the core issue is feeling alone, working through it.

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  • čas přidán 2. 02. 2021
  • hey guys you can email me anytime to get a hold of me. just stick with me for a bit while I work my way back
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Komentáře • 47

  • @eunicehenderson9095
    @eunicehenderson9095 Před 3 lety +4

    You are so right that a location change will not change regrets and state of mind. Something that may bring some smiles is volunteering. Even if it is only a day or two a month. Animal shelters, food pantry. Find a group to join that pertains to something you enjoy doing. Accept what peoples help. It makes them feel good. You are being valued and blessed by people who care.

  • @lindam.1571
    @lindam.1571 Před 3 lety +3

    Hi Bob, I'm alone as well and sometimes it gets lonely but it doesn't last. The sun shines, the birds sing and days go by. 😊 Just know you are not alone in this....it is a weird time we are living right now... It's very nice seeing you! God bless! ❤

  • @FrankAndTinaOfficial
    @FrankAndTinaOfficial Před 3 lety +3

    Just trust in the Lord Bob🙂 he will provide. Praying for you my friend. There is still plenty of time to have a family you aren't old at all!

  • @Toonstead
    @Toonstead Před 3 lety +4

    Hey brother, just remember GOD heals all! Our faith brings us through the hard times..pray to receive his wisdom. We are praying with you brother! Much love! Blessings! 😊

  • @lindar7405
    @lindar7405 Před 3 lety +5

    Bob if someone is offering you a van that's in decent condition take it, t's a blessing from GOD. You can still stay put with a van while you are saving for a emergency fund. I love you my friend, you know I am here if you need to talk.

  • @HappyPlaceCamping
    @HappyPlaceCamping Před 3 lety +5

    I realize friends aren't a substitute for a significant other or family, but I do hope you know you are never truly alone. You have so many friends right here. As for the traveling, honestly, it might help take your mind off things. Being stuck inside has been rough on a lot of people. The brain has nothing to do but sit and dwell on things. If you can't do the traveling, then try to get into an activity that will occupy your mind. Make some fancy nature videos or something. Even if it's just filming a tree. Get your creative juices flowing. I know you have it in you!

  • @newmanoutdoors1564
    @newmanoutdoors1564 Před 3 lety +2

    Bob it’s cool you put how your feeling out to others man during this pandemic a lot of us are feeling down and depressed including myself man things will get better

  • @HerEcolife
    @HerEcolife Před 3 lety +4

    Sorry your feeling lonely. I have a significant other and sometimes I feel lonely too. Weird year we are living. Just take care of yourself my friend and yes put them out when you can and when you feel like it.

  • @VanLifeRocks
    @VanLifeRocks Před 3 lety +4

    Sounds like a good plan Bob 👍🏼 you got this my friend

    • @PAPAMOZO
      @PAPAMOZO Před 3 lety

      My love and prayers remain with you, Bob.

  • @coleenfarquharson3009
    @coleenfarquharson3009 Před 3 lety +1

    Keep the faith Bob, I will pray for you..I dont have a parthner either but life goes on..socalize with friends and smile, It will lift your spirit

  • @doryrodgers8752
    @doryrodgers8752 Před 3 lety +2

    Hang in hun,follow your heart it will lead you in the right direction!!

  • @TheTrips
    @TheTrips Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing this. There's a lot of people who can identify with what you're going through, and it's important to talk it out and not just brush it aside. Definitely found myself lonely in these times on more than one occasion and it's not always easy to get through. Trying to meditate has helped, as well as looking for joy in the small things. Mostly, I let myself feel frustrated, sad, lonely, or whatever it is, but try to not let overwhelm me. I don't always succeed, but everyday I try. And as long as I keep trying I'm doing alright. Things will get better Bob, just keep trying.

    • @TalkingWithBob
      @TalkingWithBob  Před 3 lety +1

      Meditating is what helped me identify the main issue

  • @bobtheraptorjoe577
    @bobtheraptorjoe577 Před 3 lety +1

    Van Mammal I am sad to hear. We love you. Joe and I understand feeling isolated. We have not seen family since the mammal Virus

  • @HighlandHomesteadGoGoMomma

    We all go through things in our lives that we have to work through. I am here to support you ❤ Even my hubby said where is Bob..be encouraged today..thanks for sharing and all that you have done and will do..YOU CAN DO IT..🥰 Eva

  • @vanlifewithGinaPayne
    @vanlifewithGinaPayne Před 3 lety +1

    Bob you always have a friend in me much love from Oregon

  • @MiscMitz
    @MiscMitz Před 3 lety +1

    Loneliness is a tough battle. I have a fiancee and I still feel loneliness at times. Praying for you Bob

  • @JaysPlayDays
    @JaysPlayDays Před 3 lety +2

    maybe make a list of 5 things or so that you can dive into at anytime on any day. things you can dive into and the next time you check the time, 2 to a few hours have gone by. also work within your circle of people who are the closest to you. dont worry if that circle was to get smaller. atleast you know who’s who and what’s what. dont worry about anything negative that goes on on the outside of your circle either. thats for somebody else to focus on. be you. take one day at a time. then go from there

  • @BackroadsArtStudio
    @BackroadsArtStudio Před 3 lety +2

    Bob you do what you need to do. Love ya man.

