Mary J. Blige Ignored SO MANY Red Flags With Kendu Isaacs 🚩

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  • čas přidán 30. 07. 2023
  • After catastrophic relationships with R&B singers Case and K-Ci Hailey, Mary J. Blige found love again with Kendu Issacs… or so she thought. The Queen of Hip Hop Soul got swept off her feet by a man she would later describe as a con artist. Sadly, she ignored all the red flags that were bussin’ her upside the head.
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  • @Mrs51315
    @Mrs51315 Před rokem +1103

    Never trust a black man with pretty eyes😭🤦🏾

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr Před rokem +56

      😂

    • @youknowyoulikeit1000
      @youknowyoulikeit1000 Před rokem +41

      😂

    • @calibama6234
      @calibama6234 Před rokem +72

      Natural eye color or contacts ?😂

    • @mrod87
      @mrod87 Před rokem +223

      Terrance Howard tried to tell us in Best Man. 😂😂😂 Also….his life story. 👀

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +75

      💀💀💀@@mrod87

  • @Sheyshel
    @Sheyshel Před rokem +359

    Don't date when you're in a bad place. Heal first!!!

  • @a.h.2667
    @a.h.2667 Před rokem +792

    Mary is not Kendu's physical preference. Never ignore the colorist red flags.

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles Před rokem +233

      I won’t date a man that has a history of mostly/solely dating preferences. Nothing against the women, it’s about his mindset.

    • @iwillsurvive1335
      @iwillsurvive1335 Před rokem +115

      ​@@so.many.obstaclessmart 👌🏽. He'll make you a placeholder

    • @susandorcean4555
      @susandorcean4555 Před rokem +145

      The only thing that was attractive about her to him was her money.SMH🤦

    • @fauxgars736
      @fauxgars736 Před rokem +67

      I never liked him because he looked exactly like my ex who took all my money and made me sell my apartment. I never liked him!

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 Před rokem +10

      ​@@so.many.obstacles❤❤❤💯💯💯💯. Yup! Plain and simple

  • @mesimesi2313
    @mesimesi2313 Před rokem +319

    Paying a man money when he cheated has to be devastating. Just listening to this story is making me ill.

    • @MsCeCe-lt1zg
      @MsCeCe-lt1zg Před rokem +22

      Me also.. Stomack starting to hurt

    • @natv55
      @natv55 Před rokem

      Especially him asking for more. Low down dirty good-for-nothing piece of ish 😡

    • @neinei697
      @neinei697 Před 10 měsíci +14

      I hate the judge and that viper ex husband.I never liked him from the jump.mxm

    • @BeautyNBrains86
      @BeautyNBrains86 Před 8 měsíci +6

      Making you ill. Screaming 😂😂😂

    • @sharriri3030
      @sharriri3030 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Reason #12 why I don’t want it! Happy af single

  • @MadiAbara
    @MadiAbara Před rokem +349

    Molestation, physical/ verbal abuse, promiscuity, substance abuse, being cheated on..Mary’s been thru a lot😭. As a life long fan, I hope she’s well.

    • @lovelysosweet8386
      @lovelysosweet8386 Před rokem +6

      A Capricorn woman’s life!

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Před rokem +7

      ​@@lovelysosweet8386I mean no disrespect. I've had female Capricorn ♑ friends and acquaintances. I won't speak in absolutes. But, quite a few of them seem like THEY'RE addicted to drama ESPECIALLY if they come from a broken home. My late great aunt was no different. 😢

    • @blasianluvschocolate397
      @blasianluvschocolate397 Před 11 měsíci +2

      ​@@lovelysosweet8386facts 😢

    • @Mone333Williams
      @Mone333Williams Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@danavixen6274I have a Capricorn aunt ..and she is a recovery addict. She was Mary j...every relationship was abusive. Verbal.. physical.. financially..mentally and emotionally. Every single relationship. I'm sorry but it's something about Capricorn women they attract drama...they think love is fussing and fighting. I wish them healing 🌹🩷

    • @career5690
      @career5690 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@danavixen6274My mama isn’t addicted to drama she’s just argumentative when people come for her.

  • @brandid4239
    @brandid4239 Před rokem +83

    Kendu is the last to call anybody ugly looking like Herman monster from the hood

  • @danavixen6274
    @danavixen6274 Před rokem +763

    When love is blind, discernment goes out the window.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +33

      Yup!

    • @4.carmeljwn
      @4.carmeljwn Před rokem +30

      I love your comedic style and interludes. Whoever writes the script is pure genius!!

