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  • @2hearts1song4ever8
    @2hearts1song4ever8 Před 3 lety +163

    #3 this collective is a strange experience!! Shout out to all who chose 3-the journey has made us stronger! They came at us with “game” and we smiled and showed them how to play it. While they pick themselves up off the ground let’s remember to love ourselves. Spa time while they get a clue. 😁

    • @anupriyasharma2912
      @anupriyasharma2912 Před 3 lety +4

      ❤️

    • @sparshibajpai3654
      @sparshibajpai3654 Před 3 lety +5

      Love this ❤️❤️

    • @akz24824
      @akz24824 Před 3 lety +3

      Gurl on God...

    • @IamJBaldwin
      @IamJBaldwin Před 3 lety +1

      Fackkkkks big egging facks! I love how you out this!

    • @graciegracie9187
      @graciegracie9187 Před 2 lety

      Yes, indeed. Practice self love and healing. I'm happy again, enjoying life and working hard. It's just as you added. Thank you. I wish you the very same and lots of love.

  • @diasehgal9
    @diasehgal9 Před 3 lety +36

    #3: What a spinning ride it was, this reading! The thing is when the 'master manipulator and controller' comes across a soulmate energy who offers 'unconditional love', they just can't wrap their head around it and try to find flaws or motive, but what all they come out with is the 'glimpse of their own shadow side', which then triggers their unhealed wounds. There is no way out of this conundrum for them until they've worked on their own healing.
    Thank you so much for this reading, JESS.💓 You were awesome as always. 🤍🌈🦋

  • @toscadonna
    @toscadonna Před 3 lety +22

    3 - I’m Virgo, he’s Pisces. I do think he didn’t trust me, but trust is earned, and if he’d actually have shown up, he’d have learned that he could trust me. And yes, Virgo can be your best friend, but also the worst enemy you’ve ever had, because we see all of our flaws and everyone else’s, too.

  • @verocloud2653
    @verocloud2653 Před 3 lety +10

    Pile 2 “It’s almost like , when you’re out you’re out -then you gotta sleep” 🤣that right there freaking was the cherry on top -this has been the vibe 🤣

  • @mollusckscramp4124
    @mollusckscramp4124 Před 3 lety +15

    Pile 3 is only sort of a jumble because that's exactly what the person is like. It must have been confusing as hell to read, but I cannot stress strongly enough how accurate it was. It also helped to clarify a lot of the underlying motives for why they tend to behave the way they do. Thank you, and Merry Christmas! 🎄

  • @michellecarbone7737
    @michellecarbone7737 Před 3 lety +21

    Pile 1. Your accuracy never ceases to amaze me. We did meet in a group that I left, developed my spirituality, and started my own spiritual business. The 2 of Cups does look a bit adversarial. I absolutely love your depth as a reader. I can't to see your astrology readings!

  • @alicewincent
    @alicewincent Před 3 lety +16

    Pile 3 resonated, that's the way things have been going. Kinda tough 'cause I'm not plotting behind their back or anything but the expectation that I'll be another betrayal is palpable. Thank you for the reading 💖 ( p.s. the "5 hours later" thing was hella funny)

  • @selenamarina9525
    @selenamarina9525 Před 3 lety +15

    Pile 3. Yes, it resonated. I got sometimes a feeling from him he wouldn't fully trust me, like too good to be true. As if he was asking himself Why would someone I barely know be so nice, kind and understanding of me? And why do I feel the same way towards her? He actually told me about the second question, as in he couldn't make sense of it rationally. I didn't mention to him if he had ever considered the possibility of past lives and soul mates as I was afraid he would even further freak out so I answered: "You are trying to understand with your mind something you can only understand with your heart" I didn't mention intuition, anyway his heart chakra is/was blocked. I gave him a rose quartz for his birthday telling him it was a stone I used during meditation , he said he considered that to be a magical stone. He hasn't any knowledge of spiritual practices but was interested in listening to me about what I do.

    • @graciegracie9187
      @graciegracie9187 Před 2 lety

      Profound. I didn't have the words. My silence spoke. He admitted he's heart was blocked. But he knew I loved him.

