My "Plastic Surgery" Story | SunKissAlba
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- With all my heart, I highly encourage you to watch the entire video. Thank You! - Alba
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I Love you #BeYOUtifulBeauty
Its funny how the prettiest people are often the most insecure about their looks,
Because telling someone "They're pretty" may boost their confidence a little, but it's up to themselves to help them feel beautiful
***** damn thats so true though
Kaylee Dejesus Exactly, someone telling you that you're beautiful shouldn't all of a sudden make you beautiful or else you really care about what that person thinks. You have to truly feel it, and know what you think
OMG! Right! I've always looked at her like she's an angel and just drop dead perfect!
StRaWbeRrYsasha Because as much as some people may compliment, there are always people to 'level' you to bring you down a notch. Also, women who are truly beautiful, people don't say as much because ppl assume that they hear it all of the time.
don't mean to sound creepy but I look at you and think wow she is stunning honestly your perfect
Yes!
I know hey. I can't stop staring.
I think most women who are beautiful adults have had issues with their appearance as a child. Halle Berry, Giselle, even Cindy Crawford were teased or told they were not pretty enough to model. Alba seems no different.
yea i was a ugly duckling. as a child. bullied and everything.
you gorgeous girl x
The funny thing is that Alba is easily one of the most beautiful women on planet Earth.
I'm a 23 male, and even if it's weird for a dude to be so in to this, your videos and vlogs honestly inspired so much in me, not only making better choices, but to help me be more handsome as a person and accept myself inside and out. Even since watching one and taking your recommendations on skin, and learning to love myself and honestly idk if you'll read this but your videos are extremely encouraging and helpful. As someone who's grew feeling like their ugly and not good enough, instead of just giving up, people like you teach me how to put effort into who I am, and making the right choices for you is honestly what matters, loving yourself is what matters. This video is so pure and genuine and honestly inspiring. Thank you.
plinio joel flores You are a beautiful person. God bless you.
oh this is so lovely!
Did she just say when I was 18.... Girl you look like 18 now
I'm late but she really doesn't.. She just has flawless skin 😍😫
black don't crack
ebbsislove93 what?
Black people, or minorities in general age very well.
lmao I am light brown and people tell me I look 10 if I'm not wearing heels and makeup but I'm almost 16
#BeYouTifulBeauty
You're flawless and amazing the way you are, and i feel true love in your words! I'm 19 and at this age, we only needs people who speaks like you! Weel, I'm french, I didn't understand all but the essential, thank you Alba! I feel beautiful! =)
ALBA PLEASE READ
alba thank you sooooooo much for this video!!!!!!! i love you soooo much i can relate to you on so many levels. i have small boobs and i thought that guys like girls with big boobs so i was like im going to get a boob job lol, but that was when i was in middle school and im 18 now and it took me sometime to realize that im beautiful no matter what and my cousin has low self-esteem and i try to tell her the samething that u said in this video but some ppl just dont get it. you are so beautiful inside an out ugh i love you thanks.
Thank you for making this video it's helping me with an burn on my face and making me understand that it will heal and I will love the scar eventually because it taught me something
Love the clever hashtag and your straightforwardness! Also, what did you do to get rid of the acne marks? I have some scars due to ingrown hair and haven't found anything to get rid of them. To this day it makes me feel very uncomfortable and self conscious.
I really enjoyed this video. Thank you for making it. I still struggle now with the way I look. Also love the comment on the boobs. I have mom boobs. 11 months of breastfeeding mom boobs, but I embrace them. Thank you again.
I'm currently going through what you went through in high school, it's tough but now that I see that you went through it, I know that I can get through it too :) I love you alba and I'm so happy you feel better about yourself 💕
LEAH YOURE LITERALLY THE PRETTIEST TEENAGER IVE EVER SEEN! so just imagine what you'll grow into as you mature mentally & physically. You're going to be a vision! Whatever you're going through, trust me it'll pass and then you'll look back thinking how silly it was =)
Keep your head up, young lady. I went through it too. You are quite lovely and unique. That is special. You are special!
