Dating Is Dead In America: The Real Reason

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  • čas přidán 19. 04. 2024
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  • @AustonHolleman
    @AustonHolleman  Před 2 měsíci +27

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    • @cooka.s2817
      @cooka.s2817 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Yes. 80% of the females in the west is satanic. The only way you'd date the majority of those b*#s is if the dudes are satanic, toxic and narcissistic dudes. Me and my brother tested it before, because when we played like we were toxic narcissist dudes, most of the b*#s in the U.S wanted us. But when we acted as positive good men, they ignored and rejected us.

    • @gangstalkingsimulation1319
      @gangstalkingsimulation1319 Před 2 měsíci

      czcams.com/video/9TPwjIohW54/video.htmlsi=g9fzQ1XsAGojyLI1

    • @tianzi49
      @tianzi49 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Grow up, lad! We've got more pressing things to worry about as a community and for a more meaningful existence individually than a preoccupation with chasing and hounding another word for a 'cat.' ... But the ego does relish and crave adoration/attention doesn't it?

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  Před 2 měsíci +6

      @@tianzi49 my community lives outside the U.S.

    • @cooka.s2817
      @cooka.s2817 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@tianzi49 man shut your jealous a*# up you fatherless bastard. Auston we're proud of you young brother. Keep on showing the truth

  • @DonovanAnthonyy
    @DonovanAnthonyy Před 2 měsíci +240

    The U.S. should strictly be utilized to make money. Not to socialize, not to build in, not to marry or start a family. Just make your money, set something in place to generate income while you're gone, then actually live a fulfilling life outside of there

    • @redlionesv
      @redlionesv Před 2 měsíci +34

      Bingo

    • @wunclerlaufenbumcorneliusu7047
      @wunclerlaufenbumcorneliusu7047 Před 2 měsíci +34

      This guy? This guy gets it.

    • @RoninMP
      @RoninMP Před 2 měsíci +22

      Very good advice and one I've been telling my close friends about. That's actually what I'm doing now and basically living a digital nomad lifestyle overseas.

    • @camdenforrest
      @camdenforrest Před 2 měsíci +9

      Agreed 💯

    • @kumkan3588
      @kumkan3588 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Absolutely 👌👍

  • @tyronewalker5764
    @tyronewalker5764 Před 2 měsíci +255

    In the USA, "hello" is sexual harassment!😢

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n Před 2 měsíci +8

      Maybe your hello isn't wanted anymore.

    • @CC-pu6qn
      @CC-pu6qn Před 2 měsíci +12

      No, it’s not. You’re projecting and/or people were showing you they don’t want to speak.

    • @lupa9527
      @lupa9527 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Ok but saying hello shouldn't be vilified

    • @tonyadams8812
      @tonyadams8812 Před 2 měsíci +16

      No matter how polite you ask them it's the same here in the UK,......if they don't find you physically attractive.

    • @fernandohood5542
      @fernandohood5542 Před 2 měsíci

      @@tonyadams8812 NO one wins in the end not even the women except for the most attractive men.

  • @jimmyvila4443
    @jimmyvila4443 Před 2 měsíci +140

    No one is building friends or relationships USA sucks for that. All we do is work and stay home

    • @ricosuave62094
      @ricosuave62094 Před 2 měsíci +13

      Yup since moving to Texas that’s all I’ve seen people do here

    • @joshuarichards9365
      @joshuarichards9365 Před měsícem +9

      I've been trying to get more financially stable just so I can go out more and be more social. It's a thing a put off for years but man oh man it's very important to have a social life

    • @dario7071
      @dario7071 Před měsícem

      Facts

    • @aaronbrutus2654
      @aaronbrutus2654 Před měsícem +11

      @joshuarichards9365 I hear people say this, and I really don't agree. These relationships that people hold in such high regard are mostly superficial, very little substance underneath. Having a Hobbie is important. Gotta have something to do that you enjoy and if you have a few people that you enjoy doing it with, GREAT! Having relationships just for idle conversations? Nah, im good...

    • @forzaeonore780
      @forzaeonore780 Před měsícem +7

      That is the same here in Europe. Almost all relationships are superficial and the few friends i have are those i met in high school...

  • @handsomebarber424
    @handsomebarber424 Před 2 měsíci +95

    People walk around looking pissed off it’s like you can tell their life sucks without asking lol

    • @ralphjba
      @ralphjba Před 23 dny +1

      My face in public screams depression. But inside, i m hella happy. So how could you possibly know? smh

    • @7digitss
      @7digitss Před 20 dny +5

      More often than not, their facial expression does show how they’re really feeling. Because if people are happy, they don’t go around looking angry or depressed. Unless you’re a weirdo that looks sad when you’re actually happy…

    • @jbrobele
      @jbrobele Před 7 dny +1

      Facts. I’m one of them😂 my life don’t suck but my dating life alone is enough to ruin my mood most days

    • @justinwilliams7801
      @justinwilliams7801 Před 5 dny

      @@ralphjba cap

    • @ralphjba
      @ralphjba Před 5 dny

      @@justinwilliams7801 cap, no cap. Ultimately, it doesn’t matter

  • @graysonguice5956
    @graysonguice5956 Před 2 měsíci +223

    Bottom line America has the best basic access and conveniences in the world, and for making money. But socially it is very isolating and the women are awful

    • @hjackson.92
      @hjackson.92 Před 2 měsíci +29

      Infrastructure is starting to fail in some places. It's not going to get any better.

    • @kathym8453
      @kathym8453 Před 2 měsíci +16

      So true, and it is reflected in the English language that we use. English is a language of business and war, and that is reflected in our society. English is much more limited than other languages when it comes to emotional and social expression and concepts. Thus our experience of those things is suppressed.

    • @user-gj6yq5qy8b
      @user-gj6yq5qy8b Před 2 měsíci +2

      This goes both ways

    • @20maxilo
      @20maxilo Před 2 měsíci +15

      yes america is good for 1 thing making money., but to find someone u may have to look elsewhere

    • @Sketch_Sesh
      @Sketch_Sesh Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@kathym8453or people here have the vocabulary of a 9th grader

  • @tarikpierce
    @tarikpierce Před 2 měsíci +223

    America is great but not for dating. It's a sausage fest. Hang out with the family and focus on your channel and business. Don't force relationships in America.

    • @MrPrettyBoyChina
      @MrPrettyBoyChina Před 2 měsíci +45

      American is no longer great it’s ok

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 Před 2 měsíci +27

      ​@@MrPrettyBoyChina When you get a raise but realize strawberries cost $10 a box. 🤣🤣

    • @VendieSolde
      @VendieSolde Před 2 měsíci

      Then go back to those people.

    • @Blanka44447
      @Blanka44447 Před 2 měsíci

      It's not though women make up half of us so why's it feel like one?

    • @ksull5595
      @ksull5595 Před 2 měsíci +14

      @@rotweilerscholar1181 I have a 6 figure career and a daughter and I also feel this way. My relationships when I lived in 🇯🇵 ,🇪🇸, 🇨🇴 and 🇩🇯 were much more meaningful and felt more natural than dating here and I was born and raised in the USA.

