Cold case: Model killed, incinerated in Miami after night of clubbing
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- čas přidán 30. 12. 2019
- Investigators wonder if young model Paula Sladewski's drop-dead good looks may have turned the head of a crazed killer during a wild night of partying at a Miami nightclub in January 2010. From 2016: bit.ly/39tLvxg
If I’m ever murdered or kidnapped, please don’t make up lies about me. I do not light up a room. Everyone doesn’t want to be my friend. People don’t automatically take notice of me. I have a smart mouth and two friends. Tell 20/20 that.
KAT please stay safe and try to be aware of your sorroundings
Hahaha. Same.
Same. Add awkward and a little chunky to mine.
🗣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🗣😉🗣
Don't worry, only women who light up a room get murdered :P
“...her drop dead good looks...”
Y'all could've phrased that better
Asil Ahmed yeah they could’ve
Except she ain't that good looking. This biii is basic as can be
True. And she wasn't exactly "drop dead gorgeous", either.
I didn't really find her that attractive she was definitely a good looking girl but not what they were making her out to be. But she still didn't deserve to die the way she did
ahahha
I love how genuine the mom is. I hope she finds out who did this to her daughter.
It's not just for her mom, but many of us are keenly waiting to see the conclusion of this case. I remembered firstly watching it on FBI
The mother was very honest about her daughter but heart broking of loosing her😢
I love how a speeding Roller Coaster can get a perfectly clear picture but surveillance videos are always grainy AF.
the are better quality because they can make money from those roller coaster pictures I Guess
surveillance cameras are mostly a part of of bigger system, with many cameras recording at the same time, saved in one hard disk. they save the recordings with less resolutions to save bits and bites. imho.
@@fly89 good info. I had no idea but always wondered about the crappy quality of most.
So true !
OMG never thought of that. WOw
"He was the last person to see her alive" no he wasn't. The bouncer that escorted her out was.
Have u watched the whole video. In the 14th min about they said that he wasnt the last one to see Paula.
Actually it was the murderer.
That crazy Russian blogger should be a suspect! He attacked another woman in Miami last month!
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abbreviation of time or that ‘shadowy’ figure on the poor quality mono colour video
The mother wants to blame her boyfriend for her daughter bad behavior. She humiliated him & he still did more to help her 🤦🏾♀️ that’s why your daughter behaved that way no accountability
One of your playlists is "why we need men around". And yet, a man was responsible for her death. That you would cast aspersions on the victim and her family instead of the MAN that harmed her says a great deal about you, none of which is flattering.
You're not a woman supporting women - you're a pick-me. If there's a hell, there's a special layer in hell just for people like you.
She lived a reckless and risky lifestyle. It's not shocking what happened to her.
Exactly
Wow her mom is brutally honest, she loves her and tells it as it is, not painting her daughter as an angel like what other parents do. My condolences to her loved ones🙏🏿
For someone like myself that has common sense, it’s impossible to paint daughter as “Perfect”. She has “Freeloading” written all over it. Her Stupid Games got Her Stupid Prizes; Death.
@@boogitybear2283 “stupid games” (whatever that means 😏) doesn’t give someone a reason to kill you. This kind of thinking is SO dangerous.
@@JellybeanHair She reaped what she sow. She’s about as Unattractive as they come. I love how the Media portrays certain genders and races.
@@boogitybear2283 not saying the media doesn’t portray certain genders and races certain ways, they 100% do. What I’m ACTUALLY saying is that saying she was playing “stupid games” and “got her stupid prizes” is a dangerous mindset. You saying that is no different than the media racially profiling and it’s DANGEROUS. I understand anger but blaming a young woman for her death because of the life she lead isn’t ok. You won’t change my mind 🤷♀️
@@boogitybear2283 and actually MOST people would say she’s beautiful...I certainly would.
I feel the mom is being very realistic. Not sugarcoating the situation.
I think the authorities are not doing a good job in investigating this case.
@@onixalagao5732 - Is your first name Sherlock per chance? Perhaps you should be the lead investigator...
@@lopezmt5
Think theres nothing we could do for you.A guy whos been living with bitterness and sarcasm all his life.
@@lopezmt5
Youre hopeless kid.ha ha ha.
@@lopezmt5 you mom went to The University of Phoenix and didn’t graduate good Terry
i wanna give the mom a hug for her honesty
She looks way too old for her age. I guess all that substance abuse shows. She really aged prematurely.
Horrible journalism. If they cut out all the fluff about how "sexy" and "hot" she was and actually stuck to telling the story, this video would be about 30 seconds long.
SNL Fan actually there's a documentary from the boyfriends perspective that's a lot more in depth than this. There's a lot that wasn't mentioned here.
@@DarkAngel71180 Nice, I'll have to check it out
Exactly what I was thinking like okay we get it she was cute
Goes to show you that even though you may look good in the end, nobody cares
Dude, your comments are making me floppy! ⛔️🍆‼️
"She went from brown hair to blonde hair". -Interviewer like it's a critical part of the story.
🤦
Lolllllololol right!?
In pictures of her as a kid she seemed to have dirty blonde hair so idk what he was he even getting at lol
@@BeccaBrodtman lol you're right. So *dramatic*, right?
