I ALWAYS have wondered why my brother hated me and why I was always used and blamed and bullied. Gaslighting was a normal part of my childhood and often being ignored, criticized and driven into depression and despair. This is the only thing that makes any sense. I’m 63 and I still wonder why I was such a problem for my family that I had to be treated this way. I was always a truth teller and they hated it.
And don’t forget when you are raised in a family of narcissists that’s your norm so you select people like them as friends and partners and you are tortured all over again. You have to recognize your role as a codependent in all relationships and let the cycle end with you by NOT selecting people like that and treating yourself with respect and kindness. The other issue is you have children and they continue the cycle by treating their own parent as the family scapegoat because as the scapegoat in your family of origin you survived by being a yes man that silenced your own needs and you tend to continue the pattern into adulthood. Then you also have to remember to be strong and break the cycle with your kids without becoming a narcissist yourself!
My whole family are criminals,junkies,thieves,liars. I suffered my whole life. When I got older and didn't want to live with it anymore, I had to physically defend myself to make them leave me alone. I don't speak to anyone anymore. Most of them have died, the rest I don't speak to. I'm alone and I'm fine with that. It's better than being in constant CHAOS.
@@jeanetteharris2211 Yes. Even when you were with them, you were alone. But in truth, you were never alone, because He draws near to the broken hearted, yeah? ❤️✝️❤️
@@SheldonBrown567 my dad died when I was 10. After that it went straight to hell. I spent most of my time in the woods. But living with them had a huge impact on my life. At 53 I'm just now beginning to recover emotionally and mentally. I follow the example of the solitary monk. I stay home. It is thru the teaching of the monks that I have learned to start recovering. Silence, solitude....I do have my animals...but I have very little to do with ppl in general.
@@SheldonBrown567 I have arrangements to move to a very remote mtn . Off grid. As I said,I spent most of my time alone in the woods anyway. I am happy there. So, there I will live the rest of my life in peace.... finally.
I chose to stay near my father and mother and 2 of my 5 other siblings.. because I thought I could help them get well. what it did was drive me closer to Christ... and made me stronger and more discerning of people's games and wrongs. some days I wished I'd left. other days I know I overcame them and have the right to live in the beautiful area I live in despite them. cause I realised that if I did leave.. I would just gather another toxic group wherever I landed... better to overcome in the midst of the war. I am free now.
Because we were born with a light. Because we thought and wanted to think people have loving and giving hearts like we do. We kept holding out just like God did with Sodom and Gomorrah. Because we are not filled with envy and hate and could never imagine hurting others …..Because we just can’t imagine that. We were turned into to people pleasers to fight against the false accusations….. and all it did was make us appear weak and set us up for more abuse and be the scapegoat. But we learned the hard way didn’t we? And it took A LOT of abuse and betrayal before we learned to trust only in God. Our good and kind and innocent hearts….. our great empathy was taken for granted. It was not our weakness …… but our strength!! They saw what we had and were envious so sought out to destroy us. Guard your hearts fellow scapegoats ….. know your worth and that God will never leave you❤
What a refreshing new way to look at this old program. At 70 with the help of a Good therapist I am just now learning how to silence those old voices. Thank You, your channel is kind, gentle, and informative ❤
@@StJane 2nd Timothy 2:23 “And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel, instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful.” Thank you very much St. Jane. I appreciate that. 🙏
@@devrimknl7540 They think they are so slick, and you won’t figure them out. But when infused with the Holy Spirit, you are gifted with discernment, and you see through their attempts to pull the whool over your eyes. I agree.
This video was perfectly timed in my case! The part where you mentioned how mornings are the most difficult time for family narc's really struck a cord w/me. I've always wondered why a specific family member of mine has behaved so awfully, so consistently in the morning time- ALWAYS in the morning... Now it makes sense- getting their "masks" on and in order and aligning their persona based on the illusions they've manufactured through their behavior and treatment of others. Gives a whole new meaning to " not being a morning person"! Lol. I can laugh bc I can sympathize w/ her while simultaneously remaining grateful for the bits of wisdom I've gained along the way. And knowing the reasons of motivation for their misery is, well it's actually very sad, despite how hurt, isolated and angry I may feel at times. Thank you for the video- very helpful.
@@SheldonBrown567 NPDs run almost exclusively from external validation that they garner by getting praise, admiration, etc whereas empaths run large on internal validation.
Look at the people who call themselves "empaths"... Nearly all of them are narcissistic who constantly feed their addiction to emotional incontinence. "Empaths" more often than not, continue the cycle of abuse because nothing matters more to them than how they feel about something - whether it's valid or they can actually do anything healthy about it.
I really needed this. I like the way you presented. The words were just right for me. It feels as if God directed me to watch your talk. I am very thankful to you. Be protected and loved.
@@oldworldwildona550 I’ve had my latest and newest Harley for 14 months, and haven’t had one girl on the back. Jesus loves virgins, so I’m ok with Keeping her that way. Hahahaha 😆
@@oldworldwildona550 Too kind. Be I make mistakes and sometimes forget perfect wording, however I leave it all in for two reasons, 1.) I have no ego anymore, and 2.) Authenticity is key to me (Hey, that rhymes!). Hahahaha. But I appreciate that kind sentiment.
I was able to see it in my narc family at a very young age. And a lot of my childhood I think I just blank out because I was just going along. But the childhood experiences I had out on my own with other kids are some of the best times I remember.
@@BlueJeansandJellyBeans I forgot some painful memories too, but they came back in my late 30’s and early 40’s. I have some great childhood memories too. 😉
So I'm 24 seconds in and paused it...I initially think of Joseph in the scriptures...his brothers hated him, ha! Editing in: to be fair, after all was said and done, I think they realized that Joseph was alright...it makes me think that often times, GOD has his chosen ones, and does so, because being GOD, knows what will benefit as many as possible down the road...as it did in the case of Joseph and his family...being a "chosen one" isn't always easy...many times it's the complete opposite...like Jonah...God says "go to Nineveh and tell them I'm going to destroy them"...and Jonah was like "Yeah, ummm, no, I'm not doing that"....hahaha! Was he in for it...but he eventually did...and then when Nineveh. repented after hearing the ultimatum, Jonah, after going through what he went through to be convinced to do what God told him to do, he was like "OK GOD, let 'em have it!" and God told Jonah, "Nope, they straightened up...I'm not going to destroy them now"...so it was a lesson for both Jonah and the land of Nineveh.
@@carvalone3076 I think I was referring more so to Matthew 5:11 blessed yo when people insult you, persecuted you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets before you. If memory serves me correctly. Thank you for comments Carva. 🙏
8:08 When you were talking about the friend who is influenced by how they treat you 😢😢😢 I had this happen to me, word for word. I always say, the only thing that hurts worse than narc abuse is the "friend" that knows your story and yet does the same thing 😮😢😮😢 like....just.....
narcissist & empath. the classic. it's a spiritual type of entanglement with hidden (karmic) causes & pending karmas to be cleared on both sides. narcissist's ego gets triggered by empath's compassion. arrogance meeting humility is painful for both. insensitivity meeting sensitivity will trigger inevitable transformation because opposite frequencies do clash. the thing here is to return to balance for both sides. narcissist needs to open heart chakra (Jupiter - compassion, spirituality), empath needs to activate manipura charka (mars - confidence & self-assertion, materialistic ambition & drive). at times, of course it can get really abusive & negative & traumatising, still i have seen people in my life, get better after such lows & really get positively transformed. some others also get really bad into addictions, repetitive loops without learning the lesson. it is not an easy ride. but not impossible sure. we learn & evolve, let go, move on. like one of my astrologer friends told me, u know the last 5-10 incarnations are the toughest cause you are shown the pending karmas u always postponed & tried to escape, but you'll have to face them sooner or later. Oms
@@phoenixrising1221 Absolutely. In a perfect world, both sides would come out the other end better for the experience. I know I did. Iron sharpens iron. Thank you 🙏
I've hoed a few rows, but never heard 'hard row to hoe', I like that lol 😂 My poor old pawpaw used to tell me, "Make sure you get your education, hard work is for a mule, and even he'll turn his ass to it" 😅 Thanks for the message, recovering 30-year scapegoat here. The craziest thing I've learned just recently is that sometimes living under a narcissistic cloud is actually protecting you as a chosen one from much bigger demons, and all the lesser demons that you do encounter during that cloud of 'protection' are just sent by God or the universe to test you before giving you your greater blessings after giving up your lesser blessings to the narcissist's control.
Unwilling to put in the effort required to build genuine self esteem (by doing the basics, like meditation/prayer, eating right, getting exercise, pursuing goals/hobbies, daily affirmations, etc)… malignant NPD's gain their sense of self worth by crushing/collapsing the self worth of others.
@@BAsed_AFro Not all. For instance, many, will hit the gym, and watch diet because that image is everything to them. My brother and his wife are both grandiose malignant narcissists, even psychopaths. But they stay in good shape. Brother surfs and hits the gym. His wife does Pilates, and only allows herself one meal a day (usually a salad) and won’t eat any sugar or dessert. My father was a grandiose alcoholic narcissist, and he jogged every morning at 6am, after a couple of shots of whiskey. My mother is a covert narcissist, that always taught aerobic classes and watched her weight/diet. And my mother side of the family are all narcissistic, and looking fit and having lots of money is the only two things they care about. So I guess there is variance 🤷♂️
I’ve learnt this lesson, I once told a friend that my sister asked if I was delusional, and then she wasn’t a friend for much longer. It took me months and months to realise I should’ve explained to her that dynamics of my relationship with my sister because likely she was thinking if her sister thinks. she’s delusional then maybe she’s delusional
I had this when I was a kid being blamed for everything from step mother my dad my step dad all the time now I got rid of all of them and it all makes sense what your saying now I’m as confident than ever before and I won’t take any bad stuff from family now and they know it! Thank you for your video ❤️
@@JJmoony Yeah, it’s definitely a process, until the day we die. Hardships and learning, and hopefully spiritual growth, will only continue, until the world nails us to a cross.
This was so helpful! Thank you very much. I like your calmness and your ability to use your own words for explainig things that are so hurtful and incomprehensible for 'chosen ones'.
@@robertburns9596 You don’t seem to have it as bad as most people on this channel, That always feel like the black sheep, and even have to go no contact. Gos bless
I realised I am alone in my family now. I have no one to talk to since they all have such low opinion of me, it's no use. I notice they don't take me seriously. I love them so much but I just deserve being shut down and disinherited etc.
