FOR SINGLE CHRISTIAN WOMEN WORRIED THEY WON'T GET MARRIED advice for christian single women
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- This video is for single christian women worried they won't get married. I give advice and encouragement to show worry is not from God and that it is God's will for single christian women to get married. Some single christian women may worry that they wont get married because they think they are too old, because they were married before or maybe because they have a child or children.
Worry and doubt are not from God and God does not speak to christian single women through their worries about if they will get married. I talk about how single christian women who are worried can overcome this by spending time in the word of God. The bible contains many scriptures, passages and stories that will encourage christian single women and show them how God brings people together in marriage despite the adverse circumstances and challenges.
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0:00 - Intro & why you may be worried
0:44 - Married at 35 & How i became a Born again Christian at 30
3:18 - Advice 1 DO NOT compare yourself to others
4:35 - Advice 2 REALISE that worry & doubt are not from God
7:34 - Advice 3 REALISE that worry & doubt are from the Devil
12:57 - Advice 4 REFUSE to accept worry & doubt from the Devil
16:30 - Advice 5 DON'T get caught up in FADS!
17:57 - Advice 6 Get to know God INTIMATELY
19:29 - FAQ answer
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This is a really beautiful message which reassures women who have been hoping and praying that God makes all things beautiful in his own time if you believe.
Hi Judith, Thank you for your lovely comment! God bless & take care
@@funkechristian203 Hi..Sister, iam 31 still waiting for the right time.. Please remember me in your prayers too.. I'm waiting for God's fulfill ment for my life partner..🙏
I read every comment here. i'm a champion of single virgin my age 48 years old. 🤗🤗😆😆😀
Judith Opara how are you, you're from where pls
@@funkechristian203 hello beautiful 🌹
I got married at 38 got pregnant right away and i have a fourteen month old. God did it all !!
I am happy for you siz
38 years still single and trusting God for my Boaz🙏
I tap into your grace in Jesus name. Amen
This is so inspiring . Am 35 and one of my fears is that I may have diffi ulties conceiving when I do eventually get married
@@berrydoos i will tell you this, i was in a church that was fixing people up and i saw everybody getting married and i was asking God what about me. I didn't have family around me so i felt alone and like no one cared if i was married. I had seen a guy at the church that i thought was single and i asked my friend if he was with someone, which i found out he was so i felt like there was no one left for me. I live in a small town and am east African and i wanted to marry someone one from my country so the chances of me getting married i thought were slim to none. One day when i was driving home from church i asked God in my heart this question " how does a i meet a man without looking like am desperate or do i just wait?" I heard the holy spirit tell me about a passage in the bible how Isaac went to find his wife not the other way around. At this time God also told me to fast and pray and close all connections from other men meaning like old male friends that would call to say hello. I did that and two weeks or so later i met my husband and the first time i saw him i knew he would be my husband. I even told my very close friend that he would be my husband.
Hi Mahlet, how are u. I got inspired knowing u had ur baby at 38yrs old.I am 35yrs still single never been married, never had a child. But I am scared getting married late and having a child late. Pls how was the experience having a baby at 38yrs .I wuld love to hear from u mam.
I’m 35, never dated in my life, became a Christian during Covid. Now I’m a month away from getting married to a Christian man, the first man I ever dated. It’s amazing to know God does miracles like this.
I had been single all my life until 31, and am now proposing to my first and only girlfriend on Valentine’s Day. The wait was excruciating at times, but God surprised me the utmost with a gorgeous black Christian girl. I never expected a black wife as a white guy, but I am so happy with God’s provision. Once I go black, I won’t go back.
i would want to meet someone too..Im 34 and single..Ready to date
Congrats!
@@ekuaasabeamintah1183God will provide, keep your options open
That's amazing! I'm so happy for you
Does your bro want a black wife too?.. just asking 😂 lol.. I'm single and searching
I am 42, please pray for me that God will send me a wonderful husband in Christ. Thank you 🙏🏼
Go look for your own man. Stop depending on somebody to just give you something
Marriage is not a trophy. Take your time to get the right person because one wrong person can cause a delay and one right person can increase you.
I see you Amara chidi well said💖
Great Comment! Thank you. God bless & Take care
Awesome message
The enemy is going to attack your blessing. He comes only to steal, kill and destroy your marriage no matter how wonderful it is. So when your world turns upside down, you might think YHWH God made a mistake and that maybe you made the wrong choice and didn't know this person well enough. But Father YHWH knows him and He knows you, and that no one is already perfect, and in order for you both to grow spiritually, you're both going to be chiseled by each other throughout your marriage. Marriage is not happily ever after, ever. It's an institution where you can grow and help your husband to grow and allow him and ultimately YHWH to grow you both up in His righteousness and Holiness. If Satan isn't trying to kill it, then it's not valuable. Expect turbulent times that challenge the both of you. And get into the eye of the storm where it is peaceful by trusting in YAHUAH YHWH our Elohim, who is our Salvation (Yahusha) Messiah. He is mighty to save and to battle for you. We do not fight against flesh and blood, but the powers of darkness in lofty (pride) places. Learn to forgive others, yourself, and allow Creator to forgive you so you can forgive that man you once saw as wonderful, now frustrating and whatever else. Show mercy and it will be shown by your heavenly Father. Sorry to get peachy here, but don't think you're not going to be challenged and refined like gold, because that is what marriage does and it's good. HalleluYah! (Always, always praise) Blessings to you all! 💖🕊️🙏 📖
AMEN 🙏🏾
I got married last week at 33. God is still awsome and gives his gift at the perfect time. I'm glad I waited on His own time for my crown.
Reading this at 33 years 😀 and am still trusting in God
Congratulations
Amen, God bless your union
God bless your union, congrats!