Ikr !!! Smh.
I find as blonde I get more unwanted advances and scary men that won’t respect no but when I’m dark I’m more invisible to them
The deceased seems to have taken many poor decisions in her short life---stripper, expensive lifestyle, bad men, playboy magazines or similar bad hobbies. As a woman, her mother saw it coming and she knew that life was going to be very tuff for her child particularly without education...unfortunately there was nothing more the mother could've done since the deceased was no longer a minor.
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Many clubs in Europe open till 7am. It’s not the problem with clubs being open all night long. Make sure you always go with friends and call a taxi before living. There were mistakes made: Kevin as a boyfriend should’ve waited for her outside and also not let her drink till she pass out. Of course there are always bad people who surround us and unfortunately this girl with her behavior attracted one of those. I once got wasted at New Year Party and passed out. Thank God it was at a friends’ house. But I’ve seen many girl pass out on the streets at 12 am by the clubs, and that makes an easy prey for killer.
Yes many gals
Many European countries are just all-around better areas to live.
She was flashing her vagina & flirting with other men..grounds for dumping her right there😡let the other men drooling over her be responsible 🙄
For the boy friend not waiting for her is a big mistake unforgivable mistake, this story I watched years ago and it really affected me that I quit going clubbing period, especially she was just a girl went out for a night to have a good time, when I watched the story it really got me think that this world has so many psychopaths living around us and we never know who
Miami Beach is very uncomfortable place to visit, I visited 2 times, in 89’s my father took us on vacation to Miami I was 12-13 years old and I didn’t like it , in 2003 I visited Miami and unfortunately I was very uncomfortable and actually cut my trip , for some reason I can’t understand why but it’s the environment I think
NOTHING good EVER happens at 2 am in the morning at a bar or a club. Nothing.
Nothing good ever happens by drinking too much...or drinking at all.
I’m inclined to agree. I wanted to argue against it (bc I’m an ass), but I can’t find a good-enough personal experience to do so😂
Like there's nothing wrong with partying and going to the club but be smart about it, if you know you go completely wild if you drink too much, then don't ever drink that much. Like the moment they said she was just downright drunk and started showing her vagina and grabbing everyone's attention I knew before they even said it that she was dead asf.
Yep thats about the time u get rubbed out lol
Robert Gardea Just about everyone comes to the same conclusion that alcohol and drugs including tobacco causes nothing but suffering. Heaven help people in the midst of this abuse/addiction.
You kicked the boyfriend out bcse he was trying to stop his girlfriend from exposing her body and making a scene 🤔.
Shitty ppl...that left her vulnerable n some punk bitch took advantage...just sad
I dunno why he went home I wouldve waited outside for her
Kiferia he was drunk so he probably wasn't thinking straight, they could've escorted him off the property and not let him stay outside of the club, or because it was extremely late
@Angelous Bacon OR she could have left with him instead of staying continuing to make a spectacle of herself...which is why they were arguing in the first place. She loved ALL the attention so much, she ended up attracting the wrong attention, unfortunately. VERY SAD...
@Angelous Bacon I agree. No one deserves to die like that, ever. But carry yourself as a lady should. Nothing wrong with partying but have your witts about you.
I respect her mother. It kind of proves even if you have a parent who tries to lead you to be an educated, independent woman who makes safe choices, some women just go their own way. Unfortunately, this beautiful, young woman suffered horrific consequences because she chose a different path. Paula didn't deserve a brutal death for that.Such a sad ending to a beautiful, young life. My heart breaks for the life Paula missed out on, her mothers broken heart and her sister losing her best friend. She was prey for predators because she was intoxicated, vulnerable and alone. So unfair
another victim of liberalism and feminism
Sounded like she also needed a father figure in her life. Going to the club and stripping for male attention is not healthy.
So many people going to die by partying tonight, not me I'll stay at home for CZcams marathon.
Me, too!!! Screw going out.
lovely armdrz9407 😂😂
@@lovelyarmdrz chances exponentially increased when you're out n about.
I'm safe on my couch. I just hope people don't start shooting their guns in the air. You know where does bullet land.
misaki stalker ...I hear you...! Play it safe....have a fantastic New Year ! 2020 ...
Imagine you die and this is what’s on the Internet. A story about you lifting up your skirt in the club...
No problem.. Dead people are conscious of nothing at all
Brielle Bardot exactly
Her choices...
If she did it its really on her, theyre just telling the facts.
Learn from this girls
Bouncers very Suspicious. Were all bouncers accounted for going back into club after 10min following her out? Then it's who ever she caught a ride with.
One of the many reasons why I don’t drink alcohol 😔😔
no hammer time?
Happens to sober people all the time.
Those photos in the magazine and her photos with blonde hair can be mistaken as two different person.
shing villarias *people (trying to help not being a dick)
SHe looked much better as a brunette...in my opinion.
@@tutorjulslee2357 of course cause that was her natural color.
It looks like she had a bit of unneeded work done.
@@micellea This - had more to do with the fake hair/spray tan/lashes than the color of the hair. Like how Pamela Anderson was a natural beauty when she started on Baywatch, then had the giant fake boobs put in, had other work done and became a monstrosity.