So much TRUTH in this talk! Thank you. Im the oldest of 3 children and have from a very very young age been the “Problem Solver”! I even told my own 3 kids to put that on my headstone 🪦 if I departed before the Rapture. Now I know I’m going UP and not going down. My sister, 4 years younger is the Narcissist. Both of us married men named “Keith” and both our husbands got diagnosed with stage 4 cancer! My sister widowed at age 37 in 2007. Me widowed at age 49 in 2017. We’ve had so many generational SAME THINGS EXACTLY happen to both of us! If I listed everything, you wouldn’t believe the things that have happened to both myself and my sister.
People need to understand what a "chosen, elect" mean and where it comes from. These people that are called are the ones GOD ALMIGHTY, had chosen for SALVATION "before the world begun, whose names are writtn in the book of life.GOD HAS PUT THEM IN CHRIST JESUS. THEY ARE CRUCIFIED WITH HIM, THEY ABIDE IN HIM. I am concerned that there are cults out there who tell people "you are gods, you are chosen" and satan will drive them to darkness.... and the other concern I have is satan uses this, if it is not clearly thought to stir "pride" . Our being different is only if we are in CHRIST. IF WE CARRY HIS IMAGE. BY GRACE ALONE, THROUGH CHRIST ALONE. Blessings to all who belong to CHRIST THE GREAT SHEPHERD. without JESUS CHRIST, we are vile wicked and fit for wrath.
@@salomewoubishet6513 Thank you for this reminder, not to let the term illicit pride, or any actions resembling that of boasting. He called us out of the world, and it is He that blesses us, forgiving us of our fallen nature, and sinful behavior. We thank Him, we love Him, we bless Him, we adore Him. Glory to God in the highest. ❤️✝️🩸
Man This Hits Home It's my life story. Except the nicer I am the more I get my face stepped on family friends wife I'm no saint but I try to treat everyone right. I'm worn out I was Baptised 5 years ago and I really try.its like my family is under an evil spell.
@@sterlingstoots3215 Except the fact you might get spiritual attacks , because you will now either push deeper into that relationship with Jesus, or pull back from It to keep the peace. Your Eternity is at stake, so push, yeah?
@@conormarren777 No, but I’m 50% Irish, and would like to go there. I had a great Uncle in Dublin, named Monsignor Dugan. Have a blessed day in your very beautiful and green Ireland.
@@conormarren777 Strange. My 23 year old daughter lives in New York City, yet is unGodly. Maybe we could schedule her to visit your uncle for a couple of hours and talk some sense into her! 😆
my family is up in arms about me being healed and delivered they keep calling the cops on me for praying. Jesus calls me a known deliquent cops called on you for praying those demons are all discomdevilated now.
@@SheldonBrown567 do you want to be i got some fun stories from Jesus about the end times you will like them at least. let me post some and look up Samsons sad tale on youtube for a good story. ok? at least ask Him if He wants to talk to you. we have been calling the animals like Noah must have so be ready to meet God. Rhinoceros rapture new story from Jesus written down by the pet prophet God saved all the animals two by two And put them up in heaven's zoo. But Rhinoceros was very heavy and large So the angels left him to wait on mars. He found that he could fly around in the sky So he flew to the moon and watched the other animals go by He asked God why oh why do i wait? And God said are you a whynoceros? don't you know you wait for a mate? She will be like you and different too And you both will live with me in heavens zoo When he saw her floating weightless by A lady rhinoceros great big and shy He knew at first sight she was totally gross and just like him a rhinoceros She knew she was a muddy dirty thing too and she would really love him in heavens zoo And he said she is gross just like me So he leapt from the moon and went over to see Past the stars way above was the zoo And there was room for lots more than two. The rhinoceros knew so he flew and he flew and he met his mate at the gate to the zoo. Born in a barn On the night Jesus was born the barn was full of animals. They talked. Rooster said: I was right there! I saw the whole thing go down! You missed it! You shepherds missed the whole show. Where were you? What? You were in a field? Man you are late! Cow: isn't he beautiful? Shhh they are sleeping. Don't wake them up, Rooster. Bull: I bowed down when I saw him. I couldn't stop crying i love him so much The rhinoceros said: I'm from far away. It's amazing that I got to see him being born. The King of Kings and Lord of Lords born right here in a barn. Why, i have never even seen a barn before! I can hardly believe my eyes! The other animals were surprised to see me here and were not happy when i took up half the space! They said I stunk! I think I smell just like He wants me to smell. I know i do. He made me! donkey: I will carry him anywhere he goes. We all saw him being born and we cried with joy. I have to say that weird guy in the back for sure does stink. He takes up half the barn too! Rooster to shepherds: Oh the angels told you Huh? Nobody had to tell me! I got eyes Rhino: when i get a mate and have children i will tell them all about this! Rooster : Nobody ever gonna have you Rhino! Whew, you too big and stinky! Cow: you both just need to settle down, they need some rest. Shhh be quiet. Rhino: But…But, i’m whispering Rooster: you got that right! Your butt is way too big no butts about that! Go to sleep you're waking us all up! Crowing loudly! Look at me, I'm so handsome i got ten hens! Nobody ever gonna look at you! Give it up Cow: somebody will have you for dinner, rooster, if you don't let them sleep.Shhh. You still wake us up at the crack of dawn. Look at the shepherds they’re quiet. Dog: i just love all y’all but, right now i could sure use some chicken! I’m hungry! I could try blaming the fox again. I feel terrible when i eat a raw rooster. I’m not supposed to. Oh wait! They just threw out the garbage. The Lord provided for me thank you Jesus! The pig said throw me that pearl i’ll tear it to pieces and get it all muddy. So he got put in a mudhole to think about things. Everything changed the night Jesus was born. The son of God was born in a barn. Angels told the shepherds the savior is born and they rushed over to see. He slept peacefully not thinking about the suffering ahead of Him. Dreaming about a beautiful pearl He would give everything for. That's you! a valuable pearl Mat 13:45-46 Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it. The singing pet prophet and the end time covenant with the animals Hos 2:14-15, 18-19 And in that day will I make a covenant for them with the beasts of the field, and with the fowls of heaven, and [with] the creeping things of the ground: and I will break the bow and the sword and the battle out of the earth, and will make them to lie down safely. 19 And I will betroth thee unto me for ever; yea, I will betroth thee unto me in righteousness, and in judgment, and in lovingkindness, and in mercies. Jesus sang this ballad to the children Little children Listen and come to me I am Jesus the one who sees I count every hair on your head I see every tear you cry Call on me in trouble Talk to me when you’re ashamed Lift your eyes and look to me I’m the one who sees And i see you
@@SheldonBrown567 ask if He wants to talk to you Rhinoceros rapture new story from Jesus written down by the pet prophet God saved all the animals two by two And put them up in heaven's zoo. But Rhinoceros was very heavy and large So the angels left him to wait on mars. He found that he could fly around in the sky So he flew to the moon and watched the other animals go by He asked God why oh why do i wait? And God said are you a whynoceros? don't you know you wait for a mate? She will be like you and different too And you both will live with me in heavens zoo When he saw her floating weightless by A lady rhinoceros great big and shy He knew at first sight she was totally gross and just like him a rhinoceros She knew she was a muddy dirty thing too and she would really love him in heavens zoo And he said she is gross just like me So he leapt from the moon and went over to see Past the stars way above was the zoo And there was room for lots more than two. The rhinoceros knew so he flew and he flew and he met his mate at the gate to the zoo. Born in a barn On the night Jesus was born the barn was full of animals. They talked. Rooster said: I was right there! I saw the whole thing go down! You missed it! You shepherds missed the whole show. Where were you? What? You were in a field? Man you are late! Cow: isn't he beautiful? Shhh they are sleeping. Don't wake them up, Rooster. Bull: I bowed down when I saw him. I couldn't stop crying i love him so much The rhinoceros said: I'm from far away. It's amazing that I got to see him being born. The King of Kings and Lord of Lords born right here in a barn. Why, i have never even seen a barn before! I can hardly believe my eyes! The other animals were surprised to see me here and were not happy when i took up half the space! They said I stunk! I think I smell just like He wants me to smell. I know i do. He made me! donkey: I will carry him anywhere he goes. We all saw him being born and we cried with joy. I have to say that weird guy in the back for sure does stink. He takes up half the barn too! Rooster to shepherds: Oh the angels told you Huh? Nobody had to tell me! I got eyes Rhino: when i get a mate and have children i will tell them all about this! Rooster : Nobody ever gonna have you Rhino! Whew, you too big and stinky! Cow: you both just need to settle down, they need some rest. Shhh be quiet. Rhino: But…But, i’m whispering Rooster: you got that right! Your butt is way too big no butts about that! Go to sleep you're waking us all up! Crowing loudly! Look at me, I'm so handsome i got ten hens! Nobody ever gonna look at you! Give it up Cow: somebody will have you for dinner, rooster, if you don't let them sleep.Shhh. You still wake us up at the crack of dawn. Look at the shepherds they’re quiet. Dog: i just love all y’all but, right now i could sure use some chicken! I’m hungry! I could try blaming the fox again. I feel terrible when i eat a raw rooster. I’m not supposed to. Oh wait! They just threw out the garbage. The Lord provided for me thank you Jesus! The pig said throw me that pearl i’ll tear it to pieces and get it all muddy. So he got put in a mudhole to think about things. Everything changed the night Jesus was born. The son of God was born in a barn. Angels told the shepherds the savior is born and they rushed over to see. He slept peacefully not thinking about the suffering ahead of Him. Dreaming about a beautiful pearl He would give everything for. That's you! a valuable pearl Mat 13:45-46 Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it. The singing pet prophet and the end time covenant with the animals Hos 2:14-15, 18-19 And in that day will I make a covenant for them with the beasts of the field, and with the fowls of heaven, and [with] the creeping things of the ground: and I will break the bow and the sword and the battle out of the earth, and will make them to lie down safely. 19 And I will betroth thee unto me for ever; yea, I will betroth thee unto me in righteousness, and in judgment, and in lovingkindness, and in mercies. Jesus sang this ballad to the children Little children Listen and come to me I am Jesus the one who sees I count every hair on your head I see every tear you cry Call on me in trouble Talk to me when you’re ashamed Lift your eyes and look to me I’m the one who sees And i see you
Q:? My wife and I “celebrated” our 23rd wedding anniversary. I got her flowers for the deck and planters, chocolates, a card, an antique leaded glass & ruby colored crystal bell 8” tall made in W. Germany, treated her to a steak dinner and a movie. What did I get? Nothing. I wasn’t even worth a card. Is this a case of I guess I know where I stand, or am I making assumptions?