Congrat
I will be 38 this year, am not married, not even engaged, and truthfully I am not worried, at God's time,he will make all things perfect
Kkkk much love sis
I'm 27 year a,never married , never engaged and I hope marriage is important in Life
🙏Amen🙏
@@abaunajolaisa3489 Amen
I love ur faith dear
I got married at 34. I would have made a miserable marital mistake if I had not waited patiently on the Lord for His DIVINELY PREPARED, HEAVEN STANDARD HUSBAND for me. I Married my own husband.
Hi Jane, Thank you for sharing this! God bless & take care
Praise Him
I think as women, we have to know our purpose before trying to become wives. I got married at 30 and it was to the wrong man, because I rushed into it and felt desperate to be married at 30. The first priority for women should not be marriage, it should be seeking God and working on your weaknesses, which is much easier when you're single. Boaz cannot show up, while you're a mess
. Seek the most high!
I think everyone should seek to understand their purpose first then marriage should be a part of destiny fulfillment, that way we will live a fulfilled life
Many women get married at 20, 21, 22 without knowing their purpose in the sense you mean. Our purpose according to the Bible is to grow in righteousness and knowledge of God and to bear fruit. The modern idea of purpose isn't emphasized in the bible, it's a well meaning trend.
This is so true purpose is so important because you'll get married and still be lost maybe even resentful
So wisely said! An inspiration to me
Volume please
I was married at 25 , but my husband passed away due to kidney failure after 7yrs of our marriage.we didn't have a baby either.its been 15 yrs now.still single.God took care of me.thank you Jesus.love from India.❤️🙏
😭😭😭My dear God is at Control
I'm waiting also God gave me a guy who loves me
Hi Uma, thank you for your comment. I'm sorry to hear about your husband. I'm so glad to hear that God has been taking care of you. He is faithful. God bless & take care
RIP. More courage dr
Where there is a will there is a way.i am 34 , single man living in kullu manaali , Himachal Pradesh India.i think the life is beautiful when you surrender it to god .stay blessed
I am getting married in 2021 and God is sending my husband
Amen
I'm claiming it
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen me too sis
Amen,I claim it too
Seriously... reading the comments I noticed many Ladies are trusting God for a Godly husband. I pray you get your expectations met dear ladies.
I'm a 33years old single man and I can assure you dear ladies that serious men are looking for a Wife, a Mother and a PrayingWoman in any lady. Focus on developing those 3areas in you and you won't need to wait too long ... The right man will be automatically attracted to you. Much love for you. God bless you.
Thanks for this advice
Thanks 🙏
Are you interested for marriage now
Amen thank you for your comment
Bruh not sounding rude self development is two sided
I married in 2019 at 41 , God is able 🙏🏾
I am 43 single and God is NOT able. If he gets credit for doing he also needs to take credit for not doing. It is not always the will of God to do for others what he does for some. Every life is different.
Yes, He's able!!! God bless
Hi Miss S, thanks for your honest comment. I know it can be very frustarating and painful when we feel we have put our trust in God and he has done nothing. It isn't easy but we need to trust God when he says that he loves us and that he cares about every detail of our lives, even when things going on in our lives don't seem to line up with tha. The truth is God is still very much with us and he is still in control. Don't give up. Tell God how you feel . God bless & take care
I'm 45 and still waiting for God to send the right man. Just as long he loves God I don't have no problem 😀😀😀😀
@@misss7758 I have recently discovered one thing in life, i got born again to go to heaven not to get married, marriage is just a gift that God will give me at His will, much as i would wish to get a man after Gods own heart. if He doesn't still i call Him an able God.
I turn 36 in less than 2 weeks. God brought me an amazing man at 35(Jan) and we got married a month before I turn 36 (Dec) and all this happened across continents in the middle of this Covid pandemic in under one year. I was concerned as well but things turned around for me when I focused on God and put my trust in him. This is to encourage ladies in their 30’s and above that God can and will settle you with your own husband.
I am 34 and turning 35 this September. I'm trusting God to bring a godly man in my life this year. Thanks for your testimony as it makes me realize it can happen to me.
Feeling encouraged....
Amen
@@naomisuleiman1837 me too hey,the stigma though
am 35 turning 36 in 2 weeks time..God remember me with my own husband.Amen
Just got married at 37! God is able and orchestrating your footsteps!!!
Congrats!
Congrats dear
I think I will marry at this age too.
Omg! Congrats 🎉
Did you stay in prayer?
My girlfriends have told me to leave the place I live in right now and go to a place where there are more guys. I’m confused. I sometimes think you can meet your husband anywhere in the world
Amen and congrats 👏
Am turning 37 and am very hopeful
Ladies I have to be honest, I’m 42 not married nor do I have children. I want them both, been praying on it for over 15 yrs. My faith in in this area is up and down (just being honest). Even reading these amazing stories (I know God can) but I’m bother by this (which I get down mentally when I think about it🤷🏾♀️. Please add me to your prayer list for strength in this area. Thank you and God Bless to you all.
Are you taking actions like showing yourself out there and taking care of your appearance?
I purpose to pray for you. May God surprise you
@@unecamerresiliente yes, I take care of my appearance and self. At this point I’m not sure we’re to go outside of work, church, gym, grocery stores
@@stellakyengoThank you so much.
@@MsThankuverymuch seminaries, conferences, forums, networking events, even on topics that are different of your field. Also go on solo dates at high end places,
She said she got married at 35, has been married for 13 years which totals to 48 but she looks like she 25 🧐
Saw that she looks so young n gorgeous wow
Yep I thought she is 35 🤣
I had to do the math too and was like “wait she’s exaggerating somewhere “ lol
@@szatanowska me too!!... She's gorgeous❤️
Yes i was confused too because she looks late 30s early 40s to me! Black dont crack!
I’m 36 and still in my season of singleness. I have recommitted to a relationship with God and having faith and trust in God. Open to receiving. In Jesus name. Amen!
