Speaking of predators...let's talk about Drake and teenagers

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  • @ForHarriet619
    @ForHarriet619  Před 5 lety +45

    Watch the bonus video on progressive women and gender roles on Patreon. Patreon.com/ForHarriet

    • @bobbym1799
      @bobbym1799 Před 5 lety

      So you straight giving him a pass? Just cause he yo favorite. I mean so far i see your videos as good but whenit Congress to your favorites you give them a pass where you wouldn't give anyone else ding the same an inch.

  • @tenaciousmaytaurus2
    @tenaciousmaytaurus2 Před 5 lety +1976

    Drake reminds me of that lame college dude that still talks to high school girls because the girls his age knows he whack and the high schools thinks he’s cool because he’s older.. I think it comes from insecurity and a desire of being wanted to stroke the male ego

    • @laninvember3408
      @laninvember3408 Před 5 lety +13

      Your spot on

    • @jklax
      @jklax Před 5 lety +3

      He's was on a TV show in the early 2000's when he was a kid and was popular though so.

    • @jklax
      @jklax Před 5 lety +6

      ​@@brahmabkitty03
      Creepy and unethical? Yeah, but not illegal. I believe this took place in Colorado where the age of consent is 17. He was 23 and stupid, which of course doesn't excuse it completely.
      And I was mainly addressing the original post. He was already popular on TV in his early teens and was surrounded by girls so I don't think he needs his ego stroked like that. That's just the nature of it when women fawn over you.

    • @jklax
      @jklax Před 5 lety +4

      @@brahmabkitty03Yes creepy and unethical, but the law is the law! He wasn't some 30 something groping a minor. People make questionable choices in their 20's. I'm not even a fan of his. Just looking at it objectively.
      Actually he was rapping on Degrassi sometimes. I use to watch it and he did participate in a cast reunion later on too.

    • @jklax
      @jklax Před 5 lety

      @@brahmabkitty03 So then you know he rapped on the show. Good. Not sure why you would say he didn't promote himself or why its not relevant to his career. That show was used as a spring board for him.
      And no one's questioning your point of you. I said I'm looking at it objectively. Talk to her parents.

  • @TheFlyyBohemian
    @TheFlyyBohemian Před 5 lety +761

    After she stated her age, he should have sent her back immediately

    • @VenusAD
      @VenusAD Před 5 lety +46

      @@bethanypo1809 ^^^^^^^ It's an unbalanced power dynamic and a serious abuse of their position to initiate those kinds of acts without asking for permission.

    • @EternalGuardian07
      @EternalGuardian07 Před 4 lety +16

      Should've asked her age first.

    • @strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049
      @strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 Před 4 lety +4

      @RayS2able no we don't . I want to build with someone, not them being way ahead.

    • @thedreamsoldierful
      @thedreamsoldierful Před 4 lety +3

      Instead he says she’s thicc smh

  • @lowrider276
    @lowrider276 Před 5 lety +538

    I'm not really sure how much more ya'll need, like the dude is gross. I'm sorry as a teacher, I take these things very seriously. That Millie Bobby Brown thing was always creepy. As an adult you need to have clear and defined boundaries between yourself and children.
    Like, imagine any of these girls were your child. Would you want a grown ass man touching your daughter like that? How would you react if you find out a grown ass man was texting your daughter constantly? Would you be upset if you saw pictures of your daughter with some grown ass man all over her like that? If so, then you should be upset whenever you see it.
    Like, this celebrity worship/stan culture has baked people's brains, it's crazy to me

    • @denises.8710
      @denises.8710 Před 5 lety +42

      Totally agree! I always wonder how these dudes justify their past actions when they have daughters. I think about Russel Simmons getting with Kimora when she was like 15 or 16. Now you have teenage daughters...what do you say or do?

    • @jayjohnson7802
      @jayjohnson7802 Před 5 lety +40

      All of this! The fan/stan culture will make people ignore all sorts of problematic and dangerous behaviors. Nothing Drake did was okay. Also, going on stage isn't implied consent to be groped and kissed on.

    • @starcherry6814
      @starcherry6814 Před 5 lety +33

      It’s a well known open secret that in Hollywood, the music industry, the modelling agencies and all things show business; that pedophiles are everywhere.
      Kids and teens should never be in those environments because it’s really not safe to trust the adults.

    • @toptaemin1278
      @toptaemin1278 Před 5 lety +1

      Umm what are you talking about Millie? I don't understand

    • @kimmyball4961
      @kimmyball4961 Před 5 lety +1

      Absolutely!!

  • @RapCritic
    @RapCritic Před 5 lety +676

    It was excusable as being maybe him not knowing how to respond to finding out she was under 18... RIGHT until he kisses her after finding out that she was under 18. Like... nahhhh, that's the no-no right there, bruh, cause at that point you knew she was underage, and made a conscious decision to ignore it.

    • @LouieV6
      @LouieV6 Před 5 lety +17

      Rap Critic oh shit, Rap Critic!!

    • @user-mf4dd5rp8y
      @user-mf4dd5rp8y Před 5 lety +10

      Rap Critic omg it’s the iconic rap critic

    • @jklax
      @jklax Před 5 lety +9

      The video apparently took place in Colorado where the age of consent is 17. Drake was 23 at the time. Was it creepy? Yes maybe, but not illegal.

    • @Msd4-13
      @Msd4-13 Před 5 lety +36

      The thing is the girl looked like a teen. She didn’t look like a woman in no sorta way. Why would you risk bringing someone on stage that looks like they could still be in high school?