People are mad because her issue "wasn't severe enough". That isn't really fair, we all have different things we battle with and deal with them in different ways she's just sharing her real personal experience.
I cried during this video. I'm 16 and every single insecurity you had, I went through the exact same thing. The tall skinny girl. I walked kinda hunched over. I was always at the back of the line. I was teased for having a gap between my teeth and a booty chin and my acne and no boobs or butt and I'm a junior now I have curly hair like yours and I'm still insecure. People tell me I'm gorgeous but I honestly don't believe it. I wish one day I'll be able to look at myself the way you look at yourself. So thank you.
***** thank you so much
There is no one better at being you than you :D
All I hear are the qualities of a potential model. But it's really up to you to go up to a mirror, and realize your beauty.
Saaaaame. No boobs or butt. Tall girl. People tell me I'm not ugly but I don't see that I'm pretty.
Woah i read this and EVERY SINGLE thing you mentioned is my insecurity. I want to gain more weight, I want braces, I want to walk properly and not hunched over, I want to get rid of acne and glasses and everything. People say love yourself for who you are and be happy with who you are but Im not happy with the way i look. I want to change to be happy..
See, this is the reason I love this woman so much. She has the bold, beautiful, funny personality and from this video I learned to FINALLY love me. And it sucks to think it took me so long to love my body, and my mind. I wish I could have been told this when I was bullied in middle school-and I just hated myself and everything around me. After growing up a bit I know now that it's ok to have imperfections. They make me, me. Thanks, Alba!!!!
Your husband is beautiful for saying that to you.
Danielle Charlene you mean wonderful cause you cant see him but I bet he is ;)
Absolutely perfect. Praying so many women get to watch this!! xo
wow this video inspired me so much. I have rlly small boobs & wanted a boob job so badly , I changed my mind 15minutes ago after watching this ,and this isnt the first video that i watch about "a girl who says that we dont need plastic surgery to be beautiful" and none off those made me change my mind but yours did. you're so right, we can not be perfect and its not all about physical beauty. just love yourself the way you are. thankyou so much you made my day
U shouldn't change Ur body. That's how u were made and u should be proud, btw having big boobs isn't as amazing at it seems. I can never get away with dressing cute like how petite girls look like. Big boobs also make it really hard to do any sports and gives back pain. Instead of me wanting a Breast reduction, it was my mom who wants me to get it. Even tho those stuff bother me, I wouldn't change my body. Cuz there's pros and cons in everybody.
Good for you.
Norah xox Yeah, bigs boobs are quite a struggle. But at the end of the day, everyone is going to struggle with what they think is a 'flaw'. And it's only up to us to except our own bodies. :)
Im glad you changed your mind. Girl having big boobs isn't what its cracked up to be lol. Just love yourself.
Kuttiesmith03 thankyou :)
I just watched eight minutes of a plastic surgery story only to find out there actually isn't one
I am reading the comment to avoid watching for 8 minutes thanks :)
The best plastic surgery story of all!
I got big boobs and let me tell NO ONE in their right mind would want big boobs...trust and believe.
Agreed. They are annoying sometimes.
***** I bet you all look beautiful with yo big boobies anyways!
I felt the same way but I realize now that I am made beautifully (by God) like everyone is and someone is going to love us for who we are, she is so right what she said in the video.
Yesss! I have big boobs and I hate it
Yasssss! Preach, a-freaking-men
Alba this made me cry... seriously. You're such a great role model to woman and young woman out there.
Honestly, you're freaking gorgeous.....physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally! Honestly.
I love that you see that even an "attractive" person's inner ugliness transfers to the outside and that everyone's inner beauty does the same. Great video. I'm so glad I found your channel
This made me tear up.. I was just looking in the mirror from when I got out the shower, looking at my acne scars, my sloppy breasts, thinking I'm overweight, etc and how amazing it would be to get surgery, loss a ton of weight get scar removal surgery, fix my teeth.. I always focus so much on just the "bad" things about myself, that I make myself insecure and unhappy, I put all these negative things in my head about myself because of what I think I what to be because I think it'll make me "happy", I was losing sight of what's really important.
