Cuddlist Talks: What If You Develop Feelings for Your Cuddlist?

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 23. 03. 2017
  • Hello! I am Janet Trevino, a Platonic Touch and Cuddling Specialist. I am devoted to exposing and creating a brave space for one of society's largest unspoken and unmet needs: platonic touch. When not connecting one-on-one with clients, I advocate for normalizing touch in our society through videos, creating and facilitating workshops, and speaking engagements. See below for all of the ways I can connect with YOU!
    Ways to Connect with Janet:
    Support Janet’s Mission!
    Did this video add value to your life? If you appreciate Janet and want to enable her to create more content while also unlocking exclusive rewards for yourself
    visit / janettrevino
    Schedule a Touch Session
    Would you like to schedule a one-on-one touch session with Janet?
    visit www.janettrevino.com/request
    Information for Healthcare Providers
    Are you a counselor or other healthcare professional and would like to discuss how Janet’s work can benefit your clients or patients?
    visit www.retouchtherapy.com, or email Janet directly at janet@retouchtherapy.com
    Information for Other Touch Practitioners
    Janet loves to collaborate! If you’re a fellow touch, cuddling, or bodyworker practitioner and would like to consult with Janet about the many facets of the industry
    visit www.touchismedicine.com or email Janet directly at janet@touchismedicine.com
    Contact Information
    Email (preferred) janet@touchismedicine.com
    Phone (text only) 210-901-9976
    Facebook janettrevino210
    Instagram touchismedicine

Komentáře • 69

  • @kidphillyorg
    @kidphillyorg Před 5 lety +5

    First off, I never thought this was a profession until I heard about it a few days ago. Then I started watching videos. But then through watching your videos it actually caused for me to ask myself deeper questions then just the immediate instant gratification of physical touch. What turned on a light for me is when you say, "What is your intention?". That's a "why" do you desire this, question. Strong and extremely powerful. Then how open you are about uncomfortable topics, truly is awesome!!! The ability to put the uncomfortable on the table and address it head on is absolutely amazing!
    I'm at a place right now where I'm trying to unpack and understand my past which includes my military service. I thought maybe even going to a session would just help "fix" things. But great videos like this do so much more for me and help me further understand not only my intention but address feelings and emotions I haven't identified in myself.
    You have been such a huge blessing in such a short amount of time from states away. (I'm in Philadelphia PA). This video and others you've posted are helping me potentially communicate with my wife and others about the space I currently am in at the same time of respecting theirs.
    I am subscribing to this channel now and I hope to pass on this blessing to other people. I'm happy you have the courage to have and to share this very unique profession, especially on CZcams. I have a different perspective now. Thank you!!!

  • @cuddlingcoachingwithkyle3673

    Janet you are so sweet!! I love these videos. So helpful, inspiring, and I love how you bring your heart and soul to them! :)

  • @samtheinvincible
    @samtheinvincible Před 2 lety

    Janet Trevino you rock! I am not a cuddler but you make me want to try it.

  • @jakelerma7115
    @jakelerma7115 Před 6 lety +5

    You are a living Goddess/Angel 😍🌞
    The soul behind those eyes is awake and compassionate..

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 6 lety +1

      +Jake Lerma thank you for touching my heart w your words

  • @christopherbarber9351
    @christopherbarber9351 Před 2 lety

    excellent video, overview of this topic

  • @knots1975
    @knots1975 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for the detailed information. Wonderful to know all this.. Pune, India

  • @itzwanimereacts
    @itzwanimereacts Před 3 lety

    Ooh Imma HAVE to make an appointment, TX gang

  • @andywest6250
    @andywest6250 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @stevo6891
    @stevo6891 Před 3 lety

    If you ever come to Pittsburgh PA please let me know

  • @troyleos
    @troyleos Před rokem

    So beautiful

  • @katfancey1113
    @katfancey1113 Před 6 lety +4

    It's pretty obvious how this happens. Lonely guy hires a cuddler he finds very attractive. (Huge mistake!) Then, she happens to have a shining personality....Bam!

