Radical Acceptance: Our Gateway to Love and Freedom, with Tara Brach

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  • Radical Acceptance: Our Gateway to Love and Freedom, with Tara Brach [2022-09-21]
    Our capacity to realize the truth of who we are and to love fully, arises from moments of true acceptance. This means meeting our unfolding life with an unconditional, open and tender presence. This talk on Radical Acceptance explores how the trance of unworthiness contracts us away from presence, and how activating mindfulness and self-compassion with RAIN loosens the grip of self-aversion and awakens our hearts.
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Komentáře • 210

  • @lichtlucy
    @lichtlucy Před rokem +13

    Damn! I got it wrong! I was practicing 'Rage. Agitate. Internalize. Numb." for years!!! 😫😩

  • @shivanthikulasingham6131
    @shivanthikulasingham6131 Před rokem +240

    I read Tara Brach's book, Radical Acceptance years ago, at the suggestion of a therapist. That book changed my life, and my relationship with pain and dealing with uncomfortable feelings. I have re-read the book, I can't say how many times now. It sits on my night stand, with highlighted sections, notes written on the margin, and much underlining. I will spend the rest of my life re-reading and referring to it to as a guide. For anyone who has not read this book yet, I humbly and highly recommend it. It had a profound impact on my life, and continues to years later. I appreciated this 39 minute video with the RAIN meditation. Tara's words are wise, insightful, authentic, and compassionate. I needed this video, today, in this moment. I am grateful to you and your many life lessons, Tara.

  • @lucymileo2862
    @lucymileo2862 Před 2 měsíci +8

    This message from Tara is so helpful to me at age 84. You are never too old to learn and be happier. Thank you from my heart, Tara.

  • @paperprincess1050
    @paperprincess1050 Před rokem +9

    We can often think we are not worthy because someone in our lives has been telling us that or treating us like that over and over again unill we are programmed to believe it and it takes a lot to unprogramme ourselves from that.

  • @pauksoh5462
    @pauksoh5462 Před 27 dny

    I always feel better listening to your talk.

  • @lindyn4
    @lindyn4 Před rokem +11

    I can't believe I'm at a point where such content is shown on my CZcams page you speak with so much peace and calm thank you for this depth of work

  • @ria600
    @ria600 Před rokem +4

    I don't know why but I really like this lady. Maybe I am old school but I like that she speaks slow and the vibration of her voice, I find it sinks in. Thank you for that.

  • @JWoodf
    @JWoodf Před 7 hodinami

    Thank you so much Tara🙏🏻❤️

  • @blondefisk
    @blondefisk Před rokem +8

    My heart thanks you for your generosity of spirit. Blessings

  • @levihan3777
    @levihan3777 Před rokem +9

    I find this way better therapy than what any therapist has ever given me. I’m seeing my sixth therapist in 11 years, and not one of them have given me anything like you have on CZcams. I found that the therapists keep trying to do CBT when I tell them that it hasn’t been helpful for my trauma. CBT just makes me overanalyze all of my thoughts. It never tells me to pause. To do techniques such as RAIN. Everything I have learned from your videos and your book “Radical Acceptance” has shifted my perspective more in two years than CBT in 11.

    • @rovingrhea
      @rovingrhea Před rokem +1

      I agree. I have the same experience with CBT and trauma, and Tara has really shown me something no therapist have. Sending you love!

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 Před rokem +6

      Unfortunately, traditional trauma can be retraumatizing, programming the trauma further...as our subconscious mind is programmed through repetition+emotion. If we haven't learned emotional/nervous system regulation and integrated it in a daily way....our talking about our story and try to only do some techniques without addressing this dysregulation, can be worse than no therapy, for some people.
      Learning mindfulness, presence, the breathing of meditation and yoga (which helps our parasympathetic system get online, are all foundational to healing.
      Most of us are in some state of almost continual sympathetic nervous system activation, and traditional therapy only exacerbates that.
      I hope, that more therapists learn tools, skills, to teach, that focus on emotional regulation, calming, as the primary goal & other therapy can follow (very individual of course) after the work of emotional regulation is more part of the person's daily life.