I'm so glad I came across your channel ❤️
Come here *arms wide open* You are beautiful and you touched my heart by overcoming insecurities I used to have when I was younger. Again, you are beautiful *hugs*
Wait? Your plastic surgery story - is that you never had plastic surgery??
yes. we all have a plastic surgery story whether we go through with it or not.
yeh, i was like "a pretty lady like that with small breasts!?" I almost felt normal, but her breasts are already the perfect size without surgery...
Lol!!!!
That's why she put inverted commas!
she put plastic surgery in quotations for a reason!!! That hints that she did not actually get plastic surgery but it's about how she went from hating her body and want to change herself (hence plastic surgery) but learned to love herself
I think loving oneself comes with age and a lot of practice. Honestly, I'm still working on it! I wouldn't get plastic surgery simply because perfection on the outside won't heal the issues on the inside. For me at least. This video and Kandee's remind me of Pretty Hurts.
ps. if you have or are contemplating getting P/S, I don't judge
I love this comment.... Thanks
Oh my gosh this was an amazing video, I'm 15 and this is honestly what I needed to hear. I was already planning for my nose, jaw, and boob job and now I'm so happy to hear your story, I never really wanted to go through with any of these
I can totally relate too, I just turned 18 and my childhood was more or less like hers'
Nose surgery is probably the least painful if you ever think about going through with it. That's what I've been told from many people.
+bubble gum Please please please do not have plastic surgery unless it is something *you truly want to do for yourself and no one else!* you are so young and your body and face haven't even stopped growing and changing yet! Sometimes we grow into our features and think wow, I can't believe I wanted to change this! Don't let anyone make you feel pressured into having to do something you don't want to go through with, because at the end of the day, it is you that will be stuck with it if you don't like it (after spending 10s of thousands of dollars, and they will go on living their life). You are so beautiful and unique the way you are and if you want to change something in the future, do it, but make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Love yourself no matter what and appreciate the skin your in no matter how flawed (this is something I've struggled with greatly myself). We only have one body and no matter what it looks like, it is strong and incredibly special and carries every day through this world and without it you wouldn't exist!
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Bubble Gum on; III
i heard that the more likes you get the more often people see it. i wish i could give this video 10000000 likes because this video is so amazing. i love that you put plastic surgery for those who looked it up and are thinking about it. I JUST WANT TO SAY THANK YOU for your positive and awesome message to the young, old, and weak minded that society has crippled. we need more people like you in the world. THANK YOU.
Wow! Alba, this is incredible. What makes you even more beautiful is your pure and sincere heart.
Your "my plastic surgery story" has been the best I've seen so far! And you know what we are our own worst critic. People on the outside don't even notice the flaws we are most self conscious about ! I see toy as even more beautiful now because you have a beautiful heart and i just love how you talk and share your voice. :) so glad we met in person !
God bless you girl! This video is so needed and will definitely inspire soooo many people! :D Happy Mother's Day!
It's so humbling to grow into your own skin and start to love yourself. Beauty really is self defined. I have scars all over my body, those scars saved my life. Either way I admire your honesty and keep being you. I can feel your good energy through your channel. Stay positive.
WOW within the first 30 seconds of this video I could relate. I am only 14 and I adore your videos you give me so much inspiration and great ideas, not to mention you are unbelievably gorgeous! Until about last year (8th grade) I was always that tall, skinny, flat chested girl, with "poofy" hair as well, and to be honest I still am! the difference is that i no longer see it as something negative and no one comments on it because now i have learned to accept it and to be extremely confident in my body. This video really made me think a lot and I could relate to many of the things you mentioned. seeing story's like yours really makes me proud of myself for learning to be confident at such a young age and being able to accept my own beauty no matter what anyone says. I love your channel and thank you. you are beyoutiful! ;)
This is such a positive message!! One of the most positive videos I've watched on CZcams!! You go girl!!
when I first started watching you I thought you were the most confident and beautiful person ...wow even you have insecurities now I know im not alone thank you so much you're an inspiration.