  • @michaelruggles7500
    @michaelruggles7500 Před 4 lety +1

    What a beautiful woman.

  • @humanitynow1565
    @humanitynow1565 Před 6 lety +20

    You are very beautiful , it's not weird that your clients fall in love

  • @ivonnevadi8845
    @ivonnevadi8845 Před 6 lety +4

    This is amazing, I’ve never heard of this...how did you get into this field? How did you train yourself? Have you always been good at cuddling and touch like a inborn gift?? Don’t you feel weird when bikini areas consequently touch as a women?
    I have to tell you I admire and love your work! I wish I could do it but I have DD’s lol it will always get in the way!😋

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 6 lety +2

      +Ivonne Vadi hi Ivonne!! Would you like a video on these questions? :) and yes... DD’s is a real thing to consider. Knowing your body & boundaries are essential!

    • @ivonnevadi8845
      @ivonnevadi8845 Před 6 lety

      Janet Trevino Janet yes I would love to know for future knowledge in studio to become a therapist and I wonder if this can be a real field to consider in therapy. About the DD’s I think I’m better off doing talking to help out lol, thanks for replying!!😊

  • @tolerance2480
    @tolerance2480 Před 6 lety +6

    I hug my pillow, and feel so beautiful! I feel like a little boy again, when I hug my pillow, thinking about kind women! But I still would like to cuddle with a person however! I'm 46 years old, and very ugly, mentally ill, disabled. I wish this kind lady would be my Mother! I admit, I have had sexual feelings in the past, but cuddling to me, is so innocent! I love this lady! I can't stop crying!

    • @tolerance2480
      @tolerance2480 Před 6 lety +2

      When I'm around beautiful, kind, gentle women, my voice becomes higher pitched, like a child's voice, or gay guy's voice, or woman's voice!

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 5 lety +6

      Your comment ended up in spam. I’m happy I found it. I wish you were near by. I could hold you. Be your mommy. Love you.

  • @lourdesramos9462
    @lourdesramos9462 Před rokem

    Hello to you all, can you or any tell me if you have to have a license to b a cuddler

  • @GarryBurgess
    @GarryBurgess Před 7 lety +2

    I'm just going to make a point of saying to all the girls that I meet right off the bat to tell them, "hold me tight baby". It's convenient, I get the chemicals, and I'm good with lots of women having feelings for me and have all those great connections. I like the whole idea.

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 7 lety +1

      asking can be the hardest part & you seem to have a way down. :D

    • @ivonnevadi8845
      @ivonnevadi8845 Před 6 lety

      Garry Burgess but how do you make this thing not sexual if the other person doesn’t respect those non sexual boundaries? I think it just takes training and practice to separate the thought of tough with sexuality

  • @m83kid
    @m83kid Před 6 lety

    How can I schedule an appointment?

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 6 lety

      +Michael Latimore fill out a request here: janettrevino.com/request
      Or text me. Lol. Let’s talk!
      210 901 9976

  • @TheShockwave44
    @TheShockwave44 Před rokem

    4:00 This is why I don't think this works, in the long run anyway. Denying your own emotions is counterproductive. Like you shouldn't feel bad after a cuddle session because you miss the person. This is the issue with paying for cuddles. Now if two people consented to cuddling with no money exchanged, they can cuddle for as long as they want and as many times as they want. For me, I'd need like 3 sessions a week that are between 4-8 hours but I also need to eat. The other thing is if you consent without money, then you know they genuinely want to be with you, which actually adds to the comfort of cuddling. I want to cuddle someone who wants to be there for me rather than because I paid them.

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před rokem

      That sounds like a relationship! I spent about that amount of time with my partners. They don’t pay me. But they give to me in other ways.

