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"Subject: Iâm MFâing Tired
Dear Steve and Shirley,
I am a 32-year-old single mother with one child and Iâm pregnant with my second child. Iâm pregnant by my best friend, who happens to be married. Weâve been friends with benefits for almost to 10 years and his wife thinks weâre just best friends, so sheâs accepted me as part of the family. Sheâs aware that Iâm pregnant but thinks itâs my ex-boyfriendâs baby. Iâve told her husband that itâs time for us to stop messing around and be serious now because we have a baby on the way. I told him that he needs to tell his wife before the baby is born. I want my child to know his father and have a relationship with his fatherâs two kids. When we found out I was pregnant, he panicked and asked me to terminate the pregnancy. I refused to do that and when we found out itâs a boy, he was overjoyed. The problem is, every time heâs about to tell his wife, some life-changing event happens with her. The first time he tried to tell her, she had a minor car wreck and had to wear a neck brace for a month. He said that he didnât want to tell her while she was in pain. Three weeks after that, she got Covid-19 and spent a couple of days in the hospital, so he didnât tell her then. Fast forward to last week⊠He was supposed to tell her and he said she passed out at work and her doctor said she may have had a mild stroke. Listen, I donât want to kill the woman by telling her about our baby on the way, but Iâm MFâing tired of all of her problems. He could be lying to stall me out, so Iâm tempted to call her myself. Steve and Shirley, is he full of BS or what?" - Komedie
You can't ever find happiness by hurting someone else. Karma will find you!
That's truth..
Letâs hope so.
10 years dammmmmm
Amen and Amen again!!!
10 years and he ain't gave up the wife for you!.......giirl bye!
Say that.
Married men and women, watch out for your so-called "friends."
AMEN!!!!
Only when trifling people are involved.
The wife knows but waiting for the right time to bust a move.
@@arlenegulley1128 what is there to wait for...Baby no.3
đ€Łđ€Ł I have always been told by men, that women & men CANNOT be friends!! This proves the saying to be true.
âWhoever who wrote this letter ainât white or rich â Facts đđđ
His wife already know, thatâs why sheâs making plans..
A house built on another woman's tears will not prosper. Let the trifling husband move in with the mistress and serve her the same way
Amen sister.
Say That!!!
Who is listening to him ? Who can take him seriously ?
A Whole Bible Verse right here
Louder for the patrons in the back
The betrayal by a best friend is heartbreaking. My heart goes out to the wife. Ten years...đ how utterly grimy. Let's pray the wife listens to the Holy Spirit and does not do anything to jeopardize herself or her kids.
Amen! Praying for the wife đđ
Well Steve it happens more often than not. My ex had a skank. When he didn't leave home. She deliberately got pregnant. I am home cooking, cleaning, taking care of 5 kids, running them to sports, dance, and outside school activites including working full time while he is cheating while at work. He kept her pregnancy a secret and told no one about this baby until the big snow storm hit and by that time the baby was 8 months old. Ole girl was not going to keep her mouth shut. The bomb shell blew everyone's mind. It was a betrayal that I could not wrap my head around because he was home every evening and home on the weekends. I never had a reason to accuse or even think he was cheating. He married the skank and the children tell me he is miserable. I tell my children when the past calls let it go to voice mail cause Mommy is not hearing it.
Steve you got a lot of nerve. What about your trifling ass?
Ms. Smith, it sounds like you gained well deserved freedom, once the secret came out!! Congratulations & blessings to you & your 5 children â€. Peace. đ„°
Take it from an older black man, keep your dignity at all costs sis...don't waste time hating him or her, and don't turn his children against him. Don't block your blessing....God doesn't love ugly and they will reap what they've sown.
Out of curiosity, did you leave or did he choose Misery?
@@laj4186 He left.
This is how kids end up orphaned. Nothing good is coming from this.
Instead of hearing in my head "You about to lose yo job", I'm hearing the wife singing "I'm about to whip yo ađ€Źđ€Ź"!!