    • @joywalkertalks
      @joywalkertalks Před rokem +2

      Find someone trained in Peter Levine’s work

    • @carolannerobinson8351
      @carolannerobinson8351 Před rokem +2

      It has been discovered that DBT is better for people who have been traumatized and uses the richness of mindfulness and Buddhism.

    • @carolannerobinson8351
      @carolannerobinson8351 Před rokem

      @@joywalkertalks Peter Levine is awesome.

  • @patmacy3133
    @patmacy3133 Před rokem +16

    Tears after the old man and Eric story. The emotions that came out of me were astounding.

    • @dzzzzzt
      @dzzzzzt Před rokem

      Can you explain to me, because I couldn't understand well, what she meant at the end by saying "Lord, forgive me."? Did she wanted forgiveness for feeling afraid and digusted by the old man and judged herself for that, or for risking her son by giving him to a stranger?

    • @cassandro9445
      @cassandro9445 Před rokem +3

      @@dzzzzzt the first

    • @dzzzzzt
      @dzzzzzt Před rokem +1

      @@cassandro9445 So that intuition was right. Thank you!

    • @cassandro9445
      @cassandro9445 Před rokem

      @@dzzzzzt namaste 🌸✨

  • @kariarvisais8588
    @kariarvisais8588 Před rokem +26

    Dear Tara,
    I have been learning from you for 4 years now, and each time I hear your life experiences, stories and words if wisdom, I am humbled and honored.
    Remembering the quote: When the student is ready to learn, the teacher shall appear",Thank you for being my teacher and the world teacher of Radical Acceptance.
    Namaste 🙏

  • @teleprompt
    @teleprompt Před rokem +3

    You have such a beautiful, calming aura and spirit. Please pray for me and send positive vibes my way as I am struggling to get my business up and running.

  • @madeleineminns1211
    @madeleineminns1211 Před rokem +72

    Thank you. I consider myself so fortunate to be have Tara’s loving guidance in my life.

  • @termsofuseist
    @termsofuseist Před rokem +4

    I would like to express my gratitude for this teaching. The most beautiful teachings to me are when I find concrete, applicable and eloquent expressions of something I have felt to be true inside myself on and off for a while, but haven't had the wisdom and clarity to distill as beautifully. This is just so: I notice how often I run away from my unpleasant self-conceptions. How I wish I hadn't rushed toward emotional relief but sat with that for a moment to truly connect with it and accept myself and gain insight. I feel fortunate to see in this video a mirroring of my lived experience with such kindness and clarity. Thank you!

  • @elizabethrindfleisch6878

    I have long covid and I find it super hard to adjust. Thank you for this post.

  • @sharynfoster3255
    @sharynfoster3255 Před rokem +15

    I am speechless - this is what miracles are made of!🌸

  • @foxdenham
    @foxdenham Před rokem +16

    Thank you so much Tara. My heart sang and my eyes cried. I am humbled. X

  • @patricialawson-df4wo
    @patricialawson-df4wo Před rokem +1

    I can hardly speak. Thank you Tara for this deep emotional experience.

  • @andreamast735
    @andreamast735 Před rokem +5

    Thank you so much for this teaching. I have received much help and solace from your books and meditations. Peace and blessings to you.

  • @patriciataylor4954
    @patriciataylor4954 Před rokem +8

    Have read Tara’s book several times and meditated with her for years. But today lying in bed with a migraine I am hearing something new for the first time. I do blame myself for my pain but I also know I can trust my goodness. Am in tears. Thank you ❤

  • @dr.keshavamurthy2785
    @dr.keshavamurthy2785 Před rokem +4

    Thank you so much madam. Lots of unconditional love, light, respect and gratitude. Feeling Joy...Peace...Bliss...Oneness with all of life...Vastness & expandedness

  • @taniamans2026
    @taniamans2026 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Your videos keeps me alive... i am in such a dark whole. I get peace listening to your videos... I thank you...

    • @g.h.7755
      @g.h.7755 Před 6 měsíci

      May you find that place of peace, light and joy within you, Tania. The universe embraces you, holds you and protects you. ✨✨✨

    • @justmadeit2
      @justmadeit2 Před 23 dny

      How are you doing now?