I'll never understand businesses that install crappy security cameras. Like seriously what's the point of video surveillance if the resolution is so bad you can't see anyone clearly?
insurance purposes, these businesses don't really care much about the perp being caught. They just need enough evidence to back their insurance claim for something
kO wackO exactly. They think bc someone sees the cameras it would deter them but I’d rather have one where there is a clear resolution but they don’t want to spend the extra money. It’s ridiculous bc those clubs bring in so much money.
It costs a lot to have HD camera going for hours on end so they use cheaper quality so they can just save it on tapes. (Or so I’ve heard)
they are legally reqired to have security tapes, and no business wants to spend 1000 on each camera for a good quality picture during the night
You are all wrong.
It comes down to storage space.
There’s an exponential increase in storage space required as quality increases. i.e. if you double the quality of a video it will require more than twice as much storage space.
This is where the issues occur. Of course lower quality cameras are cheaper to buy outright but the difference is negligible, there’s absolutely no difference in the running cost between cameras of different qualities.
Although wacko is the most right, security footage in a business typically only exists to satisfy insurance companies.
According to what we heard, she has brain, personality, character and passion to be a nurse, yet she had to focus on her looks and body to make easy money. That's so sad.
You mean so dumb. She chose which path to choose
It's beautiful when one can manage to use their talents and God-Given Gifts to the full, which Paula seemed to be doing💐
What's wrong with making extra money?
No one should suffer a death like this. But woman please realize your surroundings!
The boyfriend was not the last person to see her alive - the person who escorted her out of the club was.
This is a novelty, you should call the investigators....
@@GospelTatiana lol
Right. As stated at 14:43
well if she was showing herself like this then...I am sorry but these things happen like this, there are a lot of sick dudes out there and if they see a hot young girl who shows herself like this...It even didnt cross my mind that boyfriend could have done it, "odd because he just left her there" well...what was he supposed to do id she refused to come with him?
Hailey Q 202 and the blame the victim ideology is still kicking around, huh?
Mom is pretty honest..."She loved being the center of attention. It was all about her."
Sadly being the center makes you a target :(
I mean, she still had a heart for others. I think she was aware of the split in her persona -vain selfish party girl vs philanthropic loving loving family girl.
And she got that attention by doing things like wearing no patties and lifting her skirt in a nightclub. Apparently she got the wrong attention.
Kind of hard to ignore 😉
and that is what got her killed
Back when I clubbed often I used to see couples arguing all the time. Either the guy or girl couldn’t control their alcohol or both and it ended bad every time
This is the first honest parent I've seen on one of these shows.
How are surveillance cameras so crappy in this day and age 😳
Right
Tina Goebel this is old. Early 2000s
This happened in January 2010.
They do it intentionally, I bet inside by the registers is top notch.
2010
My Dad always taught me that nothing good ever happens after midnight. Even if I go clubbing, we leave before midnight and just go to a friend’s place to keep drinking or whatever. Gotta stay safe
So true. I don't even like being out of my house after midnight.
@@dootdoot94xo44 as seen in this video.. Fighting with her bf cause he wanted them to leave cause she was showing her 🐱to everyone .. Real classy... rip to her tho
Feel the same way ,girls!!!🙏
"Nothing good happens after midnight" means go to bed not stay up drinking at a friends place
@@dootdoot94xo44 literally garbage collectors
I dont think her style was glamorous, more like fake. Sad that women chase after this look. Very sad what happened to her.
I hope her case gets solved one day. Rest in peace Paula. My condolences to the family. Her mother wearing his ashes is so touching. My friend has a necklace with his grandfather's ashes. And I know how much it means to him so I'm glad her mother has her in her heart.
Who "escorted" her out of the Club.... that's the last person that saw her.... I don't believe the boyfriend is guilty.
Paula Leigh
They said he was a bouncer as well.
Paula Leigh I really don’t think it’s the boyfriend either.
Not an internet detective but, the boyfriend is innocent, & the bouncers know exactly who she left with, which direction she went ect. But she did put herself in that situation by NOT leaving with her man. I’m pissed because 90% of these episodes don’t have any updates. It’s 2020 there’s cameras everywhere nowadays
@Luna EB I got bounced out of a concert once, trying to sneak backstage LOL. I think you guys would have been more diligent im making sure this girl got where she was going safely.
In the entire episode it was stated that Kevin had proposed to her and she told him no and his money game was weak after his business failures if my memory serves me correctly. That's why I am not feeling this edited version. I have always found the claims of Kevin her so called boyfriend sketchy. Bear in mind he was ejected first because "HE" was feeling some kind of way about guys with more money and affluent were checking for her. The entire episode sheds more light and I am convinced he did it.
Not even 20 seconds in and i already hear, “walked into a room and turned heads”
Im glad i don’t turn heads, light up a room, or am the life of the party.
flxwercxrpse I know for me they would be like we loved her but she argued with everyone,had the mouth of a sailor, and cried to much😂🙌🏼
Lol
You turned my head
It's just a tad bit of victim blaming.
