Open Doors: Singapore - Someone Was Watching When She Shoved The Domestic Worker // Viddsee.com

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  • @happylifehappysoul4248
    @happylifehappysoul4248 Před 3 lety +501

    I worked in Singapore we back 2011. Majority of Singaporeans treat their helpers that way. Employers should treat us good, we sacrifice ourselves to be far away from our homeland and take care other people instead of taking care our own parents or children. Now, I'm working in Taiwan and I've been here for 6 years. Taiwanese are friendly and generous. Kudos to all OFW anywhere around the world. We are the real hero of our country. Mabuhay ang mga Pilipino! Mabuhay ang sambayanang Pilipinas.

  • @crystalthow5533
    @crystalthow5533 Před 5 lety +40

    We had a helper too, from Indonesia,she is the best ever of all. Like a second mum to us,we cuddled with her, we annoyed her,we laughed,we still do things when she said no but she has never ever raised her voice. She is such a wonderful person. We love her

  • @mia_mika7603
    @mia_mika7603 Před 7 lety +1306

    Don't wake someone up at 3:00 IN THE MORNING and expect her not to be TIRED AND DROP THE FOOD ON YOU

    • @titan9259
      @titan9259 Před 5 lety +17

      My mom woke me up at 3am but i wasn't tired since my mom told me to sleep early.

    • @alvinarosianalouisiana5249
      @alvinarosianalouisiana5249 Před 5 lety +28

      TheModelFlightChannel its a different thing

    • @claudiaarmah8573
      @claudiaarmah8573 Před 5 lety +8

      It's actually at 3:57 😊

    • @jeez123
      @jeez123 Před 5 lety +14

      @@titan9259 she couldnt sleep early cause of late dinner and everthing

    • @savagethelizardmc3389
      @savagethelizardmc3389 Před 5 lety +15

      She was talking about 3 in the morning, not the time in the video

  • @AnaLuisa491
    @AnaLuisa491 Před 3 lety +208

    The women that have worked for my family are so important, we called them “nana” because it’s so similar to mamá/mom. My cousin lost her parents and her nana was the one that walked her down the aisle. I don’t see them as “service people”, I see them as second mothers or even best friends and confidents, we are all human and we all want and deserve respect.

    • @iscezbal8
      @iscezbal8 Před 3 lety +5

      Your Parents had taught you well.
      GOD bless you & all loving, kind Domestic Helpers...

    • @yourlocalsavagepeppa9925
      @yourlocalsavagepeppa9925 Před 2 lety

      This is the right mindset u have 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @reginawaridivlog
      @reginawaridivlog Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/GrODhiEdllU/video.html #domesticworker in #saudiArabia

  • @cowboykpop1861
    @cowboykpop1861 Před 5 lety +160

    Respect bathroom cleaners and cleaners and malls and stuff. My mom always gives me money when I’m in the washroom of a mall to give to the bathroom cleaners and they always say thank you or smile and it’s nice.

  • @J.a.n.e.3.6.5
    @J.a.n.e.3.6.5 Před 5 lety +69

    All Singaporean employers must watch and learn from this. One of my friend have been stuck being a maid in Singapore. She told me how hard her life is/was. and she isn't able to get out of this.

  • @joenilynmalaya4425
    @joenilynmalaya4425 Před 5 lety +268

    When I watch this video ,I cried I am also a domestic helper here in hongkong , my first experience is not good , I feel this kind of situation it's not easy but we love our family that's why we have more patience and more humbleness always pleasing the employers , it's not easy to deal other people that we dont know from morning until night , we feel tired too,most of the time we feel lonely and sad but we have to hide the sadness so we can work good.

  • @s.a.hbarmarymary9786
    @s.a.hbarmarymary9786 Před 7 lety +780

    maids are humans too they also deserve some basic human rights...some mercy that is...sick heads...maid is just also a carrier...and as an employer they should know their rights and also their workers rights...

    • @s.a.hbarmarymary9786
      @s.a.hbarmarymary9786 Před 7 lety +2

      yatiber66 aha...im 20

    • @cherputkimtei3238
      @cherputkimtei3238 Před 7 lety +2

      S.a.hbarmary Mary
      your right

    • @lwoly.
      @lwoly. Před 5 lety

      man u are so kind :) i think the same way as u . i got a new maid she is working in our house for 2 yrs i threat her nice just like all humans do are are human there is nothing deferent about us . :)

    • @singphililove7800
      @singphililove7800 Před 5 lety

      +Guang Ming Ten that is very nice to hear, I am a domestic helper in Singapore

    • @lwoly.
      @lwoly. Před 5 lety

      @@singphililove7800 thx

  • @siajambuba
    @siajambuba Před 5 lety +143

    I love my maid so much.. she past away 2 years ago in her hometown indonesia due to her health condition. Miss her. Tq God for gv us the opputurnity to knw her.

    • @JasonYJS_xoxo
      @JasonYJS_xoxo Před 3 lety +7

      I'm sorry to hear that, it seems like for any maid we hire, we must treat them like a human. I'm sure she's watching u and your family from heaven. Send my deepest condolences to the maid🙏

    • @geetapapani
      @geetapapani Před 3 lety +1

      me at 100th comment

    • @julesoxana3630
      @julesoxana3630 Před 3 lety

      So sorry to hear that🙏

    • @ilikeswedishmeatballs
      @ilikeswedishmeatballs Před 3 lety

      Rip fellow human

  • @linylucia3054
    @linylucia3054 Před 2 lety +29

    I was a domestic helper in Singapore for almost 12 years. I was so lucky I had a good employer. They treated me as one of their family member.

  • @volnerrobertson8015
    @volnerrobertson8015 Před 4 lety +447

    Just remember one sentence
    What children saw, children copy

    • @Nietabs
      @Nietabs Před 4 lety +10

      Such a meaningful quote

    • @susiladeviduraisamy7388
      @susiladeviduraisamy7388 Před 3 lety +5

      Yes correct

    • @joenilynmalaya4425
      @joenilynmalaya4425 Před 3 lety +4

      Exactly ,

    • @ems_official
      @ems_official Před 3 lety +2

      Ofc thts what happen to me too as a big sister in the family, whatever i do my lil sis and brother always copying me like habits and anything, so thts why i always tried to showing them good habits and good attitude so they can see it and do it in good way.

