I don’t think anyone is criticising Ben for that. But he practically disowned Jay. Telling him to leave the flat - yes, totally understandable. Completely abandoning him when he’s spiralling into drugs and depression - not such a good idea.
@@michaeldick6227 jay did the same thing to ben last year? He locked the doors at night time so ben couldn’t come home, kicking him out? There’s no “second chances” when it comes to social services. Once drugs are in the flat, they can snatch your kid. You cannot risk that. And look what happened, jay passed out on the sofa with drugs on him. That’s exactly the scene ben wanted to avoid hence why he asked jay to move out. He can sleep in the carlot or the empty apartment at the funeral home. Lets not act like jay was kicked onto the streets in Antarctic-like weather. He couldn’t be on drugs when around lexi. Its the law Nobody disowned anybody. All ben said was move out as I cant have lexi around drugs. Ben did not say you cant speak to me again, ben did not say you cant live on the square anymore.
@@Oceansandvineyards4752 As I said, I don’t blame Ben for a second for keeping Jay away from Lexi, and telling him to move out of 29B. But you can’t expect someone to sleep at the car lot (I know people have but it’s hardly suitable for it), and I don’t know if the flat above the funeral parlour is vacant. Ben was able to go to Kathy’s or Phil’s last year (when Jay told him to leave).
Don't know how many of the way to get in my life Now I'm not 🚭 to get in the morning and I'll have a great 😃 And then we are not 🚫 to go ahead with the family and friends
THis just brought tears to my eyes. Callum being an amazing guided for Ben on being an father, Ben is trying his best. Is just so sweet.
Ballum Ben and Callum My Two Boys From EastEnders ❤❤❤
Ben is not the bad guy he is trying to look after his kid its sad that jay is hurt but maybe he shouldn't have drove when off his face
Why is ben being made out to be the bad guy for not wanting drugs around his child?
I don’t think anyone is criticising Ben for that. But he practically disowned Jay. Telling him to leave the flat - yes, totally understandable. Completely abandoning him when he’s spiralling into drugs and depression - not such a good idea.
@@michaeldick6227 jay did the same thing to ben last year? He locked the doors at night time so ben couldn’t come home, kicking him out?
There’s no “second chances” when it comes to social services. Once drugs are in the flat, they can snatch your kid. You cannot risk that. And look what happened, jay passed out on the sofa with drugs on him. That’s exactly the scene ben wanted to avoid hence why he asked jay to move out.
He can sleep in the carlot or the empty apartment at the funeral home.
Lets not act like jay was kicked onto the streets in Antarctic-like weather.
He couldn’t be on drugs when around lexi. Its the law
Nobody disowned anybody. All ben said was move out as I cant have lexi around drugs. Ben did not say you cant speak to me again, ben did not say you cant live on the square anymore.
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As I said, I don’t blame Ben for a second for keeping Jay away from Lexi, and telling him to move out of 29B. But you can’t expect someone to sleep at the car lot (I know people have but it’s hardly suitable for it), and I don’t know if the flat above the funeral parlour is vacant. Ben was able to go to Kathy’s or Phil’s last year (when Jay told him to leave).
Don't know how many of the way to get in my life Now I'm not 🚭 to get in the morning and I'll have a great 😃 And then we are not 🚫 to go ahead with the family and friends