Too funny
Well she had a crazy lifestyle and I like that the mom don’t sugar coat it
My heart hurts for this mother in pain. What a horrendous murder. They wanted to get rid of all evidence.
If you at a club and your man says "let's go...." it's time to go 🤨🤔
Andrea Manning Exactly
omg, Andrea, in what year are you stuck in 1950?
@Hokum Doodie exactly.....
I do the same thing....
You definitely have never been drunk
@@CAPDCJR I never get that drunk.
showing a bunch of drunk males in the club your snatch and then wondering why you ended up kindling in a dumpster cause you didn't give up the snatch. smoothbrain activities
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I totally respect Mom's honesty .
The mom has no place for her "honesty" when she is the reason her daughter did the things she did. Her mom is a narcissistic ahole.
@@belladonna5904 care to explain
She’s a narcissist for telling the truth?
@@w.kamaranjoku1712 when Paula was 14 an older man began an inappropriate sexual relationship with her, and her mom didn't even try to stop it. Her sister wanted her mom to do something, but she refused. So her sister was the one who called CPS on this man and tried to protect her.
17:10 --- Sorry, mom... She's not in "Heaven"!
The photos of her as a brunette and all the rest of her photos are like photos of two completely different women!
Is getting drunk/high in a room full of strangers ever a good idea.
you can't tell anyone anything.....I would never put my self in a situation like that...Even with friends, the loss of control gets really scary...
It's not worth it 😭 Sad
It’s always a great idea
Mike Milly Hi, Paula’s Ghost
Hell no
Your not blessed as a child if your obsessed with your looks, it's a curse.
Hell yeah!
@voodoo star They're saying being vain like she was is bad.
Absolutely right
Her mother encouraged her behavior;maybe even lived vicariously through her. That’s dangerous.
It really can be. Thats why the devil's most favorite sin is vanity.
The detective should find out which cab drivers were working that night in that area and interview them. Someone has got to know something.
Most large cities have "gypsy cabs," sort of proto Uber, cruise and take cash only.
Did you not listen? The PI did.
She was playing a game in leagues that never end with a beautiful ending. Unfortunately she made that decision herself and her family suffered her loss. Very sad. Even more when everyone noticed she didn’t have anything under and drunk; she was the perfect victim for any perpetrator watching.
another victim of liberalism and feminism
"He was the last person to see her alive" no he wasn't the bouncer walking her out was the last person get it right miami police
Actually wouldn't the murderer be the last person to see her alive?
Her killer was the last person to see her alive.
@Vanessa Marie
You've made yourself look so stupid with that comment. Unless you know FOR A FACT that the bouncer (who was not, in fact, "walking her out" but following behind as she was leaving), was indeed the last one to see her alive. In which case you're accusing him of murder. Check yourself before checking others.
First mistake right their ' Kevin kicked out for causing a disturbance'...she had no knickers on, lifting her skirt in the club, guys right up against her....Kevin was protecting her!
Right?!? But hes the one that got kicked out?!?!
@Maurice Labbe for them it's what keeps customers that's all they care about
Or maybe he was jealous...
Rebekah Field KNICKERS?
Knickers are panties...
My heart goes out to this mom..I have two daughters too..and i can't imagine what she is going thru.
Man this happens way to often. Tourists get drunk and disappear. I have a trip coming soon and this was a great reminder to stay even more vigilant in an unknown area. Rip
'His alibi was airtight'
'In the investigation we found everything he was telling us was accurate'
Then why have you heavily insinuated that he was the killer for the last 16 minutes??
Right!
Totally. It's all artificial drama. Particularly because his alibi relies on so much that is completely falsifiable. Is there a receipt for the taxi? Which taxi driver picked him up? Does that driver recognize him? How about hotel staff? Anyone remember him coming into the lobby that night? Key card used on his door? What towers did his cell phone ping at what times? Where was he, precisely at the time she left the club? What about video surveillance at the hotel or along his entire route? Lots of pieces that could be validated/falsified. This is not your typical, "I was walking along an empty beach all night after my wallet and cell phone were stolen." type alibi. The dude is almost certainly innocent or they would have long since burned him.
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I was thinking the same thing! Like wtf. I though we were leading up to him being the killer but it lead up to nothing!!!
And said “crime of passion” and interviewed him for 12 hours straight...
My sister told me the other day that i “light up the room” and now ive been watching my back everywhere i go.
Just under do yourself! Make yourselves frumpy...and you will be alright!
Banged Minsoo....no worries, she lied....
Lmaooooo
@@branon6565 hahahahahaahhaah!!! 👍
@banged minsoo u mean ur the guy switching the lights of the room?
the problem is nothing good happens when a girl is hammered AND wandering around by herself. My gf in college loved partying/drinking with her friends. One night I had a guy’s night at my place on campus while she went to a bar with her friends. Next thing I know her best friend is calling me asking me to pickup my gf. I did and found her passed out on the street near the bar… all i could think was she could’ve been abducted had I not got her
Miami is super dangerous, and especially the neighborhood that club is located. I checked and Miami logs 414 crimes occuring per square mile compared to 26.8 nation wide.