    • @susir6908
      @susir6908 Před 3 lety +1

      In Singapore we say monkey see monkey do

  • @amywan5903
    @amywan5903 Před 6 lety +575

    I have a Cambodian maid. Less than 6 months after working with me, I told her I want to bring her home to her country that she can celebrate her new year with family. It was a great holiday for me as I learn how they live in the village without running water and electricity. I was staying with her family. We had a great time and the village ppl welcome me with open arms. I treat my maid like my own daughter. Along the months, I was assisting Cambodian Embassy who asked my help to house few abused Cambodian maids by employers in Malaysia. And trust me the horror on the degree of abuse they suffered are terrifying. Some were beaten up so badly, starved and made to live in the dog kennel and some ran into the jungle to leave their employee house. The bruises and tears on their face will always leave an impact on me. I just cannot imagine how horrible some ppl can be, just because they are "sir,mem, boss". To those ppl who have maids, pls don't think you are ENTITLED to treat your maids/staff with abuse. It is plain sick. If you have problem of your own, deal with it instead of taking out on others.

    • @salt2123
      @salt2123 Před 5 lety +11

      Amy Wan I'm Cambodian
      And I appreciate your concern for Cambodian people

    • @leeona5200
      @leeona5200 Před 5 lety +4

      I'm cambodia

    • @mikedc1939
      @mikedc1939 Před 5 lety +11

      I am A Filipino but I adore you Maam for being so kind. God bless you

    • @ellenbanito4371
      @ellenbanito4371 Před 5 lety +7

      agree indeed,because I have tried to work in hk as a dh to a Korean family and chinese family too,unluckily that these 2 employers are not good to me,they treat me as a slave because they are paying me. . . . relate much. . . .

    • @slongvic
      @slongvic Před 5 lety +3

      Where are you from, Amy? I am Cambodian from Houston, US.

  • @clarezellechristy
    @clarezellechristy Před 6 lety +250

    Omg my tears are droping 😢😢
    I'm an Indonesian domestic helper, I can't imagine if my employer treat me like that, luckily me I had a great employer

    • @RA-id1cg
      @RA-id1cg Před 5 lety +20

      @@saikiranoruganti the middle east has one of the worst cases of abuse towards their domestic workers..unbelievable!!

    • @AnaCatherineBastian
      @AnaCatherineBastian Před 5 lety +11

      @@RA-id1cg I'm here in Middle East but blessed of having my Australian employer. I am holding my passport, ID's and I have weekly day off as well as public holidays. But you are right, there are some employers who do that.

    • @lyn9306
      @lyn9306 Před 4 lety +3

      @@saikiranoruganti they did that to me also..

    • @pogiit4788
      @pogiit4788 Před 4 lety +4

      I working here in Singapore as a maid,my employer kept my passport, even though the embassy told her and I told her also that we must keep our own passport, but yet she still insist that she must keep it

    • @marialidat.1252
      @marialidat.1252 Před 4 lety +2

      Lucky you..God blessed you..

  • @neeid8712
    @neeid8712 Před 4 lety +51

    As Indonesian, I am proud of being Javanese. Parents was being figure in teaching good attitude and good manner.

  • @sabah4123
    @sabah4123 Před 4 lety +294

    Treat these people the way you would like to be treated, with RESPECT! U are no better. 🤷‍♀️🇦🇺

    • @commenterperson4481
      @commenterperson4481 Před 4 lety +9

      "Treat these people the way -you- _they_ would like to be treated"

    • @aimeesalonga5723
      @aimeesalonga5723 Před 4 lety +2

      Parents are children’s role model, whatever they see and hear from us their parents they thought its the right thing to do, we must be very careful on our actions in front of our children.

    • @pavani7177
      @pavani7177 Před 3 lety +3

      Dhar mann fam.... right?😁

    • @austinopara3688
      @austinopara3688 Před 3 lety +1

      Sabah you are right dear

  • @lalaland8112
    @lalaland8112 Před 2 lety +44

    Made me tear up to watch this. I am so close to my domestic helper, we moved to NZ and she was with us in Singapore for 2 years. She was second mother to mY son. And the bond is way more than just a employer and employee. We still video call every week and I send presents to her new employer's home for occasion. She will always be a part of our family now. But I know helpers are treated this way and worse at times sadly

  • @bellwalton
    @bellwalton Před 7 lety +149

    the beginning part is very realistic I see many employers behave like that!! this is educational. good job

    • @Prometheus574
      @Prometheus574 Před 2 lety +1

      Same when you are working at a workplace where Singaporeans are in-charge of the HR/Management position. That's the reason the Singapore Government need to remove or downgrade (demoted) all Singaporeans from top positions in most companies and replace them with foreign talents.

    • @sdn69ombolataalasa57
      @sdn69ombolataalasa57 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Prometheus574 Rightt. There's a difference between discipline or just plain rude

  • @truecullurz8o8
    @truecullurz8o8 Před 7 lety +125

    Thank goodness she realized what a horrible evil person she was and turned her behavior around and treated the help with respect. I love this video!

    • @jocelyncao9233
      @jocelyncao9233 Před rokem

      The urgly singaporean dont just change overnight😂

    • @alexandramoyer8785
      @alexandramoyer8785 Před 8 měsíci

      @@jocelyncao9233keep your racist comment to yourself

    • @jocelyncao9233
      @jocelyncao9233 Před 8 měsíci

      @@alexandramoyer8785 singaporean is not a race. Keep your stupidity to yourself.

  • @j56samsung33
    @j56samsung33 Před 4 lety +164

    When i remember work in singapore make me feel so sad, very sad(because have employer so bad)😭
    and now I'm work in taiwan, i'm very lucky have employer like my family,,, 😍
    Singapore and taiwan is good country😍

    • @arumchenlingling2458
      @arumchenlingling2458 Před 4 lety +1

      Taiwan is good

    • @lyn9306
      @lyn9306 Před 4 lety +7

      when i was in Dubai i have also experienced like this kind of treatment in my employer..
      but when i working here in Taiwan as a factory worker my life was changed i am so happy and blessed.. my Taiwanese boss they are so kind to me.