  • @brilliancewinz81
    @brilliancewinz81 Před 2 měsíci +63

    People are so disrespectful and rude these days that people don’t want to socialize with others. It is what it is. Evolution of society…

    • @user-kx1sl8wd1s
      @user-kx1sl8wd1s Před 2 měsíci +13

      Very disrespectful

    • @Alazar654
      @Alazar654 Před 2 měsíci +10

      yup

    • @aeriebae88
      @aeriebae88 Před 2 měsíci +11

      Exactly. Disrespectful and judgemental.

    • @ancientafricanblood1547
      @ancientafricanblood1547 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Agreed! Drama oriented, insecure, petty, small-minded.

    • @boogitybear2283
      @boogitybear2283 Před měsícem +2

      I’m 43 years old. From 1981-September 10, 2001 was great. After that, been hell since.

  • @darrylhall9503
    @darrylhall9503 Před 2 měsíci +64

    I was at a deli yesterday. The two employees behind the counter were having a conversation while I stood there waiting. I asked If they were still open. One of the workers rolled their eyes at me and sighed as if I was bothering them. All I got was attitude. He is right. It's all over the USA. There are so many mean people in this country.

    • @pantherman8719
      @pantherman8719 Před 2 měsíci +5

      I dunno what part of the U S. but it sounds like the North East.

    • @redrock740
      @redrock740 Před 2 měsíci +8

      I have had the same kind of "service" here in America. It is beyond disappointing. I usually just walk away, and not give them my business.

    • @theoracle6881
      @theoracle6881 Před měsícem +1

      I betcha they were hair hats lol

    • @stayingfitandfocused
      @stayingfitandfocused Před měsícem +2

      @@pantherman8719 im in texas and its like that here if you go to most corporate places .

    • @pantherman8719
      @pantherman8719 Před měsícem +1

      @@stayingfitandfocused oh ok. Pretty much mostly corporate areas here too.

  • @ronniethesilverbackgorilla2793
    @ronniethesilverbackgorilla2793 Před 2 měsíci +108

    A lot of men want to leave but they don’t have the money to do so misery loves company so they shame you simple as that

    • @ClassicGaming7
      @ClassicGaming7 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @VirtualInsanity-se8bcWhy wouldn’t he? It’s his home and you know America is beneficial to be in outside of dating, right?

    • @artificialintelligence0101
      @artificialintelligence0101 Před 2 měsíci +6

      Agreed but it's less about finances and more about drive and most people don't have the drive to be great.

    • @artificialintelligence0101
      @artificialintelligence0101 Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​@VirtualInsanity-se8bcVisa buddy watch his vids. He doesn't have a perm Visa yet so he has to leave for a required time period but you don't travel so you wouldn't know.

  • @2008topshelf
    @2008topshelf Před 2 měsíci +170

    I went to a bar and a fella sat next to me and ordered a beer. I said hello. He ignored me. Some people just fear connections.

    • @Victor-fj5hy
      @Victor-fj5hy Před 2 měsíci +1

      Sad that’s how shit American society is bro 😂 I’m sorry I’m passport bro at 19

    • @Ricocase
      @Ricocase Před 2 měsíci +6

      Beer? Like a dude?

    • @jaybrick8973
      @jaybrick8973 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Something like this happened to me at the gym America is just trash man

    • @evansbezil7450
      @evansbezil7450 Před 2 měsíci +9

      @@Ricocaseexactly. Hella masculine. Probably why he didn’t even bother engaging with her

    • @chrisc.6551
      @chrisc.6551 Před 2 měsíci +33

      He didn’t want to talk to you because he thinks you are not attractive. Not because he’s afraid of you 😂.

  • @bwalk9338
    @bwalk9338 Před 2 měsíci +172

    Seeking women leads to an unfulfilled life. The more women you get the more you want and it's a cycle that repeats. Gotta focus on something else

    • @TruthFLA
      @TruthFLA Před 2 měsíci +15

      Seeking a fulfilled social life or seeking to connect with people Is the point of life. We're put here on this earth not to simply make money or to build a house and live by yourself in the woods. We're put here on this earth for the purpose of connecting and being with each other. We are social creatures after all.

    • @bwalk9338
      @bwalk9338 Před 2 měsíci +32

      @@TruthFLA Seeking a social life vs seeking women are two different things. We definitely shouldn't be here alone, but a man without a purpose is an empty man. Too many men are chasing validation from women and it just leads to a bottomless pit

    • @TruthFLA
      @TruthFLA Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@bwalk9338 They are not two different things One is part of the other.

    • @bwalk9338
      @bwalk9338 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@TruthFLA No it's not. Seeking women to be accepted and liked is a hard task in 2024. That's why so many men on CZcams are angry. You can have money, go to the gym, and have your own place but women still won't pursue you. Meanwhile someone who has half of that has an inbox full of women. You'll never win in life chasing women.

    • @artificialintelligence0101
      @artificialintelligence0101 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Dismissing the importance of finding a life partner is pure ignorance and I won't even entertain the thought. 🛃✈️

  • @dancerodie
    @dancerodie Před 2 měsíci +210

    In America, you can still be confident and handsome, but still may not get anything until the 100th female.

    • @javionriley8739
      @javionriley8739 Před 2 měsíci +32

      Agreed

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  Před 2 měsíci +62

      My hinge has showed that

    • @bigmack-oq1nt
      @bigmack-oq1nt Před 2 měsíci +37

      Maybe you need to stop concentrating so much on females and focus on getting your life in order.

    • @Bigmoney333
      @Bigmoney333 Před 2 měsíci

      I don’t know how because I’m a heavy set guy and I still get action I smash atleast 20 chicks a year with minimum effort.

    • @dancerodie
      @dancerodie Před 2 měsíci +29

      That has nothing to do with nothing that has been said. Furthermore, for the last 10 years my life has been in order. Without a woman.

  • @sntmdsa3628
    @sntmdsa3628 Před 2 měsíci +38

    The real reason is that the nation has turned away from God and it’s going to continue to go down hill.

    • @mjulianlee
      @mjulianlee Před 2 měsíci

      Read ACTS 13 and know the MOST HIGH YAHUAH only cares about ISRAELITES (so-called Negroes, Bantus, Siddis, Kaffirs, Caribbeanos, DIASPORA).
      When it gets INCREDIBLY dire, our deliverance will happen:
      Israelites (so-called Negroes, Bantus, Siddis, Kaffirs, Latinos, Caribbeanos, DIASPORA),
      Jeremiah 30:7-8
      [7] Alas! for that day is great, so that none is like it: it is even the time of JACOB'S TROUBLE; but he shall be saved out of it.
      [8] For it shall come to pass in that day, saith the MOST HIGH YAHUAH of hosts, that I will break his yoke from off thy neck, and will burst thy bonds, and strangers shall no more serve themselves of him:

  • @bigmikeisaman
    @bigmikeisaman Před 2 měsíci +296

    I'm 35, from Dallas, 6'2", retired Marine. I will say that I grew up around rich people, but I was middle-class. It used to be, when I was really young, that if a girl liked you, she liked you. Maybe that's just the innocence of being young. In the 2010's, it was the same thing. If you were good looking, it didn't matter what you did for a living, you are in your 20's, obviously you aren't there yet and women were cool. Now, especially after Instagram and all this other social media shit, being tall isn't shit unless you have a lot of cheddar. Women see what other women have on Instagram and now they ALL think they deserve all this money.

