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And this was sort of the first thing I ever truly learned in the red-pill space: what women say they want is not what women actually want and the amazing thing is how many women don’t recognize their own deceptive denial regarding themselves. The evidence for this is overwhelming too because look at how many women perceive themselves as being 8-10 on the beauty scale when they are not and look at how many women ignore vast majorities of men as being a viable option for them. These are evidence that women have a difficult time accurately analyzing & perceiving themselves according to the facts.
Lmao?! Men certainly lie to women more than women do to each other. I mean its a whole thing that men refrain from honesty and lie to “sell a dream” or avoid the woman leaving him
Any female profile in any dating app with anything other than straight as a sexual orientation is a huge red flag. I've seen demisexual, sapiosexual, asexual, bisexual, bicurious, etc.
I remember one guy who knew Elvis Presley in person in the 1950s told him, "My girl said she wouldn't let me get to first base with her until we dated one year. I found out she threw her panties at you at your show. I couldn't even get her bra off!" Elvis laughed up a storm over this, and the two became buddies. Seems to fall in line with this vid! Love this channel. So many great reminders, and really awesome comments by a lot of folks
I always loved the classic line when a woman is in the bedroom with a guy and she says "I don't do that" insert the words "with you" behind it because she sure as hell never says that to Chad.
@@MikeG82 That is because the so-called Chads don't need to play games. They know that they are attractive and can get whoever they want which makes them less desperate and very easy going. I choose the Chads because they don't have to lie and manipulate to get a woman. I would rather have a short turn relationship with a honest and happy person, than be in long term relationship with a biiter manipulative person. And yes men tend to become bitter and desperate as they ages. It is a huge turn off and 'Having game' makes me wanna run. It is not only the good looks that makes the Chads attractive it's also their confidence and mindset. Guess they haven't swallowed the redpill🤷
A couple years ago I went on a date with a very attractive woman who has two degrees and she asked if I knew what a sapiosexual was. I said someone who's attracted to intelligence. She was stunned I knew that. The second date ended with some of the hottest sex I ever had. And a six month relationship. And who am I? A factory worker with a high school diploma.
There was a woman at my work several years ago that had a POF account which she stated in her profile that she was a sapiosexual... She was well known for pulling trains with many multiples of men on the weekends, and she was also caught with her pants down in the invalid toilet at work with the resident chad thundercock.
Yes, absolutely ! People are what they DO, not what they say. Obviously, they should match. If they don’t, eventually what happens is……the words that come out of their mouth mean absolutely nothing. 👍
What I would love to know is how many guys pine away for 8-10's and have all this difficulty. Find a young 5-6 from a small town, good family, vet her thoroughly. Someone who looks up to you and sees YOU as her Chad.
I just read his book. No reason to say this but it was very eye-opening. It reflects a lot of mistakes I've made with women. Oh well, the next chapter in my life won't be like that. Learn always learn. Thanks!
If a woman says she's not into sex/only into intelligent men, it means she's not attracted to you. She either feels lust for you, or not. Like Rom Wills says, if she doesn't lust you, walk away.
Not necessarily. The last 2 girls wanted educated men who were successful vs non educated successful men even if they earned more. One was a doctor the other was a lawyer. Women know they love the wallet but they want the smart guys wallet as her hypergamy doesn't want to mate with a dumb guy money or not since she is above average. That is what it means in girl code.
I think it is a thing, but very rare, and there has to be baseline physical attraction. The sapio part can enhance it but can't make up for zero physical attraction.
@@timgibney5590 there are a lot of educated men who are intelligent but that is not what she is looking for. They usually confuse general intelligence with being articulate in speech. Some women love men who are very articulate and they call That intelligence, it is correlated but not the same
@@wisecounsel6135 Yep you are right. They told me finally a guy who isn't weird or listens and I pass her subtle shit tests and they like this. One of the girls gave me a cheek when I tried to kiss and I assumed she was not interested. She slept with me 2nd date but was asexual lol. She later told me she tested me. If a guy talked about sex or put on moves he was out. She was looking for a dude who got it and then made an exception for me just what Richard was talking about. Game/Frame is important men!
I went full monk 25 years ago, after a nasty divorce, and I never looked back. There is still a warm place in my heart for the ladies, but I'm a hopeless romantic who fantasizes about what women could be, and should be, but am not interested in what they've become. I guess I'm just not into placing my heart, my future, my present, my time, and all my possessions into the hands of a free agent who cannot, and will not, offer any guarantees ensuring their goodwill and good behavior. I'll never again be with a woman, or engage in any endeavor, where the other party does not stand to lose as much as I do should things go south. Anyone who invests in someone who is encouraged and incentivized to leave the relationship, with half your belongings, is insane.
Use of the term "saposexual" presupposes that the user is capable of discerning intelligence and contrasting and comparing different levels of intelligence. Ask her to use the word "saposexual" in a sentence other than "I'm saposexual" in order to determine if she is intelligent enough to be grading and identifying the degree of intelligence in a man.
He needs to read the the UPA. If he doesn’t want to do that the easiest advice is NEVER break stride for a woman. If your successful they will come to you.
