Asking Zurich: The truth about flirting and dating in Zurich, Switzerland
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- čas přidán 27. 05. 2023
- Hi everyone! Today we are asking people on the streets how is it to flirt and date in Zurich, Switzerland. If you like the video, please give us a like and subscribe. Kind regards!
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Hello! Ask to the immigrants how was like to start a new live in Zurich! Thanks, I ❤your videos
How did YOU guys meet anyways 😊?
Can you go to the French part?
Love you from india..
i love that you always ask "and why do you think this is the case?" after they answered, so we can hear the thoughts and opinions behind all these different people
Thanks so much for your kind comment and support ✨🧡
As a person who currently dating a Swiss, I feel so lucky and happy that we found each other. He is so sweet, caring, and funny. But yeah, at first it was a bit like talking with a stone 😆 He was really good at listening but not sharing at all 😂.
Hey there Kira!
That’s so cute 🥰 We are very happy for you and wish you best of luck!
As we say in German: “Gegensätze ziehen sich an!“
@@claudiaandjan Just asked him to translate your comment hahaha. Thank you and we are looking forward for more videos from you guys.
Thanks that is so nice of you!✨🍀
As a single man, if an attractive woman shows interest the man isnt going to be reserved in the same way a woman will be, even if he is Swiss, because most women have way more dating options than most men, he may be a bit shy or not even realise the woman is interested or flirting with him but I would say that getting a date for a man eho has just moved to Switzerland will be a lot harder that a woman teying to meet Swiss guys.
You two are so kind and when you ask those questions 💛
Hi Gaby. Thanks a lot for your great comment. We appreciate it!! ⭐️🧡
Great video guys! A very interesting video this time. A bit different topic compared to the ones you previously posted. Thanks for sharing! Keep up the great work!!
Hi Mathias. Thanks so much! We are super happy you liked it. Appreciate always your support ⭐️🧡
I've been living in Zurich for more than 4 years and I don't have any Swiss friends/acquaintances yet, so I could imagine dating would be very tough.
Hey there, thanks so much for sharing this insight with us! Have a great weekend!
I’ve been living here for 23 years. I have a few friends and I can count them on one hand’s fingers. And they’re all foreigners. I know many colleagues who tried to live in Zurich but after a few months or years moved back to their original country because it’s boring and depressing to live here. Social life is the worst thing in Zurich. Good luck ! 😉
The videos you are recording and making for us! I can say , TOP of the TOP! Respect, guys! Greetings from Bulgaria and hopefully one day I meet you directly in Zurich :)
Thanks so much for your comment, Emil. We kindly appreciate your support and are happy you are finding this content helpful. Best regards 🥰⭐️
Amazing video y’all! Such imaginative video ideas 😀
Hello Connor!
Thank you so much for your comment❤️ We appreciate it so much!
Great video! Y'all are killing it! The sub count should definitely be higher
Wow hey that’s so nice of you! Let’s hope that the subscribers count it higher one day as you say haha 💯✨
Great video as always!!!
Thanks so much. We appreciate a lot your support 😊❤️
You are the best guys, thank you so much! 😊
Our pleasure!
You have great approach in your videos 👌🏻
Thanks so much, Yulia! Feel free to let us know what other question would you like us to ask on the streets 🥰
very nice video, would love to visit Zurich someday. keep it up!
Thanks so much for your comment and support!! Hope you can visit Zurich one day ⭐️🧡
Great video guys, big hug from your Spanish cousin 😄🥰
Thanks so much!!! Best regards ❤️
Hey guys I just moved to Zurich, hopefully I will see you around sometime! Love your videos! Keep up the good work 😊
Hey there thanks so much for your comment! Highly appreciated 💯✨❤️
Hope you like it! Zürich can be a really amazing city, especially if you start discovering the tiny little corners!:)
Probably I am moving there soon😂 seems like these videos are mandatory 😂
Nice video! In portuguese we also have the pot expression! "Para cada panela há um testo". Keep up the good content ;)
Thanks so much for your comment. So interesting to see the quote in Portuguese ⭐️🧡
nunca ouvi isso hahaha
As a man in my mid 40s: dating is hard in Switzerland. Nearly the only possibility is through apps and the response there is... not much
Thank you very much for your comment and for sharing your experience. We wish you the best on finding your plus one 😊
I feel you brother...