@@AnOhioPatriot Been together 23 years! Has she been manipulating you much? With Holy Spirit , you are gifted discernment. Has your BS detector been going off this whole time or not?
I'm sitting here listening to this wondering if I'm the narcissist or am i the scapegoat, but i really believe that I'm the scapegoat, but then i feel like because i believe that i might be the narcissist, ugh 😔🤔
As time goes on you eventually start to question yourself because "they" over time, start to mimic you, your beliefs and what you have said in the past and what you stand for... It's a strange illusion, a facade. It makes me think of the warped and twisted mirrors at the fair... Get out of their energy and fill yourself with truth so you won't be deceived by the illusion they try to paint upon you and your life...
@@SheldonBrown567 Yes Brother, we are the same and you hit on a few truths that I needed to hear from someone else, so you have done God's work today - thank you & God Bless.
ONE OF MY DAILY PRAYERS What a mess the church in America is. I pray that the church in America wakes up. I pray that all corruption, error and confusion is exposed for what is and is corrected according to God's perfect word. I pray that we all come to the true unity of the faith, faith in God's perfect word, not faith in doctrines of devils, not faith in false doctrines of man , false traditions and false denominations(beliefs) LET IT ALL BE ACCURSED FOR WHAT IT IS. I PRAY THAT WE ALL DECLARE THE TRUE GOSPEL OF THE KINGDOM OF GOD, THE TRUE GOSPEL OF THE LORD JESUS CHRIST WITH ALL THE BOLDNESS OF LION OF THE TRIBE OF JUDAH IN THE MIGHTY POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST IN JESUS NAME. WITHOUT TRUE REPENTANCE FROM SIN THERE IS NO SALVATION. GOD IS NOT MOCKED, WHATSOEVER YOU SOW YOU SHALL REAP. IF YOU SOW TO THE FLESH,(LIVE IN SIN), YOU WILL REAP CORRUPTION(HELL AND THE LAKE OF FIRE).
@@mountuplikeaneagle Yeah, we are divided on all fronts. Jesus says you will know the end times by reading the signs. Red sky in the morning means storm is coming, certain trees blossoming means Summer is coming, and by the state of affairs in our country and the world, increasing greed, corruption, hearts growing cold, it’s definitely time to prepare by growing that connection to the good Lord, alone, in your prayer closet, and staying in the word. ✝️
@@SheldonBrown567 There are Christians all over CZcams thinking the rapture is about to take place but they only believe that because of the abundance of teachers teaching doctrines of man instead of God's perfect word. The Lord actually gave me the final thing after I prayed about the end time, resurrection and rapture on and off since about 1981. One day he gave me one simple thing in his word which settled the question when the only rapture will occur. I had read it but not noticed it but one day when I sought him in Ernest he gave me one little phrase If you read Thessalonians ch 4, Paul speaking by the Holy Ghost said The DEAD in Christ shall rise FIRST, then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them(the resurrected church from heaven), so shall we ever be with the Lord. Revelation chapter 20 says there are two resurrections, 1. the resurrection of the saints(church) and the other is the resurrection of the lost after the millennium. Matthew 24:29-31 says Jesus will return with the Christians in heaven on the last day immediately after the tribulation. then he will gather all the Christians on the earth(the rapture) MATTHEW 24:29-31 29Immediately after the tribulation of those days shall the sun be darkened, and the moon shall not give her light, and the stars shall fall from heaven, and the powers of the heavens shall be shaken: 30And then shall appear the sign of the Son of man in heaven: and then shall all the tribes of the earth mourn, and they shall see the Son of man coming in the clouds of heaven with power and great glory. 31And he shall send his angels with a great sound of a trumpet, and they shall gather together his elect from the four winds(RAPTURE), from one end of heaven to the other(THE RESURRECTION)
@@mountuplikeaneagle I just try to treat everyday as Sunday. Jesus says He will come like a thief in the night, so be ready at all times. So that’s really all I focus on, being ready everyday! God bless you Joe ❤️
My covert narc wife triangulated our children against me and made me the scapegoat, unbelievable anguished....and I'm the sole provider. Took my 8 yo biological and adios ✌️
😢😢😢😢 I don't wanna do it anymore! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I TRY to remember to Love the Haters and Pray .... for the Users. Im 5'8" and 94 lbs soakin wet, disabled. They're ..... healthier Employed and CLUELESS TO WHAT We're here ( on earrh for! ) I Soooo run BOLDLY to the throne, and trust, One day SOON ....... We WILL See the Victories! But I have MANY days, I wonder, if I might find more rest in that Whales belly, Than to keep subjecting My frail soul to NINEVEH!
@@spiritlovescolorado In your words, I feel the desperation, however I don’t fully understand. But I want to. What do you refer to, when you say, “ I don’t want to do it anymore?” 1.). Spend as little time as possible within the presence of the “Haters,” and “Users.” And 2.) Take a break from praying for them for awhile. Sometimes the wound needs to heal before we can say good heartfelt prayers for our abusers, yeah. The good Lord knows our psychological wounds take time to heal, just as our physical wounds on the skin take time to heal . And 3.). Don’t wish anyone ill will on anyone, give yourself some distance, and time, so the gaping wound can turn into soft pink flesh, and eventually a tough scar, that is no longer sensitive at all. I hope this helps.
@@SheldonBrown567 Definitely #1 Looking forward to the Days ahead, When Father Plucks Us from the Users and Haters! On # 2 I dont think Im capable of NOT PRAYING for Them, .... SOMEBODY HAS TO! 🦁🐑🐴💓 BUT the presence of darkness or selfishness or negative 💩 ..... I can hardly bare .... Im like an extreme empath ..... it BOTHERS Me to SEE The things I Can SEE in the Spirit, folks are oblivious to. The hardest thing in life, is to Witness the injustices of this World ..... and Not let it dim or effect Our light.
@@spiritlovescolorado I understand it’s painful seeing all the things that God hates. It is frustrating. We all feel similar, so you are not alone. Ask, in prayer, for His condolences, and grace, to bare it. ❤️
I feel like for me it’s a bloodline curse I’ve inherited that my family doesn’t realize. In a way I sort of feel like being the chosen one is a blessing and a curse just like an empath can be as well. Also I’m just very honest and real while a lot of my family members and friends are more dark triad or dark empaths rather than an intuitive energy healer. I’m able to take their masks off and they don’t like it. I’m not perfect but I’m honest. If they are going to be a constant energy vampire in my life then i will be the Heyoka and mirror them, I’m going to show them their flaws and sins as well. I’m definitely the scapegoat of the family unfortunately. We self isolate a lot for sure because we feel targeted too much. We get labeled the black sheep. My family is notorious for gossiping about me. I get ganged up on by friends and family.
@@SheldonBrown567 do you think that it is a bloodline curse or this is just something God has placed upon my life as an instrument to work for him? I won’t be upset Either way I just need to know the truth. Any insights you can share would be greatly appreciated.
@@ChozenOne444 Only you can decide how you look upon it. How can it be a curse though, to have a good heart. Personally, in prayer, I am telling Him the best gift He ever gave me, was that of my genuine well intentioned heart
@@SheldonBrown567 I’m saying my life is a bit of a blessing and a curse due to my trials and tribulations, not being a chosen one. I guess I should’ve reworded that carefully 🙏🏼❤️🩹🧠💡
@@SheldonBrown567 Please know I APPRECIATE that, Someone should 😁🦁🐑⚘ Thank You. Always offers strength to KNOW Someones Prayin for Better days, and BELIEVING for them.
As the family Empath scapegoat,I do love them but unfortunately I finally had to come to the realization that I had no other choice but to fade away and go completely no contact. I’ve heard that those Narcissistic people never change, I pray that they figure it out before judgement day 💔 Thank you sir 🤝🙏🏼 they sure are materialistic, love their Mammon . Matthew 6:24 Choices 🙏🏼✝️🕊️ Hosea 4:6 Knowledge seek it
@@therooster6104 No one ever promised us smooth sailing. To be a true Christian, we must be willing to let the world nail us to a wooden cross, yeah? God bless 🩸✝️🩸
@@chuckswanson8496 who cares. When they take you down, ask, Are you finished? Then excuse yourself to use the restroom. Take a few deep breaths, splash water on your face while in there, and decide if you want to go back in there with a smile on your face, acting like nothing happened, or excuse yourself to go home, and chill.
144 is 9 that is all. 9 is the end of the single numbers. Then it begins with ten. Again with ten 10 September is 9 august is zero. One jump through the zero and it ceep going. For September is one and nine. That's occult teaching because it is hidden in right in front of your face.. it's meaning
Folks, do NOT go around referring to yourself as a “Chosen One” as people will consider you a narcissist a-hole and treat you accordingly! I mean, just keep it to yourself. The topic of "canceling" NPDs is very heavily-trending today.
@@BAsed_AFro Please watch my newest video I just uploaded this morning, called: “Arrogant to call Oneself a CHOSEN ONE? It will give a biblical perspective, perhaps. Let me know
@@victoriat8481 Remind me of this request. Maybe in the comments of the new videos I just uploaded this morning, “Chosen to be His Representative, and “Continuation of Chosen to be His Representative.”
@@Reymundodonsayo He is more real to me than my own children. And He is awesome. God bless you. Please consider opening your heart and mind to the truth of His existence. He loves you very much, and would like to to be able to spend all Of eternity with you in heaven. Be well, God bless ❤️
Im the crazy one in the family who says time is short and Hes coming again soon , its seen soon for many years because I haven't always known when Daniels 70th week begins , now I do and so can you ! See Heather R Nisan 10, 2025
@@Owl4909 I say He is coming soon, but relatively speaking. Meaning, it could still be several decades off, or tomorrow. But it not ours to try to predict the date. It better to just be aware that the seasons are changing for the worse, and clean up, and get close to our savior.
@@Owl4909 Matthew 24:36 “No one knows about that day or the hour, not even the angels in heaven or the Son, only the Heavenly Father.” Acts 1:7 “It is not ours to know.” There is literally over 20 other references in the New Testament where it reiterates that is not for us to know, but Jesus does advise us to read the season, and be ready when we the the signs of the end of time. “There will be wars and rumors of war, earthquakes, etc. And it will be like a women experiencing birth pains .
Or God knit you as the scapegoat because he is willing to let you suffer because he wants to give them all the time in the world but be saved at the last minute. He set you up so they have an opportunity to feel bad when they are abusive, which they don't and are never exposed because he's all about making sure they make it to the dinner. Stop gas lighting yourself with the "chosen" theme and your pitch that just feeds Your ego......
