Dating Success Over 60, Finding Love at 70: Rules on Finding Love Later in Life

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024

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  • @ModernAging
    @ModernAging  Před 6 lety +97

    Thanks for watching! Do you believe in finding love later in life? Why or why not? :)

  • @abby_dasma
    @abby_dasma Před 3 lety +51

    I am 66 yrs old now and iam happy to meet guys who can be a sincere friend and eventually be a companion in life.

    • @dennisforcino861
      @dennisforcino861 Před 3 lety

      Hi.there,,,,I like your free spirit we could be just friends if you want it you can text me on hangout and I will be delighted dennisforcino01@gmail.com

    • @DolphinsVSPenguins
      @DolphinsVSPenguins Před 3 lety +1

      @@dennisforcino861
      Hi... Mr Dennis...
      If u don mind me asking... How young/old r u...Plz... Tnx...

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety

      @@DolphinsVSPenguins hahaha... absolutely I got many of tat sort of texting fr online social media by younger men n I wonder what do they wants me to do with them?

    • @usacookie8288
      @usacookie8288 Před 3 lety +2

      Don't ever use hangouts, that is where the money stealing, romance scammers from Russia, Nigeria, etc go to chat in secret.

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety

      @@usacookie8288 wow..thanks for your kind info...fr my heart of thanks...I am new in social media.

  • @beautifulcrazy
    @beautifulcrazy Před rokem +10

    I love what Tina Turner said, "I know how to be attractive."

  • @waterbug1135
    @waterbug1135 Před 4 lety +80

    Bingo. I'm a 63 year old guy. So wish more women would hear Mona. Smile at people, try a little talking. Have fun.

    • @haunaniryan7416
      @haunaniryan7416 Před 3 lety

      I like the way you think water bug :) !!!

    • @gpeddie8147
      @gpeddie8147 Před 3 lety +1

      So true am 54 and they told me that am old

    • @lalitasingh9152
      @lalitasingh9152 Před 3 lety

      Agree with water bug!
      Have you found love ?

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 Před 3 lety

      She made a very good point about smiling & eye contact. I think I avoid this, because, I don't want to give the wrong impression if I smile.

    • @isabelltecaxco-yd3lw
      @isabelltecaxco-yd3lw Před měsícem

      Hello there I'm 63 now and I live in Tucson Arizona never had kids just wanted to say hi 😊❤

  • @theodoremoore6592
    @theodoremoore6592 Před 3 lety +53

    At 70 this August I am planning to put myself out there. This video merrowed my hopes for the future. And I know it is possible.

  • @MichaelEBridenstine
    @MichaelEBridenstine Před 6 lety +90

    Love knows no age, and we can only be so lucky to find it at ANY age. It's inspiring to hear their story. :)

  • @May-xt9pv
    @May-xt9pv Před 2 lety +27

    I just started online dating and I remind myself that every exchange is practice…because it really is. I’ve gotten much better at expressing myself. I love the comment about walking like the girl from Ipanema, smiling, and dressing to look put together. In other words, projecting feminine confidence. And at my age, it is fun! It’s a bit of an emotional roller coaster because I do get excited when I hear from a man, and, I’m let down if someone I liked doesn’t respond. But, I’m a big girl, I can handle it! I’ve been alone for twenty years so this is a big step for me. It’s adventure, and I know what is important, and this time, it’s totally about having fun. …at least I hope so! All the best to you fellow seekers!

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr Před 2 lety +1

      I love ❤❤😍😍 you so so ....😘😘😚😚 much
      I like you ...🌷🌷👧👧really
      I m single
      I m 54 year old I m alone life very hard you know ...
      I m also very loveing 😗😜very romantic 💋💋👄👄 very sexy 💏💏 very hot 🔥🔥hot ♨♨
      I make you really also ... always .. Every time .. Every where ... so so happy long and deeply 💑💑❤❤😍😍🌹🌹
      I want to me I really 👧👧🌷🌷

  • @user-nj2ko1rq2d
    @user-nj2ko1rq2d Před 3 měsíci +5

    I’m 64. I started dating last year. Actually fell in love with a young man half my age. It happened like a car accident. It’s best thing that happened to me even if it doesn’t last. It’s been a blissful year together. We take one day at a time. I am very happy.

  • @mickcantana1830
    @mickcantana1830 Před 2 lety +11

    My wife passed nine years ago and soon I will be sixty. Mona is the first woman I’ve heard speak about needing male energy and actually adjusted her demeanor in the real world to find it. Unfortunately, not enough women have the slightest clue that looking away from men in public is counterproductive. I’ve done all types of work to counter the negativity that radiates from women my age, including traveling to India to study yoga. In yoga classes, it’s always the younger ladies that flirt with me. Mona shows how easy it is for a woman to connect once she opens herself up for love. Unfortunately, there aren’t enough of them to go around.

    • @khalnamodi8599
      @khalnamodi8599 Před rokem +2

      One just has to keep looking...love is always there..

  • @albertbrighten2819
    @albertbrighten2819 Před 3 lety +23

    I'm 70 and on testosterone therapy. Believe me the energy is there! And the parts work like I was 35!

  • @rrich52806
    @rrich52806 Před 2 lety +13

    I found my love of 47 years ago. Near 70 we are both divorced. Our Kids did good and gone. We are totally in love and happy it is rekindled. Male and female here.

  • @rickl3386
    @rickl3386 Před 3 lety +35

    interesting to watch. i am 65 years old this year i started dating. i am very out going. after 5 weeks of dating 1 woman i got ghosting from her. 2nd woman to many hidden red flags. its very hard for a man today at my age. i am still trying though and not giving up. we all have flaws and we all arent perfect. i live on the oregon coast. most women out here it has to do with how much money you have and many marry for money only. i value myself and my time.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 3 lety +6

      I"m sure there is someone out there for you!! yes don't give up... true love is on the horizon.

    • @rickl3386
      @rickl3386 Před 3 lety +2

      @@ModernAging ty

    • @susanfanning9480
      @susanfanning9480 Před 3 lety +1

      And I was thinking it was hard for a woman to date at 65 . Your stories about red flags and such are not encouraging.😀 Because I want things to be easy. ( I'm being funny).

    • @khalnamodi8599
      @khalnamodi8599 Před rokem +1

      Cast you nest further or in fresher waters..🇰🇪😉

    • @BryanVorndran
      @BryanVorndran Před rokem

      Hi I am 30 years old and am single

  • @gn4055
    @gn4055 Před 3 lety +13

    I don't know how this channel found me but I so needed everything I'm learning from it.