    • @joannamarieart
      @joannamarieart Před 5 lety +56

      From the point that he stopped dancing with her and turned her around, none of what he did was okay - regardless of how old she was. It was worse that she was so young, but he absolutely took advantage of her being in a situation she couldn't easily get out of, and the encouragement of the audience to cross boundaries.

  • @AJo-wd2ni
    @AJo-wd2ni Před 5 lety +58

    Man, when grown men find out a girl is a teenager & then say "Why do you look like that?" It is SO CONCERNING! Like they're trying to blame a girl's body for their own predatory behavior, thus turning her body into the source of the 'problem' instead of the man and his creepy intentions.

    • @fsv9327
      @fsv9327 Před 3 lety +1

      It’s so creepy bean

  • @BrookWentz
    @BrookWentz Před 5 lety +1017

    Maybe it's just me but I found Drake's behavior predatory and weird before her age was even revealed. Putting this fan on stage, in front of an audience, touching her sensually, and making weird innuendos and flirty suggestions... It felt like such an abuse of power. One that she could't really opt out of without causing a bit of a fuss or making a scene. Only made worse when you realize her actual age. And even THAT doesn't stop him? Naw. Red flag after red flag with this one.

    • @Msd4-13
      @Msd4-13 Před 5 lety +76

      Thank you!!! The thing is the girl looks like a teen. In no way did she look like an adult woman.

    • @LaurenRauh
      @LaurenRauh Před 5 lety +25

      I can see what you’re saying and drake does have questionable behavior. But I just think it’s interesting how almost every “heart throb” type artist does this. Justin Bieber always did the same shit for one less lonely girl and would pull girls on stage, Carrie Underwood kissed a 12 year old boy on stage, and I could think of a million other examples... yet the moment a black man does it y’all really got something to say.

    • @kimmyball4961
      @kimmyball4961 Před 5 lety +19

      @@wickyshay821 what are you, 12? Or younger

    • @kimmyball4961
      @kimmyball4961 Před 5 lety +7

      @@LaurenRauh ohhhhh here we go, another wanna be

    • @LaurenRauh
      @LaurenRauh Před 5 lety +3

      Kimberly Ball what am I trying to be then?

  • @sofineshesmine
    @sofineshesmine Před 5 lety +544

    Why ask her age? He knew she was super young we he brought her up there. That's why he chose her. Then pretend to act shocked and surprised when she says 17. And just bc I'ma fan doesn't mean I want u in my space, kissing my actual skin, gross

    • @Msd4-13
      @Msd4-13 Před 5 lety +45

      seelix I said give same thing. That girl looks like a girl. In know way did she look like a woman.

    • @Chibz
      @Chibz Před 5 lety +28

      He was probably disappointed she wasn't younger

    • @juliec5151
      @juliec5151 Před 5 lety +7

      @@Chibz right?? 🤮

  • @trevez789
    @trevez789 Před 5 lety +203

    Video aside, I'm more concern about these stories of Drake's friendship with 14yo Millie Bobby Brown from Stranger Things. I was weirded out by that. I know her camp have been trying age her up, subtly sexualizing her which I thought was a problem. So idk.... I think we as a culture needs to really look closely and not just ignore it because Drake is a megastar. Which is why R. kelly got away with it for soooo long.

  • @stsbk
    @stsbk Před 5 lety +466

    She’s BACK. As a man, I find it difficult to watch your videos sometimes...and I love it! If it’s any challenge to me, I accept it. You are needed 👌🏾++

  • @Mommak24
    @Mommak24 Před 5 lety +672

    “Why are y’all so close? We need to leave room for Jesus” 😂😭😩

  • @Nina513
    @Nina513 Před 5 lety +311

    Didn't Nelly do this about a year ago with a young white girl on stage???
    What is up with these dudes? And what kills me is that they do it in front of people without a care, as if its natural.
    Yikes.

    • @alicelopez130
      @alicelopez130 Před 5 lety +48

      The patriarchy is no joke 😩

    • @Nina513
      @Nina513 Před 5 lety +21

      ALICE AQUARIUS Gurllllllllll..... It’s continuous and unending.

    • @rlvixen
      @rlvixen Před 5 lety +1

      What Nelly did was actually innocent tho. There was nothing sexual about anything he did... like at all.

    • @Belihoney
      @Belihoney Před 5 lety

      Nelly one looked super innocent though imo? He was just a bit aggressive with her

    • @flyleelee5351
      @flyleelee5351 Před 5 lety +6

      @@alicelopez130 right! The patriarchy BEEN wilin' lol

  • @babyjki444
    @babyjki444 Před 5 lety +499

    i'm only 20 and you can't get me to sniff in the direction of a minor, idk it's gross.

    • @Julie-qr9ow
      @Julie-qr9ow Před 5 lety +18

      Same and Im 18!

    • @babyjki444
      @babyjki444 Před 5 lety +89

      and honestly when i turned 18 it was like a switch flipped. and i became super cognizant of me being on the other side of that and being the adult now.

    • @babyjki444
      @babyjki444 Před 5 lety +19

      @@Julie-qr9ow good! that's how it's supposed to be lol.

    • @Seancarter2010
      @Seancarter2010 Před 5 lety +13

      Hold on so 18 and 17 is an issue? Lol thats two high school students in AP bio

    • @babyjki444
      @babyjki444 Před 5 lety +41

      Seancarter2010 who said that? it's at your own discretion, but for me, personally, when i was 18 i was not checking for someone who wasn't of age.