    • @kombetant6577
      @kombetant6577 Před 4 lety

      Confused

    • @Luke_05
      @Luke_05 Před 4 lety +1

      Seems like Taiwan actually has rights.

    • @MelayVlog
      @MelayVlog Před 4 lety

      @@lyn9306 maam my age limit po ba factory worker sa taiwan maam

  • @1Surinamer
    @1Surinamer Před 3 lety +11

    OMG i Love these kind of movies. They teach good and highlight the positive...and that is exactly what the world needs now!

  • @Karthi-or9yt
    @Karthi-or9yt Před 5 lety +13

    I was almost in tears! Treat everyone nicely, because we all are equal, and everyone deserves to be treated nicely.

  • @claritahabal7988
    @claritahabal7988 Před 6 lety +10

    Made me cry.. I was lucky to have my employers in Singapore and treated me like a member of the family. Proud that Lynn and Aileen are both lawyers now.

  • @SangSokSereyOFFICIAL
    @SangSokSereyOFFICIAL Před 7 lety +210

    Everyone is inspiration just share your kindness and give your respect to each other nothing waste!

    • @shahshah121
      @shahshah121 Před 6 lety

      Sang SokSerey OFFICIAL k

    • @backintobalance9542
      @backintobalance9542 Před 6 lety

      Sang SokSerey OFFICIAL When we arrived Taxi said “Nothing free in singapore” and expensive and yes they have poor people and homeless and they exploit the poor Asian countries as maids and give $300 a month. Lots of workers from Asian countries living in rooms of 40 beds in a building by employer. Beggars on the street.

    • @mayurski
      @mayurski Před 6 lety

      ew no

  • @denisewong1006
    @denisewong1006 Před 5 lety +17

    I can't understand why people mistreat domestic helpers. My domestic helper (who's also from the Philippines) has been taking care of me and my sister since we were born, and she loves us as if we were her own children. She does everything without complaint and cares deeply for me and my family. In return, my family would always remind me and my sister to respect and treat our domestic helper kindly. She is like a second mother to me and my sister and I truly wish her happiness when she retires.

  • @sandralia7588
    @sandralia7588 Před 4 lety +243

    2019.. siapa yg nonton film ini kita sesama pembantu pasti tersentuh hti nx... hdir dri dubai

    • @ytyhoho7176
      @ytyhoho7176 Před 4 lety +1

      Q babu hkg ce, wes ngis kwet mau liht film ini

    • @sandralia7588
      @sandralia7588 Před 4 lety

      @@ytyhoho7176 ya sm aq jga sedih nonton film ini.. krna sesama nasif

    • @danimarwan8374
      @danimarwan8374 Před 4 lety

      Tapi sayang yng ku alami jauh dari kenyataan memang tak ada kesempurnaan dlm diri manusia saya sadari itu semoga Allah senantiasa menguatkanku dlm ujian ini

    • @sandralia7588
      @sandralia7588 Před 4 lety

      @@danimarwan8374 amiiin... kita serah kan aja sma allah yg bisa membantu kita.. selama kita msih di luar negri dengan niat krja yg baik.. amin

    • @user-zc8ve4zr9c
      @user-zc8ve4zr9c Před 4 lety +1

      Taiwan hadir

  • @hishamlee3144
    @hishamlee3144 Před 7 lety +71

    This type of film brings positivity :')

  • @holaquetal4066
    @holaquetal4066 Před 3 lety +157

    This is a reality in those countries in Asia. Specially in Hong Kong 🥺

    • @meenas5037
      @meenas5037 Před 3 lety +1

      Even in Singapore too

    • @No-yj3tv
      @No-yj3tv Před 3 lety +1

      Classism is another level in asia, esp singapore.

    • @alexanderip1003
      @alexanderip1003 Před 3 lety +3

      I am against the idea of hiring these domestic helpers as it is akin to modern slavery

    • @JR-ez3zd
      @JR-ez3zd Před 3 lety

      It's a fact if you respect others you will be respected! This is not respect or honor!

    • @holaquetal4066
      @holaquetal4066 Před 3 lety +3

      @@JR-ez3zd are you saying that the made is not respecting others or herself? And that is why the boss is being disrespectful?
      I don't quite understand your comment

  • @SwitzG
    @SwitzG Před 2 lety +5

    I'm housekeeper here in Switzerland.I'm very happy and lucky with my employers. They always appreciate my work and always gives me something like flowers, chocolates, gifts, thank you cards and tips. I do my best to give 5 star quality of service and dedication and of course honesty and integrity. Salute to all heros (helpers)around the world. God bless us all!

  • @flowerbloom8929
    @flowerbloom8929 Před 5 lety +119

    This is still happening today ..still many employer attitude as seen on the vidio..
    They think they bought a slave instead a helper..work many still ask her to do massage..

    • @BigBoss-kk8hq
      @BigBoss-kk8hq Před 4 lety +1

      What's the difference between buying a slave versus a helper?

    • @thefluffables9008
      @thefluffables9008 Před 3 lety +3

      @@BigBoss-kk8hq Helpers choose to help out of their own will when you can't handle it. They are very much like casual butlers. Slaves just do whatever their 'masters' asks them to. They do it without the will to do it, they do it because they have no choice and it's the only way for them to survive and are treated inhumanely and as objects or tools and get rewarded or paid very little. Helpers do it out of their own will, but because of strong laws, they get paid well enough, if not, exceeding the amount most get paid. There may be underlying reasons, but regardless, it's still something they choose to do. Slaves can't choose. Slaves are forced to do things. Whether they want to or not. And it's cruel. I hate that slaves still exists today. Even if it's not obvious, I'm certain they do in some places. Helpers are to treated with respect and have back up because they're most likely working in areas with strict laws to protect them, but slaves are probably sold and found in rural areas or something of the sort as sch areas probably don't have strong enough laws to stop such cruel activities. Helpers can file a report when they are being abused whereas slaves are seen as objects and tools, something to be used, and no matter where they go to try and find help, they will be treated with mockery and cruelty and be disregarded in most cases. It's cruel. Also, if you really want to know answers to things, go to Google. At least, that way, no one would have to tolerate your questions with patience in order to keep the peace and not explode in your face. It exists for a reason.

