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  • čas přidán 15. 02. 2022
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    Reflectors I’m still learning abt yall!
    Ask your questions below so I can respond in true generator fashion

Komentáře • 53

  • @iJaadeeAstrology
    @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety +8

    Reflectors:
    You have problems getting into rxships because you pick people who come from environments that weren’t good for you.
    Anything that comes from a poor environment, will never amount into something positive for you.
    The person has to be from a place that was already supportive to you energetically.
    Also, reflector has to be initiated into the rxship.
    Not an invitation like projector
    Not a response like Generator & MG
    Not initiating yourself like Manifestor
    To be initiated into something means that someone else has started it, someone else has simply opened the door for the beginning to unfold.
    It’s very similar to a mix of invite $ response

  • @Faitholaaaa
    @Faitholaaaa Před 2 lety +12

    I’m a generator and this is so true. I have got to stop feeling guilty for having options & stop putting all my effort into one person😭

  • @mellowthelms6065
    @mellowthelms6065 Před 2 lety +5

    “you try to date people who have not recognized you” 😭😭😭 i don’t even give people the chance to figure out whether they like me or not, i’m just up in their face trying to convince them to see me omg 😔 sad for myself & it needs to stop for real. i’m so tired & i certainly don’t want to go through life with that “bitterness that doesn’t go away”. Lord help me.

  • @AntonVitullo
    @AntonVitullo Před rokem +3

    I’m a manifestor people say I’m too angry . I’m too blunt with people and know their motives too quickly and when I tell them straight up they gone I got Pluto in the 1st

    • @silverroxen2954
      @silverroxen2954 Před 14 dny

      Manifestor here too. I get called intimidating though. I have Pluto Conjunct Ascendant.

  • @alexischantel3073
    @alexischantel3073 Před 2 lety +9

    Before you even finished generator I felt exposed but it’s true I get stuck on the first option committing myself to them before it’s even official 🤦🏾‍♀️ but I’ve been single for while just trying to put all my energy into myself and it feels good but when it’s time for me to date again I will make an effort to try not to do this anymore

  • @ashisawakening
    @ashisawakening Před 2 lety +7

    As a manifesting generator when something excites me I normally indulge in it as long as possible. I will make sure I make it a priority to prioritize what excites me but I have a guilt occasionally how fast I discard anything or anybody once I no longer am excited by it or them. However, Im going to start to inform everyone that I am simply trying this out to see if I can maintain this level of excitement for thing person, place, or thing & once I know I can't I have to be honest.

    • @iJaadeeAstrology
      @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety

      Exactly simply informing will erase a lot of resistance. It’s OK for manifesting Generators to run out of steam for particular interest

    • @MariaMoreno-zs9ep
      @MariaMoreno-zs9ep Před 2 dny

      No but his is me, I literally could be in hinge or bumble and I will automatically discard someone before even giving it a try through text or meeting them simply because I just feel like they are too different from me. Idk, do you guys think I should give it a try with people who I feel are not like me?? 😭😂

  • @NicoleBrinson
    @NicoleBrinson Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you, Jade! This was very helpful, and helped me realize I have been acting in my mani gen energy all along.

  • @ry-hh3js
    @ry-hh3js Před 2 lety +5

    YOOOOOO, I AM A MANIFESTOR AND THIS SHIT MAKES SO MUCH FUCKING SENSE I CANT EVEN BELIEVE IT. I WANNA LEARN MORE ABOUT MYSELF AS A MANIFESTOR OMFG. YOU ARR A GENIUS JADE. CAUSE THIS SHIT SCARY ACCURATE. 💗🙏🏽😔😭

    • @iJaadeeAstrology
      @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety +4

      I know right!!! Check out @tarotbybronx they have a manifestor video up!
      And check out my highlights on Instagram on Putin, he’s a manifestor
      @iJaadeeAstro

    • @ry-hh3js
      @ry-hh3js Před 2 lety

      @@iJaadeeAstrology okay thank u so much jade. I already follow you on Twitter. I'm gonna head to Instagram.