I think its the same for any age :)
@@PiotrMys It's stupid
And it's full of philippina girls who don't even live in Switzerland who change their location so they can fantasize
Wow.
Love this video so much, Thanks a lot for sharing.
Hi Marcos. Thanks so much for your comment and support. We are super happy you liked it!! 😊✨
Next question..about night-life in Zurich
Hi Jaime. Thanks so much for your suggestion. We take note ⭐️
0:40 they're so Swiss, you can already tell by their looks. i appreciate that what she says is exactly what you get as an first impression of them in milliseconds before hearing them talk. so honors to their honesty. I love that honesty although i can't stand closed people, so swiss people are a weird combination in that regard.
Hey there thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts 🙂👍✨
Just discovered your channel. You both are super cute. I subscribed and I hope your channel grows. All the very best 🙂
Thanks so much for your kind comment and support. We appreciate it a lot! 😊
always good content 💕 keep it up!
Hey there, thank you so much!
If you have any additional questions, that you would find interesting for us to ask in the streets of Zurich please let us know down below with a comment.
@@claudiaandjan Does shubhangi have instagram?
@@claudiaandjan 2 topics for suggestion:
1) As an immigrant, do you feel accepted into Swiss society?
2) Is Switzerland actually boring?
Thanks. :)
Hey justbrutal, thank you very much for your comment! We are taking it into account for future videos 🙌💯
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I just want to let you know that if you comment it is better if you comment as a new comment and not below an already existing comment, because CZcams does not give us notifications about comments below comments, but just new comments 🙋♂️I just randomly saw your comment this time. Have a great weekend!
What an interesting and funny video!
Thank you so much for your comment!
Great content!
Hey there, thanks so much for your comment!
love your videos :)
Hey there, thanks so much for your comment!
Next question: how do Swiss people feel about the large expat community in Switzerland? What are the pros and cons? Thanks, I love the videos!
Hey there thanks so much for the message Alex! That’s a great idea! We will do that 🌞☀️✨
It's probably the biggest weakness of Swiss society. The consensus is that foreigners are merely tolerated, not welcomed (because they are needed for their specialized skills.) The expat community is rather transient and hence from a Swiss point of view, it's not worth making friends with them. For an expat, if you wish to fully integrate, you'll have to be incredibly proactive and follow the extremely long and peculiar list of Swiss customs, (which of course means speaking your canton's dialect of Swiss-German, not as bad in Romandie for obvious reasons) to the point where even the rule-loving Germans find the Swiss quite difficult to deal with at times.
@@ericyuan9718 Yes and then you shouldnt say that you are a foreigner when your Swiss dialect is good enough that people think you are swiss.
@@HardestTorkum are you white though ?
Please learn the language :)
Such an interesting topic! I have been a couple of times to Zurich, as a 24-25 years old male from Romania and I noticed that girls are happy to help and very smiley but that is it…they do not give you a flitry vibe like in other places in Europe. Quite reserved I would say :?
Ohh so sorry to hear that!! 🙈We hope you have more luck next time!! Wishing you the best ❤️
@@claudiaandjan Haha thanks…it is just a culture mindset like you guys mentioned. At work Swiss people in general are the other way around once they got “used” to you, no matter if male/female and they are way more easy going :) But to strangers on the street it is different
@@mrsupperman2678 They are the same at work. Swiss people and openness are a mismatch.
Haha. I guess I'm not a typical Romanian woman.
Ha! This topic is so much what I'm going through right now... After 16-years of living in Fremont, California (USA) I never met anybody I made friends with.
Hey there thanks so much for your message! I do not understand 100%, could you elaborate a bit more on that! 💯🙋♂️
Ihr zwei sind soo besonders cute and charismatic and modest. Ich geniesse es ihr Videos zu schauen. Themen sind sehr interessant. Weiter so. :)
Vielen Dank!
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I am also here at the moment, but it happens to be me the 1k like buble❤❤. I wish you a good greeting🎉
I was remember swiss guy. I know him from tandem . he is quite friendly and nice. Most of them is reserved, so need more time to become friend.