  • @jeanettearocho1589
    @jeanettearocho1589 Před 5 lety +36

    Finding love after 60 is rare. I like this video because it offers hope for some.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 5 lety +2

      Anything is possible...having the right mindset is more than half the battle.

    • @ValleyoftheRogue
      @ValleyoftheRogue Před 4 lety +4

      Hope isn't reality. Demographics are the big problem here. There just aren't enough healthy, single men over 60-there aren't enough single men who are still alive past that age.

    • @beholden1663
      @beholden1663 Před 4 lety +2

      Susan Nunes I acknowledge your point of view as an older man but there are older healthy men you have to just seek out places such as golf/sports organizations or events or even spiritual events such as weekend retreats seminars that are geared equally for men.
      It’s true what you point out, in my experience. In the 20’s and 30’s women seem to have an advantage ratio wise. There are just more available single testosterone laden men available. Then I’ve noticed in the late 40’s the demographics start to even out and by 50’s and upward it may even perhaps in the favor of men due to men dying younger generally speaking, and our cultures emphasis on youth which encourages older men to still seek out much younger women. But for many older men in your age group they still may be resentful subconsciously that they were rejected by women in their 20’s and 30’s prime years despite the ratio demographically being in their favor. Some just give up dating altogether because of this. But if you really are determined and love yourself and are happy single there are healthy older men out there for you looking for love and companionship. Lastly for many older men given the decreased libido in older age ( hence the popularity of ED pills like Viagra) sex may not be the primary goal like it was when they were younger. These older men may be looking to bond emotionally and spiritually. Best wishes on your journey 😀

    • @stephendare942
      @stephendare942 Před 4 lety +1

      I didn't get married until I was 60

    • @mahmoudabdelhay4355
      @mahmoudabdelhay4355 Před 4 lety

      I'm single 44 years old I'm from Egypt I'm never been married before I looking for old and mature woman any old I'm serious

  • @johnbingaman3645
    @johnbingaman3645 Před 3 lety +79

    Old chicken still makes good soup, you are as young as you feel, age is a number

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety +4

      What old chicken? R u respectful here ? R u old dog then?

    • @GS-st9ns
      @GS-st9ns Před 3 lety +4

      @@snowgoddessmissy7781 that's hilarious. Pushing 60 pretty soon and I'm not offended. I admire the humor in that

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety +4

      @sugar free...sometimes sarcasm is the name of the game fr older men... naming older women as old chicken is demeaning. Older women r more matured..babe.

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 Před 3 lety +5

      @@GS-st9ns no sugar in my coffee no sugar in my tea, plus sugar makes cancer cells grow rapidly, I'm pushing 66 Route 66 I've been run over a thousand times!!
      .. but I still get up and go again.. some women call us the old dogs or pigs well you heard about the farmer that was screwing a pig and it squealed on him oh, don't get butthurt and have fun just a little humor... I dated women in their 60s and 70s which I thought were fantastic... I am in excellent shape with no no extra pounds, I do a lot of fun things,, I'm not needy I just wanted one good woman in my life, that I'm attracted to.. like her body and everything that comes with a good personality, but they always seem to have a lifeline and ex boyfriend the damage has been done, but old chicken still makes great soup🌞

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety +1

      @@johnbingaman3645 Get a life old John... don't b embittered by name calling of old chicken..for me I am more junior than u w no damaged done yet..how do u think of how others wld also think of u...just take it or leave it about those worn out women...u r nothing better either nor any younger, or of more value worth at age 66 either..

  • @kdk151
    @kdk151 Před 2 lety +10

    I literally think this saved the rest of my life to hear this incredibly wise women and also the other lady! What an amazing gift she has given me I wish I could talk to her in person! I so needed this. The Universe must have sent this to me because I was just about to give up totally! THANK YOU!!!

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr Před 2 lety +1

      Or u marriad
      I m alone
      Single
      😍😍👧👧❤❤🌷🌷

    • @pricewood1284
      @pricewood1284 Před rokem

      Do you really enjoy the video?

  • @joannesterling7905
    @joannesterling7905 Před 5 lety +41

    Just deciding to connect with someone again, afraid to try, but determined to make my life fuller...Stumbled on this video. Delightful! Thank you.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 5 lety

      Don't let your fear stop you! You are amazing and very happy for you! As Mona and Daisy shared, if your mindset is in the right place then you will be ready to enjoy dating. I'll be doing a follow up interview with Mona as she just celebrated one year with her boyfriend :).

    • @jamesakerrigan8055
      @jamesakerrigan8055 Před 5 lety

      Don't let fear stop you from doing what you are supposed to Do besides age is not on our side...am 49 lost my wife to cancer and am left with a 7 year old daughter.. Am thinking of quitting my job to give my all daughter the love she needs..am a major in the us marines

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz Před 5 lety

      You are always most well come i love u u i like u u really i want to meet you i am seriouse merry with me come am waiting now text me oky ... 🙋🙋💑💑😍😍😍😍😍❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝

    • @teddysoft3162
      @teddysoft3162 Před 4 lety

      Joanne Sterling ❣️

    • @bradbitzer924
      @bradbitzer924 Před 4 lety

      Hello Joanne
      I'm brad, 56 years old
      How are you doing?
      I would love to know you more

  • @risdasaragih796
    @risdasaragih796 Před 3 lety +24

    I love this channel.i hope all the single person can find their love,and God bless them..greetings from Indonesia.

  • @abovetheclouds3324
    @abovetheclouds3324 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I'm 75, and she's right.... it's putting the energy out rather than being closed off. I'm at that same point, where I'm making an effort.

    • @MaryYaeger-xz9gj
      @MaryYaeger-xz9gj Před 3 měsíci

      Me, too! I’m 75 years old and divorced! I let myself go during the divorce and Covid, that coincided with one another! I was broken and I was very depressed, and I needed to get into some therapy, found my spiritual path, and learned about narcissistic abuse! Now, after a year back in my Overeaters’ Anonymous, I, too went light grey and I have lost 40 pounds. I’m eating more healthy, getting my pedicures, doing my makeup! Most of all, I have been blessed and the healing journey has brought me into some needed therapy at the VA for women veterans with a history of military sexual trauma! Lately, I have been aware that I am feeling a strong sexual urge, so it has awakened! Now, I would be open to meet the right guy; a “friend with benefits!” Younger men are attracted to me, and that feels nice. However, I was also burned by a young predatory man who pursued me for sex, and to garner my money! God was so kind to save me from that! So, this video is very helpful for me! ❤Thank you so much !

  • @xz9376
    @xz9376 Před 3 lety +4

    Mona feels comfortable in her own skin, that’s her charm.