  • @MagikForTheMAsses
    @MagikForTheMAsses Před 3 lety +15

    pile 3. and as insane as it sounded it resonates 150% it would take me an additional 5 hours to explain. but youre dead on. You are an amazingly gifted reader thank you

  • @TheThetvguy
    @TheThetvguy Před 3 lety +24

    The "5 hours later" killed me. Yup we're both kinda complicated lmao

  • @GalacticBombshell13
    @GalacticBombshell13 Před 3 lety +19

    Pile 3, I definitely couldn't trust him, he could not trust me.. I had the mother issues, he has the father issues. But his lack of trust was due to his own dirt. He wanted to play the field.

  • @RhondaThorne12
    @RhondaThorne12 Před 3 lety +19

    #3 yeah he seems struggling for some reason. He tried to find stuff about me which is weird. He kept saying 'honestly i'm scared that you left me' i don't understand.

  • @norahfahad9429
    @norahfahad9429 Před 3 lety +9

    Pile 2, I hold PhD and I am in Academia 😊👍🏻. He asked me to make decision between him and my life. Now we are in separation for 5 months.

    • @aakritisunderum3921
      @aakritisunderum3921 Před 3 lety

      Why can't you have both, a cleverly carved middle path? But follow your intuition, thats the best!

  • @lightair797
    @lightair797 Před 3 lety +4

    Jess! What an amazing present! This reading was so out of universe on point! You are AMAZING! I loved the more spiritual than religious vs more religious than spiritual. I hadn't heard it described that way before but it's perfect.

  • @marianajuric1
    @marianajuric1 Před 3 lety +7

    Pile 2: you are so talented!! All your readings resonate so much its crazy. You are def my favorite tarot reader! ❤️

  • @SharrockMichelle
    @SharrockMichelle Před 3 lety +15

    Pile 3: yup, Pluto in Libra and parts did resonate especially regarding his mother issues

  • @decipher_my_dark
    @decipher_my_dark Před 3 lety +16

    Pile 3: I'm a scorpio and he is virgo.

  • @awkwardluminary8515
    @awkwardluminary8515 Před 3 lety +8

    3 definitely resonates. I have Pluto in Libra. He's very wounded and confused about this connection and frankly so am I. My guides have told me that that I trigger his mother wound. I just want clarity and closure tbh. I don't understand the point of our connection or why neither one of us ever lets go. Seems like it's only ever brought us both pain.

  • @bridgetjones103
    @bridgetjones103 Před 3 lety +4

    Pile 3 - Both Scorpios right on point!! He has mother/father issues... You confused!!! Girl I had to deal with this for 10 months!!! He was driving me crazy!!

  • @anuchaudhary8929
    @anuchaudhary8929 Před 3 lety +3

    Hey Jess! You were really descrbing my person and yes, all of it was making sense to me except a few things, maybe because it's a general reading and you were picking up a lot of energies. You never fail to surprise me how wonderfully your readings resonate with me. I chose pile 3. You are gifted ❤️❤️

  • @suntoshineastrologyandtaro1144

    Pile 3: Amazing, insightful and dead on 🥰

  • @ursulahaygood7883
    @ursulahaygood7883 Před 3 lety +3

    #1. Jess I love how you read. What a gift. I learn something new every time. You've inspired me to learn more vedic astrology. Great job. Merry Christmas.

  • @Ageofasa
    @Ageofasa Před 3 lety +13

    P2 I met him at work and he’s my boss. He was one of those bosses that don’t take any bs and intimidated everyone including me. I started to notice how much gentler he was with me compared to everyone else and he even told me he loved me a few times. I had my reasons to be skeptical so I guess that made him step back a bit. It worked cuz now I’m head over heels for him and it’s so hard to keep my emotions in check @ work lol

  • @lizzyalexandra3991
    @lizzyalexandra3991 Před 3 lety +4

    That 5 hours later gif you added to pile 3 was absolutely hilarious!
    Thank you for the reading ✨

  • @amydrummergirl21
    @amydrummergirl21 Před 3 lety +4

    i picked 3 and it made sense, thank you for doing this!

  • @meenakshi2bhardwaj
    @meenakshi2bhardwaj Před 3 lety +13

    Pile1.....u nailed it dear❤️🙏❤️

  • @allisonc3588
    @allisonc3588 Před 2 lety +3

    Pile 2- all I can say is wow! Thank you for the reading.