Absolutely not! How many so-called "successful" guys have no success with women, and that includes some very famous business owners and CEOs. If you don't follow that path and develop your masculinity, you will never automatically attract women you can then choose from which ones are good for you. You would probably attract the gold diggers and a bunch of toxic chicks that are attracted to take advantage of you. The journey to grow is long if you choose to take it, but most men never will because they lack the social skills and the courage, honesty, and patience to master the game of tension between man and woman.
I haven’t read a book in years, got his book and read the whole thing in 2 days. I absolutely recommend his book. You’ll learn more in hours than you will in years.
I’d like your point of view when with the cancel culture of women now days. I’m a high value man, and they realize that, but always looking for the Bigger,Better Deal. Everyone has a “but” if you look hard enough. Which means all relationships have an expiration date. Right? Thanks
If she is looking for other dudes you are not top Not saying that to be a jerk, but rather you gotta up your game in dating skills or confidence. Women I have observed will turn down rich guys who hesitate or not direct over an middle class guy who has suave and knows what he is doing any day.
Knew a very nice girl who wanted a longterm relationship and marriage with family but she is now settling for what seems like an exclusive sexual situationship that may or may not lead to something longterm. She says she is using the excuse I am human and I need to full-fill my needs for the time being. Hearing about all theses rules that are made for some people but not for others and then seeing it play out in real life is wild. I understand that the flesh is weak but the excuses and rationalizing we go through is just something else. For once I Would like to just hear people more publicly say…I’m a hypocrite, I like some double standards but not others, I want what I want when I want it and my past doesn’t matter because we are all humans and messy by nature etc…
They say hell is a place where there is no reason . That is a woman's mind and ultimately life with her. Women are about emotion not reason. Always remember that.
She’s not being a hypocrite any more than a starving man who wants steak, will eat rotting trash out of a garbage can. She’s “settling” for the time being because she hasn’t found what’s she’s looking for. The thing is.. her “settle guy” isn’t you, and never will be. Her settle guy is as close to a chad as she can get. She knows she can’t have him but she’ll settle for his eggplant for the time being. And it makes perfect sense. If she can get chad pickle, just for sex, why would she go for beta pickle… just for sex?
@BB49 Hence the phrase "knew" my friend, as in past tense. Also not that hard to find someone nice but it is hard to find someone with a past that you are comfortable with and who practices what they preach. This is not simping this is discovering things about a person that you didn't know before.
I’d say improving your looks and manner in dealing with women is the strongest hand really. I’ve seen too many very wealthy men get taken advantage of. Not that men won’t get taken advantage of anyway. But impressing with money is your weakest hand! Not that money shouldn’t be something you try to attain just for the sake of itself. 😊
It takes much more than "improving looks and manner"l In fact, it's lifelong learning in aspects that are much more relevant to become good at dealing with women. On the other hand, we must not forget that an equal part of women as men are simply not worth dating or getting involved with, even if we think they're "hot". Men also have to become more aware and selective in choosing women beyond their looks, because they know that's their strongest weapon to impress us, and we should know that it's equally their strongest weapon to delude us. Just read Homer's Odyssey... ;-)
Dealing with women today is like entering into the worst business arrangement possible. It's like having a part-time job that doesn't pay but can take half of what you own.
I couldn't agree more, read the book, I remember one girl she told me she was 0 body-count but I did believe her, she told she just broke with her whole life boyfriend who was waiting on her to marry her, so because I couldn't believe all that BS then I told her, "OK, let's go to my place to find out what can we do about it" it was not even a date, we just spoke after I asked two weeks before, but after that another girl from my neighborhood spoke to this girl and this other girl convince her to leave her boyfriend and take my shot, so when she went straight to my bedroom I couldn't believe she was 0 body-count until I saw it with my own eyes, then I told her that we could try next time properly, then I asked what happened with her ex boyfriend, then she told me he was crying and begging to her to go back with him, mean while she was doing all the things that you could imagine with her mouth and my little friend with a firefighter hardhat, after a couple week I just dumped her, we never did any sesgsual with her VG at least, so after that she went straight back to her ex boyfriend with her VG intact but nothing else, after a while they got married, it's the first time I make a comment about that experience, but that man at least he got a 0 body-count girlfriend back with him and knowing women I can warranty she told him that we didn't even kissed and he would believe because it would make sense even for me...
You don't really hear genuinely intelligent women call themselves "sapiosexuals". Because by default they surround themselves with intelligent people. So it's a redundant thing to say. It's often college educated (but not necessarily intelligent) women that claim the "sapiosexual" title
Sapiosexual is code word for "I'm on birth control and don't experience natural pheromonal attraction to masculinity and androgens, so I have to rationalize my attraction to solely feminized men by calling them 'intelligent'"
Where is the data to back this anecdote? The majority of women are attracted to intelligent men, directly correlating that solely to income is silly as hell. Women don’t exist in the binary. If you believe all women are a specific way, then I can make claims about all men. Use critical thinking when examine shit like this.
Rich is 100% right again. I was on a date with a chick last weekend who let me kiss her before saying she doesn't kiss on the first date. Little to say that she went for a kiss at the end of the date to wish me good night.
He's right 💯. Just get jacked and watch women flirt with you and suddenly people start looking at you with respect. Granted if you're a broke jacked dude, she won't hang around long but still, that alone will work on many levels and help with networking, land you a better job and so forth. Start lifting, do it regularly, dont quit and watch. Im 52 and everything he says is spot on. You have to know your place in society. You have to be aware of how others perceive you.