  • @RDEZtinationsCreations
    @RDEZtinationsCreations Před 3 lety +1

    You got this I'm so proud of you thank you for inspiring others to never give up. Much love brother 💜💚🙏🙏💚💜

    • @TalkingWithBob
      @TalkingWithBob  Před 3 lety +2

      Well I really thought about things and comments people left the last video, and I think being honest with my emotions and thoughts is what makes my channel.

    • @RDEZtinationsCreations
      @RDEZtinationsCreations Před 3 lety

      💚💜

  • @RoyandBeckysTravels
    @RoyandBeckysTravels Před 3 lety +1

    Tight big bear hugs Bob it's ok take your time.

  • @MelNetteLivingFreeZipCodeless

    No worries Bob. Do what your heart feels. Looks like your in a safe place as far as a home base. Thanks for sharing 👍

    • @TalkingWithBob
      @TalkingWithBob  Před 3 lety

      I just know I need more money before I travel for sure

  • @GarciasOnWheels
    @GarciasOnWheels Před 3 lety +2

    Hey Bob, Sorry you are feeling lonely man. I hope you feel better!

  • @NomadUnbroken
    @NomadUnbroken Před 3 lety +1

    All those things aren’t to help you get over something, they’re to help you find yourself. All in good time bro, there may be something you need to learn or something that’s in line for to later. Trust in God Bro, even if it’s hard.

    • @TalkingWithBob
      @TalkingWithBob  Před 3 lety

      for sure i am now. gonna take a look at avan even for little trips just to get out and about

  • @ComputerChickProductions

    I am a single parent and embrace it and if someone is offering a van fix it up and take it embrace it. Make sure you have emergency fund.

    • @TalkingWithBob
      @TalkingWithBob  Před 3 lety

      I think I may have found something I have the money for it. And still have some left over and start to build a good fund.

  • @JonandMandyGoRVing
    @JonandMandyGoRVing Před 3 lety +1

    If we are ever in the same state you are during our travels, we will have to meet up and do some camping.

  • @armchairwanderer1287
    @armchairwanderer1287 Před 3 lety

    👍👍 Chin up Bob. I'm sure things will work out. All the best.

  • @chivosadventures8171
    @chivosadventures8171 Před 3 lety +1

    Getting married and having kids isn't as great as some people make it out to be. I was married for about 6 years had three girls, and went through a terrible horrible divorce the x kept the house, she's a dumb butt so she lost it she kept my truck and sold it. She now has car payments. Which i am now paying for through child support and alimony. Now don't get me wrong buddy I love my girls and would do anything for them. I guess what I'm trying to say is that being married and having kids isn't really going to bring you happiness especially if things don't work out. So keep your head up and stay strong.

  • @lynntheokie8370
    @lynntheokie8370 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm not sure how to put into words what I'm trying to say.

  • @shannacraft4099
    @shannacraft4099 Před 3 lety

    🌼 One day at a time, and sometimes one moment at a time. Keep your faith! I've been lonely - especially through all of this pandemic mess. There are lots of nice, free places to camp. If you don't follow My Basic Journey, give her a look see! She travels in a mini van and shares the awesome places she finds to camp. You are definitely on my prayer list! It's always good to hear from you!!!!!

  • @willr69420
    @willr69420 Před 3 lety

    *You'll get through this! You have GOD and lots of supporters!*

  • @TheArtofRVing
    @TheArtofRVing Před 3 lety

    *hang in there bro and keep as busy as possible*

  • @amoscardoza5253
    @amoscardoza5253 Před 3 lety +1

    Yo Bob's!

    • @TalkingWithBob
      @TalkingWithBob  Před 3 lety

      Yo amos

    • @amoscardoza5253
      @amoscardoza5253 Před 3 lety +1

      Bro, you should accept the van. It's a gift! You can also purchase "breakdown" insurance. I have bumper to bumper coverage for $75 a month. It's a $100 deductible and comes with roadside assistance, rental car and hotel stays during repair. Also get $400 to put towards new tires and free oil changes. Bob's keep your head up and stay strong. There's a kronie stream tonight @9 and would luv to see you there.

    • @TalkingWithBob
      @TalkingWithBob  Před 3 lety

      @@amoscardoza5253 will try and get there