  • @rdpcl
    @rdpcl Před 2 lety +9

    I'm a Manifesting Generator and meeting new people - especially if they're vastly different from me and people I already know - is my nightmare. I only meet new people through work or studying, so we're already quite similar, because I'm really afraid of venturing outside my bubble. How can I embrace this part of me?

    • @iJaadeeAstrology
      @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety +3

      The options just need to be different from each other, not necessarily different from you

    • @LB-kd8bi
      @LB-kd8bi Před 2 lety

      Same. I’m completely the same. I’m a routine person and if you’re not randomly around i won’t see you.

  • @Nd93440
    @Nd93440 Před 2 lety

    Man gen made 1000% sense and for the last 2+ years I have been exploring polyamory and Ethical Non Monogamy and increasing my amounts of communication. I kinda got confused for a while questioning if this is right for me but this reminded me to listen to myself and keep communicating, even if im interested in closed relationships with a specific person/people but dont know if long term commitment (specifically marriage etc.) is right. I appreciate the “lets try it out” approach and the dialogue it brings. Thank you for this ♥️

  • @gabby6384
    @gabby6384 Před 2 lety +2

    oh my god this is so true…. i’m a generator and realizing i do this literally for EVERYTHING.

  • @SagRising19
    @SagRising19 Před rokem +1

    I'm with a MG and I'm a Mental Projector and I was his 3rd option. I always passively waited for him to recognize me..just went with the flow...and it worked. When I initiated something it failed bad!!!!! Great video

  • @monetwhiteside8242
    @monetwhiteside8242 Před 2 lety +1

    Omg wow ! I’m a generator and I was just thinking the other days the reason why my dating life is dry is because I made it that way but cutting off everybody else to try to force commitment out of someone that clearly doesn’t want that right now ! And it’s hard but I’m allowing myself to be open again

  • @seeitmentally
    @seeitmentally Před 2 lety +3

    My Aries venus not gonna like this 💀💀💀 Thank you for your insight Jade! I love how articulate you always are 💓

  • @deilen961
    @deilen961 Před 2 lety +11

    thank you for specifically talking about ManGens! I get really confused when people just group us in with Generators and don't explain the nuanced differences cause I don't understand enough to be able to make that leap myself
    really love these videos, i learn best with videos and struggle with books, and i've had a hard time finding people talking about HD that i connect with and can understand - thank you for making them cause i feel like we're on the same wavelength with teaching and studying (i heard someone say it's about being on the same fractal or something...?)
    have you studied HD and health at all? i learnt recently that there's something about sleep in my bodygraph and it blew my mind cause I've been NEEDING practical advice on health stuff, i know my body works differently I've just been figuring it out in the dark so I'm hyped at the potential to get info on it

    • @CosmicAirhead
      @CosmicAirhead Před 2 lety +1

      I am a ManGen too, and I am loving these videos. I am curious about HD and health too. My bodygraph indicated that I digest hot food better. A few years ago, I started drinking warm/hot water rather than cold water. People always looked at me strange. At the time, I didn't know it was actually something that benefitted my body. I literally stopped drinking cold drinks and a lot of my digestive issues went away.

    • @deilen961
      @deilen961 Před 2 lety +2

      @@CosmicAirhead that's so cool!! I had a similar thing happen with sleep in my bodygraph, would have saved me years of extreme insomnia to learn that earlier lmao

    • @iJaadeeAstrology
      @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety +4

      I have been getting into HD and health little by little!
      Mani gen can focus on more things long term at a time than generator, and they are able to do things more quickly after responding and informing.
      They go in with a bit more force

    • @LB-kd8bi
      @LB-kd8bi Před 2 lety

      @@deilen961 hey where did you find info regarding hd & insomnia. I’m looking for anything that can help at this point.

  • @applejackzo
    @applejackzo Před rokem

    Dang. You are so right. The same goes for friendships for me too (as a generator)

  • @Itsbabyj1
    @Itsbabyj1 Před 2 lety +1

    FACTS!!!!!! As a generator I relate so much.

  • @whitneychanell
    @whitneychanell Před 10 měsíci +1

    I’m a generator and I’m learning to be patient and explore options and life is great rn lol

  • @sabrinarene6909
    @sabrinarene6909 Před rokem

    Projector here. I have always invited myself into every relationship I’ve been interested in (whether they were recognizing me or not) now I know NOT TO!

