Day 23 of Ramadan: Hardest Ramadan of my life đŸ˜«

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Komentáƙe • 67

  • @izzy2351
    @izzy2351 Pƙed rokem +32

    I’m not Muslim but I’m so interested in learning about it and maybe even one day converting and listening to you and your journey with Islam is just something I look forward to everyday, may allah grant you the happiest little baby ever and may he guide you through this pregnancy with ease. You got this mama! I will keep you in my prayers❀

  • @safiahzimmer46
    @safiahzimmer46 Pƙed rokem +33

    As a pregnant and also mom if other two kids I fully understand how lack of sleep really affects the mother's mood.. I pray it will get easier for you soon insyaAllah..

  • @loissmith7418
    @loissmith7418 Pƙed rokem +81

    Since you’re pregnant ask your husband to help out? You should not be on 3 hours of sleep it’s so bad for your pregnancy. He should be doing these things for you at this time.

    • @aa-fw2pw
      @aa-fw2pw Pƙed rokem +24

      Even though my husband wakes up for my daughter, the crying keeps me awake and I can't seem to switch off again until she's asleep
      Must be a mom thing

    • @ImKingReal
      @ImKingReal Pƙed rokem +21

      It's likely he's busy with multiple duties himself, I'm 100% certain that he would help but we just don't know the circumstances, try to assume the best because husbands are not careless

    • @vixxa1719
      @vixxa1719 Pƙed rokem +13

      Good point but we don’t know what the husband does so we can’t assume, and maybe she just can’t sleep in general not just bc of her tasks ?

    • @kittycasino29
      @kittycasino29 Pƙed rokem +3

      ​@@aa-fw2pw same for me! Didn't matter if I had help I would still hear my baby crying and not be able to fall back to sleep until they were settled.

    • @kittycasino29
      @kittycasino29 Pƙed rokem +8

      Also she could still be exclusively breastfeeding her twins, they're 18-months old and some women breastfeed till two years old and maybe she does not use bottles so obviously her husband can't breastfeed đŸ€·â€â™€ïžđŸ€·â€â™€ïž

  • @khadijakashif2890
    @khadijakashif2890 Pƙed rokem +24

    "What if they're taking turns". The way you said that is so funnyđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł
    May Allah reward you (and every mother) for your patience

  • @zainab_asad288
    @zainab_asad288 Pƙed rokem +9

    I found the line "take advantage of ur time" really inspiring actually 😅 anyways sure I'll pray that it gets easy for ya

  • @christines2787
    @christines2787 Pƙed rokem +8

    This may or may not be helpful, but when my daughter was that age and she was waking up, it was a silent ear infection. Any chance she's had a cold recently?

  • @bloominglavender158
    @bloominglavender158 Pƙed rokem +4

    Hope u r feeling Okayy!!
    Happy Ramadan!😊

  • @tattooedwhitetrash
    @tattooedwhitetrash Pƙed rokem

    Many blessings to you and your family in the last days of Ramadan! ❀

  • @DawnSaleh
    @DawnSaleh Pƙed rokem

    Oh no. I am so sorry sister. ❀ I will definitely do as you ask. I hope you get some rest. ❀

  • @christykisses4u416
    @christykisses4u416 Pƙed rokem

    AWWWWWE YOU POOR THING!! YOU CAN DEFINITELY HEAR IT IN YOUR VOICE, PRAYERS COMING RIGHT FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀

  • @michellewalsh7654
    @michellewalsh7654 Pƙed rokem +4

    GOD BLESS you Ninja Mommy, bringing a Mother of 3 and number 4 on the way, I pray that GOD helps you with your delivery and that your and baby are safe and healthy !!!!!!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @dbuc4671
    @dbuc4671 Pƙed rokem

    i love ur ramdans stories dude they really drive my g u know what i mean

  • @MamaCeesay25
    @MamaCeesay25 Pƙed rokem

    Great advice. Take care of yourself, sister. May Allah make things easier for you and your baby girl.