Is there a Swiss version of the song 'Aurelie'? Looks like 'Der Schweizer flirtet sehr subtil' too
as a swiss, this is so funny to watch... they are all saying the same thing, and gosh, it is true. We are RESERVED.
Haha thanks so much for your comment and for sharing your thoughts. Very interesting!!😊⭐️
I thought so, but are you as reserved as the Germans ? That is the question ...
@@Ilike2tubeittubeitGermans are very open in contrast to the Swiss.
The main reason for difficulties with dating here has to do with relationship with money. Money can sometimes make people scared of getting exploited in relationships.
How many Swiss people are rich?
What do you mean? They fear money?
Very good content as always!! I would like to see a video “asking Zürich” for Nightlife/club. Because sometimes I hear people that in Zürich is boring with no night life etc.. Of course I don't believe what they say, because I've been to Zurich myself😂
Weiter so!
Haha, hey there dav! Thanks so much for the message we are going to take it into account and will try to line something up in the future 💪🍀
You've probably been there but haven't stayed long enough to know all about it's nightlife.
Hooo they were all so cool !
PS: 2:48 ptn ARTHUR l'accent mdrrrrrrrrrrrr
Hey there, thanks so much for your comment! Highly appreciated 💯✨
I love your videos! I just moved to Zurich (few days ago), and I was wondering if you have any tips of finding an apartment? (House-hunting, district wise etc.) :)
Hi. Thanks so much for your comment. We hope you are finding the city great!! We made two videos on apartment hunting. You are welcome to watch them on our channel 🥰
most people go through facebook groups, there are student accommodation groups, also asking around is really helpful, lots of people go through word of mouth
I have been enjoying your videos. I have been in a long-distance relationship for 3 months and my girlfriend lives in Zurich and is Swiss😄😄😄😄😄😄.She is moving here to Arizona, USA in November to live with me. We met on a dating website online 😘😘
Thanks for sharing! Wishing you luck!
greetings from slovakia i love your videos
Hi Radoslav. Thanks so much for your comment and support. Best regards ❤️
Rado servus :)
You have great videos and I enjoy watching them. However, asking couples standing next to eachother about what dating is like in a city is a bad idea, and you won't get an honest answer. The reason is that if you are standing next to your partner, you cannot admit that dating is hard because it would send the message that you are undesirable, which of course everyone wants to avoid. The effect is stronger the less progressed a relationship is.
Hey there, thanks a lot for your thoughts! We always appreciate input from viewers, which help us to make our videos better for you ✨👍
Thanks for this nice video.
Hi Arman. Thanks a lot for your comment. We are super happy you liked it!!
Super 👍
danke 🙏
Genre 😊
You guys are very lovely 🥰
Thank you so much for your lovely comment!
Hi guys, thanks for the video. What is your experience: are there many singles 35-45 yo?
Hey there, we can do a video around that topic in the future. Have a wonderful weekend!
hm 🤔 minute 5, this cool guy comes into the picture with a little Johnny Depp touch and I immediately think to myself "this Eric, that's "this" Eric Blum, former national team star, whatever from ice hockey" ! And as a hat designer/producer he secretly does some promotion for his hat like this 😉😆
Hahaha thanks so much for your comment! We actually did not realize in that moment, but thought that he has very good style and that they were a cute couple to answer that question ❤️✨
I guess our first „famous“ person then in one of our videos 😄👍
I want to meet Swiss people. whats your advices for finding job or meeting swiss people ?
4:57 That’s Eric Blum, He’s a professional swiss icehockey player lol
Hey thanks for your comment! Yes another person also realized earlier in the comment section 😅😀
Definetley not in Switzerland.
Everything was said, but the reality is even more descouraging. I got unlucky by living in even smaller place than zurich. I really learned the meaning of the word "lonlines".
And it's not only the problem, the people (woman especially) are not willing to meet foreigners (especially from outside of the western europe that is percived as kind of "cool"), when you finally agree to meet with someone, you have to book the termin some weeks away in the future.
Spontanous "hey, anyone want to go out do X or Y" simply doesn't exist among swiss people.
Luckily - there are also foreigners in there. Unfortunatley, most of them is brought into switzerland by the promise of living with fasion and money, rather than just be cool and chill. So they don't care neither that much, and even if so - they are also quite demanding and setting their standards high.
