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  • Here's a chit chat video of me sharing tips for finding your style. I hope it is helpful. xx
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Komentáře • 374

  • @Shucksofficial
    @Shucksofficial Před 8 lety +270

    My problem is that I know what style I want to have I just can't afford any of the things I like

    • @makaylacovers3544
      @makaylacovers3544 Před 7 lety +2

      +Shucks same tho

    • @janvithanki1397
      @janvithanki1397 Před 7 lety +17

      Hey,
      I find myself in situations like that all the time, I would suggest that if you want your outfit to look a bit prize-y one of the best options would be to buy gold accessories or accessories according to your outfit that makes it stand out, you can also add black heals with a pair of jeans to make it look great. :) I hope the ideas helped

    • @veahxo900
      @veahxo900 Před 6 lety +2

      Thrifting is great for that

  • @alexandracroney
    @alexandracroney Před 8 lety +62

    Great tips, I loveeee your style!

  • @Jessicachanell
    @Jessicachanell Před 8 lety +28

    I'm 26 about to turn 27 Dec9th & I'm just now finding my style since I've gotten older. Lol when I was younger it was just casual. Now it's more girly, southern & preppy. 😊

    • @natnatnatnat2346
      @natnatnatnat2346 Před 8 lety +17

      Omg we are born the same day and are the same age lol - birthday twins 👯☺️

  • @Chanelboateng
    @Chanelboateng Před 8 lety +61

    This is SUCH a good video, i actually took notes! lol

    • @shaena.8737
      @shaena.8737 Před 8 lety +4

      why would you take notes?!?! You're already soooo perfect and your clothes are ❤💋😻

  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee Před 8 lety +8

    Great tips! Miss Shirley B!
    I deff do most of the 10 but I've realised I've started to take my style too seriously and therefore have lost the fun! I was obsessed with thrifting before and now I barely go, deff taking it back up again! Perfect video as usual xoxo

  • @krisj3510
    @krisj3510 Před 8 lety +48

    What's crazy is...YOU are on my mood board. You and Kim Kardashian give me the Inspiration style wise because you both take really simple piece and make them sleek and chic. There's not a lot of gaudy accessories and the best part you let your femininity make the clothes not the other way around. LOVE IT!

  • @RachelOates
    @RachelOates Před 7 lety +5

    Love all these - especially the second point about the difference between fashion and style! I do love how 2 people can take the same item of clothing and style it completely differently to say something about who they are :)

  • @ShirleyBEniangxo
    @ShirleyBEniangxo  Před 8 lety +66

    Here's a chit chat video of me sharing tips for finding your style. I hope it is helpful. Please share your tips as well! xx

    • @ByteMwen
      @ByteMwen Před 8 lety

      +Shirley B. Eniang I love love love your eyemakeup here. Is this a look you've done on video before??? If not, hint, hint!!! ;)

    • @francescadefabrizio4963
      @francescadefabrizio4963 Před 8 lety

      +Shirley B. Eniang You are so inspiring to me! kisses from Italy:*

    • @SabrinaCilean
      @SabrinaCilean Před 8 lety +2

      +Shirley B. Eniang i totally adorn you like everything about you is just soo perfect

    • @Freedomstyles
      @Freedomstyles Před 8 lety

      +Shirley B. Eniang Thanks for sharing

    • @SumayyaIahKonjo
      @SumayyaIahKonjo Před 8 lety +1

      Loveeeeeee your accent~nice shirt as well 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Preyes11
    @Preyes11 Před 8 lety +1

    "...because there's nothing wrong with taking inspiration and then turning it around and making it your own..." Wow! Shirley, this is the best I have ever heard you speak about a subject. You are really passionate on this topic. This is really inspiring on all areas of life because, I, personally, am trying to find what my style is. Thank you for such great tips!!

  • @msdnio
    @msdnio Před 8 lety +169

    Hey Shirley!! I notice how you wear the majority of your outfits with HEELS!!! However for 16year olds like myself, we can't wear heels all the time lool😭. How can I style up an outfit without wearing heels... Or could you do a lookbook on outfits without heels❤️.

    • @shadowsden5516
      @shadowsden5516 Před 7 lety

      Josselyne Mounkala ok I know I'm not Shirley... THE FLAWLESS BEING SHE IS... but just use some flats, or if it's more rugged uses sneakers or boots, flannel is something I like to distract the fact that I can't wear heels, it works just fine.

    • @i2harry
      @i2harry Před 7 lety +3

      Oh so young, embrace you age! You will look good with a pair of flip-flops or converse.