  • @richkidyeah
    @richkidyeah Před 3 lety +8

    Jess, you're amazing
    your readings make me freak out coz they resonate a lot
    Merry Christmas /Happy Holidays!!!

  • @justsosaxplayer
    @justsosaxplayer Před 3 lety +4

    #3 - Pisces Sun with Virgo ascendant. Thank you for the reading 🙏🏼

  • @loremontalar2231
    @loremontalar2231 Před 3 lety +4

    Pile 3 exactly what it is, I'm piscis that's the duality, ascendant in libra, he's a Capri... I love your readings, thank you very much Jess

  • @theastromomma9732
    @theastromomma9732 Před 3 lety +2

    Happy holidays Jess. Girl you’re amazing! Pile 2. Spot on as usual, thank you 🙌❤️

  • @eeniemeeniemineymo
    @eeniemeeniemineymo Před 3 lety +1

    Omg this resonated to the Core! You’re so good! Thank you❤️ pile 1

  • @jgc2278
    @jgc2278 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow pile 1! In western astrology, my person is a Gemini and I am a Leo with a Scorpio rising. I'm adopted but I've always felt abandoned. We met while traveling in a group because we both competitively ski raced. The energy between us was overwhelming. For other reasons, I decided to stop and do something different, and with those experiences came several tower moments that have led me to reject my family's Catholic values, develop my own spirituality, and trust my intuition

  • @jingmin3465
    @jingmin3465 Před 3 lety +2

    Pile 2 resonated so much. Thank you!

  • @jaymetee
    @jaymetee Před 3 lety +2

    Pile 1 resonated sooo well! Thank you.

  • @pragyatalks
    @pragyatalks Před 3 lety +1

    awwww that intro with gorgeous owl sound & your lively voice is so amazing & a hype

  • @allthingschey
    @allthingschey Před 3 lety

    ahhhh Jess, thank you, as always for your perfect insight. Pile 1 💕

  • @azn8tv
    @azn8tv Před 3 lety +2

    Pile 3. I'm a fire sign Aries. I know he hesitates to make contact. I also have my Pluto in Virgo. I also know this individual does not trust me, perhaps he wants too, but he can't or won"t. This reading describes the dynamics between my person and I. Whoaaa.... I energetically left the connection, I hope the best for us as we each move forward to embrace the next chapter of our lives. Thanks for the reading, Jess. Tonight I say a prayer and leave it at that.

  • @hamster-hands2444
    @hamster-hands2444 Před 3 lety +14

    Pile 2! I literally have a Gemini moon and I literally write. Lol.

  • @snescarlett5250
    @snescarlett5250 Před 3 lety +4

    Omg Jess... Pile 1. I do wear a black tourmaline for protection..you did get the jewels part right! U got most of the things right btw obviously 🤗❤ ur amazing as always !

  • @Wjames1133
    @Wjames1133 Před 3 lety +4

    Pile 3 resonated I have to Pluto in Libra everything you said made sense👍

  • @jotace6111
    @jotace6111 Před 3 lety +1

    1# I love the depth in your readings. Very accurate always. Thx!

  • @MariannSierra
    @MariannSierra Před 3 lety +9

    #2! Merry Christmas 🎄!

  • @em_of_jay
    @em_of_jay Před 2 lety

    Pile 3, and it absolutely resonated. You did an amazing job and I'm about to hit subscribe because I'm impressed. I completely agree with the other person in the comments here who was saying that it's the person this reading is talking about being unable to comprehend unconditional love because they've never experienced it before. It's been a wild ride and it still is. I've been calm, collected and caring, but the smallest and most benign (to me) things can trigger this person into running, and if there's nowhere for me to stand, then how can I be consistent and show that I'm not going anywhere? We're still working on it and it's very slow. There's a very wounded person in there. I think we're getting somewhere, but time will tell. I've had to learn a whole lot of new ways to be indirect and get myself across to someone who hides when we need to talk the most. thank you x.

