When Melanise, my second ex girlfriend was in jail, she would write me letters telling me how "she found God when placed in solitary confinement with a bad toothache, etc" and when she would talk with me on the phone from jail, the second year we were "dating", then came the "F bombs" and other curse words and foul language, etc, and it's not like I haven't heard all those words before, but not coming from her. In the 32 years I had known her, I never before heard her speak like that. Also years ago I remember her as a sweet person, who spoke eloquently, and bitterly honest. That's the person I fell in love with back then. Then the lies started six years ago, and I could begin to see she wasn't the same person I knew way back then. Maybe it was a good thing that God made me appear "unacceptable " to her, so she did let me go, and cut off all communication with me. However, I wish God would have done that some $2800.00 earlier, lol!
@@olympics1234567 my first ex took tens of thousands of dollars and three cars, giving everything I had to enable and support her criminal grandson. At the end of ten years, I came out of that homeless, penniless and having my head split open like a watermelon over $15 in gas that I used, because the grandson needed it to go out and sell methamphetamine. Yes. I was the one making the car payments on that vehicle too. In the hospital, fighting for my life, I made the decision to not go back. That was the best decision I ever made.
@@CarmenPerez-kz6rw no. I have been taken advantage by narcs my whole life. Now I'm at peace without any need for a further relationship. Also, who are YOU to judge me? I've struggled with disability my whole life, being used as a "stepping stone" by women the past 40 years, since turning 18, until someone "better" came along. I've been judged unworthy by other so called Christians my whole life, thrown out of churches because I wasn't rich, and I did the best I could in life, with the limited resources I had. I know and fully understand now that it was NEVER in God's will for me to have had a normal relationship, because despite all the work I've put in, faith, belief, and everything else, love has been nothing but a struggle, a loss, and in one case, I had my head bashed in nearly costing me my life, after supporting my first ex for ten years, which culminated in my head being split open by her adult grandson, over $15 I used in gasoline in the vehicle I was making all the payments on. I've come to finally realize I don't need another person to come into my life, disturbing my peace, bringing me problems and trauma and drama. I don't need any more reason for grief and pain. I'm good alone now. I learned my lesson well. I don't need a relationship with anyone other than God.
Hi Dave, thanks for another Spirit-filled video! I agree that living like a carnal christian opens us up for demonic influence. We cannot be possessed, because we belong to Jesus, but we can definitely be influenced by demons. Let's armor up!
Thank you for sharing your testimony, it mirrors my own and I'm sure many others listening. It took me 30 years of wandering, chastisement, suffering and trials to reach the same place. And as hard as it all was the fact that Christ Loved me enough to put me through it all to save a wretch like me and keep me from being lost awes me and fills me with gratitude and thankfulness now that I'm awake!
Beauty over wisdom to fit in with their style, Vanity’s a business built to fleece the Unique. Her Silicon and stars collided and all the rest fell in line. Just as beautiful as she was it was so Pitiful what you were. Should of saw this coming all along. Visually she was Stimulating to anyone’s eyes and her Cinderella syndrome full of lies. Her insecurities were concealed by her Pride, but she’s got something soon Her ego will kill what’s left inside. She was everything “ so typical” but maybe she’s alone for a reason and she was the reason. Have a great day Dave and thank you for the video brotha. Great work. Thank you GOD 🙏🏻
Longtime listener. Yes! Your channel led me to brief therapy and that very dame question..all yes, and resulted in me becoming born again in Jesus Christ of Nazareth! Halleluyah thank you Dave❤️🙏❤️
THANKYOU for more of your Godly wisdom Dave! Yes I have a “secret place” with my sweet Lord! I give HIM everything now! Singing drunken karaoke with some old narc friends lost its appeal! I’m looking forward to singing for JESUS with the gifts HE gave me! No more chasing the ex narc; God has a great plan for my life! Shine Jesus Shine!