  • @michelledressler2544
    @michelledressler2544 Pƙed rokem +15

    Awww! I know that feeling well. But my children are now 16 and 20. I know the fatigue can be absolutely encompassing and can leave you foggy emotional and so tired. The middle years 3 onward will be easier as they will tire themselves out growing and learning and also can occupy themselves with a favorite book , musical sleepy toy for short awake times self soothing themselves to sleep. We found our children always liked bedtime if we were consistent with smiles that bedtime was good and we all needed to sleep to face adventures the next day. It is hard now I know but you can hold them and be assured that they are safe. When they are teens and start to drive or go out later you will face this sleeplessness again but you can’t hold them close and safe under your Mama wings. Then you will stay up praying until they come home safe and sound. The years absolutely fly by. Enjoy their sweet baby smell and cuddles and sleepy yawns now. You may be tired but trust me you will crave the baby days when they get older. Both ages are hard and both are wonderful. Enjoy the Blessings but take care of yourself too. If it means having a sleep over in their room so they settle with you there do it, you will be rested and have beautiful times and memories. Prayers for you and your Beautiful Family. May Allah keep you happy and healthy rested and relaxed. You are the best Mama to your babes. They Love You Eternally.You are doing a great job .InshAllah you will be filled with sleepy smiles May Allah pbuh provide you all you need❀Happy Ramadan!

    • @NinjaMommy
      @NinjaMommy  Pƙed rokem +5

      Thank you for this đŸ„ș

    • @michelledressler2544
      @michelledressler2544 Pƙed rokem

      @@NinjaMommy it certainly isn’t easy motherhood is the hardest but most rewarding job in the world. You are so Blessing to have your Islamic friends and Family around to support you. They focus on Love and light. I could have used that when I had post Parton depression I love the Golden Rule and was am still is Catholic but I felt a loneliness that needed to be filled by upbeat people Islamic families seem to do that for one another. I am reading the Koran and watching your videos, many revert videos and other Islamic videos and am so drawn to it but my family is not supportive at least not my husband. I want to learn as much as I can because it’s always in my heart and mind so believe me my words are honest true and full of hope for you I hope to have an epiphany of which is right for me as Catholics and Islam are so Close Please pray for God aka Allah to make it easy for me and soften my heart directing it to the correct spiritual pathđŸ§•đŸ»â˜žïžđŸ’ŸđŸ•ŒđŸ•‹ 💟

    • @michelledressler2544
      @michelledressler2544 Pƙed rokem

      My spellcheck incorrectly spelled the Quran.my sincerest apologies

    • @michelledressler2544
      @michelledressler2544 Pƙed rokem

      @@NinjaMommy 🧡

    • @michelledressler2544
      @michelledressler2544 Pƙed rokem

      @@NinjaMommy ❀

  • @arcie3716
    @arcie3716 Pƙed rokem +1

    The amount of strength it takes to be a good mom is insane 😭😭😭

  • @alyssadaughertybell
    @alyssadaughertybell Pƙed rokem

    Permanent peace be with you, Sidra.

  • @insaan_2225
    @insaan_2225 Pƙed rokem

    ❀❀❀Lots of Love

  • @wajihaawan3392
    @wajihaawan3392 Pƙed rokem +5

    May Allah (SWT) make it easy for you. AmeenđŸ€

  • @Hijabi10
    @Hijabi10 Pƙed rokem +3

    May allah make it easy on us All ❀ameen ❀

  • @Aesthethixz
    @Aesthethixz Pƙed rokem +2

    I and my twin sis was born in the 23rd of Ramadan 2007 . Mashallah â˜ș

  • @katielarsen2630
    @katielarsen2630 Pƙed rokem

    I'll be making extra dua for you in these last few nights ❀ alhamdilallah my youngest is 4 but now I'm pregnant again and I'm honestly dreading the baby stage all over again. I keep asking Allah s.w.t. to make me pleased with his qadr. I remember I time when I could barely make my 5 prayers during Ramadan and I'm trying to take advantage this year before chaos starts again lol

  • @perla5465
    @perla5465 Pƙed rokem

    Hope everything is ok soon

  • @mspaint93
    @mspaint93 Pƙed rokem

    Really hope you will be okay! I hear your pain!! And oh man!!! Please if you can, have family tap in to babysit as youre carrying such a heavy load Sidrah!!! Small children and babies are no joke, and sleep/toilet regression sent my aunts into deep depression during these stages as they insisted in carrying too much.

  • @symeebryant
    @symeebryant Pƙed rokem +2

    Ameen. ❀

  • @muhammadrafiqakhtar4566
    @muhammadrafiqakhtar4566 Pƙed rokem

    May Allaah SwT give you ease in your life and for your family cute daughters Sumayyah and Safiyah ........ Allaah Tabarik o Ta'aala will give you very much reward for raring them.