I never thought that you went through all this stuff because honestly, I find you very beautiful. You are the prettiest youtuber for me. I'm currently going through what you went through when you were younger. I'm having low self-esteem because of my acne,stretch marks and dark underarms. I also thought of having breasts implants, but thank you for this video for opening my eyes. You are an eye opener, you're an inspiration. Thank you for telling your story. I learned a lot especially to love myself and be positive. Continue inspiring stay BEYOUTIFUL :D
I can't explain how much I needed this ! I can relate so much to your insecurity of being skinny story. Thank you so much for helping me realize that I am who I am, and someone will love my physique and me for all that I am.
I feel like it's easy to embrace your flaws when you look like the standard of beauty though. Majority of your problems"got better". You are beautiful on any scale so of course you don't feel pressure to change. Not everyone is that lucky.
wow!! I watched kandee's vid too it was soooo inspirational and so is yours!! I listened to every single word in this vid (i usually skip vids but NOT this one) I find you even more beautiful inside out after watching this.. Thank you from the bottom of my heart :) xx
I love your story! I was also the tall/skinny girl. I was taller then all the girls and the boys and I used to hate my height. I used to pray to God every night and ask him to make me shorter because all of the other girls were short. Now, I love my height. I'm also 5'7! Girl, I relate to you so much! The flat chest, height, imperfection - People are so mean. But I learned to love myself for who I am and it took me having my daughter to realize that I'm okay. I'm different, but I'm who god made me to be. I also gained a massive amount of weight after having my daughter and this is why I am here on youtube… To find mommy friends and to create videos on how I loose/lost weight.
Alba, it would be really helpful to see a video of you explaining your experience with strech marks, as a lot of us have them and not everybody knows how to soften them, it would be nice to hear how you acomplished that!
ALBA may I tell you that JESUS SO LOVES YOU!!! We need more women like you in this world... Let our inner beauty shine!!! It's our soul that needs a surgery and a transformation through the LOVE OF GOD. God bless you SunKissAlba!!!
Alba, you are awesome!! I discovered your channel a couple of days again and I've been binge watching every since. I too am on a health journey and your channel has inspired me to really kick it up a notch. I've been rockin' my curly hair for about two months now and your curly hair challenge has inspired me to go the remainder of the year without straightening it (it's June now). You are beautiful on the outside and I believe the inside too. Thank you for all that you share with us "sunshines"!
Can someone please give you a reality TV show. you are incredible. more of you needed in today's society. such an incredible video and it's just incredible how beautiful you are. really you epitomise the saying inner beauty exerts an outer glow. you are out of this world.
The discolored tooth can be fixed the nerve in it is dead from your fall or injury. Your dentist can do a root canal and then bleach the tooth
This made me cry.. It was so encouraging and inspirational and actually made me realize so much about myself and I related so much to this. Thank you so much
You are beautiful inside and out! I loved the message. May God continue to bless you!
wow, I literally started tearing up watching this because my self esteem has been at an all time low lately. thank you for this beautiful, you're such an inspiration💕
Thank you for highlighting that it's just as difficult being underweight and having to put weight on in a healthy safe way as being over weight and losing weight.
It's not a subject that's brought up a lot.
I have people ask me if I'm sick or anorexic, and saying to be that being as skinny as I am is not as sexy as curves.. That's is just as hurtful as calling someone fat.
Damn...Her story is her story! She is offering insight and inspiration to those young women who believe they need plastic surgery. Some will relate and others will just hate...keep it moving people!
WONDERFUL video Alba. I saw Kandee's video as well. I really think this should be a tag video. (I'm thinking of doing this video as well). ❤️
Thank you for being real, you are sooo beautiful! You are an inspiration to others.
i cried so much during this video. you touched on things that related to me so well. at some moments, i yelled at my ipad like, "shut up, alba! you're so right!" 😫😂 i absolutely loved this video. i've always had insecurities but you made me realize that it's okay to embrace your flaws. you're such an inspiration! God bless you and your family!