I never understood why getting married is settling down until I got married at 36. Then I finally understood. My heart is now at peace and I'm content. When I was single, I would date the wrong people trying to look for my match then ended up in long term relationships that never got to the point of marriage then again single for a long time. It was exhausting and confidence shattering. It will really make anyone doubt and worry if it will ever happen thinking that my biological clock is ticking. But based on my experience, you just got to have faith. After years and years of being broken hearted, i just surrendered it to God then changed my belief that I'd rather wait than be in a wrong one. Then after a few years, I was blessed with my loving husband and son. It was worth the wait.
I can understand why single middle aged women would be worried if they’re still not married.. but TRUST ME you don’t want to be married just for the sake of being married. It’s so much better to be alone and happy rather than married (or in a relationship) and be unhappy. So many people are in unhappy or toxic relationships because they’re afraid to be alone. Don’t be with someone unless they are WORTHY of putting a ring on your finger 🙏🏼❤️
@little boots Oh I’m sorry 🥺 I hope that experience helped you learn your worth and gave you the ability to see things from a different perspective 🙏🏼 if he’s not making you and your life BETTER than it was before, he ain’t worth hanging around!!!
35 is considered middle aged?
@@j.c.s5006 I don’t consider 35 middle aged.. I meant that generally speaking as women get older and are still single
@little boots praying for you. Remember how valuable you are in God's eyes. That is how your partner should treat you - a princess.
Not only the ring but why are you guys getting married? If it's not for God's purpose then it's better to be single.
I'm getting marry at 33 yay! I'm excited! ☺💙 thank you Jesus !
Don’t make finding a mate an idol . Just like anything else we put hope in the place of God .
Hi Rebecca, Thanks for watching & for your wise comment. God bless & take care
This is extremely true.
So many pll do and its sad
True,
Marriage can't fulfill you! Only God can! We shouldn't too obsessed with marriage
Hi Anh Mai, thank you for watching and for your comment. You are right, marriage can't fufill us only God can. There is nothing wrong with greatly desiring marriage (it is God's will for those who desire it) but it is God and not marriage that helps us live an abindant life. . God bless & take care
@@funkechristian203 Amen sis!!!!
Perhaps not, but its great to have a life partner
Marriage is a tool of God to fulfill his will in the earth and our joyful experience of it is a byproduct of our cooperation with God to fulfill his own will first. Oftentimes people go into marriage for their own enjoyment and the purposes of God is never touched upon so eventually satan will overcome them.
Kingdom marriage is coming together with the desire to fulfill God's purpose first.
I guess your view is yet to align with this.
Marriage without God is like the devil's playing ground
Do not be anxious for anything from God
The worse part of being unmarried is the constant taunts and remarks from people who just want to make fun of you and which really hurts a lot.
Hi Christina, thanks for your comment. I experienced some of this when i was single as well. The important thing to remember is that people's opinions of you don't affect God's blessing for you. Keep your focus on God and his promises. It is well. God bless & take care
@@funkechristian203 Thanks please pray for me.
Totally! They keep reminding you that you're not married and clock is ticking
That is what makes it worse as if we have forgotten it ourselves
Very relatable - it hurts so much.
I am 30 and still single. Never been married. Still trusting God.
I'm 31. I feel so much better knowing that I'm not the only one
Same same 30...it is well
Same. 30 as well.
Honestly being married doesn't make you complete. You have to be complete in Christ
@@dav8749 God is drawing me closer to Him and even though I do not like this singleness, I accept it as a gift from One who knows how best I’ll reach the purpose for my calling. Def learning things I would never have learned. I just say, “ I accept it Lord, be it unto me as You will.” His faithfulness remains.
Am 40 not married and not in a relationship, when I turned my thoughts into building my relationship with God and believing his word, the fulfilment I have received in Him amazes me.
Hi Lina, wonderful comment. Thank you. God bless & take care
That’s beautiful he fulfills all our needs!
Amen sis 🙏🏾
I turned 32 last week & I’m single. Honestly wasn’t expecting to still be single now. But trusting God has someone better for me than I could have imagined 🙏🏾
Let's be friends and encourage each other in prayer.
I FEEL THE SAME WAY BUT I DONT KNOW WHERE CHRISTIAN GIRLS HIDE LEAVING US TO MAKE DO WITH OUR BELOVED WORLDLY SISTERS. TBH YOU ARE TOO GORGEOUS TO BE SINGLE AT 32 AND IT WILL BE BLESSED GUY WHO GETS YOUR HEART. PRECIOUS.
@@ropahmuindisi Yes! 😊😊🥰
@@spencergeorge4779 Thank you! ☺️ us Christian girls are here. I often think the same about where all the Christian guys are hiding 😄 And unfortunately beauty & looks has nothing to do with it, not every guy can see our value/worth & not every guy is right either 🤷🏾♀️
@@PreciousLarapeters I see what you’re saying. I believe we should let go and trust the lord still. I mean he never leaves us right? So maybe when we get to over thinking things we leave him in that sense. I would love to talk to you some more if that’s cool with you.
Who else isn't married and not worried about anything. The way am happy because am single and alone just moving about pursuing my dreams and building my career only God knows. Ladies stop being worried because I want to tell you God doesn't look at you and says am surprised she is unmarried at that age. Only that gives me joy and earns me baby Faith whuuu my God loves me .
I’m 38.. not married and losing hope. Please pray for me 😞🥺😢
Hi Kanysh. Thank you for watching and for your comment. Do not be dicouragraged or loose hope. It is never too late with God. God knows your desire for marriage and you can trust him to do all that needs to be done for you. The season of singleness is important. Use this time to strengthen your relationship with God, build your faith for marriage and prepare for marriage. If you haven't already watched my videos on building intimacy with God, preparing for Godly marriage as well as my video for discouraged singles then please watch them you may find them helpful. take care & God bless
I feeling your pain but our God is able
Don't worry dear but trust in His timing n wonders are on the way
Don't lose hope my dear! A'm 35 and I have never had any relationship 😢
Don’t lose hope 💙
I'm turning 36yrs old and i told God to give me peace about being single, it used to worry me alot but I prayed to God and i received peace... What I can say no one can complete you but God, ladies we should not hurry to get married to feel complete but allow God to complete you...
