I came out to my dad, and....

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  • čas přidán 21. 07. 2021
  • I’m also non-binary but I didn’t want to tell him that yet

Komentáře • 33

  • @fruityshoto1017
    @fruityshoto1017  Před 2 lety +34

    Just to be clear, I don’t live with my dad sadly so I live with my grandparents..which they aren’t to big on lgbt+ stuff..soooo that’s why I don’t want him to tell, but I’m really glad that he does support :)
    And this took a lot of confidence because I was soooo scared to see his reaction

  • @blayne_soul3575
    @blayne_soul3575 Před 2 lety +9

    I’m scared to come out to my dad this really helps me and I’m glad he had a good reaction!!!!!

  • @_l0v3.lani_
    @_l0v3.lani_ Před 2 lety +23

    Aww that’s sweet, I wish that’s what my dad said

    • @ncker_odez2053
      @ncker_odez2053 Před 2 lety +4

      What did he say- sorry! I dont mind if you dont want to say..

    • @_l0v3.lani_
      @_l0v3.lani_ Před 2 lety +5

      @@ncker_odez2053 he said he think i’m too young..

    • @zenvhs
      @zenvhs Před 2 lety +4

      @@_l0v3.lani_ my parents say that about kids in my class last year about how it’s a phase and there to young so yeah I’m not coming out anytime soon

    • @_l0v3.lani_
      @_l0v3.lani_ Před 2 lety +3

      @@zenvhs I wish I didn’t come out, but yea don’t come out unless you know it’s safe. My sister came out and they accepted her and I thought it would be the same way for me but apparently not

    • @ncker_odez2053
      @ncker_odez2053 Před 2 lety +2

      @@_l0v3.lani_ Its okay what they think! If you wanna be yourself and well..yeh but if you like any gender or no gender or non gender then your just being yourself so thats awesome! Me les- opp- not about meh. But i forgot what else to say but just be yourself and it doesnt matter what people think anyways!

  • @violet_jay8935
    @violet_jay8935 Před 2 lety +9

    You are so brave to do that!

  • @E1uf
    @E1uf Před 2 lety +1

    I’m glad ur dad supports you c: I’m pretty sure my parents and one of my big sisters and her husband are all homophobes since I’ve heard a lot of homophobic stuff come out of their mouths so I’m glad ur dad is supportive c:

  • @cassimorris8492
    @cassimorris8492 Před 2 lety +4

    Awee! Good job, I hope it works out and everything!

  • @wow_getting_famous6745
    @wow_getting_famous6745 Před 2 lety +1

    Mine too I am so shocked because they were acting like homohobic.But when that is me they say that they don’t mind it because I always try my best for them:)

  • @itslie-mazing541
    @itslie-mazing541 Před 2 lety +8

    You were so brave!!

  • @kokoro5268
    @kokoro5268 Před 2 lety +2

    Awww that’s so sweet I wish I had a dad

  • @lemonlime_gacha1223
    @lemonlime_gacha1223 Před 2 lety

    So brave!That was really amazing of you to come out like that!I am Bi,and I havent told my parents yet.

    • @fruityshoto1017
      @fruityshoto1017  Před 2 lety

      I hope whenever you do it goes well!

    • @camicami_9892
      @camicami_9892 Před 2 lety

      I'm Bi and my dad is Catholic, so you could imagine that didn't go smoothly lol😂

  • @bonniebuns1179
    @bonniebuns1179 Před 2 lety +1

    My dad supports me being bisexual (I think I might be pan or something) but said I was confused for coming out as a demigirl, truly I knew how my dad felt about non-binarys so I decided to be half non-binary (So I had a chance of his support.) But he said he only believes that their is two genders and thats female and male. He would support me if I was trans but not non-binary. It took me like 2 months to say that I was a demigirl, because of how he felt about non-binarys and "wired" pronouns :/ (I hope that wasn't offensive)
    🙂
    Glad your dad supports you though ^^

  • @youraverageportableheater9266

    I came out to my parents pretty early with my sisters help. They didn’t really call it a phase they were confused on what pansexual was (as yes I am pansexual) and so I explained to them it’s meaning and ever since then my mom hasn’t talked about it and whenever my dad is talking to me about my future lover he’ll say “When your boyfriend- or girlfriend- do blah blah blah” I’m pretty sure he was saying that before I came out to him actually. I’m pretty happy my parents aren’t homophobic. If your parents are homophobic and you are lgbtq+ just remember we’re here for you

  • @vik820
    @vik820 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm really happy for you :)

  • @sad_mf2304
    @sad_mf2304 Před 2 lety

    I mean my dad had an good I guess reaction bc I came out to him as lesbian and like your dad he asked me how I found out and then once we ( my sister helped me) explained it all he just said "we'll see" and I'm pretty sure he has forgotten about it either that or he just ignored it . But I'm proud of you bc I know from experience that it is a very hard thing to do it takes a lot of strength but I'm glad he reacted the way he did and I hope you are glad you can feel like yourself now and I bet you feel a lot better bc coming out is kina like trying to lift a 50lb wight off your shoulders so I hope you are happy now that you got that off of your chest. Have a great day/night !!

  • @frqnkenst13n4x7
    @frqnkenst13n4x7 Před 2 lety

    I’m aromantic but I haven’t come out to anyone yet bc I figured since I don’t like to date people it won’t matter lol (sigh) anyway I’m glad ur dad supports u :)

  • @miniorochimaru_3379
    @miniorochimaru_3379 Před 2 lety

    This is just😭😭😭, I can't, my dad hates lgbt+ so my sister told my mom insted of my dad

  • @Dr3adfu11y_Strang3
    @Dr3adfu11y_Strang3 Před 2 lety

    Im so happy for you also i feel the whole not living with two parents even though it’s different for me because i live with my dad in Virginia and my mom is in Maryland and i have no grandparents. My mom know because i had a Pansexual flag and the pansexual symbol on my lock screen and she asked my what it was soooo yeah i came out to my mom like that

  • @user-yy5uf2st4i
    @user-yy5uf2st4i Před 2 lety

    Im happy that you dad support

  • @error9775
    @error9775 Před 2 lety

    Your so brave

  • @Silliestalive
    @Silliestalive Před 2 lety +1

    I told my parents my dad supports me and my mom says I just say it to say it (I'm pan btw)

  • @chlxeplxyz
    @chlxeplxyz Před 2 lety

    I support!

  • @nightmarefoxy7777
    @nightmarefoxy7777 Před rokem

    I thought it was one of those ones where he doesn’t support you

  • @caeldeluca5553
    @caeldeluca5553 Před 2 lety +2

    So sweet pls pin me