Downgrading Yourself For The Sake Of Socializing With People|Self Sabotage

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
  • Many have this conflicted belief that make them think they have to socialize with other people at the cost of downgrading their level of consciousness and growth. This belief never allow them to fully enjoy their own company and growth.
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Komentáře • 29

  • @Avajozdani
    @Avajozdani  Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for watching this video! Don't forget to like and subscribe. Your support is much appreciated! :)
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  • @beneficialfrequencies8907
    @beneficialfrequencies8907 Před měsícem +22

    I used to dumb myself down to socialise. To feel normal and fit in. It never went well. I did not belong there. I stopped and life improved massively. I am literally thriving now. I have come to love my own company. I still have fun. Life is amazing now.
    Ty fkr this video. 💯

    • @Avajozdani
      @Avajozdani  Před měsícem +2

      So happy to hear that. Thank you so much for sharing your experience! ❣

  • @mirandataylor6385
    @mirandataylor6385 Před měsícem +15

    I’m socially awkward and it’s not that I don’t want to socialize, but learning social cues takes a lot of effort for me. I don’t think I dislike socializing, it’s just difficult for me.

    • @Avajozdani
      @Avajozdani  Před měsícem +2

      Where you truly belong and there is authenticity you wouldn't need those cues. Thanks for sharing!

  • @davidzenful
    @davidzenful Před měsícem +1

    👍

  • @kenjones102
    @kenjones102 Před 18 dny +1

    After awakening early in life, the years since have been almost entirely without the company of fellow awakened souls. I suppose the artist in me has been a strength and to this day I live alone and seldom socialize. Thank you for raising the topic and reminding me to avoid those who are not in keeping with my life and awareness.

    • @Avajozdani
      @Avajozdani  Před 18 dny

      That's the true meaning of self love and self respect.Thank you for sharing🙏

  • @hiteshsharma148
    @hiteshsharma148 Před měsícem +5

    Accommodating people's needs to socialize sometimes deviates with who you are as a person. Everybody just has a different tolerance level. For me that tolerance is pretty low, which is why all the relationships I have are practical. Instead of being fake and pretending to be interesting and dragging mindless and useless small talk, I know and anticipate what the other person wants and just get right to it. You hit right on! Good stuff. Subscribed ✅

    • @Avajozdani
      @Avajozdani  Před měsícem

      It takes some honesty and courage to go down that path but it is definitely worth it! Thank you for subscribing!

  • @davidtorabi
    @davidtorabi Před měsícem +8

    Wow, this hit me right in the feels! I constantly struggle with that battle between socializing and staying true to myself. Your words about accepting our growth and finding our own people were so powerful. I can't thank you enough for reminding me that it's okay to be different. You've inspired me to embrace my authenticity and create connections that truly matter. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤❤

    • @Avajozdani
      @Avajozdani  Před měsícem

      Thank you for sharing your experience. Yes, being authentic is everything and whether we believe it or not it the thing that brings joy :)

  • @sandhyaravi1244
    @sandhyaravi1244 Před 2 dny +1

    ❤ Fantastic!

  • @siddharth0267
    @siddharth0267 Před měsícem +4

    thank you lady, happy the youtube algorithm brought me here, keep doing what you do!

  • @starryamity33
    @starryamity33 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you~ 💖

  • @Levandetag
    @Levandetag Před měsícem +3

    Good One, Thank You

  • @KThayerart
    @KThayerart Před měsícem +2

    Thank you.☯️🕉☮️💜

  • @JoshLeachAnimator
    @JoshLeachAnimator Před měsícem +2

    This was amazing. One note: for future reference there is distracting high pitch tone that comes through the mic throughout

    • @Avajozdani
      @Avajozdani  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you. I'm still learning and in process of improving the quality :)

  • @derekchasemusic2525
    @derekchasemusic2525 Před měsícem +1

    The Artists Way is so good. Thanks for the video

  • @Corteum
    @Corteum Před měsícem +1

    There's also another way which is to play games wiht it and engage it and transmute it into someting else. Go int othose social situations and create somethijng different again to your previous response. First law of thermodynamics: Energy cannot be created or destroyd. It can only change forms.

    • @Avajozdani
      @Avajozdani  Před měsícem

      It's all a matter of bringing awareness to it. When we are aware, we get to choose if we want to socialize, and if we do, how we are gonna do it. Thank you for watching my video!