RED FLAGS THAT I IGNORED, NEVER AGAIN WILL.... DELULU IS NOT SOLULU

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  • čas přidán 6. 08. 2024
  • Hello my fam, welcome back to this space and today we share about the red flags that we ignore and pretend things will be OK...so do you think that the delulu was the solulu.
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    #lifemotivation
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Komentáře • 58

  • @infinitelove6815
    @infinitelove6815 Před 4 měsíci

    Hey beautiful lady i hope you healing well but am not suprised that it didnt work out i remember when i was watching you guyzs for the first time i felt that the guy was a narcissist and she liked you coz you were naive and innocent.The red flag was when he put all your clothes wet so that you dont leave you thought it was love but thats typical of narcisits Also he wasnt explaining well why all over sudden he left the wife with young kids there is three sides to a story.

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci +1

      The last video I did with lynn brought so many reactions and told him to give the ex wife also a chance and express herself out on all this things he made me believe but alas he started defending her and me looking a bad person. Anyway am happy it ended .

  • @catherinemutie6323
    @catherinemutie6323 Před 9 hodinami

    😮😮😮😮😮
    Am schoked,i never knew Pauline separated with hwr hubby.ndio ninajua, uweh

  • @wambuimwangi6082
    @wambuimwangi6082 Před 4 měsíci +2

    The first reg flag was how it all started. That was a big element of control as to how you moved in. We live and learn. Am happy to see your progress so far your doing well

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      Very true, it could be an eye opener

  • @AkotTV1
    @AkotTV1 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow wow Pauline, I'm glad you discovered yourself. This was a lot to take from a loved one. You are going places and well done for choosing you.

  • @TinaKohana
    @TinaKohana Před 4 měsíci +1

    May you find healing
    It's bold that you are speaking about it.

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      Letting my fellow women learn a thing....

  • @rosewilliamskenya2478
    @rosewilliamskenya2478 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Marriage wewe, let people tred carefully. Thanks for sharing

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Unahepa kuingia kwa mtaro unaingia kwa shimo

  • @lydiahrysh
    @lydiahrysh Před 4 měsíci

    When you a ok and happy that when i feel good,am happy for you Gal❤❤

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks darling....to more happiness and love

  • @beatricewabosco3830
    @beatricewabosco3830 Před 3 měsíci

    Sonnie congratulations gal. You are healing now. May God see you thru darling

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thankyou siz, it has been tough but I thank God

  • @rhodawangari2137
    @rhodawangari2137 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Pauline you've spoken nothing but truth

  • @seniabanda2393
    @seniabanda2393 Před 4 měsíci

    It's sad you guys broke up, u looked happy together...i wish you all the 💕❤

  • @florencembaabu
    @florencembaabu Před 4 měsíci +1

    All the best sister,Meru accent 😮 we have it and then….hilarious 😂

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      We are the best

    • @annnkaku8788
      @annnkaku8788 Před 2 měsíci +1

      More grace to you kaari geetu. "You can't do" is always a huuuge red flag plus kutenganishwa na people close to you🤔🤔. There's always you before anyone else and your joy should be top on the list.

  • @NamataatiNembiyaNam_biya
    @NamataatiNembiyaNam_biya Před 4 měsíci +2

    I now listened to your stories. We had a Zambian woman in Finland who was married to finish man
    Stay 20 years married with only one baby boy
    These finnish man has car, and everything is enjoyable because the wife is a nurse and pays well on behave Finnish family
    The wife's geta tired divorced in a third days she was killed by Finnish husband's
    The husband turns his wife's into mummy, making money
    I believe in jails now
    Wherever the married worship themselves, they do not go to locals' church buildings, locals, church
    Then, the husband's men bills increased because of showing oof to his friends
    You carried a burden and lying to your parents
    Because you're not church girls
    That queen pretended to get back to him. Without communities' church prayers, she is wasting his time
    Go to church every Sunday and pray for your husband's
    Gives him prayer activities
    Thanks. l have learned a lot from you

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci +1

      I wish I could ,

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci +1

      The things we do for love

    • @NamataatiNembiyaNam_biya
      @NamataatiNembiyaNam_biya Před 4 měsíci +1

      @simplelady1 Thanks for reply, now listen to your parents and get healed! If your parents say seek forgiveness, stay in your affairs. Please do
      I don't think I am too nice to be stupid