I used to pick dates based on their sense of humour, charisma, intelligence, provided there was at least a fraction of physical attraction. I figured that morsel of attraction would bloom to full-blown attraction (and I'd welcome his touch) once we got to know each other and "fell in love". So wrong. So so wrong. The attraction didn't grow and I was creeped out when they tried to even put a hand on my back. It never ended well, but thankfully it only took max 3 red flag riddled dates before I realized it wouldn't work. Then I met the man I love (instant attraction) and I was like, Wow THIS is what it's supposed to feel like.
It's all about looks; wmn try to deny it by rationalizing that, supposedly, their attraction "increased" or, even worse, "arose" due their male partner's so-called "intelligence", "charisma", and/or "humor". The truth is that you CAN'T build attraction; either it's there or it isn't.
1:20 BINGO! My wife said the same exact thing when she met me… she was constantly saying “I’ve decided not to date” and “I’m not looking to being in a relationship”… as she persistently committed herself to dating me. Been happily married for 11 years now. Cheers! Although like you, I don’t drink anymore.
Your wife would throw your entire 11 year marriage away for a 5 min shag with Chad in a bathroom lol. You’re not too smart for committing. That’s classic h03 speak for I got ditched by all the men I hooked up with on the first date. You’re foolish one who committed.
Times changed. Back then girls used to say things like “I need to get to know you first” or “I wanna be friends first to have a stronger bond” then internet and apps came in somewhere along these lines the whole asexual and sapiosexual thing came out as a excuse. It’s the same stuff. Think the only difference is since women have a lot more options to pick from nowadays everything is based on pure 100 percent lust. If you aren’t her type at all I mean not even a bit then she might say these things to see if you are going to wow her or something.
BTW, sapio (σαπιο-tone in a) in Greek, means ROTTEN. Like rotten fruit. The term sapiosexual sounds like a very unlucky term in Greek. Bullshit meaning term in every way.
A few "sapiosexual" girls (some Ivy-educated, with grad degrees) had me in them within 25-60 minutes of being introduced for the first time. That's not enough time to remember a last name. I have had to tell a couple of them, "no, not in the bathroom--wait until we come back to my place." I wish I was joking. It's all theatre. I don't do this anymore. It's gross.
I want every male to read Rich’s book. Here I am a guy who married at 23 and went through an essentially sexless marriage (sex once or maybe twice a month). Very religiously strict family, hers and mine. Dominant parents on both sides. I think we both wanted out. It’s the guy’s responsibility to call it quits. Women are cowards, and they end the marriage when they feel it’s ongoing anywhere. Yeah they get cash and prizes for divorcing, but realistically look after your own life, and if it’s intolerable do something that makes it more than tolerable, even great. You don’t live very long, so get after it and have a great life. Push compliance to your wishes, and that does not happen, state “it’s not working” and end it. Everyone who divorces wishes they did it sooner.
What if the words show disinterest perhaps for showing that they would not cheat on their man , but actions show interest (Toucing , going out alone agreeing to ...whatever)
I have a high IQ and dated a young valedictorian . She was only 18 and very sexual as I found out. I was in my 20s . On her senior trip to the beach she was calling me and asking me if I loved her, missed her and was crying on the phone. Very strange behavior. I found out she hooked up with a lifeguard at a water slide and a soccer player working in a t shirt shop and spent the night with them while she was on the trip with a friend of hers. . I found her diary. Obviously the relationship didn't last. The girl before her was also a valedictorian. We were both virgins and college sweethearts. Brilliant young girl who started college at 16. Religious family, attended a Christian high school, great parents. We married. Spent 5 years plus together and she had an affair w/ a lughead college football player. I walked in on them and he took off running. She ended up marrying him. I am 6 ft plus and considered good looking btw. But this episode was right on.
Even Tom Brady couldn't manage it. I've read autobiographies of Seal Team 6 members getting cheated on while at war. If these studs can't guarantee fidelity than how can I?
It’s because they get bored because you are boring them. Also you never have a foot out the door so that they can constantly chase you. My first wife, that I ended the marriage with… afaik never cheated on me. That was as far from her mind as humanly possible I think. The reason wasn’t because I’m an ultra chad, the reason was because I always had a foot out the door, a wandering eye, and her friends would always comment that I was hot or they wanted me. With all that going on she didn’t need to chase other men because she could just chase me. Now.. this IS toxic and I don’t condone this behaviour, but it’s very effective at keeping a woman from cheating on you (though it results in lots of other problems like overblown jealousy as an example,) and her not liking you as a person as another example.
Lulz, look at my soon to be ex narcs profile. Those words are just to protect their reputation, in the DM's and facetimes, she is hooking up with anyone that will give her the pickle.
