What's At The Core of Men That Women Adore vs. Other Men? | Zan Perrion | Part 1

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 27. 07. 2024
  • In this Zan Perrion interview (Zan is the founder of Ars Amorata), Brian and Zan sit down and have a discussion about what's at the core of men that women adore and who truly love and enjoy women. Rather than being the guy who is always looking for a step by step system on how to get good with women and looking at real social dynamics.
    Understanding the dynamics of men and women gives you the edge when it comes to dating and getting the girl at the bar or the club, or even the store. Put this information to work for you to get more dates today.
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  • @dhruvtekwani6979
    @dhruvtekwani6979 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +4

    The flirt, the tease, the attraction... Basically the dance in itself is beautiful!
    If a woman doesn't reciprocate the dance, don't force it.

  • @brothajack1993
    @brothajack1993 Pƙed 5 lety +69

    I like how Zan doesnt really teach something but informs us we need to unlearn all the Pickup and realise we are good enough as we are.

    • @moop383
      @moop383 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      That’s not true. Natural selection is playing out today and always has been. Superior genetics will be passed on and lesser ones will die off. This has been recurring for millions of years. Not all guys are good enough. That’s non sense. There are men who try their best and end up 40 year old virgins. There are men with mental handicaps that will never have sex with a girl no matter how much they want it. Women are hypergamous. They want the best guys. Period. This conversation will do you very little in comparison to just becoming physically attractive. This advice is ridiculous... sorry. Had to say it.

    • @joeconcertshd3451
      @joeconcertshd3451 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      @@moop383 if you're referring more to looks than anything else, don't you think a guy who has complete confidence in himself to go after what he wants, has that complete vibe about him is good enough generally? I've seen so many average guys with very pretty woman, and trust me those guys aren't rich at all!

    • @gunnbottemlr
      @gunnbottemlr Pƙed 4 lety +5

      @@moop383 I know an handicapated guy that had an threesome and hes very good with women,soo

    • @Pretentiousindie91
      @Pretentiousindie91 Pƙed 2 lety

      I’ve got a mate who is overweight. He a big guy.
      I would say average looking but he has such a good personality, caring, really funny, optimistic and pushes onto what he wants to do.
      His weight doesn’t matter because his personality more than that makes him attractive he is such an insanely good catch.
      Also I used to be a model, and I can tell you having looks, being fit and dressing well get initial interest from women but I didn’t have anything really good on the inside and they lost interest within the night.
      I also had a midget friend that would get girls in bed all the time because he just was himself warts and all and girls loved it!

  • @3617
    @3617 Pƙed 6 lety +40

    I don't ever comment but this man has really changed my perspective on how I see women and in life. I'm so glad I've found you and what a time to be alive !!!!!

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety +2

      I'm so glad to hear all that. And yes, what a time to be alive, indeed. What's been the biggest changes for you?

    • @3617
      @3617 Pƙed 6 lety +16

      The Fearless Man I now look at women as unique and beautiful human beings with lots of personality and no longer of something that I fear because I used to feel like I wasn't good enough for women because they are too good looking and wouldn't want a guy like me but Zan has opened my eyes,I now realize that women are just like us and they want to be loved just as much as us. I have always loved the feminine spirit of women,I now just have to embrace it instead of trying to be cool and hide it. The Internet has connected me to Zan and I am thankful for this era because I see him as a father figure who is trying to guide all of us to be authentic with women and letting them know how we really feel because that's what true men should do.

    • @IdleInsights
      @IdleInsights Pƙed 6 lety +2

      V Nguyen Yes, he is truly empowering. I no longer feel the need to put on a front with women I fear the most.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety +1

      Great stuff

    • @petzzz5900
      @petzzz5900 Pƙed 4 lety

      Love you guy's, I'm starting book today

  • @augabachoo
    @augabachoo Pƙed 5 lety +9

    Your story on eye contact and penetrating energy reminds me of my most recent outing. I was talking to a girl and she just had to stop mid-sentence and say, "I just had to say something about your eyes. I don't know what it is. You've got like werewolf eyes. They, like, look straight into my soul. I like it."
    Getting that eye contact and energy right, definitely learning is a powerful thing. Was fun hearing that.