Pray that you will not get bitter and make wrong choices,ask God to show you your purposes and fulfil them as you wait for the one in store for you...I'm peaceful and happy as i wait#no one can complete you, only God 🙏🙏
I'm 46 and still single and I have desire to have a child but I haven't even met the right guy yet I need you to pray for me
Hi Leya, thank you for watching and for your comment. Don't be discouraged. I know that it must be hard waiting on God for marriage especially when the wait has been long, God can be trusted, sometimes it may not make sense but as the bible tells us in all things he (God) works for our good. He is well able to bless you with a good husband and children. continue to have faith in him and strengthen your relatioship with him. God bless & take care
Met my husband at age 46 and got married 6 months after dating. . Boom!!! We’re enjoying our beautiful life together.
@@tammyefarmer-holloman9443 how old are you now?
@@ebonyy5248 49 next month. Still newly weds.
@@tammyefarmer-holloman9443 congrats :)
I'm 35 as well. Over 5 years single. I was truly feeling down. Listening to these videos are truly helping
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Same
Same here am 35 and have been single over 5 years
I’m turning 33 tomorrow and I was chased by a guy the entire last year. He is nearly 20 years older than me, was already married and has 3 kids. I nearly felt for him because of the pressure that comes with being single. Instead I pressed more into God. I am praying to Him on a daily basis especially right now where things seem so difficult because we are so isolated. God bless you beautiful ladies out there. I’m rooting for you!
I am so glad you withstand your ground. He needs someone who was married and divorced like him with 5 children. But as for you, your man will come without baggage. Amen !
*_I am doing fasting prayer since the 2 weeks and I am not social media any site but I am praying continue growing with the Lord and I am 35 year old and still praying and I NEVER MARRIED IN MY LIFE EVER and that's my prayer for all God doesn't give us our feelings; but we are wise to give our feelings to God. We see the psalmist doing this over and over in the book of Psalms. He pours out his feelings to God, and then he holds his feelings up to the truth of who God is and compares the two._*
I needed to hear this, i will be 33 in a month and yes im asking myself all sorts of questions if i will ever marry, have kids and be a happy wife, society is also making it difficult because at my age everyone asks when are you getting married and it frustrates me
I’m almost thirty and I’ve never even had a boyfriend . I’m losing hope , but I know God is faithful.
You can say it positively "I need more hope"....isn't
I'm 38 and neverhad a boyfriend.
Hello beautiful queen how are you doing today I hope you are doing well and I really appreciate you being my fans 💓💓💓..
Girl you’re not alone, I’m 30, never held a guys hands, gone on a date, been kissed. Talked to a lot of guys but they’re not the one.
I don’t even know anything about love. I’ve tried online dating, inner healing etc
Let’s see God, drop him on me
Your definitely not alone so don't lose hope. I'm 34 and single, never had a boyfriend and still abstaining from sex til marriage. I know God placed the desire for marriage and family in me and he will make a way.
I am 37yrs single, no kids .I won't settle for less waiting to find that 1 for me ...
I'm 27yers single ,no kids and never married before I pray for all of who wants to get marrige
I am over 50. I got it wrong for years and I am intimate with God more. I still desire to get married; the desire has never left my heart ❤️🙏🏾🙌🏾. Fasting and praying is part of my life. Thank You again. God bless you woman of God.
Hi Adriene, thank you for your lovely comment. i'm so glad that you found the video helpful and that you have a close relationship with God. Nothing is too hard for God and he is faithful. God bless & take care
Agree with me in prayers also God will send my Boaz I'm 65+ never married..I think I got life wrong somewhere, learned crucial lessons of "being" late in life🤔🙏
In gods time you will meet your better half nothing is impossible in the hands of our creature.
I'm 35 and still single. I won't lie, it is pretty hard for me sometimes to remain hopeful but I try
Hi Fiona. Thank you for watching and for your comment. Do not be dicouragraged or worried. It is never too late with God. God knows your desire for marriage and you can trust him to do all that needs to be done for you. The season of singleness is important. Use this time to strengthen your relationship with God, build your faith for marriage and prepare for marriage. If you haven't already watched my videos on building intimacy with God, preparing for Godly marriage as well as my video for discouraged singles then please watch them you may find them helpful. Don't give up. Gpd is faithful. God bless & take care
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My prayer to end 2021 married to a Godly man
@@grstjo Yeah am in Kenya
Let’s put God first
@@faithkagiri5074 ✌🏾
@@grstjo sure ,where are u in Kenya ?
Our God is he able
Nairobi
I'm getting married on May 2021 at 35! God is faithful!
Congrats!!! God bless
Congratulation Eloisa!
Congratulations
Let's celebrate!!
@@jelennyburrel4819 thanks!
Am getting married this year and God is sending my husband very very soon
Amen !
Amen
Amen 🙏🏾 . Me too
Yes and Amen
Amen
I am here after getting engaged to my beloved future husband. I am 29. I had 2 relationships before this and I went through 2 years of doubt and worries. I got closer to God and my love-heart appeared. God is with us ladies. He knows what he is doing. He is preparing us for marriage.
I have been worried about getting married since my early twenties, and I'm in my mid-30s now, and I still find myself worried about getting married but thank you for the encouraging message.
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You're not alone. I'm almost 34 and still single.
38yrs not married its not easy please pray for me to get married soon
Me too..
Praying for you
Hi Qiniso, thank you for your comment.I know its not easy but don't give up. God is faithful and he keeps his promises. But we also have a part to play as we receive from God by faith. Start building your faith for marriage. You do this by reading and meditating on the word of God. Find scriptures in the bible that talk about marriage and meditate on these daily. Even meditating on one scripture a day can make a big diffirence to your faith and encourage you. Please watch some of my other videos for Christian singles (you can go to the playlist) as you may find them helpful. God bless & take care
@@funkechristian203 thank you so much for responding to my request .