âWe on the verge of somebody getting killed hereâ- unfortunately, most ppl donât understand the gravity of a situation until itâs too late
Yep so sad
Ten years, this man needs to question why his wife doesn't care to call him out, because 10 years, she knows, unless she's literally, clinically "slow" she knows
And then theyâre gonna be on an episode of Snapped and weâll all just be shaking our heads. đ€ŠđŸ
This is why I keep them out of my house... Had an alleged friend come visit me and made a pass at my husband. Itch hasn't been invited back since
Good
I just told my daughter the same thing yesterday.
Husbands leaves wives for their mistress all the time. I saw a lot of that growing up. It happens
The difference here is she is pretending to be the wifeâs best friend..it does happen but rarely does this type of situation work out..
Yep
Questions to everyone: Is it me or have we as black people forgotten our reverence for the institution of marriage? Do we really know what marriage is, including what a husband is supposed to be and what a wife is supposed to be? What happened to "husbands, love your wives,".........He probably vowed to "forsake all others." Have we made a mockery of marriage? Our young people do not respect us because we've modeled a bunch of ridiculous behaviors in front of them. That's why they neither seek our advice nor listen to us.
The woman who wrote this letter, and her "best friend" are trifling and sorry.
Steve said y'all about to be on First 48 or Law and Order! Lol
and the baby will suffer, that is the sad part.
Why the lady who wrote the comments..what did she do..
@@sylvonnahharv5849 She screwed her married best friend.
If this ain't a "keep your enemies close and your so called friends closer" momentđ±đ€Ż
I will say this: the best friend has no self-respect or self-value to be ok with being a side piece--he gave the ring to the woman he _was willing to be serious about._ She likes the secrecy and smiling in this woman's face knowing she's enjoying her husband. The husband is garbage; put him out at the curb for pickup. The wife? She's unknowingly been set up to make two people a couple of statistics.
So bold. I ainât that brave. I had a crush on my best friends husband, I backed away from my good friend out of respect for her and fear for my life.
Thatâs very classy of you real bro want to shitđŻ
You're Really a Friend that thinks with Brains and not their other parts.
@@jamesdirtony4582 Thanks James. I am, by nature, an overly-cautious, person. Besides, Mama taught me, âeverything good to you, ainât good for you.â Any way you sliced it, I was the loser. Besides, I really did like this woman and our years long friendship. Although, she was asking questions, about why I wasnât around, or always too busy to do things with her. I guess my guilt about having feelings for my good friends husband, made be paranoid, I thought, maybe, somehow, she picked up on something. Truthfully, the feeling was mutual, had I been a fool, I would have given in to my feelings. But, I felt that was a low-down thing to do. Did I mention, Iâm a scary person, I try to weigh the outcome of my actions. James, I meant to thank you for you comment, thatâs all.
On the next episode of First 48hrs .......đ€Ź...this heffa is delusional, she is about to be a thorn in this man side for the next 18yrs and he deserves every bit of it .
She got pregnant, because she wanted to. I never ever had a friend that i liked that well. No way no how.
Just TRIFLING
I HAVE BEEN ACCUSED OF SLEEPING WITH MY MALE FRIENDS BY TRIFLING PEOPLE THAT MOVE LIKE THAT. I HAVE NEVER SLEPT WITH A MALE FRIEND AND IF HIS PARTNER IS UNCOMFORTABLE WITH ME I'M OUT OF THAT FRIENDSHIP.
So if there BEST Friends đ€..apparently for 10 yrs ...why didn't they get married?
I will never understand how anyone could be this low down and grimy....and for 10 long years stab someone in the back like that...pure trash
Trifling! The husband & so-called bestie deserve each other.
After cheating on my mother after 12 years of marriage...My dad tried to make his number 2 his number 1 it's lasted 12-14 years and they even had a child... She cheated on him. Their divorced now.
Wow lol
Something one of my uncles told me years ago. "If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you".
@@sixfour8087 yesses I like that saying.
Him and wife#2 were probably miserable half of the marriage too.
Karma
He is never going to tell her until he has to.... those are all lies. Trick on the side deserves everything the wife is going to give her!
I AM SO HAPPY YOU ALL RECORDED THIS LIVE SO WE CAN SEE THE FACE ON YOU ALL!!! LOVE IT!!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!! LOL!!!!
I agree!
This is a Dateline episode cannot wait to watch.