  • @kdk151
    @kdk151 Před 2 lety +16

    I was getting so discouraged with online dating at 74 almost 75 and I so want that male energy! And I just loved this discussion! Thank you so much! This woman was so thoughtful and intuitive about the subject!

  • @rubinacajigal7373
    @rubinacajigal7373 Před 3 lety +44

    One is never too old to love, it's just difficult to find that special someone these days even if you are still gorgeous.

  • @stanleyphilipose6269
    @stanleyphilipose6269 Před 4 lety +12

    "I'm just a girl who can't say no!" lol Happy for her.

  • @lornacereno7970
    @lornacereno7970 Před 3 lety +9

    Interesting .. heart doesn't age .. and really age doesn't matter
    Love this conversation 💖

  • @sallyjacobus7000
    @sallyjacobus7000 Před 3 lety +8

    I'm finding men seeking me out at 73 and wow...they're much younger than I...yet I feel so young & sensual now...than when I was in my earlier years...😊

  • @marknoelfischer9421
    @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety +15

    My wife died 10 years ago, she died of cancer... It was really a sad experience for I and my daughter Lisa, it’s pretty a lonely world when you’re single... I miss being married, I think it’s time I let it all out and be happy again, I hope the future holds someone nice for me🙂

    • @lucydaniel2773
      @lucydaniel2773 Před 3 lety

      Ok thanks am waiting to hear from you soon and we can chat more my phon nomber is 07864759242 thanks

    • @marknoelfischer9421
      @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety +1

      I don’t think your phone number is correct

    • @marknoelfischer9421
      @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety +1

      Do you live in the States??

    • @marknoelfischer9421
      @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety

      (216) 393-3508
      This is cell phone number, I hope to hear from you soon

    • @marknoelfischer9421
      @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety

      @@joycelachman3651 It would be nice getting to know you too Joyce... This is my email address and I’m also on google hangout marknoelfischer@gmail.com

  • @annettevictoriathillet9889
    @annettevictoriathillet9889 Před 6 lety +42

    Hearing this amazing conversation helps me rethink my fears of a relationship. It gives me hope. 🦋Thank you🦋

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 6 lety +5

      Oh great! Yes sometimes we just need to hear how others are able to do something we think about but don't quite have the courage to do. She did a lot of work on herself before putting herself out there and it has all paid off. She's having the time of her life and I am so happy for her. And I would love the same for you!!

    • @daisysola7655
      @daisysola7655 Před 6 lety +5

      Annette Victoria Thillet It’s never too late babe. Life is very surprising. ❤️

    • @annettevictoriathillet9889
      @annettevictoriathillet9889 Před 6 lety +1

      @@ModernAging Thank you! 🦋

    • @annettevictoriathillet9889
      @annettevictoriathillet9889 Před 6 lety +1

      @@daisysola7655 Blessings!! So proud of you 🦋

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz Před 5 lety

      I want to meet you i love love u u i like u seriousely true love seriouse loveing relationship i well merry with you i am seriouse text me now or u intrested 🙋🙋💑💑😍😍❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @kenzanca1076
    @kenzanca1076 Před 6 lety +19

    It is always inspiring to listen to intelligent conversation about really important things. I got married at age 71. I could relate to Mona's courage--hey, that's what is. Risa's questions were perceptive and "flowed."

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 6 lety +1

      Thanks Ken!! You are an inspiration :).

  • @hardengutierrez7943
    @hardengutierrez7943 Před 4 lety +15

    Great video, thanks for putting this up here...
    I'm 60 years old and a widower. I was married with my late wife for 16 years till she passed away 6 years ago I've been alone. I'd like to find love and be happy again.

    • @susanhorton9492
      @susanhorton9492 Před 3 lety +1

      Hi- I'm 62 yr old widow living in NYC. very active and healthy. interested in chatting?

    • @CL-mt3mn
      @CL-mt3mn Před 3 lety +2

      Where are you living?

    • @khalnamodi8599
      @khalnamodi8599 Před rokem +1

      Love is waiting

  • @monabkreaden3420
    @monabkreaden3420 Před 6 lety +16

    OMG, Risa. Why didn't I get my hair and makeup done before this shoot? Seriously though, love at any time is a gift but having it at this stage is something so very special.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 6 lety +1

      haha...Mona you always look beautiful! :) Thank you for sharing your story and your journey!! xo

    • @sandrafrances
      @sandrafrances Před 5 lety +4

      What a great video! Thank you. I am 72 next month...and I have a new man in my life.

    • @cassidyddon74
      @cassidyddon74 Před 3 lety +1

      How are you doing mona

  • @AbbiWinslow
    @AbbiWinslow Před 6 lety +28

    Such a great topic! I think we can find love at any age!

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz Před 5 lety +1

      I need you i like u love u merry me i am seriouse really 🙋🙋💑💑😍😍❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

    • @mahmoudabdelhay4355
      @mahmoudabdelhay4355 Před 4 lety

      Hello sweetheart I'm here ready for you I'm intreseted I would love to dating with you I looking for strong relationship and true love I'm single 44 old I'm from Egypt

    • @stephengrco2562
      @stephengrco2562 Před 4 lety

      Talk to me

  • @emilysingh3824
    @emilysingh3824 Před 4 lety +22

    Wow, 77. Thanks for giving me hope. U r an inspiration to us all

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 4 lety

      Not sure if you watched this video -- but it is a intimate, candid chat with Mona - a year later - with her boyfriend Paul. :) It's hilarious and poignant! czcams.com/video/MvLxNJHgpjA/video.html

    • @mahmoudabdelhay4355
      @mahmoudabdelhay4355 Před 4 lety

      Hello Emily where are you from

    • @mahmoudabdelhay4355
      @mahmoudabdelhay4355 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm single 44 years old I'm from Egypt I looking for older woman I'm intreseted I looking for long time term relationship and true love I'm serious

    • @hardengutierrez7943
      @hardengutierrez7943 Před 4 lety

      Hello there how are you doing today and how's life treating you in this time of covid?

    • @franciscodevis4969
      @franciscodevis4969 Před 4 lety

      Hello

  • @conmckfly
    @conmckfly Před 4 lety +14

    This video was wonderful. This came at a much needed time in my life. Thank you!

  • @drhymanwritesandspeakes
    @drhymanwritesandspeakes Před rokem +7

    Love this conversation. So inspirational! The message to me: Living does not end after 65. Blessings!

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před rokem

      indeed! it can get better if you want it to!