I notice a bunch of you are making videos calling yourselves chosen ones . Yes I know we are the elect which means those who he has chosen. I thought we are Christians unless you are ashamed of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
@@mountuplikeaneagle Hello ✝️ Yes. And not ashamed. I ask you to watch a video I just uploaded yesterday, called “Arrogant to Call Oneself “CHOSEN ONE?,” Please let me know what you think. God bless.
@@SheldonBrown567There are many in America, that maybe think what they're doing is spiritual or noble or something, now many are now using Yeshua instead of Jesus(sows confusion,). Now you and others are using this title chosen ones. Today in the world and maybe especially in America there is so much confusion I don't think we need more. What you are doing is sowing confusion. we're supposed to reach the world with the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. Using the term the chosen ones causes confusion. I know it's not of God to do so because God is not the author of confusion. You are probably one of those that thinks salvation is only for certain people. what many do not understand is God did not choose some to be with him in heaven and others to spend eternity in the lake of fire. what it is, God knows the end of all things from the beginning. he gave man free will to choose. He knew from the beginning that when Jesus came and died on the cross and rose from the dead, which individuals would choose him and be saved from their life of sin and he also knew most would rather live in their sin and would reject Jesus. when you use the term the chosen instead of Christian the devil loves it because even if you attempted to tell someone what Jesus did for them on the cross the devil will work on their mind saying, ARE YOU SURE YOU CAN BE SAVED, GOD ONLY CHOSE CERTAIN ONES THAT CAN BE SAVED, HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE ONE OF THE CHOSEN? Satan's number one deception is to get people to doubt. it's the deception he used on Eve to get her to eat the fruit. did God say?, are you sure God said? are you sure God is not keeping a good thing from you?
There are many in America, that evidently think what you're doing calling yourselves the chosen makes you more spiritual. Yes I know the elect means those who he has chosen. I'm just wondering, are you ashamed of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ? Today in America there is a lot of confusion I don't think we need more. What you are doing is sowing confusion. we're supposed to reach the world with the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. Using the term the chosen ones sows confusion. I know it's not of God to do so because God is not the author of confusion. You may be one of those that thinks salvation is only for certain people. what many do not understand is God did not choose some to be with him in heaven and others to spend eternity in the lake of fire. God knows the end of all things from the beginning. he gave man free will to choose. He knew from the beginning that when Jesus came and died on the cross and rose from the dead, which individuals would choose him and be saved from their life of sin and he also knew most would rather live in their sin and would reject Jesus. when you use the term the chosen instead of Christian the devil loves it because even if you attempted to tell someone what Jesus did for them on the cross the devil will work on their mind saying, ARE YOU SURE YOU CAN BE SAVED, GOD ONLY CHOSE CERTAIN ONES TO BE SAVED, HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE ONE OF THE CHOSEN? Satan's number one deception is to get people to doubt God. it's the deception he used on Eve to get her to eat the fruit. did God say?, are you sure God said? are you sure God is not keeping a good thing from you? I was once a filthy lost drunk, I did things I won't mention here. If one of you chosen had come to me and said do you know Jesus, I would have said I grew up in Christian home but I left all of that. Then I would say , what are you a prescher? You would probably say I'm a chosen one. I would say what is that, what do you mean chosen one, chosen for what? The point is you sound ridiculous going around saying you're the chosen when you are nothing but a poor miserable wretch on your way to hell that someone you probably don't know was praying for you to be saved. Hopefully you all are born again of the Spirit of God like Jesus told Nicodemus.
@@mountuplikeaneagle “……Who are called according to His purpose. For those He fore knew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, so that He might be the firstborn among many of His brothers . And those He predestined He also called, and those He called He also justified; and those He justified He also glorified. What then shall we say to this? If God is for us, who can be against us?…..Who will bring a charge against Gods chosen ones? Romans 8: 28-33 Enjoy the joy, love and peace He puts in your heart, God bless you. ✝️
@@SheldonBrown567 Yes I know God's word very well. If you think Jesus shed his blood for just a few , you don't know Jesus and you don't know his word.
@@mountuplikeaneagle please watch video I uploaded yesterday, called, “Arrogant to call Oneself “Chosen One?” It explains everyone is called, but He knows ahead of time, who will answer the call. Thus “predestined.” Many are called, few are chosen. Please watch, let me know. ✝️
I ALWAYS have wondered why my brother hated me and why I was always used and blamed and bullied. Gaslighting was a normal part of my childhood and often being ignored, criticized and driven into depression and despair. This is the only thing that makes any sense. I’m 63 and I still wonder why I was such a problem for my family that I had to be treated this way. I was always a truth teller and they hated it.
@@julieschoolcraft1503 Not all truth tellers are chosen ones, but all chosen ones are truth tellers. If that makes any sense?
😢same
And don’t forget when you are raised in a family of narcissists that’s your norm so you select people like them as friends and partners and you are tortured all over again. You have to recognize your role as a codependent in all relationships and let the cycle end with you by NOT selecting people like that and treating yourself with respect and kindness. The other issue is you have children and they continue the cycle by treating their own parent as the family scapegoat because as the scapegoat in your family of origin you survived by being a yes man that silenced your own needs and you tend to continue the pattern into adulthood. Then you also have to remember to be strong and break the cycle with your kids without becoming a narcissist yourself!
@@caliblue2 So true. All 100% true. Man! Sounds like you explained my life exactly. Thank you for such an insightful comment! ❤️
Me too ❤
@@SB-ss5ih Hey, I’m SB! 😆
Oh, oh, oh.... goosebumps ❤❤❤
Deep...truth... challenging
My whole family are criminals,junkies,thieves,liars. I suffered my whole life. When I got older and didn't want to live with it anymore, I had to physically defend myself to make them leave me alone. I don't speak to anyone anymore. Most of them have died, the rest I don't speak to. I'm alone and I'm fine with that. It's better than being in constant CHAOS.
@@jeanetteharris2211 Yes. Even when you were with them, you were alone. But in truth, you were never alone, because He draws near to the broken hearted, yeah? ❤️✝️❤️
@@SheldonBrown567 my dad died when I was 10. After that it went straight to hell. I spent most of my time in the woods. But living with them had a huge impact on my life. At 53 I'm just now beginning to recover emotionally and mentally. I follow the example of the solitary monk. I stay home. It is thru the teaching of the monks that I have learned to start recovering. Silence, solitude....I do have my animals...but I have very little to do with ppl in general.
@@SheldonBrown567 let me stress that in silence and solitude I found peace. The great Creator can be heard in silence.
@@SheldonBrown567 I have arrangements to move to a very remote mtn . Off grid. As I said,I spent most of my time alone in the woods anyway. I am happy there. So, there I will live the rest of my life in peace.... finally.
@@jeanetteharris2211 Psalms 46:10 Be still, and know that I am God. Amen sister 🙏
Choosen ones are best to move away far
@@riasheart111 It’s true! I moved two states away. So happy I did too.
I chose to stay near my father and mother and 2 of my 5 other siblings..
because I thought I could help them get well.
what it did was drive me closer to Christ...
and made me stronger and more discerning of people's games and wrongs.
some days I wished I'd left.
other days I know I overcame them and have the right to live in the beautiful area I live in despite them.
cause I realised that if I did leave.. I would just gather another toxic group wherever I landed...
better to overcome in the midst of the war.
I am free now.
Because we were born with a light. Because we thought and wanted to think people have loving and giving hearts like we do. We kept holding out just like God did with Sodom and Gomorrah. Because we are not filled with envy and hate and could never imagine hurting others …..Because we just can’t imagine that. We were turned
into to people pleasers to fight against the false accusations….. and all it did was make us appear weak and set us up for more abuse and be the scapegoat.
But we learned the hard way didn’t we? And it took A LOT of abuse and betrayal before we learned to trust only in God.
Our good and kind and innocent hearts….. our great empathy was taken for granted. It was not our weakness …… but our strength!!
They saw what we had and were envious so sought out to destroy us.
Guard your hearts fellow scapegoats ….. know your worth and that God will never leave you❤
@@HappyDog-rj6yk Amen! Amen, Amen!🙏
TY you are appreciated❤
@@tracydean3678 ❤️🩸❤️
Amen 🙏🏼🌹
I really needed to hear your Encourament. I have alway's felt like a outsider.
If you tell the truth,you dont have to have a good memory.
@@billkitchin4123 Right?! And this lends us to be at peace in the moment, authenticity, and joy. 🙏
What a refreshing new way to look at this old program. At 70 with the help of a Good therapist I am just now learning how to silence those old voices. Thank You, your channel is kind, gentle, and informative ❤
@@StJane 2nd Timothy 2:23
“And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel, instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful.” Thank you very much St. Jane. I appreciate that. 🙏
I always felt like the lightning rod, the black box of the family. A disturbing, unwanted awareness.
@@devrimknl7540 They think they are so slick, and you won’t figure them out. But when infused with the Holy Spirit, you are gifted with discernment, and you see through their attempts to pull the whool over your eyes. I agree.
It hapenned to me, The Holy Spirit helped so much,now I am truly appreciated by my family
@@Mercalons Amazing! Did they come to Christ? What changed? I have to know how that happened, because it is very rare. Give thanks, praise the Lord!🙏
Churches are families. Wilderness requires godly courage.
@@carefulcarpenter So much courage! But he prepares us . ❤️
Thank you..healing from the narc family..47yrs of abuse..seizures from the damage done..I needed this❤
@@007msmessy Same here. The good Lord is blessing me with a community on this small channel, and we can love and support each other. God bless ✝️
This video was perfectly timed in my case!
The part where you mentioned how mornings are the most difficult time for family narc's really struck a cord w/me.
I've always wondered why a specific family member of mine has behaved so awfully, so consistently in the morning time- ALWAYS in the morning...
Now it makes sense- getting their "masks" on and in order and aligning their persona based on the illusions they've manufactured through their behavior and treatment of others.
Gives a whole new meaning to " not being a morning person"! Lol. I can laugh bc I can sympathize w/ her while simultaneously remaining grateful for the bits of wisdom I've gained along the way. And knowing the reasons of motivation for their misery is, well it's actually very sad, despite how hurt, isolated and angry I may feel at times.
Thank you for the video- very helpful.
@@Daxifem Haha, “gives a whole new meaning to not being a morning person.” Absolutely!👍
Thank you! Very wise! I was GC, SG, Invisible child, Helper, Caretaker, and I do not know how many other roles, sometimes I was no body!
@@ivadedeva7005 Aw, the invisible child at times. These roles are very malleable, yeah?