    • @dyinglight-gb2im
      @dyinglight-gb2im Před 2 měsíci +41

      I’ll tell you this. Having a lot of bread and being tall and good looking just intimidates them. If they do give you the time of day it’s just to play games with you and string you along to boost their egos they dont want anything serious with you best case scenario you MAY get laid and she’s gone. You may attract a gold digger here and there. The rest of the stuff you said is on point tho. I grew up in the 1990s-mid 2000s. If a girl liked you, their weren’t many games. She will tell you to your face that she likes you or she will tell one of her friends to tell you or one of your friends to tell you. OR they will sometimes go as far as telling your parents/brothers sisters (this was back in the day where everyone knew everyone especially on a military base). Now in 2024 you can forget it. Even if she likes you, you’ll never know. She will walk right by you and act like you don’t exist but if you approach her that’s a problem too so what can you do as a guy in the states? Meet girls via work? At college? Be introduced by friends in your circle? Options are limited.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 Před 2 měsíci

      Nope they expect you to be a thug 👍
      Simper Fi
      That’s what they deal with

    • @yessir8805
      @yessir8805 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Spot on.

    • @stephenford6132
      @stephenford6132 Před 2 měsíci +41

      I'm 5'7 who would of thought of a day tall men started to complain about women lol normally that's all you need in most cases.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@stephenford6132 😂

  • @aaronbrutus2654
    @aaronbrutus2654 Před 2 měsíci +81

    I used to seek friendships but then I experienced a few backstabbing situations, gossiping, disrespect etc. So, now I just want to be left alone. I keep people at arms length, it's really better that way. That's basically what I'm trying to say. Everyone is closed off because the environment is a little sick.

    • @16KidGuitar
      @16KidGuitar Před 2 měsíci +10

      That’s how I am as well bro! Self-preservation is essential in the world we live in now!

    • @martinbirdwell7986
      @martinbirdwell7986 Před 2 měsíci

      Me Too ​@@16KidGuitar

    • @kingace2573
      @kingace2573 Před měsícem +1

      What I am going through right now.

    • @martinbirdwell7986
      @martinbirdwell7986 Před měsícem +3

      Me Too That's Why I Hang Alone

  • @GQ1921
    @GQ1921 Před 2 měsíci +131

    The average American male no matter what age no matter how rich or how poor lives like a castrated caged animal. 💯💯💯💯💯. Ive been living in Colombia the last two years and dating feels normal again life in general as a human being actually feels normal again

    • @fjohn8985
      @fjohn8985 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Look up - The ‘Oracle of Wall Street’ expands on the ‘crisis of the American male’

    • @GQ1921
      @GQ1921 Před 2 měsíci +23

      @@fjohn8985 life in America is not fun anymore

    • @kingchris6998
      @kingchris6998 Před 2 měsíci

      Becareful not to drugged by scopolamine down there

    • @GEOMETRICWARRIORS
      @GEOMETRICWARRIORS Před 2 měsíci

      Inspiring 🧘🏽‍♂️

    • @TheChariot99
      @TheChariot99 Před 2 měsíci

      In America, a man is not allowed to be a man but have man responsibilities and to take care of a women.

  • @blackworldtraveler8920
    @blackworldtraveler8920 Před 2 měsíci +224

    Im tapped out the US dating market. Keep traveling and dating abroad.

  • @ksull5595
    @ksull5595 Před 2 měsíci +319

    I lived in Japan for 6 years. The women there don’t leave home until marriage, the guys too.

    • @JakazuV2
      @JakazuV2 Před 2 měsíci +17

      King shit.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 Před 2 měsíci +14

      In the past not now 😮
      That’s from over 10+ yrs of living there and traveling
      Just spent a month there 👍
      Still no 1 spot
      Keep that a secret 😅
      Only high level PPB OK

    • @jakemccoy
      @jakemccoy Před 2 měsíci

      Japan is wide open for pookies to exploit. I went to a club, met a hot Japanese girl, and had wild sx that night. She did not even want anything else, just wanted to have sx with a black man. Hopefully, Auston will not go to Japan.

    • @jakemccoy
      @jakemccoy Před 2 měsíci

      Japan is wide open to be exploited by Pookies. They have social media too. My story about Japan just got instantly deleted.

    • @gthigpen6989
      @gthigpen6989 Před 2 měsíci +25

      This is true. My buddy, Jun, didn't leave home until he got married. He was in his early 40s. Now, he has a son.

  • @princemarora
    @princemarora Před 2 měsíci +61

    American culture is very individualistic & capitalistic - Most world nations are socio-capitalistic and social life is vibrant .. USA is the only place with the highest depression, loneliness, stress and suicides due to the lifestyle.

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 Před 2 měsíci +7

      I think Canada is higher ...but might count as less because of the lower population

    • @merchandise420
      @merchandise420 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Check on the UK, US, CANADA

    • @amirtak9886
      @amirtak9886 Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​@merchandise420 pretty much for every English speaking country, except for maybe South Africa

    • @amirtak9886
      @amirtak9886 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@canadianbrotv1303canadian here, it's worse than the USA

    • @princemarora
      @princemarora Před 2 měsíci +3

      I have been living in Illinois USA for years.. Neighbors hardly say hi.. When I was new I tried to be friendly.. Soon I realized no one cares.. They even don't like it when u are too friendly so I went back in my shell and adopted the lifestyle. I also keep quiet in my corner.

  • @user-kx1sl8wd1s
    @user-kx1sl8wd1s Před 2 měsíci +89

    I think people are also exhausted from being burned by people and trying to build community with no one else putting in effort.

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n Před 2 měsíci +1

      You mean women are fed up with being burned by men.

    • @MultiKingvegeta
      @MultiKingvegeta Před 2 měsíci +9

      This is the perfect answer

    • @novelcoronaheads
      @novelcoronaheads Před 2 měsíci +1

      Exactly...America is like this because of colonialism...Its not western values its european chivalry religious indoctrination fake promises and foreign opportunist who never respected anything about the indigenous cultures in the first place

    • @aestheticmarc
      @aestheticmarc Před 2 měsíci +6

      most ppl dnt care and only want the benefits , all u can do is find solutions and build community the best way u see fit

    • @novelcoronaheads
      @novelcoronaheads Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@MultiKingvegeta Alot of people including myself are still suffering til this day because of the way we were concieved and the way we were treated as a child...The longer you live here the more you begin to realize how everything was set up for us to repeat the same mistakes generation after generation.Like a roller coaster ride with drugs alcohol guns prostitutes children and taxes..Whoever controls everything must not like the idea of a stable home for everybody

  • @masterblaster3021
    @masterblaster3021 Před 2 měsíci +125

    AUSTON - I'M 55 YRS. OLD . IN MY 20"S I WAS STATIONED IN CLARK AFB PHILIPPINES. I WAS HAVING THE TIME OF MY LIFE AND DIDN'T KNOW IT. I'M PLANNING TO GO BACK. THE ATTITUDES OF WOMEN IN AMERICA ARE AWFUL. THE COST OF LIVING IN AMERICA IS RIDICULOUS. I BEEN WATCHING YOUR CHANNEL. YOU LOOKED MORE RELAXED AND HAPPIER ABROAD. GO FIND YOUR HAPPINESS DONT GET CAUGHT UP IN THE MATRIX.👍🏿

    • @Wakeupsheeple607
      @Wakeupsheeple607 Před 2 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂 if u think the women are awful imagine wat the men are😂😂😂😂 even worse these men are in wigs and DL they be broke and dusty😂😂😂

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 Před 2 měsíci +1

      You're screaming

    • @Jame6999
      @Jame6999 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Stop yelling. But I get your point
      I haven't talked to a woman in the states since 2015.