And you’re right when I was going through that phase, I had to listen to Christian music because even through music I wanted to act out! The information you’re dispelling today is sacred! Those who have been through it will understand! You were doing God’s work thank you
Brother. All of your videos are great for the survivors of narcissism and I’ve been helped by many of them. BUT this one is the best you’ve done, a blessing to anybody that hears it. Resist the devil and he will flee! All glory belongs to GOD!! Blessings in CHRIST JESUS to you and all who listen to your channel. You’re in my prayers brother
Brother Dave , bringing the trUth unto the kingdom of God, a witness for His children, to discern all things through the Holy Spirit, to recognize any and all of the spirits here in this realm, as it is necessary for survival in freedom from any and all Unrighteous Dominion DEMONstrated . . . I remember some of your comments to my comments years ago when I was expounding this trUth along with you as your second witness brother . . . Betrayal is Brutal because ones experience in death in ones heart without having to die . . . Thank you Dave, for speaking the trUth boldly about how real the DEMONS and their Devices from alcohols to cell phones and computers . . . Peace, ~DWD~
I look forward to these Friday videos!!! I feel like I've been to church!! So cool!!! I now know that ex narc had a ton of demons!! For 3 yrs so did I! I had accepted Jesus many years before!! God totally brought me out if it!!! 3 yrs post narc, no contact. Bless u Dave!!!! Thank u!!!!
I completely agree to everything you said. I had a metalcore band way before I met my ex-narc, I was convinced that I was doing the right thing because we were playing christian metalcore songs from band The Devil Wears Prada but eventually we didn't come along because they all wanted to stay underground like the rest. Then I met my ex-narc who was also listening to heavy metal, we enjoyed a lot, drank a lot, etc. but the ending was still the same. She didn't believe in God and I have strayed from the path, she made me hate my own family and good friends. After she left, I was in complete ruin, my finances, my relationships. Your channel saved me, I am not yet the best version of myself but I can definitely tell that I am healing. Thank you, Dave.
Thank you Dave for these revelations and for staying real about it. This world is not my home, more now than ever. Post narc relationships I’m forced to come face to face with a lot and I wouldn’t trade all the depths of pain for the close relationship I now have with Jesus and my Heavenly Father. Gotta say tho - I’m still a wine & 80’s rock & roll girl ….bc that’s just who I am ! (I’m able to keep it in check 😉). Love you with the love of Christ Brother ! ♥️🙏🏻🥂🎶
Wow, Dave such a lightning information actually, I am at Mak right after I received the sacrament as an adult and I met him actually through the church!!!! Through a very reputable person might I add my teacher. And just like you said when those weaknesses are there and somebody stop paying attention to you then you start up your old behavior and let Demon back in again! They get into any means necessary and I am a former alcoholic. Should I say recovering alcoholic 29 years sober. So we got him through infidelity when I became neglected in my situation! I’m not gonna call it a marriage because this man was going to prostitute at least since 2010 and we have three children and he brought me home STDs. Now I’m celibate and grateful just to have peace! ✌️ I tell everybody that I got through my situation through the grace of God because this man was literally trying to kill me! God is good and if it wasn’t him, I wouldn’t be on the planet right now that’s all I have to say he got me through the darkest dark; through the valley of death!!!!! and in the end, I know that I want to go home to God so any of these things that have been sacrificed or Woolworth it
You’re so right. Demons are real. The Spiritual world is as real as our world( what we can see, with our eyes). The Spirit world is as real as it can be. The Enemy ( Satan), Demons, and countless lot’s of Angels to. Good Angels. God angels, All around us. Seen it to, with own eyes. (Both).And yes, if you’re a Christian, you are target nr one, on the enemies list. True and for the rest of our lives. . Spiritual battle, and warfare. Good agains’t evil. devil prowing round like a roaring Lion, seeking who’m he can devier. Special now, he’s running wild, cos he, knows Jesus is coming back, soon now. Thanks for telling Dave, and thank for be that brave also. still not able quitting smoking yet. Bother me. And are using more description medication, than necessary, sometimes. Glad if somebody will pray for me. Guess Nicotin is a stronghold. Not able breaking it alone. Together we are stronger. And need each other as brothers and sisters, right, sometimes. In Unity. Thanks Dave. All Glory be to God. Amen. And God bless you. 🙏🙋🏻♀️🌿