  • @chiadi9713
    @chiadi9713 Před 5 lety +240

    What really got me vexed was when he asked, “ why do you look like that!?” Just disgusting. It makes me cringe now every time I hear his songs.

    • @mjp141
      @mjp141 Před 5 lety +48

      Chidum Adiele I know, right? Like it was her fault that he got turned on. No sir. Send her offstage and continue the show. No extra creepy comments.

    • @aashasriram7393
      @aashasriram7393 Před 5 lety

      stop listening to his songs hahhaha

  • @Nosey855
    @Nosey855 Před 5 lety +107

    I agree. Leave kids alone!!!! Teenagers are kids! There are too many adults in this world for men and women to pray on children.

  • @pariscollins2349
    @pariscollins2349 Před 5 lety +116

    Millie B. Brown said Drake was her mentor. Shit sounds R.Kelly familiar!!! Her camp better cut that shit out.

  • @browneyeblues12
    @browneyeblues12 Před 5 lety +321

    I mean Rih Rih dropped him for a reason 😒 The way she shaded him and dissed him time again when he was pouring his heart out to her, I'm like 'she see something in him that we all can't see' this gotta be apart of it among other things.

    • @elledumble
      @elledumble Před 5 lety +3

      @@mrs_chin 😂😂😂😂 "pug arse looking face" 😂😂😂

    • @coss1
      @coss1 Před 4 lety +17

      Dude plays cool and collect on the records, but in real life I get the vibe that he's the needy, jealous, clingy type, you know the type that will be all up in your shit then turn around and tell you "I need space".

  • @mirashar18
    @mirashar18 Před 5 lety +396

    The fact that Millie met Drake in the hallway in a hotel room and Millie said that their texts are their "private business " worries me a lot. Also consider the fact that Millie's been forced to grow up a LOT these past 2 years in comparison to her same age co stars.
    Basically, protect Millie Bobby Brown

    • @Erik7601
      @Erik7601 Před 4 lety +3

      Yeahhhhhh she’s really growing and it’s ONLY HER not her co stars. Her costars ( boys and men ) are trash so disgusting ugh they are children and only she is so grown up 😂

    • @ceci9570
      @ceci9570 Před 4 lety +24

      Not to mention his friendship with billie eilish yikes

    • @illneverbeyourdreamgirl
      @illneverbeyourdreamgirl Před 4 lety +3

      This girl is 15 and she's out there looking like someone twice her age, SMDH... Why can't they just let her be young? I'm sure some will argue "That's what she wants!" but come on now - we know there's people behind the scenes filling her young mind with god knows what nonsense! Not to be old-fashioned but she's growing up way too fast.

  • @brittanybutlermusic
    @brittanybutlermusic Před 5 lety +73

    You cut out the most incriminating part of the Millie video: when she said that Drake gives her “boy advice” and when asked about the specific things he tells her she said “that stays in the text messages” all secretive - YIKES!!! Why is a 30 something year old man giving a 14 year old girl boy advice? What could he possibly be telling her?! *shivers*

    • @jazzb3371
      @jazzb3371 Před 2 lety +4

      Its so inappropriate. Hes obviously grooming her. I wish some one would make like Hansen and send him to prison. Or pull a punisher at the VERY LEAST.

  • @amarugulloa9485
    @amarugulloa9485 Před 5 lety +38

    I feel really bad for her. He put her in a really uncomfortable situation and just because your famous doesn't give you an excuse to mess with people's boundaries without asking for permission.

  • @chrisashtonlightell-west1189

    But also, like... don't molest any woman on stage? Who you don't know? Who's being pressured by the audience so much she can't really even say no if she wanted to? Maybe just don't?

  • @lilyfenster4732
    @lilyfenster4732 Před 5 lety +46

    i don't understand how anyone could see the millie bobby brown thing as okay. like, sure, teenagers and adults can be friends, but they should be friends in PUBLIC. there should be nothing you want to say to a 14 year old that you can't say in front of their parents. and "i miss you" and all that talk about boys and dating definitely falls into the category of things he wouldn't say if they were supervised. i'm all for teenagers having privacy, being able to interact with each other unsupervised, i think it's unhealthy for their social development to not have that, but when you bring adults into the picture...someone should be checking those texts.
    also, the law does not define morality. i mean, if that girl on stage had been 18 at the time, sure, he was only 23, that's not that bad. but now he's like, 30, and him dating a girl fresh out of high school is predatory even if he hadn't met her as a minor. grown ass men who date girls who are ~barely legal~ are still predators. they don't care about how it affects the teenager they fuck, they just care about protecting themselves, as evidenced by the fact that whether they date 18 year olds or 16 year olds or 14 year olds depends purely on geography.

  • @mermaidtingzzz
    @mermaidtingzzz Před 5 lety +114

    Can we also talk about the fact that when we talk about the age of consent how it's also in the context or implied to be concerning a teenage girl's age in relation to a man that's "waiting" to get at her?
    Like when we talk about this I never witness or imagine a teenage boy's age being called into question.
    There was 1 recent case of that model telling the lead from Stranger Things to hit her up in like 5 years. But that's literally the only blatant case.
    Also Drake is absolutely toxic lolol!

    • @koboldcatgirl
      @koboldcatgirl Před 5 lety +20

      Any dude who gives the "waiting for them to be 18" or "aged-up version of this character"-type lines is basically guaranteed to be gross af. It's the same energy.