    • @LovelyVibrations
      @LovelyVibrations Před měsícem

      Are you married sir??

    • @Wakeupsheeple607
      @Wakeupsheeple607 Před měsícem

      @@LovelyVibrationsnobody is marrying these no wealth, no power having azz niggahs that complain abt women all day real men are fighting wars and fighting for world domination not whining and fighting women

  • @julianharvey5045
    @julianharvey5045 Před 2 měsíci +91

    I didn't realize Austin was so young. He only 24 now so that mean when he first started traveling when he was 20 or 21. He went through that little drama and Brazil and have matured so much since then. He is way ahead of his time. I'm 42 and I haven't been out of the country yet. This man has been to plenty of countries and gained so much life experience.

    • @jakemccoy
      @jakemccoy Před 2 měsíci +11

      Comparison is the theft of joy. Do you.😊

    • @kadubb2020
      @kadubb2020 Před 2 měsíci +4

      I tell my youngest who lives here in Houston with me and my wife to travel

    • @kadubb2020
      @kadubb2020 Před 2 měsíci

      I am giving him all the practice he can get at 13 years old

    • @kadubb2020
      @kadubb2020 Před 2 měsíci +1

      If they are Indian, Chinese, Mexican, black, or whatever kind of American woman, they are still American and will have that mentality

    • @kadubb2020
      @kadubb2020 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I want my son to get out of here asap

  • @Passport_R
    @Passport_R Před 2 měsíci +71

    Brazil is definitely racist....but they just don't talk about it like in America

    • @AirRider44
      @AirRider44 Před 2 měsíci +27

      Brazil racism is the kind where there is no “racism”, as long as you’re in your place. The moment you set outside of what is perceived to be your class… the racism kicks into high gear. Brazil’s population of African descent is several times that of the U.S. but Brazilians of visibly African descent are practically invisible amongst the professional class (doctors, lawyers, engineers, etc).

    • @Passport_R
      @Passport_R Před 2 měsíci +12

      @@AirRider44 you don't hardly see any in government or high ranking positions

    • @360ODYSY
      @360ODYSY Před 2 měsíci

      So pick your level of racism, not being represented in politics, media or education or being murdered by the people that are supposed to protect you

    • @sonderexpeditions
      @sonderexpeditions Před 2 měsíci

      They can't because it's illegal. You can be put in jail for racism. However it's heavy there. Especially colorism. In Brazil the whitest is on top the blackest is on the bottom.

    • @theborg3237
      @theborg3237 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I love Brazil ; but , they never had a civil rights movement !

  • @christianreynoso1122
    @christianreynoso1122 Před 2 měsíci +46

    I’m half Dominican and half black, when I first traveled to El Salvador, they didn’t treat me like a black man in US. They treating me as if I belong there, interested in my features, they loved my black skin which I wasn’t use too. Coming back to the US it’s completely different. At 25 I’m giving myself less than 5 years and I’m getting outta here.

    • @Victor-fj5hy
      @Victor-fj5hy Před 2 měsíci

      How bad is it for you in the us I’m Dominican to

    • @kingchris6998
      @kingchris6998 Před 2 měsíci

      Congrats young bro

    • @christianreynoso1122
      @christianreynoso1122 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @@Victor-fj5hy in terms of race it’s not bad. The problem that I see is it’s not just dating is dead it’s feminism has become a systemic program that is being taught, and as men I guess we are not suppose to have a say in how every day interactions with women are. Words like “predator” or “patriarchy” gets tossed around without people even knowing the definition or context

    • @nanakworld
      @nanakworld Před 2 měsíci +2

      I just returned yesterday from San Salvador on my second trip to the country and I had a great time.

    • @Victor-fj5hy
      @Victor-fj5hy Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@nanakworld lucky ass dude how was the women ?

  • @EternalKorvo
    @EternalKorvo Před 2 měsíci +43

    This world is so shit but, I must keep going

  • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
    @BrianWaller-qe7gr Před 2 měsíci +30

    I dropped out of the dating market. I’m done with it. Not sure why anyone with an sane mind would want to participate. I’m tired of the cycle of talking then going on date then she doesn’t feel the tingles then she either ghosts me or at least let’s me know she’s not interested, then talking stages then date then get no second date again. And the same cycle repeats over and over and over. The only way to end the cycle is to stop participating. Women don’t understand that it takes a bit for chemistry to develop. They want the fairytale romance where it’s instant sparks

    • @sunbox4700
      @sunbox4700 Před 2 měsíci +2

      She probably didn't get money or effort from you, not just tingles. Women want to see effort from man and how generous he is with money, women don't want just tingles, they want money and effort from a man. If you spend a lot of money on her and talked well and showed interest and put effort, it would be worth more than tingles. Most men are just very greedy with money and effort and feelings and conversation that's why women are not in. Need to impress her with something at least. But men expect a woman to have tingles for nothing. At least marriage could offer if nothing else. Women want something more from a man just tingles. But men want women to have tingles for nothing. But women need something very important like marriage or money or future together or effort from a man. And all men do just say hi and that he wants sex and expect a woman to have tingles and be impressed.

    • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
      @BrianWaller-qe7gr Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@sunbox4700 never lead with you wallet never

    • @theoracle6881
      @theoracle6881 Před měsícem

      them scallywags just wanted a free meal!

    • @SUNROSE7878
      @SUNROSE7878 Před měsícem

      Absolutely. I am much older than you and I notice it. These young women are in a Cinderella world- of fantasy. They wouldn't know a real relationship. If it slap them across the head. All you can do is leave them alone because if you do get involved it's nothing but a bunch of drama, confusion and mental issues that you really don't want to deal with.

    • @plot229
      @plot229 Před měsícem

      @@sunbox4700 what you have just described is prostitution, we are not interested in dating a prostitute…

  • @AP-WhatsUp
    @AP-WhatsUp Před 2 měsíci +80

    Houston is better for mingling with women but finding a wife type woman is as difficult as anywhere else in the US

    • @Bravefit
      @Bravefit Před 2 měsíci +20

      I’ve got all of the above and it’s still a trash environment for dating 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @LightAlchemy-io9dm
      @LightAlchemy-io9dm Před 2 měsíci +10

      Houston is good only if you're not the adventurous type. It's the same ol same ol everywhere you go. Its also very spread out so ppl tend to roll in cliques. They can be friendly though. Ppl will talk to you but it's dangerous because of how many scammers have come to the city recently.
      Also wear protection because it's worse than ATL, but the media wont tell you this

    • @SPnSQ
      @SPnSQ Před 2 měsíci

      I’m here in Houston from Miami, Auston is absolutely correct

    • @AP-WhatsUp
      @AP-WhatsUp Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yeah man it’s easy work in htown fr. But like I said, finding a quality wife is still a shit show but that’s more of a United States issue because of feminism.

    • @AP-WhatsUp
      @AP-WhatsUp Před 2 měsíci +1

      I’ve been married before as well, I’m 36. But I’d like to have kids one day as I’ve already a lot of financial success and my next purpose is family. I don’t believe in having kids out of wedlock so this is why I mention marriage. I’ve already been there and done that with many many women, and that part is kinda old to me tbh.

