The mathematics of love

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  • čas přidán 18. 08. 2023
  • Still looking for The One? Scientist and mathematician Dr. Hannah Fry provides some calculated tips for finding the “perfect” partner. This talk was filmed at TEDxBinghamtonUniversity.
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Komentáře • 49

  • @akashguharoy341
    @akashguharoy341 Před 9 měsíci +16

    I feel chemistry is more important than maths in love

  • @maryanncrody4867
    @maryanncrody4867 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Love is what it is and we have no idea

  • @fogpimp
    @fogpimp Před 9 měsíci +4

    love is uncalculated

  • @magicone1386
    @magicone1386 Před 9 měsíci +38

    Love doest need mathematics it's beyond the barriers of profit and loss. Love works when everybody contributes

    • @PetraKann
      @PetraKann Před 9 měsíci +4

      Don't you just love it when mathematicians start thinking they are important?

    • @modestogarciamodegarcia4220
      @modestogarciamodegarcia4220 Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@PetraKann😂w 😂main St seeerree

    • @MS-ns4ki
      @MS-ns4ki Před 9 měsíci

      Math = looks Chemistry choice in wanting to do this w another person.

    • @MrAsifyou
      @MrAsifyou Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@PetraKann😢

    • @lohht7g
      @lohht7g Před 9 měsíci +1

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Yurinsm
    @Yurinsm Před 9 měsíci

    Hannah Fry ❤

  • @NoahNobody
    @NoahNobody Před 9 měsíci +3

    You don't need so many partners to get a feel for what you want. I made a decision after five. Three of which were serious.

    • @olivialovesdesign
      @olivialovesdesign Před 9 měsíci +1

      Lucky you. I seem to find same man different name. All violent or abusive

    • @bridgetking5216
      @bridgetking5216 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Being too kind will attract narcissist.

    • @labakanurzidil2464
      @labakanurzidil2464 Před 4 měsíci

      bridgetking5216
      Being too kind will attract narcissist.
      - being too narcissistic will attract narcissist ... what a surprise ...

  • @parimalkisku5882
    @parimalkisku5882 Před 9 měsíci +1

    ❤ got it 👍

  • @AndreiYoLo
    @AndreiYoLo Před 9 měsíci +2

    even ted x got shorts, god pls save me

  • @Chris-gm4hk
    @Chris-gm4hk Před 9 měsíci

    🎼🎶You and me.🎵🎶Hypergamy.🎶 So happy together.🎵🎶

  • @dennistucker1153
    @dennistucker1153 Před 9 měsíci +1

    @Dr. Hannah Fry...I'm a computer programmer. At one time, I explored the though "Is there an algorithm that explains love?" After a few weeks of thought on this, I discovered not only the answer to this question but so much more. I found the algorithm that explains ALL kinds of relationships.

    • @mal2b
      @mal2b Před 9 měsíci

      Oh really. Just show off by sharing it or shut up.

    • @learlear1143
      @learlear1143 Před 9 měsíci

      please tell me about it and i will owe you a lot

    • @dennistucker1153
      @dennistucker1153 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@learlear1143 To make this discussion shorter, I will limit this to people only. This algorithm is an intelligent database program that continuously does the following things. 1) For each person we are exposed to, a new record is created. This record collects various statistics like how many positive
      egative interactions, how attractive they are, how trustworthy, how they fell about you, etc. There are a lot of these categories and stats. 2) These records are compared against all other similar records. This has the effect for ranking all the people we interact with. The more positive the ranking the better we feel about that person.