Steve ! The one who is BS ing the wife the most is that no good husband. Side chick is wrong. However, husband living with her & carrying this on for 10 long years. Wife will be upset with â side chick â , but Iâm sure sheâs going to be enraged with that adulterous husband.
Wow!!!!
So the unfaithful husband who made a conscience decision to step outside of his marriage with a woman that he has known for ten years; laid the foundation for the propensity of the now issue at hand to occur. I am in no way condoning infidelity; but only condemning the actions of the friend that didn't act alone in this situation is ludicrous. Did the husband get amnesia and forget that he was married?
They were both wrong as two left shoes; but the same energy that you are displaying toward the friend should be at least the same or more toward the husband.(jmo)
The Husband allowed his wife to be played,with him playing her too.Wow.
For sure this is terribly unsavory and potentially fatal. Somebody is going to die.
So common to look away at the responsibility of the male in all of this.
The wife probably donât care .Wife ainât no fool
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@@bellestarr4040 the side chick wrote the letter so that is who he is replying to
I'm glad Steve went in...this chick is delusional đ. She gets whatever she deserves. I hope this chick finds a friend like herself in the future if she ever gets married
Not âSomebody fidna dieâđđ€Łđđ€Ł...âGurl, Gurl, Gurl, you in troubleâđđ€Łđđ€Ł...YEP, that sums it!!! Prerequisite to a BEAT DOWNđ€đ€đ€
Thank you for bringing this bk With/video....who in the HELL told network TV that WE would rather watch Clarkston than STEVE HARVEY on any given day???
Steve said y'all about to be on First 48 or Law and Order! Lol
This is so disgusting. The cheating is the cheating, the disgusting thing is HOW YOUâRE BRINGING A CHILD IN THE WORLD. This lady doesnât have any love for her child OR that man. She doesnât wanna be alone
Itâs his response for me!!!! đđđđđđ
This is one of the worst things you could do to somebody in a marriage/relationship. But the wife does need to know the truth that her children will have a half-sibling. The kids should be around each other. Also, she needs to know her husband is an unscrupulous person. The pregnant mistress is no better. For 10 years the mistress and the husband were smiling in the wife's face like that??!!
This is nutz and too backwoods.
I'm just like what the f*** this is your first thought after all that, that the kids do need to be around each other, I Realize this baby is innocent in all of this but that's the last thing she worried about... the last thing
He should tell his wife, but the wife should be given ample time to accept the child in her home. This will come with time when his wife sees how much he loves and misses this child. He needs to pay child support & find a way to mend his marriage. DL Hugley talks about having a child out of wedlock and how his wife is who his baby's mother has to communicate with in regards to the welfare of the innocent child. He is still married and it sent a clear message to the other woman. I'm not leaving my wife for you but the child is welcomed in our home. The mistress will accept how things will be going forward. She will eventually move on if the couple has a united front. I personally would not be able to continue with the marriage. Jealousy on my part would further destroy me and the marriage. 10 years of an affair with the same person is a relationship. I would be sad but I would have to love myself enough to accept that he stopped loving me. Dust my self off and prepare for the next available man to enter into life. If he is married he is not available.
@@nanounepha2600 You said it. You have to love yourself more to rid yourself of people that don't respect you - parents, friends, relatives, the person you are in love with.
Iâm pretty sure the wife know whatâs up. Thatâs why sheâs being so friendly towards the mistress. Sheâs just waiting for right time to say it
Steve, word is that's just what you did with Marjorie...
That is exactly what I was thinking!
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And I Oop!!!
@@tanyam8163 your RIGHT
Yikes...elephant in the room.
If he cheats on his wife, and his marriage is over...he isnât going to be loyal to her. She was just a friend with benefits.
I guess I'll see this on Crime Watch Daily or First 48
That woman already know what's up she just waiting on them so she can do the fool.
Kevin Hunter Wendy Williams lol.
Steve Harvey
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I wish I could know how this endedđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
She deserves him because she will get just what she dished for 10 years...this ish and the dirty married D she cheated with is sick!
Iâm with you, Steve! The wife had some inclination that something was upâŠbut I betcha he denied it every timeđ€šđ€šđ€š
This is an episode of "Snapped" in the making.
This lady got pregnant on purpose. SMH
The real issue is....