Dave missed your videos during whatever hiatus you experienced your speeches truly help in the harbored emotions we journey through I'm really at a point you mentioned the greatest part of your sermon the slow to forgive~ I'm sitting in an energy of how do we forgive ourselves for the trespassings of another ! There is a supreme account where tresspasses are so vulgar cruel unbelievably unrighteous that sometimes it seems like purposeful to give your fellow compadres a reflection of what that betrayal and deception indecency meant to oneself! Like the ocean breathe salty though those should allow the fresh water to really smack themselves in the face¡! Y we gotten be in essence gotta drop sodium eyeodin cause another brainiac had a fresh lense idea that they've gotten away with doesn't enliven the fruit we have responsibility cause of so to speak we ruin ones fruit cause another's gone spoiled/rotten! The spirit mind body and soul is an awful ruin and waste!! Highest gratitude to your channel and heaven speed friend be well!
Now that I have drawn near to God, I am less codependent on man and more God dependent. There was a time when I felt like I had to have a man in my life. but when I begin to read the word and to lean into God, I have less desire to have a man. In fact I don’t have that desire I don’t have to have a man in my life anymore. I have placed my faith in God and have more peace and joy as a result. I’m not against having a relationship. the way I feel about it now is that it’s just the frosting and a bonus. It’s not the whole cake.
It was either demons, or the fact that I prayed DECADES for what I wanted most, and never got! It sort of soured me on the Christian lifestyle. It (may) appear that God treats some of the best people the worst. 🙄
Pray to not want. The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. For our own good. Rejection is God's protection. And the servant is not above his master (servants should understand they are to expect much pain, as Christ did). "Christian lifestyle" = respectfully, you have much to learn. It is not a "lifestyle". It is real. Or it is not real. It isn't a fad or make-up you put on.
It's just that there's been A LOT more isolation and suffering involved in the Christian life than I had bargained for. Frankly, I'm sick and tired of it.
Addiction does NOT mean one is going to hell!!!!!! GOD KNOWS OUR PAIN..he understands the torment so addiction to anything does not mean one one is going to hell!!!! That damn genetic gene is not a ticket to hell!!!!!!!
Please explain to me humor me..why and why a narcassitic dad can make a child so miserable and perplexed that they take their own life regardless of being a christian? I'm asking honestly and need answers
Recently ive been following soul traps....matrix and various other things. We use terminology I.e. demons. But if you consider it to be a realm of the none physical that AI has entered into running parrellell with souls It's either a contributory factor...or that.
dave this is so true about relationships they go good at the stard then the demons begain to brake it us . we are chosen ones our path is for single hood in this world. you except this fate and be comatablewith the path of a true chosen one working for jesus love message dave thanks lawanda miriam lawanda miriam arizona
When Melanise, my second ex girlfriend was in jail, she would write me letters telling me how "she found God when placed in solitary confinement with a bad toothache, etc" and when she would talk with me on the phone from jail, the second year we were "dating", then came the "F bombs" and other curse words and foul language, etc, and it's not like I haven't heard all those words before, but not coming from her. In the 32 years I had known her, I never before heard her speak like that. Also years ago I remember her as a sweet person, who spoke eloquently, and bitterly honest. That's the person I fell in love with back then. Then the lies started six years ago, and I could begin to see she wasn't the same person I knew way back then. Maybe it was a good thing that God made me appear "unacceptable " to her, so she did let me go, and cut off all communication with me. However, I wish God would have done that some $2800.00 earlier, lol!
@@michaelmorgan7893 I hear you!
Only 2800.00 dollars? You got off easy.