  • @mariabeckwith3336
    @mariabeckwith3336 Před 2 lety +10

    I so identify with the "male energy" line of thought. Most of my life, I've had men that needed me to carry part of that male energy and it wasn't until I was alone for 4 years that realized how much I've always missed that female energy of my younger years. Ive found that feeling again of being ultra feminine and vulnerable. Masculine energy is definitely what I miss.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 2 lety

      thanks so much for watching... :) we all need a balance of masculine and feminine energy in our lives. :)

    • @kathyglass2922
      @kathyglass2922 Před 2 lety +2

      Totally get that. It feels good to get in touch with the feminine energy. Love that masculine man. Want to be around it again. Want arms around me. Want to feel some muscles

    • @kathyglass2922
      @kathyglass2922 Před 2 lety +1

      @@robertgreen722 I like my men and my friends to be real, not money hungry people looking to scam me. Sorry!

    • @robertgreen722
      @robertgreen722 Před 2 lety

      @@kathyglass2922 Oh Ok, am not really after money though

    • @kathyglass2922
      @kathyglass2922 Před 2 lety

      @@robertgreen722 I am trying to get money. And I don't share my money I get. I don't buy Google play cards, and I don't wire money anywhere. And I don't care how dead your great aunt is, I am not sending you any money to get her out of prison. Please stop trying to scam me.

  • @baba18m77
    @baba18m77 Před 6 lety +17

    Yes, love knows no age!

  • @retiredmona2181
    @retiredmona2181 Před 5 lety +32

    What a beautiful video. I am 64 next month and truly believe this can be the best time of life for anyone with an open heart and mind. I am a late bloomer as well and thankful that I can be sexual and very much enjoy the experience whether with a partner or not.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 5 lety +3

      yes it can be a great time in life :) enjoy every moment and every experience with or without a partner. If a partner is what you are looking for, when you open your mind and heart to it, it will appear.

    • @felipemonterrosaspaulino7033
      @felipemonterrosaspaulino7033 Před 5 lety

      Hi mona lm Felipe

    • @bradbitzer924
      @bradbitzer924 Před 4 lety

      Hello Mona
      I'm brad, 56 years old
      How are you doing?
      I would love to know you more

    • @dianesanmiguel3575
      @dianesanmiguel3575 Před 4 lety

      Hello

    • @bradbitzer924
      @bradbitzer924 Před 4 lety

      @@dianesanmiguel3575 hello I'm Brad, how are you doing?

  • @supermoon7189
    @supermoon7189 Před 3 lety +14

    Mona you are an inspiration for so many - rock on sister

  • @michaelplitt2135
    @michaelplitt2135 Před 4 lety +21

    It sounds like she's not looking for a partner. But rather someone that can do something for her.

  • @jeanne819
    @jeanne819 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I have a couple guy friends 60s absolutely no chemistry at all both asked me out multiple times not interested. I have turned them onto life in many ways. I love life and am highly energized and outgoing and I pray I will find someone to love as I’m truly a giver and so miss a relationship ❤

  • @linachan791
    @linachan791 Před 3 lety +8

    She's so fun and confident

  • @delaliafewu4761
    @delaliafewu4761 Před 5 lety +14

    This is awesome revelation. Wow ! I love it so much. An honest and frank discussion it gives hope to other seniors as well as younger ones.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 5 lety +1

      Thank you so much. Yes, we are going to do a follow up interview with Mona :) to continue to inspire others.

    • @WClark-lp9vc
      @WClark-lp9vc Před 4 lety

      i have been awkward and have no real intimate relationship as i reach 52. This lady’s journey is inspirational. .

  • @empressag9041
    @empressag9041 Před 4 lety +10

    Thank you so much for this interview!💕. Loved it. Very inspiring. 💜

  • @dianegrace.
    @dianegrace. Před 3 lety +1

    At 73..having lost my college sweet heart when I was 70...one year in my caves of grief over 400 poems...to today a dear friend of my late husband together working on projects together...she mentions male energy so special..truly a sweetness...I. like a child, he my protector...we are in love..have known him as best friend of my late husband. I dress up no matter where I go...a child planning crazy adventures...this age unique as we can truly be who we are...calm happy embracing life and so grateful to be so healthy to enjoy life. 50 I joined airline flew internationally 20 years. So 70 is the new 50! Embrace each day...ignite the child within..you have such wisdom now...hold him close as male energy allows that precious little girl to explode with adventures.

  • @annespencersitbackchat424

    This is a wonderful interview and so liberating and inspiring. Thank you.:)

  • @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933

    I also belkieve that we can find love at any point of our life as long as we are open minded. I found love in mid-life and we have been married 24 years now.

  • @LadyJefferson
    @LadyJefferson Před 3 lety +15

    I agree with the dressing well and some makeup...look your best when you go out...have several friends over 60 and they look slovenly and no makeup...O feel like I need to look my best for the world every day...still haven’t met anyone yet...age 68.

    • @tonyahrrold8273
      @tonyahrrold8273 Před 3 lety +1

      Hello beautiful lady ❣️... How are you doing ?

    • @tonyahrrold8273
      @tonyahrrold8273 Před 3 lety

      Okay, What's your marital status? If I may ask

    • @marknoelfischer9421
      @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety

      Hi , it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Mark by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??. You can contact me via my email address: marknoelfischer@gmail.com or text me via my mobile number (216) 393-3508. I hope to hear from you soon. Thanks 😊

  • @vemindaalipio7351
    @vemindaalipio7351 Před 4 lety +21

    This conversation that I heard, I think I'm dreaming about how the happiness I feel if I have someone to love and to be love ,oh I'm so excited to fine one . I'm 60.

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety

      Me too

    • @victoriaguevarra7148
      @victoriaguevarra7148 Před 3 lety +2

      Me too, I kept searching but mostly i met were scammers , hope i can find here my forever. I’m 66 yrs old longing for tender loving care of a man.

    • @parkingbrown4932
      @parkingbrown4932 Před 3 lety

      @@victoriaguevarra7148 same here

    • @adamadel7097
      @adamadel7097 Před 3 lety

      @@victoriaguevarra7148 Hello Victoria, are you looking for a partner now?

  • @ppod5204
    @ppod5204 Před 6 lety +7

    The important thing for me to remember here is that people don't stop loving and looking for connection just because they have reached a certain number of years. I live near a nursing home, and I'll pass by the park, where a lot of the older folks gather, and I'll nod hello and not give them much other thought. I saw two people chatting and holding hands, and they were likely in their 70s, maybe their 80s, and I thought--very briefly--"cute." I'll be more thoughtful now. The capacity for passion is in all hearts, no matter the age. It gives me hope as my generation (the next one down, in the their 40s and 50s) ages. How much does Pilates cost, and can Daisy recommend any videos, i.e., vids about Pilates that can be done at home?