I had the opposite problem growing up. My boobs were way to big. Got teased for it big time. I hated them! I wanted surgery to reduce them. When I got older I lost some weight and the size of them went down some since then. Still would like to have smaller boobs.
i have the same issue, i feel you girl!
People are ridiculous. If your boobs are smaller, they are too small. If they are bigger, they are too big. People always find something to pick on
LilBabe074 How is that being ridiculous ? being unhappy with something personal or just anything around you happens to everyone anywhere in some for or another... some fair skin people wish they where a lil tanner, some people with straight hair wished they had curly hair and some chubby people wished they where thinner and its possible you can change whatever you want as long as you HAPPY.. that's what makes us all different from each other that doesn't mean where ridiculous ... did you just noticed that or what world do you live on?
No you misunderstood my comment. I was talking about people who make fun of others. The bullies. Not the girl who wrote the comment. I understand her wanting to change something about herwself I have things Id love to change too. I just meant others shouldnt make fun of people for things like what she described.
i got a breast reduction and lift, my insurance covered it completely, best decision i ever made!
Love this. SELF LOVE - The only way x
Girl looking at you makes me insecure 😑 You're beautiful 🌹
This is so shocking to hear because you seem so confident in your other videos. I came across your hair videos last night while I was searching for some hair help for my curly head! I looked at several of your videos thinking, "Wow, she is so beautiful!". I would have never thought you were insecure about anything. Its really nice to hear even the most beautiful people are insecure at times too. Thanks so much for sharing this part of you with us.
What wonderful wise words! I hope every little girl, and woman of every age hears this. Thank you for using your passion and love of beauty to speak out these truths that so many of us went through feeling when were were young and how we can even feel this way now. I went through a lot of what you did and I can say we are on the same page. Great job! One blurb of true beauty is :
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
She gets up while it is still night;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her female servants.
She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
“Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
Proverbs 31: 10-31
I just gained so much respect for you.
Love this! Beautiful message love!
5"7? I haven't started highschool yet, and I'm 5"10 1/2
And I have auburn hair (red head)
curly messy hair
small everything
so I'm a Gingeraffe...
but I'm also super smart, funny, and athletic, I love my hair, and my height.
And I just don't care anymore...
I don't have to live up to anyone else's expectations but mine. I sometimes criticize myself, but I am what I am.
Cayli Maxwell 6'1" redhead here 🙋
Cayli Maxwell u go girl. I love your attitude. I'm 32 now but wish I had your confidence at your age 5"10 girls rock!
Girl be a model! Embrace what god and nature gave you physically. Also embrace your strong mind and beautiful personality
I am 5'9 used to dislike t in my teen years and now I love it.
It's so great that you feel that way about yourself at such a young age. Please never lose that solid sense of self, come what may ! Xx
"Make health, love and acceptance a priority and you will be blessed."
I just had to quote it.
I am old enough to be your mother and you truly inspired me and taught me things much like you said your son does for you. Thank you. You are beautiful inside and out. You spoke truths that I needed to hear. Your words have positively affected me. You are a blessing. Continue on this positive path and many good things will continue to happen for you.
Oh my goodness thank you so soooo much for this video! I too was also so focused on physical beauty during most of my time in middle school and high school. And to be honest, I didn't really pay to much attention to my health. However, I've recently started watching your channel because I began to have an interest in makeup because there has been someone who's interested me. I do admit that I did start wearing makeup because of him, but I actually now enjoy it. I like the way it makes me feel. But putting that aside...what was I saying earlier....oh yes your channel. There was a video I recall watching, I think it was your body hygiene video or something like that. But I remember you saying that despite using all of these products, it won't do any good if you're not healthy on the inside. And that really struck me. So I've been trying to eat healthier and drink more water. Oh and I'm 20 and still have an acne problem... But I think if I continue what I'm doing now, my skin will improve
Oh geez I ran outta space.... But anyway the point is thank you for the video and thank you for your channel!