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Před rokem +18

      ​@@4.carmeljwnRRG needs to win some awards. 🏆

    • @4.carmeljwn
      @4.carmeljwn Před rokem +4

      @@danavixen6274 for sure!

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +5

      Thank you baby!@@4.carmeljwn

  • @annrrf1464
    @annrrf1464 Před rokem +237

    Never let a man tell you twice he is not into you

  • @Hains22
    @Hains22 Před rokem +209

    She had a little too much fun making this episode 😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +45

      Absolutely 💀

    • @nicolem2877
      @nicolem2877 Před rokem +19

      Ok!!! It’s kind of hard with a rock hard ding-a..😂😂😂. I was busy working with this playing in the background... I was like- say what now??? 😂 😂😅

    • @cebrinachandler1708
      @cebrinachandler1708 Před rokem +6

      Never too much ❤😅

    • @teef3309
      @teef3309 Před rokem +15

      Having her a good ole time! The singing was sending me Lmaooo

    • @MoDavI-sl7iy
      @MoDavI-sl7iy Před rokem +10

      She has a good time making all of her videos. She's the queen of shade.🤣😄

  • @teejthebrownbratt1725
    @teejthebrownbratt1725 Před rokem +148

    Not “Kendu with his broke ass!”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +6

      💀💀

    • @DorisPayne348
      @DorisPayne348 Před rokem +2

      That tripped me out too!🤣🤣🤣

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 Před rokem +458

    She made her husband a manager 😔🤔...nooo. I hope us BW learn not to do this. If a man is such a great " Manager" and such, he should be able to get OTHER talent with no problem. Also, men making more than a ♀️ 👠 is DRASTICALLY different then a woman making more than a man.

    • @rayecaters2u
      @rayecaters2u Před rokem +37

      Sadly, some women will never learn. Life.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před rokem +15

      I mean... we're learning this FROM looking at Mary J, etc

    • @LotsofLisa
      @LotsofLisa Před rokem +18

      @@Heyu7her3… and Wendy and Monique…

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 Před rokem +2

      ABSOLUTELY agree with you!

    • @BacDaFukUp4life
      @BacDaFukUp4life Před rokem

      tina and the roach, melba moore, angie stone, kelly price... shit the list continues!! she knew betta.....to kick your family to the curb, when it was no problems beforehand!! WTF?
      straight hustla mentality 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @nique813
    @nique813 Před rokem +225

    It saddens me to think that most of Mary’s best work are probably the songs that are most painful for her to sing & relive but they shaped & molded my childhood & carried me into womanhood 😢❤ forever a Mary fan

  • @Views202
    @Views202 Před rokem +158

    I see why she didn’t have any kids. Too much hurt,too much pain

    • @Kam876.
      @Kam876. Před rokem +14

      You know i always wondered why she didnt have any. Not that she needed to..just curious

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +16

      She always said she never wanted any. Not sure why @@Kam876.

    • @mariarod6998
      @mariarod6998 Před rokem +9

      When u have to fire ur own family members for a man some thing definitely is wrong Never take a man with kids something s wrong He’s after ur money

    • @millymilly8264
      @millymilly8264 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Why would she? She knows the game she don't want the evil doers to sacrifice her babies duh

  • @meekaw22
    @meekaw22 Před 11 měsíci +30

    I’ll never for When K. Michelle said, "The lighter the eyes, the bigger the lies..." I felt that.

  • @mildredfierce999
    @mildredfierce999 Před rokem +216

    MJB, Mel B & Wendy Williams, made their husbands their Manager, despite having NO PREVIOUS MANAGEMENT EXPERIENCE 😳 then had to pay them severance pay when the marriage ended. Gurl.....🙄

    • @rerebrook5057
      @rerebrook5057 Před rokem +16

      Wendy is the only one who left with money 🤷🏾

    • @jaythethinker3994
      @jaythethinker3994 Před rokem +6

      But in all those cases there careers took off with their husbands managing, having that support helped them. Problem was the fame went to the men’s head once the wives reached that status.

    • @kaylabey
      @kaylabey Před rokem +16

      @@jaythethinker3994how ? the ladies still lost in the end. what good is the success if they have nothing to show for it ?

    • @jaythethinker3994
      @jaythethinker3994 Před rokem +2

      @@kaylabey what do you mean nothing to show for it they are still wealthy, and did their best work during that time, that’s a legacy no man can take from them. The only thing they lost was the men.
      But I hear what your saying.