If they weren't having sex she could NOT get pregnant. Don't be shocked at an outcome you could have avoided.
Breaking News. Get ready...Snapped - I.D. Channel - DatelineâŒïž
Isn't the husband the one who tricked the wife? He introduced friends with benefits as bf? What is the husband responsibility?
Husband had no business bringing her around, terrible
the #1(wife)is about too get rid of both of them...
and take it all...
the wife already knows...
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Yes! My mother listens to Steve every morning.đ€Ł Tommy is crazy with the prank calls!đ€Ł
Not only does this man not care about her, but, he doesnât care about his wife, either. If he did, he wouldnât have cheated on her in the first place! The fact that he moved the woman in the house and was messing with both of them at the same time shows how little he thinks of his wife. The lady who wrote the letter is DUMB AS HELL!! Why would she move herself into that situation in the first place??! Hopefully, when the wife found out, she left him!
đI'm the typa woman that will put that man in her lap. I'll tell them I'll only sign these papers when you ready to sign those papers, we can all go to the court house together "as a family", chile boo, I'll sit a prayer at their feet and walk out of that building light as a feather...the weight will be on them. đ€đ€ give us us free!!đ„łđ„ł
Its funny they have Steve reading this letter & commenting on it!
Denial...
Always
Why is it ppl listen to ppl who don't know nothing don't experience anything.....someone who knows from experience CAN tell you what will happen to you when you do these things. đ€
She is going to reap what she sewed
Didnât Steve do the same thing to his wife. Wasnât his now wife Margie Steveâs wife at the time Best friends with Margie. Margie was living in one of Steveâs homes when he was still with his wife right?? And did he kick his other wife out?
đłđłđł what???
Chyyyyllleee đđđđđđ
Yep
Steve sounded country ass hell reading that letter đ
I really hope this woman writes a follow up letter after she tells the wife.
I'm wondering why she wants to get "serious" with him. She knows what kind of man he is by the way he's been carrying on with her. Why would she want him to be her problem on a full-time basis?
My father had a saying, âIf theyâll cheat with you, theyâll cheat on you.
ummmm..The wife is either very slow on the uptake or has not said anything cause she is messing round with her BFF.
Maybe the later. Women can usually sense things.
@@bettyduncan8580 This is TRUE!!!!
If a person cheat with me !!! Then they will cheat on you. This so very serious. Remember you have to be free to love . You canât love what through sex. I canât judge. I just want us to think through things before we minor decisions that become major problems.
I love Steve Harvey and his straight up truth!
#2 trying to hold him hostage đđđ€Łđ€Ł
Sounds like an upcoming episode of Fatal Attraction
They're called side piece because they're not the main course & never will be. Example: a plate of food usually contains,
1 Meat
2 Vegetables
3 Whole grains
4 Drink
5 Dessert
Say the wife put a vegetable on hubby plate like broccoli which he hates, so he don't say anything just eat other items on his plate. Hubby go over to the side piece who is cabbage, he like cabbage but love the other main course wife put on his plate. Yelp, side piece is a piece on the side that hubby know he can get any time because cabbage hasn't realized she's a great vegetable. So, little cabbage who think he like her because he keep coming back every now & then. No he keep coming back because cabbage keep jumping on his plate. Real men don't play boyish games. They know what they want & how they want it. They're not willing to loose a whole for a piece. Side piece need to stop thinking the wife has no clue. She know when her man is creeping but is using it to her advantage. Sex & love makes is time consuming so, she don't mind your help (I) will even get you a gift card for your birthday & Christmas. Also, hubby is wearing a slicker for a couple of weeks because wife told him she might have a yeast infection.đ Plus wife know how desperate some females are, they don't care about hurting another female because they're whole life is hurt. A side piece will jump on any plate that will have her, including her mother, sister, brother, cousin, she has no limit no value. She can only give you what she has...???
#MOTHEREFFNTIREDđđđđ
This is why you donât let ppl gas light you into being âinsecureâ when your mate comes to you talking about my best friend and theyâre the opposite sex. Ppl are trifling and have no morals or integrity, why sit in that ladies face like thatâŠ?