  • @insaan_2225
    @insaan_2225 Pƙed rokem +2

    U are looking so beuatiful in this Niqab

  • @ahussaini4048
    @ahussaini4048 Pƙed rokem

    My duas for you inshAllah it will get better! ❀
    Where do you get your coloured niqabs from please do let me know, I'm looking to buy these:)
    Jazakillah khair đŸ€©

  • @amsalprobro6872
    @amsalprobro6872 Pƙed rokem +2

    may ALLAH make it easier for everyone

  • @Tyrosecat
    @Tyrosecat Pƙed rokem +2

    Nice videoâ€đŸŽ‰

  • @milkykai
    @milkykai Pƙed rokem +1

    That must be hard

  • @lauramarika
    @lauramarika Pƙed rokem +22

    Are twins really 18months?! It feels like yesterday when you told about being pregnant with them 😂
    Ramadan Mubarak to every Muslim who sees this comment â€ïžđŸ˜‡

  • @teehee4096
    @teehee4096 Pƙed rokem +2

    Sleep regression is difficult. But they'll soon grow out of it. Good luck!

  • @Khadijaunique
    @Khadijaunique Pƙed rokem

    Remember Alhamdulilah all the way!! And I encourage you reading or listening to Surah Maryam every single day for a swift pregnancy and recovery, May Allah have mercy on you giving you an easy pregnancy, a healthy righteous child, a speedy after recovery and the sweetness of these blessings, Ameen.

  • @layahlayah5951
    @layahlayah5951 Pƙed rokem +5

    I will remember to make Dua for you đŸ€ČđŸœđŸ’•. Some parents just don’t have the sabr for their children and I just know that no matter how hard it feels or stressful, but that you likely have unbelievable patience with your children 😊. It’s my 1st Ramadan and today I set the time on my alarm, but I forgot to turn it on 😅, I literally woke up at Fajr time and I haven’t eaten all day 😼. Alhamdulillah I haven’t felt it hit me yet and it’s going on 2pm.

  • @abdulmazid6051
    @abdulmazid6051 Pƙed rokem

    MashAllah â˜đŸ»đŸŒč

  • @muntahidbillah3039
    @muntahidbillah3039 Pƙed rokem

    You speaks english well like an English
    I need fluency like you

  • @MDANIS-ol5bu
    @MDANIS-ol5bu Pƙed rokem

    Ramadan 😭

  • @tasfialife
    @tasfialife Pƙed rokem

    Love from Bangladesh 💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝

  • @grace-vm5gm
    @grace-vm5gm Pƙed rokem

    Hijab đŸ„°đŸ„°đŸ„°

  • @rebeccarichins9472
    @rebeccarichins9472 Pƙed rokem

    Oh hun
 that’s hard


  • @fulldakait1408
    @fulldakait1408 Pƙed rokem

    Does eslam allow you to disagree with anything written in Q?

  • @livegives1chance
    @livegives1chance Pƙed rokem +4

    U have choice to keep a decent gap between kids rather than a chicken laying egg daily

    • @Megan-ys9me
      @Megan-ys9me Pƙed rokem

      Dunno if she CAN or CAN'T as all her vids are about...

  • @nuhaali5594
    @nuhaali5594 Pƙed rokem

    0:05 at this time what did she say? "i just wanna..... You guys"

    • @Judoka26
      @Judoka26 Pƙed rokem +1

      rant/vent to
      That's what I heard anyways

    • @nuhaali5594
      @nuhaali5594 Pƙed rokem

      @@Judoka26 thank you!

  • @livingwithbipolar2
    @livingwithbipolar2 Pƙed rokem

    Yes, 3 hours is a bit short, but it's not difficult to exist on 4hrs of sleep. When my daughter was younger, I worked nights & only slept 4 hours during the day so I could still attend & take her to all of her activities. Even in my younger years when raising my cousins, I would go without sleep for more that 24 hrs & working nights so I could meet their needs wasn't difficult. Some people are just weak apparently.
    And YES, I was pregnant while raising my nephew & working nights. Met all of his needs & wants. Not everyone is a weakling.😂

    • @Cozycountry1
      @Cozycountry1 Pƙed rokem

      Wow, you think being tired and an actual human that needs sleep is weak. Going without sleep is dangerous, bad for your heart, immune system, causes stress on your body and brain. It also puts you at risk of making mistakes and endangering others. You put yourself at risk whilst carrying your child, risk at work and whilst you helped raise family, calling others weak for needing sleep is crazy. YOU were mad and it was especially idiotic when pregnant to gobwithout sleep forvthat long!

    • @livingwithbipolar2
      @livingwithbipolar2 Pƙed rokem

      @@Cozycountry1 Sweetheart, my dear, it's called living in the REAL world. Things have to get done. Money needs to be earned. Nothing is free & things just don't magically get done by themselves. 4-4.5 hours of quality sleep is plenty. đŸ€ŠđŸœ