  • @CatACor21.
    @CatACor21. Před 5 lety +375

    Drake’s a culture vulture with no identity but everyone else’s. Not here for him at all! Thank you, next!!!!!!
    EDIT: 🤦🏽‍♀️ just because you’re black doesn’t mean you’re not a vulture. Black culture consists of subcultures like south, Midwest, carribran, ect. Speaking specifically on music, Drake takes identities from up coming artists and claims it has his. He profits off of taking culture and padding it has his. Just because he’s black doesn’t mean all black culture is ok for him to take. The only difference between him and JT is that JT is white. Doesn’t mean it’s right. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Kevin-rg3yc
      @Kevin-rg3yc Před 5 lety +7

      CatACor how he's a culture vulture???? A culture vulture to me is JT, Miley Cyrus, j.lo, iggy azalea, post Malone, etc

    • @alexn.2901
      @alexn.2901 Před 5 lety +21

      AND AN ABSENT FATHER

    • @Kevin-rg3yc
      @Kevin-rg3yc Před 5 lety

      @@alexn.2901 I disagree on that he's been publicly showing being his son life

    • @mermaidtingzzz
      @mermaidtingzzz Před 5 lety +28

      @@Kevin-rg3yc his music is legit based on other musicians styles and cultures.

    • @Rick.Grayson
      @Rick.Grayson Před 5 lety

      Nah.

  • @tiawilliams5690
    @tiawilliams5690 Před 5 lety +49

    It is possible to have platonic or mentor type relationships between adults and teens. The thing that stood out to me is that Drake texted Millie with “Oh, I miss you so much.” I’ve never seen a strictly platonic relationship (admittedly I don’t get out much), where those words are randomly spoken to one another. It’s weird at best. My take is and was that he’s probably grooming her.

  • @chiadi9713
    @chiadi9713 Před 5 lety +44

    I’m so happy you are doing this video. I’ve been waiting on someone to expose Drake for the creep he is. But because he makes bops (just like Robert Kelly), no one wants to talk about it. Once again, thanks for being bold/real enough to do this video.

    • @Kevin-rg3yc
      @Kevin-rg3yc Před 5 lety

      Chidum Adiele maybe bc overall he haven't been exposed or any allegations have occurred of him actually having sexual relations or assisting underage girls have come out that's what makes him different from r. Kelly

  • @shortbreadgirlscout3463
    @shortbreadgirlscout3463 Před 5 lety +226

    Naw he should have explicitly stated anyone 18 and over come up. Why ask after the fact? Nasty.

  • @amylouise9853
    @amylouise9853 Před 5 lety +99

    Regardless of her age that whole video was revolting.

  • @Ash2theB
    @Ash2theB Před 5 lety +106

    Drake is out especially after him trying hide his son. #Shady

    • @NoOne-hl9yr
      @NoOne-hl9yr Před 5 lety +11

      @@tahirab7859 He doesn't care for his son. Nor he sees him.

    • @Ash2theB
      @Ash2theB Před 5 lety +36

      Tahira Bedgood he was sleeping around and got a French pornstar/stripper pregnant and allegedly he had a couple girls pregnant and made them get abortions. He put hits out the girls if they didn’t cooperate. The French babymama was able to get out of the country plus she wanted to keep the kid. He really messed up his representation and his kid is basically growing up without a father like he did. Pusha put him on blast and drake tried to put a hit on him too. Lovelyti did a whole break down on this. His son is like a year old.

  • @SharonSamples82
    @SharonSamples82 Před 5 lety +65

    Are we gonna bring up how Kobe Bryant started dating his wife when she was a teenager? I think she was 17 and he was 23.

    • @kimmyball4961
      @kimmyball4961 Před 5 lety +21

      Don't forget Prince!! He met his future wife when she was very underage. I'm not sure when they became intimate, I'm just now reading her book about their life together. And of course Elvis and Jerry Lee Lewis. The list probably goes on and on!

    • @dumfriesspearhead7398
      @dumfriesspearhead7398 Před 4 lety +3

      @@kimmyball4961 Or Jimmy Page having an "affair" with a 13 year old groupie?

    • @kimmyball4961
      @kimmyball4961 Před 4 lety +1

      @@dumfriesspearhead7398 gross!! I never heard that one! Im sure there has been tons that were kept under wraps!

    • @dumfriesspearhead7398
      @dumfriesspearhead7398 Před 4 lety +8

      @@kimmyball4961 But that particular example is really common knowledge. Google Jimmy Page and Lori Maddox.
      In the 70s, rock groups were shagging teenage groupies as if it were going out of fashion.
      One well known groupie lost her virginity to Mick Jagger when she was 15 years old.

    • @nataliegaines8722
      @nataliegaines8722 Před 4 lety

      Elvis, Chuck Berry..... It's mind blowing to me how much this has been going on and most of the time the parents are with it 🤯

  • @mistermistyeye9218
    @mistermistyeye9218 Před 4 lety +10

    He looks like he says “hey, where’s my hug” to girls every time he greets them 💀

  • @MelonBrews
    @MelonBrews Před 5 lety +88

    Off topic - I really like this glossy lippie look. It suits you.

  • @Neoldsoul
    @Neoldsoul Před 5 lety +20

    Why is it so hard to let Drake go? That's disgusting and inappropriate.