    • @temujinkhan6326
      @temujinkhan6326 Před 3 lety +1

      @@BigBoss-kk8hq There is a saying there is no such thing as a stupid question but this question proves that saying wrong.

    • @justmesweetmay4901
      @justmesweetmay4901 Před 3 lety

      @@thefluffables9008 dont bother explaining anything over a stupid question...He is a BIG BOSS...let him figure it out...its not worth your time..☺

    • @eidokun
      @eidokun Před 3 lety

      @@BigBoss-kk8hq You have so much to learn as a person, cannot differentiate between a helper and a slave? Lmao

  • @joyhu7684
    @joyhu7684 Před 4 lety +102

    She is like Harry Potter, living is a broom cupboard.

  • @pauuweeb
    @pauuweeb Před 5 lety +104

    We had a maid at home when i was a kid, well she was more my mother than my own was to me. My mother was an alcoholic and an abusive woman and was always insane, she would always beat me since i was the youngest, the most vulnerable, and yet always after that Nene(the maid) was always there to take care of us. She never quit even if my mother would slap and yell at her saying she was my father's mistress, even though it wasn't true. She was the mother figure i had since childhood. i was born on 2003 and she was with my family before i was born and took care of my older siblings before me. She was not only our caretaker because she was being paid for it, it was because we were practically her children even tho she has one of her own. Now 2019 she's still here with her 5th grader son, her son lived with us, and is still taking care of us even after our grandmother, her employer, had passed away without pay. She is my godmother and her son is my cousin. I luv her soo much and although her family is far from here, she still stays and that's why im thankful for her. I just wanted to share this😂😂

  • @jforjournalbyririn9840
    @jforjournalbyririn9840 Před 7 lety +140

    my tears suddenly came out ... when i watched this movie

  • @sammyer4625
    @sammyer4625 Před 3 lety +8

    For those people with maids, it's for your own good to treat them well as you wanted to be treated. Your life will be easy .... remember your children are watching and no matter what happened you will have a clear and clean conscience. Those Filipino maids are hardworking and will love your children, they are also respectful.

  • @ChaChaChaRisse673
    @ChaChaChaRisse673 Před 5 lety +9

    Here in the Philippines, the OFW (Overseas Filipino Workers) especially the domestic workers are considered modern-day heroes. They have helped keep our economy afloat with the remittances they send back to their families here. Mabuhay ang mga OFWs! ❤

    • @jennyhateseverything
      @jennyhateseverything Před 2 měsíci

      Duterte and Marcos are shit corrupt politicians who would rather sell their people than make the Philippines stable enough to not have to resort to going abroad and being a literal slave

  • @aishwaryaparthasarathy349
    @aishwaryaparthasarathy349 Před 3 lety +16

    This is such an eye opener ... every human deserve respect 👍

  • @ellenfelix1157
    @ellenfelix1157 Před 7 lety +1106

    who is reading the comments while watching?

  • @janetan458
    @janetan458 Před 7 lety +318

    i think the wife jealous of the daughter u see the face she give when the husband give a loooooong kiss on the daughter but not her...i think shes like:WAT ABOUT ME????
    😂😂😂😂

  • @domingolumugdang1101
    @domingolumugdang1101 Před 5 lety +8

    I'm crying my first impression, in this employer our Filipino Ofw worker in Singapore! And then the last very warm to accept our Ofw to join eating, very touch!

  • @hermajestykatrina
    @hermajestykatrina Před 3 lety +7

    My sister worked for a rich family in Singapore. She doesn't get a day off. She was not able to finish her contract and have to ask for help from her agency because the grandma of that family is treating her badly. Sadly, not every one gets the help they need and are stuck to such a horrible working situation. No one deserves to be treated badly.

  • @azizahputri54
    @azizahputri54 Před 5 lety +625

    yg orang indonesia like dong...sagat megispirasi tkw

    • @tiaraputri9609
      @tiaraputri9609 Před 4 lety

      Mjikan baik kita jga kerja senang lah,,,

    • @muetiyaformosa4458
      @muetiyaformosa4458 Před 4 lety

      Aku.. Tp aq krj ditaiwan

    • @azizahputri54
      @azizahputri54 Před 4 lety +1

      @@muetiyaformosa4458 sama me aku juga di taiwan

    • @azizahputri54
      @azizahputri54 Před 4 lety +1

      @@tiaraputri9609 betul tapi perlu ambil hati biasanya walaupun majikan baik kan baru kenal jadi banyak waspada....ya

    • @muetiyaformosa4458
      @muetiyaformosa4458 Před 4 lety +1

      @@azizahputri54 pean daerah mn ce

  • @jynxoperiano7199
    @jynxoperiano7199 Před 7 lety +158

    Not too late to change....😂always remember that regardless of our financial status when we die our grave are the same size....!Stay humble and respect the people surrounds you..!!!Esp.ur helpers..!

    • @sss-vx4mv
      @sss-vx4mv Před 6 lety +2

      Jynx Operiano Actually they arent. Some graves are burried deeper, and some graves are wider depending on the person's height and their casket.

    • @legionmaniac-9202
      @legionmaniac-9202 Před 6 lety

      әбɐssәɯ ʇәɹɔәs true

    • @DivineC0611Jocel
      @DivineC0611Jocel Před 5 lety

      I am a Maid with best employers , we have a relationship based on respect to each other's rights, sensitivity to needs, forgiveness for sometimes mistakes are committed, humility and a lot more. I am not perfect, my employers are not perfect but we treat each other with RESPECT.
      I've been with them for 5 years now. Having a Maid is not something employers to boast for and or does not give employers the right for domestic abuse/racism. Rather, it's a privilege, they should be grateful (most especially if they hired a very nice, competitive, learned maid).

    • @aimeesalonga5723
      @aimeesalonga5723 Před 5 lety

      әбɐssәɯ ʇәɹɔәs its just a saying.