I know this video is old...so glad you never took it down....so inspired on everything you said and I can relate to majority of the experiences you had. I am blessed to also have a husband love me just the way I am no make up at all are his favorite pictures of me lol
Many thanks for all you do.✌
Love LOVE your message and the way that you speak from your heart. Blessings!💖💖💖💖
She's genuine, polite and simply trying to be responsible to her audience. Much respect is deserved. Thumbs up Alba
It's crazy how many people got bullied and thought they were ugly, you're like one of the best looking youtubers I've ever encountered.
When I first read the title to this video my thoughts were, "Oh my gosh I knew it! What did she do cuz she's too gorgeous!" Lol ur beautiful and inspiring. Growing up I was constantly battling to tame my hair. I used to wish for straight hair. Now thanks to your videos I love my curly voluminous wild and free hair :)
Wow Alba.... could you be anymore perfect? or at least close to perfect. This was inspiring, sometimes CZcamsrs don't know how much they inspire others and fortify change in others. You really have changed my life, I'm not just saying that, I aspire to be like you.
Everything that you’re saying - YES. It’s like I’m hearing myself talk. I have gone back and forth so much on cosmetic procedures, but have always landed on wanting to be natural. The stretch marks/laser treatments, the breast implants, a chin surgery - I’ve considered it all! I support anyone’s choice to augment her body, but the inner beauty and wanting to own who I am have always brought me back to just accepting what I have.
Ok, every young girl needs to watch this video. I dealt with the same issues as a teenager and now as an adult, mother of 2 girls, and wife I now see things so different and appreciate all the things I didn't notice before or got teased about. I have an even greater admiration for you after seeing this video. It is the same message I will be sharing with my girls when they hit the teen years. Thank you for being so different than all these superficial, booty obsessing, vain women I see on TV and magazines. You are a true role model and I admire you for recognizing that because you have such a large audience young girls do look up to you and are influenced by you. I appreciate you taking that responsibility to heart in such a sincere video to inspire young girls and women. Thank you and God bless you and your family.
You are the nicest beauty gurus on here. I'm glad to be your subscriber :)
First plastic surgery video that I've seen that made me drop a couple tears .😭 You definitely have a way with words . Everyone should go listen to Bright by Kehlani . Very beautiful , moving and inspiring song . 💟
I'm still trying to accept myself but somehow i realised just as u said that the inner beauty is soo much more important. It will benefit u on the long run and u will be the happiest. Ofcours i would love to be healthy and i'm working on that too.
Young lady thank you for sharing your story. Been watching your channel for years, but this is the first time I've come across this video. That's why when people are envious of other people for whatever reason, I always think well you don't know what struggles that person may have had or is going through. Having what they have may not necessarily bring the happiness you expect. Just strive to be the best version of yourself. It may be difficult but the process will help you to grow as a person. ☺
The ironic thing is that I've always wanted to change to be more like you! You are so beautiful on the inside and out! I may only be 16 but I have learnt that the grass is always greener on the other side and that the only way to be happy is to accept what you can't change. Easier said than done though...
Thank you Alba for this inspiring message!
well said :) Thank you for sharing your story!
I just watched your vlog and I just want to say that you are so dope. Your husband is dope. And your son is and will continue to be a n inspiration. I don't even have a kid. Don't know if I even want one, but if I do have a child I hope that I and my husband will be as warm, caring, positive, loving, and nurturing as you are to each other and your son. I wish you all the best.
Hi there Alba!
I subscribed to your channel recently, you are super pretty and I love your videos!
This video in particular it s very special to me cause I m 31 and I struggled with self stem issues for yrs ( specially when I was a teen) and for the first time I m starting to feel comfortable in my own skin, I m so happy that I m FINALLY loving myself more! :)
Great video!!