  • @thegreentree1950
    @thegreentree1950 Před 2 lety

    OMG, she called me out. She is right.

  • @joiqualawilliams3915
    @joiqualawilliams3915 Před rokem

    How do you know if you’re a generator projector manifestor , mani gen ?

  • @parishapeach
    @parishapeach Před rokem

    I can’t believe she would put is mani gens at the very end of the video, knowing good and well we skip steps 😭🤣

    • @parishapeach
      @parishapeach Před rokem

      Now I gotta go back and look at everybody else’s issue

  • @user-cq3rz7pg6h
    @user-cq3rz7pg6h Před 2 lety +1

    As a reflector, i really cant get enough info on anything, i know its bc reflectors are more rare and not as interesting bc the aim public isnt big, but its kind of a sucky situation tbh :/

    • @iJaadeeAstrology
      @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety +1

      Valid feeling. I haven’t met any that prompted me to begin research on them, but yesterday someone said something similar to me so I can use y’all’s response as a prompt for me to respond and begin the research 🚀

  • @liliana5393
    @liliana5393 Před rokem +1

    what if you’re a mg but also a scorpio venus 😣

  • @kkjones9334
    @kkjones9334 Před 2 lety +1

    What if as a generator you have no options? Like for me I deadass never have any prospects in dating and so when someone does come around it’s like I’m putting all my energy into them not necessarily because I want to but because they are the only one 💀
    Also, is it initiating if I meet someone and at the time of meeting didn’t get like their number or anything but then want to get it afterwards? Or does that person have to be the one to want to talk to me?

    • @aoralex
      @aoralex Před 2 lety

      You just described my situation 😁

  • @boouwhore6391
    @boouwhore6391 Před 2 lety

    So as a generator, I can't make the first move or else it won't work out? Even if im excited about this person, im not supposed to initiate the connection?

    • @iJaadeeAstrology
      @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety +3

      You can’t initiate without having something happen (something you see, hear, or physically feel) that prompts you to respond.
      We initiate in RESPONSE.
      Ex: a generator wants to quit their job. Their mind says quit today. That will lead to a less fortunate situation.
      Instead, they wait for life to bring them a REASON to quit. A prompt to quit. Then one day, their boss yells at them and says a bad insult. Boom. That’s a reason to quit. Something to respond to that didn’t come from their mind.
      Bc of this, their energetics will stay correct and it will keep the timing right for the next opportunity

  • @tbroski2573
    @tbroski2573 Před 2 lety

    YOOOOOO!!!!!!!! 👀🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @leahhhbabiiee
    @leahhhbabiiee Před 2 lety

    So as a projector I just got to sit still ? 😭 does not inviting myself into a real rxship count for dates too? Like I shouldn’t ask them out on a date?

    • @iJaadeeAstrology
      @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety +3

      No, you do not sit still. Everyone that has “wait” in their strategy does what’s called active waiting.
      While you wait for invites into the next phase of a rxship or career, or a move, you are mastering your skill, mastering helpful systems in your life and showing off your best qualities so that people will recognize those skills and qualities and then invite you.
      It’s better for you to be invited on a date. But projectors can do what’s called a reverse 🔄 invite.
      You can invite someone to invite you, that way you are not inviting yourself into their energy.
      “Let me know if you ever wanna go out”
      That’s an invite for them to invite you! But you didn’t put yourself into their space, see what I mean?
      Check out my latest projector video on my IG!!!
      @ijaadeeastro
      Make some time to watch it and you’ll get all the info and responses you need

  • @dianaporangas9181
    @dianaporangas9181 Před 2 lety +1

    fuck i relate to that

  • @wutheringheights01
    @wutheringheights01 Před 2 lety +1

    As a projector what if nobody wants to invite me 😩

    • @iJaadeeAstrology
      @iJaadeeAstrology  Před 2 lety +4

      If you think nobody wants to invite you then they won’t.
      Projector has to recognize themselves and always show off the things they want to be recognized for. People will notice on their own and invite you at the right time

    • @wutheringheights01
      @wutheringheights01 Před 2 lety

      @@iJaadeeAstrology that makes a lot of sense, thank you