    • @Shalisha24
      @Shalisha24 Před 6 lety

      dainalove Get a Pinterest account. It has everything up there

    • @Suze1780
      @Suze1780 Před 5 lety

      You could also wear some the sandals that have strings that you attach around you lowered leg

  • @LuxyHair
    @LuxyHair Před 8 lety +6

    Such great tips! Love it

  • @lizzieloves.x
    @lizzieloves.x Před 8 lety

    Such great tips thanks Shirley !! So happy your uploading frequently now, you look amazing x

  • @teemahchrist867
    @teemahchrist867 Před 6 lety

    I just fell in love with your blog @Shirley B. Eniang, Just like that.
    Thanks for the tips

  • @vintagehearts6176
    @vintagehearts6176 Před 8 lety

    Love your come back Shirley ! Stay the same so stylish and sincere. We love you 🙌💕

  • @ilahe.3914
    @ilahe.3914 Před 8 lety

    I absolutely love this video, it's so helpful. You're such an inspiration.

  • @Jennzelnick
    @Jennzelnick Před 8 lety +6

    you are so fresh faced and eloquent. so inspirational!

  • @idontcarerocks
    @idontcarerocks Před 7 lety

    This was so helpful! I loved your way of explaining the difference between fashion and style, I've never thought about that before 😊 Thanks for this video

  • @creativelychermeka9802

    Great fashion advice!! I've been your subbie for a while and you are very informative and positive!! Such an inspiration! Great luck to you Shirley!!

  • @lmack161
    @lmack161 Před 8 lety

    You are my BIGGEST most influential style icon, more than any celebrity or designer. Your style is so effortless but so polished and put together and very classic!! Love it.

  • @SincerelyBP1
    @SincerelyBP1 Před 8 lety

    Absolutely LOVED this video!! & the tips. Keep them coming😍

  • @hannahgill5449
    @hannahgill5449 Před 8 lety +3

    i make those shopping lists by going online and taking screenshots of what i want i find that it helps a lot x

  • @Cheryltheresa
    @Cheryltheresa Před 8 lety +5

    I admire your room and set up so much. Great video.

  • @britney5769
    @britney5769 Před 8 lety

    Loved this video, great tips! Love your style, it's so effortless.

  • @24pixiegirl
    @24pixiegirl Před 8 lety

    I have found those tips to be true!! I don't live in London, but recently i have been going to thrift shopping and I find so many nice things, and like you said, it's always unique, no one else has what you have.

  • @mutiatcharlton1412
    @mutiatcharlton1412 Před 8 lety

    You are heaven sent. I love your style. I am 17 and about to be a senior in high school and I am trying to change up my look and style and you have inspired me so much. Thank You so much

  • @KatHorrocks
    @KatHorrocks Před 8 lety

    Love what you said about attitude and confidence - I used to feel so frumpy and not stylish - I think becoming a young adult, accepting my personality and what I love style-wise has completely changed the way I feel in clothes!
    Pinterest is also great I'm addicted to pinning outfits I love - I get inspired seasonally on there and will think about a few key pieces I want to invest in from there :)

  • @MesRevesEnRose
    @MesRevesEnRose Před 8 lety

    love the vid! organizing my wardrooobe really helped me shop more efficiently. and lists!

  • @elizabethuche268
    @elizabethuche268 Před 8 lety

    Great tips! I'll remember to put them into practice. Thanks Shirley!😊

  • @ameilialavenia2716
    @ameilialavenia2716 Před 8 lety +1

    Loved this video, I love videos where you just sit down and talk.

  • @princesspolius3518
    @princesspolius3518 Před 7 lety

    I would really like to say thank you very much Shirley for your love, inspiration and motivation

  • @karegitau6007
    @karegitau6007 Před 8 lety

    Awesome tips!!..I really Love your personality and how You elaborate your points👌🏾

  • @afrikanatural
    @afrikanatural Před 8 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing Shirley! Absolutely appreciated!

  • @DestinysLifex
    @DestinysLifex Před 8 lety

    I love your style, you're so pretty! & I also love your white room! 💕

  • @MsKChristine
    @MsKChristine Před 8 lety

    Yes to frequent Shirley uploads! Love your vids girl x

  • @Doreenpere
    @Doreenpere Před 8 lety

    Very educating and inspiring Shirley. Love you!

  • @denizsalari3086
    @denizsalari3086 Před 8 lety

    Loved this video! And I need that denim shirt in my life. Now.

  • @ALittleLikeLisa
    @ALittleLikeLisa Před 8 lety

    Love the tips! Love how consistent your style is Shirley!

  • @H_r_aJ_e
    @H_r_aJ_e Před 8 lety

    OMG I really love how you meticulously explained all those tips. I'm absolutely gonna try experimenting with them and find my own style.