Me too! fractured AF!
Because narcissists are addicted to attention. And the empath enables them.
@@shortyiix Yes. Empaths are people pleasers, while narcissists are fragile inflated egos.
@@SheldonBrown567 NPDs run almost exclusively from external validation that they garner by getting praise, admiration, etc whereas empaths run large on internal validation.
@@BAsed_AFro True dat! 😆
Look at the people who call themselves "empaths"...
Nearly all of them are narcissistic who constantly feed their addiction to emotional incontinence.
"Empaths" more often than not, continue the cycle of abuse because nothing matters more to them than how they feel about something - whether it's valid or they can actually do anything healthy about it.
this is the day that the Lord has made 🍃
I really needed this. I like the way you presented. The words were just right for me. It feels as if God directed me to watch your talk.
I am very thankful to you. Be protected and loved.
@@oldworldwildona550 The pleasure is mine. And I mean it. We chosen ones were put here to serve. Thank you OWWOA550. Do you ride motorcycles?🏍️
@@SheldonBrown567
I had two motorcycles when I was young (age 16-21) ... have not had a ride since.
@@oldworldwildona550 I’ve had my latest and newest Harley for 14 months, and haven’t had one girl on the back. Jesus loves virgins, so I’m ok with Keeping her that way. Hahahaha 😆
@@SheldonBrown567
You have good sense of humor. Plus, you are very eloquent. My applauds to you.
@@oldworldwildona550 Too kind. Be I make mistakes and sometimes forget perfect wording, however I leave it all in for two reasons, 1.) I have no ego anymore, and 2.) Authenticity is key to me (Hey, that rhymes!). Hahahaha. But I appreciate that kind sentiment.
I was able to see it in my narc family at a very young age. And a lot of my childhood I think I just blank out because I was just going along. But the childhood experiences I had out on my own with other kids are some of the best times I remember.
@@BlueJeansandJellyBeans I forgot some painful memories too, but they came back in my late 30’s and early 40’s. I have some great childhood memories too. 😉
So I'm 24 seconds in and paused it...I initially think of Joseph in the scriptures...his brothers hated him, ha! Editing in: to be fair, after all was said and done, I think they realized that Joseph was alright...it makes me think that often times, GOD has his chosen ones, and does so, because being GOD, knows what will benefit as many as possible down the road...as it did in the case of Joseph and his family...being a "chosen one" isn't always easy...many times it's the complete opposite...like Jonah...God says "go to Nineveh and tell them I'm going to destroy them"...and Jonah was like "Yeah, ummm, no, I'm not doing that"....hahaha! Was he in for it...but he eventually did...and then when Nineveh. repented after hearing the ultimatum, Jonah, after going through what he went through to be convinced to do what God told him to do, he was like "OK GOD, let 'em have it!" and God told Jonah, "Nope, they straightened up...I'm not going to destroy them now"...so it was a lesson for both Jonah and the land of Nineveh.
@@RobTackettCovers Great example. Everybody benefits and learns a lesson when God is involved. Perfect! Good insight brother
true story! thank you..you absolutely are preaching to my choir!
@@DonnaMarieArtist Misery loves company. Commiserate here! 😆
It becomes new because zero is before one
Amen my brother in Christ!!!💯
Thank you and God bless!!
🙏😊❤️
@@missmagillicutty6721 I love Lucy! ❤️
Amen my sister ✝️
@@SheldonBrown567 me too! That was the nickname my Grandma gave me. She said it was because I was a funny little lady just like Lucy. 😉❤️
@@missmagillicutty6721 We nicknamed my mom Lucy, because she was foolish
11:13 That's right!! Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven Matthew 5: 3:10 (the beatitudes)
@@carvalone3076 I think I was referring more so to Matthew 5:11 blessed yo when people insult you, persecuted you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets before you.
If memory serves me correctly. Thank you for comments Carva. 🙏
@@carvalone3076 Oh no, you were right! My bad. 😇
@@SheldonBrown567 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Blessings 🙏🙏🙏✝️
@@carvalone3076 🩸✝️🩸
Thank you brother for your message. Keep bringing the truth.🙏🏽👑
@@tntlovelove3111 I will. Thank you 🙏
8:08 When you were talking about the friend who is influenced by how they treat you 😢😢😢
I had this happen to me, word for word. I always say, the only thing that hurts worse than narc abuse is the "friend" that knows your story and yet does the same thing 😮😢😮😢 like....just.....
@@carvalone3076 Birds of a feather, flock together. They can see it as a green light 🚦
Nothing but TRUTH!! You have a new sub sir!! ❤🙏🏼
@@MarcieAnne-do3yq Much love and appreciation ❤️
narcissist & empath. the classic. it's a spiritual type of entanglement with hidden (karmic) causes & pending karmas to be cleared on both sides. narcissist's ego gets triggered by empath's compassion. arrogance meeting humility is painful for both. insensitivity meeting sensitivity will trigger inevitable transformation because opposite frequencies do clash. the thing here is to return to balance for both sides. narcissist needs to open heart chakra (Jupiter - compassion, spirituality), empath needs to activate manipura charka (mars - confidence & self-assertion, materialistic ambition & drive). at times, of course it can get really abusive & negative & traumatising, still i have seen people in my life, get better after such lows & really get positively transformed. some others also get really bad into addictions, repetitive loops without learning the lesson. it is not an easy ride. but not impossible sure. we learn & evolve, let go, move on. like one of my astrologer friends told me, u know the last 5-10 incarnations are the toughest cause you are shown the pending karmas u always postponed & tried to escape, but you'll have to face them sooner or later. Oms
@@phoenixrising1221 Absolutely. In a perfect world, both sides would come out the other end better for the experience. I know I did. Iron sharpens iron. Thank you 🙏
I've hoed a few rows, but never heard 'hard row to hoe', I like that lol 😂 My poor old pawpaw used to tell me, "Make sure you get your education, hard work is for a mule, and even he'll turn his ass to it" 😅 Thanks for the message, recovering 30-year scapegoat here. The craziest thing I've learned just recently is that sometimes living under a narcissistic cloud is actually protecting you as a chosen one from much bigger demons, and all the lesser demons that you do encounter during that cloud of 'protection' are just sent by God or the universe to test you before giving you your greater blessings after giving up your lesser blessings to the narcissist's control.
@@user-ue9kf8wy4s There’s definitely truth in that. The devil we know is less scary than the one we don’t know, I guess . Thank you 🙏
@@user-ue9kf8wy4s yep …… we’ve been in training!! Boot camp isn’t easy but necessary to make us battle ready ❤️
Unwilling to put in the effort required to build genuine self esteem (by doing the basics, like meditation/prayer, eating right, getting exercise, pursuing goals/hobbies, daily affirmations, etc)… malignant NPD's gain their sense of self worth by crushing/collapsing the self worth of others.
@@BAsed_AFro Not all. For instance, many, will hit the gym, and watch diet because that image is everything to them. My brother and his wife are both grandiose malignant narcissists, even psychopaths. But they stay in good shape. Brother surfs and hits the gym. His wife does Pilates, and only allows herself one meal a day (usually a salad) and won’t eat any sugar or dessert. My father was a grandiose alcoholic narcissist, and he jogged every morning at 6am, after a couple of shots of whiskey. My mother is a covert narcissist, that always taught aerobic classes and watched her weight/diet. And my mother side of the family are all narcissistic, and looking fit and having lots of money is the only two things they care about. So I guess there is variance 🤷♂️
@@SheldonBrown567 Ah okay.
You do know that narcissists tend to believe that everyone else is also a narcissist, right?
(Just sayin')
@@BAsed_AFro Sure. It’s a game, that they think everyone plays. One up man ship, envy, competitiveness, and yes, they think everyone is this way.
@@SheldonBrown567 No doubt.
Meditation is satanic. What about Jesus Christ?? It’s not about you at all !!! It’s all about Jesus Christ you are nothing speck of crap
I’ve learnt this lesson, I once told a friend that my sister asked if I was delusional, and then she wasn’t a friend for much longer. It took me months and months to realise I should’ve explained to her that dynamics of my relationship with my sister because likely she was thinking if her sister thinks. she’s delusional then maybe she’s delusional
@@KBB-nf1dr Yeah, they get so deep in your head, that you can’t help but confide in others, and then it backfires frequently. Best to just stay mum.
thanks and God Bless
@@PHOENIX-cc8wh Appreciated 🙏
Wow. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. Alot of truth here. 🙏🙌
@@samuelalley7331 My pleasure Samuel❤️
I had this when I was a kid being blamed for everything from step mother my dad my step dad all the time now I got rid of all of them and it all makes sense what your saying now I’m as confident than ever before and I won’t take any bad stuff from family now and they know it! Thank you for your video ❤️
@@JJmoony Yeah, it’s definitely a process, until the day we die. Hardships and learning, and hopefully spiritual growth, will only continue, until the world nails us to a cross.
This was so helpful! Thank you very much. I like your calmness and your ability to use your own words for explainig things that are so hurtful and incomprehensible for 'chosen ones'.
@@just-anillusion5893 Yeah, being no contact for 3 years now, I’m healing finally. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
Many times, I feel like the black sheep of the family.
@@robertburns9596 You don’t seem to have it as bad as most people on this channel, That always feel like the black sheep, and even have to go no contact. Gos bless
Perhaps that's what God's word means when it says " I have placed the solitary in families.
@@valleysgardens6697 And He leads the prisoners (us) out to prosperity. Yep, exactly 👍
Great information it was spot on! Thank you.
@@jm5229 Happy to share jm 🙏
OMG so true. Thank you so much for this video
@@theworld9272 Of course. Right now, I’m uploading a video on how scapegoats should deal with narcissistic family.
@@SheldonBrown567 Sure,thanks!
So educating.
@@DebraRand-mx2rp Appreciated Debra. 🙏
I realised I am alone in my family now. I have no one to talk to since they all have such low opinion of me, it's no use. I notice they don't take me seriously. I love them so much but I just deserve being shut down and disinherited etc.
@@sangformajorna That sounds heartbreaking ❤️🩹. I don’t know the details, but follow your intuition and pray on it. I’ll pray for you. God bless ✝️
Thanks my brother. From Jamaica 🇯🇲. Where is your hidden camera on my family home????
.Blessings and keep up the great work for the Lord our Messiah.