  • @EqDior
    @EqDior Před 2 měsíci +51

    You hit the nail on the head Austin. Social interaction in America is very sad. Awesome vid!

    • @redrock740
      @redrock740 Před 2 měsíci +1

      People in the US get offended if you say good morning! Like, why the heck are they greeting me? How annoying is it that I have to respond now.

  • @oceanearth2243
    @oceanearth2243 Před měsícem +7

    Dating in the USA has been ruined for a solid decade. Every single date I went on, I was ridiculed and judged and embarrassed, deemed unworthy. Yet abroad I become visible. I am an alpha everywhere else

    • @mogaz674
      @mogaz674 Před měsícem

      Its all the west....Same in Europe 😅

  • @NocturnalImmersion
    @NocturnalImmersion Před 2 měsíci +47

    I'm from NC 27 year old female. And I feel like people take what they see on social media and make it reality. Like...red pill and feminism are ruining the human social experience. We think we hate each other so we don't even attempt to connect. I myself still speak with a smile. Sometimes I am acknowledged other times im ignored. Its what the country is pushing. Divided we fall....its all a plan.

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Women ruined the western daring experience , too mich cock blocking , too much focus on materialism 😢

    • @thentic7622
      @thentic7622 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Facts glad you can see that it’s trying to separate us

    • @KevinEnty
      @KevinEnty Před 2 měsíci +1

      Facts 💯

    • @thentic7622
      @thentic7622 Před 2 měsíci +4

      @VirtualInsanity-se8bc by “it’s” I was talking about red pill and feminism. And I don’t dislike Austin’s message it just that he can’t be mad with what he’s receiving since like you said he contributes to it

    • @MachBenak7c
      @MachBenak7c Před 2 měsíci +3

      “We” have never ever been united. You are a breathing bot

  • @swiftjunk3692
    @swiftjunk3692 Před 2 měsíci +32

    100% correct about Dallas. The girls hang out in crews of 5 and 6. Went out to a bar by myself while visiting Dallas and a woman who was sitting with five other women invited me to sit with them. I'm sitting there me and the girl exchange numbers talking about where I'm from, why I was in Dallas and everything is cool. When the waitress came I order a drink for myself and told the waitress to bring her one of whatever she had. One of her friends starts telling me I'm rude for not buying them all drinks, that her friends don't mess with broke cheap men and tells her friend to delete my number which she does. It was most awkward experience in my life sitting there with six strange women pissed off with attitudes telling me I'm cheap and broke. I didn't know what to do and they were causing a minor scene so I got up and walked out of the bar before the drink came. I will never go to a bar in Dallas again.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  Před 2 měsíci +12

      Sounds about right😂

    • @swiftjunk3692
      @swiftjunk3692 Před 2 měsíci +5

      ​@@AustonHolleman I still don’t know if it was because dudes in Dallas buy drinks for whole tables of random women, or if it was because they thought they found an out of town trick/simp to buy drinks. Being called broke with people staring, like I did something. I never felt more emasculated and embarrassed in my life.

    • @light_year6964
      @light_year6964 Před měsícem +1

      That "woman" wanted to get something out of you without putting in the effort to wanting to get to know you and earning that bought drink. She's just miserable and projecting that out onto you and the true woman who actually took the time to speak with you.

    • @lees3117
      @lees3117 Před měsícem +6

      Never take an invite from a group of women at a table because they want to use you for your money to buy their broke azzes alcohol.

    • @CharlesLockhart
      @CharlesLockhart Před měsícem

      There are a lot of women at clubs looking to use dudes for free shit. Just like there are a lot of dudes just looking to get sex. Probably not the ideal environment to meet people of quality.

  • @mickeyturner5677
    @mickeyturner5677 Před 2 měsíci +12

    I grew up in Richardson. My twin brother lives in Garland. I now live abroad with plans of never living in America again. I wish you were wrong but you are right. God bless you, Austin.

  • @Kuroyasha2099
    @Kuroyasha2099 Před 2 měsíci +35

    Bruh you're right it's the culture of people. It ain't work, it ain't racism, it ain't politics, it ain't just urban planning(though it is a factor). I'm glad you've noticed this so young. I saw the seeds of it around 08'-10' but it's gotten progressively worse. Social media has turned us into some kind of weird dystopian para social anti social NPC society. People have gotten fucking WEIRD. They are more engaged and invested in online relationships, clout and identity. I hate to be cliche but they really are plugged into the Matrix.

  • @defrank1870
    @defrank1870 Před 2 měsíci +34

    Bro. You're taking this shit to the next level.
    You're underscoring the REAL problem we are ALL facing.
    The Culture has COOKED this place. It's done bro and will take DECADES to undo.
    This is beyond just women.

  • @igpxmaster
    @igpxmaster Před 2 měsíci +37

    I’m 27 and the fact that Austin sees this at a young age shows us how wise he is it’s sad I’m a social being and people suck now they think they are too good and now more ppl are racist due to social media it’s sucks

    • @igpxmaster
      @igpxmaster Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@ogunmontgomery103 I’ll be 28 in 2 months but that’s not the point the fact that younger guys like us are seeing the dive in society is sad imagine how ppl 35 and up feel.. there no reason why Auston when he started traveling a few years ago made it up in his mind that the west is trash

    • @rockstarjoe5725
      @rockstarjoe5725 Před 2 měsíci

      @@ogunmontgomery103 we same age gang

    • @Freeeeeeeee27
      @Freeeeeeeee27 Před 2 měsíci

      It’s the life experience he has that gives him some wisdom. I can say that I understand Austin’s perspective because I’ve also travelled a bit. There is a huge difference internally compared to western countries. Heck, even Japan was more welcoming.

    • @martinbirdwell7986
      @martinbirdwell7986 Před 2 měsíci

      They Were Racist Before Social Media But They Kept It Hidden

    • @igpxmaster
      @igpxmaster Před 2 měsíci

      @@Freeeeeeeee27 it’s scary to think ppl in their early 20s are over it

  • @Blacksword404
    @Blacksword404 Před 2 měsíci +25

    Our society is very isolating. If a Brazilian comes into a empty restaurant they will sit right next to you. An American would sit by themselves.
    How many times have people went to the grocery store, and the parking lot was empty? And you come out and you get passed off because in the empty parking lot, that person parked next to you.

    • @ziontrain7887
      @ziontrain7887 Před 2 měsíci +15

      Totally agree. My fist time in Rio I was at a restaurant by myself and a man and his family including his two fine ass daughters sat with me and he paid for my food and drinks. He said it’s not the Brazilian way to eat by yourself. True story. I was in copacabana. It was a beautiful experience!

    • @jaybrick8973
      @jaybrick8973 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Alot of ppl are depressed here what do you expect but I have ran into some friendly Americans but it's few an in between

  • @Figgs101
    @Figgs101 Před 2 měsíci +26

    America is draining compared to Brazil between the people, the music, groceries everything is draining

  • @DmarquettePainter
    @DmarquettePainter Před 2 měsíci +17

    I thought something was wrong with me back in the day until I went to Barbados and hung out with family and met a whole bunch of cool ass people on the street. I’d make it a point to say good morning to most people I passed and strike up a convo. The women were receptive, and everyone was generally polite. I remember coming back to Atlanta trying to do the same thing and it just didn’t work

  • @Kzb2022
    @Kzb2022 Před 2 měsíci +22

    Bro I’m glad you touched this topic of racism out in the world vs United States . People have no idea that it’s much better here than around the world in terms of racism

    • @MachBenak7c
      @MachBenak7c Před 2 měsíci

      If this is what you call better. It must be nice to not be one of us

  • @conchobar
    @conchobar Před 2 měsíci +33

    There has been a steady reduction in social events for young people, since the 1950s. Heck, in the 90s shopping malls and dance clubs(Where people actually danced) were considered low hanging fruit social settings. Today, your best bet is college campuses and work related conferences.