  • @sr9224
    @sr9224 Před 3 lety

    Just got into the Pack1 reading and gosh its so spot on for me. Thank you 🙏💙💚💛

  • @ebonieg2875
    @ebonieg2875 Před 3 lety

    Pile 3: definitely resonated. Happy holidays! 🎄

  • @Duizendbloemen
    @Duizendbloemen Před 3 lety +1

    #1 Two days before you posted this, I was actually going through your videos looking for a “then & now” reading! Was wondering about a high school romantic interest. We ran in different circles and there was a status difference. I was definitely quiet and reserved back then & was also wearing a lot of jewellery. He was quite intelligent and had a sharp intuition. Hope to run into him again ✨

  • @shiram88
    @shiram88 Před 2 lety

    Wow, this is unbelievably spot on to the details! 😱
    Immediately subscribed 👍👍👍

  • @BeA-yx9md
    @BeA-yx9md Před 3 lety +2

    Pile 1 is awesome and amazingly accurate 🙏🙏🙏💞

  • @patrickfisher1348
    @patrickfisher1348 Před 3 lety

    Pile 3, totally resonates. Total player that got caught. Always trust your intuition. With mine I could see right through the game. love and light, Patrick

  • @amylynne1817
    @amylynne1817 Před 3 lety

    Awesome: this always happens. One pile is me, one pile is how I see him. #1 was how he sees me. You picked up on my Nakshatras also (of course) and pile 3, is how I see him. You nailed his placements also.

  • @lapritweet
    @lapritweet Před 3 lety +4

    💯 with pile no3. Yes it's so weird even I can't make sense of why I hv been treated like the enemy.

  • @ronniemjackson9745
    @ronniemjackson9745 Před 3 lety

    Jess you are so Articulate. I love it...thank you for sharing your knowledge. Happy New Year!!!

  • @jacquelineramirez4568
    @jacquelineramirez4568 Před 3 lety +2

    Pile #3: I'm Virgo, he's Cancer, and he's been so guarded with me, like you are too good to be true

  • @skcotton5665
    @skcotton5665 Před 3 lety +2

    Pile 2- made such sense to me...💗

  • @juliettepierre8289
    @juliettepierre8289 Před 3 lety +1

    Pile 3, haha girl this is a strange connection fr! I'm glad you were able to see how my experiences of the connection

  • @geralynetyra7250
    @geralynetyra7250 Před 3 lety +1

    Omg girl my jaw dropped, I’m pile 1 and lemme just say when you said Seth I died inside. That’s literally a coincidence that that’s his name, and I’m shook but all I can say is your accuracy never ceases to amaze me

  • @user-ec6me3rz4e
    @user-ec6me3rz4e Před 2 lety +1

    i love how much who you are comes through in your readings ✨☺️💛

  • @july713x3
    @july713x3 Před 3 lety

    Merry Christmas Jess. U r a really gifted reader and so thorough. I loved this reading.

  • @christina7thomas
    @christina7thomas Před 3 lety +7

    I had #3 and yes as confused as you were I knew exactly what it was about.

  • @hildagruss
    @hildagruss Před 3 lety +2

    Wow so accurate! He did watch me talking with other people in the room full of a group of people, was curious about me, but rather than striking conversation then, he was observing me contemplatively and pulled back instead, and he did feel a strong kinship connection instantly, and felt drawn and attracted to me, as you said Jess. I am a sun scorpio and moon gemini, and we both come from another town and country and we both have travelled a lot as you so accurately described.I have been betrayed and he sees me as this beautiful mystery I suppose, and considering and deliberating but then just waiting cos he sensed I wouldn't then. We did meet in the course of work, rendering a service, he is a workaholic, and of course he wanted to get to know me in a more private setting. That was then. There is a strong mirroring and spiritual connection. And now in the present, I am a teacher and have left the group we were part of. And I do sense he has a secretive side, and iresistably drawn to one another, on point!

  • @amychima6124
    @amychima6124 Před 2 lety

    Jess you’re the most accurate reader on here!!!
    💕 ❤️

  • @enlightenedheart740
    @enlightenedheart740 Před 3 lety

    Pile 1, nailed it Jess 🎯
    We both have Rahu and Jupirer in Gemini 😉
    Always love and appreciate engaging with your energy, such a bright soul 🌟 Thank you 🎆
    Update, just finished listening to all 3 piles and got something from each of them Jess. You did a great job in pile 3 too as you were asking 👌💯😊

  • @Fiery_Aphrodite
    @Fiery_Aphrodite Před 3 lety +1

    #1 - it definitely resonated with me - thank you.