  • @Alexander-yt9fo
    @Alexander-yt9fo Pƙed 6 lety +10

    I've only finished a quarter of The Alabaster Girl book and I've written down so much notes already. Got non stop "aha" moments. So much value. Thanks for introducing me to this man and his way of life.

  • @rustyshackleford2841
    @rustyshackleford2841 Pƙed 5 lety +14

    The father mentoring I never had when growing up. Good shite.

  • @emanuelnicolescu5015
    @emanuelnicolescu5015 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    You both look like long lost twins. Your voices and presence are nearly identical, and I wanna thank you both

  • @NocPat
    @NocPat Pƙed 6 lety +35

    Recently finished The Alabaster Girl and In Search of the Alabaster Girl. Highly, highly recommended. Always happy to see more Zan!

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety +4

      Glad you enjoyed his book and his videos on the channel

    • @ultrafeel-tv
      @ultrafeel-tv Pƙed 6 lety

      "In Search of the Alabaster Girl"? Is that his second book?

    • @Tsourfetis
      @Tsourfetis Pƙed 6 lety

      czcams.com/video/e1FaLcgDytw/video.html

    • @lovetofly32
      @lovetofly32 Pƙed 5 lety +1

      Brian is here in the comments just like a pro. Often people that make or post these never show up in the comments. Keep it up Brian. 👍👍

  • @Bossssssssssssssss
    @Bossssssssssssssss Pƙed 6 lety +34

    Zan is a gift to us. Period. Guys this guy is goldmine, trust me.

  • @aaccmm1398
    @aaccmm1398 Pƙed 6 lety +21

    Your conversation is way too entertaining to ever need restaurant music in the background. Thank you for the video.

  • @dudewat212
    @dudewat212 Pƙed 6 lety +5

    Two of the Top 5 inner game coaches.

  • @hrvad
    @hrvad Pƙed 5 lety +5

    It's fair to say that both I and my brother are in relationships because of the Alabaster Girl. It was quite an experience to see life being breathed back in his body, it entirely ripped him out of his apathy.

  • @_eddiecole
    @_eddiecole Pƙed 6 lety +12

    Its simple. Rap a song to her to show her your rhythm and flow.

  • @kizombeiro8130
    @kizombeiro8130 Pƙed 6 lety +5

    Just watching your vids calms and eases me. That way of being helps me relax in myself, makes me feel like I have choices whereas before I felt the need to be on guard and self protective.
    In person must be particularly powerful.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety +1

      That's a great compliment - thank you, and I'm glad to hear the videos have that impact on you. And yes, I hope to meet you at an event soon!

  • @icarus432hz9
    @icarus432hz9 Pƙed 6 lety +6

    Always a pleasure watching you guys talk. Thanks! Zan and Brian.

  • @EmotionRebootCoach
    @EmotionRebootCoach Pƙed 6 lety +27

    I remember Reading The Alabaster Girl and i got this weird feeling in my heart. It felt like i just unleashed something that i had hidden inside and more women started noticing me and i felt that energy. It was quite scary haha.

    • @thejackedphilosopher
      @thejackedphilosopher Pƙed 6 lety +7

      I had the same experience. I had 5-6 women I interacted with before come up to me and tell me I am different and they like it. When I asked different how, they couldn't put it into words. Women do feel the energy of a seducer.
      I need to keep reading the book every now and then though, because society slowly reverts you back to auto pilot robot.

    • @EmotionRebootCoach
      @EmotionRebootCoach Pƙed 6 lety +2

      Yes, i noticed when i stopped reading and not apply what i read it just went away. Good to know that i am no the only one. Keep at it man !