I love how all these shows tend to paint the victim as some sort of beautiul saint, and then when they start talking about what they actually did it quickly turns out that person was an absolute train wreck waiting to happen. Even her own mother dropped the facade two questions in.
No one is perfect.
I mean...she still didn't deserve to die
I don't think this one did paint her as a saint,even her mother said she made bad decisions but they usually do try and make them look perfect.
@@HalfInsaneOutdoorGuy why? Because the mother didnt paint her daughter with bright colors? Unlike every other parent that always claim their child was a fkn saint this mother told it just how it was.
No one deserves to be brutally murdered. Unless you’re a child abuser, those people don’t deserve to live. But she wasn’t & absolutely didn’t deserve the end she got.
Ppl please remember this, predators prey in crowds waiting for a stray!!..
when you go to a place that is socially popular, and you are around strangers
If you come with a partner or group, stay in contact with your group.
I used to work security at clubs and have never liked the effects of alcohol on myself or others....as it does make you cognitively vulnerable.
In this situation, it was probably a sexual assault cover-up by fire done by someone who either worked there or frequented the venue.
And they probably did it before so they are in the system already and didn't want a dna match to a prior case.
And cities like LA, Vegas and Miami....are social-petri dishes for psychopaths and sociopaths, so when you are in these "fun" places you need to have extra situational awareness and be cautious of ppl you meet...
Not everyone is there to party and have fun!!
I'd always keep an eye out for any girls when I was younger going to raves, the amount of times I'd cold approach some creep harassing a girl beggars belief. I'm a pretty tall skin head, covered in scars from fighting, and the situations diffused pretty quickly with the dipshit walking away. Made some good friends over the years from helping out. Wish I was there to save every girl but I know that more suffered than what I could ever possibly save. I stopped clubbing because of all the parasites, and the fact I'd always end up in fights because of them. I've gotten my anger under control these days, right up until I see the next asshole playing possum. There's a reason I keep a shovel in the back of my car!
I can agree with this highly since from time to time. I do come across odd encounters with individuals at night especially with some eyeing me out or sometimes following me to a certain extent before I trail them off in a place well lit and crowded with some other people.
@@----.__ I'd imagine clubs/bars are creepos main hunting grounds, doesn't sound surprising.
@Lala Sisli This person's account is named after a Red Dead Redemption character and has the character's picture. I'm betting they're actually a woman.
Wow! Thanks I'll be extra careful henceforth.
She was very striking as a brunette. Such a profoundly tragic story. Heart-felt condolences to all those who knew and loved her.
You can't live like that and be super safe.🤔
The mother realizes her daughters personality made her a victim which is why she sounds more angry than sad.
Yes! Because she encouraged her behavior and is now paying for it.
@@manashawest she didn’t encourage her behavior. Didn’t you watch the video?
@@manashawest Her mother didn’t do anything! She wasn’t too happy with her behavior. It’s not her fault. It was mentioned that her daughter was too obsessed with her looks from a very young age.
@M B no it's not, just because someone has a good up bringing doesn't mean they'll always turn out as great people, just as a person who grows up with horrible parents can be the nicest people you ever meet, parents aren't the only people who raise a child, factors like community, peers, and the algorithm, at what point are people going to take responsibility for they're actions and not blame mommy and daddy? What happened to her wasn't her fault and who she was did make her vulnerable, but who she was isn’t a result of her parents but of her own self
It’s disgusting that you are all victim blaming this woman. She didn’t die because she cared about her looks, or wore revealing clothes, or liked to party, or worked as a stripper. She did not “get herself killed” or “pay the price” of her “behavior”. She died because someone murdered her. You can all fuck right off.
She looked way better as a brunette!
You watch alot of these too lol i saw your comment on a different crime watch daily episode lol
@@amanteheru8572 stop creeping on her weirdo
@@amanteheru8572 Amante that means you watch a lot of these too then.
Agreed. She was much more attractive with her natural hair and look
She looks very fake and plastic and alot older than she is.
This mom warned her many times. I feel so bad for Paula’s family. Especially her wonderful mom.
I AGREE WITH YOU 1MILLION PERCENT 🙄
@@thefirstiagree1091 ME TO BUT 100000000000000000000%
Im surprised you don't call her ""A LADY"". Attention wh*res exist; If she respected herself and her BF she would probably be alive today....
Boyfriend wasn't the last to see her alive, the bouncers were.
I thought this case was solved. I heard that her,and her boyfriend got into a augmented. He was kick out the club,she stayed behind. She was drunk,and the bouncer gave her a ride home. He killed her. I thought they caught him? They at least at something connecting him to Paula 's murder.
wait... how do you know that?
@@DeadsupraEE3
I thought they got the guy. They had a man on video who followed her out. A person gave police a description ,and they did a sketch of the guy. But they never caught him. Here the sketch
www.cbsnews.com/news/paula-sladewski-update-did-this-man-kill-ex-playboy-model-pictures
I would guess the killer was.
He could've got jealous at the club
lesson number one: do not drink or do drugs at all -- it always ends badly
Detective: I wouldn’t let my adult daughter go to this club. It’s known for people walking out of there pretty wasted. 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ that’s every club ever ffs
It's pretty sad when you're murdered and all your family really has to say about you is, "She was pretty".