  • @charlottebuttrick
    @charlottebuttrick Před 8 lety

    YES to all of your tips! I definitely think blogging has developed my style and made me more confident to wear what I like! Fab video xx

  • @tiffanyott6525
    @tiffanyott6525 Před 8 lety

    Yes!!! Finally back to back videos😁

  • @growingwitha1578
    @growingwitha1578 Před 8 lety +4

    As an African lady watching your videos, I would just like to say that you represent African women in a great light. you are the definition of an African women. I would love to meet you one day as you inspire me to carry myself with class and elegance. I love watching your videos. Continue your hard work and you will only see greatness come your way! PS: can you please do a tutorial on your hair?
    Thank you:)

  • @franziska5716
    @franziska5716 Před 8 lety

    Great video! (And I loved your outfit in this, you looked so good!)

  • @naemiamanuel472
    @naemiamanuel472 Před 8 lety

    omg i am in looovvveee with you!!
    i love that you talk so calm. and you are insanely gorgeus!!!!!

  • @4964962
    @4964962 Před 8 lety

    thank for sharing, many of your tips I already use, and other are Great reminder,you alway look Amazing !!!!

  • @persyrie5247
    @persyrie5247 Před 8 lety

    Omg Shirley this viedo was sooo helpful , thank you and you look beautiful as always.

  • @goldie061708
    @goldie061708 Před 8 lety +2

    thanks for the tips!!! A lot of woman really need this!!! Style is confidence

  • @ketige2103
    @ketige2103 Před 7 lety

    You are such a nice person!!!!!! Love your videos! Thank you!

  • @daniela336
    @daniela336 Před 8 lety +37

    I really love your style and your tips are the best. :) You are so right that everyone has its own style , for example today one of my colleagues didn't like my outfit (it was just a long sleeved bodysuit and a blouse over it) and she was like: don't you dare to come like that again , its not stylish blah blah and I got so offended at first but then I thought: Wait, do I like myself in these clothes? Do I feel confident? Then I will just wear it the way I want. :)

  • @pinkrainbowtree
    @pinkrainbowtree Před 8 lety

    aargh You look GORGEOUS!! Hair, make-up, outfit.. everything on fleek! Love you! x

  • @kanta3353
    @kanta3353 Před 8 lety

    Just subscribed. Everything is done so tastefully and artistically. Love it!!!

  • @msJewel111
    @msJewel111 Před 8 lety

    I never been so excited before now for any CZcamsr to post a video as I am when I get a notification that you post a video!

  • @almudenaenamorado9415
    @almudenaenamorado9415 Před 8 lety

    I love this type of videos!! Love from Spain🤗

  • @21waysofdream
    @21waysofdream Před 8 lety +1

    This kind of video confirms that you are my favorite British youtuber, I love you so much, your videos make me so so happy! When I'm down, I see your videos and life is better. Excuse for my english btw

  • @lol-jk4fy
    @lol-jk4fy Před 8 lety

    So nice tips Shirley! ❤️
    thanku 😍
    iloveu

  • @mutabazisherllyb9402
    @mutabazisherllyb9402 Před 8 lety

    This is really a brain storm...great idea love love love it. You such a style perfectionist

  • @SimplyWindy
    @SimplyWindy Před 8 lety

    These are such great tips. I love your videos:)

  • @isabelallday
    @isabelallday Před 8 lety

    Hey skin is amazing. It literally glows!!

  • @HairdiariesofanonguruBlogspot

    The list really helps. I went on the hunt for statement pieces and I had a whole list that i checked off one by one!

  • @MsKayAlicia
    @MsKayAlicia Před 8 lety +1

    A way that helps me is I take pictures from Tumblr and Instagram and I save them in folders on my phone. In the morning, I just go through those pictures and gather inspiration from those. Also, creating a playlist on CZcams that is specifically for fashion helps too!

  • @Victorialouise20
    @Victorialouise20 Před 8 lety

    So glad I came across her channel..I love her!!

  • @ranatutorials4902
    @ranatutorials4902 Před 8 lety +3

    your voice is so calming 💕

  • @WakefieldClaire
    @WakefieldClaire Před 8 lety

    Would love to see a video of your wardrobe & most essential pieces! ♥️

  • @Dr.Nellah
    @Dr.Nellah Před 8 lety

    Oooo i loved this video! just gave me a video idea aswell, Love you Shirley!

  • @louisaschmitt5170
    @louisaschmitt5170 Před 8 lety

    loved this video so much!!

  • @VegasBeautyMaven
    @VegasBeautyMaven Před 8 lety

    I love your style it's very clean & chic!

  • @whitao165
    @whitao165 Před 8 lety

    This was rather helpful and I'm very appreciative lol, thank you very much Shirley! :)

  • @jannellewilliams5345
    @jannellewilliams5345 Před 8 lety

    Love you and your style . Keep up the good work.

