This is How an Elegant Woman Sits with Confidence!

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  • čas přidán 21. 03. 2023

Komentáře • 291

  • @preciousbonsu7336
    @preciousbonsu7336 Před rokem +335

    Watching this is an eye opener. Our non verbal body language speaks volumes. Friendly confidence even makes us look so much more attractive and approachable.

  • @deboraha4908
    @deboraha4908 Před rokem +377

    Elegant women do not cross their legs at the knee. We cross our legs at the ankle.

  • @asanwababy
    @asanwababy Před rokem +64

    Being comfortable is the key 👌🏾

  • @miyangtangwan7046
    @miyangtangwan7046 Před rokem +46

    Being confident is owning and occupying a space, while being aware of yourself and your environment, and becoming comfortable within that setting. It's an art, and the more you practice, the easier it looks and the more masterful you become.

  • @SPerez-or3mt
    @SPerez-or3mt Před rokem +31

    Girl I’m from the projects clenching my purse nervously is a thing lol

  • @caramelkisses8396
    @caramelkisses8396 Před rokem +27

    The only thing to change is that "ladies" dont cross their legs. We should cross at the ankles. ❤

    • @groawning1345
      @groawning1345 Před rokem +1

      Ei

    • @starrain3154
      @starrain3154 Před rokem +6

      Nope. That's boring. You don't wanna be a boring person. Add a little spice here and there 🙂

  • @susan8576
    @susan8576 Před rokem +75

    I like to be comfortable, so I'm definitely the girl that occupies the entire seat and uses a throw pillow for support. Nice one Winnie👍🏽

  • @allyp6868
    @allyp6868 Před rokem +8

    Girl, I was considering taking some etiquette classes. However, I'll save my coins and keep watching your videos. Thanks! Keep up the good work hon. I'm learning a lot. God Bless..

  • @Kyle_Broflovski..
    @Kyle_Broflovski.. Před 25 dny +2

    TYSM. I'M ALWAYS SO ANXIOUS AND SHY AT SCHOOL.

  • @simmyisrad
    @simmyisrad Před rokem +36

    I'll definitely have to work on this, people can tell when you're nervous

    • @saalihaatif
      @saalihaatif Před 3 měsíci +1

      more like i am the one who makes ppl nervouse w/ my stare 💀☠

    • @mmmmmmmm-xp1mw
      @mmmmmmmm-xp1mw Před 28 dny

      Girl hiding da fact that you nervous that don't make you not nervous

  • @maria.1313
    @maria.1313 Před rokem +21

    Love your videos, you're charming and funny, as well as beautiful! Thank you for these tips. Indeed, nothing wrong with being confident, though I have believed my entire life that there is. I have a prominent figure and my body has been 'trained' to slouch, hide and become small. I've been really hardened but I've spent the last few years healing and reclaiming my femininity, allowing my body to open, radiate, be confident, soft and feminine. And to SLOW DOWN which feels so good, yet I'm still adjusting to. Anyway, thank you again! God bless you! ❤️‍🔥🌹🙏

  • @DeeandTee_London
    @DeeandTee_London Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much for all your ladylike teachings Deborah.

  • @Mr-Atheist
    @Mr-Atheist Před 25 dny +2

    Great ma'am

  • @siimplyblessed996
    @siimplyblessed996 Před rokem +2

    I love her tips ❤

  • @mildadassan6100
    @mildadassan6100 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you Winne❤I have learnt alot FROM your videos

  • @utubechannel3846
    @utubechannel3846 Před rokem +2

    You are doing something that is very very much needed for some of us. Thank you for doing your part of changing our culture of doing things any ole kind of way. I love it!

  • @abena7810
    @abena7810 Před rokem +26

    i ain’t smiling at no one! 😭🤣

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Před rokem +1

      And that’s why you probably still single

    • @ahkniyaprice8147
      @ahkniyaprice8147 Před rokem +1

      ​@@PlatinumHustle And your not? Since when os tgat am insult? 😂

    • @alphamail8974
      @alphamail8974 Před rokem +3

      ​@@PlatinumHustle is being single supposed to be an insult to Women? Because they need a man so bad
      It's better to be single than with just any man that's not worth her time.