They said other nice stuff too but yeah I agree, every other complement seemed like an after thought. Truly heart breaking imo. Double oof when you realize that she is only attractive to people in a superficial way and doesn't really have much depth. I almost feel bad for not finding her appealing.
Very telling.
Natalie Hoogerwerf so sad
And she isnt even pretty, looks fake.
@@LittleRainGames she looked fine as a brunette, but she transformed into a slightly less coked up Courtney Love with that horrible blonde dye.
The thought of partying for 2 days makes me exhausted
So sorry they didn't catch the murder & i love how honest her mother was let's not hide the fact that a particular lifestyle can attract sick minds & personalities !
If you are worried about your girl doing this to you at a club. She ain’t your girl. And you shouldn’t have taken her to a club. But they lived that life. These are the dangers of that. People make choices.
That's your opinion. Millions of people go to clubs and they survive just fine. Getting up out of bed and walking outside is making a choice and taking a risk also in case you didn't already know.
and mistakes.
Guess he couldn't stop her from going to the club so he decided to go along too. Once a headstrong and self-obsessed girl like her makes a decision to go somewhere, wild horses won't stop them. Then, once they're there and lapping up all that attention there's just no talking to them about home. I've had the experience of a girl like that before, you're damned if you do, and damned if you don't go along with them.
How are they going to describe her as "blessed by nature" and then proceed to list all of her cosmetic procedures...kinda contradictory. This is such a sad story and they focused way too much on vanity.
What? A boob job?
Lol
She was blessed by nature, the extensions , noob job etc took away from her natural beauty.
@@nicnonya5239 watch the video again. You obviously didn't pay attention
When are they going to find out who did it??? The bouncers know more than what they're saying.
oceana forrest AGREED !! I think the bouncers did it
@@RBNobody of course, they were drooling for her, they got rid of the boyfriend, gave her a few free drinks lace with something and waited 4 her outside.
Thats the word in the streets
The cops are incompetent idiots......they should have solved this
case by now......it's been years......who knows how many other women
this creep killed after her.
@@kellymccain3403 facts
i really don't understand why the investigators point out what she was wearing as if that has any correlation to her death. its almost like they're blaming her for mens horrific actions.
It is important. Man have another perspective on it.
The guy that kidnapped her mistook her for a prostitute when he approached her.
Her good looks and nice demeanour got her killed. She turned down a psychopath. It's so sad because she was gorgeous. I bet she even let him down easy. Some people are just evil. And an evil jerk killed her.
It’s like people think It’s worse if the victim was pretty
Or love to say that the victim wasn't 🙄.. we're all beautiful to someone 🤷
Yeah.. nobody talks about all the wrong things she was doing and bad decisions she was making.. sad story
I know that pisses me off
The guy at beginning omg talking about she was drop dead gorgeous lmao ...really . She’s pretty but take the extensions implants etc off average
I know. It's like, if you were ugly and got murdered, it was a mercy killing. We are so superficial.
Her mom has a more “you brought this on yourself” kind of attitude, like she knew something like this was going to happen
I don't think that is how her mom came across, but she did say she told her she didn't approve of her behavior. I certainly would not want the world to think I encouraged this type of behavior in my daughter. All of us know that being so needy of being pretty and getting attention leads to questionable situations - that behavior does not attract the most upstanding people in our communities.
The mother is heartbroken that a lifestyle of which she did not approve led to the death of her daughter. I am quite certain she wishes she could have done something years before that would have discouraged her daughter away from that false life. However, often there is no way you can discourage it. Tragically, her daughter's life choices put her in a position where some sick, perverted monster made her the center of his world for a few hours. The victim did not get snatched from her home or walking home from the grocery store. However, her behavior certainly does not give anyone a right to harm her, but she was surely warned many times about getting drunk and flaunting herself the way she was apparently doing.
Glenna Rose Thank you for pointing that out! I definitely agree with you, makes sense. 👍🏽👍🏽
@@GlennaVan Well said, this is how I was thinking about the situation. Of course no one should have put a hand on her regardless of her poor choices. In this fallen world there are people that will prey on others and her behavior put her in the company of people wanting to harm her. There is a reason why people tell women especially not to get drunk or flaunt in public without someone there to keep an eye on you. It's the world we live in and people can try to ignore this but it is reality. Most of us don't think she deserves it but the reality of the world is there are sick people and her behavior increased her odds she would have a run in with a bad person. Similar to all those travelers that go to dangerous places of the world to prove a point that they should be able to and then end up usually getting raped & murdered. In the perfect world they should be able to travel without harm and women should be able to make poor choices without getting harmed but reality doesn't always end up the way things should happen.
Finally! A mother that actually speaks the damn truth about their child. We always hear "my child was an angel and never did no wrong and everyone loved them blah! Blah! Blah!"
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that her risky behavior invited trouble. A mother knows her own child better than anyone else. Her mother was likely a witness to many behaviors in Paula's life that caused her to worry. Sometimes it's hard for a parent to tell a grown adult child anything. They just won't listen.
How are there no cameras outside of the club??
