My female friends always call me rich aunty because of my personality not because of my dressing, my male friends call me boss and honestly, I love the feeling of knowing you're respected by both parties because I behave properly.
High valued woman knows their worth, even if they don’t have their stuff together they are always looking put together. They are the less is more women and are in control of what they put out on social media because image is everything
We like “short and cute” and also ultra-long. Proverbs 17:28 “Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent; with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent.” I read that this morning. Thanks for reinforcing it.
OMG YES! They were the kid in the class that would mes up the telephone game. By the time it gets back to the teacher, it would be a completely different message LOL
I'm 26,and it feels like my life has taken a new turn since i stumbled on this page. It's never too late to make the right decisions😌 Well done kamsi👍my WhatsApp fam are literally tired of seeing your link🤣but i can't even stop sharing. Not possible🙅♀️
Kamsi if I'm to count things I've been blessed with this year you're included,i don't know you not physically tho but gosh you're a wise and virtuous woman, the Bible says in proverb 30: 10 a " Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies"... You're priceless dear,since i came across your channel God.. I've changed positively, mentally, financially, fashion sense and more when i talk to my friends omo they look at me with such respect and wisdom, i look forward to the day I'll see you physically.. as for now I'll remain your baby sis like it or not 😂..I love you big time
Despite it not being the way you might intend, the first two: "Don't swear" and "Don't speak too much.." really has. that foundational feel for a woman needing to 'know her place'. Being a 'lady' used to be a way to silence and belittle women. Strong and expressive women were not accepted because men needed the spotlight. That was the foundation. Not saying strong women can't be reserved- but please remember that we as strong women- build each other up no matter how loud or expressive. Much love
I dont know where you got that from, the first 2 especially she made reference back to men and if a man were to do it they would not come off as very high, both high value men and women wouldn't do these things
I think there is a lot of emphasis on image and reputation that fulfills others rather than yourself which can be damaging. It can take a toll on mental health having to "always" perform and not give yourself grace. There is nothing wrong going outside with a bonnet or letting out a few curse words (especially innocent ones, we are all imperfect). I also believe you are either a high value woman or you are not. No amount of rules will make you one, generally it won't feel innate/genuine and the truth always comes to light. I do enjoy your content despite not always agreeing with your perspective, it is mostly well-intended which I appreciate.
It’s the Zara candle for me!! I can remember when you first got it and how big it was, I thought it wouldn’t finish o😂 but see how it has gone down! Also your hair and makeup is so beautiful 😍♥️
Kamsi pleaseee can you do a chic back to school college fits please. Like a haul?Most of us are still in college! Like how do i incorporate the Chic, classy aesthetic to my college everyday life? Hope you see this, Thank you! xx
Hi Kamsi, I loveee your videos so much! I don’t really comment but I had to Comment on how true this video is. Wanted to hammer on the point you made “you’re loud when you’re insecure and have something to prove” this gave me a little bit of self actualization. Usually when people close to me say “you’re loud” , I use the excuse “that’s just how I am, love me or hate me bs” but I heard you make that statement and I had to reflect and I realized, nah I was actually insecure and just wanted to prove I’m smart by talking more than necessary. Thank you for this video, and keep up the good quality content. 💕
So correct and true! Every bit of what you said kamsi, thanks for sharing ❤️ being and acting like a high valued woman cannot be over emphasized, it’s really attractive especially as a Feminine Woman.
Thanks a lot for this. Most times we have these ideas in our heads but most times our backgrounds act like a constraint. Not gonna limited by any constraint anymore. #Teamhighvaluewoman
For the first time in over 2 half years watching your video's I am commenting...I really enjoy your content they are very educative and I am guilty of wearing my hair bonnet out too😊😊.... You have been a great inspiration to me on my CZcams journey that with consistency and great content I too can make it and your 7 ways yo level up in your 20's has changed my life tremendously.....THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU
Aww thank you so much🥺🤎 Comments like this always encourage me to keep making these types of videos despite the backlash🥰 I love the fact you admitted you were guilty of it and didn’t get defensive🤎
The thing about talking to much is really hard for me. I have ADHD and for me it makes me talk a lot. I also talk when I'm nervous, which I almost always am when I'm around people (I'm a bit socially awkward). I try everyday to change but it's super hard. As soon as I'm around people I start talking and talking and I can't help it. Sometimes (basically always) I feel hopeless with this. I feel so unattractive, annoying and just too much. I wish I didn't over share or tell my opinions. But almost everytime I try, I fail. I'm starting therapy soon and hopefully I can learn skills there that can make me be a bit more quiet.