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Před rokem

      @@alphamail8974 single not by choice lmfao. A woman needs to be in the kitchen and making babies and taking care of the house 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Před rokem

      @@ahkniyaprice8147 huh lol

  • @jinx2100
    @jinx2100 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I like crossing my legs when I sit, I just find it more comfortable

  • @thelearnerscrib
    @thelearnerscrib Před rokem +6

    this is nice Winnie! I love your demonstrations. and you look so beautiful too

  • @iloveyoublackma6247
    @iloveyoublackma6247 Před rokem +4

    The leg cross was incorrect. Ladies/Women cross at the ankle. Do to dresses & skirts. Men cross the legs over.

  • @ayemenrelove-serah6352
    @ayemenrelove-serah6352 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for the teachings. Most appreciated

  • @judithokorie4231
    @judithokorie4231 Před rokem +3

    I love your videos so much and I have really learnt alot. Keep up with the good work 🥰

  • @MsOctober30
    @MsOctober30 Před měsícem +1

    Yeah u just gained a new subscriber!🫡🌹🫶🏾

  • @euniceosamudiamen2420
    @euniceosamudiamen2420 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for all these.

  • @fondue_for_two4
    @fondue_for_two4 Před rokem

    First step.... Look this damn BEAUTIFUL❤❤❤

  • @alenabisam
    @alenabisam Před rokem +2

    When I see her doing this elegant things I just hold my breath till she finishe😂😂😂

    • @neshas.4663
      @neshas.4663 Před rokem

      Same here because, I know I did one of the wrong ones lol.
      I love these videos. ✅

  • @kimbee1718
    @kimbee1718 Před rokem +4

    My new found BIG SISTER❤

  • @tuliptail5539
    @tuliptail5539 Před rokem +19

    Well, show does a confident woman sits?
    Comfortably , whatever way makes you comfortable, you sit that way and that shows confidence

  • @cookie-20006
    @cookie-20006 Před 26 dny +1

    thanks soo much babe

  • @Singhrhea
    @Singhrhea Před měsícem +1

    Thanks 👍😊

  • @cmlady0437
    @cmlady0437 Před rokem +1

    I'm usually the one at the edge of the seat thinking that's dainty 😂😂
    Lesson learned.... Thank you! 💎

  • @sophiadonai5583
    @sophiadonai5583 Před rokem +30

    I was always taught a lady crosses her legs at the ankle. Especially when wearing a dress.

  • @bodymindspirit8600
    @bodymindspirit8600 Před rokem

    I sit on the edge with my back straight weirdly comfortable....

  • @AishathshaheenaShaheena
    @AishathshaheenaShaheena Před 3 měsíci

    I know this song I literally watched it more than a 100 times

  • @MrAgiru
    @MrAgiru Před rokem

    Ty for tips

  • @pamelaj3214
    @pamelaj3214 Před 6 měsíci

    Well, it would seem I have some of this elegant stuff down already, and I didn’t even realize 😮. I always cross my legs at the ankles out of habit, and I do sit with my hands linked while staring into people’s eyes attentively. Sometimes I do clench my purse, but only if I’m uncomfortable in the setting. Same goes for sitting on the edge of the couch. If I’m not trying to sink into it or lean back too far, I just sit near the edge.

  • @nisiamavalentine1792
    @nisiamavalentine1792 Před rokem

    Thanks for always coming through for this babygal muma❤
    Sending love ❤❤❤

  • @Keba2008
    @Keba2008 Před rokem

    Love these gems of etiquette and confidence.💕

  • @renus6015
    @renus6015 Před 9 měsíci

    Nice..I needed this..

  • @user-ww6xn8sz3q
    @user-ww6xn8sz3q Před 7 měsíci

    You doing a great job 👍

  • @Allisvanity75
    @Allisvanity75 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Self respect, respect yourself

  • @nkiruobih670
    @nkiruobih670 Před rokem +1

    I love your videos Winnie. I have learnt so much from you ❤️🥰❤️

  • @kutieluvsmj7
    @kutieluvsmj7 Před rokem

    I do that but I just do the rbf instead of a smile but I definitely have confidence

  • @MiixAndMatch
    @MiixAndMatch Před 9 měsíci

    So let your bag be snatched elegantly.