If a woman says that she doesn't sleep with men until X number of dates? Reply by saying in a condescending tone "Oh that's great, because I actually don't have sex with women until (fill in ridiculously high number) of dates. And say it with a smirk on your face. Tell her that you're not that kind of guy. Continue looking at her until she breaks eye contact, smirking the whole time, and she will. Because you just called her out on her BS, without actually saying it. You know she was lying, and now she knows that you know she was lying. It's a test. And if you so this with confidence, then now she's *really* going to want to sleep with you that night. Worst things you can do is tell her that you respect that. WRONG ANSWER. Also you don't want to get upset about it. She's want to play the game, and now she knows that you're capable of playing that game with her. Good luck🙃
It’s funny how we go through life blind and just following orders from Mother Nature instinctively. Full awareness of why u are chasing in the first place can blunt the hassle of the mating game. We are wired to seek beautiful women and will do anything humiliating and devaluing ourselves to get her to drop her pants. Stop for a sec and be aware of why you want her. Mother Nature just want you to do her bidding which is the survival of the species. Instead, focus on bettering yourself and women will be just a by product of your hard work like Rich said. Then, step up to test the main purpose of your manhood- Fatherhood- raising, protecting, maintaining your own mini tribe while you navigate the complexities of this ever changing reality that you live in.
Yep. Both my exfs were either asexual and sapio. I joked with the asexual that you are not asexual and laughed. She I am ... BUT not with you! Sapio means she wants a man who is intelligent and driven because she is and doesn't want to date down (prefers geeky and driven but not necessary money). When a woman says anything ... add WITH YOU. I do not do that .... (with you). I am a good girl ... with you. We girls from X are freaky in a flirting manner ... with you. The asexual girl wouldn't take no for an answer and approached me by the second date haha. She turned down a kiss on the first date because she was a good girl but she made an exception with me.
I thought sapiosexual meant attracted to intelligent people. If that is the true definition then I would suggest that very few women are actually sapiosexual.
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My new saying is "no one lies to women more than women."
Thanks for this. Women hate men because they tell the truth.
And this was sort of the first thing I ever truly learned in the red-pill space: what women say they want is not what women actually want and the amazing thing is how many women don’t recognize their own deceptive denial regarding themselves.
The evidence for this is overwhelming too because look at how many women perceive themselves as being 8-10 on the beauty scale when they are not and look at how many women ignore vast majorities of men as being a viable option for them. These are evidence that women have a difficult time accurately analyzing & perceiving themselves according to the facts.
Lmao?! Men certainly lie to women more than women do to each other. I mean its a whole thing that men refrain from honesty and lie to “sell a dream” or avoid the woman leaving him
Women are women’s greatest enemies
“Vortex of bullshit” 😂 best description of what’s going on in a woman’s mind
That was a real standout line😅
I'm going to use that
They have functional minds?
Yup 😅😅😅 Mistery uncovered right there lol
Best line I ever heard!
They have minds? When did this happen?
A "sapiosexual" woman's dating history ALWAYS paints a different picture.
Seen it firsthand lol
Im a (insert word) sexual. It's alla bunch of bull.
Believe actions over words. Well put🤝
in fact, that is the Achilles Heel of women , bulletproof 100%
This dude should stick to third world chicks
I learned that the hard way, but I'll never forget it.
Any female profile in any dating app with anything other than straight as a sexual orientation is a huge red flag. I've seen demisexual, sapiosexual, asexual, bisexual, bicurious, etc.
Smart man.
Yup that why I don't do dating apps
I remember one guy who knew Elvis Presley in person in the 1950s told him, "My girl said she wouldn't let me get to first base with her until we dated one year. I found out she threw her panties at you at your show. I couldn't even get her bra off!" Elvis laughed up a storm over this, and the two became buddies. Seems to fall in line with this vid! Love this channel. So many great reminders, and really awesome comments by a lot of folks
I always loved the classic line when a woman is in the bedroom with a guy and she says "I don't do that" insert the words "with you" behind it because she sure as hell never says that to Chad.
she also doesn't play games or test Chad
she will make everything as easy as possible for him
@@MikeG82 Yep it's called rules for thee but not for me "or Chad."
@@MikeG82 That is because the so-called Chads don't need to play games. They know that they are attractive and can get whoever they want which makes them less desperate and very easy going. I choose the Chads because they don't have to lie and manipulate to get a woman. I would rather have a short turn relationship with a honest and happy person, than be in long term relationship with a biiter manipulative person. And yes men tend to become bitter and desperate as they ages. It is a huge turn off and 'Having game' makes me wanna run.
It is not only the good looks that makes the Chads attractive it's also their confidence and mindset. Guess they haven't swallowed the redpill🤷
@@drewyoung2102 Funny how that always happens right? 😂👍
As Burt Reynolds once said:
“It’s a woman’s prerogative to change her mind..
It’s a man’s prerogative to change it back..”
Truth
A couple years ago I went on a date with a very attractive woman who has two degrees and she asked if I knew what a sapiosexual was. I said someone who's attracted to intelligence. She was stunned I knew that. The second date ended with some of the hottest sex I ever had. And a six month relationship. And who am I? A factory worker with a high school diploma.
There was a woman at my work several years ago that had a POF account which she stated in her profile that she was a sapiosexual...
She was well known for pulling trains with many multiples of men on the weekends, and she was also caught with her pants down in the invalid toilet at work with the resident chad thundercock.
Sex on the second date ? She was a slut
😂
Doesn't mean you're not intelligent. F-ck a degree.
The hottest sex you ever had with yourself.