  • @janelee6765
    @janelee6765 Před 7 lety +663

    I'd be very scared if my employer treated me so good. Lol

    • @tanianotfound
      @tanianotfound Před 7 lety +5

      Jane Lee lol ikr xD

    • @roy4816
      @roy4816 Před 7 lety +38

      Jane Lee Wtf. Did you actually read what you typed ? What is so wrong about your employer treating u that nicely that makes u scared. In the video its just a simple thing like giving a day off and letting her join them for dinner , things that employers should do to maids. Afterall , maids are HELPERS not SLAVES. Your comment is just evidence to show how ignorant and ungrateful Singaporeans are.

    • @janelee6765
      @janelee6765 Před 7 lety

      Lol

    • @btsjungkookielove2877
      @btsjungkookielove2877 Před 7 lety +37

      Every human being deserves respect ,no matter what race or what they work as towards u.And if ur employer treats u kindly it just means she respects u the way u respect her,hope u understand that Jane.

    • @janelee6765
      @janelee6765 Před 7 lety +32

      BtsJungkookie Love nah it's not that I don't understand. If I were treated well from the start, i would not mind. But if my employer treat me badly at the beginning and suddenly treating me so good, it feels like I will get in a trap or something. It's just like If your pay is $500 per month, and suddenly your employer decided to pay you $10,000 just because he knows you deserve that and he was wrong for paying you so little. But I as the employee, I would rather decline the $10,000 and just take $500 every month unless I get increment according to the company policy. In the society, people have millions of faces looking at other people. In 2017, yes you can find kind hearted people, but it's really rare. In my country, most people are not in mind, we only can trust ourself to live this life.

  • @rujet14
    @rujet14 Před 7 lety +259

    I feel scared for the maid... gosh I had maid in my home from baby to about primary 3. we never treat our maid like that even if there is any maid that live with us lives with me in my room not the kitchen or the store room.... and our maid gets time off but not every week she gets it once every 2-3 months and her break can last from 1 week to 1 month....

    • @chaihidalgo588
      @chaihidalgo588 Před 7 lety +3

      rujet14 thats great Maam Godbless

    • @jinglelim6731
      @jinglelim6731 Před 7 lety +6

      rujet14 when I was younger I had a maid she was called tini so we called her Kaka Tini she left a couple years later cause she was in love and found the perfect guy now I'm good friends with her and her twins

    • @imenngelia-gaming8703
      @imenngelia-gaming8703 Před 6 lety +2

      rujet14 ME TOO! She went back last year and came back around May.. She sleeps on my bed with me.. it was technically my bed, since she didn't have a bed when she came back.. I let her sleep on mine.. on Mondays To Thursdays, I sleep with her so that she can wake me up in the morning for school... I'm still so glad that I still have her
      Mine was BEFORE I WAS BORN she was already here...
      We know so much about them..
      But she only gets a day off sometimes only twice in once month...sometimes she has to borrow money from her friends because my dad keeps asking for money..
      Sometimes I feel like not happy because she doesn't have off-days when she is suppose to have it... I'm Chinese but can speak Filipino FLUENTLY Because she taught me everything...

    • @TestTest123ization
      @TestTest123ization Před 6 lety +8

      I know you guys treat your maids well. I'm not saying you guys are bad but I think it's too much to have just 1 day off in 2-3 months. How would maids self-improve and progress from being a maid? Never mind that. But does your employer give you 1 day off in 2-3 months and keep your passport?

    • @ird4489
      @ird4489 Před 6 lety +1

      Sometimes a maid is ill treated by an employer because of the maid's fault like unprofessional work/break the contract. But this video just shows an unreasonable employer so the maid cannot be blamed.

  • @dawnnicolas7617
    @dawnnicolas7617 Před 5 lety +10

    Always treat people the way you wish to be treated! 😇💜

  • @bhuvanamani9151
    @bhuvanamani9151 Před 2 lety +2

    We always have respected them helpers back in India not live ins and usually it is us who have adjusted with no notice absence 🥴 but we also were vv lucky to have had a few v honest and hardworking ladies . 🤘🏼🧡

  • @bibashgurung5015
    @bibashgurung5015 Před 7 lety +36

    it was really heart touching and emotional
    but the director forgot one clip that is to also give on e good room at last

  • @justmesweetmay4901
    @justmesweetmay4901 Před 3 lety +4

    This proves...the parents are still the best example...that growing kids should witness..agree

  • @serpihanhati5964
    @serpihanhati5964 Před 4 lety +4

    Dulu q jg kj d'SG slma 6thn alhamdulillah bos sgt baik
    Skrg pindh ke Taiwan alhamdulillah dpt bos yg baik jg
    Taipe Taiwan Menyapa 😊
    Semangat yh teman2 tki

  • @najatsinclair1867
    @najatsinclair1867 Před 3 lety +10

    When I was in Singapore, I was shocked to see big crowds of girls spending their day off in parks. In the beginning, I didn't understand it till I sent a photo to my neighbour back in Vancouver telling her about it. She then informed me that these girls were employed as nannies or maids. So Sunday was their day off. They spent the whole day in the park as they didn't have anywhere else to go. So they picnicked with other maids or nannies. My neighbour told me, she was a nanny in Singapore too, that the majority of these girls were ill-treated and considered worse than animals. They had no privacy, they couldn't invite their friends, and they were restricted and shackled by many rules. Only the lucky ones could enjoy being a part of the family.

  • @mb8456
    @mb8456 Před rokem +1

    Such a sweet story. It moved me to tears. Every human deserves respect and we'll treatment. Nothing matters more than that.

  • @jaydon3596
    @jaydon3596 Před 6 lety +31

    i’m actually so done with employers abusing their maids. they are humans too and they deserve equal amounts of respect like how people treat us / how we treat others. i have a maid at home and my grandma lives with us. i hate it when she starts screaming at her as well. so what if the maids are foreigners and aren’t “family”. they are still human as well, and since they’re willing to work at your home and away from their country and home, they should be treated as family as well. those employers out there who abuse their maids, i have 8 words to say to you; screw you, get a life and some help

  • @babiesdreamworld4208
    @babiesdreamworld4208 Před 2 lety +5

    One of the good videos I ever watched. That mom realised and corrected her mistakes. But here, if we treat our maids equal, they use to dodge their duties and take advantage.

  • @shelakroes990
    @shelakroes990 Před 7 lety +26

    no matter what you are,respect each other we all same human being all equal,and the important thing very good example for the young ganeration.