  • @JESUSISLORD7777
    @JESUSISLORD7777 Před rokem

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE ❤️MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏🏽

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984

    Croosing your legs st the knee is ok too ,I love all your videos you are inspiring

  • @NalweyisoRobs-kk1fe
    @NalweyisoRobs-kk1fe Před 6 měsíci

    I used to be a shy girl but when I started following U am a very confident girl now thanks dear

  • @ikaysilas
    @ikaysilas Před 2 měsíci

    Yesss

  • @stephanieijeomaokafor9653

    Thanks so much winnie for the eye opener

  • @sanvishorts.5255
    @sanvishorts.5255 Před měsícem

    Thanks alot!!!!!

  • @louisaharrell
    @louisaharrell Před rokem

    I love this

  • @adisalami4565
    @adisalami4565 Před rokem +1

    Belle femme remplie de bons sens ❤❤❤Femme de valeur ❤❤❤❤

  • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves

    It’s what comes out of your mouth that is really important as well

  • @Bill0102
    @Bill0102 Před 4 měsíci

    This is beyond words. I found content with a similar message, and it was absolutely mind-blowing. "Adapting with Aging" by James Crescent

  • @milliscentvilla4271
    @milliscentvilla4271 Před 3 měsíci

    @winnieschoolofelegance Thank you for lifting my spirit each time. I feel Elegant by watching your videos 🙂 but I'd like to ask that " for us with short legs how do we handle sitting on high depth chairs without looking like kids ( i mean my legs has to touch the chairs)🙂. Not like im that short though Thank you

  • @essymummy2999
    @essymummy2999 Před rokem +1

    I was thought in Nursing school and in secondary school it's unladylike to cross leg at the knee. Rather u cross at the ankle.

  • @Period-mw8fw
    @Period-mw8fw Před rokem

    Ok ur right…what a difference those subtle changes made❤

  • @splendourchukwumaife4515

    I love your shoes ❤

  • @iweajunwachiamaka5285
    @iweajunwachiamaka5285 Před rokem +1

    Thanks soo much winnie ❤

  • @Berdeal-ul5zl
    @Berdeal-ul5zl Před 2 měsíci

    I love it, I'm ol' skool please show the ladies how to enter & exit a vehicle in a dress/skirt. Thank you ✌🏿💞💃🏿

  • @agaikochkuch8794
    @agaikochkuch8794 Před rokem

    Now I have you as my elegant teacher because what I'm wearing definitely decide how I'm sitting 😢😢😢.

  • @edeniris3308
    @edeniris3308 Před rokem

    Your videos are great but I always leave to download the music cause it's always so darn great 😅

  • @asanehanjek5126
    @asanehanjek5126 Před rokem +3

    am not doing any of this dear 😅 I will seat anyhow my body tells me I don't want to be a proper lady

  • @relaxbebe
    @relaxbebe Před rokem

    I love your tips thank you.

  • @AdeyemoChristiana-sw7jv

    U got it ❤

  • @user-yr7ts8jt7r
    @user-yr7ts8jt7r Před rokem +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @esehairgrowthsecret
    @esehairgrowthsecret Před rokem

    Just how I love to sit 😍 cuz I'm a confident woman 💪

  • @ann-mariesmall2022
    @ann-mariesmall2022 Před 10 měsíci

    These are the things our children need to see and learn that they can be a better man and woman of world thanks for doing this I myself am learning too.

  • @fireflymiesumae
    @fireflymiesumae Před 10 měsíci

    Ty

  • @marvelizzyugochukwu8984

    l love watching your videos, coz l always learn

  • @onokurefeendurance1044

    pls teach us more,I luv ur smile

  • @francekgasi8506
    @francekgasi8506 Před 5 měsíci

    That's so Great 😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @grahamturner1290
    @grahamturner1290 Před rokem +1

    Perfectly lovely. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dreaveal7672
    @dreaveal7672 Před rokem

    💚💚💚

  • @Jeffreyway
    @Jeffreyway Před rokem

    You Remind Me Sooo Much of My Bestie My Sis.. KRON MOORE
    She Star on TYLER PERRY'S
    The Oval on BET .. She Plays The 1st. Lady
    VICTORIA FRANKLIN
    I've ALWAYS Loved How She Carries Herself and her Posture...
    ALL The Right Ways Is Sooo HER Check Her Out When You Get a Chance ❤👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍🏼

  • @avatarbeauty
    @avatarbeauty Před rokem +9

    wearing your glasses on your forehead is awkward, an elegant lady you don't wear a 🕶️ on their forehead or neither wearing it while entering an apartment, you take it off and putt it inside the glass case, please learn to level up more.✨💕

    • @OLUCHI_okonkwo
      @OLUCHI_okonkwo Před rokem +1

      True winnie herself said so in a previous video

    • @justlikethat3219
      @justlikethat3219 Před rokem +3

      Clearly, you still need lessons because all elegant women know if you have nothing nice to say or can't articulate constructively, move along to a channel that meets your needs.

  • @mercywanjiku5184
    @mercywanjiku5184 Před rokem +3

    Need to be elegant na,,,,you gain a follower maa❤❤

  • @tinarogers2181
    @tinarogers2181 Před měsícem

    I remember my mom telling me to not sit like a boy or man when I was growing up, She would say do not sit with your legs open like that. I still have a hard time sitting the way she wanted me too

  • @yenziigamedze1709
    @yenziigamedze1709 Před 3 měsíci

    The entire sit 😂

  • @iamdeola
    @iamdeola Před rokem +2

    What If you don't feel comfortable crossing your legs?

  • @user-ok2is5mk7q
    @user-ok2is5mk7q Před rokem

    I love this confidence ❤

    • @utubechannel3846
      @utubechannel3846 Před 9 měsíci

      Knowing how to do things brings the gift of confidence. That's what I've found.

  • @AAA-we2st
    @AAA-we2st Před rokem +4

    Actually this is incorrect, I attended a public girls school, and crossing your legs isn’t elegant, it’s sitting at a slight angle with your right foot slightly twisted behind your left foot, and your hands elegantly placed on top of your left thigh,crossing your legs exposed you and also acts as a hazard for those walking by or pass you, still a lovely video though, but definitely incorrect, x

  • @JovelynGantao
    @JovelynGantao Před 5 měsíci

  • @Blue-zx5mp
    @Blue-zx5mp Před 7 měsíci

    That's me. I'm clench because of my body. I try to hide everything.

  • @ENFPerspectives
    @ENFPerspectives Před 4 měsíci

    I have to work on the friendly part. I have an RBF. :*)

  • @mwate8764
    @mwate8764 Před rokem

    You are my newfound love ❤️

  • @ievaleikarte5570
    @ievaleikarte5570 Před rokem

    Elegant women minimal articulate with hands and do not shake body.

  • @arshiyasurve3840
    @arshiyasurve3840 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Me : siting like this in class in maths class
    Strict teacher says : u r suspended for 15 days

  • @learningwithlubna8753
    @learningwithlubna8753 Před 6 měsíci

    Complexion doesn't matter u r pretty sister

  • @Ishwaqluvx182
    @Ishwaqluvx182 Před 10 měsíci

    How to comment elegantly 💀
    1. Get a pillow
    2.get a blanket
    3.keep dreaming

  • @glorynwabude1095
    @glorynwabude1095 Před 5 měsíci

    Wow

  • @cyndyblissful780
    @cyndyblissful780 Před rokem

    I DO More of the sit occupying 😊

  • @onyinyemofunanya1
    @onyinyemofunanya1 Před rokem

    God bless you

  • @disneyramirez8024
    @disneyramirez8024 Před rokem +2

    I lost my bag letting it sit right next to me instead of holding it when i was sitting waiting for someone in a store so no I’m not putting it down ever again

  • @proudUgandan124
    @proudUgandan124 Před rokem

    💗💞

  • @nkayventures693
    @nkayventures693 Před rokem

    In your last video u said we should not put glasses in hair but the bag hahaha got u there just kidding though love u Winnie

  • @Jessica4Real
    @Jessica4Real Před rokem

    You are doing very well my dear! Double thumbs up!

  • @NancyThecheerfulheart

    Thanks for sharing the option of not crossing your legs

  • @user-gb5rt9qu4z
    @user-gb5rt9qu4z Před 15 dny

    This is in ballareena movie with blonde mean girl

  • @wildfiregirl1556
    @wildfiregirl1556 Před rokem +1

    I could never lol. Folks act like they are scared of me I don't bite lol.