ANSWERING YOUR LGBTQ RELATIONSHIP QS!! (big sister advice) 🌈💖

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
  • ANSWERING YOUR LGBTQ RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS!! 🌈💖🤍 We're back with more big sister relationship advice for my queer followers. We cover: lesbian breakup advice, crushing on ur best friend, how to know when it's time to breakup, online dating for the first time, lgbt dating tips & more!
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    Timestamps to help you find what u need 💗
    0:00 LGBT Relationship & Dating Advice
    1:02 Fear of rejection
    2:43 GF doesn't answer ur texts
    5:03 When is it time to breakup?
    5:49 My GF is asexual/demisexual
    8:13 How to start dating women at 27yrs
    11:10 Being trans and visible in gay relationships
    13:07 Lesbian friends-to-lovers breakup advice
    16:35 Am I toxic?
    18:39 Online dating for the first time
    20:55 Making a relationship last long term
    23:27 Is it ok to date a co-worker?
    26:34 Get over a long term relationship
    28:58 Crush on ur best friend
    30:12 How to get into a relationship
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Komentáře • 60

  • @laurenelloise
    @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +22

    ▾ TIMESTAMPS ▾ to skip around to what u might find valuable!
    Tysm for all ur Qs! (And to my sis for joining me) 💖
    1:02 Fear of rejection
    2:43 GF doesn't answer ur texts
    5:03 When is it time to breakup?
    5:49 My GF is asexual/demisexual
    8:13 How to start dating women at 27yrs
    11:10 Being trans and visible in gay relationships
    13:07 Lesbian friends-to-lovers breakup advice
    16:35 Am I toxic?
    18:39 Online dating for the first time
    20:55 Making a relationship last long term
    23:27 Is it ok to date a co-worker?
    26:34 Get over a long term relationship
    28:58 Crush on ur best friend
    30:12 How to get into a relationship
    p.s. if u like this stuff, check out our last advice vid czcams.com/video/b-Zg-kB1Imw/video.html

  • @akilahrich6463
    @akilahrich6463 Před 6 měsíci +35

    Oh my gosh I asked my sister to order the long sleeve merch and she showed me a personalized video from you to her!😱I was SHOCKED but I loved it and I really hope the merch fits❤❤❤I adore your videos btw🥰

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +14

      oh my god cuteee!! and thank you so much for getting some merch!! appreacite you 💖

  • @tcort
    @tcort Před 6 měsíci +18

    Always fun to watch when you've got a co-host like Gal Pal or Leah/James.

  • @PaulReinerfelt
    @PaulReinerfelt Před 5 měsíci +3

    I just love that Leah used the "Love is like a fart"-joke, particularly since I have been know to use it myself! 😄

  • @Lost_ToTheAges
    @Lost_ToTheAges Před 6 měsíci +13

    I can tell this is going to hit some people hard

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +5

      we literally go thru soooo much

    • @yasanthmanoj5037
      @yasanthmanoj5037 Před 6 měsíci

      what do u guys thinking about incest lgbt like us@@laurenelloise

  • @The_impossible_Girl_616
    @The_impossible_Girl_616 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Thanks for another amazing video Lauren, this was really helpful❤❤❤

  • @ChiefsFan420
    @ChiefsFan420 Před 6 měsíci +10

    I can't believe my question was in the video. I'm so happy and thank you so much!!!!!! 30:14

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +4

      thakn you so much for submitting a question! hopefully our answer was useful haha 💖 if you want it to happen, it will!

  • @MayTheSwiftie13
    @MayTheSwiftie13 Před 6 měsíci

    yay a 30 min long video! thank you for all the advice that you give us, you're amazing ahh!

  • @menaoliver13
    @menaoliver13 Před 6 měsíci +1

    oh my god i really appreciate you answering my question about my first relationship and you’ve made me feel so much better 😭😭🫶🏻

  • @ronaldruffner779
    @ronaldruffner779 Před 5 měsíci

    Great, fun answers, mostly the real honest caring about each questioners!

  • @Karli841
    @Karli841 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you so much Lauren and Leah for answering my question! Leah’s perspective of not caring so much about gender and labels was really comforting and eased a lot of the anxiety I have about being a bit unsure. You two are amazing, and I appreciate you taking the time to share some really awesome advice 💜

  • @dragon-born-nerd
    @dragon-born-nerd Před 6 měsíci

    thank you so much for answering all these! ✨ love this vid so much

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Of course!! 🧡 hope you found value in it!

  • @trekkie74656_
    @trekkie74656_ Před 6 měsíci

    Definitely need more of these kinds of videos! They're so great!