Yes, absolutely ! People are what they DO, not what they say. Obviously, they should match. If they don’t, eventually what happens is……the words that come out of their mouth mean absolutely nothing. 👍
What I would love to know is how many guys pine away for 8-10's and have all this difficulty. Find a young 5-6 from a small town, good family, vet her thoroughly. Someone who looks up to you and sees YOU as her Chad.
Doesn't work, they're all the same. I tried this and just ended up activating her hypergamy and monkeybranching
Robert you have lots to learn
Both of you don't vet properly. If you can't figure it out, best not to play.
I just read his book. No reason to say this but it was very eye-opening. It reflects a lot of mistakes I've made with women. Oh well, the next chapter in my life won't be like that. Learn always learn. Thanks!
Well, I was just thinking about getting it. No reason to say it either. Lets turn this fucking thing (our lives) around.
If a woman says she's not into sex/only into intelligent men, it means she's not attracted to you. She either feels lust for you, or not. Like Rom Wills says, if she doesn't lust you, walk away.
Aka GENUINE BURNING DESIRE.
"whatever vortex or bullshit is going on in her head" Love it! I'll borrow that !
Sapiosexual is not a thing.
Women get turned on by what a man's inteligence can give them, not by inteligence itself
Not necessarily. The last 2 girls wanted educated men who were successful vs non educated successful men even if they earned more. One was a doctor the other was a lawyer. Women know they love the wallet but they want the smart guys wallet as her hypergamy doesn't want to mate with a dumb guy money or not since she is above average. That is what it means in girl code.
I think it is a thing, but very rare, and there has to be baseline physical attraction. The sapio part can enhance it but can't make up for zero physical attraction.
@@timgibney5590 there are a lot of educated men who are intelligent but that is not what she is looking for.
They usually confuse general intelligence with being articulate in speech. Some women love men who are very articulate and they call That intelligence, it is correlated but not the same
@@wisecounsel6135 Yep you are right. They told me finally a guy who isn't weird or listens and I pass her subtle shit tests and they like this. One of the girls gave me a cheek when I tried to kiss and I assumed she was not interested. She slept with me 2nd date but was asexual lol. She later told me she tested me. If a guy talked about sex or put on moves he was out. She was looking for a dude who got it and then made an exception for me just what Richard was talking about. Game/Frame is important men!
"Actions speak louder than words" this is the criteria for everyone, even more for women ! don't get blinded by your drive for sex
Good video editing, it adds to the video
I went full monk 25 years ago, after a nasty divorce, and I never looked back. There is still a warm place in my heart for the ladies, but I'm a hopeless romantic who fantasizes about what women could be, and should be, but am not interested in what they've become. I guess I'm just not into placing my heart, my future, my present, my time, and all my possessions into the hands of a free agent who cannot, and will not, offer any guarantees ensuring their goodwill and good behavior. I'll never again be with a woman, or engage in any endeavor, where the other party does not stand to lose as much as I do should things go south. Anyone who invests in someone who is encouraged and incentivized to leave the relationship, with half your belongings, is insane.
Well said.
@@philyeary8809 : Thanks, mate!
Use of the term "saposexual" presupposes that the user is capable of discerning intelligence and contrasting and comparing different levels of intelligence. Ask her to use the word "saposexual" in a sentence other than "I'm saposexual" in order to determine if she is intelligent enough to be grading and identifying the degree of intelligence in a man.
He needs to read the the UPA.
If he doesn’t want to do that the easiest advice is NEVER break stride for a woman. If your successful they will come to you.
You still gotta pursue. A woman isnt going to just land at your doorstep. Still gotta do the work in that field as well.
@@finnessejets4231 Show interest perhaps but do not bend or change your schedule for such things,
Absolutely not! How many so-called "successful" guys have no success with women, and that includes some very famous business owners and CEOs. If you don't follow that path and develop your masculinity, you will never automatically attract women you can then choose from which ones are good for you. You would probably attract the gold diggers and a bunch of toxic chicks that are attracted to take advantage of you. The journey to grow is long if you choose to take it, but most men never will because they lack the social skills and the courage, honesty, and patience to master the game of tension between man and woman.
I haven’t read a book in years, got his book and read the whole thing in 2 days. I absolutely recommend his book. You’ll learn more in hours than you will in years.
I like this dude, practical and not bitter
I’d like your point of view when with the cancel culture of women now days. I’m a high value man, and they realize that, but always looking for the Bigger,Better Deal. Everyone has a “but” if you look hard enough. Which means all relationships have an expiration date. Right? Thanks
If she is looking for other dudes you are not top Not saying that to be a jerk, but rather you gotta up your game in dating skills or confidence. Women I have observed will turn down rich guys who hesitate or not direct over an middle class guy who has suave and knows what he is doing any day.
@Tim Gibney that's a perfect example of a woman making a bad decision
Thanks for all your videos, Richard. I am truly enjoying your channel. God bless you. Love from a traditional woman in Pretoria, South Africa 🇿🇦
Another great video. Thank You.
Nobody lies more than a woman that says she don't lies. Do not trust womens words, trust their behaviours.
“Believe the behavior 100%, not the words”. FACT!
"The vortex of bull shit." That's a good one. I think we've all had to deal with that. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That word never stops being funny 🤣
Knew a very nice girl who wanted a longterm relationship and marriage with family but she is now settling for what seems like an exclusive sexual situationship that may or may not lead to something longterm. She says she is using the excuse I am human and I need to full-fill my needs for the time being. Hearing about all theses rules that are made for some people but not for others and then seeing it play out in real life is wild. I understand that the flesh is weak but the excuses and rationalizing we go through is just something else.