@@ollieg9202 Hahaha, no hidden camera. 😆 Thank you 🙏
On point about the friends
@@CharmaineMargaret-jp8ky And, that’s done on Purpose! In order to keep you isolated. Those sneaky little sneaks! 😆
@@SheldonBrown567 Yes perfect
So much TRUTH in this talk! Thank you. Im the oldest of 3 children and have from a very very young age been the “Problem Solver”! I even told my own 3 kids to put that on my headstone 🪦 if I departed before the Rapture. Now I know I’m going UP and not going down.
My sister, 4 years younger is the Narcissist.
Both of us married men named “Keith” and both our husbands got diagnosed with stage 4 cancer! My sister widowed at age 37 in 2007. Me widowed at age 49 in 2017. We’ve had so many generational SAME THINGS EXACTLY happen to both of us! If I listed everything, you wouldn’t believe the things that have happened to both myself and my sister.
@@rhondawilkins2017 Amazing. I’m pretty open minded, so I might surprise you with what I’m willing to believe. 😇
People need to understand what a "chosen, elect" mean and where it comes from. These people that are called are the ones GOD ALMIGHTY, had chosen for SALVATION "before the world begun, whose names are writtn in the book of life.GOD HAS PUT THEM IN CHRIST JESUS. THEY ARE CRUCIFIED WITH HIM, THEY ABIDE IN HIM.
I am concerned that there are cults out there who tell people "you are gods, you are chosen" and satan will drive them to darkness.... and the other concern I have is satan uses this, if it is not clearly thought to stir "pride" .
Our being different is only if we are in CHRIST. IF WE CARRY HIS IMAGE. BY GRACE ALONE, THROUGH CHRIST ALONE.
Blessings to all who belong to CHRIST THE GREAT SHEPHERD. without JESUS CHRIST, we are vile wicked and fit for wrath.
@@salomewoubishet6513 Thank you for this reminder, not to let the term illicit pride, or any actions resembling that of boasting. He called us out of the world, and it is He that blesses us, forgiving us of our fallen nature, and sinful behavior. We thank Him, we love Him, we bless Him, we adore Him. Glory to God in the highest. ❤️✝️🩸
🙏🙏🙏 Liked, shared, and subscribed 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏✝️❤ Blessings to you and your beloved dog all your days 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏✝️❤👏🥰
@@carvalone3076 Much love. 🙏
Man This Hits Home It's my life story. Except the nicer I am the more I get my face stepped on family friends wife I'm no saint but I try to treat everyone right. I'm worn out I was Baptised 5 years ago and I really try.its like my family is under an evil spell.
@@sterlingstoots3215 Except the fact you might get spiritual attacks , because you will now either push deeper into that relationship with Jesus, or pull back from
It to keep the peace. Your Eternity is at stake, so push, yeah?
Facts
@@BecamePneuma That’s the fact Jack! Bill Murray, Stripes. 😆
thank you brother
@@conormarren777 I’m pleased. Are you in Ireland 🇮🇪? With first name, I thought maybe.
@@SheldonBrown567 I am Irish/ from Ireland yes 🙂🇮🇪 you have connections?
@@conormarren777 No, but I’m 50% Irish, and would like to go there. I had a great Uncle in Dublin, named Monsignor Dugan. Have a blessed day in your very beautiful and green Ireland.
@@SheldonBrown567 that is crazy, I have an uncle who was a monsignor in New Jersey - thanks for blessing!
@@conormarren777 Strange. My 23 year old daughter lives in New York City, yet is unGodly. Maybe we could schedule her to visit your uncle for a couple of hours and talk some sense into her! 😆
Thank you. I love you
@@ryanschneer Love and appreciation ✝️
my family is up in arms about me being healed and delivered they keep calling the cops on me for praying. Jesus calls me a known deliquent cops called on you for praying those demons are all discomdevilated now.
@@hayahwassa Sorry our families out not in alignment with Jesus. 🤷♂️
@@SheldonBrown567 do you want to be i got some fun stories from Jesus about the end times you will like them at least. let me post some and look up Samsons sad tale on youtube for a good story.
ok? at least ask Him if He wants to talk to you.
we have been calling the animals like Noah must have so be ready to meet God.
Rhinoceros rapture new story from Jesus written down by the pet prophet
God saved all the animals two by two
And put them up in heaven's zoo.
But Rhinoceros was very heavy and large
So the angels left him to wait on mars.
He found that he could fly around in the sky
So he flew to the moon and watched the other animals go by
He asked God why oh why do i wait?
And God said are you a whynoceros? don't you know you wait for a mate?
She will be like you and different too
And you both will live with me in heavens zoo
When he saw her floating weightless by
A lady rhinoceros great big and shy
He knew at first sight she was totally gross
and just like him a rhinoceros
She knew she was a muddy dirty thing too
and she would really love him in heavens zoo
And he said she is gross just like me
So he leapt from the moon and went over to see
Past the stars way above was the zoo
And there was room for lots more than two.
The rhinoceros knew so he flew and he flew
and he met his mate at the gate to the zoo.
Born in a barn
On the night Jesus was born the barn was full of animals.
They talked.
Rooster said: I was right there! I saw the whole thing go down! You missed it!
You shepherds missed the whole show. Where were you? What? You were in a field? Man you are late!
Cow: isn't he beautiful? Shhh they are sleeping. Don't wake them up, Rooster.
Bull: I bowed down when I saw him. I couldn't stop crying i love him so much
The rhinoceros said: I'm from far away. It's amazing that I got to see him being born. The King of Kings and Lord of Lords born right here in a barn. Why, i have never even seen a barn before! I can hardly believe my eyes!
The other animals were surprised to see me here and were not happy when i took up half the space! They said I stunk! I think I smell just like He wants me to smell. I know i do. He made me!
donkey: I will carry him anywhere he goes. We all saw him being born and we cried with joy. I have to say that weird guy in the back for sure does stink. He takes up half the barn too!
Rooster to shepherds: Oh the angels told you Huh? Nobody had to tell me! I got eyes
Rhino: when i get a mate and have children i will tell them all about this!
Rooster : Nobody ever gonna have you Rhino! Whew, you too big and stinky!
Cow: you both just need to settle down, they need some rest. Shhh be quiet.
Rhino: But…But, i’m whispering
Rooster: you got that right! Your butt is way too big no butts about that! Go to sleep you're waking us all up!
Crowing loudly!
Look at me, I'm so handsome i got ten hens! Nobody ever gonna look at you! Give it up
Cow: somebody will have you for dinner, rooster, if you don't let them sleep.Shhh. You still wake us up at the crack of dawn. Look at the shepherds they’re quiet.
Dog: i just love all y’all but, right now i could sure use some chicken! I’m hungry! I could try blaming the fox again. I feel terrible when i eat a raw rooster. I’m not supposed to. Oh wait! They just threw out the garbage. The Lord provided for me thank you Jesus!
The pig said throw me that pearl i’ll tear it to pieces and get it all muddy.
So he got put in a mudhole to think about things.
Everything changed the night Jesus was born. The son of God was born in a barn. Angels told the shepherds the savior is born and they rushed over to see. He slept peacefully not thinking about the suffering ahead of Him. Dreaming about a beautiful pearl He would give everything for. That's you! a valuable pearl
Mat 13:45-46 Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it.
The singing pet prophet and the end time covenant with the animals
Hos 2:14-15, 18-19 And in that day will I make a covenant for them with the beasts of the field, and with the fowls of heaven, and [with] the creeping things of the ground: and I will break the bow and the sword and the battle out of the earth, and will make them to lie down safely. 19 And I will betroth thee unto me for ever; yea, I will betroth thee unto me in righteousness, and in judgment, and in lovingkindness, and in mercies.
Jesus sang this ballad to the children
Little children
Listen and come to me
I am Jesus the one who sees
I count every hair on your head
I see every tear you cry
Call on me in trouble
Talk to me when you’re ashamed
Lift your eyes and look to me
I’m the one who sees
And i see you
@@SheldonBrown567 ask if He wants to talk to you
Rhinoceros rapture new story from Jesus written down by the pet prophet
God saved all the animals two by two
And put them up in heaven's zoo.
But Rhinoceros was very heavy and large
So the angels left him to wait on mars.
He found that he could fly around in the sky
So he flew to the moon and watched the other animals go by
He asked God why oh why do i wait?
And God said are you a whynoceros? don't you know you wait for a mate?
She will be like you and different too
And you both will live with me in heavens zoo
When he saw her floating weightless by
A lady rhinoceros great big and shy
He knew at first sight she was totally gross
and just like him a rhinoceros
She knew she was a muddy dirty thing too
and she would really love him in heavens zoo
And he said she is gross just like me
So he leapt from the moon and went over to see
Past the stars way above was the zoo
And there was room for lots more than two.
The rhinoceros knew so he flew and he flew
and he met his mate at the gate to the zoo.
Born in a barn
On the night Jesus was born the barn was full of animals.
They talked.
Rooster said: I was right there! I saw the whole thing go down! You missed it!
You shepherds missed the whole show. Where were you? What? You were in a field? Man you are late!
Cow: isn't he beautiful? Shhh they are sleeping. Don't wake them up, Rooster.
Bull: I bowed down when I saw him. I couldn't stop crying i love him so much
The rhinoceros said: I'm from far away. It's amazing that I got to see him being born. The King of Kings and Lord of Lords born right here in a barn. Why, i have never even seen a barn before! I can hardly believe my eyes!
The other animals were surprised to see me here and were not happy when i took up half the space! They said I stunk! I think I smell just like He wants me to smell. I know i do. He made me!
donkey: I will carry him anywhere he goes. We all saw him being born and we cried with joy. I have to say that weird guy in the back for sure does stink. He takes up half the barn too!
Rooster to shepherds: Oh the angels told you Huh? Nobody had to tell me! I got eyes
Rhino: when i get a mate and have children i will tell them all about this!
Rooster : Nobody ever gonna have you Rhino! Whew, you too big and stinky!
Cow: you both just need to settle down, they need some rest. Shhh be quiet.
Rhino: But…But, i’m whispering
Rooster: you got that right! Your butt is way too big no butts about that! Go to sleep you're waking us all up!
Crowing loudly!
Look at me, I'm so handsome i got ten hens! Nobody ever gonna look at you! Give it up
Cow: somebody will have you for dinner, rooster, if you don't let them sleep.Shhh. You still wake us up at the crack of dawn. Look at the shepherds they’re quiet.
Dog: i just love all y’all but, right now i could sure use some chicken! I’m hungry! I could try blaming the fox again. I feel terrible when i eat a raw rooster. I’m not supposed to. Oh wait! They just threw out the garbage. The Lord provided for me thank you Jesus!
The pig said throw me that pearl i’ll tear it to pieces and get it all muddy.
So he got put in a mudhole to think about things.