Hey girl, thank you again for posting, I'm such a big fan of you and wish to meet you one day! I am so shocked that you still don't have a million subscribers, because you deserve it!
The 11 people that thumbs down this video have an issue... Everything you said is not arguable when speaking of a high value woman. Thanks Kamsi for always sharing
Although am a new subscriber I always enjoy your contents And the books you always add to your videos I love them all Tbh whenever am on your channel I always jot things down I learn a lot from your channel
We Love the cute and short and we also love the ‘ultra long’. I came across your page sometimes last month and I must say I’m loving you Kamsi🥰. Love to see another Lagos CZcamsr doing well. Y’all inspire me in so many ways💋💋.
I love both short and long videos Kamsi, I love you and honestly you’re an amazing person. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Have a great evening ahead. I hope you see this before the day runs out ❤️❤️❤️
i honestly feel like women who apply extra long nails dont look extra ordinary or cute they just look desperate and unreasonable it speaks alot about there hygiene and way of doing things coz i dont think they can do anything or get anywhere in time and well.
I think it’s super weird to use someone’s picture as a don’t, it’s super problematic. You can “be in tune with your femininity” without putting other people down.
My female friends always call me rich aunty because of my personality not because of my dressing, my male friends call me boss and honestly, I love the feeling of knowing you're respected by both parties because I behave properly.
Girl your picture says it all too😍
By your profile, I can agree with themm
High valued woman knows their worth, even if they don’t have their stuff together they are always looking put together. They are the less is more women and are in control of what they put out on social media because image is everything
Exactly ✨
Well said 😊
We like “short and cute” and also ultra-long. Proverbs 17:28 “Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent; with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent.” I read that this morning. Thanks for reinforcing it.
Oh wow you were in spirit lol
Here’s to high value women, may we know them, love them and be them🥂🥂
Taking tips sis thank you
🥂
what i dont like about people who speak too much is they tend to lie a lot, cos they always have something to say
lol girll so true!
Ikr? 🤣😂No lie detected here🙌🏽
Exactly... Like they just have to say something, whether true or false and it's sickening
OMG YES! They were the kid in the class that would mes up the telephone game. By the time it gets back to the teacher, it would be a completely different message LOL
I'm 26,and it feels like my life has taken a new turn since i stumbled on this page. It's never too late to make the right decisions😌
Well done kamsi👍my WhatsApp fam are literally tired of seeing your link🤣but i can't even stop sharing. Not possible🙅♀️
So me...😆 I keep sharing the link to my girls
Kamsi if I'm to count things I've been blessed with this year you're included,i don't know you not physically tho but gosh you're a wise and virtuous woman, the Bible says in proverb 30: 10 a " Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies"... You're priceless dear,since i came across your channel God.. I've changed positively, mentally, financially, fashion sense and more when i talk to my friends omo they look at me with such respect and wisdom, i look forward to the day I'll see you physically.. as for now I'll remain your baby sis like it or not 😂..I love you big time
Aww thanks for this🥺🤎 glad I could help x
Not everyone is a high value woman, so feel free to disagree. If you’re trying to be a high value woman, these tips will help go a long way.
I cannot overemphasize on settling. I learnt this the hard way. Never ever settle. Loved this ❤️
Despite it not being the way you might intend, the first two: "Don't swear" and "Don't speak too much.." really has. that foundational feel for a woman needing to 'know her place'. Being a 'lady' used to be a way to silence and belittle women. Strong and expressive women were not accepted because men needed the spotlight. That was the foundation. Not saying strong women can't be reserved- but please remember that we as strong women- build each other up no matter how loud or expressive. Much love
I dont know where you got that from, the first 2 especially she made reference back to men and if a man were to do it they would not come off as very high, both high value men and women wouldn't do these things
I think there is a lot of emphasis on image and reputation that fulfills others rather than yourself which can be damaging. It can take a toll on mental health having to "always" perform and not give yourself grace. There is nothing wrong going outside with a bonnet or letting out a few curse words (especially innocent ones, we are all imperfect). I also believe you are either a high value woman or you are not. No amount of rules will make you one, generally it won't feel innate/genuine and the truth always comes to light. I do enjoy your content despite not always agreeing with your perspective, it is mostly well-intended which I appreciate.
'Never settle ' and 'Always have a plan' big points❗. Thanks for always coming through with facts sis
You’re welcome love🥰
Hi my loves! Back with another video and hope you enjoy! Any more things you feel high value women should never do? Let us know down below🥰
Table etiguette
Gossip,backbitting and dont keep secret someone told them.
It’s the Zara candle for me!! I can remember when you first got it and how big it was, I thought it wouldn’t finish o😂 but see how it has gone down!