@@olympics1234567 my first ex took tens of thousands of dollars and three cars, giving everything I had to enable and support her criminal grandson. At the end of ten years, I came out of that homeless, penniless and having my head split open like a watermelon over $15 in gas that I used, because the grandson needed it to go out and sell methamphetamine.
Yes. I was the one making the car payments on that vehicle too. In the hospital, fighting for my life, I made the decision to not go back.
That was the best decision I ever made.
Sounds like you were the Narc to me. 😮
@@CarmenPerez-kz6rw no. I have been taken advantage by narcs my whole life. Now I'm at peace without any need for a further relationship.
Also, who are YOU to judge me? I've struggled with disability my whole life, being used as a "stepping stone" by women the past 40 years, since turning 18, until someone "better" came along.
I've been judged unworthy by other so called Christians my whole life, thrown out of churches because I wasn't rich, and I did the best I could in life, with the limited resources I had.
I know and fully understand now that it was NEVER in God's will for me to have had a normal relationship, because despite all the work I've put in, faith, belief, and everything else, love has been nothing but a struggle, a loss, and in one case, I had my head bashed in nearly costing me my life, after supporting my first ex for ten years, which culminated in my head being split open by her adult grandson, over $15 I used in gasoline in the vehicle I was making all the payments on.
I've come to finally realize I don't need another person to come into my life, disturbing my peace, bringing me problems and trauma and drama. I don't need any more reason for grief and pain.
I'm good alone now. I learned my lesson well. I don't need a relationship with anyone other than God.
Loyal listener here Dave. Thank god for your channel. Jesus is the only way.
Hi Dave, thanks for another Spirit-filled video! I agree that living like a carnal christian opens us up for demonic influence. We cannot be possessed, because we belong to Jesus, but we can definitely be influenced by demons.
Let's armor up!
Thank you for sharing your testimony, it mirrors my own and I'm sure many others listening. It took me 30 years of wandering, chastisement, suffering
and trials to reach the same place. And as hard as it all was the fact that Christ Loved me enough to put me through it all to save a wretch like me and keep me from being lost awes me and fills me with gratitude and thankfulness now that I'm awake!
Beauty over wisdom to fit in with their style, Vanity’s a business built to fleece the Unique. Her Silicon and stars collided and all the rest fell in line.
Just as beautiful as she was it was so Pitiful what you were. Should of saw this coming all along. Visually she was Stimulating to anyone’s eyes and her Cinderella syndrome full of lies.
Her insecurities were concealed by her Pride, but she’s got something soon Her ego will kill what’s left inside. She was everything “ so typical” but maybe she’s alone for a reason and she was the reason.
Have a great day Dave and thank you for the video brotha. Great work. Thank you GOD 🙏🏻
Longtime listener. Yes! Your channel led me to brief therapy and that very dame question..all yes, and resulted in me becoming born again in Jesus Christ of Nazareth! Halleluyah thank you Dave❤️🙏❤️
You Saved
My Life
!!!!!!!
Texas Appreciate.
Dave please do what you do!
Waiting for you every Friday.
THANKYOU for more of your Godly wisdom Dave!
Yes I have a “secret place” with my sweet Lord!
I give HIM everything now!
Singing drunken karaoke with some old narc friends lost its appeal!
I’m looking forward to singing for JESUS with the gifts HE gave me!
No more chasing the ex narc; God has a great plan for my life!
Shine Jesus Shine!
Yes Dave the only way to travel is with HONESTY to and with ONES SELF THROUGHOUT IT ALL !
And you’re right when I was going through that phase, I had to listen to Christian music because even through music I wanted to act out! The information you’re dispelling today is sacred! Those who have been through it will understand! You were doing God’s work thank you
Newer listener! God's timing with your focus is a miracle for me.
God's blessings to you and your's!
Brother. All of your videos are great for the survivors of narcissism and I’ve been helped by many of them. BUT
this one is the best you’ve done, a blessing to anybody that hears it.
Resist the devil and he will flee!
