Part 3 - I Banned My Husband's Sister From My House....

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[@personn4902]

No. Mother here isn’t the AH. I was Amy or Nina in this situation. Growing up, I was always called by my name and often called by my twin’s name which irked me even as a child. After growing up, I realised it was because I wanted to be seen as an individual, not as an attachment to being a twin or to my twin. We didn’t mind being considered as a couplet when younger because well, we had the same interests, styles and friends, but when we were older, that drastically changed. Jane (the aunt) in this story doesn’t understand this need to separate twins’ indentities - the lady needs to gather research about its importance and give it to Jane for her to understand the importance. If Jane still ignores, don’t include someone who can’t even respect your own children.

[@katha3704]

From here on, record every form of conversation with her, else she'll go paint you in a bad lighting to the rest of the family and there'd be nothing you could do about that

[@NanaCbraun]

Not the asshole. But as an aunt of twins and cousin of twins I can understand large families calling twins “the girls” or “the boys” as we have. But the boys have nicknames and we color coded ALL of the grandkids. And I mean we color coded them….red is my son, purple is one of the twins, green is the other twin, blue is the youngest and silver/black is my daughter. And this is for everything from shoes to blankets, cups to clothing. We make it a point to give each twin a different haircut, and style of clothing. But to the outside family they are still k own as “the twins” or “the boys” and it’s ok. I mean they are only 16yo in February😅😂. But for us immediate family we can tell who is who by their walk, cough, voice, etc. I mean they don’t even stand the same! One is a lefty and one is a righty🤦🏻‍♀️. One has blue eyes and red hair and one has gray eyes and blowfish hair. The DNA says 99.999% identical twins but we are just not seeing it! Their skin, hair and eyes are different colors because after birth (at 5wks preemie) they were under different “grow” lights for jaundice because due to J’s congenital heart defect he had to be transported to a different hospital for 4wks. J’s hair is darker but skin is lighter. J’s hair is lighter but skin is darker. They definitely look like brothers, but identical twins……uh NOPE! The kids don’t care what outside people call them because those assholes don’t matter. So tell your SIL that it’s fine if she wants to not bother to learn to tell the difference between the girls then she shouldn’t be upset if they treat her as a stranger that they won’t bother getting to know or care about either! That shut down a lot of our family years ago, but some are just to stubborn and live to be the biggest asshole😉

[@xuyahfish]

I would call her "Hb's Little Suster" instead of by her name. Hey "Hb's Little Sister" pass the butter "Hb's Little Sister" and get others to do it too.
See hiw quickly SHE feels dehuminized.aybe call her "Jack's Gf" ... "Oh, Hi Jack's Gf." Etc.
Maybe call her "Woman" ... "Hey Woman, bring the casserole. Woman, the bathroom is over there, Woman, you can put your purse here."

[@rebeccadeleon3502]

No