  • @FlawlessMis
    @FlawlessMis Před 8 lety

    Great Vid! I'm so in love with your white room. 😍 What lipstick are you wearing?

  • @SolelyVanessa
    @SolelyVanessa Před 8 lety

    These are awesome tips! I really want to vamp up my style so this helps a lot. :)

  • @selinereid8399
    @selinereid8399 Před 8 lety

    Shirley please upload some more videos. I watched dem all.... love your style.

  • @MrsMrNelson1
    @MrsMrNelson1 Před 8 lety

    This was so helpful! Thank you so much . I know I'm late ... Hey everyone happy holidays.💜

  • @tboahine
    @tboahine Před 8 lety

    I couldn't agree more and you couldn't of said it better👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @NoelShaefon
    @NoelShaefon Před 8 lety

    You are simply amazing I love you and I'm hooked on your channel.

  • @yetundesabiu4323
    @yetundesabiu4323 Před 8 lety

    this z downright amazing,learnt a lot😆 thanks Shirley

  • @Iamempressnae
    @Iamempressnae Před 8 lety

    Great tips I feel like I am embracing my own style now instead of following trends! Its so much fun!

  • @rolife__shares
    @rolife__shares Před 8 lety

    Excellent Tip Shirley!!!Enjoyed!

  • @pearlryan2996
    @pearlryan2996 Před 8 lety

    Ur such a great inspiration to me...thanks a million 😘

  • @beulaho
    @beulaho Před 8 lety

    This video was really helpful, i'm definitely going to watch a few more of them! You just got yourself a new subscriber 🙋

  • @MrNotThatFamous
    @MrNotThatFamous Před 8 lety +19

    8:29 i cant find a single hanger and you got all those empty ones lol

  • @jasminetyxo
    @jasminetyxo Před 8 lety +1

    🙌🏾 yesss this was perfect, you're so inspiring ! 💜

  • @DressPinkBlog
    @DressPinkBlog Před 8 lety

    I was so in need of this!

  • @Nee007
    @Nee007 Před 8 lety

    This was soooo helpful Shirley thank you!!!!!
    Your style is absolutely gorgeous! I think you should style celebs honestly! You inspire me!!!!xoxo

  • @emilyharwood130
    @emilyharwood130 Před 8 lety

    Loved seeing you in the New Look advert! 😊

  • @CUT3FRI3NDLY
    @CUT3FRI3NDLY Před 8 lety

    Great tips! I am very much into finding my style these days and I organised my wardrobe for the first time ever. I also created a style album in my phone to save pictures of outfits I like or find inspiring but I think the biggest obstacle I am facing is loving the skin I am in. I am rather uncomfortable with my weight and it shows but I am working on losing a few kilos and toning up.

  • @anetarejman783
    @anetarejman783 Před 8 lety

    You look absolutely amazing in this video, your style is just perfection

  • @xSweetHoneyBeex
    @xSweetHoneyBeex Před 8 lety

    Great vid, love your lip colour!

  • @leoniebelle709
    @leoniebelle709 Před 8 lety +1

    Your makeup is flawless😻😻

  • @AshiaWilmot
    @AshiaWilmot Před 8 lety

    I love your style! Great tips 😘

  • @shenikajerimie6050
    @shenikajerimie6050 Před 8 lety

    such great advice one of the many reasons i watch you

  • @luciakamara9840
    @luciakamara9840 Před 8 lety +1

    Hiii Shirley,😍👏LOVE your videos. Can u show us how ur keep your closet organise / a closet tour

  • @elizabethgomes50
    @elizabethgomes50 Před 8 lety

    Thanks so much that was very helpful. keep on shining. ☺😊

  • @bosslady1598
    @bosslady1598 Před 8 lety

    I love your style, it's very classy!

  • @enoblaze4528
    @enoblaze4528 Před 8 lety

    This was helpful, thanks Shirley!

  • @BlueprintDIY
    @BlueprintDIY Před 8 lety

    Great video!!!

  • @Iamkeannamakayla
    @Iamkeannamakayla Před 8 lety

    Love the tips thank you so much ❤️

  • @ObedienceOrSacrifice
    @ObedienceOrSacrifice Před 8 lety

    Great tips, all things I've always followed except actually making a list. However, I am very diligent in the fact that if my purpose in shopping is looking for a specific piece that is what I shop for first! TFS!

  • @courtreezy2.0
    @courtreezy2.0 Před 8 lety +1

    wow love your background omg

  • @MichelynBoateng
    @MichelynBoateng Před 8 lety

    Thank you, you are such an inspiration!

  • @TeraiRota
    @TeraiRota Před 8 lety

    Seeing you upload, brings joy to my closet. lols

  • @ejeiskdhf8808
    @ejeiskdhf8808 Před 8 lety

    These tips are really great! Love your denim shirt though! :)