For me it was really hard crash coming here from cities of youth of Poland.
Hello, thanks so much for sharing your insights! I am sad to hear that. It is really interesting the experience you made and I can understand it. I hope that out found what you were searching for at the end of your journey and got more lucky! 🍀🙌
@@claudiaandjan I came here for the mountains and bit of curiosity, not for the great hugs - I (wrongly) assumed those come as standard whenever people are...
Well this was also a nice lesson
If you are not Western European in Switzerland then it is regarded as a lesser status as my good friend, who is from Slovakia discovered after working in Zurich for 4 years. I am French and seemed to be treated fine but I will NOT live in Switzerland.
@@tlacorp.3813 yes, this is kind of untold story of racism, that noone want's to speak about, because - at the end, we are anyway better off than 90% of the world population. And I'm fine with this as well. It's just good to be aware of. Still - it is percived as Ok to complain about the racism/chauvinism as a black girl, but as a white male from poorer conutry - all the disadvantages are simply invisible.
One of the examples I encountered was a mixed china-wietnam girl from Netherlands that was wondering "I wonder when you guys in your team will get some diversity"... She told that in front of 2 of our team members - one guy from Latin America (with clear Latin racial characteristics) and the other from Eastern Europe - none of them from Switzerland at the first place.
True, the elephant in the room is Eastern Europe because Western Europeans still look at Eastern Europeans very badly.@@korniszon68
I’m about to do a virtual date with a Swiss girl from one of the apps. We’ll see if this is true! So far we’ve been connecting well.
5:37 bro is literally him (ryan gosling)
Haha, thanks a lot for your comment :-) Have a wonderful weekend!
I heard that the Eastern Europeans are treated as second class citizens in Switzerland . Would be interesting to hear from some Eastern Europeans if this is actually true
Hello thanks a lot for your comment! We will take it into account and try to maybe make a video about a topic like this in the future☀️
I would say direct neighbors (Germany, France, Italy, Austria) are the second class citizens and eastern Europeans are oftentimes rather treated like 3rd class.
I think that Zurich people appreciate those who are respectful. Unfortunately many neighboring European countries like France for example are epitomous with rudeness and lack of respect. In this regard I understand Zurich people’s treatment to these rudeness and lack of respect by what these attitude deserve.
@@FBAagent very rightly said
Since I am here, I ve met few guys. Most of them are in a relationship or married ... I ve talked with Swiss Friends and they said "Its not illegal". But I find it so immoral. Nobody find it disrespectful?
Hey there thanks a lot for your comment! Have a great week ☀️🤗
What do they mean they find it hard speaking to other Swiss people? I don’t understand
Most swiss are less like other westerners, so we dont just talk to random people. Especially when they dont speak swissgerman. For foreigners especially it can be quite hard to talk to them and open them up
Sir,can you make a video for nursing scope in Switzerland and salary.❤
Hello, so you would like a video specific focused on nurses in Switzerland? Best regards 🌞
Yes ❤️
And Zürich is even the easiest city to date in Switzerland 😅 (if you're german speaking)
😂
curious to know how the swiss ppl dated 20 years ago without app 😂
Haha it must have been interesting!! 😅
20 years ago not everybody was staring on their smartphones all the time and there have been clubs/bars back then aswell xD
Fucked their brothers and sisters
Nxt que is Zurich girls like to date india boy
I think I need to go abroad.
I met a girl from Switzerland while traveling in Mexico. Coming from the US women are very different. Now I honestly am so convinced that a Swiss woman is perfect for me. They are so polite, and willing to open up, feminine in a beautiful way, curious, and willing to learn. My great grandfather was from Altdorf as well. It really made me feel like I don’t belong in the West with how similar I am to the Swiss.
It's because you met her outside of Switzerland. Come to Switzerland and see the bigger picture. Lol
@@mellyklint6199 what’s different? I am open to the perspective
Willing to open up, feminine, curious and wiling to learn - literally everything swiss women are not. It's not that I hate them, I live here since many years but as a female I find them super weird. They dont take care about themselves, they are actually everything opposite than feminine and very closed. Not flexible in their lives, very cold and unpleasant.
She is from Spain
How come everyone speaks such good English?
