Gods will, that is why He hated Ezau, Ismael but loved Izaak and Jacob
It’s easy to make an opinion without knowledge. Doesn’t mean its authentic. It means you live in a bubble world.
You should try learning other perspectives from their own perspective, not yours.
most of prophet merried more wives
I've had a sister who offered me the same conditions as you and she had genuine burning desire. If I told her to jump she would say how high and how long for.
I didn't go through with it because she lived too far and it felt wrong to me at that time. Now I'm watching this video it's an eye opener and I'm glad I stuck with my instincts
Good for you akh
Thanks yaAllah. At least someone is talking about polygamy. To be honest, it’s not fair with a healthy Muslim man to have just one wife, completely unfair
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True statement
@@faizaanwar3662 😂😂😂
It's unfair since we Muslims have promised to Allah that we won't do Zinah.
*Polygyny*
Can u afford multiple wives?
Allhamdullillah this is the first time I find this man’s video EXCEPTIONAL and USEFUL!!! Mashallah because he has a lot of horrible videos
Men should ask themselves if they are prepared to share their wives. If not, they shouldn’t expect their wives to put up with being second rate cr@p.
Exactly! 🙏🏼
If it's halal then it's halal,what a man should take into account is if he can do it or not
@@idkidk315 A man should love and commit to his wife and children and not piss around fk other women for his own gratification…………In civilised society it’s about what a man ‘should do, not what he ‘can’ do.
I agree!
@@anthonyferris8912 and who decides what he should do or not?if he already is doing what he should be doing and Allah has made it halal for him to get more wives and he can do that as in he can commit to all of them with no problems and he does then why get mad at him for it?that is what I meant
As a woman.. I remember hearing this man speak and I would be repulsed. I started to question the answers and think for myself. I began to ask myself WHY I felt so repulsed by his words until I realized that he was hitting certain insecurities that I carry within. In my opinion, this man hasn't told a lie thus far. I know people go way too deep into the "delivery" part of people but it's not his job to cheer you up or say things with a tone that will bring and sustain you comfort while he shares practical and effective solutions to problems one may have.
What he's saying is so true. It's almost like a man saying to a woman before marriage "I only want sex once a month and I'll take and accept as few or many times as you will give it to me" naturally I think eventually if the woman doesn't put out and give him enough to satisfy his sexual appetite, naturally he may start to feel upset or like he's being done a disservice.
This Mahdi guy has opened my eyes to meaningful things that are a part of life and I do believe he's not one to talk about things he doesn't know about. May Allah bless him.
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Where is your hijab?
@@juxtapositionMS true
@@UnknownCaller2 we judge what's public
Have some self respect fear god.
@@UnknownCaller2 Where's your "Whosoever of you sees an evil action, let him change it with his hand; and if he is not able to do so, then with his tongue; and if he is not able to do so, then with his heart-and that is the weakest of faith."?
So you have a very weak Iman since you can't even hate evil not to talk of preaching against it? Subhanallah
so are funny
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Men are manning up Lol
Average Abdullah 😂
As a 38 year old divorced man I tell you best not to marry and just fast for the rest of your life because the women of today, regardless of how Religious they appear and what they say, are run by their emotions. They will manipulate you. You will lose your temper and sin. Your sins will be in rights of another person which is the worst kind of sin you can accumulate. Gone are the days when there were women of the Salaf who followed Din, treated their husbands like kings, loved their sisters in Islam, and knew how to keep their emotions in check.
Women were always emotional, men back them understood it and knew how to deal with it while men today are wimps. Look no further than the prophet saw and you'll see what I mean. Stop expecting women to be what they're not and learn to deal with their true nature if you want one. You can straighten a dog's tail without breaking it so live with it
They always were.
@@NadeemAhmed-nv2br Exactly. Well said!👏🏽
I never saw a difference between non Muslim and Muslim women. Only time religious knowledge is of any importance to me is for the children
Go heal
Talk about naivety
You marry for a sport brauv 😂
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man has to merry four wives
Whatever tf he is saying is sooo farrr from reality
Completely agree.this guy is just misleading young men 😒
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He got it wrong about Sawda رضي الله عنها it wasn’t at the time of the death of the Prophet صلي الله عليه وسلم that was another time. There was a time when she became old because she was much older so now the intimacy between them was over and for that reason she didn’t want the Prophet صلي الله عليه وسلم to divorce her but she wanted to be his wife in jannah so she said rather than divorce her she gives up her nights to Aaisha رضي الله عنها
Al-Bukhari may Allaah have mercy upon him did not mention that Sawdah may Allaah be pleased with her granted her day to ‘Aa’ishah may Allaah be pleased with her because the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) decided to divorce her. Rather, it was stated that "she did so wishing to please the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention )." Moreover, Abu Daawood may Allaah have mercy upon him reported, "when she was advanced in age and she feared that he would separate from her…", so it was she who feared that he would separate from her, but it was not stated that it was the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) who decided to separate from her.
idk how i feel ab this video.........
Can your wife have 3 husband?
man and women are not equal.
Women are not wired like men. Women can only fall in love with one person. When they are with a man they naturally have distaste for all other men. Islam confirms this natural disposition thus prohibits women from being with more than one man
I AM AVERAGE ABDULLAH