  • @alejandraayala8815
    @alejandraayala8815 Před 5 lety +13

    Sometimes it would seem older guys state that teenage girls should be left to do whatever they want with their bodies and that they are old enough to have agency over their sexuality (wich is true) not because they truly advocate for their freedom, but only because they can get something out of it. The minute any young girl they date stands her ground and sets boundaries she Is called a "tease".

  • @samwallaceart288
    @samwallaceart288 Před 5 lety +22

    Drake: kisses on 17 year old.
    Audience: HORRAY! Also, question mark???

  • @joefernandez8008
    @joefernandez8008 Před 4 lety +4

    I’m on hour 7 of binging all of your videos. I’m such a fan. You perfectly balance humor, analysis, and insight. Totally subscribing.

  • @hendersonkathleen101
    @hendersonkathleen101 Před 5 lety +22

    Jorja Smith was in high school when they were together. She was in high school when she was on Views. People think that Jaded on scorpio is about her.

  • @severajones414
    @severajones414 Před 5 lety +37

    now i know why he so close with millie bobby brown, the age of concent in her country is 16

  • @jessesherer9792
    @jessesherer9792 Před 4 lety +8

    Honestly, I still side eye adults that go for 18 and 19 year olds. If they could go younger without getting in trouble, they would.

  • @birdiewolf3497
    @birdiewolf3497 Před 5 lety +41

    Yeah, I hate Drake. Always has, always will, but when this stuff started coming out. LORD. I am not trying to accuse the man of doing anything suspect , BUT we can't do this again. We can't ignore the signs and let a new generation of women get abused and traumatized.
    I hope Drake saw the documentary, and seeing people questioning his behavior, and will make the moves to adjust them accordingly if he is not out here trying to mess with children. And I am proud that we are questioning it, because last time, we let a man hang around high schools, marry a 15 year old, and made child pornography and very few questions were asked.

    • @brieoliver
      @brieoliver Před 5 lety +7

      Hopefully he's seeing all of this and it gets him to put some distance between himself and these teens. Im glad folks are being super vigilant and calling things out when they see it. We do not need another R Kelly situation of sticking our collective heads in the sand and allowing 20 years to go by watching abuse.

  • @iamlaurengill
    @iamlaurengill Před 5 lety +34

    Aubrey got some explaining to do. And if it comes out that he's pulling a R. Kelly we can cancel him too.

  • @paula.m.4996
    @paula.m.4996 Před 5 lety +14

    It’s also gross how he has a tattoo of Aaliyah and he didn’t even know her. He even wrote her an actual “4 page letter”... 🤢🤮

  • @melaniemota8683
    @melaniemota8683 Před 5 lety +26

    *COACH CARR, STEP AWAY FROM THE UNDERAGE GIRLS*

  • @jayquashie9982
    @jayquashie9982 Před 4 lety +6

    At 15, I felt so cool that an older guy (27) liked me. I was especially excited cuz he sed I looked thic (just what Drake sed) and "Looked like I was 18". I was so excited until I realized that I had bitten way more than I could chew when I was in his basement and he forced me to do things I did not want to do. Be hypervigilant. Be overprotective. People like Drake are weird. Children's bodies/sexuality should be left alone. Date your age.

  • @Nmendenh-rl6ej
    @Nmendenh-rl6ej Před 5 lety +20

    The song teenage fever is about to take on new meaning.

  • @valleyrain8266
    @valleyrain8266 Před 5 lety +35

    he told millie bobby brown to text him about boy troubles and dating that's the issue more than him just being friendly with her

  • @faoncat
    @faoncat Před 5 lety +9

    thank you for pointing out how weird this is 🙏 yes kids have sexuality and romantic inclinations but leave it between themselves!!! that’s not an excuse for grown adults to get involved. when i was 16 i dated a 23 year old and just didn’t know how not okay that was and the things he said, did, ways he treated me. he used to get mad at me for acting like a teenager and make me feel stupid for just being naturally naive and took advantage in every way. i’m 23 now and genuinely can’t imagine wanting to date even a 19 year old let alone 18, 17, 16!!! makes me feel sick and thank you thank you for not defending this

  • @CatACor21.
    @CatACor21. Před 5 lety +31

    Word sis... 🤦🏽‍♀️ omg you getting on everybody! 😬😂

  • @Julianell97
    @Julianell97 Před 5 lety +7

    I appreciate you bringing this to light, we gotta keep tabs on this!!! That documentary changed my outlook for good.

  • @JV-cn7ie
    @JV-cn7ie Před 5 lety +28

    Wtf! When you said kisses her eck I was literally thinking like a peck. Holy..Then he blames her body on his behaviour. Ugh

  • @mutedearthvirgo
    @mutedearthvirgo Před 5 lety +49

    that was soooooo cringey!

  • @Runnin2TheSun
    @Runnin2TheSun Před 5 lety +34

    Leave room for Jesus lmaoo Can we talk about the second black man dying at Ed Buck's home within a year?

  • @Chucks_Chocolates
    @Chucks_Chocolates Před 5 lety +22

    AMEN! Leave kids alone! This is a pattern and it warrants the continued scrutiny of Drake.

  • @reallyitsjackiev.meadows7578

    The scary thing is all over the world the age of consent is so much lower....than in America...and several places in America the age of consent changes.....it is crazy. In Canada age of consent is 17 crazy.

    • @Belihoney
      @Belihoney Před 5 lety +27

      In the UK it's 16 but for the part, people know to leave 16 year olds alone if you're 20 and over.... I don't think I've ever seen a Kylie and tyga situation here but actually I do remember when Harry styles for 1 direction was "dating" a TV host when she was like 35 and he was 17.