    • @pogatajosephine6688
      @pogatajosephine6688 Před 5 lety +1

      Yes ages doesn't matter as long u love each other and with understanding and there love in the Lord

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz Před 5 lety

      I want to meet you i love love u forever i make u so so long deeply happy i like u meet me .. am waith oky come .

  • @gildaama4492
    @gildaama4492 Před 2 měsíci

    I accidentally scroll this channel and find it interesting. Nothing wrong giving a chance for myself meet guys of my age after I lost my husband 14 years ago. I’m turning 71 this July.

  • @DoveNative
    @DoveNative Před 5 lety +10

    I am 61 and love this! Very uplifting.........

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 5 lety +2

      Finding love is always possible. A quick update that Mona is now 79 and has a serious boyfriend :)

    • @DoveNative
      @DoveNative Před 5 lety +1

      @@ModernAging Go Girl!

    • @charlestremblay256
      @charlestremblay256 Před 4 lety +1

      @DoveNative
      I'm Charles Tremblay, I would love to talk to you...please reply when you get this💞

    • @DoveNative
      @DoveNative Před 4 lety +1

      @@charlestremblay256 Hi Charles, How are you? 👩🏻

    • @charlestremblay256
      @charlestremblay256 Před 4 lety

      @@DoveNative I'm good❤,do you mind us talking privately?? Can I have your Instagram handle ?? Your email address,anything?? I would love to keep this communication going💞

  • @barbielockett2335
    @barbielockett2335 Před 3 lety +6

    Love and Kindness is what America, is in need of...Look and find Love in in your older years, is an appreciation of the magnificent other. Remember That..

  • @beago0810
    @beago0810 Před 3 lety +24

    Men are visual. Take care of your body and weight and they will find you. Be agreeable not combative.

    • @brianjohnson9456
      @brianjohnson9456 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank You for saying that. I’m 65 in good shape, working on being a better me. Looking for the same, someone who hasn’t given up on life & in good shape.

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety +2

      It depends on what the man is looking for..not all goes for physical...even the uglier among us all..still can find love life.. sometimes its destiny n fate.

    • @mariaaugustavieira6721
      @mariaaugustavieira6721 Před 3 lety +3

      Matisse, you are so right!
      I’m on my sevenths, only one number, my spirit is much younger, and my sweetheart is 18 years young! He tells me that no one can substitute me!
      We are deeply in Love with each other!
      God is Good all the time 🙏🙏

    • @franciscodevis4969
      @franciscodevis4969 Před 3 lety

      Hello, how're you doing..I'm glad to chat you!!!

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 Před 3 lety +6

      You're absolutely right men are visual, they like long hair dress nice and in good physical condition, and women don't want big beer bellies on men either and the spare tire going around their back , and good hygiene, and put that damn toilet lid down use your head men!! women are emotional, creatures that love to be in a love story...🌷

  • @elizabethdumbarimwe675
    @elizabethdumbarimwe675 Před 21 dnem

    Very interesting conversation and I admire this lady for her guts jumping back into the dating arena. I have been single for the past 43years, just turned 65 and hoping someday will be able to gather up enough courage to dive back into the deep end with someone whom I can click with and share a mature, meaningful and fulfilling lifetime relationship based on Christian principles. Sincere congratulations to her and all the best wishes.

  • @lifeslessons9889
    @lifeslessons9889 Před 3 lety +6

    I'm 60 and widowed at 35 .. Wasted too many years on part time dead end relationships. And partnered seven years to the wrong man . So, after two years .. Single again and would love to be loved in a solid relationship. Thank you this was helpful

  • @plackiechirongoma3889
    @plackiechirongoma3889 Před 3 lety +2

    Love, loving and being loved has more value and meaning at old age. This is the most interesting journey in life

  • @rosemarywachira64
    @rosemarywachira64 Před 3 lety +6

    The heart never grows old

  • @kixxmzk2910
    @kixxmzk2910 Před 3 lety +7

    I love this interview so much, definitely inspirational 💕💕

  • @meeralakshmi1387
    @meeralakshmi1387 Před 3 lety +3

    thank you for this video . i am 48 amd i hope to find my love now.

  • @davisholman8149
    @davisholman8149 Před 2 lety +2

    CONSCIOUSNESS.... best word ever! That is why CZcams Wizard of Oz found this video for me because I needed to hear it. Learned many things from this conversation. Thank you.👏🏽

  • @islandgirl3330
    @islandgirl3330 Před 4 lety +7

    It depends on you. Some woman get careless with their appearance and show no interest in men because they are carrying a lot of pain and baggage. I feel from my experience that you can love at any age and your sexual feeling never dies. It depends on what' you want in life. It is not a matter of men not falling for you but a matter of meeting them and that is the biggest problem. Meeting them and then you can work your charm and magic. So you have to go to places where you can meet them and where you are comfortable to be.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 4 lety +1

      yes, no one said it is easy (at any age) but all the feelings and desires are still there later in life despite what people may say --- not talking about everyone. Those who want love in their lives deserve it and they should go and have fun!

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety

      Applauses to u...right on most of the points..

  • @betteringlifewithvelo4703

    It's never too late to find love surely

  • @goldengirl41
    @goldengirl41 Před 3 lety +4

    This conversation is very helpful, and I agree with what Mona is saying about dating over 40 ....I'm still hoping to find what she has found...

  • @jmjpmc
    @jmjpmc Před 4 lety +7

    What a LOVELY chat with strong , generous women....great stuff

  • @simonjacobs3287
    @simonjacobs3287 Před 3 lety +28

    The biggest mistake most women do is loving men who cheats them.

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety +4

      Absolutely Simon..nowadays too many fakes r surfacing online...its sad scamners came to break love relationship online , w fake love n rob their bank accounts...

    • @yvonnecummings9615
      @yvonnecummings9615 Před 3 lety +2

      So true only happen to a foolish one not me leave and forget never to return

    • @simonjacobs3287
      @simonjacobs3287 Před 3 lety

      @@snowgoddessmissy7781 how old are you

    • @simonjacobs3287
      @simonjacobs3287 Před 3 lety +2

      @@snowgoddessmissy7781Am sorry for what you've gone through madam,not everyday is Sunday,God has a plan for Monday don't give up easily ,after all my case was similar like yours,aman from Nigeria pretending to be awoman approached me on this internet and what he did on me God knows,but am still searching in my late 56s.

    • @simonjacobs3287
      @simonjacobs3287 Před 3 lety +2

      @@snowgoddessmissy7781 Ok noted.