Prayers for you🙏
I knew I would crown 2020 with a ring on my finger, ended up nursing a breakup 😢😢
I still keep hope alive
Be strong
Amen. I believe God had a reason
It is well you are not alone
Sometimes the breakup is the blessing,it's unfortunate we don't realise that until later.What God has ordained for you will not miss you.
Welcome to my world darling but it is just a phase darling
Am 30 and single from Ghana....I am believing God to get married in 2021 .....God will certainly give me a husband......Amen
I’m not worried if I don’t get married. I get to spend more time with God. I’m fine being single. Plus in heaven none will have a spouse.
confidence
Iam 32 but happy trusting God
Hi Areen, thank you for watching & for your wonderful comment. It's great that you are trusting God, that is a blessing. God bless & take care
Amen !
God is too faithful, Dependable and Reliable.. He can NEVER fail.
Watching this coz am 30 disabled never dated and am super scared it will stay this way for life, but watching this and reading comments is giving me hope
Keep believing,it shall come to pass
If you desire marriage, that desire is from God. I love this line 😍❤️ .God bless you sister for sharing message of hope for Single ladies❤️😍🙏
I am 38 now and very much desiring to be marriage . Oh Lord I am your child please help me
I turned 35 last month and I admit I sometimes feel really sad about not being married but I refuse to allow myself to get into idolatry. Even if it never happens, the Lord is enough.
That’s lovely to say, Amen!!!
@@penlavits3305 I respect your opinion but I disagree with you. One of my closet Christian girlfriends is engaged at 49 never married before and no kids...she will be 50 wheb she gets married..yes 50!....Yet God sent her husband when she least expected it. Another Christian woman that I worked with in ministry who attends the same church as me has been married for about 3-4 years. She's in her 40's as well, never married before and no kids. God is faithful. Like I said before, I have the desire to be married but it's not an idol in my life so I'm ok without it too.
@@penlavits3305 Right...my friend met her husband to be through one of our co workers...literally at work and the other person met her husband at church lol...not much going out there lol...also the 3 to 1 arguement doesn"t prevent God from working things out in our favor if He deems it that we should be married because not all women want to be married
I am 32 and i trust God I AM GETTING MARRIED 2021! corona stay away from my plans
Amen.
Me too sisi
@@cocosmith12 so be it to you sister
@@favouredwoman87 Amen
Amen and me too
@@melisajohnson5737 lets keep trusting God for the best in the coming year 2021
Iam 32 please pray for me guys. And I only need people here to tell me that it's gonna be oky.
It's going tob be okay look at me I'm going to turn 47 next month but I'm still single no kids not only that I don't have mother I don't have father no brother no sister just me I guess your life is better than mine
46 and single. Never married, no children. Sounds like I'm introducing myself in a singles anonymous meeting. I have prayed and have decided to actively engage. Joined eharmony which is like pulling teeth. Sigh
I am an introvert so loneliness is not the issue. I am independent financially and content on my own however I believe marriage will add a different dimension and depth and refine my character. I have watched married women and sometimes think I dodged a bullet there because heyyyy the suffering and heartache I see is beyond me as to why we still want this. But like childbirth, the pain is easily forgotten when things are good.
Volunteer at a men's fellowship and if you can't find one you start a faith & barbeque meeting for men in your city and get one or two senior male pastors to officiate the meeting... pray for spirit led topics...
Hi F W, thanks for watching and for your great comment. It's great that you see marriage as a gift/blessing not a solution. . I hope you are not put off marriage from some of your observations - the truth is we can't do marriage wthout God's grace & help. Thanks again. God bless & take care
@@ngreat4390 good idea!
Just spend time with Jesus.
@F W, I love your depth, may God keep you and grant you the desires of your heart.
I've an idea how about you ask your subs about their marriage testimony, esp those who get married at age 30s to 40 and so. And read it on your video :)
I just turned 34, single and not looking for anyone. I am happy with mysef it’s just the society’s pressure for single people that upsets me sometimes. But there’s no way I will settle for less
I'm 33 and have been feeling super discouraged with online dating (and in general). Thank you for this. I feel better.
I am 35 too. I felt like I was too late for marriage. This has encouraged me. The comments too. Thank you
I'm 58 and I was married before but my ex husband divorced me. That was 10 years ago and it was a life saver. I would love to get married again if it's God's Will for me.
Maureen Brown, my advice is to remain single and enjoy the rest of your life as a single woman.
I have given up on marriage.. because I have desired to get married but all in vain...but I pray that those still believing can receive it
And how old are you again please?
I’m so encouraged! I’m 33 now and when I was about 28 or so, I heard that voice say I would not be married until 35. I have been praying against it because the voice has been shifting the goal post. Sometime last year, I felt led to sow a seed in church and after that, God, in an unusual way, sent different people to assure me that my time of rejoicing has come. I believe that if God said it, He will do it! 🥳
Hi Funmi, thanks for your wonderful comment. I'm glad the video helped. God bless & take care
So I was fasting today, didn't go to church as an Adventist. I have had God reassure me many times I would get married when I was in my 30s. I'm in my 40s but not married yet. So,I was feeling discouraged one day wondering if I would get married and have a child at my age when the Holy Spirit asked me to read ROM 4. I was wowed when I read of Abraham and Sarah having a child even though they were biologically dead to have a child because they had faith in God.
I am fasting today, been fasting so many times but got so discouraged. I started searching CZcams for messages of encouragement and boom! I am here.
Sister Funke ,your message is a message of hope, courage and yes,your video is so useful.
Dear Singles, nothing is wrong with you. Even if you feel you gave been bewitched as in my own case, read Micah 5:12, Lamentations 3,37, Numbers 23:23. Luke 10:19.