All glory belongs to GOD!!
Blessings in CHRIST JESUS to you and all who listen to your channel.
You’re in my prayers brother
Absolutely 💯
Brother Dave , bringing the trUth unto the kingdom of God, a witness for His children, to discern all things through the Holy Spirit, to recognize any and all of the spirits here in this realm, as it is necessary for survival in freedom from any and all Unrighteous Dominion DEMONstrated . . .
I remember some of your comments to my comments years ago when I was expounding this trUth along with you as your second witness brother . . .
Betrayal is Brutal because ones experience in death in ones heart without having to die . . .
Thank you Dave, for speaking the trUth boldly about how real the DEMONS and their Devices from alcohols to cell phones and computers . . .
Peace,
~DWD~
Thanks, Dave.
I look forward to these Friday videos!!! I feel like I've been to church!! So cool!!! I now know that ex narc had a ton of demons!! For 3 yrs so did I! I had accepted Jesus many years before!! God totally brought me out if it!!! 3 yrs post narc, no contact. Bless u Dave!!!! Thank u!!!!
I completely agree to everything you said. I had a metalcore band way before I met my ex-narc, I was convinced that I was doing the right thing because we were playing christian metalcore songs from band The Devil Wears Prada but eventually we didn't come along because they all wanted to stay underground like the rest. Then I met my ex-narc who was also listening to heavy metal, we enjoyed a lot, drank a lot, etc. but the ending was still the same. She didn't believe in God and I have strayed from the path, she made me hate my own family and good friends. After she left, I was in complete ruin, my finances, my relationships. Your channel saved me, I am not yet the best version of myself but I can definitely tell that I am healing. Thank you, Dave.
God has you to me , thanks for letting God use you
They are everywhere. 😢
Great message. Totally relatable.
I needed to hear this. Thank you@Dave 🙏
Sending love to you brother from Vancouver Island….❤️🐳🏖️
Dave this was right on time, I needed to hear this in a major way! God bless you, thank you. Definitely because of God.
So true brother! Great video.
Great presence Dave! Your on fire! I mean that in a Spirit way.Thank you for story as well, that really connected with me.
Real talk. Thank God for you! This channel has helped me so much
Thank you Dave, I felt the spirit about 10 seconds into this video and you hadn't even got into it yet!
Stephen
Thank you Dave for these revelations and for staying real about it. This world is not my home, more now than ever. Post narc relationships I’m forced to come face to face with a lot and I wouldn’t trade all the depths of pain for the close relationship I now have with Jesus and my Heavenly Father. Gotta say tho - I’m still a wine & 80’s rock & roll girl ….bc that’s just who I am ! (I’m able to keep it in check 😉). Love you with the love of Christ Brother ! ♥️🙏🏻🥂🎶
Awesome Dave!
Purgation. Illumination. Unification.
Good night everyone great weekend everyone 😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wow, Dave such a lightning information actually, I am at Mak right after I received the sacrament as an adult and I met him actually through the church!!!! Through a very reputable person might I add my teacher. And just like you said when those weaknesses are there and somebody stop paying attention to you then you start up your old behavior and let Demon back in again! They get into any means necessary and I am a former alcoholic. Should I say recovering alcoholic 29 years sober. So we got him through infidelity when I became neglected in my situation! I’m not gonna call it a marriage because this man was going to prostitute at least since 2010 and we have three children and he brought me home STDs. Now I’m celibate and grateful just to have peace! ✌️ I tell everybody that I got through my situation through the grace of God because this man was literally trying to kill me! God is good and if it wasn’t him, I wouldn’t be on the planet right now that’s all I have to say he got me through the darkest dark; through the valley of death!!!!! and in the end, I know that I want to go home to God so any of these things that have been sacrificed or Woolworth it
We are not ignorant of satan's devices
Good evening Dave. Have a great weekend.