    • @sobbos8975
      @sobbos8975 Před 5 lety +6

      That’s higher than here in America lol the age of consent in most places in America is 16

    • @throwthatassinaprayercircl2662
      @throwthatassinaprayercircl2662 Před 5 lety +3

      in germany it can be as low as 14.

    • @sodabread7956
      @sodabread7956 Před 5 lety +5

      I also live in Canada, but here it's 16. ( well it can be as low as 14 but the max age of the other person is 16) Doesn't make this drake thing any less sketchy though.

    • @jklax
      @jklax Před 5 lety +3

      The video took place in Colorado. The age of consent there is 17. What he did was creepy yes maybe, but not illegal.

  • @ObeyAmmalol
    @ObeyAmmalol Před 5 lety +12

    It went from worse to worser

  • @srilakshmir5927
    @srilakshmir5927 Před 4 lety +5

    Did he say "why do you look like that?"??? 🤮🤮🤮

  • @kg4803
    @kg4803 Před 5 lety +36

    There are also some old photos of 24+ year old Jayz hugged up/with Aaliyah in her late teens...he definitely like them young but not as young as RKelly

    • @SteadyNUnremitting
      @SteadyNUnremitting Před 5 lety +6

      Stop fabricating shit. Aaliyah was already in her early 20s when she first Jay z in the early 2000s.

    • @kg4803
      @kg4803 Před 5 lety +20

      @@SteadyNUnremitting its not fabricated..there are photos and Jayz had been pursuing her before her 20's because she was already with Damon Dash by that time she was 20 so I think you have your facts mixed up...

    • @kg4803
      @kg4803 Před 5 lety +27

      Also he had his eyes on Beyonce since she was like 16 according to Jayz that was like 1996-1997 and he was into Aaliyah before Beyonce so he had to have been before 1996-1997 so Aaliyah would be under 18 years old at the time so......

    • @5x7m
      @5x7m Před 5 lety +13

      K G... Aaliyah was about 10 to 11 years younger than each of those men. Wondering why these grown men was kicking it with a young lady that is only 2 to 3 years out of high school. Come to think of it Beyonce is nearly 12 years younger than Jay as well. It became obvious they were dating when she was 21 or 22 years old back in 2002/2003 and he was about 33, 34. These men definitely like young women.

    • @denises.8710
      @denises.8710 Před 5 lety +8

      @@SteadyNUnremitting he knew her when she was younger. But what us definitely indisputable, is that JayZ dealt with Foxy Brown when she was a teenager.

  • @sannydee
    @sannydee Před 5 lety +14

    Drake is in highschool perpetually...he was on degrassi for goodness sakes...that grown ass man probably wants to relieve that "best time of his life" even though it was on a damn tv show. (on a sidenote, his "people" ask before they put them on stage...they probably knew how old she was...at his instruction??? who knows.

  • @stan_dinghere
    @stan_dinghere Před 4 lety +3

    i got groomed by an old dude and know others who were and it always starts out seeming innocent like that, and escalates before you figure it out whats going on. thats why im not cool with even genuinely well intentioned relationships between children and adult strangers. you have no way of knowing and its not worth the risk

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 Před 5 lety +9

    This makes me sad cuz I really went hard for Drake but based on this and a few other things, Drake is officially cancelled for me.

  • @porscheamartin
    @porscheamartin Před 5 lety +22

    I feel like people are missing the conversation. The issue with fucking a teenager doesn’t have to do with the physical body. It’s the mental capacity to give consent. Puberty.... changes a child’s body into an adult body. That happens rather early on in life. Physically, there is no difference between a teenage girl and a woman of age (granted there are other factors such as child bearing).

    • @FreyaEinde
      @FreyaEinde Před 5 lety +8

      Porschea M There’s also an experience gap about a decade wide. Like they haven’t been out here on their own and so their more naive and if you’re trying to prey on that aspect ya nasty.

  • @Kpop0223
    @Kpop0223 Před 4 lety +2

    "Call me Inspector Gadget, because I'm inspecting for the clues." Lol that's right, we got our eyes open now. 🕵️‍♀️🔎👀

  • @Kevin-rg3yc
    @Kevin-rg3yc Před 5 lety +24

    Glad you made this video. As a drake fan I was creeped out as hell from this and made me look at him differently. I think he progressed from this personally but it goes to show society truly sexualize the growing sexuality of female teenagers. I don't think he's a pervert but it is a little sups sections

  • @AprilRules
    @AprilRules Před 5 lety +6

    Awesome. Good to see someone calling this shit out before everyone tells you to call it out.

  • @alicelopez130
    @alicelopez130 Před 5 lety +46

    Drake is an interesting case when it comes to his identity ( imo the creepy shit is open and shut- that is not ok and he needs to acknowledge that, apologize, and change) but his identity as a black man reminds me a bit of Obama. They were raised with the white side of their families and found their “blackness” after they were teens- I find it interesting but I also feel like they had a choice embracing their blackness; which is not representative of most African Americans... If that makes sense? I don’t know, I’m a passable (for white) Latina girl so if you are a poc I would love to hear your thoughts💕

    • @mermaidtingzzz
      @mermaidtingzzz Před 5 lety +21

      Sis, you hit on a lot! I took a class and we talked about passing pretty much the whole semester. And I kinda got to the point of "if this identity is an 'option' for you, then you and I don't have the same identity". But then there's also the fact that the Black or Latino or Asian, etc. experience is not monolithic, it's allowed to be widely experience.
      It's complicated. I'm still wary of selective blackness tho because of the social hierarchy that benefits those who are closer or pass for white.