  • @littlemissy8356
    @littlemissy8356 Před 5 měsíci +3

    RAIN-
    1. Recognize
    2. Allow
    3. Investigate
    4. Nurturing

  • @carolinebergstrom1484
    @carolinebergstrom1484 Před rokem +5

    Thank you so much for your wisdom. Every time I listen to you I always gain insight and help me arrive home and help me get out of my “trance of unworthiness “and thoughts that there is something wrong with me. Thank you for helping me love and accept myself in a more kinder and loving way. What a blessing you are to the world!

  • @audreyoreilly126
    @audreyoreilly126 Před rokem +7

    Your talks have been a gift in my life.

  • @gloriabaughn6061
    @gloriabaughn6061 Před rokem +6

    Thank you. Your books, your talks and your kindness make a huge difference in our world.

  • @stellabelorunova4547
    @stellabelorunova4547 Před rokem +1

    Thanks!

  • @alichapman352
    @alichapman352 Před rokem +16

    Found this such a balm when crisis hits. The second time now when I can't face anything or anyone that i have found comfort and support in one of your videos, thank you Tara 💐💜✨

  • @pradeepnair162
    @pradeepnair162 Před 7 měsíci

    I discovered Tara 4 years back. You exude so much calmness and wisdom and have become one of my gurus along with John Kabat Zinn, and Dave Potter. Namaste and gratitude from India!

  • @susansacco7583
    @susansacco7583 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you💕Namaste💕

  • @celesteoliva2383
    @celesteoliva2383 Před rokem +1

    I love that I can come back to your teachings and practice again and again and hear something new. And also deepen my understanding of what you’ve already given me, a path back to myself as I am; with a compass for my future. Thank you!

  • @frankieroberson3398
    @frankieroberson3398 Před rokem +1

    Tara, sitting here in my little corner in Motown, listening intently, thank you so much, good day.

  • @christianwilliams6847
    @christianwilliams6847 Před 9 měsíci +1

    There was a point where i mastered this principle and it sent me into another realm of reality.. The world is not what we've made it out to be...

  • @mercuryascending1900
    @mercuryascending1900 Před rokem +10

    So beautiful, in and out. Thank you for these healing messages, very timely for me. 💚🙏🏼🌼✨

    • @lindamilne3166
      @lindamilne3166 Před rokem

      Tara, Thank You! YOU gift me Joyous Healings and Open Heart Full Learnings and Understandings.
      🌈💕🌻

  • @deweystace
    @deweystace Před rokem +3

    Wow! So powerful. Tears abound. What a gift of teaching and compassion you share. 🙏🏼❤️

  • @louelle8653
    @louelle8653 Před rokem +8

    Wow, thank you and God bless you. An hour before I found this latest video offering, I was speaking with a friend who was suffering. Every word of our conversation was met and addressed by this wise message and I’m passing it on now.

  • @TirraOmilade
    @TirraOmilade Před rokem

    Crying with you about the baby Eric and Old Man story. Wow. My heart…🙏🏾💜

  • @Abc-rx6tj
    @Abc-rx6tj Před rokem +4

    Radical openness & radical transperanncy

  • @CatherineKay-qs7dn
    @CatherineKay-qs7dn Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @RCRB444
    @RCRB444 Před rokem

    TARA BRACH ROCKS MY WORLD! Tara, you keep us all sane. Thank you for your offerings and for your light and love. You are changing the world. NAMASTE GIRL!

  • @lindacurbello3708
    @lindacurbello3708 Před rokem

    Thank you 🙏 🥰🌈

  • @vitallife7134
    @vitallife7134 Před rokem

    Thank you !

  • @sallykirkstephens8415
    @sallykirkstephens8415 Před rokem +23

    Me too . Life feels like a pilgrimage with Tara ,Jack Cornfield and Rick Hanson too . Such daily riches- am so grateful for their free offerings ,spanning 6 years now .

  • @annalisereinhardttime-base4524

    Thank you for sharing your stories and loving wisdom with us.