    • @thejackedphilosopher
      @thejackedphilosopher Pƙed 6 lety +3

      I have actually summarised the book by chapters into a pdf and I converted the pdf into audio chapters. Now I listen to the Alabaster Girl in my car when I'm driving. Hahaha

    • @jandewind3117
      @jandewind3117 Pƙed 6 lety +1

      I also made a summary that I re-read often

    • @AlejandroRasmussen7
      @AlejandroRasmussen7 Pƙed 4 lety

      Me too

  • @TheFearlessMan
    @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety +1

    EXCLUSIVE free training With Zan Perrion on "How You Can Develop The Masculine Energy Of A Man That’s Adored By Women" Click here for Today’s class... bit.ly/2NTGToP

  • @humanautomata
    @humanautomata Pƙed 6 lety +21

    MORE ZAN PLEASE?

  • @extraordinaryhuman1806
    @extraordinaryhuman1806 Pƙed 6 lety +6

    I WANT MORE CONTENT WITH ZAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN

  • @bjorn1543
    @bjorn1543 Pƙed 6 lety +2

    Besides fantastic (!) content, nice music as well - thanks!

  • @robertoacevedo3805
    @robertoacevedo3805 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    Probably the best video you guys are done tons of free information you guys gave

  • @donerioblanc188
    @donerioblanc188 Pƙed 6 lety +1

    I love Zan.Its my teacher. Thanks for video)

  • @christopherg.8591
    @christopherg.8591 Pƙed 6 lety +1

    Zan should come to south america, his message needs to be heard from people in here, we are still stuck with methods and techniques to get things... We need this message over here

  • @BAlvn-yr6ej
    @BAlvn-yr6ej Pƙed 6 lety +1

    great, great work....priceless

  • @muhammadsaqib2146
    @muhammadsaqib2146 Pƙed 6 lety +3

    You guys have changed my reality Thank You

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety

      Love to hear that! What are the biggest things that have changed for you?

  • @vitalie96
    @vitalie96 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    If a woman sees that I look at her and then she starts to talk with her friend about me (as Zen mentioned), I immediately think that she thinks that I am a dangerous weirdo and I don't feel very comfortable. I can't even approach a woman and say hi, because I feel terrified that she will get scarred of me! So I am afraid that they are afraid of me, or have instance discomfort with me! It is crazy!

  • @riadboukraa7473
    @riadboukraa7473 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Amazing male shadow conversation ...

  • @karimnanji4163
    @karimnanji4163 Pƙed 6 lety +1

    Thank You excellent!

  • @vaultvon2126
    @vaultvon2126 Pƙed rokem +1

    i know zan from your vids. and yes we should definitely know him

  • @JulianJ58
    @JulianJ58 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Zan's face @ 5:15 after the 1/31 comment đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

  • @MindfreemusicLive
    @MindfreemusicLive Pƙed 6 lety +3

    Guys, it's lifechanging. The idea of celebration of getting together instead of convincing her to be with you is espescially great.

  • @JohnDoe-qq8et
    @JohnDoe-qq8et Pƙed rokem +2

    Hes like the hank moody of spirituality

  • @BAlvn-yr6ej
    @BAlvn-yr6ej Pƙed 6 lety +2

    zan is the man

  • @ChrisRamirezOnlineDOTcom
    @ChrisRamirezOnlineDOTcom Pƙed 6 lety +3

    Good stuff brother man. Been catching your show here and there as i just got out a bad 15 year relationship. Ive been off the market so long your stradegies been helping me to identify when they are leaning in and when they block you to move on to the next one. its the Rinsing and repeating i have troble being consistent with to eventually have some girl be ready to recieve me. I have always been a shy person and it really hinders me more often they other times. Like i know a simple Hi or Hello is sufficient but even that i clam up and have a hard time with it, to be honest a lot, and put up a wall. Its a bad habit i have. What excersice could i be doing more of to not come off being so uptight?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety

      Try this one: www.thefearlessman.com/build-your-confidence-by-saying-hello-100-strangers/

  • @lucasrebischke
    @lucasrebischke Pƙed 6 lety +18

    Omg, johnny depp teaching seduction? Instalike

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety +1

      haha, I think he gets that a lot. Glad you enjoyed

    • @lucasrebischke
      @lucasrebischke Pƙed 6 lety +1

      The Fearless Man Yes I did. Thanks guys!