    • @learlear1143
      @learlear1143 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@dennistucker1153 thanks a lot, that rings so true. i was also confused for long, thought about it and was inspired a conclusion that still feels like a revelation to me. that humans are born with a program, a manager that manages everything. i call it 'the manager'. and this manager has its own plans and agenda. its first priority is to elevate and maintain its sense of value and importance. using whatever tactics necessary. the society has a big effect on it. it plays by the rules in public. and it has beliefs and rules that it doesnt want to break. in order to maintain how valuable it sees itself. the rules and beliefs change from one manager to the other. depending on the environment, society, situation and whatever it sees most beneficial for serving its first priority-its sense of importance and value-. it uses the mind and emotions to get to where it wants and reach the outcome it seeks when relating to others or even to the mind and heart. so, basically it is just a selfserving program and we are slaves to it. it has the final say in everything, even if the mind tells it that's a wrong thing to do. it is the boss, controlling and managing us very well, scr**ing us up. and love happens to the degree that we surrender this program and become enemies to it, giving up its own priorities for the sake of someone else. and this must be mutual, otherwise it will be like stanging in front of a tiger thinking it will be nice to us if we be nice to it. it has to be two way inner work. any two people with the readiness to go against their own manager for the sake of love, will experience love to the degree they surrender and go against that manager.

  • @eduardosouza5251
    @eduardosouza5251 Před 9 měsíci +2

    You may need math to succeed in love but not on the whole. Actually, you just need to use your intelligence and not your heart to take your decisions.
    If you use your mind to see and analyze the signs, behaviors, and actions of your partner and over it take your decision about keeping this relationship or not, it's perfect. In your job you gotta use your intelligence to succeed, in your relationship you gotta do the same.

  • @bbreimm
    @bbreimm Před 9 měsíci +2

    Named Fry, staggering ginger hair... Yeah that checks out.

    • @olivialovesdesign
      @olivialovesdesign Před 9 měsíci

      Can you explain this comment to me? Maybe I’m not good enough at math to understand

    • @ac2055
      @ac2055 Před 9 měsíci

      ​​@@olivialovesdesignRef to Futurama char, lol

  • @orionstar5492
    @orionstar5492 Před 9 měsíci +1

    It doesn't take into consideration a lot of variables that life can present

  • @LIFEWITHSHUBHAMVERMA
    @LIFEWITHSHUBHAMVERMA Před 9 měsíci +2

    Good evening everyone
    Have a good day
    Jai mata Di

  • @OADFamily
    @OADFamily Před 9 měsíci

    Love ted❤❤

  • @BunderChowed
    @BunderChowed Před 9 měsíci

    she is gorgeous

  • @HakuCell
    @HakuCell Před 9 měsíci +1

    you call 7 minutes a short ??

  • @Mr.Telekinetic
    @Mr.Telekinetic Před 9 měsíci

    How many cats are too many cats though??? 🧐

  • @RanT-whatishandlefor
    @RanT-whatishandlefor Před 9 měsíci

    Any1 else thought the pic was Ariana G before looked at context?

  • @maryanncrody4867
    @maryanncrody4867 Před 9 měsíci

    Men in trees so many went to Alaska to find a husband

  • @floricadinu9151
    @floricadinu9151 Před 8 měsíci

    tremblementdeterrespecialnoel!

  • @Theunprofitable_trader
    @Theunprofitable_trader Před 9 měsíci

    Hey

  • @CharliePON
    @CharliePON Před 9 měsíci

    Tinder already cracked the algorithm for this. They are responsible for 6.7 million births 😮😮😮

  • @labakanurzidil2464
    @labakanurzidil2464 Před 4 měsíci

    love = aggression, egotism, right?

  • @TS2021_ME
    @TS2021_ME Před 9 měsíci

    😅

  • @Simply_Ando
    @Simply_Ando Před 9 měsíci +2

    What a joke love ain’t math-based

  • @maryanncrody4867
    @maryanncrody4867 Před 9 měsíci

    When I was young I wanted to wear a t shirt I q below 150 nna

  • @helenaford2617
    @helenaford2617 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Baloney

  • @payalgiri9943
    @payalgiri9943 Před 9 měsíci

    First one to comment

  • @learlear1143
    @learlear1143 Před 9 měsíci

    what was that? nothing useful at all.