No liability then
The problem is if you choose to stay at a dance club hanging with strange men, drank at 5 am---The police naming Kevin is totally nonsense because you can see on the video both of them leaving at different hours. Paula is responsible for her fateful night. I'm sorry, but Miami isn't the safest place to go, especially that industrial dead-end street
Kicking her and her boyfriend out separately makes absolutely no sense so you know that was a set up.
You're overthinking it. The bouncers don't know them, for all they know he's just some guy trying to take her home. Let's be realistic here, she couldn't handle her liquor and resisted him when he said it was time to leave. That separation was on her, she could have followed him out when she saw him being removed.
This happens all the time, boyfriends getting upset at their girlfriends being a little too drunk and flirting with other guys, then getting kicked out of the club for acting aggressive towards their girlfriend. It’s not some kind of conspiracy set up it’s just how it goes
We r talking about Miami mess up city
@Cortez he grabbed her by the arm to leave because she was drunk as hell, lifting her dress on the dance floor with no underwear on etc.
@Cortez Yup. This is a very common thing.
Some women just want attention and drama without thinking of the consequences.
I also can understand the domestic violence thing... A drunk woman literally smashing up your house and saying things to provoke you just so you to be the center of attention.
He's lucky she didn't throw a vodka bottle at his head or worse.
There would be blood everywhere when the neighbors call the cops... She would forget her behavior by the next day and imagine that he tried to kill her and cut her into pieces like Dexter.
That show also happens in Miami so... I see where that particular story may have come from.
I don't want to victim blame and she didn't deserve that horrible end...but it's easy to jump to the wrong conclusions.
Every grieving family will say you were an angel unless you were a complete scum bag.
That detective was not very smart
I Notice that her mother is very honest About her, And the way she lived her life
@Killer Curves , a judgmental idiot? Are you talking about yourself? The poor woman is grieving the loss of her daughter. Have some sympathy! She didn’t approve of her daughter’s lifestyle so she warned her. That is what a good mother is supposed to do. The mother is right. Her daughter’s lifestyle and her character cost her her life.
@Killer Curves Paula would still be alive today if she'd listened to that " bitter judgmental idiot" like u said. You're probably living a lifestyle just like Paula if not worse.
No the murderer cost her her life. The mother comes across as a piece of shit to be honest jealous of her daughter from the very start. No wonder Paula sought attention probably because her mother was so unloving!
No Paula would still be alive today if some monster hadn’t murdered her
Yes she tells it how it is
"She loved the good things in life.." wow, amazing original thinker I can see why they called her academically gifted, you hardly ever hear sentiments like this
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The rest of us like the crappy things in life?
@@dastreet615 yes exactly
She was earning as an a girl of pleasure and stripper I’m not sure why they say model. But nobody deserves this. Rip
The bouncer that had Kevin removed from club for "causing a disturbance" when he tried to get Paula to leave might have done so for predatory reasons. Separated from her boyfriend and super drunk, it would be much easier to take advantage of her.
My thoughts exactly
Even if he didn't do anything to her personally, his actions put her at risk big time. You do not kick out the only person who knows her like that. You tell them both to leave, then document how they left the establishment. That all gets put in the report at the end of the night. That way if something happens to anyone the police have something to go off of. The bouncer was either A) A COMPLETE MORON....B) VERY INEXPERIENCED or both. Anyone who has worked in venue security knows that woman are a target. You have to pay attention. Also many owners of these types of places just don't care and hire people that never question them. It's rare ownership let's their staff do the right thing.
You guys watch way too many TV shows. My previous post explain that I was a bouncer and what usually happened. He didn't just "grab" her. With guys groping and grabbing at her, he lost it and if he "grabbed" her that would be enough for me to ask him to leave. I would ask the lady if she wanted to go with him or stay and whatever she decided...she was an adult.
I'm guessing it was an opportunistic crime form someone hanging around the club.
That is what most often happens.
@@markmike7933 "she was an adult" typical bouncer attitude. You gotta go a little further in situations like that. If he was being violent with her and you make a decision that they need to leave separately, then at least get the plate number of the car she leaves in. That way PD has something to go off of if something happens. All those things need to be documented when you're doing venue security. It has nothing to do with watching movies, it's about being thorough.
Miami is very sketchy and clubs do many things under the table like this so you are not wrong for assuming this
My daughter turn 18 she wants to move out already, i put her this video and I talk her , you don’t have ideas how bad is outside, you think go out and party is cool , you don’t know nothing yet , she doesn’t listen to me because she thinks she knows everything.
All u can do is say tell me where you are going and call to say when youre returning home...and if you want to be picked up... that way you at least know where they will be... at little less worry...
We parents just want our kids safe...🙏
They think they are invincible.
Return of the Dragon ....how on earth do you know this man did any of the things you accuse him of? ALL of us worry about our children and it’s not because we were abusive and/or used others, but because we know awful people exist in this world and our children may encounter them.
Netty Rock ... she sounds like my daughter... for some reason they think we are the ones that knows nothing 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Be.you.tifully Made .... well said!!! Thanks for that!
I love this darn channel!