  • @Cat.HisBeloved
    @Cat.HisBeloved Před 3 lety

    You Blew me away! First time watcher and you’re so gifted. Thank you

  • @gpc7830
    @gpc7830 Před 3 lety

    Scarily accurate! Thanks for this!

  • @LOUDIntuition
    @LOUDIntuition Před 3 lety +1

    Great read! You hit the nail on the head!

  • @Pieceofpeeace
    @Pieceofpeeace Před 3 lety

    Pile 1 you astound me with your accurateness. Amusing pile :)

  • @skinnerohrami5920
    @skinnerohrami5920 Před 3 lety +5

    Pile 3
    Oh Jess.. what should I doooooo 😭😭😭😭
    Everything I am, everything I do, everything that made me, all of them did scared him but also my qualities confused him and make him love me but insecure at the same time
    Its been 2 years, and I still feel it that he cant fully trust me, eventho I never do something behind his back or else (what kind of energy inside me that make him like this? 😭)
    Lot of people said my energy always feels intimidating, but also oddly luring (idk why)
    But at first, I thought maybe bc Im an artist who had strong idealism (and he is musician whom also has a strong idealism) that is why we both so tough and of course that would triggers him to try to control me all the time, while I cant be controlled, and it turns out provoking him in some way?? 🧐
    Im on my spiritual journey which he doesn’t understand, we’re connected in intellectual way, but other than that he’s so amazed and so scared towards me bc im too unpredictable. BUT WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?? I build this way, but I dont wanna both of us uncomfortable bc of this. And yes both of us feels like were so guarded to each other, i really want to help him out if somehow he needs to do shadow work or help him to heal from his past traumas, but this is hard tho...

  • @begaia_
    @begaia_ Před 3 lety +1

    Hi, Jess! Pile 3 ressonates a lot! I'm Hasta sun, Punarvasu Moon and Mula lagna. Saturn exalted in Swati.
    I'm a vedic astrologer in Brazil and work with spirituality, healing in general.
    The person is exact as you describe. Now I moved on because I couldnt help him and make him trust me. He is always stalking and getting their own conclusion based on social media and my work, instead of get closer and know me for who I am.
    He is a high elite cop, an investigator. He uses mental skills to know, instead of his heart. I use mind, heart and soul, because of that I know is his karma, deal with the struggle.
    Your work is amazing! Thank you! 🙏🏼❤

  • @ruxandracoroiu2926
    @ruxandracoroiu2926 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for number 3. Parts of it definitely resonated

  • @charlesianima
    @charlesianima Před 3 lety +1

    Love your bomb ass energy. Possibly my favorite reader. Merry Christmas ya witch ~

  • @releaser9152
    @releaser9152 Před 3 lety

    3🙏🏼🎄
    The astro in this reading is amazing. We’re both fire suns and water mercury, he has the earth pluto while mine is in air, and my rising is in the same sign as his pluto. Many of the points you touched on, including the finer ones, really made sense and explained a lot of seemingly different and unlikely energies. Thank you for such an interesting read!

  • @kaelabdul6429
    @kaelabdul6429 Před 3 lety +7

    So many pile 3 and please count me in 🤣🤣

  • @alethea6781
    @alethea6781 Před 3 lety +1

    #3: resonates. I sense the mother wound in the betrayal he talks about in previous relationships. The astrological placements you talk about are accurate. I have Venus in Revati on its point of exaltation. My Pluto is in my 8th house conjunct his Mars and trine my Venus. He seems to think I want power over him. I’m Aries sun (Ashwini) and moon (Bahrani) so I’m nobody’s fool, but he imagines a lot of controlling energy that’s based on his past. He seems to marvel at my strong Venus energy, both in relation to him and in my work. He doesn’t entirely believe it, as if he’s never seen someone who’s truly devoted to helping others and to a spiritual path.