    • @mildredfierce999
      @mildredfierce999 Před rokem +13

      @@jaythethinker3994 Melanie Brown was a millionaire Spice Girl, when she met Stephen Belafonte (fake name) and just like MJB and her infamous chicken commercial 😳 Stephen made some questionable career choices as Mel’s Manager. Mel B got the America Got Talent gig, because of her decades long friendship with Simon Cowell (who hated Stephen Belafonte, as did most of Mel’s friends and family, as they knew how much of a waster and opportunist he was). Mel B was a millionaire when she met Stephen Belafonte and ended up broke when she finally left his grifting, pathetic, fake name ass.

  • @andreablossom3929
    @andreablossom3929 Před rokem +420

    Did Mary have the worst lawyer or what? This case has always been so confusing to me. He cheated. There is proof that he cheated. Usually that is enough for someone to not have to fork over money and not only did he get a hefty alimony check he got child support for children that weren't hers???? How does a judge rule on something like that in the way that he did?

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +150

      No prenup

    • @schmaelepaulection1431
      @schmaelepaulection1431 Před rokem +97

      Also, it depends on the laws of the state you married in too.

    • @dianegreen1937
      @dianegreen1937 Před rokem +80

      I was thinking the same. Who the hell was that lawyer really representing. That was insanity. 😳

    • @kiwihotable
      @kiwihotable Před rokem +82

      That’s the part that pissed me off!! And he had the nerve to ask FOR MORE MONEY!! Trifling at its finest 🙃😒

    • @MoDavI-sl7iy
      @MoDavI-sl7iy Před rokem +54

      This case pissed me TF OFF‼️

  • @donnajustbeingreal6607
    @donnajustbeingreal6607 Před rokem +236

    This is why ladies should date, marry, and have kids by a man that has more than you.
    If not you will be taking care of them. 💔
    Men are provider not women.

    • @JadedJassy21
      @JadedJassy21 Před rokem +38

      Such an outdated viewpoint…date someone who isn’t a user

    • @donnajustbeingreal6607
      @donnajustbeingreal6607 Před rokem +20

      @@JadedJassy21 Thank you for sharing your view point.

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles Před rokem +16

      @@JadedJassy21Do you have examples of how this, “outdated viewpoint” has been advantageous for women, specifically after divorce.

    • @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204
      @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 Před rokem +48

      ​@@JadedJassy21that's the problem with society young people calling traditional principles an "outdated viewpoint" wanting to be equal. Men are providers not women. Don't give men money!

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před rokem +8

      ​@@JadedJassy21Someone who isn't a user but is, instead, generous

  • @paradigmshift9166
    @paradigmshift9166 Před rokem +263

    May this woman find someone that truly loves and cares for her, for her and not her money and success.❤

    • @hartwell146
      @hartwell146 Před rokem +20

      Like so many of us, I included myself ,learn to love yourself first.

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Před rokem +13

      May Mary and MANY others in her shoes love themselves FIRST!!!!

    • @wadilotus
      @wadilotus Před rokem +14

      ​@@hartwell146I was just going to say that that! There's nothing wrong with being happily single.

    • @hartwell146
      @hartwell146 Před rokem +1

      @@wadilotus yes indeed !!

    • @sarossamitha8094
      @sarossamitha8094 Před rokem +6

      That would be a blessing it has been 8 years,since her divorce 😶 miracles do come true🙂

  • @niabelizaire3596
    @niabelizaire3596 Před rokem +161

    Mary is gorgeous and aged like fine wine 🍷❤️👠

  • @squarebear619
    @squarebear619 Před rokem +171

    When your friends drop you due to your man's behavior then you should sit back and really look at him and yourself. Especially great friends who have always been there. And then to fire your sister? She basically replaced one addiction for another in him and the bad relationships she was so used to.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @wendyhestick8514
      @wendyhestick8514 Před rokem +2

      He is a narcissist, they first isolate you, before they pounce on you!

    • @dr.andmrs.phibes7454
      @dr.andmrs.phibes7454 Před rokem +6

      She should have never fired her sister or given her true friends the boot when they tried to give her the truth about her boo. Two serious mistakes.

    • @lucybunwa5833
      @lucybunwa5833 Před 12 dny

      @@dr.andmrs.phibes7454right!!!

  • @stoneysoraclechannel7839
    @stoneysoraclechannel7839 Před rokem +108

    Kicked her own sister to the curb. Women will betray their women friends and family for a man QUICK!