Also your hair and makeup is so beautiful 😍♥️
Lol ikr😩 and thank youu 🤍
Kamsi pleaseee can you do a chic back to school college fits please. Like a haul?Most of us are still in college! Like how do i incorporate the Chic, classy aesthetic to my college everyday life? Hope you see this, Thank you! xx
Sameee. I want this video too
We LOVE to see it! It’s so inspiring to see someone my age talking about being a high value woman !!! Yes girl ! Get it !
Hi Kamsi, I loveee your videos so much! I don’t really comment but I had to Comment on how true this video is. Wanted to hammer on the point you made “you’re loud when you’re insecure and have something to prove” this gave me a little bit of self actualization. Usually when people close to me say “you’re loud” , I use the excuse “that’s just how I am, love me or hate me bs” but I heard you make that statement and I had to reflect and I realized, nah I was actually insecure and just wanted to prove I’m smart by talking more than necessary. Thank you for this video, and keep up the good quality content. 💕
Wow so happy you were able to come to this realization and decided to share. Props to you!! 🤎🤎
We have a Somali proverb which is "af daboolan waa dahab" meaning "Silence is golden"
we're taught that Speech is silver, silence is gold
So correct and true! Every bit of what you said kamsi, thanks for sharing ❤️ being and acting like a high valued woman cannot be over emphasized, it’s really attractive especially as a Feminine Woman.
Couldn’t agree with you more❣️
This is really nice, self control/respect is key to remaining classy
This series has helped me a lot 😫.... i can’t even lie 🥺 need to work on the “swears “ & “ coming out un kept “....
Me too🥺
I’m so enjoying these segments, you always give knowledgeable points thank you ❤️
Aww so happy to hear ❣️
Kamsi thank you so much for this video. I am surely inspired by this.
Please more 20’s series. Don’t ever stop. God bless you😇✨
Thank youu 🥰
Thanks a lot for this. Most times we have these ideas in our heads but most times our backgrounds act like a constraint. Not gonna limited by any constraint anymore. #Teamhighvaluewoman
Yess🥂
Thank you Kamsi!❤️❤️ Being quiet is not a bad thing!!!!
Kamsi,am happy to see African lady teaching about Elegant/high value.you just got me as your follower today.You are very beautiful
Aww thank youu 🥰
Thank you for the reminder to never settle when it comes to jobs.
Get your coin sis🤎
Never ever no matter what
That 1st point hit deeper "high value woman don't swear"
Who else likes the video even before watching because you’re sure it will be BOMB🥰
I just went outside now with my bonnet and came back and and guess who just posted kamsi 😂😂😂
😂😂 please I didn’t say you couldn’t go outside…but not outside outside😅
For the first time in over 2 half years watching your video's I am commenting...I really enjoy your content they are very educative and I am guilty of wearing my hair bonnet out too😊😊....
You have been a great inspiration to me on my CZcams journey that with consistency and great content I too can make it and your 7 ways yo level up in your 20's has changed my life tremendously.....THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU
Aww thank you so much🥺🤎 Comments like this always encourage me to keep making these types of videos despite the backlash🥰 I love the fact you admitted you were guilty of it and didn’t get defensive🤎
Just know this girl is just heaven sent to us her content helps me alot on improving my content too n my life live from Uganda 🥰🥰
@@kamsinnamani the first step to growth and change is admitting to whatever you want to change
@@sharifayusuf430 so true
The thing about talking to much is really hard for me. I have ADHD and for me it makes me talk a lot. I also talk when I'm nervous, which I almost always am when I'm around people (I'm a bit socially awkward). I try everyday to change but it's super hard. As soon as I'm around people I start talking and talking and I can't help it. Sometimes (basically always) I feel hopeless with this. I feel so unattractive, annoying and just too much. I wish I didn't over share or tell my opinions. But almost everytime I try, I fail. I'm starting therapy soon and hopefully I can learn skills there that can make me be a bit more quiet.
Aww babes🥺 you’re already on your way since you’ve recognized it. Go easy on yourself too🤎
@@kamsinnamani ❤
Omg same here!
I Love the tip about writing out a response to a bad comment made by someone!
Hey girl, thank you again for posting, I'm such a big fan of you and wish to meet you one day! I am so shocked that you still don't have a million subscribers, because you deserve it!
Aww 🥺🤎
Your trajectory on CZcams is so beautiful to see. I really like your videos and tuning in to see your face loool …xxx
Lol aww thank youu 🥰
The intro! Shaking tables now, are we?!😂
Love you loads from Kenya, keep inspiring❤
You never disappoint with your looks girl!😍😍
Aww thank youu 🥰
For real mehn
It's really beautiful to be a high value woman.....much love kamsi❤️
🤎🤎
Now my quickly putting on my wig to go out to buy bread is justified😂😂 thought I was doing the most.