The Braxtonâs father married his his side chick
Bravo Steve! Glad you got your own showđđ
That means she knows.... the wife knows....l feel bad for her đđŸđđŸđđŸ
Yes, the "other woman" is culpable, but, in my opinion, the husband bears the brunt of the blame here. Men are called to be the spiritual leader in the home; he sets the moral example.
She thinks they're sister wives.
From one cusser to another, thank you Steve Harvey!
If this is real...God protect that woman!!! I wish we could see this woman's face. This is how women get a bad name and disrespected. What kind of a futute does she believe she will have. And retribution? You just abused your children, present and future, kn advance. You do not have any respect and will be given none. I am sad for everyone that calls you family or friend.
Would be funny if the wife knew all along and was thinking go ahead now i won't have to sleep with him. lol
Hurt people hurt people !!!!!!
Girl you better run!You are in for a world of hurt!
Steve! What the hell are you sipping on Uncle? There are 2 people who took vows. Husband and the Wife. The husband was the liar and the cheater. The husband allowed his mistress to be in his wife's face and some part of the household he created with his wife and children. The mistress is absolutely an unscrupulous tricking flotsam and jetsam of society. The only person who has consequences in this scenario is THE HUSBAND. SIR. đ
Facts
He addressing the one who wrote the letter.
No sweetie. There will be consequences on BOTH sides. The baby will be collateral damage. There's where the trifling "Flotsom/Jetsom" Ho cake will get her due.
Steve you have me laughing the truth is painful his wife is fooling her self this is the best laugh i have had in along time you say the words so clear if she listening you told her
In the Garden of Eden the LORD dealt the Adam, Eve and the serpent. So the side chick will need held accountable also.
âNow get these bleeps right!â đ đ
He is right. Somebody going to get hurt
He avoiding telling his wive about the "best friend" pregnant mistress. So he's still protecting his wife a little.
That house gonna be like Hiroshima if she tells her what her and the husband was doing
My Aunt was mistress to a family friend . They grew up together his kids were raised as family, cousins, to my brother and me. After his divorce, they got married, we were all confused. We got over it, but for his kids itâs childhood trauma , that they are still dealing with. They stayed married for 30 yrs until my Aunt died.
AND THE REAL SAD PART IS HE LOVED YOUR AUNT MORE THAN ANYONE......I TELL YOU RELATIONSHIPS ARE SO COMPLICATED SO I JUST STAY SINGLE BECAUSE I AM RELATIONSHIP EXHAUSTED.......I AM ACTUALLY HAPPY BEING SINGLE........NO MORE DRAMA
He loved her he just went about it the wrong way they both did .
Thk u for saying this Steve. U hit the nail on the dam head.
This was my favorite part of the show before wrking frm home glad to see u guys!!!
Tell it Steve. Big Trouble is coming big time.
#2 rarely becomes #1.
Disgusting!! Trust no other woman or man around your husband or another man or woman around your wife unless they are on FACETIME or in front of RING the entire TIME!! Problem Solved!!!!
When someone go outside they marriage they cursed a marriage
LMAO! Iâm WEAK!
"Those Strawberry 23 Letters are always a disaster waiting to happen"
How can you (Steve), speak about no man will leave #1 for #2? You did it, aren't you hypocritical and the last person to be talking on this subject?
@@manuelaceliarivera6891 đđđđThank.you. He doesn't remember that.đđđ
@@manuelaceliarivera6891 I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME... THINKING THAT ABOUT STEVE! LOL!đđ
@@mrs.frazier1951 Yes EVERYONE IS THINKING ABOUT THAT .BUT SOMEWHERE HE'S LOST THAT PART SINSE HE'S BEEN IN THE TRUMPWHITE WORLD
Who the hell sleep with somebody else man for 10 years on the promise that he'll leave his wife which most times never happens. I thought if a man will cheat on his wife he's a slimy person so what I want with him. I remember a married man tryed to talk to me and he said I'm never gonna leave my wife and I said and that's where you should be with your wife. What is wrong with you to engage in this type of relationship?????
The woman needs to see if it's also the boyfriend
She better not go eat at they're home. She's subject to end up disappearing.
I might be wrong Steve but, what about Kevin Hart. He left his number 1 and married his number 2. Actually, there are a few more I think fits into that category. Just saying.