You’re so right. Demons are real. The Spiritual world is as real as our world( what we can see, with our eyes). The Spirit world is as real as it can be. The Enemy ( Satan), Demons, and countless lot’s of Angels to. Good Angels. God angels, All around us. Seen it to, with own eyes. (Both).And yes, if you’re a Christian, you are target nr one, on the enemies list. True and for the rest of our lives. . Spiritual battle, and warfare. Good agains’t evil. devil prowing round like a roaring Lion, seeking who’m he can devier. Special now, he’s running wild, cos he, knows Jesus is coming back, soon now. Thanks for telling Dave, and thank for be that brave also. still not able quitting smoking yet. Bother me. And are using more description medication, than necessary, sometimes. Glad if somebody will pray for me. Guess Nicotin is a stronghold. Not able breaking it alone. Together we are stronger. And need each other as brothers and sisters, right, sometimes. In Unity. Thanks Dave. All Glory be to God. Amen. And God bless you. 🙏🙋🏻♀️🌿
Dave missed your videos during whatever hiatus you experienced your speeches truly help in the harbored emotions we journey through I'm really at a point you mentioned the greatest part of your sermon the slow to forgive~ I'm sitting in an energy of how do we forgive ourselves for the trespassings of another ! There is a supreme account where tresspasses are so vulgar cruel unbelievably unrighteous that sometimes it seems like purposeful to give your fellow compadres a reflection of what that betrayal and deception indecency meant to oneself! Like the ocean breathe salty though those should allow the fresh water to really smack themselves in the face¡! Y we gotten be in essence gotta drop sodium eyeodin cause another brainiac had a fresh lense idea that they've gotten away with doesn't enliven the fruit we have responsibility cause of so to speak we ruin ones fruit cause another's gone spoiled/rotten! The spirit mind body and soul is an awful ruin and waste!! Highest gratitude to your channel and heaven speed friend be well!
Thank you 🙏
Now that I have drawn near to God, I am less codependent on man and more God dependent. There was a time when I felt like I had to have a man in my life. but when I begin to read the word and to lean into God, I have less desire to have a man. In fact I don’t have that desire I don’t have to have a man in my life anymore. I have placed my faith in God and have more peace and joy as a result. I’m not against having a relationship. the way I feel about it now is that it’s just the frosting and a bonus. It’s not the whole cake.
It was either demons, or the fact that I prayed DECADES for what I wanted most, and never got! It sort of soured me on the Christian lifestyle. It (may) appear that God treats some of the best people the worst. 🙄
Pray to not want. The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. For our own good. Rejection is God's protection. And the servant is not above his master (servants should understand they are to expect much pain, as Christ did). "Christian lifestyle" = respectfully, you have much to learn. It is not a "lifestyle". It is real. Or it is not real. It isn't a fad or make-up you put on.
It's just that there's been A LOT more isolation and suffering involved in the Christian life than I had bargained for. Frankly, I'm sick and tired of it.
@@Brenda-t5rtell God that you are upset. Persevering and love , he listens
Amen
Addiction does NOT mean one is going to hell!!!!!! GOD KNOWS OUR PAIN..he understands the torment so addiction to anything does not mean one one is going to hell!!!! That damn genetic gene is not a ticket to hell!!!!!!!
Please explain to me humor me..why and why a narcassitic dad can make a child so miserable and perplexed that they take their own life regardless of being a christian? I'm asking honestly and need answers
💯
Recently ive been following soul traps....matrix and various other things.
We use terminology I.e. demons. But if you consider it to be a realm of the none physical that AI has entered into running parrellell with souls
It's either a contributory factor...or that.
U and Julie got married?
A sinful life is a taste of hell. Hell is an absence of God. God didn’t turn from you. The opposite is true.
What do you mean by they took everything????? What is everything to you??
dave this is so true about relationships they go good at the stard then the demons begain to brake it us . we are chosen ones our path is for single hood in this world. you except this fate and be comatablewith the path of a true chosen one working for jesus love message dave thanks lawanda miriam lawanda miriam arizona
Thank you 👍