    • @AllFather-TheStoicGod
      @AllFather-TheStoicGod Před 2 měsíci +6

      It's definitely not college campuses since the mid 2010s and fake rape allegations, especially after the guy had consensual relations, she even left the room and came back with the condom, and once done he moved on. Few days later she said she felt *"graped"* because he didn't have the same level of enthusiasm after for her. He got kicked out of school, lost the scholarship, but was later acquitted. Dating on college campuses has dropped to the single digits. Women are heated.

  • @emagicman6573
    @emagicman6573 Před 2 měsíci +48

    I have not had a relationship or tried dating in the United States since 2020. And even those women were a 4 or 5. Now I have a relationships in Colombia 🇨🇴 and the woman I’m in a relationship now is Venezuela who currently lives in Venezuela 🇻🇪. We’ll meet up in Cartagena in June. If you have not met your girlfriend through a friend or network of associates or college, you can forget as a man. Dating apps I guess good for hooking up but I don’t deal with women in America and especially in my city Chicago.

    • @KOJOSLIM007-so6cj
      @KOJOSLIM007-so6cj Před 2 měsíci +4

      My woman is also from Venezuela and we also mete up in Cartagena about 2 or 3 times a year.

    • @thedopeconversationspodcast
      @thedopeconversationspodcast Před 2 měsíci +10

      Yall sure these are your women? Lol

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 Před 2 měsíci +7

      ​@@thedopeconversationspodcastBetter than being alone in America getting old you only live one life

    • @BushidoBoxing
      @BushidoBoxing Před 2 měsíci +4

      Chicagoland area is terrible for dating

    • @mekichey129
      @mekichey129 Před 2 měsíci

      Aren't the Illegals going to Chicago

  • @alfredbaxter1061
    @alfredbaxter1061 Před 2 měsíci +66

    I’m from Minneapolis Mn it’s the same way here it’s dead everywhere

    • @MulanosVlogz
      @MulanosVlogz Před 2 měsíci +1

      Whhhhhhaaaat ⁉️🤯

    • @alfredbaxter1061
      @alfredbaxter1061 Před 2 měsíci +11

      @@MulanosVlogz brothas here mainly date white women

    • @abboberg
      @abboberg Před 2 měsíci +7

      I'm in Shoreview and found my wife and soul mate in Nigeria. She was really happy about our recent non-winter!

    • @OfficialRell_
      @OfficialRell_ Před 2 měsíci +1

      They are Somalis in Minneapolis are they good women or westernised?

    • @alfredbaxter1061
      @alfredbaxter1061 Před 2 měsíci +7

      @@OfficialRell_yes it’s a lot of samolis in Minneapolis but they kinda mess with there own they don’t date out they stick to there own you might see very few date out but it’s a very few

  • @BlueFlame_l.o.g
    @BlueFlame_l.o.g Před 2 měsíci +29

    I don’t blame you bro, I can’t wait to get outta here! People just be hating for no reason keep doin yo thing 💪🏾🙏🏽✨

  • @dmh5982
    @dmh5982 Před 2 měsíci +89

    Bro you are so young with all this wisdom. You are the “True Goat.” Keep making these amazing videos.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  Před 2 měsíci +12

      Thank you!

    • @Daykiss
      @Daykiss Před 2 měsíci +3

      True Statement!Traveling you gain a lot of wisdom!

    • @oops541
      @oops541 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@AustonHolleman You should do DNA ancestry test. We want to see how many percent of your European gene in you. 🙃

    • @robertibeh
      @robertibeh Před 2 měsíci +1

      Facts. Much respect to Austin.

  • @MRWONDERFUL-kk4db
    @MRWONDERFUL-kk4db Před 2 měsíci +31

    MAN IT'S CRAZY WHERE I LIVE AT IT'S LIKE A BUNCH OF ZOMBIES IT WILL ALMOST PUT YOU IN A STATE OF SHOCK

    • @cedricmiller4370
      @cedricmiller4370 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Same where I live I'm on the east coast in the Carolinas and it's so many people strung out on different drugs it feels like a zombie movie it's unreal I remember in summer 2003 everything seemed so fun and exciting compared to 2024

    • @alans.philippines
      @alans.philippines Před 2 měsíci +2

      It’s the whole country.

    • @MRWONDERFUL-kk4db
      @MRWONDERFUL-kk4db Před 2 měsíci

      @@alans.philippines THAT'S WHAT I THOUGHT I GUESS IM JUST GOING TO WALK ALONE IT'S CRAZY BECAUSE I'M A LIVEWIRE IN SIDE. BUT I GOT TO HOLD IT IN BECAUSE EVERYTHING IS DEAD AROUND ME.I CALL IT THE DEAD WORLD. DON'T MAKE NO SENSE IT'S ALL SELF DEVELOPMENT AND MAKING MONEY NOW SOME TIME I FEEL MY FACE TURNING TO STONE I GOT TO WATCH THAT BECAUSE I'M MR SMOOTH I CAN'T HAVE NO STONE FACE BUT THAT'S HOW I BE NOW I JUST BE LOOKING AT MYSELF AND WHAT I'M DOING IT'S CRAZY BECAUSE I'M A FUN PERSON AND HER I AM ALL MR SERIOUS NOW MAN THIS IS CRAZY

    • @-schattenpflanze-3755
      @-schattenpflanze-3755 Před 2 měsíci

      In Germany its getting even worse

  • @elarrayhesohit4479
    @elarrayhesohit4479 Před 2 měsíci +18

    This man drop content like a mad man. Who know the American day to day struggle was so entertaining.

  • @clivethompson2102
    @clivethompson2102 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Brilliant, brutally honest, and above all real. Keep up the good work and speaking truth to power 👏👏👏👍🏾

  • @MotivationalMovements
    @MotivationalMovements Před 2 měsíci +15

    Dude even here in the Mid Atlantic they will get mad if you ask a question too and they work at the place….complete clown world!

  • @thebluefalcons92
    @thebluefalcons92 Před 2 měsíci +18

    Great video, I just returned from Europe after spending months there. Everything you said is spot on. Here in US people will treat you like an inconvenience. Unless you’re someone that can clearly benefit them. I’m thinking about packing and leaving every second.

  • @PaulClipMaster
    @PaulClipMaster Před 2 měsíci +7

    I just started traveling internationally recently (last few years) and I went to South America for the first time this year. The best thing about women overseas is the lack of a gender war. Women are happy to be women and men are happy to be men. To me the United States doesn't have women, it has females. American women are hermaphrodites who want to be both men and women at the same time depending on which is more convenient. You could argue the men are similar.

  • @Michael-qs1yd
    @Michael-qs1yd Před 2 měsíci +8

    I'm 49 years old and I am learning a lot from you - someone who is a wise 24 year old. Thank you for what you do. I'm trying to do the same. Live my life with courage.