    • @selenadavis1643
      @selenadavis1643 Před 10 měsíci +24

      So true. And a man won’t think twice kicking a woman to the curb for the next chic

    • @MsYakKi
      @MsYakKi Před 3 měsíci +2

      That's not true. Her sister is married and wanted to focus on her family. Her children were very young and she wanted more.

  • @MariahWyattBraxton
    @MariahWyattBraxton Před rokem +78

    One more red flag 🚩 you forgot RRG is that Maya Angelou warned Mary not to marry or even date Kendu because he was still married when Mary first met him.

  • @theejaydoubleyew
    @theejaydoubleyew Před rokem +216

    She did, many of us have. It happens. She wanted to be loved and again learned the hard way that she wasn't loving herself the best, so attracted someone who did the same. Give thanks that she seems to be on the other side of his goofy axx and she's now living her best life. Mary comes across as a genuinely cool lady; I've always wished her the best.
    That Queen Latifah snark lmaooooo!

    • @LotsofLisa
      @LotsofLisa Před rokem +10

      I think maybe he was what she needed at the time. People and seasons change and you realize you’re being left behind. These already famous and talented black women keep marrying the help. Wendy Williams and Monique made the same mistake.

    • @prinprin3324
      @prinprin3324 Před rokem +2

      So true alot of us have learned the hard way 😭

  • @REDMr97
    @REDMr97 Před rokem +153

    You should’ve done the harmony on “NOT GON’ CRY!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Please keep singing! I’m here for it!

  • @prettybrowneyes7481
    @prettybrowneyes7481 Před rokem +63

    Never enter a relationship while dealing with an inner struggle/brokenness... An abusive man or user will use that to get u in his trap. They can smell your pain and desperation a mile away.

    • @AA-bd2sl
      @AA-bd2sl Před rokem +5

      I agree! This is why it is very important that women (and men) make sure that they are happy and healed before they date, even if it means going to therapy and on a self love journey. It's worth the peace of mind in the end.

  • @rebels42wynn83
    @rebels42wynn83 Před rokem +85

    Never tell a man about your past trauma when it comes to abuse of any kind. I have all the love and respect for Mary and I hope that she will be blessed with a real, trusting man. This latest tea was so eye-opening for sure.

    • @trulyworkfromhome6767
      @trulyworkfromhome6767 Před rokem +14

      Yup, that's so true! They will play it against you!

    • @jayj.2956
      @jayj.2956 Před rokem +9

      i know this is meant to be a protective measure for women, but i think if you are dating and considering marriage… evaluate your reasons for marriage and what partner you specifically want if you feel like you can never share your past traumas with your partner. Having strong boundaries and prioritizing self-wellness and awareness will prevent individuals from staying in relationships with men who use their trauma against them. Because someone who has the capacity to do that, is likely also showing other red flag behaviors.

    • @wendyhestick8514
      @wendyhestick8514 Před rokem +5

      Never tell anyone but a therapist. If you tell a man, he will do the same thing to you. Put it in a book and empty your hurt, while making money from your pain

  • @GoddesssofMind
    @GoddesssofMind Před rokem +242

    I feel for her but honestly I know how it feels to be so unlucky in love. Everyone deserves love ❤️ may we all get it.

  • @SpammytheHedgehog
    @SpammytheHedgehog Před rokem +171

    You know what they say... love can not only shatter your heart, but it can shatter your mind.

  • @HouseOfAriaLynn
    @HouseOfAriaLynn Před rokem +57

    The RAY J SCARE DOWN IS Iconic 🤣🤣😭😭😤😤😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +6

      💀💀💀

  • @Kreezword913
    @Kreezword913 Před rokem +129

    I love that Mary is reparenting her inner little girl💜 I am 42 on the same journey.

  • @SimpleeKomplex
    @SimpleeKomplex Před rokem +101

    My heart goes out to Mary. She didn't deserve to be treated that way.

  • @scarzwr
    @scarzwr Před rokem +457

    Between the singing, original beats, promoting snacks, the shade and constructive information. I love this channel!
    P.S You guys actually keep it factual an

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +27

      Thank you BFF!