Everything changed the night Jesus was born. The son of God was born in a barn. Angels told the shepherds the savior is born and they rushed over to see. He slept peacefully not thinking about the suffering ahead of Him. Dreaming about a beautiful pearl He would give everything for. That's you! a valuable pearl
Mat 13:45-46 Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it.
The singing pet prophet and the end time covenant with the animals
Hos 2:14-15, 18-19 And in that day will I make a covenant for them with the beasts of the field, and with the fowls of heaven, and [with] the creeping things of the ground: and I will break the bow and the sword and the battle out of the earth, and will make them to lie down safely. 19 And I will betroth thee unto me for ever; yea, I will betroth thee unto me in righteousness, and in judgment, and in lovingkindness, and in mercies.
Jesus sang this ballad to the children
Little children
Listen and come to me
I am Jesus the one who sees
I count every hair on your head
I see every tear you cry
Call on me in trouble
Talk to me when you’re ashamed
Lift your eyes and look to me
I’m the one who sees
And i see you
Autant de vérités en si peu de temps...
Merci beaucoup!
❤
@@marie-sophielandry3566 My pleasure sister
Q:? My wife and I “celebrated” our 23rd wedding anniversary. I got her flowers for the deck and planters, chocolates, a card, an antique leaded glass & ruby colored crystal bell 8” tall made in W. Germany, treated her to a steak dinner and a movie. What did I get? Nothing. I wasn’t even worth a card. Is this a case of I guess I know where I stand, or am I making assumptions?
@@AnOhioPatriot Not enough information for me to say. But is this the first time, every time, or every third year type of a thing?
@@SheldonBrown567 2nd year kinda thing .
@@SheldonBrown567 BTW - I take my grandchildren to church but she won’t come with us?
@@AnOhioPatriot Most likely manipulated. Wanted to see disappointment in your face.
@@AnOhioPatriot Been together 23 years! Has she been manipulating you much? With Holy Spirit , you are gifted discernment. Has your BS detector been going off this whole time or not?
I'm sitting here listening to this wondering if I'm the narcissist or am i the scapegoat, but i really believe that I'm the scapegoat, but then i feel like because i believe that i might be the narcissist, ugh 😔🤔
@@revealanation7778 There’s tons of videos on that topic. 🤷♂️
As time goes on you eventually start to question yourself because "they" over time, start to mimic you, your beliefs and what you have said in the past and what you stand for... It's a strange illusion, a facade. It makes me think of the warped and twisted mirrors at the fair... Get out of their energy and fill yourself with truth so you won't be deceived by the illusion they try to paint upon you and your life...
@@user-cg7gh4bk7z Revealanation I see a great comment for you here. Thank you 🙏
Scapegoats often question whether they are the narcissist.
Thankfully another one has been through my story - god Bless.
@@TheTruthBeHidden So we are brothers, if we share the same story, yeah?👍
And there’s a lot of us out there. God is good. God bless❤️
@@SheldonBrown567 Yes Brother, we are the same and you hit on a few truths that I needed to hear from someone else, so you have done God's work today - thank you & God Bless.
@@TheTruthBeHidden yes, my brother from another mother (both of which were probably narcissistic)! 😆
@@SheldonBrown567 Mine invented it!!
Let me pray for them
ONE OF MY DAILY PRAYERS
What a mess the church in America
is. I pray that the church in America wakes up. I pray that all corruption, error and confusion is exposed for what is and is corrected according to God's perfect word. I pray that we all come to the true unity of the faith, faith in God's perfect word, not faith in doctrines of devils, not faith in false doctrines of man , false traditions and false denominations(beliefs) LET IT ALL BE ACCURSED FOR WHAT IT IS. I PRAY THAT WE ALL DECLARE THE TRUE GOSPEL OF THE KINGDOM OF GOD, THE TRUE GOSPEL OF THE LORD JESUS CHRIST WITH ALL THE BOLDNESS OF LION OF THE TRIBE OF JUDAH IN THE MIGHTY POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST IN JESUS NAME.
WITHOUT TRUE REPENTANCE FROM SIN THERE IS NO SALVATION.
GOD IS NOT MOCKED, WHATSOEVER YOU SOW YOU SHALL REAP. IF YOU SOW TO THE FLESH,(LIVE IN SIN),
YOU WILL REAP CORRUPTION(HELL AND THE LAKE OF FIRE).
@@mountuplikeaneagle Yeah, we are divided on all fronts. Jesus says you will know the end times by reading the signs. Red sky in the morning means storm is coming, certain trees blossoming means Summer is coming, and by the state of affairs in our country and the world, increasing greed, corruption, hearts growing cold, it’s definitely time to prepare by growing that connection to the good Lord, alone, in your prayer closet, and staying in the word. ✝️
@@SheldonBrown567 There are Christians all over CZcams thinking the rapture is about to take place but they only believe that because of the abundance of teachers teaching doctrines of man instead of God's perfect word. The Lord actually gave me the final thing after I prayed about the end time, resurrection and rapture on and off since about 1981. One day he gave me one simple thing in his word which settled the question when the only rapture will occur. I had read it but not noticed it but one day when I sought him in Ernest he gave me one little phrase
If you read Thessalonians ch 4, Paul speaking by the Holy Ghost said The DEAD in Christ shall rise FIRST, then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them(the resurrected church from heaven), so shall we ever be with the Lord.
Revelation chapter 20 says there are two resurrections, 1. the resurrection of the saints(church) and the other is the resurrection of the lost after the millennium.
Matthew 24:29-31 says Jesus will return with the Christians in heaven on the last day immediately after the tribulation. then he will gather all the Christians on the earth(the rapture)
MATTHEW 24:29-31
29Immediately after the tribulation of those days shall the sun be darkened, and the moon shall not give her light, and the stars shall fall from heaven, and the powers of the heavens shall be shaken: 30And then shall appear the sign of the Son of man in heaven: and then shall all the tribes of the earth mourn, and they shall see the Son of man coming in the clouds of heaven with power and great glory. 31And he shall send his angels with a great sound of a trumpet, and they shall gather together his elect from the four winds(RAPTURE), from one end of heaven to the other(THE RESURRECTION)
@@mountuplikeaneagle I just try to treat everyday as Sunday. Jesus says He will come like a thief in the night, so be ready at all times. So that’s really all I focus on, being ready everyday! God bless you Joe ❤️
I had to delete my comment. Not safe. But...Thank you with all my heart, you are foing GOD'S work.
@@saltpeter7429 I understand
Thank you 🙏
Sweet smoke spot
@@Brutal_truthus ?
My covert narc wife triangulated our children against me and made me the scapegoat, unbelievable anguished....and I'm the sole provider. Took my 8 yo biological and adios ✌️
@@drewdrap946 My kids were also turned against me by my narc ex wife. A hell I would never wish upon anyone.
@@SheldonBrown567 sorry brother ❤️
@@drewdrap946 We were never promised a rose garden. But thank you 🙏
Godspeed, ... but, Remember,... Forgiveness. If not, it's like taking POISON, and hoping the lost one perishes...
@@ronshook5194 Truer words were never spoken. Thank you 🙏
😢😢😢😢 I don't wanna do it anymore! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I TRY to remember to Love the Haters and Pray .... for the Users. Im 5'8" and 94 lbs soakin wet, disabled. They're ..... healthier Employed and CLUELESS TO WHAT We're here ( on earrh for! ) I Soooo run BOLDLY to the throne, and trust, One day SOON ....... We WILL See the Victories! But I have MANY days, I wonder, if I might find more rest in that Whales belly, Than to keep subjecting My frail soul to NINEVEH!
@@spiritlovescolorado In your words, I feel the desperation, however I don’t fully understand. But I want to. What do you refer to, when you say, “ I don’t want to do it anymore?” 1.). Spend as little time as possible within the presence of the “Haters,” and “Users.” And 2.) Take a break from praying for them for awhile. Sometimes the wound needs to heal before we can say good heartfelt prayers for our abusers, yeah. The good Lord knows our psychological wounds take time to heal, just as our physical wounds on the skin take time to heal . And 3.). Don’t wish anyone ill will on anyone, give yourself some distance, and time, so the gaping wound can turn into soft pink flesh, and eventually a tough scar, that is no longer sensitive at all. I hope this helps.
@@SheldonBrown567 Definitely #1 Looking forward to the Days ahead, When Father Plucks Us from the Users and Haters! On # 2 I dont think Im capable of NOT PRAYING for Them, .... SOMEBODY HAS TO! 🦁🐑🐴💓 BUT the presence of darkness or selfishness or negative 💩 ..... I can hardly bare .... Im like an extreme empath ..... it BOTHERS Me to SEE The things I Can SEE in the Spirit, folks are oblivious to. The hardest thing in life, is to Witness the injustices of this World ..... and Not let it dim or effect Our light.
@@spiritlovescolorado I understand it’s painful seeing all the things that God hates. It is frustrating. We all feel similar, so you are not alone. Ask, in prayer, for His condolences, and grace, to bare it. ❤️
Amazing, thanks, makes so much sense.
@@orlabyrne5055 When you have common sense, seek no other sense, lest ye have nonsense. 😆
Thank you 🙏
... ! GOD BLESS You , Also.
@@ronshook5194 Appreciated 🙏
I feel like for me it’s a bloodline curse I’ve inherited that my family doesn’t realize. In a way I sort of feel like being the chosen one is a blessing and a curse just like an empath can be as well. Also I’m just very honest and real while a lot of my family members and friends are more dark triad or dark empaths rather than an intuitive energy healer. I’m able to take their masks off and they don’t like it. I’m not perfect but I’m honest. If they are going to be a constant energy vampire in my life then i will be the Heyoka and mirror them, I’m going to show them their flaws and sins as well. I’m definitely the scapegoat of the family unfortunately. We self isolate a lot for sure because we feel targeted too much. We get labeled the black sheep. My family is notorious for gossiping about me. I get ganged up on by friends and family.
@@ChozenOne444 Par for the course brother. Personally, I’d much rather be on this side of the aisle, yeah. God loves an honest, truthful heart.❤️
@@SheldonBrown567 do you think that it is a bloodline curse or this is just something God has placed upon my life as an instrument to work for him? I won’t be upset Either way I just need to know the truth. Any insights you can share would be greatly appreciated.
@@ChozenOne444 Only you can decide how you look upon it. How can it be a curse though, to have a good heart. Personally, in prayer, I am telling Him the best gift He ever gave me, was that of my genuine well intentioned heart
@@SheldonBrown567 I’m saying my life is a bit of a blessing and a curse due to my trials and tribulations, not being a chosen one. I guess I should’ve reworded that carefully 🙏🏼❤️🩹🧠💡
P.S. Thank You
@@spiritlovescolorado Please know I’m praying for you.