  • @jenniferwolf545
    @jenniferwolf545 Před rokem +1

    Absolutely beautiful ! I am blessed . Thank You Tara . Namaste 🙏❤

  • @michelebee991
    @michelebee991 Před rokem

    Thank you once again for sharing your beautiful heart, Tara Brach. ❤

  • @lynbeck2359
    @lynbeck2359 Před rokem +2

    Namaste 🙏 Tara & Friends

  • @analaltamirano126
    @analaltamirano126 Před rokem

    Congratulations.
    I bought the CD ever since.
    Listen it,so many times .
    Thank you.
    Gracias.

  • @starrsteele1340
    @starrsteele1340 Před rokem

    Thank you Tara! Love you

  • @patinoche
    @patinoche Před rokem

    Such a beautiful, deep talk and, reminders. So grateful. Thank you so much, Tara 🙏🌺❤

  • @orchidblue22
    @orchidblue22 Před rokem +7

    @Tim Ferris @Gabor Maté listened to you speak on this book years ago with Marie Forleo. Incredibly Grateful for that. So much good came from finding these teachings and your voices. Listened to you both mention it again. Thought I would share with you
    Thank you 🙏🏽 All of you for your work ❤

  • @LoriEmmons
    @LoriEmmons Před rokem

    Completely awesome awareness & awakening, thank you for being here.

  • @WhiteFeatherHealing
    @WhiteFeatherHealing Před rokem

    Thanks from the bottom of my heart.... Love Tricia x

  • @Nomad_Paws
    @Nomad_Paws Před rokem +2

    Big Gratitude for this knowledge that you share with us Tara.

  • @ShraddaNiche
    @ShraddaNiche Před rokem

    Namaste 🙏

  • @robertamcknight3175
    @robertamcknight3175 Před rokem +1

    So much loving kindness ❤ Namaste 🙏🏼

  • @gwenshannon-wright4341
    @gwenshannon-wright4341 Před rokem +3

    Thank you Tara. Such a beautiful message. I will come back to this often. Namaste❤️

  • @AL-cn6pp
    @AL-cn6pp Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you ❤

  • @buddhababy2005
    @buddhababy2005 Před rokem

    Thank you Tara - so powerful! !

  • @mettekristiansen4550
    @mettekristiansen4550 Před rokem

    Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @basiagajewska4637
    @basiagajewska4637 Před rokem +7

    That was so beautiful touched my heart so deeply I look like a mess but I now my gold you reminded me again and I can feel that with all by being, thank you Tara for this amazing work 🙏❤

  • @merlinfox3506
    @merlinfox3506 Před rokem

    Dearest Tara, WOW ! 🌹Received this teaching with gratitude. Shared with love and blessings. Namaste, beautiful soul 💙 🌹 🙏🌹💙

  • @jackiescully6655
    @jackiescully6655 Před rokem

    So beautiful... Such access to peace ❤️

  • @amybarrows5305
    @amybarrows5305 Před rokem +1

    Woweee! Thank you for this beautiful gift

  • @MAgaSUXX
    @MAgaSUXX Před rokem

    Its Christmas day here in Florida...freezing COLD (25 degrees)...Thank you for such an INSPIRATIONAL gift to end this year and BEGIN a new year of life equipped with a new attitude, new tools to mine the JOY OF LIFE. Every breath is a gift, the quickening awarenes that life is all connected and being here RIGHT NOW is so INTOXICATING.

  • @Summerkirsom
    @Summerkirsom Před 11 měsíci

    Such a special way of communicating the truth. Now the recognition of that in myself is where I hope to dwell to find freedom from this thinking mind

  • @joekehoeboer7592
    @joekehoeboer7592 Před rokem

    I feel dearly grateful

  • @Gretchencasey1
    @Gretchencasey1 Před rokem

    Just what I need. 🙏❤

  • @e.hughes3936
    @e.hughes3936 Před rokem

    Thank you.

  • @annasternfeldt6031
    @annasternfeldt6031 Před rokem +8

    I also got tears in my eyes when listening to the story about the boy and the man.
    I wonder when the new version of Radical acceptance will be available?