    • @mtchar9312
      @mtchar9312 Před rokem +20

      Love the narrator

    • @tiffanyanderson9437
      @tiffanyanderson9437 Před rokem +15

      Don’t forget the laughter. That laugh makes things even more funny. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Před rokem +8

      ​@@tiffanyanderson9437Her laugh is SAVAGE! 💀💀💀💀

    • @tabithabryan
      @tabithabryan Před rokem +8

      And her voice😂😂😂

  • @taupenoire1933
    @taupenoire1933 Před rokem +86

    Fortunately, she did not relapse after the carnage over her divorce, but she picked herself up and moved on and refuse to be a victim

  • @felichiapowe851
    @felichiapowe851 Před rokem +53

    It was so much shade thrown in this video, im sitting under the tree taking a cool break 😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +6

      💀💀💀

  • @charlahenry
    @charlahenry Před rokem +122

    I feel bad for Mary, you want love so bad, you'll fall for anything, he used her troubled past against her, I'm glad she woke up and hopefully she'll find true 💕 ❤❤❤

  • @Ilove2teach52
    @Ilove2teach52 Před rokem +134

    The singing😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Rollthedice8
    @Rollthedice8 Před rokem +47

    Nah your humor is unmatched RRG 😂😂😂

  • @abiola33
    @abiola33 Před rokem +66

    That singing took me right out 🤣🤣! Separate to that, I wish Mary J Blige experiences real relationship happiness from a good man the way she deserves it.

    • @TheUnique134441
      @TheUnique134441 Před rokem +2

      i was drinking my water and spit it straight out! that had me dyinggg 😂😂 i did not expect that!

    • @abiola33
      @abiola33 Před rokem

      @@TheUnique134441 Honestly! 🤣🤣

  • @LachelleAWilliams
    @LachelleAWilliams Před rokem +32

    Kendu needs to change his name to CANT DO…for himself
    How long is temporary?

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +5

      Until they settled on a final amount

  • @markiehwarren8866
    @markiehwarren8866 Před rokem +28

    I love Mary she will never be washed up to me!

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +3

      He was clearly jealous of her success

  • @JesusisKing03
    @JesusisKing03 Před rokem +40

    I appreciate every single person that participates in bringing us all these stories but THIS narrator is my ultimate favorite 😂😂😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +6

      Thank you bestieee! ❤️

    • @MoDavI-sl7iy
      @MoDavI-sl7iy Před rokem +3

      I always say the same thing, just not the first part. Lol

    • @Channyb89
      @Channyb89 Před rokem +1

      @@MoDavI-sl7iy😂😂😂

    • @jacluv7862
      @jacluv7862 Před rokem +1

      Me 2!!!! Her story telling, singing, laughing. She’s perfect for this content.

  • @BrittanyLashell
    @BrittanyLashell Před rokem +50

    The singing has me weak everytime 😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +3

      💀💀💀

  • @brandid4239
    @brandid4239 Před rokem +100

    Alot of black women date down just to say they have a black man and end up paying the price later

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr Před rokem

      😂

    • @calibama6234
      @calibama6234 Před rokem +6

      Just to say they have a man because they’re not all dating black men.

    • @InitaRichMan
      @InitaRichMan Před rokem +15

      Ladies please stop dating Dusties !!!!!!!!!!! #Cyn G

    • @CaribGirlBrownSugar
      @CaribGirlBrownSugar Před rokem +1

      Story of my life. Just to have a black man.

    • @greenytaddict
      @greenytaddict Před rokem

      @@InitaRichMan Certified trash bag with demon eyes

  • @centellvasilopoulos
    @centellvasilopoulos Před rokem +37

    This made me sad. He was preying on her from the beginning. Knew she was down and used that to slip right on in. Be careful out there ladies.

  • @felichiapowe851
    @felichiapowe851 Před rokem +57

    RRG singing has given me life on this Monday afternoon 😆

  • @augustG.I.F
    @augustG.I.F Před rokem +37

    So the singing and the celebrity reactions cRaCk me up EVERYTIME 😅😂

  • @DomDownTV
    @DomDownTV Před rokem +28

    Mary is truly a survivor.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +2

      🙏🏾❤

  • @redcupchronicles6812
    @redcupchronicles6812 Před rokem +28

    Just goes to show you, no matter how successful or beautiful a woman can be the need to be loved and wanted will toss all good sensibilities out the way

  • @SagittariusQueen1980
    @SagittariusQueen1980 Před rokem +20

    If I were a millionaire I'm not dealing with no broke joke! His money gotta be higher than mine.