  • @samuelyeti1818
    @samuelyeti1818 Před 6 lety

    Hey i live in San Antonio 😊

  • @DJcyberslash
    @DJcyberslash Před 4 měsíci

    You know I was really considering cuddling professionals, but my main concern was how it would feel afterwards. Would it feel transactional? When I look at it with my human emotion I feel it would be disappointing to know the person doesn't feel anything for me. I'm big on me and my partners shared experience as I'm a very giving person.
    When I look at it from another side it's feels like pay beautiful women for cuddling? Not bad.
    So it's really conflicting to be honest. Sad society is lacking in basic touch access for so many. I just don't see how the people who truly truly need the service wouldn't at least develop some kind of feelings. Oh well.
    Please don't crucify me any of you pro cuddlers like the animals over on CC did for asking about this.

  • @Dayglodaydreams
    @Dayglodaydreams Před 3 lety

    I have autism. I don't know if I can find a relationship. Right now, I'm too bad at consent stuff. I don't think I'm ready for one.

  • @rondavis9309
    @rondavis9309 Před 3 lety

    IF A BLONDE AND A BRUNETTE JUMPED OFF A BUILDING AT THE EXACT SAME TIME WHICH ONE WOULD LAND FIRST? THE BRUNETTE.THE BLONDE WOULD HAVE TO STOP FOR DIRECTIONS.

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 3 lety +1

      I’m not sure how that’s relevant. Asking for directions is a special skill these days.

  • @zdravkomomci7570
    @zdravkomomci7570 Před 4 lety +1

    If he was attractive enough and rich you would say YES. I haven't met a woman who can say no to that

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 4 lety

      Lol!!! My clients don’t truly know me nor me them

  • @Rumpshaker92
    @Rumpshaker92 Před 5 lety

    Hey again, Do you get charged for traveling

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 5 lety

      Yes. And it all depends on how far from me & if I’m already traveling. ;)

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 5 lety +1

      Where are you?

    • @Rumpshaker92
      @Rumpshaker92 Před 5 lety

      Hi @@JanetTrevino, I'm living in the state of virginia... How many hours is the drive from san antonio texas to ashland virginia

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 5 lety

      I’ll be in DC next month. ;)
      And *maybe* again in april.
      In July I’ll be in West Virginia.
      And you could also organize w me your own trip w me. :)

    • @Rumpshaker92
      @Rumpshaker92 Před 5 lety

      @@JanetTrevino Hey, How about I wait til you get in, Then we can figure something out

  • @jeremydavis3919
    @jeremydavis3919 Před 5 lety

    Janet,
    Do you know sign language?

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 5 lety

      I wish!! I’ve always wanted to learn.

    • @jeremydavis3919
      @jeremydavis3919 Před 5 lety

      @@JanetTrevino ,
      I love to teach people how to sign 😄

    • @jeremydavis3919
      @jeremydavis3919 Před 5 lety

      @@JanetTrevino ,
      I love to teach people how to sign 😄

    • @jeremydavis3919
      @jeremydavis3919 Před 5 lety

      Janet,
      I would like to come to San Antonio to meet you in person for cuddling sessions in April 😄

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 5 lety

      Let’s!!

  • @madissiimkull
    @madissiimkull Před 6 lety +2

    it is sad that this service and cuddle dates are given necessary. I believe that cuddle courses for young couples are good idea that might save a lot of families

    • @JanetTrevino
      @JanetTrevino  Před 6 lety

      People’s relationships with touch and each other changes over a course of a lifetime. Ideally all couples would see a third-party to support them in the changes of life.

  • @jay-aradjialam2231
    @jay-aradjialam2231 Před 5 lety +1

    try a filipino cuddlers maam😊😊

  • @SkinnyEMedia
    @SkinnyEMedia Před rokem

    I would be nervous if I met a cuddler or massage therapist that looked like her. Her skin looks amazing and smooth, beautiful eyes and hair and I would accidentally find it sexy not therapeutic. Sorry! I've never met women on a romantic or spiritual level in ages.