  • @falcon99k
    @falcon99k Před 3 lety +1

    Pile 2...so on point!! I'm a tarot reader (different CZcams name) had over 300,000 subscribers but, stopped doing online readings. I felt I needed to find myself so, I went back to work in the field I'm educated in and met my twin flame this past summer 2020. The issue is I'm married. My husband (soulmate) is very loving, devoted and caring but, we are lacking intimacy and desire (on his part). Something I deeply feel for my TF now and vs versa. My TF was sad that I left my tarot channel and sees alot of potential for me. I just can't seem to pour from a half empty cup and I need to get right with myself first. Anyways, long story short my TF and I broke off communication last night. Thinking it's for the best. We don't want to hurt anyone. So, that's where things are at. 🥺

  • @nicoledurocher1171
    @nicoledurocher1171 Před 3 lety

    Merry Christmas Jess, you're a light thank you for sharing with us :)

  • @musakui
    @musakui Před 3 lety +2

    Pile #2. When you spoke of cold empathy, that's a term, I believe coined by Sam Vaknin. It's what narcissists and psychopaths (or animals who stalk their pray) among other people who may be autistic or something, like to use to gauge a person's affective emotional state, because most likely, they do not have access to emotions in themselves in that way. In other words, people who use cold empathy are using their brains to ascertain another's emotions because they do not feel, or can't access those emotions in themselves.

    • @jesspucketttarot
      @jesspucketttarot  Před 3 lety +1

      This is too black and white for my liking. I firmly believe we’ve gotta start having more nuanced conversations as a species. Cold empathy is a slang term for cognitive empathy. It’s a tool. And tools can be used for good or bad. They can be used well or used poorly. For instance, many helping professionals are trained in cold empathy aka cognitive empathy that way they can help while maintaining emotional sovereignty. Cognitive empathy, especially when the other forms of empathy are not developed, can absolutely be used to manipulate as well but it’s definitely not a causal relationship as you suggested - that if you see cold empathy you’re looking at a manipulator or a narcissist. And people who use cognitive empathy do not need to be autistic. Definitely not. In fact, most people reading this post have decent cognitive empathy and can and do use it to help themselves and those they care about. In fact, people who are very high in emotional empathy can benefit from developing cognitive empathy as a moat around their emotional empathy because emotional empathy is not always helpful or appropriate. High cognitive empathy alongside high emotional empathy could very well be the defining distinction between a regular and super empath. Allowing the super empath to be less reactive and more responsive and to have greater self sovereignty overall.

    • @musakui
      @musakui Před 3 lety

      @@jesspucketttarot @Jess Puckett - The Chaos Witch I certainly did not use the term casually or even suggest any type of casual relationship between the two. I didn't even mention cognitive therapy at all, just cold empathy. It is a term coined by a very experienced psychologist who has dealt with narcissists and narcissistic abuse. Take up your argument with him, his name is Sam Vaknin. It's his term and his work which has even made it possible for that type of recovery being made for narcissists, as small as it may be. Other professionals have been trained in cold empathy because of the work that Mr Vaknin did. He's the one who invented it. It is definitely not a slang term. It is a tool used by Mr Vaknin in his practice and has now taught it to others to help narcissists deal with life. I am simply a messenger. Take up your view of this term with him, since he is the one who invented it. He is on CZcams, he's very easy to find and has a plethora of extremely informative videos. He is the foremost expert on narcissism. He does use certain terms that he borrowed from other psychologists (not on CZcams), and gave them a new branding but most of the terms he uses he coined himself in order to have a language to describe the phenomena of narcissism which was nearly unknown 25 yrs ago when he first wanted to know about his own narcissism. But, he did invent cold empathy, both, the term and the technique.

  • @suni9625
    @suni9625 Před 3 lety

    pile 3. resonated perfectly! u did great😊

  • @rjhallner1
    @rjhallner1 Před 3 lety +1

    You are an amazing and talented reader. Thank you❤🙏🌟

  • @brightangelz15
    @brightangelz15 Před 3 lety

    I listened the whole way through and it’s so interesting because u know how people say there are three sides to a story... #1 is my perspective, #2 is his, and #3 is the truth. We share the same wound that put us into a stalemate that apparently we’re never going to break out of 😞 But I loved this, thank you Jess!

  • @YvesGeorgeSanchez
    @YvesGeorgeSanchez Před 3 lety +2

    Pile 3. I'm a Virgo Moon so we're off to a great start.

  • @monicw228
    @monicw228 Před 2 lety

    You are always so spot on 👌 thank you for this reading!