  • @lifegenius763
    @lifegenius763 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you all for a gr8 interview. Mona, you are so inspiring to me. I learnt a lot about love and relationships from your your own personal journey. Im 52, single for 5 years after a divorce, now ready to mingle again. Your insights have given me a lot more confidence to be more open hearted to receive a lovely man into my life. May you stay blessed 🙏🙏

  • @jillbezek4270
    @jillbezek4270 Před 3 lety +5

    This was great!!

  • @trudyloftis9788
    @trudyloftis9788 Před 4 lety +6

    Wow.....what a nice video, didn’t even know this type of video existed....I lost my partner we only lived together for 15 years, he died of a massive heart attack, it’s been almost 3 years, I haven’t dated a soul, I am all alone, well I have 2 dogs , I will be 64 this year , I hate it, I don’t believe that we were put here on earth to live alone.... hopefully ,one day very soon, I will meet someone, at least I pray I do.... thank you for doing this video !!!!

    • @maleeratmary5613
      @maleeratmary5613 Před 4 lety

      Do you have face book account we share more on life.

    • @hardengutierrez7943
      @hardengutierrez7943 Před 4 lety

      Hello there, how are you doing today and hope all is going well you in this time of covid.

    • @franciscodevis4969
      @franciscodevis4969 Před 4 lety

      Hello, I'm widower for 3years now and i will love to know you well. Please reply and here is also my hangout id: devis.us.contact@gmail.com

    • @syedzameenali4566
      @syedzameenali4566 Před 4 lety

      Hi your not a 64 your a 31 it's my age really you look like a my age I wanna talk to you this is my what up number 9618921914

    • @franciscodevis4969
      @franciscodevis4969 Před 4 lety

      @@syedzameenali4566 I'm 62

  • @vanessaweiss-pansini1285
    @vanessaweiss-pansini1285 Před 6 lety +8

    Love at any age, this is so very important. What a great topic!! 💜

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 6 lety

      love and sex at any age. :)

    • @chandesalim872
      @chandesalim872 Před 5 lety

      @@ModernAging , hi I'm here single guy

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz Před 5 lety

      You are rite .. i am also trest true love no for age i love i like u meet me .. now .🙋🙋💑💑😍😍❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

    • @stephengrco2562
      @stephengrco2562 Před 4 lety

      Vanessa can we chat please

    • @franciscodevis4969
      @franciscodevis4969 Před 4 lety

      Hello, I'm widower for 3years now and i will love to know you well. Please reply and here is also my hangout id: devis.us.contact@gmail.com

  • @jonmasongoodspeed1256
    @jonmasongoodspeed1256 Před 3 lety +2

    Certainly it can.. this is packed with so much hope

  • @Kamy6050
    @Kamy6050 Před 3 lety +6

    Thoroughly enjoyed dis. U women r gr8 n Mona is adorable.

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Even at my age of 65.I run the risk of getting ripped off.I have been single for 25 years.I was ripped off once I never trusted women since then.Theres no woman for me.I not Grazy.i got used .I have never got over it I don't know what the answer is.

    • @joanbalasa4207
      @joanbalasa4207 Před měsícem

      Walk with wisdom. Don't allow another person to destroy your heart.

  • @bernetajohnson3296
    @bernetajohnson3296 Před 3 lety +25

    I would think a person could find love at any stage in life.

    • @sherryjameson2942
      @sherryjameson2942 Před 3 lety +1

      God bless you and your heart💕

    • @bernetajohnson3296
      @bernetajohnson3296 Před 3 lety +1

      @@sherryjameson2942 You are welcome.

    • @elizabethwoods2853
      @elizabethwoods2853 Před 3 lety +5

      I. AM. 65. YEAR,S. 0LD. AND. HAVE. N0T. BEEN. 0N. 0NE. DATE. WHERE. I. LIVE. THE. MEN. ARE. ALL. READY. TAKEN... I. HAVE. 0NLY. BEEN. ASKED..TW0..TIME,S. I. TH0UGHT. AM. I. N0T...PRETTY. EN0UGHT..AND. IT. MAKE. ME..SAD. MEN..ARE. N0T. ASKING. ME. 0UT. I. AM. T00..ME. I. L00K..0K. I. AM. 5FT 5. FTALL.. 102..P0UND. VERY. FIT I. DRESSED. WELL..KEEP..MY. SELF..UP. MY. HAIR. L00K,S. 0K..S0ME. TIME..I. WEAR..A. CUTE. WIG. ..S0. WHAT. AM. I. D0ING. WR0NG..IT,SJUST. MEN. MY AGE. ARE. ALL..READY...TAKEN..BUT. N0W. I. HAVE. T0..M0VE..THAT,S. IT..AT. 65. I. WANT. T0. FIND. S0ME. .0NE. S00N. I. HAVE. DATED. IN. 9. YEAR,S. I. LEFT. A. BAD. MARRIAGE. AND. HE. ALL, WAY,S. PUT. ME. D0WN. IT. WAS. S0ME. THING. WR0NG. WITH..MY L00K,S. S0. MAYBE. I. AM. CARRYIE...AR0UND. A. SAD. L00K. 0N. MY. FACE.. THAT. I. AM. BR0KEN. .MY. HUSBAND. NEVER. T0LD. ME. I. WAS. PRETTY. BUT. MEN. THAT. ARE. AR0UND. ME. TELL..ME. Y0UR. HUSBAND. IS. LUCKIE.. THAT. I. L00K. THIN..AND. CUTE..BUT. HE HAS. NEVER. MADE. ME. FEEL..PRETTY..S0. I. GUESS. I. NEED. T0. HEAL... . UM. I. HAVE. T0. GIVE. G0D. MY. PAIN. S0. I. CAN. LET. L0VE. FIND. ME. I. AM. TRUSTING. G0D..

    • @yvonnecummings9615
      @yvonnecummings9615 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes it’s true LOVE HAVE NO LIMITS THE ONLY THING IS TO FIND THE RIGHT PERSON

    • @bernetajohnson3296
      @bernetajohnson3296 Před 3 lety +2

      @@yvonnecummings9615 I agree. But it is much better I think to let the right person find you.

  • @mcrollason
    @mcrollason Před 6 lety +8

    What a lovely story! Definitely makes me think about the many aspects of life that make us whole--relevant at any point in our life! Thanks for sharing.

  • @mariannedressler6784
    @mariannedressler6784 Před 4 lety +19

    Loved this interview! I can relate to this woman and her journey. ❤️

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 4 lety

      She's had an amazing journey indeed. I recently interviewed her and her boyfriend (of 1 year) - will be sharing that wonderful interview for Valentine's Day in mid-February so keep an eye out for it! Thank you for watching!

    • @Pureheart_gentlesoul
      @Pureheart_gentlesoul Před 3 lety

      Hello Marianne, how are you doing today??