  • @wickedwisdom6088
    @wickedwisdom6088 Před rokem +66

    The IRONY of Mary FINALLY realizing that Kendu was a conman is that I said the EXACT same thing when I first saw him!!!! I heard an account where Mary and Kendu were out to dinner, and he persistently flirted with the waitress IN FRONT OF MARY!!!! I told my girlfriends, "He is VERY intimidated by Mary's success, so he's making passive aggressive jabs to keep her "in her place." That man isn't doing nothing but using Mary! I sure hope that she's okay when she FINALLY realizes this man is doing nothing but using her!" 🤨

  • @deshonebonyrowland-ward4552

    If there is anyone I want to win at love it is my girl Mary Jane Blige.... She's helped us all navigate love when it's hard.. When it's beautiful and when u think it can't happen... If anyone deserves love it's the woman who helped us to keep believing in it... It's going to happen for her... I believe it. #theend ❤

  • @ZzDippedInButter
    @ZzDippedInButter Před rokem +19

    I had the opportunity to meet her this past Saturday & she was so cool and super down to earth & she is freaking beautiful in person!! I pray she finds a real king that loves her for her!

  • @chelseawilliams8588
    @chelseawilliams8588 Před rokem +28

    Mary is so daggone beautiful!! I’m glad she made it out with her life. As much as the financial loss hurts, as long as you have breath, you’re winning.

  • @wickedwisdom6088
    @wickedwisdom6088 Před rokem +71

    Like I did with the Wendy Williams story (which RRG pinned), I'm going to go in another direction with this. When a woman is HEALTHY, she will not even entertain BS for one second! Kendu capitalized on Mary's insecurities BECAUSE he KNEW that she was insecure. When a man KNOWS that you have high self-esteem and will not think twice about kicking him to the curb if he doesn't see her worth, he is more likely to treat you better. The fact that Kendu was verbally abusive AND slanging his 🍆 all over the place shows that he NEVER loved Mary and just wanted to use Mary. It is well known that Mary was in an abusive relationship with KC. Too many women (and men) are quick to jump into a relationship when they should be alone, HEALING THEMSELVES. If a woman does not love herself, she will get rid of one abusive man and replace him with another BECAUSE she does not love, respect, or value herself.
    Ladies, if you find that you are attracted to men that verbally, physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually abuse you, PLEASE end this relationship and get THERAPY. Therapy will help you to clearly see the ROOT of your unconscious attraction to abusers. I wish Mary and peace, love, and happiness to you all! Remember: You DO NOT need to be in a relationship with another person to value yourself. When you love yourself, you model for others how they SHOULD treat you. The moment that a man disrespects you, you won't think twice about kicking him to the curb.
    I LOVE you all!!!! 😘😘😘

    • @RamonaSamuelsTV
      @RamonaSamuelsTV Před rokem +8

      You’re so right with everything you said. Therapy should be normalised and welcomed. It’s healthy for anyone who needs help.

    • @cebrinachandler1708
      @cebrinachandler1708 Před rokem +5

      Facts, you attract what vibe you put out in the universe. She was a wounded woman/ prey for the buzzard , he smelled her years early 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Před rokem +4

      Love you back. Prayer and therapy are POWERFUL healing resources. I know all too well. Better than to heal than to repeat the TOXIC cycle. 🙏🏾❤

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +4

      Yesss bestie!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jamakadavis5511
    @jamakadavis5511 Před rokem +61

    Kendu looks shady 🤮

  • @ExquisiteKinkyCoils
    @ExquisiteKinkyCoils Před rokem +31

    Ms. Mary J. Blige's experiences are relatable. The fact that she turned all that pain into healthy constructive healing is a blessing 👑👑👑.

  • @dnholmestyle3772
    @dnholmestyle3772 Před rokem +24

    It was the singing AND the Mary dancing meme for me😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +2

      💀💀💀

  • @valerieirvin4330
    @valerieirvin4330 Před rokem +38

    So sad when a man like Kendu could manipulate women to be a dirty man. Mary trusted him too help her heal. I’m trying to be nice with my words because I don’t want to be blocked..

  • @melloff8144
    @melloff8144 Před rokem +44

    I would buy Mary's new albums in a blink...

  • @bazoena
    @bazoena Před rokem +14

    I don't care how in love I am, if my sister is my manager. I am not giving my husband this position.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @lashonnmurray2762
    @lashonnmurray2762 Před rokem +30

    We be having all the red flags & still ignore them & get out early, when we still end up leaving its just years later. He played her from the jump. She should have followed her first mind cause she said she didn't trust him from the beginning. She fired her sister & it back fired on her.