The blonde guy is very handsome :))
Thanks a lot for your comment, which blond guy in the video are you referring to? Have a good weekend coming up!
Handsome 🌹man
La chica también es muy bonita.
I think calling Swiss a German culture is probably a big no-no in Zurich. Most Swiss tend to be very sensitive about any reference to German culture or language as defining them. I think similar to trying to define Frysian people as Dutch over here or Flemish people as Dutch in Belgium.
Why do you think so?
@@user-wx2bd3wf2nPersonal experience. Especially with older Swiss people. As soon as they think you are German they will not want to help you. I know it is a prejudice but that still runs deep. After I said I was Dutch they were all of sudden very helpful.
Greetings from Kenya. I'm Alice from kenya looking for a swiss man or anyother countries between 50 to 80 years I'm 52 years old.thanks.
Здравейте ,за мен няма кой да мисли и жалее желая ви много здраве и успех никой от Цюрих няма нужда от мен 20240😊
Wish-washy answers from people there lol if you look in any seduction forums you'll know that Switzerland is one of the worst places to date especially for a foreigner.
Thanks for your comment 😃👍
Bro. Going to Utoquai Schwimbad. There you have muscles 💪😏 You swim 🏊♀️ with friends. You laugh, you meet, you take the number ... it's ok.
Hey there, thanks for your comment! Have a wonderful weekend!
@@claudiaandjan you too bros
Swiss girls complainig, that people dont ask you...
a) girls could also ask
b) everytime you smile at a girl, she walks away thinking she is too hot for you haha
This is a conservative country, why would women ask men out? Plus you cannot trust men you ask out because some are so thirsty, they’ll gladly sleep with you even though they don’t like or respect you. Not worth it for a woman.
Stay single stay safe.
I have never seen someone tuck there Nike ts in there trousers 😱
Haha Thanks for your comment!
Now u saw...
Wow! Has Johnny Depp been with you?
Haha thanks for the comment! 😃😋 We are not sure, maybe he has been, who knows …😄 He definitely has a very good style ✨
Yeah!!!! 😊
It’s actually a swiss icehockey player called Eric Blum and yes he does look a lot like Johnny Depp haha
Nej tak.
Thanks for the comment ✨
Wish to married a Swiss man 👨 ❤😂
Thanks for your comment! We hope you enjoyed our work!
I always laugh when I hear the word "SNOBBY" 😂
Hey there why is that? 😅
Hello everyone i'am looking for a serious relationship!
I certainly believe that dating must be impossibile for average men but the reasons they give seem canned polite answers, useless BS.
Hello everyone I want to meet a man from Switzerland...
the first two guys sound dutch
Hey there, the first 2 people were Swiss. We have asked them. Maybe it is that they have somewhat dutch relatives. Have a wonderful weekend!
As a swiss i can tell thats a 100% swiss accent
You ve to be rich😂
people are absolute dumbasses for being so closed off
You're all complaining about it but won't change
I want a swiss man for me
Hello thanks for your comment! Have a great week
Swiss women have below average looks in my opinion. In the Netherlands we have much more beautiful women.
It's true, but you have to keep in mind that many of these women are foreigners. Funny country tbh so open to foreigners yet racist. Change Netherlands, CHANGE !
Swiss man and women are beautiful White Snowy Blond
@@Star-wh9lcSMH.. Load of nonsense..
I am sad you didn’t talk to any black peoples 😢
I think they r seen mostly in the French speaking part
@@arzoo468that is one country I wanted to visit. I bet it is a very beautiful country.
@@22onachevy undoubtedly it's heaven and every inch is beautiful..I was lucky to visit it last month...n I m bowled over...
@@arzoo468its on my bucket list to travel over, I have been to Germany twice and didn’t get to see it but I am going to go one day.
Swiss are conservative and good for them for that. ❤ Keep Europe european ❤
What a miserable person you must be..
1. Rule: Avoid German, Austrian, and Swiss women
2. Rule: Follow the first rule
elaborate on this lol
@@shazzshank6393 they are rude, cold and unfuckable. In other words wasting mens time.
Hello, why are you thinking this? We think there are some wonderful people in every place. Maybe you can elaborate a bit on your comment! Have a wonderful weekend! :-)
That french guy is so handsome..
Idiotic nations.