For once I Would like to just hear people more publicly say…I’m a hypocrite, I like some double standards but not others, I want what I want when I want it and my past doesn’t matter because we are all humans and messy by nature etc…
Yeah, I'd actually respect the phook out of a girl that is 100% honest. At least there is no dumb petty sh!t. Lets you know where you stand.
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They say hell is a place where there is no reason . That is a woman's mind and ultimately life with her. Women are about emotion not reason. Always remember that.
She’s not being a hypocrite any more than a starving man who wants steak, will eat rotting trash out of a garbage can. She’s “settling” for the time being because she hasn’t found what’s she’s looking for. The thing is.. her “settle guy” isn’t you, and never will be. Her settle guy is as close to a chad as she can get. She knows she can’t have him but she’ll settle for his eggplant for the time being. And it makes perfect sense. If she can get chad pickle, just for sex, why would she go for beta pickle… just for sex?
@BB49 Hence the phrase "knew" my friend, as in past tense. Also not that hard to find someone nice but it is hard to find someone with a past that you are comfortable with and who practices what they preach. This is not simping this is discovering things about a person that you didn't know before.
Women don't break rules they just don't have any rules for a Chad. That's the rule.
My mom always said, "actions speak louder than words." I say, "actions speak, words do not."
"Deeds not words"
- George Washington
Words are deceitful, actions are not.
I’d say improving your looks and manner in dealing with women is the strongest hand really. I’ve seen too many very wealthy men get taken advantage of. Not that men won’t get taken advantage of anyway. But impressing with money is your weakest hand! Not that money shouldn’t be something you try to attain just for the sake of itself. 😊
It takes much more than "improving looks and manner"l In fact, it's lifelong learning in aspects that are much more relevant to become good at dealing with women. On the other hand, we must not forget that an equal part of women as men are simply not worth dating or getting involved with, even if we think they're "hot". Men also have to become more aware and selective in choosing women beyond their looks, because they know that's their strongest weapon to impress us, and we should know that it's equally their strongest weapon to delude us. Just read Homer's Odyssey... ;-)
Dealing with women today is like entering into the worst business arrangement possible. It's like having a part-time job that doesn't pay but can take half of what you own.
I couldn't agree more, read the book, I remember one girl she told me she was 0 body-count but I did believe her, she told she just broke with her whole life boyfriend who was waiting on her to marry her, so because I couldn't believe all that BS then I told her, "OK, let's go to my place to find out what can we do about it" it was not even a date, we just spoke after I asked two weeks before, but after that another girl from my neighborhood spoke to this girl and this other girl convince her to leave her boyfriend and take my shot, so when she went straight to my bedroom I couldn't believe she was 0 body-count until I saw it with my own eyes, then I told her that we could try next time properly, then I asked what happened with her ex boyfriend, then she told me he was crying and begging to her to go back with him, mean while she was doing all the things that you could imagine with her mouth and my little friend with a firefighter hardhat, after a couple week I just dumped her, we never did any sesgsual with her VG at least, so after that she went straight back to her ex boyfriend with her VG intact but nothing else, after a while they got married, it's the first time I make a comment about that experience, but that man at least he got a 0 body-count girlfriend back with him and knowing women I can warranty she told him that we didn't even kissed and he would believe because it would make sense even for me...
From an episode of Star Trek TOS
Nomad looking at Uhura: "What is that???"
Mr. Spock: "That is a woman."
Nomad: "A mass of conflicting impulses..."
You don't really hear genuinely intelligent women call themselves "sapiosexuals". Because by default they surround themselves with intelligent people. So it's a redundant thing to say. It's often college educated (but not necessarily intelligent) women that claim the "sapiosexual" title
Sapiosexual is code word for "I'm on birth control and don't experience natural pheromonal attraction to masculinity and androgens, so I have to rationalize my attraction to solely feminized men by calling them 'intelligent'"
It's just a term to say they like smart guys cos to them smart= $$$. If a guy has Einstein's IQ but only earns 50k a year she's not gonna like him 😂
@@rejectwokeness1314 exactly. And they'd take the 6'3, rich, dumb guy over the 5'9, decent income, genius.
Where is the data to back this anecdote? The majority of women are attracted to intelligent men, directly correlating that solely to income is silly as hell. Women don’t exist in the binary. If you believe all women are a specific way, then I can make claims about all men. Use critical thinking when examine shit like this.
It’s also just another term women use to say she doesn’t date good dudes, only guys that excite her. It’s just another euphemism.
If she into your intelligence, it's only she links it to an income that can secure herself.
Rich is 100% right again. I was on a date with a chick last weekend who let me kiss her before saying she doesn't kiss on the first date. Little to say that she went for a kiss at the end of the date to wish me good night.
Action speaks louder then words
Actions speak louder than words.
He's right 💯. Just get jacked and watch women flirt with you and suddenly people start looking at you with respect. Granted if you're a broke jacked dude, she won't hang around long but still, that alone will work on many levels and help with networking, land you a better job and so forth. Start lifting, do it regularly, dont quit and watch. Im 52 and everything he says is spot on. You have to know your place in society. You have to be aware of how others perceive you.