  • @Valmont069
    @Valmont069 Pƙed 3 lety

    I know of Zan's work very well (ie even before he was so called popular), this was among the better talks. Did you record a part 2 of this interview?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 3 lety

      Thanks for your question Valmont! Brian and Zan have done a bunch of videos together. Just look through our channel to find them all. Here is another from this 4-part series. - Andrew, The Fearless Man
      czcams.com/video/TTTMP7m6Qqk/video.html

  • @theTimmer
    @theTimmer Pƙed rokem +1

    Would be wonderful to just hear Zan without the other guy trying to push his product. He starts off at 1:35, "I was getting turned on reading your book and I look up and some girl is smiling at me, cause that's what's coming off my body now"- this can happen for you too if you pay him for his special training and he'll unlock all the "secrets" for you. Him. lol.

  • @Codfan35
    @Codfan35 Pƙed 6 lety

    Hi Brian love your work,you sir are a true humanitarian. What are your and Zan’s preferred music generas,artist ect?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety

      I love singer songwriter type stuff for my releasing and movement work

  • @Cheximus
    @Cheximus Pƙed 5 lety

    1 minute in Zan is sitting there like, "there's another sucker, cha ching."

  • @rippedup4546
    @rippedup4546 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I think Zan's style is too advanced for the United States of America. How ironic, considering the fact that Zan's style is also old school. LOL!

  • @hamzakhiar3636
    @hamzakhiar3636 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    is his book "the alabaster girl" enough to learn that rhythme thing and how to apply it

  • @IdleInsights
    @IdleInsights Pƙed 6 lety +6

    My absolute favorite two people to watch regarding learning seduction. I've seen and watched ALL of them over the years, and can't help but feel theese two resonate with me most. An honest, mature approach to being lovers of women. Please do more content together.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety

      Hopefully he'll be at our event in November! Would love to see you there

    • @IdleInsights
      @IdleInsights Pƙed 6 lety

      The Fearless Man Would this be in Santa Monica/LA area?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety

      No. We have a seminar in LA this weekend ( go.thefearlessman.com/tfml ) but the one Zan may be at will be in Miami

  • @twitcharchiver
    @twitcharchiver Pƙed 6 lety +1

    i never met Brian before but when i did he had the same kind of energy as zan. i could feel he had life figured out. its hard to describe. i have never met two people so on top of life. forgive me if my words don't do justice. great video fellas

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety

      Thanks!

    • @christopherg.8591
      @christopherg.8591 Pƙed 6 lety

      blackshielassassin Man, I'd love to meet them both, great opportunity for sure

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe Pƙed 3 lety

      @@TheFearlessMan
      Do you know James Marshall, Brian? He’s friends with Zan and the three of you mesh so well.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 3 lety

      @@VoiceOfThe Hey, Natural Lifestyles have some similar principle to Fearless. There are some distinctions as well as far as how we coach guys. - Andrew, TFM Team

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe Pƙed 3 lety

      @@TheFearlessMan
      I know, already subscribed to TNL! đŸ‘đŸŒ

  • @user-mh6pz8rq9d
    @user-mh6pz8rq9d Pƙed 5 lety +1

    Bald Zan and Hairy Zan

  • @matarloum2894
    @matarloum2894 Pƙed 6 lety +7

    Nofap is the way to see!

  • @hamsterbraten
    @hamsterbraten Pƙed 5 lety

    whats the intro and outro song?

  • @lindabrizius8533
    @lindabrizius8533 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    The microphones are not close enough. Too difficult to hear clearly.

  • @wolf-te2wy
    @wolf-te2wy Pƙed 6 lety +1

    I have questions. I'm the man how get a lot of welcome from the girls but what I realize the feminine energy it's making me so angry to them. think you man I learned a lot from you .