  • @moonchild6952
    @moonchild6952 Před 3 lety

    #3 - Yes.. He struggles to control me.. It drives him mad when it doesn't affect me.. But he is a good person.. It is just how he is made..

  • @eos_1111
    @eos_1111 Před 3 lety +3

    yayyyy i love when u post! 😭❤️

  • @elenafetter9690
    @elenafetter9690 Před 3 lety +4

    Lol, 5 hours later! He has been really hurt by previous relationship, and its exhausting...he has a good heart...poor guy

  • @bloodygardens
    @bloodygardens Před 3 lety

    I chose Pile 3. It resonates so much, it's crazy.

  • @ridaikizoglu
    @ridaikizoglu Před 3 lety +1

    yeah, he can wait as much as he wants. I am not gonna beg him to be with me, he needs to fix himself and be certain with what he wants because I hate uncertainity and his mixed signals drove me crazy so I pulled myself away and not gonna go to him. He may come to me but it is hard for me to trust him now. pile number 1, incredibly accurate.

  • @annayong5711
    @annayong5711 Před 3 lety +1

    Pile 3. Wow ... my Pluto is in Virgo. Amazing. Thanks

  • @sara-zi8ly
    @sara-zi8ly Před 3 lety +1

    Love the way you pronounce Vedic astro names

  • @decipher_my_dark
    @decipher_my_dark Před 3 lety +38

    Almost everyone in india has blocked heart chakra 😂😂😂

    • @daniellalino
      @daniellalino Před 3 lety +1

      😂😂😂

    • @pixiedust8545
      @pixiedust8545 Před 3 lety +4

      Bruhhh don't come at me like that lmao 🤣

    • @decipher_my_dark
      @decipher_my_dark Před 3 lety +1

      @@pixiedust8545 but it's true sis. It ain't opening tipp the arrange marriage 💀😂😂

    • @shubhisharma4261
      @shubhisharma4261 Před 2 lety +1

      You know everyone in India???

    • @decipher_my_dark
      @decipher_my_dark Před 2 lety

      @@shubhisharma4261 it's a joke sis....about not allowed to have feelings for someone till marriage. And I'm talking about majority

  • @therealdrea
    @therealdrea Před 3 lety

    Pile 3 here, and yessssss this resonated as always Thank you! And my Pluto is in Libra 🤣😩😫🥰♥️🙏🏽

  • @ked7426
    @ked7426 Před 3 lety +1

    Strangely 1 did resonate, but I did have to listen a bit, nearly stopped. Thank you!🥰❤🤗

  • @queentanin7753
    @queentanin7753 Před 7 dny

    Your intonation is amazing I can't believe how much you can connect to us and bring messages thank you💖

  • @ednadayrit9563
    @ednadayrit9563 Před 3 lety +1

    #1 ..im a capricorn and he's a taurus..i think you're reading for us maam,i let him pick the pile..im here in saudi he's back in the Philippines..he's waiting for me to come home..and yes we met in my work,ur so intuitive maam,more power to you!

  • @antoniofarinaccio541
    @antoniofarinaccio541 Před 3 lety +1

    Pile 1. The feeling is reciprocal, but I back up because merry I do feel the connection and attraction. I had to move not to be a second choice.

  • @LauraS_1194
    @LauraS_1194 Před 3 lety

    Drawn to pile#2
    Yes the gist definitely resonated... it sounds like 2 people and oddly my intereraction w/the both of them (different times of course) as neither 1 knows who the other is and both are neither in my life (as of me writing this now).
    Ty for these messages and merry xmas!🎄❤💚🤗

  • @wyrdtarot
    @wyrdtarot Před 3 lety

    So informative and especially regarding the Vedic astrology which I know nothing about but love the way all those words sound! It’s like listening to rap In French. Compelling! Love and appreciate your style so much 🙏😘

  • @aidakhairuddin3680
    @aidakhairuddin3680 Před 3 lety

    Pile 3. I have pluto in Libra. He is a Virgo sun with Aries moon. He did saw me as beautiful, spiritual & intelligent. Strong magnetic attraction.

  • @Ageofasa
    @Ageofasa Před 3 lety +1

    Also for p2 the Gemini and fire cards that is in this reading is also p2 in the what they like most about you video, interesting