  • @BirdLadySpeaks
    @BirdLadySpeaks Před rokem +13

    That “Can’t do it” 😂😂😂😂💛💛💛💛

  • @KeeKeeSoto
    @KeeKeeSoto Před rokem +23

    Omg the singing...Im cryyiiing 😭🤣🤣 No pun intended 😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +5

      Did you love it? LOL

    • @KeeKeeSoto
      @KeeKeeSoto Před rokem +4

      @@rrg ummm yea Girl, absolutely! 😶🙃😂

  • @lindashelby2246
    @lindashelby2246 Před 11 měsíci +7

    This happens when you fall in love with the fantasy of being in love. It takes a real lesson and maturity and having self love to know and understand the differences.

  • @lseven5212
    @lseven5212 Před rokem +47

    OMG! Great video. The singing & that Mitch McConnel clip had me cracking up at work (I was on break though) But in all sincerity, Kendu is the kind of person that will have you featured on the ID Channel. I am so glad that Mary was able to get rid of him and is focusing on herself. She's an inspiration to a lot of women out there.

  • @TM-nb9zf
    @TM-nb9zf Před rokem +44

    The biggest red flag is his daughter. That girl appears extremely unbalanced. Im sorry yall i cant date someone with kids that behave like that.

    • @bresams2917
      @bresams2917 Před rokem +5

      I use to say "who's drunk a** angry daughter is this?" Watching that show. Ooh Kendu! Makes sense 💅🏾

    • @specialk8927
      @specialk8927 Před rokem

      Me either

    • @jenniferray509
      @jenniferray509 Před rokem

      Yes I couldn't believe that was his daughter. It showed me even more that he wasn't shit.

    • @TM-nb9zf
      @TM-nb9zf Před rokem +4

      @@jenniferray509 exactly. I understand mental illness can hit anyone. But that girl appears extremely damaged. Almost like she was neglected and abused

    • @jenniferray509
      @jenniferray509 Před rokem +2

      @@TM-nb9zf exactly you could look in her eyes and hear in her voice that she was very abused. And that her father sucked so much to the point where he wouldn't even call.

  • @locs_bjuicy6397
    @locs_bjuicy6397 Před rokem +14

    The Mitch MCcorny had me!🥴😂😂😂I love MaryJ and I hope love finds her.. she deserves it all. Thx RRG 💕

  • @char_d.0908
    @char_d.0908 Před rokem +28

    Great video RRG! His own daughter calling him "trash" tho...Wow!😮

  • @Littlebirdinatree
    @Littlebirdinatree Před rokem +53

    That wasnt love, it was dependency syndrome. Ive learned not to get into serious relationships when vulnerable. My view of things is very different once im healed and over something. Also, dont " fall in love" with an assumption. For example, You assume he is a good guy because he is a quiet guy or something. Been there done that and he was worse than my previous ones.🤦‍♀️

  • @ashantitraylor7240
    @ashantitraylor7240 Před rokem +25

    This is so sad! Sorry this happened to you Mary

  • @darienwilliams6070
    @darienwilliams6070 Před rokem +19

    We look for people, things, and vices to heal and bring comfort. There's only 1 that does that!

  • @MrsLegalDiva
    @MrsLegalDiva Před rokem +30

    Mary is a Queen and the second part of her life is going to be even more amazing. ❤❤❤

  • @withneyjoseph51
    @withneyjoseph51 Před rokem +22

    She deserves the world

  • @yvettejones4249
    @yvettejones4249 Před rokem +8

    She needs to hire a team of attorneys to get back her grammies and other awards, along with at least 4 million from him.

  • @hopecutkelvin5853
    @hopecutkelvin5853 Před rokem +15

    Just listen to her sing one the ballads on her albums during those times. You can hear the raw pain & emotion in her voice. Gut wrenching😢😢😢

  • @moniqueloomis9772
    @moniqueloomis9772 Před rokem +14

    Lady RRG's solos and giggles give me wings and life! 😊🥰

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @chanellie86
    @chanellie86 Před rokem +8

    I swear I have you singing Not Gon Cry on repeat!! “Can’t do it” 😂😭

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem

      💀💀💀

  • @msdiva
    @msdiva Před rokem +13

    Welcome back to the best narrator ever! And delivering extra shade today. 😂😂😂

  • @CocoaMango
    @CocoaMango Před rokem +9

    BABY! You showed out bad with the Not Gon Cry adlib 😂😂😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem

      💀💀💀

  • @universallove5472
    @universallove5472 Před rokem +22

    We never see the red flags others see until it's tooooo late. Better late then never.❤ He is dusty just like Stebbie J😮

  • @latishalovelace6835
    @latishalovelace6835 Před rokem +7

    The Mitch McConnell Reference almost made me choke. Funny as hell

  • @thickbrownlegs1859
    @thickbrownlegs1859 Před rokem +9

    That Ray J stare had me ☠️☠️☠️. I got my popcorn and I’m ready for all the 🚩

  • @iamKIRBYok
    @iamKIRBYok Před rokem +14

    The birds chirping in the beginning after you song Mary's "Not Gone Cry"😂 guh I was looking like what was that too and then you hit it us with Mitch at that press conference🤣🤣 You are cutting up on this video lol❤❤❤

  • @Mirage031
    @Mirage031 Před rokem +14

    We love you, Mary. You are a beautiful soul and your music has helped so many people get through tough times.