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci

      aww yayayaya love to hear this!! we gotta do more

  • @lottiehodgson2230
    @lottiehodgson2230 Před 6 měsíci +2

    This was so good!!!!! Thank you!!!!

  • @ryanrowe1975
    @ryanrowe1975 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Great playlist

  • @J17891
    @J17891 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for answering my question! This whole video was really helpful ❤

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +1

      You're so welcome! (idk what Q was yours BUT i hope our answer was helpful ) 🧡 🧡

    • @J17891
      @J17891 Před 5 měsíci

      @@laurenelloisemine was about how to online date

  • @I_like_dnd_and_cosplay_
    @I_like_dnd_and_cosplay_ Před 2 měsíci +1

    i know its pretty late, but i'm stuck in a tough situation. I'm a 13yo enby, and i'm crushing on another girl in my grade, shes a 13 yo lesbian. i transfered to a new school this year, and i met this girl. my friends introduced me to her, and the rest is history. i want to confess to her, and all my friends know. however, my friend asked her if she liked anyone, and my crush said no. ive been working so hard to get the courage to confess, but im not sure anymore.

  • @RubyBird12
    @RubyBird12 Před 6 měsíci +5

    hey Lauren! are you going to be doing a live? at any point?

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +3

      hellooo gonna do one tomorrow morning instead since its so late for me

  • @lassam333
    @lassam333 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Very good advice!

  • @indiesanimals4385
    @indiesanimals4385 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Should I be sleeping rn bc it’s 1am but will I be able to sleep if I don’t watch the video right now? No… so here I am watching it at 1am lol

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci

      oh my gosh hahah hope you got a good rest afterwards 💖💖

  • @NatalieE500
    @NatalieE500 Před 6 měsíci

    16:29 i was already subscribed, but still commenting to appreciate the excellent Pokémon reference

  • @user-tm1yr8ls6v
    @user-tm1yr8ls6v Před 6 měsíci +3

    the videos are always so helpful and comforting to watch and genuinely give younger people a lot of hope (for me at least and definitely for others too). Thank you.

  • @Fish-123
    @Fish-123 Před 6 měsíci +1

    16:25 love the pokémon reference 😂

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci

      Omg yessss love that someone got it :’)

  • @Calypso12-_-13
    @Calypso12-_-13 Před měsícem +1

    Hi Lauren! Ive been watching your videos recently and i was wondering if you could help me on this thing here
    Ive been questioning my sexuality for almost three years since 5th grade first I thought i was lesbian then i thoughr i was bisexual and i started questioning for another year if i was straight or not, now im sure im not straight but im questioning if im bisexual or pansexual and im not sure because i have had a crush on a non binary person and alot so im questioning alot. Do you have any ways that could help me find out?

  • @aw3299
    @aw3299 Před 5 měsíci

    Hi Lauren and James, I had a question about the ability to hold a conversation with the other person, especially with online relationships. Does autism factor into the determination of the ability of the other person to hold a conversation? In my case as a trans girl with autism, I can't help but fear my somewhat limited ability to have a conversation with others plays a factor in how people view me as being able to communicate personally, especially online. Can you clarify if autism plays a factor in a neurotypical person's perception of someone's ability to hold a conversation, both if do or don't know that person is neurodivergent.

  • @ae.edixtz
    @ae.edixtz Před 6 měsíci

    Heyy Lauren

  • @INFJ3027animus
    @INFJ3027animus Před 6 měsíci +1

    한국에서도 많이 보고있어요🥰🇰🇷

  • @kanon_natsuki
    @kanon_natsuki Před 6 měsíci +1

    sis time lol

  • @innateclue
    @innateclue Před 6 měsíci +3

    12:30 upload i see you girl

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +3

      i know 😫 im so tired but im trying to keep on track! only 1 more to go thankfully

    • @basnyatmixtape
      @basnyatmixtape Před 6 měsíci

      ⁠​⁠@@laurenelloisehey lauren, just wanted to let you know that you’re doing an amazing job. we all love the videos and everything but taking a break is important too. also taking care of yourself. its amazing of course how you want to do these videos and keep up with it but also taking a break is good every once in a while. everyone needs a break sometimes :) keep up the great work lauren!!

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 Před 6 měsíci

    😎😃😊😜😍😘💖

  • @mellycool06
    @mellycool06 Před 6 měsíci

    One question your sister mention she is in a relationship is it with a guy or a girl ?

  • @thebeachscene2021
    @thebeachscene2021 Před 6 měsíci +2

    now go get some sleep lol

  • @Dinikajanneke
    @Dinikajanneke Před 6 měsíci +1

    𝑷𝒍𝒛 𝒅𝒐 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  Před 6 měsíci +2

      🙈💖 yay glad u liked it enough u want another!!