  • @hassanzorome7497
    @hassanzorome7497 Před 2 měsíci +23

    You’re absolutely right bro unfortunately there’s no cure for this epidemic called loneliness America is taking over Japan.

  • @alvinmaina5508
    @alvinmaina5508 Před 2 měsíci +2

    The best live i've watched on your channel so far! REAL TALK. Shout out from Kenya 🔥

  • @Blueskullz503
    @Blueskullz503 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I'm in the DFW also. Not only relationships but friendships hard to find. 1000% agree. the few friends i made were in MMA gyms they tend to be the down to earth. Working on moving the brazil. salute brotha!

  • @adinisrael3574
    @adinisrael3574 Před 2 měsíci +6

    You almost at a 100k subs I started following you at 5k, congrats and keep growing my man!

  • @KiamKweli
    @KiamKweli Před 2 měsíci +3

    Replay gang. I appreciate you putting this one up. Solid points.

  • @itsandy9290
    @itsandy9290 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You’re so true bro. Was shaking my head agreeing almost the entire time

  • @Just-theory
    @Just-theory Před 2 měsíci +16

    Your speaking the truth bro. I hung out on a rooftop in Hollywood, CA this weekend. I had a fresh outfit, clean haircut cut, smelling good ect… but all I seen was women dancing on each other (acting gay), and fellas standing around by themselves, or afraid to interact with the women. So to break the ice, I interacted with a chick (i wasn’t really interested in), only to have a bland conversation with subtle rejection. What i gather is that you have to just hangout in the U.S to simply enjoy the vibes with no expectations. And honestly, I’ve attracted the prettiest women by going in with that mindset.

  • @TJ-pt8ei
    @TJ-pt8ei Před 2 měsíci +11

    I live in Fort Worth Auston. It’s nice to see your perspective on what would seem normal to us locals. The juxtaposition shows a clear distinction on what we’re missing out on. I’m motivated more than ever, to get out and experience what seems to be a better quality of life.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  Před 2 měsíci +5

      Thanks man I’m glad I could do that!

    • @yophilli
      @yophilli Před měsícem

      It’s crazy because the original dream was to live here in the states

  • @perfectstorm2827
    @perfectstorm2827 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I'm in the DFW area also, originally from New Orleans, everything you spoke of is on point. I get culture shock returning here after just 30 days. Retirement is on the horizon.

    • @didyouknowamazingfacts2790
      @didyouknowamazingfacts2790 Před měsícem

      Same here and I'm originally from New Orleans also. I lived in Colombia for 2 years and 1 year in Brazil and when I came back here I had no desire to speak to or deal with American women. It was a total culture shock coming back to the states. I'm right now in the works getting my visa for a year in brazil.

  • @Bankrollprimo
    @Bankrollprimo Před 2 měsíci +4

    I'm born and raised in Dallas. I grew up in Oak Cliff and Pleasant Grove. I experienced the same stuff you have dating in DFW and pretty much all of the US. All of my relatives in DFW are experiencing the exact same thing as well. It's all messed up.
    I went to college in Thailand after I left the military and man I fell into a deep depression when I returned to the States.

  • @viralskatetoks2050
    @viralskatetoks2050 Před měsícem +4

    I live in Destin Florida. Went to the beach yesterday by myself, an attractive guy, and had people all around me. No one made eye contact or was outgoing in the slightest. Unless it was toward their groups

  • @blmarcy421
    @blmarcy421 Před 2 měsíci +11

    I am a much older man and know that pop and have traveled to Asia Including Philippines, Japan, Colombia. Don't waste your time in the USA.😊

  • @monsieurnoir207
    @monsieurnoir207 Před 2 měsíci

    I’m loved this video. I’m excited and thrilled that you are exploring the world. When my son was ten, we started visiting Europe, Asia, Africa and the Caribbean. I love you too.

  • @GETITDONE_11
    @GETITDONE_11 Před 2 měsíci +21

    Man bro you speaking facts 💯🙌🏿 I will be out soon living in Orlando Florida it’s horrible…

    • @maverickcapitalist1
      @maverickcapitalist1 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Same thing here in Pensacola Florida.

    • @ziontrain7887
      @ziontrain7887 Před 2 měsíci +4

      I’m in Orlando too and I can’t wait to go back to Brazil. Just waiting on my nomad visa. It’s sucks here in Orlando

    • @GEMINI_THE_BES1989
      @GEMINI_THE_BES1989 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I'm in South Florida lived there for 35 years born and raised. I want to leave Florida

    • @SpaceCaptainJ
      @SpaceCaptainJ Před měsícem

      These Florida cities are terrible because there’s no real community since everything’s so spread apart

  • @nechele318
    @nechele318 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I’m from Dallas and you are so correct.

  • @enochrry6024
    @enochrry6024 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Well within the last 10-15 years american has been through many transitions. From traditional vs the new woke, to a political battle the right vs the left, to straight vs the lgbtq, to sober vs legal marijuana, from traditional relationships vs the hookup culture, from social gatherings vs gathering on facebook, from coming back to a norm vs still stuck in the pandimic mode. This created a vacuum of social dynamics in america all over, not just in DFW it's all over america man.

    • @javionriley8739
      @javionriley8739 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I keep telling people that the shift took place in 2008! Aka when us 90s millennials (who are the biggest generation in USA) took over politically/socially/economically

  • @tonyhornbuckle8378
    @tonyhornbuckle8378 Před 2 měsíci +6

    In today’s life dating is extremely dangerous for men and women.

  • @sunny96tv
    @sunny96tv Před 2 měsíci +2

    Almost at 100K !! Salute brother 🫡

  • @hubertalstoncookiemonster2471
    @hubertalstoncookiemonster2471 Před 2 měsíci +7

    The smoothest you’ve ever been 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @domirican81
    @domirican81 Před 2 měsíci +22

    I live near the beach here in the States, easy to talk to ladies. They’re just not wifey material. 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @sjames5777
    @sjames5777 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I was born and raised here in Dallas. I do feel like work plays apart in this. I literally keep meeting all these guys who work 10-12 hours a day maybe even 6-7 days a week, they don’t have time for a social life or relationships.

  • @AskTheAdjutant
    @AskTheAdjutant Před 2 měsíci +1

    Proud of you and your growth young man. I see you!💪🏾🇺🇸

  • @piziff
    @piziff Před 2 měsíci +88

    It's That Bad.
    Yes it is.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 Před 2 měsíci +1

      It is 😅

    • @alans.philippines
      @alans.philippines Před 2 měsíci +10

      It’s getting way worse.

    • @piziff
      @piziff Před 2 měsíci

      @@alans.philippines Oh I know.

    • @-schattenpflanze-3755
      @-schattenpflanze-3755 Před 2 měsíci

      It is getting worse, im still in my 20 but geez Tinder doesnt work anymore. I get like 1 like per WEEK. On Hinge im not getting anything lmao. Im getting like 1 like a month on Hinge and its usually a landwhale.

  • @tdot321action4
    @tdot321action4 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Informative video...Auston out here saving the planet.

  • @smitty9943
    @smitty9943 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Brother thank you so much for your content. Please keep doing what you do....

  • @chrisbell3366
    @chrisbell3366 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Preach brother. Ive been all around the world. I went to Nairobi and Mombasa and it is night and day compared to america. Uganda is cool too.