God has given us the gift of marriage and Satan can't take it away. Thank you Lord. Thank you for Sister Funke for such amazing video.
Am 36 ad am trusting in God he will bless me with good husband.
Amen 🙌
Tabitha wanjiru i pray for you
Amen sis he will send the right one🙏🏽
@@brandon556 am fine
@@brandon556 am 36yrs
My worry is children, I want children before 40, the society has done this to us but this testimonies gave me so much hope n uplifted me, Its not in me to settle for less, , I met wrong people who wanted to marry me but I knew, I'd be doing it for wrong reasons, So am waiting on God.God bless you ladies.
@JustaRandomGuy Amen, Thank you 🙏🏾
Dear I’m in the same situation let’s pray for each other
Thank you.
I’ve felt like I’ve missed the marriage deadline for a while now. All my peers (including a ‘significant’ ex) are married with children. I have a plant.
I have plants and a guitar 😁.
Still single too...
31 and still single. Most of my friends are married including my ex. I am own a home, that is all I am proud of for now. I am waiting on the Lord perfect timing. I have been in many relationships where I was unequally yoked. Now my prayer is for the Lord to hide me from all men's gazes, I only want "the one" to see me and for me to recognize him instantly.
@@iradukunda3699Amen to that prayer...God will not forget you!
Hi Mmalesiba, thanks for watching and for your lovely comment. I'm glad you found the video helpful. There were times when i felt like i had missed the 'deadline' as a that single. But i am so thankful that i got married according to God's plan and not mine. God sees our lives he knows who we will marry and the things he has called us to do...so he knows how to prepare us. Everyone's preparation will be diffirent. But we can rest assured that if we trust him we will be well prepared for the spouse and the life he has for us. It won't be you and your plant forever! God bless & take care
I have a pup and lot of 🌱. Almost giving up hope at 34!
I jus stumbled on this video right after watching one saying everything that happens to a woman after 35 is pretty much awful and doomed. The devil is a lie! Thank you Jesus for guidance and protection! ..... still single in mid 30s n will continue to grow my faith. Thank you fir this video!
Friends, I am 42 ( very beautiful inside out ), I am still a virgin. I am now homeless, but I have zero fear about anything. There's no such thing as " aging" with God. If you stay faithful to God, Jesus can change everything in 1 minute. I will get married and I will continue to look ageless like I do now. I actually can pass for 21 or younger.
Thank you thank you! I’ll be 42 this year and need this encouragement. Everybody’s journey is different. I’ll just continue living out my God given purpose and and assignment and God will take care of the rest. #trustandrestinGod ❤️🙏🏾
Hi Naturally Candace Marie, Thank you for your comment. I'm so happy you found it encouraging. God is deffinitley in control. Alot of the things that have helped me in my marriage are things i learnt when i was single during the tests and trials of being single and building a close relationship with God. So your trust in God will not be wasted it will benefit you now and when you are married. If you are interested i have a christian singles playlist on my channel. Thanks for watching! Take care & God bless
I will be 42 in few weeks, it's not been easy, but I am trusting God for a miracle. I believe that I will testify soon 🙏🏾😊
CZcams recommended this. I fell off the chair when sis said she had been married 13 years... I thought you were 35 now. You look so young and gracefully beautiful
Hi Keep on praying rejoice, thank you for your lovely comment. God bless & take care
I am not yet 30 or over 30 but I started watching your channel a year ago. I WAS WORRIED I would never marry and was sure God choose singleness for me. But when I saw this I started to believe that God would let me have a husband. I got married last Nov and God does do it. He is an answerer of prayers. Thank you for encourging the saints
I will get married this year, 2021.By God's love and grace.
Im in my 30s and not yet married.I am still studying and this training is taking me ages due to financial constraints.But God is good and he is still seeing me through.Those girls after me are settling down while me still struggling perusing my pilot training.It hasn’t been easy for me.9 years gone and still pursuing.Mom died this August in my country and I couldn’t be there with her due to lockdown in Philippines.By the grace of God ill be done by Jan or Feb,2021.Im afraid I might not have any children and wont get married.The thought of everything is killing me with everything going on in my life.Through it all I still trust my God that everything happen in my life for a reason.I know he will provide the best for me.
Your GOD is faithful, HE knows everything. Don't worry 💕💕💕💕
Trust in HIM !! He will see you through sister, my condolences to you
God is faithful and I believe that He will see you through. May He be your strength. Keep your faith in God intact no matter what. I'm there too and i know that God does everything with a good reason so I still hold on. Sometimes isn't easy but His mercy is new every morning..........💞
When the time is right
God,will make it happen
Hi Hustle fanatic, thank you for watching and for your heartfelt comment. I'm sorry to hear about what you've been going through and that your mother passed away so recently. That must have been difficult. I know you must be feeling discouraged, BUT don't give up. God sees you, he sees your efforts with pilot training, he sees your desire for marriage and he sees your pain. Continue to lean on God, he will not fail you or forsake you. He is there to help you and comfort you. God desires marriage for us, so continue to trust him. I pray that:
(1) God will strengthen and comfort you through this period.
(2) God will bless all your efforts. Your pilot training will be successful, it will not be in vain. You will be thankful that you stuck at it.
I know that it can be hard to read the bible when you are going through tough times but try to read through 1 or 2 scriptures that have encouraged you in the past and think about them when you become discouraged. I have a video called read DEALING WITH FEAR & ANXIETY IN DIFFICULT TIMES here is the link: czcams.com/video/fiDfJ6hlVXg/video.html. It will be helpful to you. God bless & take care
I am 37 and still alone :-( I have a history of depression and anxiety and feel depression coming over me again because of my single life. It hurts so much. Hard not to be frustrated or envious sometimes... 😢
Hey. I'm 35 and feel the same way too but we have to stay positive. Your in my prayers sis❤
@@Jesus4Life10Thank you so much.