I like how you said you're happy for the bullying, thinking about it now I am too. Not only did it allow me to grow into a strong, happy person but it made me learn how hurtful bullying is and taught me to never encourage it. I also love how you said you'll find someone who is totally into what you dislike about yourself and i believe that 100%, my husband can testify, lol. I think about those people every now and then and have actually bumped into a few around town and most times they seem unhappy and tired. They were gorgeous when they were younger but sometimes the roles can take an unexpected turn. preach it girl!
Hey! My name is Ajah you dont know how much this video has helped me!! I appreciate,embrace, and love my inner beauty im mixed and 15 about to turn 16 and for years I've hated my skin because of acne scars, my hair because it was too thick and curly and my stretch marks I've had since 2nd grade... Thank you for sharing your story my outlook on life is so positive and healthier! I've noticed my skin getting clearer my hair,my stretch marks fading away and now im embracing my hair
This was amazing! I can totally relate. Thanks for sharing.
love this video….i love my small boobs!! being able to wear no bra all the time feels amazing lol!!
Some days, when I just can't be bothered, I envy ladies like you
ikr wish I had small boobies :(
Even i dont like wearing bra... but i have to wear it .😢
ever since I was a teenager my family (mainly the females) all said that they were gonna pitch in to get me a boob job for my 18th birthday. I'm 5'2, 107lbs, barely an A cup and am the only one in my family with such small boobs. I was so about it. I always said right after my graduation, I was going to get in the car and drive straight to the operation room. eventually, time passed and it wasnt brought up after many years (mainly because of money because I know if the money was there, it would've happened). I had my daughter 18 months ago, I am now 26. I gained 40 lbs in my pregnancy and within a week of having my daughter I was down to 115. I was hoping some of the weight would stay on, at least on my boobs, but it didn't. at all. well a couple months ago my grandma mentioned the boob job, for the first time in many years, as a joke to my daughter (because she doesn't "understand" according to her) and that was the moment I finally said it out loud and it sunk in.. who cares if I have small boobs or watermelon sized boobs? this is who I am and I've been this way for 26 years. why should I change now? and for who? i don't want a man that is only attracted to me because of my breast size. and I also got kind of bothered that she mentioned it to my daughter. she is way too young to be told that a woman's breast size "matters." I don't want her predisposed to negative influences about the "right" or "perfect" female body image. I no longer want the boob job not just because of myself, but because of my daughter. I am going to show her that the size of our breast don't make us beautiful. I want to be the strong role model she deserves. if I don't accept and love myself for who I am how can I show her to do the same?
this was such an inspirational story. you are such a strong and positive woman. I wish every teenage girl could see this video. it made me feel so much better about myself. thank you for sharing the positive vibes. 💜
I've been following for years and i have to say that i really needed to hear this, im 23 and i still feel self conscious no matter how many times guys say they like me the way i am i went through somethings similar to you when i was younger that it hard for me to believe that anyone can possibly like me for me and when i saw this i couldn't help but cry. i know i will still struggle wight his for awhile but i thank you so much for creating a lil light at the end of my tunnel
So wise for such a young woman. I enjoyed listening to your story of growth and self-discovery. I certainly agree with you comments about inner beauty. I've met some beautiful women, but the minute they started talking, all of their beauty seemed to fade away. Beauty truly does come from the inside out. I've also met women who weren't classically beautiful, but the minute they started talking, they just glowed with beauty. I love that you shared what you thought were your physical imperfections. Young girls need to hear that no body is perfect. What makes us unique and beautiful are all of our individual shapes, puckers, scars, bumps and all. Thanks for sharing. You're an inspiration.
I'm 5'8 and when I was younger, I went through the height insecurity too. Did you always get comments like "you should play basketball" or "you should model" ?
Thank you so much for this! I can imagine all the girls who thought you were perfect and just realized that we are all perfectly imperfect! Lol #selflove #BeYouTiFul
I use to get call olive oyl too.. Now I embrace my tall height and slim frame..
@sunkissalba wow! how inspirational!!! we have such a similar story growing up and now have a husband who loves every piece of ME. and literally gets mad if I talk any nonsense about my self. and says " your the only one who thinks that " but he has made me the most confident I've ever been. and I'm so thankful to be ME. this was a reminder. thank you so much
so you're naturally that beautiful? And you have a lovely heart? You're an inspiration
That was a beautiful message.... And you are beautiful....