In my area, they tend to like them skinny with man buns and long hair lol. When I have gone to other cities I’ve noticed I get more looks.
I used to pick dates based on their sense of humour, charisma, intelligence, provided there was at least a fraction of physical attraction. I figured that morsel of attraction would bloom to full-blown attraction (and I'd welcome his touch) once we got to know each other and "fell in love". So wrong. So so wrong. The attraction didn't grow and I was creeped out when they tried to even put a hand on my back. It never ended well, but thankfully it only took max 3 red flag riddled dates before I realized it wouldn't work. Then I met the man I love (instant attraction) and I was like, Wow THIS is what it's supposed to feel like.
Interesting!
So could you please list the main things that were the reason for the "instant attraction" from your point of view as a woman?
in other words, women GREATLY care about how a man looks
@@egy5038 money!
It's all about looks; wmn try to deny it by rationalizing that, supposedly, their attraction "increased" or, even worse, "arose" due their male partner's so-called "intelligence", "charisma", and/or "humor".
The truth is that you CAN'T build attraction; either it's there or it isn't.
look how they treat their dogs and come to an idea what they are really looking for: a dog with benefits.
Sounds like she wanted/expected him to chase. Her loss
The weather is always really bad where you are
As I often post on my narcissism blog, "Actions Speak Louder Than Words". Not an original thought, I know, but one that bears reinforcement.
What the what the?! I’m opting for a Time Machine. Crazy.
Love this guy.. he says it like it is.. Very entertaining
In the words of another one of my favorite content creators: "The woman is a professional liar." - Chronicles of Judah 144
So simple yet so true..... Been there done that myself......
Richard Coper the boss of the INCELS 😂😭
Reaching😂
Love the outro , i know your videos need some more "musical seasoning"
I agree 100%. Ladies just make your exception a true alpha male🤷♀️ u might have to wait but it’s worth it 😂
"Facta non verba"
Latin saying for: deeds, not words.
I also roll my eyes when I see ENM (Ethical Non-monogamy) on a woman's dating profile.
1:20 BINGO! My wife said the same exact thing when she met me… she was constantly saying “I’ve decided not to date” and “I’m not looking to being in a relationship”… as she persistently committed herself to dating me.
Been happily married for 11 years now. Cheers! Although like you, I don’t drink anymore.
Your wife would throw your entire 11 year marriage away for a 5 min shag with Chad in a bathroom lol. You’re not too smart for committing. That’s classic h03 speak for I got ditched by all the men I hooked up with on the first date. You’re foolish one who committed.
Hi Rich...Next book when is coming?😮😅😅
When I hear words I have to look up in urban dictionary, I assume she's DG. Damaged goods.
Times changed. Back then girls used to say things like “I need to get to know you first” or “I wanna be friends first to have a stronger bond” then internet and apps came in somewhere along these lines the whole asexual and sapiosexual thing came out as a excuse. It’s the same stuff. Think the only difference is since women have a lot more options to pick from nowadays everything is based on pure 100 percent lust. If you aren’t her type at all I mean not even a bit then she might say these things to see if you are going to wow her or something.
If the woman likes you then she will pursue you, period.
Might as well add "fluent in sarcasm" aka I'm going to tell you what to do and talk down to you... but it will be couched in Sarcasm.
Sapiosexual means the chick is planning to be open to betas with a good job sometime in the future.
I really wish I found that type of content 10 years ago..
At this point I believe nothing they say and half of what they do.
Abundance mindset. Move. On.
Always observe actions not words.
The big problem is that 90% of men never even ask themselves the question: "what can she give to my life?"
This is scary
BTW, sapio (σαπιο-tone in a) in Greek, means ROTTEN. Like rotten fruit. The term sapiosexual sounds like a very unlucky term in Greek. Bullshit meaning term in every way.
A few "sapiosexual" girls (some Ivy-educated, with grad degrees) had me in them within 25-60 minutes of being introduced for the first time. That's not enough time to remember a last name. I have had to tell a couple of them, "no, not in the bathroom--wait until we come back to my place." I wish I was joking. It's all theatre. I don't do this anymore. It's gross.
04:28 - 05:15 I need to listen to this daily.!
I want every male to read Rich’s book. Here I am a guy who married at 23 and went through an essentially sexless marriage (sex once or maybe twice a month). Very religiously strict family, hers and mine. Dominant parents on both sides. I think we both wanted out. It’s the guy’s responsibility to call it quits. Women are cowards, and they end the marriage when they feel it’s ongoing anywhere. Yeah they get cash and prizes for divorcing, but realistically look after your own life, and if it’s intolerable do something that makes it more than tolerable, even great. You don’t live very long, so get after it and have a great life. Push compliance to your wishes, and that does not happen, state “it’s not working” and end it. Everyone who divorces wishes they did it sooner.
Rich
Thanks again
Lol. "Vortex of bs".
There's little I can do about my looks. I've been told by a team of doctors that I need to spend $150,000 on plastic surgery just to look semi normal.
Ok, but you don't need to draw attention to it either, that profile pic is a good example.