I’m 31 still single and don’t have kids. Most of my friends/batchmates are having kids already but not all of them are married. They are pressuring me to have atleast one kid even don’t have a father or not yet married just bcoz of being or having difficulties of getting pregnant when u reach these age. My god.. as if I can do all by myself of having responsibility rasing a child. I know my self better so I don’t rush. I never settle or lowering my standard just to be called taken or married or even just having a child on my own so I wont get alone in the future. I never feel scared of being alone, I more scared of being in to wrong relationship/worst person or not able to sustain my responsibility as a mother. I am willing to wait for what god really want for me rather than I want for my self.
I'm turning 30 this year and single since birth. I was worried before and always claimed that there might something wrong with me. I always look for the missing piece in my heart and I thought the missing piece is the love of my life but I'm wrong until last year of April when God touch my heart and reveal himself to me and I have that fire in my heart to know him more and I realized that He is the missing piece. I am blessed that after all the dilemma and doubts He still love me unconditionally. Today, my heart is at peace with Him and wait for his perfect time. I believe that every good Christian women deserves a good man who will love her the way he loves God.
Hi Jhonna, thank you for your wonderful comment! it is a blessing that you know how much God loves you and that you are trusting in him for marriage. He is faithful. God bless & take care
@@brandon556 All is good praise God😊😊 Still waiting for someone I deserve 😊😊
@@brandon556 I'm will turn 30 this year. I'm from the Philippines. How about you? How are you and where are you from?
Watching this at 32..will be 33 in a few months and still waiting on God.....I strongly believe its gonna happen this year...from my mouth to Gods ear..Amen🙏❤
Am 28 and am trusting God to bring me the right man this year coz for long have desired to be married and have kids.Pray for me guys as I pray for u
Am here with you baby girl let's trust in God
I feel like the church sometimes super spiritualizes marriage. One thing that I noticed biblically speaking is that the men in the Bible chose their own wives. The only two who didn’t choose for themselves were Isaac and Hosea. I don’t know if this is you or not, if it isn’t then hopefully this might help another women but you can’t have faith and not put that faith to action. So, have you been saying you desire marriage and just sticking to your routine all the time. Like work, home, church? You may want to get out and live life and serve God whilst doing so. While you’re serving God, people will find interesting in you and when they come you must pray about it and use wisdom. However, you will need to make a choice. Faith is not expecting God to do everything and you just sit there. For example, people in the Bible who had faith that God would do something put their faith to action by fasting. For some God will choose their spouse like he did Isaac and Hosea but for majority, they have to make a wise choice. If you stay home all day but desire to meet someone face to face... how do you expect that to happen? If you’re surrounded daily by ungodly people but want to marry a godly man then how is that to happen. Yes you should have faith but faith needs to be accompanied with action. Like for example you can’t pray in faith to have children in your marriage but not have sexual intercourse. You see Peter stepped out of the boat in faith. Like you can’t just say I’m putting faith in God but not stepping out. Lastly, if you’re in a place where you’re just seeking God for a marriage but not for him... then your priorities are wrong. You should seek first the kingdom and it’s righteousness then all things will be added to you and all of those things will be according to his will. I pray that you guys aren’t being spiritually abused by churches and pastors that use Christians desire for courtship and marriage for their own gain and teach you that you must do legalistic things in order to be married. Just live your life, go on vacation, fast and pray for intimacy with God, serve others, and allow God to work on your character. When the opportunity presents itself for courtship use wisdom before entering it and bring it to God. Also don’t ignore red flags. Imagine spending your whole life chasing marriage and children then Christ coming back and asking you how you’ve served and you realize all you did was “prepare to be a wife”. You need to be preparing to be Christ’s wife!!! I love you guys and wish you all the best!
It was the ending for me 💖. Thank you
@@MatipaKombe glad I was able to help!!! Wish you the best in your courting life but most importantly in your life forever.
Wow! You really put a lot of things into perspective. Thank you!
My dear your comment should be put number one.! I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOUR OPINION!! this might be taken into account by ladies! Most ladies are full in churches because they want God to bring them men... Not because they are adoring him or seeking his kingdom first!!
Other thing : come on ladies, be socially active and visible!!!
I love your comment sis, it's convicts me.. Thank you, may the Lord God bless you
I’m turning 33 this coming September and still single, yes a bit worried but my faith is more stronger than that I know oneday by the grace of God I’m gonna meet my other half and become 1🙏🙏please pray for me too🥰🥰
Same here ..this coming November
Hi Sarah, thanks for watching and for your comment. It is well. God can be trusted, God bless & take care
Thank you so much. I've been discouraged especially because I'm turning 30 in November and still single. I pray that I'll find complete contentment in God so that He is truly first in my life, whether I get married or not.
Hi Morathi, thanks for watching and for the comment. I know its not easy waiting on God for marriage. It is well. Don't allow the discouragement to get you down. This season of singleness is such an important time in our lives because there are certain things that we can do while we are single that will make such a big diffirence to our lives, our marriages and our parenting. Use this time to prepare for marriage, to build your faith for marriage and to get to know who you are in Christ. I have a video for discouraged singles, Here is the link czcams.com/video/pkDZXyOxcdc/video.html. Take care & God bless
Keep trusting the Lord
Now THIS is the right mindset to have!
I also turned 30 in November
30 is young. There are women much older than you who have been waiting
On my 26th birthday the first thing that came to mind when I woke up was “look at you! What are you doing with your life? You’re old, never been in a relationship and will probably never marry.” That honestly ruined my day and since May I’ve been worried about getting married. But I feel like I need a better relationship with the Lord. Would I marry someone like me? I want a God fearing man, but an I God fearing enough? Am I a true woman of the Lord?