  • @igpxmaster
    @igpxmaster Před 2 měsíci +7

    Brazil is definitely litt I wish you can come back

  • @MulanosVlogz
    @MulanosVlogz Před 2 měsíci +6

    This was some 🔥 content so 💯🗣️

  • @RemoteAdminJayJay2
    @RemoteAdminJayJay2 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Sugar dating is saving romance in America

  • @angelarose249
    @angelarose249 Před 2 měsíci +6

    It's not just you. People are weird now. You are absolutely right, money don't mean anything if you have no social life

    • @davidh7832
      @davidh7832 Před měsícem +1

      lol it’s still somewhat important to continue living

  • @willjay1839
    @willjay1839 Před 2 měsíci +36

    They want single men lonely, extremely glad your expressing the selfishness in America things are mad sick 🤒 regardless.

    • @kingchris6998
      @kingchris6998 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yeah true, they want men single so we can pay for these *****es OF. Time to gtfo here!

  • @PhillyDom
    @PhillyDom Před 2 měsíci +13

    You speak the True Champ

  • @kashnow9279
    @kashnow9279 Před měsícem +1

    YES BRO YOU ARE NOT ALONE !!! YOUR EXPRESSING WHAT I BEEN FEELING

  • @currwi3091
    @currwi3091 Před měsícem +3

    People in America worry to much about dating and what woman do … just grow up get your own home car and learn credit , learn self love and live your life , stop worrying about falling in love and dating just live life and go with the flow. Learn yourself and start dating in your 30’s

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  Před měsícem +2

      Horrible advice. A dude that goes monk mode for 12 years will hate women when he makes it. Horrible advice

  • @jimmyr204
    @jimmyr204 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Sadly, us regular guys who haven't traveled outside the States don't know any different. We've become numb to socializing, let alone the absolutely miserable American dating scene.

  • @ej1692
    @ej1692 Před 2 měsíci +18

    Not sure I agree with the "they work harder abroad" argument. The US is a well oiled economic machine, we have the highest GDP in the world and are known for having a pretty efficient workforce. We also have the fewest holidays in the world. I think that is an ingredient of what makes it tough here, everyone works way too much. It definitely isn't the only thing though, we have a very weird social culture. By the way, this is definitely not only in DFW lol. Believe it or not, DFW is actually probably good. There is way worse, trying going to a city that has a scarcity of beautiful women like Pittsburgh, Cleveland, Buffalo, Indianopolis; DFW is a paradise compared to those places. Although, the entirety of the US is pretty much garbage for dating at this point.

    • @kur0mayne980
      @kur0mayne980 Před 2 měsíci

      you've not been abroad apparently, you probably read a statistic and said that was it.
      when i was living in Japan a street i used to always have to cross was damaged from an accident, that night they had men and machine on the scene repairing it. next day looked like nothing even occurred and everything was the same.
      how long does work take to get done in America again especially physical demanding labor? the facts behind poor, unpleasant culture and moral creates limitations in how well jobs preform and how long they take to get done. knowing how unpleasant majority of americans make themselves especially at work for the silliest of reasons leads me to believe you might be full on out of touch with your own thoughts on the matter so i see why you choose to look at numbers being crunched then a present example.
      also that "well oiled economic machine" is only applicable for select americans via race, financial status, and location otherwise america wouldn't be faced with the current issues its currently dealing with that dont encourage people to wanna be here nor participate in anything. they work harder abroad because they care more about each other abroad. no one gives a shit about anything in america unless they are forced to.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca Před 2 měsíci

      America puts its dirty laundry in the street others keep alot more in house. Everyone has a toilet....and trash to be taken out.

    • @pressurebusspipesmakesdiam1366
      @pressurebusspipesmakesdiam1366 Před 2 měsíci +3

      We are just really good at being hamsters on a wheel at this point I’ll give you that! Running in place going no where fast! So many places around the world has longer vacay, sick leaves, mommy leaves etc…We’re happy w/ 2 weeks paid vacay lol. But it’s all for show & our GDP means nothing it use too.
      I’ve watched several videos on the insufficiency of today’s workforce & how many of our “workers ” do nothing at their desk all day & add very little substance to our society. So don’t let the long hours fool you! Of course the blue collar & low wage workers put in work day in & out but there is a great percentage of folks ex. In the I.T industry that do nothing all day or that work from home (while on vacation) that get paid very handsomely. Our GDP is fluffed so we can continue looking like a “World Power”

  • @ColvictorTHEOFFICIALPSBOY
    @ColvictorTHEOFFICIALPSBOY Před 2 měsíci

    Congrats on this exposure and experience you actually just opened up a lot of eyes

  • @remixisthis
    @remixisthis Před měsícem +1

    I moved to a condo recently and people don’t say hi to each other. They just walk past and ignore each other. Really bizarre stuff man

  • @TheBlackManMythLegend
    @TheBlackManMythLegend Před 2 měsíci +6

    his analysis is super spot on. the psychological aspect of lower expectation that happen because you only get the bad treatment and abroad you still believe you can't get better while actually you can get better it's just the US that conditionned your to think like you do not worth better

  • @dc3470
    @dc3470 Před 2 měsíci +6

    It's not just Dallas, when I go home to Cleveland it looks abandoned also. Quite a contrast from when I was a child. Everyone was outside playing, interacting, and sirens blowing

    • @amirtak9886
      @amirtak9886 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yeah, 10-15 years ago, before social media was a big thing, people would be outside interacting everywhere.

  • @Ratlegion
    @Ratlegion Před 2 měsíci

    It's cool to see you've got some edge to your personality. Lol I've only seen you in the Brazil interviews before about the controversy. But the fact of the matter is a lot needs to be said, and I'm glad you're saying it, even when others don't want to hear it.

  • @lancestruthers6529
    @lancestruthers6529 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Do your thing fam you were the first cat that I discovered traveling

  • @bkfeva
    @bkfeva Před 2 měsíci +5

    You're correct about the social aspect if the 90s... we were always running and jumping and meeting people face to face...

  • @shyfly6560
    @shyfly6560 Před měsícem +4

    I have no complaints about my Americanized black lady but I must admit I know she has no clue how to treat a man on the level of foreign women. My homeboys Brazilian wife washes his feet sometimes, she’s fine and she treats him like a king. I don’t think I’ve ever had a women touch my feet. It’s just a different mind set. If things don’t work with my lady I will definitely be joining passport brothers.

  • @kingchris6998
    @kingchris6998 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Great video and topic that you're covering Auston! Keep up the great work, brother. 🔥🔥🔥🌎✈️ (the states is pretty much just for making money and business now)

  • @nubi4life
    @nubi4life Před měsícem +2

    You are absolutely right about what you say. I regurgitate this all the time. I took your advice 2 months ago and went to the Philippines. I went to Manila, Butuan city, and finally settled in Cebu. Had the time of my life. I extended my visa for a month and didn't want to come back. I came back 3 days ago to Dallas area where I live. I hate it here man. The system is designed to keep people segregated here. It's what they want. We will keep exploring the world and go to places with people who have the same mindset. Stay strong brother!

  • @hyster2568
    @hyster2568 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Here in the states, if you’re not appealing to their eyes and you approach them, you’re considered a creep. If you’re “good enough” for them, you have to keep trying.

  • @justswitched8841
    @justswitched8841 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Yeah i don't really have any social life outside of work. I have associates from previous jobs but no close friends. I mostly just game, do art watch tv and work.