You have to look for a sugar mommy to pay your doctor’s bills 😂
@@fromgermany271 Yeah but I’m so horribly ugly I’ll never get one of those
If any of those definitions pop up ‘Pansexual’ ‘Demi sexual’ etc etc… wipe them asap!! It’s all about boundaries men!!
What if the words show disinterest perhaps for showing that they would not cheat on their man , but actions show interest (Toucing , going out alone agreeing to ...whatever)
Women’s behavior can also depend on what part of the monthly cycle they are currently experiencing.
I have a high IQ and dated a young valedictorian . She was only 18 and very sexual as I found out. I was in my 20s . On her senior trip to the beach she was calling me and asking me if I loved her, missed her and was crying on the phone. Very strange behavior. I found out she hooked up with a lifeguard at a water slide and a soccer player working in a t shirt shop and spent the night with them while she was on the trip with a friend of hers. . I found her diary. Obviously the relationship didn't last. The girl before her was also a valedictorian. We were both virgins and college sweethearts. Brilliant young girl who started college at 16. Religious family, attended a Christian high school, great parents. We married. Spent 5 years plus together and she had an affair w/ a lughead college football player. I walked in on them and he took off running. She ended up marrying him. I am 6 ft plus and considered good looking btw. But this episode was right on.
Even Tom Brady couldn't manage it. I've read autobiographies of Seal Team 6 members getting cheated on while at war. If these studs can't guarantee fidelity than how can I?
It’s because they get bored because you are boring them. Also you never have a foot out the door so that they can constantly chase you. My first wife, that I ended the marriage with… afaik never cheated on me. That was as far from her mind as humanly possible I think. The reason wasn’t because I’m an ultra chad, the reason was because I always had a foot out the door, a wandering eye, and her friends would always comment that I was hot or they wanted me. With all that going on she didn’t need to chase other men because she could just chase me. Now.. this IS toxic and I don’t condone this behaviour, but it’s very effective at keeping a woman from cheating on you (though it results in lots of other problems like overblown jealousy as an example,) and her not liking you as a person as another example.
All done for someone to ask about it and for attention
Regarding sapiosexual females - every one looks for compensations for ones owe shortcommings.
Lulz, look at my soon to be ex narcs profile. Those words are just to protect their reputation, in the DM's and facetimes, she is hooking up with anyone that will give her the pickle.
If a woman says that she doesn't sleep with men until X number of dates? Reply by saying in a condescending tone "Oh that's great, because I actually don't have sex with women until (fill in ridiculously high number) of dates. And say it with a smirk on your face. Tell her that you're not that kind of guy. Continue looking at her until she breaks eye contact, smirking the whole time, and she will. Because you just called her out on her BS, without actually saying it. You know she was lying, and now she knows that you know she was lying. It's a test. And if you so this with confidence, then now she's *really* going to want to sleep with you that night. Worst things you can do is tell her that you respect that. WRONG ANSWER. Also you don't want to get upset about it. She's want to play the game, and now she knows that you're capable of playing that game with her. Good luck🙃
It’s been obvious to me for decades that women like brainiacs who can keep them entertained as they sit in silence with not much to offer.
These are just con phrases to tell the average guys that she won’t be having sex with them. But will gladly drop their rule for chad
In addition to adding a females statement in your head, "For You," also can interchange "For right now."
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How many independent women pay half of the tab or pick up half the time?
He seems like a decently nice man
Always with the pay a stranger so I have a chance that she will talk about anything else other than paying her stranger.
Is this for all men, or those who have been unlucky in love?
It’s funny how we go through life blind and just following orders from Mother Nature instinctively. Full awareness of why u are chasing in the first place can blunt the hassle of the mating game. We are wired to seek beautiful women and will do anything humiliating and devaluing ourselves to get her to drop her pants. Stop for a sec and be aware of why you want her. Mother Nature just want you to do her bidding which is the survival of the species. Instead, focus on bettering yourself and women will be just a by product of your hard work like Rich said. Then, step up to test the main purpose of your manhood- Fatherhood- raising, protecting, maintaining your own mini tribe while you navigate the complexities of this ever changing reality that you live in.
If shes not a virgin and all of sudden shes religious or saying she changing her self. She makes you wait for sex for those reasons, you better run.
I'm hip , cool , and important! Do you know how you can tell ? Because I drive around talking into my phone and say so.!.....God, what a tool
Also, if a woman will give it up on the first couple of dates, not the quality you want to deal with long term.
How to interpret when she says, “ I’m not easy” after trying to escalate because she complimented you on your physique and face?
Push/Pull
Adam should have never ate the apple.
Good thing most women say our 🧠 are in our pants!! 😂😂😂
Thoughts on guys that say they are a sexual? Have they just given up?
Yep. Both my exfs were either asexual and sapio. I joked with the asexual that you are not asexual and laughed. She I am ... BUT not with you! Sapio means she wants a man who is intelligent and driven because she is and doesn't want to date down (prefers geeky and driven but not necessary money). When a woman says anything ... add WITH YOU. I do not do that .... (with you). I am a good girl ... with you. We girls from X are freaky in a flirting manner ... with you. The asexual girl wouldn't take no for an answer and approached me by the second date haha. She turned down a kiss on the first date because she was a good girl but she made an exception with me.
I thought sapiosexual meant attracted to intelligent people. If that is the true definition then I would suggest that very few women are actually sapiosexual.