Also family friends have been saying that I haven’t “lived”. What they mean is that I’ve never slept with a man or had a boyfriend in general. To me that’s not living. I’ve met so many different people and cultures, and experienced so much. I consider that living than sleeping with a man just for the experience. Plus, knowing me, I think I would regret it because sex is for a married couple who trust each other. It’s not something to play around with.
I also was told a word saying God would have someone for me in the next five years. I understood that I had to wait five years. But one lady told me that God does not work in our time. Amen! So now I don’t think of a timeline I expect it anytime he knows I’m ready to receive it.
Am 45 and single and still beliving God for marriage though often times, I have dought that it shall happen. But after listening to your word about faith and fear, I have to start working on that.
N. B
Problem is i have always attracted the wrong partner please pray for me so this spirit can be broken. I do pray and fast and hoping for a Break through if it's God's will.
Hi Alice, thank you for your comment. I'm glad you found the video helpful. God will give you the discernment to see who is suitable for you and who is not. It is also helpful to study the bible to get a good understanding of what you are looking for in a godly spouse, this will also make it easier to see who is suitable for you. If you haven't already, you might find my videos Preparing for Godly marriage czcams.com/video/kHZUJ9V8hy0/video.html and Christian courtship & dating czcams.com/video/RRiw0VvSwSQ/video.html helpful. God bless & take care
I am a 31 year old young man and I was worrying alot saying nobody doh want me but after watching this video and seeing all this comment I starting to pick up my faith again in Jesus name
@Bobby Thompson yes sure np I am waiting
@Bobby Thompson Yes why not make it excited
@Bobby Thompson yes sir
So blessed . every sister here trusting God for a marriage partner n for a blessing of womb, God will make a way for his glory.
All the attacks are defeated in Jesus mighty name.
I thank God i am here. i have been through alot but my faith is not swayed for i know the price he paid for me.
I am encouraged i will give a testimony of God's doing
33yrs turning 34 Jan I reall trust God will provide a right man own it’s time🙏🏼
@@brandon556 am doing good
@@brandon556 34 from Kenya😎
My dear your advice helped me alot... I'm 51 and I'm gonna turn 52 this year... I just got in a relationship and it is someone from my past, I'm a devorcey pls pray for me because I wanna be married.
Amen. Amazing sharing. Thank you for doing this video. I turn 45 next month and am still single, since the break up from an unhealthy and ungodly relationship. I'm glad I made the decision to leave. Still single and waiting patiently for a man who is after God'd own heart.
I am a born again Christian and I like the idea of praying and fasting once a week specifically for a prayer request. Thank you.
You’re stunning.
Also, I know I’m still really young (23), but really struggling with seeing most others get marry and engaged.
Your testimony of God’s faithfulness and Grace in your life has been so encouraging to me. 😊
Hi Ashlen, thank you for your lovely comment. I'm glad the video was encouraging. God bless & take care 💖
This didnt pop up in my page for nothing, its a confirmation of what God is doing for me at 33, last week He directed me to
Isaiah 62; 4
You shall no more be termed Forsaken, and your land shall no more be termed Desolate; But you shall be called My Delight is in her, and your land Married; for the LORD delights in you, and your land shall be married.
I'm 45 and still single,that's life but I'm still hoping...maybe I can find my soulmate here 😊
Yes indeed
Hi Tata, thanks for watching and for your comment. With God all things are possbile... so you might meet your soulmate here😊 . Regarding marriage; don't give up. Pray about it and keep building your faith and your trust in God by reading and meditating on the bible. The wonderful thing about God is that he never leaves his children without his support. He is always there to guide us and help us. Merry Xmas. God bless & take care
@@funkechristian203 thank you so much
Merry Christmas,God bless you
Thank you for this video, it's so helpful. I'm 31 almost close to 32 without a man in my life. It's always been my desire to have a godly marriage that's the major reason why I gave up on my previous relationship cos it wasn't going the way I wanted it.
Its not easy being single at all, recently I suffered depression and anxiety coupled with panic attacks. I suddenly woke up at night with fear of not getting married and fear of dying before my time but I thank God for reviving me. God bless you for the video. I'm a🇬🇭 watching from Oman 🇴🇲🙏
Hugs.
Thank you your honest comment. I'm glad you found the video helpful. I also experienced anxieties and fear of death while single. I talk about this in my video how i met my husband czcams.com/video/oxIrJX9Y79E/video.html, i hope you will find it encouraging as well. I know that its not easy waiting on God for marriage and wondering if it will ever happen but God is faithful and he keeps his promises. Thanks again. God bless & take care
I desperately needed to hear this, will be turning 31 in a few months and I have been having a roller coaster of emotions. Thank you for this message cos it gave me some peace and quite. Praying the Holy Spirit strengthens me.
Hi Ada, thanks for watching and for your comment. I'm glad it was helpful. It is well, God is faithful. God bless & take care
Good Word my sister .... I am a man of GOD and you encouraged me . Have faith all my sisters , Delight yourself in the LORD and..... you know the rest!
Hi G Fatty, Thank you for watching and for your encouraging comment to evreyone. I'm glad you found it useful. God bless and take care
Amen !
You have a true God given gift for breaking biblical things down. Your spirit is very kind. Thank you. Please continue to make videos
Hi Lakeshia, thank you for watching and for your comment. I appreciate it. I'm glad you found it helpful. God bless & take care❤
She really does!
I am 26yrs but I think that it's too late for and am not seeing someone serious yet but I pray that God connect me with my husband in the mighty name of Jesus
Hi Hilda. Thank you for watching and for your comment. Do not be dicouragraged or worried. It is never too late with God. God knows your desire for marriage and you can trust him to do all that needs to be done for you. The season of singleness is important. Use this time to strengthen your relationship with God, build your faith for marriage and prepare for marriage. If you haven't already watched my videos on building intimacy with God, preparing for Godly marriage as well as my video for discouraged singles then please watch them you may find them helpful. Merry Xmas. take care & God bless
Freeze your eggs
I am 35 single mom.. but i am getting married this yr thanks god