Poor Paula, mother was right about daughter's wacko lifestyle. Hanging out with sleazes. Poor, poor Paula she never "got it." Too much self love and need for attention. Her indifference is almost a singular sign of a complete lack of empathy for others. Completely a lack of concern for others, no doubt she enraged others.
Um, I know if I was kicked out of a club, and my gf didnt follow me out, that would be our last date...no matter how long we were together.
It really was
yeah she should follow her boyfriend
Facts
They probably kicked him out because he was trying to get her to stop flashing everyone - which is bad for business if you know what I mean. Club owners like slutty girls, they bring $$ to the club. Sad. She was really beautiful when she was younger. But she valued the wrong things and paid the ultimate price for it. Parents: Don't let your daughters become strippers.
Scorch428 So you behave badly and it’s your GF’s fault ? Any guy embarrassed me by acting like a twat in a club, I’d dump him first 😂
TWO THINGS,
1. Never leave the woman you love alone in a club.
2. Choose better character people to surround yourself with. (She was an absolute danger to herself and her boyfriend)
Your right, I wouldn't have blamed him tho to have left her there!!, lifting up her skirt to men with no knickers on etc .
also ...dont let them kick out the man your love from the club?!!! and if he gets kicked out go with him?!!
3. As an adult, make better decisions for yourself.
Add two more things; don’t break your girlfriend’s nose and don’t threaten to kill her and cut her up into little pieces and put her in bags so no one can find her body.
@@janetdonald9801 And that goes without saying! Horrible story, I just hope young women can use it as an example of what making horrible decisions could end up costing you. Hope it saves a lot of young women.
Any updates on the case? I feel sorry for the family. My condolences to family and friends
After he got kicked out of the club, that’s when he realized that she belongs in the streets
If she would of went to Vegas she'd be alive, not something you hear often.
Yeah the opposite they said about Pac
@XWriter100 HARD TO SAY BUT IS .........TRUE.
Nah there are sick people in Vegas too
lolol
LOL!
So the fact that all 3 bouncers immediately followed her, once she when out of camera, doesn't raise any eyebrows?
Big time
Exactly! Why weren't they looked at as suspects?!!!!
People in the crime watch youtube comment section make better detectives than the actual detectives 😒
@Ms Bliss yup. bartender was probably paid off. slipped mickey in her drink, then the (probably paid too) security escort woman to "client" taxi.. who paid to have woman drugged. why dont they just look up who paid for the taxi or have camera footage of the car she went in. bleh
Why didn't they put her in a cab?
Yikes, her life sounds like a disaster. What a waste. Poor mom, you could tell she tried to get her daughter to stop that destructive lifestyle.
she's was more attractive with out make up, respect to her mom not all kids are angels
I “light up a room” every time I walk into my kitchen at midnight to make a sandwich. Am I at risk?
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Good one! Cholesterol is around the corner to get you! careful
Yeah you're at risk those chips will get yo ass
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A few things I've learned throughout my time watching true crime videos:
1. Don't light up a room with your smile
2. Never give anyone the shirt off your back
3. It's not a mannequin
@devi too late ur already so damn beautiful 😊
Then you really haven't learned much, have you?
SA3 read the first three words again
Some things I learned from binge watching these damn videos: Anyone can be a killer, assume even the ones that seem least likely a killer, cute babies and sweet grandmas included.
Keep cell phone active for digial footprints.
Tell my close family/friends that if they dont hear from me at least once a month to check on me.
😆😂😆😂😆 to the third line
I would’ve never guessed her being a stripper by the way her family described her 😂😂😂
It seems as though her mom is holding a grudge against Paula, kinda like blaming Paula for getting herself killed
True, I got this vibe too.. but then remembering she said she wanted to kill herself because she couldn’t see herself living without her daughter.. I think she’s grieving and it’s brought out selfishness. I think that she does kind of blame her daughter for taking her happiness away.
Prolly cuz she told her daughter to clean up her act or she'll end up in dead. but the daughter never listened and the mom grew resentful. I also think they didn't have a good relationship cuz the daughter was too self absorbed
When you live that type of lifestyle, nothing good ever comes out of it in the end....
Well said!
Lisa Torres ...I would strongly agree !!
No one deserves to be murdered, no one. Also, no one is invisible. Unfortunately for her mother, her little girl was out of control. Yes, someone can come into your house... but there's no reason to tell death to come hither. Women and men both become statistics when they get too drunk, too high, whatever. And also when they are stone cold sober. There is evil out there. Evil people. Stay alert. Be careful.
Lisa Torres........That's a really idiotic thing to say. You sound like you're still
living in the time when they used to say every woman who wore a short skirt
somehow deserved to be sexually assaulted......when you talk like that you are
too stupid to realize you are blaming the victim and making excuses for a killer
.......are you that jealous of the way she looks that you blame her for the actions of a
cold-blooded murderer.....smh.
That's not at all true. Most people don't get murdered, regardless of how they live. Don't let your obsession with these stories skew your world view.
The blonde hair makes her look about 10 years older.
Plus plucked eyebrows n a very tanned complexion.
Yea, I don't know what about it specifically makes it that way.
She looks way hotter as a blonde
I’m sure she looks worse now
Doesn't matter any more.