@@SheldonBrown567 Please know I APPRECIATE that, Someone should 😁🦁🐑⚘ Thank You. Always offers strength to KNOW Someones Prayin for Better days, and BELIEVING for them.
@@spiritlovescolorado Your welcome 🙏
Awesome brother ❤!
@@joshuatree3106 Hey, thank you Joshua (great name!)
As the family Empath scapegoat,I do love them but unfortunately I finally had to come to the realization that I had no other choice but to fade away and go completely no contact.
I’ve heard that those Narcissistic people never change, I pray that they figure it out before judgement day 💔
Thank you sir 🤝🙏🏼 they sure are materialistic, love their Mammon .
Matthew 6:24 Choices 🙏🏼✝️🕊️
Hosea 4:6 Knowledge seek it
@@therooster6104 No one ever promised us smooth sailing. To be a true Christian, we must be willing to let the world nail us to a wooden cross, yeah? God bless 🩸✝️🩸
@@SheldonBrown567 🙏🏼🕊️🤝❤️
Amen! 40 plus years before I finally figured it out. Jesus showed me❤️🩹
❤
@@jennifersmykala1108 I love cats Jennifer! 😉
Yup
@@chuckswanson8496 It’s the truth! 😉
@@SheldonBrown567 oh it is beleive you me. I am dealing with it again right now.
@@chuckswanson8496 Don’t ever react! Just detach your emotions when entering the lions den, yeah?
@@SheldonBrown567 if you don't, they take you down
@@chuckswanson8496 who cares. When they take you down, ask, Are you finished? Then excuse yourself to use the restroom. Take a few deep breaths, splash water on your face while in there, and decide if you want to go back in there with a smile on your face, acting like nothing happened, or excuse yourself to go home, and chill.
Awesome video man. I’m curious - is this knowledge from your experience?
@@one-root yes. I do zero research before I make a video.
May I suggest that it's a bit narcissistic to call oneself a "chosen one" and others "tares"?
@@93komuso yes, you may. God bless
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@@youWILLknowiffi123 🩸✝️🩸
144 is 9 that is all. 9 is the end of the single numbers. Then it begins with ten. Again with ten 10 September is 9 august is zero. One jump through the zero and it ceep going. For September is one and nine. That's occult teaching because it is hidden in right in front of your face.. it's meaning
Thank you very much❤
Folks, do NOT go around referring to yourself as a “Chosen One” as people will consider you a narcissist a-hole and treat you accordingly!
I mean, just keep it to yourself.
The topic of "canceling" NPDs is very heavily-trending today.
@@BAsed_AFro Please watch my newest video I just uploaded this morning, called: “Arrogant to call Oneself a CHOSEN ONE? It will give a biblical perspective, perhaps. Let me know
Sir can you PLEASE make a video on how to DEAL with these family TARES!?
Id certainly appreciate the information dear brother 🙏
@@victoriat8481 Remind me of this request. Maybe in the comments of the new videos I just uploaded this morning, “Chosen to be His Representative, and “Continuation of Chosen to be His Representative.”
@@victoriat8481 Or watch my old video, “Setting Boundaries and Grey Rocking Does not Work.”
@@victoriat8481 OK, so I made a video for how to deal with narcissistic family as a scapegoat. It should be uploaded in 20 to 30 minutes.
What is a "chosen one"? 🤨
@@diegomunoz-ml5yu I have videos that explain it, check out, “Is it arrogant to call Oneself “Chosen One.”
It’s hard to believe people actually go for this crap god crap
@@Reymundodonsayo He is more real to me than my own children. And He is awesome. God bless you. Please consider opening your heart and mind to the truth of His existence. He loves you very much, and would like to to be able to spend all
Of eternity with you in heaven. Be well, God bless ❤️
It’s sad you’re so blind
Chosen ones are related by blood, to the twelve tribes of Israel.
@@SouthernGospelSinger777 I have rabbis on my mother’s lineage.
@@SheldonBrown567 Most Jews today, are not related by blood to the Jews of the Bible.
The Jews of the Bible, were black and brown people.
Sorry, but what are the chosen ones?
@@basedtakes5012 hundreds upon hundreds of places in the Bible, refer to the chosen.
Im the crazy one in the family who says time is short and Hes coming again soon , its seen soon for many years because I haven't always known when Daniels 70th week begins , now I do and so can you ! See Heather R Nisan 10, 2025
@@Owl4909 I say He is coming soon, but relatively speaking. Meaning, it could still be several decades off, or tomorrow. But it not ours to try to predict the date. It better to just be aware that the seasons are changing for the worse, and clean up, and get close to our savior.
@SheldonBrown567 respectfully we can know and should know. Listen to her as she explains, I know what everyone says and there wrong . Lol
@@Owl4909 Matthew 24:36 “No one knows about that day or the hour, not even the angels in heaven or the Son, only the Heavenly Father.”
Acts 1:7 “It is not ours to know.” There is literally over 20 other references in the New Testament where it reiterates that is not for us to know, but Jesus does advise us to read the season, and be ready when we the the signs of the end of time. “There will be wars and rumors of war, earthquakes, etc. And it will be like a women experiencing birth pains .
@@SheldonBrown567 ok. Whatever, listen to her or not. We believe GogMagog will be in spring 2025
Chosen chosen by who
@@Fishingwithcampbell Our Lord
@@SheldonBrown567 so he talks to you like Enoch
@@Fishingwithcampbell The Bible tells us He speaks to us, in His still, small voice. 1 Kings 19:12-13
@@SheldonBrown567 I guess that makes the louder voice that most of the world listens to the devil
@@Fishingwithcampbell most listen that that voice. Only heaven or hell, and most won’t be going to heaven. Just saying
Or God knit you as the scapegoat because he is willing to let you suffer because he wants to give them all the time in the world but be saved at the last minute. He set you up so they have an opportunity to feel bad when they are abusive, which they don't and are never exposed because he's all about making sure they make it to the dinner. Stop gas lighting yourself with the "chosen" theme and your pitch that just feeds Your ego......
@@richellepeace4457 I love you. God bless, and thank you for your comment.✝️
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@@ryanschneer It gets better 😉
I notice a bunch of you are making videos calling yourselves chosen ones . Yes I know we are the elect which means those who he has chosen. I thought we are Christians unless you are ashamed of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
@@mountuplikeaneagle Hello ✝️ Yes. And not ashamed. I ask you to watch a video I just uploaded yesterday, called “Arrogant to Call Oneself “CHOSEN ONE?,” Please let me know what you think. God bless.
@@SheldonBrown567There are many in America, that maybe think what they're doing is spiritual or noble or something, now many are now using Yeshua instead of Jesus(sows confusion,). Now you and others are using this title chosen ones. Today in the world and maybe especially in America there is so much confusion I don't think we need more. What you are doing is sowing confusion. we're supposed to reach the world with the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. Using the term the chosen ones causes confusion. I know it's not of God to do so because God is not the author of confusion. You are probably one of those that thinks salvation is only for certain people.
what many do not understand is God did not choose some to be with him in heaven and others to spend eternity in the lake of fire. what it is, God knows the end of all things from the beginning. he gave man free will to choose. He knew from the beginning that when Jesus came and died on the cross and rose from the dead, which individuals would choose him and be saved from their life of sin and he also knew most would rather live in their sin and would reject Jesus.
when you use the term the chosen instead of Christian the devil loves it because even if you attempted to tell someone what Jesus did for them on the cross the devil will work on their mind saying, ARE YOU SURE YOU CAN BE SAVED, GOD ONLY CHOSE CERTAIN ONES THAT CAN BE SAVED, HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE ONE OF THE CHOSEN?
Satan's number one deception is to get people to doubt. it's the deception he used on Eve to get her to eat the fruit.
did God say?, are you sure God said? are you sure God is not keeping a good thing from you?
There are many in America, that evidently think what you're doing calling yourselves the chosen makes you more spiritual.
Yes I know the elect means those who he has chosen. I'm just wondering, are you ashamed of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ?
Today in America there is a lot of confusion I don't think we need more. What you are doing is sowing confusion. we're supposed to reach the world with the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. Using the term the chosen ones sows confusion. I know it's not of God to do so because God is not the author of confusion. You may be one of those that thinks salvation is only for certain people.
what many do not understand is God did not choose some to be with him in heaven and others to spend eternity in the lake of fire. God knows the end of all things from the beginning. he gave man free will to choose. He knew from the beginning that when Jesus came and died on the cross and rose from the dead, which individuals would choose him and be saved from their life of sin and he also knew most would rather live in their sin and would reject Jesus.
when you use the term the chosen instead of Christian the devil loves it because even if you attempted to tell someone what Jesus did for them on the cross the devil will work on their mind saying, ARE YOU SURE YOU CAN BE SAVED, GOD ONLY CHOSE CERTAIN ONES TO BE SAVED, HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE ONE OF THE CHOSEN?
Satan's number one deception is to get people to doubt God. it's the deception he used on Eve to get her to eat the fruit.
did God say?, are you sure God said? are you sure God is not keeping a good thing from you?
I was once a filthy lost drunk, I did things I won't mention here. If one of you chosen had come to me and said do you know Jesus, I would have said I grew up in Christian home but I left all of that. Then I would say , what are you a prescher? You would probably say I'm a chosen one. I would say what is that, what do you mean chosen one, chosen for what?
The point is you sound ridiculous going around saying you're the chosen when you are nothing but a poor miserable wretch on your way to hell that someone you probably don't know was praying for you to be saved. Hopefully you all are born again of the Spirit of God like Jesus told Nicodemus.
@@mountuplikeaneagle “……Who are called according to His purpose. For those He fore knew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, so that He might be the firstborn among many of His brothers . And those He predestined He also called, and those He called He also justified; and those He justified He also glorified.
What then shall we say to this? If God is for us, who can be against us?…..Who will bring a charge against Gods chosen ones? Romans 8: 28-33
Enjoy the joy, love and peace He puts in your heart, God bless you. ✝️
@@SheldonBrown567 Yes I know God's word very well. If you think Jesus shed his blood for just a few , you don't know Jesus and you don't know his word.
@@mountuplikeaneagle please watch video I uploaded yesterday, called, “Arrogant to call Oneself “Chosen One?” It explains everyone is called, but He knows ahead of time, who will answer the call. Thus “predestined.” Many are called, few are chosen. Please watch, let me know. ✝️