    • @alexn.2901
      @alexn.2901 Před 5 lety +4

      Obama and Drake aren't African-American.

    • @robinvolpi
      @robinvolpi Před 5 lety +5

      @@alexn.2901 All African Americans are mixed, to varing degrees. Genealogists have determined that the average African American has somewhere between 18-30% European ancestry.... give OR take. Barack is African American. Drake is Canadian.

    • @robinvolpi
      @robinvolpi Před 5 lety +7

      @@sunnymarie2060 I'm not going to pretend to know what communities these men can "identify with".... Barack lived on the south side of Chicago, which is far removed from his upbringing to the extreme, so who are WE to determine what he can or cannot identify with? Or relate to? Beyond that, I was responding to the person questioning their ancestry, not their upbringing.

    • @robinvolpi
      @robinvolpi Před 5 lety +9

      @@sunnymarie2060 Barack's father was a literal "African" male and his mother was American, where she birthed him. He dayum sure can claim African American on the census.... which he, in fact, does. ;) The ancestry, not the upbringing....

  • @leomartin6858
    @leomartin6858 Před 4 lety +1

    At 19 my boyfriend was 32, and at one point a woman who was his age and was friends with him, pulled me aside and said “Hey he’s a great guy but you’re really young and you have a target on your back around guys his age.”
    I thanked her but completely ignored her advice. I ended up really really drunk and vulnerable on several occasions and in danger more than once. Moral of the story honestly, older men can not be trusted around teens, it’s always gross, and people need to speak the hell up about it. Don’t let girls in their late teens date guys who sure as hell know better, and are just waiting for a chance to pounce.

  • @jessicamillions4863
    @jessicamillions4863 Před 5 lety +6

    We need to save some room for Jesus 😂😂😂

  • @KeyasiaBailey
    @KeyasiaBailey Před 5 lety +4

    He was also texting Milly Bobby Brown about “boys” like she’s not 14-15😒😒😒

  • @thati_monaheng
    @thati_monaheng Před 5 lety +2

    I have been binge watching your videos for four days now. I’m hooked 🥺🔥

  • @kjdnyhmghfvb
    @kjdnyhmghfvb Před 5 lety +4

    The Age of consent in Colorado is 17, and while no sexual acts took place, It's Hella Creepy. You are right, it could have all been avoided had his commentary not just been so messed up, and it definitely made me look at him with a side eye and with an up and down.
    Sidenote: Colorado needs to clean up their close-in-age exception, marriage exception, and broad close-in-age exception. It's just too much.

  • @smolivia
    @smolivia Před 5 lety +8

    no Papi noooo. i was okay till he found out she was 17 and *still* kissed her. should have thrown her off the stage right then smdh **cries in take care**

  • @cindychatzi6842
    @cindychatzi6842 Před 5 lety +2

    2010 or 2011 Enrique Iglesias gave a concert in Greece. At one point, very similarly to Drake here, he got a girl on stage and french-kissed her. She was 15 and this was a part of pretty much every concert of his. He would get a girl on stage (no matter her age), dance with her a little bit and then kiss her.

  • @itscooltobeyou
    @itscooltobeyou Před 5 lety +1

    Sort of off topic. But watching your videos always makes me feel better and calmer, it's really nice and refreshing to hear your perspectives

  • @ashleyware82
    @ashleyware82 Před 5 lety +2

    He had me dead when he said “Why you look like that?” 😂🤣

  • @madisonstoner7405
    @madisonstoner7405 Před 4 lety +1

    "Call me Inspector Gadget, cause I'm looking at the clues!"
    LMAO

  • @parkviewmo
    @parkviewmo Před 5 lety +2

    I appreciate you clarity on this topic!

  • @kendram13
    @kendram13 Před 5 lety +1

    Lmao the interviewers at the Milli Bobby Brown tea 👀 probably elbowing each other like did u get that skrskrskr

  • @madixsin29
    @madixsin29 Před 5 lety +36

    I’m like you’re biggest fan I absolutely love how inclusive you are in you’re thinking and politics could you please do something on Black men and there hatred of transgender woman and gay men they all use the same excuse witch is the Bible im thinking it’s deeper and more layers I’m sure you talked about toxic masculinity but I would love your breakdown and the topic

  • @cherryadams537
    @cherryadams537 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This aged so well with the Drake and Kendrick beef going on rn

  • @1MarkKeller
    @1MarkKeller Před 5 lety +2

    Inviting fans on stage or backstage or on the tour bus or over to the hotel room has always been cringy and suspect. This happens because we have allowed it to happen, and judging from the audience's reaction ... it is going to keep happening for decades if not centuries to come.

  • @anthoneyrago
    @anthoneyrago Před 5 lety +2

    You’re a great, intelligent, speaker sister. I love your videos!

  • @user-od8eq8bd1g
    @user-od8eq8bd1g Před 5 lety +3

    "Leave room for Jesus" I died, amazing

  • @exclusiveop
    @exclusiveop Před 5 lety +5

    As a drake fan, I too was also totally creeped out by that video. Yikes! At best it was really poor judgement from an immature & over compensating man. At worst, it looks like someone who finds no issue with sexualizing girls far too young for him. He definitely needs to address it and learn from it. The Millie Bobbi Brown situation seemed more innocent to me tbh....although after this tape I think it's best if he just keeps a distance from anything that could even look suspect...b/c we're all watching closely now.