Omg my life story !!! I respect you for sharing your story :)
Best video I've watched on CZcams. This is such an uplifting video. It's hard to believe you had any insecurities...you are a beautiful woman inside and out. People who put you down and leave nasty comments are, like you said, probably full of their own insecurities. Stay happy and I love that quote #BeYouTiful :)
What a beautiful video! I also was bullied growing up and struggled with my self esteem. But my wonderful mother raised me to be beautiful from the inside out. Humor and self acceptance have gone a long way to healing that shy, self loathing girl and growing into a confident, loved, loving, happy adult. I'm so glad you made this video because it's a message that needs to be heard. And you are beautiful inside and out to even want to make this video. Thank you, thank you for your honesty and integrity. Stay blessed!
I can't tell you how much I love your story. Had a bad day at my doctor's office. He wasn't very gentle when he delivered his advice today. This was a good boost of goodness today.
This video was absolutely fantastic! You're such a "beYOUtiful" person inside and out! ;)
The flaws is what makes you beautiful , you are beautiful inside and out. Perfect girls aren't real and real girls are not perfect
I want a boob lift because they sag now after having a kid and a nose job. Which I'll probably end up getting done by the age of 30; I'm 21 now. Ive tried so hard to come to terms with how I look but it never last. On Monday I start laser hair removal to get rid of my excess hair on my face and arms due to a thing called hirsutism. I wish I could feel confident in my body. But like you said at 21 you're not all that mature maybe my mind will change about my boobs and nose as time goes on :) thanks for this video
It makes such a great difference hearing other people just tell "cool life quotes" and hearing you speaking so deep from the heart and meaning every single word you say. I wondered why didn't all those wise quotes inspire me but now I know: They were empty. You fill your words with so much energy, so much meaning, so much You and that is what makes them so inspiring and uplifting.
You are such a wonderful and strong personality, such an amazing and beautiful human being. I thank you so much for doing that, for being inspiring, being youtiful, being You :)
Wishing you lots of love
You look and sound very genuine and honest. This video is very inspirational and I completely agree with you when you said that some people put others down to try to make themselves feel better... that is definitely a reflection of themselves and who they are. You were patient and waited and I am glad you did because inner beauty reflects on your physical... you are truly gorgeous and smart. Being a mother helps us appreciate life more and a times helps us discover what is truly important. Thanks for sharing your personal experience & your thoughts and for being so open minded and transparent.
I'm 25 y/o & am so glad that I've never had any plastic surgery b/c it forced me to grow into a strong, well-adjusted individual rather than an empty shell of a person who is only attractive on the outside. I also was able to spend money on more important things-- like university & traveling! plus, if you google around a bit, there are many studies that prove that men that like fake or big boobs actually have a lower intelligence and lower income than men that prefer smaller boobs! so stay classy ladies :) xoox
I don't think your comment was very intelligent. Putting over people down because they choose differently as you is not helping anyone . Everyone does things for different reasons and you can only truly speak for yourself. Studies show people who put other people down feel bad about themselves and in fact they themselves have low self esteem. Next time you speak be more considerate of your limited views on life. Oh and the reason I your comment stood out was because my mom had breast cancer and she decided to get breast implants.
I'm referring to the youtube 'gurus' that get surgery solely for aesthetic reasons & then flaunt it to their young & impressionable viewers. Thanks for the attack though, I hope you feel better now :)
Thats soooo awesome! Its truly so freeing. Im glad you also experienced that :) Thats exactly what I want girls to understand. Enjoy your life and spend money on the things that will give you experience and health rather than just a temporary satisfaction that will leave you in the same place. Be healthy, travel, experience the world and love all that you see.
i'm 25 and I feel the exact same way. It's like the 'unconventional' beauty we have made us stronger
Some women have naturally big boobs. What study are you talking about? Source?