    • @marknoelfischer9421
      @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety

      Hi Marianne, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Mark by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??. You can contact me via my email address: marknoelfischer@gmail.com or text me via my mobile number (216) 393-3508. I hope to hear from you soon. Thanks 😊

  • @brigettecannonssorandomsho5918

    61 and divorced. This was a great topic 🎉

  • @vivelindadossantosfrancisc9864

    Fantastic content!
    I was living in a big dilemma about_ Why I love my lifestyle on my own, however, I need a man? _ Today I got finally the answer: I just need male energy around!
    Thank you for sharing with us ;)

  • @luxmeedollie8563
    @luxmeedollie8563 Před 3 lety +3

    What a beautiful topic...wish we had this in South Africa..

  • @suzanafernandes2067
    @suzanafernandes2067 Před 3 lety +5

    Amazing! Thanks ladies 💞

    • @michaelpollack1121
      @michaelpollack1121 Před 3 lety

      Hello, gorgeous how are you doing today?

    • @parkingbrown4932
      @parkingbrown4932 Před 3 lety

      Yea!

    • @marknoelfischer9421
      @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety

      Hi Suzana, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Mark by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
      . You can contact me via my email address: marknoelfischer@gmail.com or text me via my mobile number (216) 393-3508. I hope to hear from you soon. Thanks 😊

  • @lorieckel3992
    @lorieckel3992 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I love the comments about male energy…it’s wonderful! You ladies are my inspiration!

  • @user-ei8rb7sj6c
    @user-ei8rb7sj6c Před rokem +4

    As a petite, feminine Christian woman over 60, these are a few things a man could do to make this particular woman feel safe & protected:
    He demonstrates his belief, faith & love of God; he’s even-tempered, (even behind the wheel), shows a natural protective instinct; ie, automatically walks next to the street if we’re walking side by side on a sidewalk; puts his hand lightly on the small of my back if we’re walking through a crowd; keeps his car neat, clean, and well maintained; offers his hand to assist me in getting out of a car, opens doors for me, pulls out my chair, helps me with my coat, compliments my outfit, something I say or do that he likes, etc…
    To make me feel safe about not losing him prematurely, he’s in good health, keeps his weight down, walks and hikes to stay physically fit, and eats a healthy diet (most of the time!) He has hobbies that keep him young at heart, mentally sharp, and make for good conversation.
    I hope a Christian man over 60 who’s interested in meeting women close to his age will read this, give it some thought, and comment on a few things a woman could do to make you feel admired & appreciated in return.

  • @user-rj9vt4su1s
    @user-rj9vt4su1s Před 24 dny

    Thank you so much for sharing ! Love and light to you both

  • @belovedbrooks7884
    @belovedbrooks7884 Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks ...until now as 54 yrs old I'm single, I'm looking for intimacy,loving supportive sincere man which at this time some how can't find ..I'm still hoping, I'm joining in the site of dating but very corny for me...

    • @Pureheart_gentlesoul
      @Pureheart_gentlesoul Před 3 lety

      Hello dear, how are you doing today... I hope you are having a wonderful day?

    • @pricewood1284
      @pricewood1284 Před 3 lety

      Wow you looking so amazing there hope you are safe 😊😊?

  • @marykarle9592
    @marykarle9592 Před 3 lety +1

    @Mark Johnson..I am 64 and single. I can see what matters to YOU most is a woman’s weight, and you judge
    them by this..I have won the weight battle and lost over 50 pounds, and consider myself to be an attractive
    individual...I may be 64, but my mind is still rocking and rolling!...Love my life, and have much to offer
    a nice gentleman. I can see right off the bat, that you would not fit my bill..too bad. I do wish YOU well!

    • @williamsharman2159
      @williamsharman2159 Před 3 lety

      Hi Mary happy new year how are you doing?🥰😊😊🥰

    • @marykarle9592
      @marykarle9592 Před 3 lety

      @@williamsharman2159 Hi William..I am putting one foot in front of the other(guess you saw in my comments that
      my husband passed away right before Christmas)and taking each and everyday I have, with gratitude. I have
      not only been donating items to charity, but also to food banks..it gives me great comfort to help others,
      no matter who they may be..guess that’s the nature of a nurse, and of the sign of Virgo..next I will be joining
      the fight against Covid, as there are so many people that are simply terrified..and confused. And how are
      you doing?

    • @marykarle9592
      @marykarle9592 Před 3 lety

      @@willsben889 I believe you can find your soulmate if you are PATIENT enough!

    • @marykarle9592
      @marykarle9592 Před 3 lety

      @@willsben889 Originally from New York, moved down to Florida in 1988

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 Před 3 lety

      @@willsben889 , most definitely

  • @yvonnecummings9615
    @yvonnecummings9615 Před 3 lety +8

    I want to find a Serious Christian Male This interview helps a lot never give up on our self

    • @simpaticaism
      @simpaticaism Před 3 lety

      then smile when you go to church Yvonne , good luck and enjoy .

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 Před 3 lety +2

      @Yvonne Cummings, hard to find a Christain man, who does not want to have sex before marriage. Still looking at 64

    • @Nuffboss
      @Nuffboss Před rokem

      @@joshipp761 hi Jo , I'm single and looking for a long term relationship

    • @jshipp6756
      @jshipp6756 Před rokem +1

      @@Nuffboss , Are you a committed follower of Jesus Christ?

    • @Nuffboss
      @Nuffboss Před rokem

      @@jshipp6756 yes I'm a follower of Christ and a true Christian and you?

  • @violetamontesclaros655
    @violetamontesclaros655 Před 3 lety +2

    Hello nice to know and meet like my age,Love is on the air! Think young,positive,Its good to be in love

    • @marknoelfischer9421
      @marknoelfischer9421 Před 3 lety

      Hi Violeta, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Mark by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
      Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉. You can contact me via my email address: marknoelfischer@gmail.com or text me via my mobile number (216) 393-3508. I hope to hear from you soon. Thanks 😊

    • @bernardtagoe310
      @bernardtagoe310 Před rokem

      I'm young and want you

  • @MA7-6585
    @MA7-6585 Před 5 lety +9

    There are ALWAYS games!

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety

      Agreed.. nowadays too many dating sites w too many easy target n easy baits...they became like products for grabs.