  • @dominiquemeyer7775
    @dominiquemeyer7775 Před 5 lety +2

    I lost it at "Why are you giving us Jaden Smith eyes???" hhaaaaaaaaahahahahaha

  • @maraly11
    @maraly11 Před 5 lety +2

    I literally had to fast forward through that fan interaction on stage.

  • @severajones414
    @severajones414 Před 5 lety +12

    you know kim and kanye leaked that video.

  • @T_Cup
    @T_Cup Před 4 lety +2

    When you're in your 30s, you realize how truly strange it is for someone in that same age group to spend so much time talking to/texting with minors, let alone minors that are the opposite sex and in no way blood/marriage-related to themselves. And while I applaud celebrity minors like Finn Wolfhard and Danielle Bregoli for calling out explicit inappropriate sexual comments from adults, we can't expect minors to be cognizant of when they're being groomed.
    So no, I will not be taking the word of Billie Eilish when she calls Drake nice or Millie Bobby Brown when she calls Drake fantastic. I can understand why both would uphold the reputation of someone they see as an idol and mentor. But it's definitely not normal that Millie is saying things like "I love him" and that he tells her he misses her "so much". And I don't want to be part of normalizing this behaviour. We're living in a moment where we all have the opportunity to recognize and identify this strange behaviour and finally put an end to it.

  • @christine3477
    @christine3477 Před 5 lety +4

    I was JUST saying this! He’s right on the way to disgustingness and i was wondering when someone was going to point this behavior out

  • @benababas
    @benababas Před 5 lety +23

    I don't think it's just a straight men problem... sometimes gay men date younger kids as well.

    • @thehoneyeffect
      @thehoneyeffect Před 5 lety +6

      Anissa B. It’s a male problem... it’s a byproduct of patriarchy and male privilege

    • @AuntieSenSen
      @AuntieSenSen Před 5 lety

      Yep, NAMBLA...

    • @FreyaEinde
      @FreyaEinde Před 5 lety

      That’s true. I remember in high school a lotta my gay guy friends had adult boyfriends...which is like a huge red flag now that was just normal when I was a teen.

  • @jasminefigures9899
    @jasminefigures9899 Před 5 lety +1

    holy shit how was this not everywhere! I watch you casually, and decided to go back and watch the videos I missed, and I had no idea that this had happened. is it how big drake is, anger fatique, damn, how was not everyone talking about this, like worse things happen but this is fucked.

  • @GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend

    I'm sorry, that child looked uncomfortable. The big sister in me wanted to get up on that stage and be like "excuse me sir, are you so far up your own ass that you can't read girls' body language anymore before you start touching them"? She moved like a child. She didn't know what to do.

  • @Lochness19
    @Lochness19 Před 5 lety +1

    The part about Drake being the uncool kid trying to get back at the popular kids reminds me of how the first big purchase Taylor Swift made when money started flowing in was the same exact convertible Regina George drove to get back at the girls that were mean to her in middle school
    "It was like -- you guys never invited me to anything, you guys are obsessed with that car, that girl, what the Plastics wear and how they talk and you quote them all the time, but I've been working really hard every single day. And instead of going to parties, I've been writing songs and playing shows and getting these really small pay checks that have added up and now I get to buy a car, and guess which one I'm going to buy? The one that the girl you idolize has."
    She's admitted that the whole thing with parading her fashion model friends was driven partly by an attempt to compensate for her unpopularity in middle school, and she now understand she should move past that.

  • @gilespeterson6832
    @gilespeterson6832 Před 5 lety +4

    This brother would rent out Chuck E Cheese for a date

  • @njrib
    @njrib Před 3 lety

    Every night I lie down planning to watch ASMR and fall asleep, and every night I end up watching Kim well past my bedtime.

  • @Fairyfink
    @Fairyfink Před 4 lety +2

    Age of consent in UK is 16. But this is still very uncomfortable to watch. Worse, she looks uncomfortable & I wondered how many young people in that situation would find the strength to tell someone in Drake's position to stop.

  • @eveemcghee4454
    @eveemcghee4454 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you. Honestly you are so on point all the time with ALL the angles. WHAT is the difference between a 17 year old and an 18 year old? I think this is a problem in itself and thank you for bringing it up despite the fact that it does not inherently support your position. I also agree that Drake is problematic, but also think we need to revisit determining the age of consent.

  • @paulinedavis8372
    @paulinedavis8372 Před 5 lety +1

    On my 18th bday i went to a kat de luna (lol throwback) concert and was pulled up on stage and told her it was my 18th bday and she let me dance on stage for the next song, i backed it up on one of her dancers and he respectfully scooched all the way away from me. At first i was offended but then i thought, duh. He hasnt seen ny id. He doesnt really know how old i am. And this was shortly after akon got in trouble for dancing with that 15 yr old.

  • @arushijhathakur4299
    @arushijhathakur4299 Před 3 lety

    I literally had to fast forward the drake part of the video. It was THAT UNCOMFORTABLE.

  • @LittleSuzi101
    @LittleSuzi101 Před 5 lety +2

    Came thru with the quickness 😂😂😂😭😭😭

  • @shethewriter
    @shethewriter Před 4 lety

    “Call me Inspector Gadget. Cause I’m looking at the clues.”
    I love this channel so much