  • @ellew8926
    @ellew8926 Před 4 lety +1

    omg i still remember i had a friend who has a maid who also called aunty lisa. shes from the Philippines and wow she's so kind. she has the mother feeling. i remember as a young kid ,, my friends and i always fight. but shes always there to guide us not to fight. i just wanna thank all our domestic helper for being so loving

  • @ratnadesy7062
    @ratnadesy7062 Před 4 lety +69

    Ada nya cerita ini semoga para employers memperlakukan pekerja dgn baik.. Krn kami tkw juga dtg ke negara orang tidak gratis, kami bayar dgn potong gaji..

    • @darwantibasir3881
      @darwantibasir3881 Před 4 lety

      Bener say

    • @jannahsby7489
      @jannahsby7489 Před 4 lety

      Lagek ngrti nek d kon byr

    • @ranycollection1389
      @ranycollection1389 Před 4 lety +3

      Orang china boss mu y
      Teruk lh ..china tu kbnykn sombong sifat ny arrogant angkuh ..
      Baik kalau dpt boss tu orang inggris bulek mereka punya sifat yg mendidik dn tahu akan menghargai orang lain itu seperti apa ...

    • @adinugroho2015
      @adinugroho2015 Před 4 lety

      Sabar ya

    • @bundakubundaku1138
      @bundakubundaku1138 Před 4 lety +2

      @@ranycollection1389 Alhamdulillah bosku China dan saya bersyukur sudah 5tahun cocok g pernh komplen angpao 1x gaji g semua orag China begitu

  • @sellysan5308
    @sellysan5308 Před 5 lety +39

    Aq melihat ini tak berhenti meneteskan air mata,karena mengingat kan aq ke masa lalu karena aq pernah mengalami seperti itu disaat pertama merantao di singapura bahkan lebih parah dari itu.

    • @jdchannel6959
      @jdchannel6959 Před 4 lety +3

      No surprise buddy,Singapore is cruel hahaha dalam 2 thn 7bln ganti bos 3x n satupun gak ada yg baik,saat umurku baru 16 n lulus smp kesingapura

    • @meyzuhongmey3759
      @meyzuhongmey3759 Před 4 lety +2

      sabar

    • @amyrahayu3460
      @amyrahayu3460 Před 4 lety +2

      Sama......bahkan lebih parah dr ini
      No holiday,no cellphone,no money

    • @manceecee4836
      @manceecee4836 Před 4 lety +1

      Sama....saya juga mau nangis.....nonton pas lagi di singapore....persisnya di kallang

    • @ssstres1579
      @ssstres1579 Před 4 lety +2

      kbnykn agensi singapor juga mjkn sama kyak gtu

  • @bot-sy9110
    @bot-sy9110 Před 5 lety +6

    Although it may show a little exaggerations, it is good to remind everyone to be kind to those who don’t have the power as we do. At home or at work, and every where we are at.

  • @nurnajmuddin1586
    @nurnajmuddin1586 Před 6 lety +4

    This is so heartbreaking and it's really touch my heart for the last scene where the woman realised her wrongdoing.😢

  • @deekshayadav9887
    @deekshayadav9887 Před 2 lety +1

    These people are really blessed who correct their ways. God bless u

  • @jessandjessand3532
    @jessandjessand3532 Před 4 lety +2

    When I watch this video I cried so much... It shows that we need respect people... 💖

  • @kayubread
    @kayubread Před 7 lety +117

    i have a maid she is like my only friend i trust . my parents are very good to her . and this is just to evil if i was her maid i would just change employ

    • @kayubread
      @kayubread Před 7 lety +3

      in the beginning ... missed out that 😅😅 .. at least she know wat she did wrong

    • @kfliew100
      @kfliew100 Před 7 lety

      Charis Nolmo km I "

    • @foodiemeow4782
      @foodiemeow4782 Před 6 lety

      Charis Nolmo I don’t think you can change employers unless you want to get sued because you have to sign a contract

    • @dcinrb8538
      @dcinrb8538 Před 5 lety

      The employer withheld her documents.

  • @annietaurus4191
    @annietaurus4191 Před 5 lety +5

    I've once tried to worked there in Singapore as a DH and my employer let me sleep in the kitchen like a dog. But maybe it was not my luck and i told to myself it was just like a nightmare i don't stay for long because of the way they treated me.
    Thanks God this time I've got a good life and if someone wants to work with me i never treated them as a maid and i treated them as my friend.

  • @mlh4711
    @mlh4711 Před rokem +4

    I own a nanny & maid Agency in S.E.Asia for many years and I can tell u Singaporean employers are like this woman. They behave as if they resent the worker even being there, treat them badly and humiliate them. It is disgusting. I lived in Singapore too over 20 years ago and when I rented my apartment i was introduced to the maid who would keep it clean.....it turns out she lived in my apartment (in a cupboard under the stairs) and she cleaned several apartments in the compound. I increased her salary at the first pay cycle and told her she could have the spare bedroom if she wanted. She didn't take the bedroom but just by offering it to her brought her to tears. I cried too when I saw her reaction. It costs nothing to be nice and so few employers there were nice to their helpers.

  • @vhstape1132
    @vhstape1132 Před 3 lety +2

    We also have a helper that stays with us from when i was born she always took care of me and fed me when i was little and now im 11 and im very happy that shes here with us but sadly once she had to get surgery from getting overworked from my little cousins and now shes healthy and strong and i am very glad and i would be miserable if she ever left❤😍

  • @florilynmojica9256
    @florilynmojica9256 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you very much madame that you've change the way you treat liza. we filipinos are kind, helpful, industrious and obefient so please foreign employers treat them with compassion.

  • @disneyprincessintraining2725

    Good heavens what kind of people do that? I would never treat someone working for me like that. Domestic workers deserve the utmost respect for what they do every day.

    • @Gehslol
      @Gehslol Před 6 lety

      Alex Larson many. But there are as many good as there are bad ones.