  • @evegua4977
    @evegua4977 Před rokem +4

    This video is just what I needed to hear today, and probably will watch again.. so very touching ..🙏😇

  • @clemjohnstone5053
    @clemjohnstone5053 Před rokem

    So very wonderful Tara I just so admire you, you are teaching me so much. God bless you . Rose (from Scotland)

  • @yovanni
    @yovanni Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this amazing beautiful message you are so eloquent and this training is power

  • @graceverssen5651
    @graceverssen5651 Před rokem

    Thank you soooo much dear Tara. You are such a gift...to humanity... and to me. with loving blessings from Grace now in India ❣️🌺❣️🌺

  • @nigelericogden3200
    @nigelericogden3200 Před rokem

    Thank you Tara for such a beautiful sharing. Namaste 🙏

  • @ushanarain6717
    @ushanarain6717 Před rokem

    Thanks alot Tara. You're great teacher , your love, wisdom and knowledge and kindness and understanding of much needed therapy for us all really helped me with my life. God bless you always.🙏❤

  • @lodewijklangeweg742
    @lodewijklangeweg742 Před rokem +1

    Remembers the infinitely loving perfect One now also as this awareness:
    "Pleasant or unpleasant, morally approved or disapproved of by My conscience, also this experience was I beforehand willing to have, that also this and everyone's soul would have My happiness."💗

  • @Wingedmagician
    @Wingedmagician Před rokem +1

    Your “Radical” books and these meditations/talks are helping me out of a lifetime of the trance of unworthiness. I’d like to add that sometimes we fall into a narcissistic trance of special worthiness too though 🙏 thank you for helping me feel human

  • @juliedoyle8115
    @juliedoyle8115 Před rokem

    Thank you Tara 🙏

  • @dianahurt4006
    @dianahurt4006 Před rokem

    Thank you Tara.

  • @Whiteanglestar999
    @Whiteanglestar999 Před 9 měsíci

    Love the short stories you use to illustrate and get across the meaning and message of your wisdom.

  • @lambylambcurly
    @lambylambcurly Před rokem

    Thank you for this 🙏🏻 have been going through health issues since 3 years now And I’m practicing acceptance

  • @andreagerardi5320
    @andreagerardi5320 Před rokem

    Thank you Tara. ❤️🙏

  • @dianneschmid8129
    @dianneschmid8129 Před rokem

    May u be blessed Tara 🍀🕊🍀❤️

  • @oshavanatta9533
    @oshavanatta9533 Před rokem

    Thank you 🙏 you are a blessing, you have helped me tremendously 🥰

  • @mikedonovan4768
    @mikedonovan4768 Před rokem +5

    I bought the Radical Acceptance audiobook and it's the closest I've ever got to spiritual teachings relating to actual living. It's really practical. Thank you Tara. 🙂

  • @geriscudder3416
    @geriscudder3416 Před rokem

    Thank you! Beautiful presentation!

  • @aliciacubells3211
    @aliciacubells3211 Před rokem +1

    Thank you 🙏 Gracias ❣️

  • @AL-eg8oy
    @AL-eg8oy Před 10 měsíci

    Beautiful. The story at the end was so touching. Thank you Tara ❤

  • @kerryfaden94
    @kerryfaden94 Před rokem

    Thank you so much!

  • @richoneplanet7561
    @richoneplanet7561 Před rokem +2

    'It's speaking English that kills you' - too funny 😁

  • @miamirabel
    @miamirabel Před rokem

    Thank you ❤ you touch my heart! 🙏🏽

  • @stevenholland6452
    @stevenholland6452 Před rokem

    You have an elegant way of speaking in the long composition style. Your sense of biography and translation is really emotionally refined.

  • @edwizard62
    @edwizard62 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful Tara❤

  • @chrisledrew5091
    @chrisledrew5091 Před 4 měsíci

    I love your videos, but I can't go to sleep to them because the bell at the end always wakes me up. Ha ha!

  • @kardoyle
    @kardoyle Před rokem

    Thanks Tara❤

  • @bohmhome12
    @bohmhome12 Před rokem

    Thank you 🌳

  • @dchrysostom
    @dchrysostom Před 9 měsíci

    So happy to be here.. best video ever…

  • @sbmenard7374
    @sbmenard7374 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for all you do for us, dear Tara. I am so grateful for your wisdom and love. Your work has changed my life. Blessings to you and to all beings.