Lool it’s not o or a scarf x
Same here Kehinde😂
I noticed the ad after the tip concerning “looking unkept”. Beautiful episode, loveeet
I'm new here and probably here to stay 😂😁♥️
I really need to know the people who dislike this video.smh.....I love you Kamsi.There's always sometime new to learn from you.THANK YOU.
Thank youu 🥺🤎
This hair is PERFECT on you😍
Thank you dear 😊you helped a soul here
keep giving us content back to back. I love it
Kamsi kamsi! U got me at that hair bonnet part🤣🤣🤣
Thank you so much for this video, Kamsi. Point 4👏🏾👏🏾
It’s the last advice for me 😊💃🏽💃🏽
Nice short videos babe ❤️❤️
Thank youu
I’m glad I joined this earlier ❤️ thank you
The 11 people that thumbs down this video have an issue... Everything you said is not arguable when speaking of a high value woman. Thanks Kamsi for always sharing
You’re welcome love 🥰
I liked this video as soon as I saw wearing hairnet out
I like this video!!!! thanks for making it. it has inspired me! keep up the good work!
Aww you’re welcome hun 🥰
pliz also talk about the nails
Although am a new subscriber
I always enjoy your contents
And the books you always add to your videos
I love them all
Tbh whenever am on your channel I always jot things down
I learn a lot from your channel
We Love the cute and short and we also love the ‘ultra long’. I came across your page sometimes last month and I must say I’m loving you Kamsi🥰. Love to see another Lagos CZcamsr doing well. Y’all inspire me in so many ways💋💋.
Aww thank youu
I needed to hear this!
Thank you💜
Enlightening ! Engaging as always.... Thanks Queen Kam
Yes, girl! Those hair bonnets have to go, it does not present a person best self!
This channel!!! Thank you Kamsi❤️❤️
That hair though! 🙌🏾
This is so educative Kamsi
Thanks☺️🙏
Girl you're too good... love and light ♥️
Your looks and content always 💯
True don't settle
I have learned so much from you
Thank you so much sis❤️❤️
I literally love every single video you posted because I always learn a lot from you ............. I LOVE YOUUUUU❤❤❤❤❤ Hope to meet you one day.🙌
Aww thank youu, hope so too🥰
I'm definitely sharing your chanel on my girls group ☺️
Thank youu 🥰
Topic on point thank yu cic... With love from 255 ... And the growth is splendit❤😍
Thank youu 🥰
4:06
Walking away always helps too
Thank you, Kamsi xx
Please do a video on 5 signs you know you’re toxic cos I don’t really know but people tell me that and I have no idea
I like your hair kamsi 🥰❤️
Thanks love🥰
I love these reminders and tips, thank you thank you♥️♥️
You’re welcome love🥰
Beautiful piece😍
They don't settle less👍 like we don't settle for less🙄😜
I love this!! Thank u 💗
Even guys have joined wearing the hair net/ bonnet out.. It's disgusting... Nice video 😍😍
😂😂
I just found your channel and I love your videos🥰
Thanks for sharing this
That hair net thing is really bad and local
Couldn’t agree more
Silence draws people to you*** Rhema
Anna Bey 🤔
Me watching with my bonnet on😂😂😂
😂 me replying with my bonnet on as well😂
I'm taking notes ✨😌
I love both short and long videos Kamsi, I love you and honestly you’re an amazing person. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Have a great evening ahead. I hope you see this before the day runs out ❤️❤️❤️
🥺 aww thank you so much love
Thank you for this video kamsi ❤️
You’re welcome🥰
❤️ ❤️❤️ a lil hearty heart before I watch the video 😊
Kamsi always speaking facts💯
🤎🤎
Thanks for the content
100k this year ohh
I love your hair
Thank you love🥰
i honestly feel like women who apply extra long nails dont look extra ordinary or cute they just look desperate and unreasonable it speaks alot about there hygiene and way of doing things coz i dont think they can do anything or get anywhere in time and well.
Love your hair 😻
Thank youu
I always breath and write down whenever I’m so upset. I started doing this from secondary school...
Wow lucky youu
I think it’s super weird to use someone’s picture as a don’t, it’s super problematic. You can “be in tune with your femininity” without putting other people down.
the bonnet is a google picture and I literally blurred her face. I also never said anything about the girl in yellow. So I really don't get your point
The Lord Love and care is with you Bless you always with you
Your hair is so dope...
Where is your wig from?
Hi girl, love you and your videos! please can you recommend books to read
Thank youu and okay