  • @-itsblue-9518
    @-itsblue-9518 Před 7 lety +242

    the domastic helper is pretty

  • @mayaaguwa3100
    @mayaaguwa3100 Před 5 lety +9

    Really touched my heart ❤️. Forget your money 💰 and power first be real human being. Beautiful heart ❤️ always makes everything better and beautiful

  • @estipiranti1777
    @estipiranti1777 Před 4 lety +1

    My tears drops watching this video, remember what it happened before. Madam has a good heart, she know what is the best to do for her best attitude her daughter. Allah bless you

  • @DeadPool-sd4mk
    @DeadPool-sd4mk Před 5 lety +23

    They say it's a maid..they hired a maid to do the job ,they paid the maid according to their contract but some doesn't follow the small things that they should provide for the maid according to their contract ,u hired a maid to do MOST of your household chores NOT do ALL the job that u Can or Cannot do.maids are the best workers they can do anything u ask them to do even they dont know how to fix they still try to do it for u...u understand what I mean😁✌

  • @papasang2069
    @papasang2069 Před 7 lety +10

    I'm also domestic helper and it makes me cry I hope I could have madam like her :)

  • @juanitamasian9414
    @juanitamasian9414 Před 5 lety +3

    Excellent! This should be shown to all future employers on how to treat their domestics in a humane manner. Keep on churning videos of this kind. Peace!

  • @bubbleman1081
    @bubbleman1081 Před 7 lety +380

    Is it really that bad in Singapore?

    • @malnutritionboy
      @malnutritionboy Před 7 lety +136

      Calvin Wong not really but there are cases like that

    • @malnutritionboy
      @malnutritionboy Před 7 lety +6

      Calvin Wong this*

    • @LxsaMSPx
      @LxsaMSPx Před 7 lety +14

      no -_- It depends

    • @Welcome2TheInternet
      @Welcome2TheInternet Před 7 lety +72

      Kaekustard 27 it's absolutely as bad as this here in Singapore. there are many documented cases of employers raping the maids.
      they regularly keep the passports too and make them work with only 1 day off per month. there is a documentary on the Bukit Timah maid stores in the mall where they are hiring 17 year old girls from Burma. the legal age is 23.
      it is MUCH worse than this video in a lot of cases

    • @icashara11
      @icashara11 Před 7 lety +30

      Calvin Wong no....Malaysia maybe more worse than Singapore employers

  • @ComradeConfucius
    @ComradeConfucius Před 2 lety

    Old but gold. Parents set the example for their children as they are wind, and their children grass. Grass bends in the direction the wind blows. So parents - always be mindful of your conduct; set a good example for your children as they learn through observing your interactions with others.

  • @wendyng8669
    @wendyng8669 Před 2 lety

    Woah i so proud of the maid as the storeroom was so messy and she does not give up cleaning it she show us she like clean places!

  • @barbiedenoche
    @barbiedenoche Před 7 lety +42

    I'm scared to be an au pair and be treated like this

  • @svrrtvvvreewbt1882
    @svrrtvvvreewbt1882 Před 4 lety +5

    My heart is aching urghh
    The way the woman treats the maid is horrible
    That maid was so sweet she doesn't deserve that woman as an employer.

  • @lindawu2326
    @lindawu2326 Před 5 lety +32

    4:53 she is like SAY WHAT?!

  • @rieandromeda7105
    @rieandromeda7105 Před 2 lety +1

    Lucky Lisa have a wardrobe as a room. When i visiting agency owner houses, their helper doesn't have a space room for rest. Its like visiting relative house when Lebaran comes!

  • @ewomipanyang1047
    @ewomipanyang1047 Před 5 lety +2

    Lisa is pretty adorable that innocence on her face 🙂🙂

  • @raceltolits92
    @raceltolits92 Před 5 lety +5

    I've been thinking that she's a Filipina.. then I saw her passport. Filipino helpers are all around the world. Taking care of other people instead of their own family for money. Please be kind and respect them. :)

  • @liannesings7733
    @liannesings7733 Před 7 lety +201

    CAN'T YOU COOK YOUR OWN DAMN FOOD? MY FAMILY AND I HAVE A MAID AND I STILL COOK MY OWN MEALS AND/OR SNACKS

    • @saloni3912
      @saloni3912 Před 5 lety +10

      I mean sometimes they just don't have time when both parents are working and the kid is very young. This case is the same I think

    • @RA-id1cg
      @RA-id1cg Před 5 lety +5

      @Happy Lemon yeah well that doesnt mean u wake someone in e mrng fr sleep n expect them to cook for u..shes a human being. If yr hungry make somethg that doesnt require any cooking then..but then again even my 10 yr old knows how to cook maggi

    • @HikariMiwa
      @HikariMiwa Před 5 lety +1

      Happy Lemon you could at leat cook instant noodle

    • @alingkinai7520
      @alingkinai7520 Před 5 lety +1

      i cook breakfast for our maid..

    • @veronicacookiez3394
      @veronicacookiez3394 Před 5 lety

      I'm not allowed to cook my own food, but when I ask my maid to cook my food, she'll only cook when my mums at home...:(
      But I don't rlly mind

  • @icashara11
    @icashara11 Před 7 lety +247

    not all the employer behave so bad to the maid.

    • @lizaelizabeth5878
      @lizaelizabeth5878 Před 7 lety +26

      Ica Shara yes right,not all,,but so many people is bad

    • @elishaso
      @elishaso Před 7 lety +5

      +Liza Elizabeth agreed and some are worse

    • @DUSTYALDANIEL
      @DUSTYALDANIEL Před 7 lety +3

      Ica Shara I think 90% behave this way

    • @surubal1710
      @surubal1710 Před 6 lety

      I agree ot not all but many do worser than this but one day they will pay atleast in eldershome i feel sorry for thpse domestic helpers

    • @lalapisy
      @lalapisy Před 6 lety

      Ica Shara my Mom is :D she Own 2 maids than she sent them back

  • @joyninuobehetan9942
    @joyninuobehetan9942 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm working in Singapore 11 year's Thanks to God for gv to me, Good employer until now,
    Aku sampai meneteskan air mata, nntn video ini, 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @tonychocolony2246
    @tonychocolony2246 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow it makes me cry 😭... I hope 🤞 all employees are like this

  • @yongyoketong1048
    @yongyoketong1048 Před 6 lety +10

    Whenever my grandmother tries to scold my helper, I would protect her and tell my grandmother to stop

    • @commenterperson4481
      @commenterperson4481 Před 4 lety +2

      "Protect" is not correct.
      Why isn't the helper able to protect themself?