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo Před 4 měsíci

    Im so sorry Pauline thats just sad 😢

  • @simonndiritu4778
    @simonndiritu4778 Před 4 měsíci

    Am watching taking tea holding my finger in my mouth 😢

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      The things that make people loss there heads

  • @NaturalktedyEdna
    @NaturalktedyEdna Před 4 měsíci

    You sound happy n you look happy. Do you

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      Very much happy..its the best thing that has helped me be real

  • @judycolletah6837
    @judycolletah6837 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Nilijua never run so quickly to make a family with a man who his first wife abandoned him

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      Hahaha, lol. What did you suspect

  • @palaceselection7770
    @palaceselection7770 Před 4 měsíci

    Allow me to say this:
    1:You guys didn't know each other well before moving in together.
    2.It seems you guys were never compatible.
    3:From what I've listened and understood,those were just minor understandings.
    4:You were both in different grounds....
    Anyway,I wish you nothing but the best 😌

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      I will check tick on all but one is not true. Minor understanding. They were not

  • @Bintiiiiiiiiii
    @Bintiiiiiiiiii Před 2 měsíci

    💯 Left my job for him, now nalilia kwa choo😢 Ata shilingi ya kushuka nywele lines sipewi,lotion nilijipaka mwisho last year 😭😭 ndoa ni scam

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 2 měsíci +1

      There is life out don't suffer in the hands of unworking marriage..

    • @Bintiiiiiiiiii
      @Bintiiiiiiiiii Před 2 měsíci

      @@simplelady1 thank you

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Always dear gal. Love ua life, if u have a kid build uaself to build ua child......

    • @Bintiiiiiiiiii
      @Bintiiiiiiiiii Před 2 měsíci

      @@simplelady1 💯

  • @catherinekanono4298
    @catherinekanono4298 Před měsícem

    Mwakazi alikusaindia sana kama alikuvumilia wakati hukuwa na mtoto sai ndo unajitoa hapo imetuangusha

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před měsícem

      ..alikusaidia sana na kukuvumilia wakati sikuwa na mtoto lol so nilikuwa statue nisaidie, Mimi sikumsaidia kulea watoti wake, so Sahi mbona halei wake pia Mimi kunisaidia......go ask him who helped who

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před měsícem

      Na nitawaangusha tena

    • @mamageorge8289
      @mamageorge8289 Před měsícem

      You are writing rubbish maam, like you were inside their house. You are the typical reason women wont even come out here to tell their stories. Listen to what she is saying and help yourself or help another woman out there. Be useful

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před měsícem

      ​@@mamageorge8289 tell her again. With such mind set then she can't mentor anybody.
      And again that person she's saying about never helped me in anything, instead got me in debts and series of baby mama dramas

    • @mukamimukami6549
      @mukamimukami6549 Před 28 dny

      ​@@simplelady1unaeza nipea number ya gynecologist wako please

  • @queengatieno
    @queengatieno Před 4 měsíci

    Sisemi kitu

  • @WinnieGithaiga-sn2ug
    @WinnieGithaiga-sn2ug Před 4 měsíci

    It shall be well glad you left that marriage when ur still alive

    • @homeandaway2811
      @homeandaway2811 Před 4 měsíci

      Omg, don't tell me their marriage has ended? How I LOVED their couple, won't listen to this video😢

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      Mungu alikataa na mie

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks for the love, but life happens

  • @NamataatiNembiyaNam_biya
    @NamataatiNembiyaNam_biya Před 4 měsíci +3

    You are not beaten up. You are not starved to hunger, please Pauline educate us about marriage...
    I am doom because i don't know what mistreatment and disagreements are. Selfish in marriage
    Please go to lynn ngugi. Break it through because by yourself
    You will receive a lot of judgments
    You can make marriage education video your dad! Educate your community
    Stop selfish pity and serve communities on simply marriage tips knowledge

    • @simplelady1
      @simplelady1  Před 4 měsíci

      Beating or being hungry is not the reason. Only u should leave

    • @mamageorge8289
      @mamageorge8289 Před měsícem

      What are your standards? Start from there. If you have no standards you cannot define mistreatments- even being beaten may not bother you, Infact some women believe their men must beat them to proof that they love them.