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety

      I'm glad you learned a lot. No idea what your question is though

  • @jefflantz9041
    @jefflantz9041 Pƙed 6 lety

    I've been reading the book all wrong. Now it makes sense to me. Page 62 made me ponder on being a woman's fantasy. I'm realizing that I need professional help....

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 6 lety

      Would love to meet you at an event. Glad the video helped

  • @Stratton218
    @Stratton218 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

    5:55 🔑🔑🔑🔑

  • @zekttalp708
    @zekttalp708 Pƙed 2 lety

    Long hair, braclets, purple scarf. What the hell I just swallowed my dip, copenhagen for breakfast.

  • @josephk6373
    @josephk6373 Pƙed 6 lety +1

    Love the topic but the audio is horrible

  • @MedicinaySalud93
    @MedicinaySalud93 Pƙed 3 lety

    Amazing content! What is the name of the natural that Brian says? Brad P?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Hi Pepe (awesome name btw) what is the exact time of that? - Andrew, TFM Staff

    • @MedicinaySalud93
      @MedicinaySalud93 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@TheFearlessMan Really quick response!! First of all, Happy New Year for you!! I wish the best for you. It is at minute 7.20 when Brian is talking about a man who doesn't approach women an the Zan asks: who is he?! Thank you very much!!

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Happy New Year man :) I looked it up and Brian said it's a guy named Brad P The Pheromone Kid. He has basically zero material up on the internet. It seems like he has a very similar style to Zan where it's not about direct approaches but more creating connection and letting the energy and attraction build in little ways. Zan is famous for that kind thing. I haven't done any workshops with Ars Amorata but at Fearless we use approaching more as a tool for bringing up the tough emotions that are hidden so we can let them go. The thing about PUA crap is they use the force of the will to push past those emotions and keep them squashed instead of revealing and releasing them. - Andrew, TFM Staff
      Fearless Experience Intensive - 2021 Schedule
      www.thefearlessman.com/Experience2021
      Brian’s EBook - The Art of Fearless Seduction
      www.thefearlessman.com/eBookFearlessSeduction

    • @MedicinaySalud93
      @MedicinaySalud93 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@TheFearlessMan awesome response. I love Zan Perrion and Hans Comyn. I also follow your wonderful material. The pheromone kid? That name is even cooler than mine haha ;)

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Hahaha almost as cool, not quite as cool as Pepe though 👊

  • @misterbaghead
    @misterbaghead Pƙed 6 lety +5

    Be a man who loves women

  • @badbunny6035
    @badbunny6035 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Residente and jhonny depp đŸ˜±

  • @scotttimpson7269
    @scotttimpson7269 Pƙed 2 lety

    Good content and very informative.
    But, Starbucks. Come on man !

  • @mattwkendall
    @mattwkendall Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Background music unnecessary and distracting

  • @MrKorton
    @MrKorton Pƙed 6 lety +1

    Only watched 1 min but instantly I hate the loud piano music and bad sound for their voices. But ok, IÂŽll try to watch the video but plz could you stop this, this happens to too many videos :/

  • @JetBlackThreat
    @JetBlackThreat Pƙed 4 lety

    its like a man entering the world of amazons

  • @clevertrevor9036
    @clevertrevor9036 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    25:00 personal note, don't bother with this

  • @miensou1335
    @miensou1335 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    i seen alot of cute girls today i actually try to compliment a girl without saying a word. what i was saying is she is cute. and she looked at me and smiled. but how do i acually make girls stop thinking about me? and how do i really have this sexual nature when walkin in a room? and girls notice me? i really want to become ab amorati but no money no jobs dropped out of highschool. still playing video games. like what is the first step for me to there? @brian

  • @ultrafeel-tv
    @ultrafeel-tv Pƙed 6 lety +1

    It's hard to understand you both gentlemen. Can you please turn off the music, and put the microphone closer to your mouth. Thanks!

  • @michaeljarmstrongjr5569
    @michaeljarmstrongjr5569 Pƙed rokem +1

    111đŸ€đŸ’œGratitude 🙏