  • @EnlightenedandElite
    @EnlightenedandElite Před rokem +4

    That "can't do ittt" during that Mary interlude session took me out 😭😂

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +1

      LMAOOOO

  • @Inksplash52
    @Inksplash52 Před rokem +9

    Her first mistake was firing her sister as a manager and most likely he made her get rid of her friends. I always stand by never leaving your friends & family over no relationship or marriage because at the end of the day when some things fall apart those friends & family are gonna be there.

  • @iaminevitable_
    @iaminevitable_ Před rokem +15

    This is so good as always!!! I feel horrible for Mary.. what he put her through was so unfair. I wished she was smarter with her finances… never go into a relationship where you make the most money without a prenup especially a woman, I feel like he was only in the relationship to take from her and she let her guard down. It’s so sad smh

  • @Mr407boi
    @Mr407boi Před rokem +47

    Mary is a beautiful women. I believe she's looking for ❤️ and wants to be a wife. Her father was missing in her life and she doesn't know how to judge men's character. She should be happy by now🎉

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +4

      ❤❤❤

  • @AA-bd2sl
    @AA-bd2sl Před rokem +10

    What happened to Mary J. Bilge in her former marriage, shows that it is VERY important to make sure you are happy and healed BEFORE you date. Mary should have addressed her depression and the trauma that she went through with a therapist BEFORE she got in a relationship so that she could see the users and abusers coming before they even speak to her. I can easily sense evil in a man because I am more happier and healed than I used to be. Plus, when you are happy and healed while single, you'll naturally have higher standards when it comes to men and you'll naturally attract more happier and healed men who are empathetic. Users and abusers lack empathy, so having an empathetic partner is very important.

  • @GiftsbyChosen
    @GiftsbyChosen Před rokem +2

    No ma'am🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 when you put Sen. Mitch McConnell in it, I hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 turn the lights off, and throw your mic on the other side of the room🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Aries16603
    @Aries16603 Před rokem +7

    Mary went out bad. She exposed how insecure she was, cut her friends off for her husband and egg on her face. It’s a shame Mary had to learn the hard way.

  • @HouseOfAriaLynn
    @HouseOfAriaLynn Před rokem +10

    Never Ever Marry Your Manager Duhhhhhhhhhhh 😒🤦🏿‍♀️🤔🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +3

      They'll never learn

  • @loisbrown1059
    @loisbrown1059 Před rokem +6

    That's right always protect your INNER CHILD ,She's your past that helps YOU learn in the present. Like some say " If I knew then what I know now" It's called Life's lessons!!❤

  • @criminalmindsgirl2936
    @criminalmindsgirl2936 Před rokem +10

    I felt Mary on what she said about Aaliyah and 9/11...I was only 11 years old and was suffering from depression and didn't understand my mental health. It was sad and horrible.

  • @DeeVine999
    @DeeVine999 Před rokem +1

    Just what i need chile!!! Come through RRG❤😆

  • @sonyae777
    @sonyae777 Před rokem +8

    I love me some Mary!! ❤
    Thank you for sharing, RRG!! 🥰
    I am praying for Mary's continued healing, restoration and peace.. ❤❤❤

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem

      Thanks for watching, bestie!

  • @monicasteward3169
    @monicasteward3169 Před rokem +4

    You better sang!!! (You used your child's mega phone)...hahaha

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +2

      Not the mega phone lmaoooo!

  • @shahedathomas4
    @shahedathomas4 Před rokem

    RRG y’all are continually feeding me what I need. I have been waiting for this video for so long. I love me some Mary J for real. Please keep these videos coming, y’all be coming through!!!❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @memewitda2es71
    @memewitda2es71 Před rokem +2

    Been waiting on this!!!😊

  • @destinydivine8465
    @destinydivine8465 Před rokem +7

    She fired her sister!? Dangg..Mary!!!