  • @nelciechavez8535
    @nelciechavez8535 Před 20 dny

    I enjoyed your LOVE story. I hope my day is numbered cause you both displayed it’s possible. Blessings

  • @ValleyoftheRogue
    @ValleyoftheRogue Před 4 lety +13

    The big problem here is demographics, and I wish these "experts" would simply level with delusional women and tell the truth.
    So many women have been so conditioned to think they are nothing unless they have a relationship they have never learned how to be people in their own right. They never learned to develop interests, travel on their own, do anything that didn't involve a significant other. This is the tragedy here, women who are irrationally terrified of being alone and never learned how to be.
    The plain unvarnished truth is after age 50 and definitely after age 60, it is difficult for most women of that age to find a single, age-appropriate, mentally stable, HEALTHY man. There are simply not enough of them out there for all the women looking. It isn't because they want "young women," either, as young women as a rule want nothing to do with far-older men. The truth is much more sobering, sad, and downright depressing. It is the fact men have more disabilities as they age, more chronic diseases than women, and, worst of all, die at a younger age on average than women. NONE of this can be wished away. You can't make an attempt to attract men who simply aren't there whether because they have taken themselves out of the "market" or they have died. I know these dating "coaches" and "experts" have to make a living, but they do it by trading on women's insecurities as they age and giving them false hope. A few women find "love after 60," a very few for the first time, but the fact is it is a crapshoot at best.
    I am "only" 64, not old, but there are so many men I went to high school with, married or single, who have died in recent years, many of cancer. It doesn't get any easier as the years go by. I don't know of many women who want to find that special man who is age-appropriate but looks forward to being a caregiver (and for many, a caregiver AGAIN).

    • @rcas350pilot8
      @rcas350pilot8 Před 4 lety +1

      The answer is simple, you old women have to get cats. Problem solved!

    • @youtoo2233
      @youtoo2233 Před 4 lety +6

      So true, im 50 and recently have been reconnecting with high school gals i haven't seen in years. Some just turned out to be friends and others I take out for coffee and dinner. Its been rather nice

  • @leeharrison8790
    @leeharrison8790 Před 3 lety +1

    Love isn’t about discovering it or finding it ... at a very old age love should be mature...love is something that you have ... you love out of having love to give ...you can’t love if you don’t have love to give ...and than there’s wonderful exchange of receiving love ... the other lover must also have love to give as well ... I’m sixty one ... finding each other.. that’s able to participate in this process of exchange... without so many prior mental structures that prevent love from either giving or receiving... it’s a process... letting go of those things that are in the way mentally and emotionally.. because they are ineffective... wanting the unique love to flow freely ... mental and emotional structure often restricts ... letting go of these ineffective ideals or past baggage that makes no scenes now we are older and wiser ... we can now actually be our true selves ....

  • @sheilac1845
    @sheilac1845 Před 3 lety +11

    I don't have that kind of money, it's much more difficult when you're starting over after being widowed and find yourself with no skills to speak of for a job and so broke you can't pay attention. BTW I've never had enough money to ever get a manicure, have to do my own nails, some women are so spoiled and don't even know it

    • @olivermiller1375
      @olivermiller1375 Před 3 lety

      Mine has been the direct opposite. I'm 38yrs old and i have nerve been married before,spent most of my time working and building myself financially
      I think you find love when you're ready. That's my mail olivermiller487@gmail.com

    • @Pureheart_gentlesoul
      @Pureheart_gentlesoul Před 3 lety

      Hello dear, am 60 yrs old am a widower with two beautiful girls...have been widowed for 5 years now and I have been single since I lost my wife...you know finding true love is not what you rush into you probably get to know more about each other first and with time you know what the future holds out there for you....I do find you really interesting and would love us to be more acquainted with each other..what do you think?

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 Před 3 lety +1

      I've never been interested in manicures or pedicures; then I feel funny, because this is what most women do.

    • @harrybenjamin9786
      @harrybenjamin9786 Před 3 lety

      Hi how are you doing?

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 Před 3 lety +1

      @@harrybenjamin9786 , is this message for me?

  • @philiskariuki8059
    @philiskariuki8059 Před 3 lety +1

    Im 54 yrs lady i would like to meet someone sincere with relationship.

  • @cesareyzaguirre5982
    @cesareyzaguirre5982 Před 4 lety +7

    Men in their 60s here in manhattan ny that live in my building dont even say hello or smile at women's.

    • @onfroyben471
      @onfroyben471 Před 4 lety

      Way to serious,been widowed for 10 years now seems hard to find love again

    • @onfroyben471
      @onfroyben471 Před 4 lety +2

      Willing to give it a try before it’s too late?

    • @bentaaumrau8532
      @bentaaumrau8532 Před 3 lety

      @@onfroyben471 Hi

    • @snowgoddessmissy7781
      @snowgoddessmissy7781 Před 3 lety

      @@onfroyben471 U hv to go for it n not wait for love to come..happiness is in your hand to grab it or let it slip away w regret

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 Před 3 lety +2

      Caesar Eyzaguirre they probably just have no teeth and maybe gay...

  • @kathyglass2922
    @kathyglass2922 Před 2 lety +1

    I find that dressing up, does make me feel me feminine. Love to wear wrap dresses and heels. Feels wonderful.
    Yay! So glad to hear that the drive is still there. Looking forward to enjoying being with someone.

  • @TrinaMCay
    @TrinaMCay Před 3 lety +4

    My story is different, am a young solo struggling parent then raising a child alone and helping my parents. I didn't have time thinking of myself then. I should've have considered relationship/companion those days but i was very happy seeing my daughter growing up. Yet now s a different story..... Back in my mind and giving the opportunity of meeting a partner (😊 in crimes as part of humor) I want to give it a try to someone with the same purpose. 😎😊

  • @dama_shares
    @dama_shares Před 2 lety +2

    Refreshing and authentic conversation.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  Před 2 lety +1

      yes - and i just talked iwth Mona last night - she and her boyfriend got married last week!! She's 82 now :)

  • @lindabacanifruitcarvingsco8662

    Where to find serious honest guy these days where a lot of scammer around who dig money from their victims ....i am 65yrs old woman , still gorgeous and actively searching a good guy but scared of scammers 😔😔😔

  • @victoriasegundera1108
    @victoriasegundera1108 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow, nice to be in love and be loved again

  • @mohammedaasri2774
    @mohammedaasri2774 Před 5 lety +8

    You are lovely women

  • @janicesmith1956
    @janicesmith1956 Před 3 lety +2

    I nursed my hubby through cancer i don't want to go through that again. He cheated years ago and my trust has gone. They have many women on line too.

    • @olivermiller1375
      @olivermiller1375 Před 3 lety

      I'm 43yrs old and i have nerve been married before,spent most of my time working and building myself financially
      That's my mail olivermiller487@gmail.com

    • @harrybenjamin9786
      @harrybenjamin9786 Před 3 lety

      Hi how are you doing?