  • @ziyugao4816
    @ziyugao4816 Před 5 lety +57

    The kid must be so confused, first is Auntie Lisa then it’s Lisa then next day it’s auntie Lisa

    • @JasonYJS_xoxo
      @JasonYJS_xoxo Před 3 lety +1

      Ya, poor her. She shld hv stuck with Auntie Lisa

  • @handsomeT-zf8to
    @handsomeT-zf8to Před 2 lety +4

    The sister of my helper suffered physical abuse from her employer in Saudi Arabia. Her passport was taken and her employer kept hitting her. Everyone found out because the 6 year old son of her employer got in trouble at school and he got that behaviour by seeing the mom abusing the maid and saying swear words at her.

  • @faizas8449
    @faizas8449 Před 5 lety +2

    Omg my heartt😭😭. I wish people in reality would b like this to the ones employed at thier home. World would have been such a beautiful place then 😔♥️

  • @lhedsolis3878
    @lhedsolis3878 Před 2 lety

    I'm in Singapore since 2010 and lucky to find good people to work with and surrounding me

  • @diyroyalty225
    @diyroyalty225 Před 7 lety +85

    i feel bad for the maid

  • @ericlee3336
    @ericlee3336 Před 6 lety +59

    The daughter and the mom had the same attitude

    • @becautious.3517
      @becautious.3517 Před 5 lety +7

      That's because the daughter was copying the mom's behavior. If the principal hadn't called to say what the daughter was doing at school, the mother would continue to treat the helper bad. By listening to the principal, the mother could see that the daughter was doing exactly what she saw her doing to the helper at home.

    • @hori5873
      @hori5873 Před 5 lety

      @@becautious.3517 Yeah

    • @crystalthow5533
      @crystalthow5533 Před 5 lety +2

      Parent is the mirror of little kids

  • @milarchie2816
    @milarchie2816 Před 5 lety +10

    I’m so lucky my employer treat me like her daughter, for 10year plus with them to me they are my second family (my second parents)

    • @jullyscainl7623
      @jullyscainl7623 Před 3 lety

      Good mached focoaa ma very nicely Good Good old mood new models God bless for you famluey all chllieron all good capucles give doactactor gived good mindes

    • @jullyscainl7623
      @jullyscainl7623 Před 3 lety

      Vrey lucky ed good luck y luckily good

  • @l.lucid_
    @l.lucid_ Před 2 lety +2

    lisa finally learnt not to drop plates.

  • @susidz648
    @susidz648 Před 4 lety +1

    Walai cuma sebentar tp drama ini begitu mengena d hati,gk kerasa air mara ngalir sendiri nontonnya .,buat ssudara2ku para pahlawan devisa ,semoga kalian jd orang yg sukses,tercapai semua cita2nya.Aamiin .

  • @rainkaneshiro9430
    @rainkaneshiro9430 Před 5 lety +28

    I Dont know why I dont like to work in Singapore
    When I finish my contract in Taiwan
    I have a Chance to go Singapore But I dont know I just Rejected and i choose to working in Dubai
    And Here I am ...
    I'm in dubai now for Almost 7 Years

    • @africancelebstv174
      @africancelebstv174 Před 4 lety

      Where are you in dubai?

    • @MsAnnas
      @MsAnnas Před 4 lety

      wow dubai sih, kerja housemaid kah kak di dubai ? mewah sekali pasti ya tempatnya

    • @rainkaneshiro9430
      @rainkaneshiro9430 Před 4 lety

      @@africancelebstv174 I'm in Mirdiff

    • @rainkaneshiro9430
      @rainkaneshiro9430 Před 4 lety +1

      @@MsAnnas Iya aku housemaid
      Boss ku tinggal di Flat di lantai 24
      Mewah iya
      Tiap jumat makannya pergi ke resto
      Srg ke mall Juga bawa anak2 main

    • @MsAnnas
      @MsAnnas Před 4 lety

      @@rainkaneshiro9430 pastinya mewah, org dubai kebanyakannya kaya raya, negaranya jg kaya raya mewah2, kakak lewat agent kah itu sampai bisa dpt ke dubai ? jrg kan ya tawaran ke dubai, rata2 ya sekitar Asia timur, especially taiwan hk Singapore

  • @nimfailovethisfood7370
    @nimfailovethisfood7370 Před 7 lety +56

    i am also a maid they are always nag me and telling me just eat bread and rice..but i dont say anything,i just egnore coz i need work..my family onli depend on me..and i dont know anyworks...i am not educated woman..

    • @claudiacastillo1568
      @claudiacastillo1568 Před 6 lety +6

      Stay strong Girl you can make it

    • @silvotorestyles9728
      @silvotorestyles9728 Před 6 lety +4

      You still need proteins and vitamins..so u don't get sick..spare a little money to buy for yourself even if its once a month..so u can be healthy.. Otherwise better days will come my dear.

    • @ird4489
      @ird4489 Před 6 lety +2

      Apparently they did not know the different of maid and slave.

    • @littlemschat1052
      @littlemschat1052 Před 6 lety +1

      I hope u r doing well. If there's not enough to eat do raise it with your agency and MOM at the same time. If it's not too dire and u want to persevere, do invest in some eggs etc. The Buddhist temples also give free vegetarian food. U can Google.

    • @Kittykitten-m4m4
      @Kittykitten-m4m4 Před 5 lety +1

      Ever work for one employer that allow me to eat only white cold rice (overnight and not allow to heat up) no veggie no fruits,drink tap water . Not allow me to go out to buy my personal things,they lock me in the house when they go out. I work for 13 months and i forced them to sendme back to agency. How could we stay a live that way . Just to share my past

  • @niszellaamelia9861
    @niszellaamelia9861 Před 5 lety +6

    My eye tears 😭😭😭😭😭😭
    Remember when i work at singapore...

  • @julesoxana3630
    @julesoxana3630 Před 3 lety

    Respect people who work for and with you, and everyone else.

  • @AjayKumar-un8ew
    @AjayKumar-un8ew Před 3 lety +1

    Sometimes tiny kindness can make someones whole life happy remember tht