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5 Reasons NOT to move to Ocala, Florida

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 14. 08. 2024
  • I love Ocala and most of the time, I'm promoting it...but it's not for everyone. Here's 5 reasons NOT to move to the Ocala, Florida area. Please comment below; do you agree?
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    02:24 - #5
    03:09 - Outro

Komentáƙe • 150

  • @lazaroisern8032
    @lazaroisern8032 Pƙed 3 lety +13

    Hi Steve. I think all your cons are why I love ocala. But as long as home prices stay cheap you won't have a problem.

  • @calicooaks8295
    @calicooaks8295 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    I love Ocala. I moved here to take care of my boyfriend's mom and stayed after she passed. I am here for one thing and one thing only, HORSES. We live rurally but only 5 miles from the nearest Publix. I love Ocala!

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      Glad to hear it and I agree it’s nice to live outside the noise but be close

  • @jimmyamico2306
    @jimmyamico2306 Pƙed 3 lety +7

    Great video as always STEVE I think with the five places that you mentioned if someone is moving to Ocalla; they just have to enjoy a nice drive to an amusement park, for example; and then drive back home; I think that is the number one reason to move to Ocalla is because it’s not overcrowded and when you want to go somewhere, do a day trip or a weekend trip and then you come back to peaceful Ocala
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    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 3 lety +2

      I couldn't agree more, Jimmy! My family and I love it's location and are okay with the 1.5 hour drive to the coast or Orlando.

  • @davishicks5301
    @davishicks5301 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    This is my hometown. It’s growing a lot. But I’m happy it’s not ever gonna be huge.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 3 lety

      Same! Except my hometown is Buffalo. My wife is from Ocala.

    • @brochetti44
      @brochetti44 Pƙed 2 lety

      Until the Villages swallows it up

  • @UnearthlyViking
    @UnearthlyViking Pƙed 3 lety +6

    Thanks for this video, Ocala needs to stop growing, it's been getting pretty over crowded the last few years especially.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 3 lety

      We like the expansion, but I hear you.

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      NOW THAT YOU CAN WORK FROM HOME, THIS IS WHY ALL THE HOUSING PRICES ARE WAY UP, 30 PERCENT OF THE PEOPLE THAT MOVED TO FLORIDA WORK FROM HOME

  • @ashconner2293
    @ashconner2293 Pƙed rokem

    We're literally like an hour and a half from Orlando and an hour and a half from Tampa and two hours from Jacksonville and two hours from St Augustine. Also 30 minutes from Gainesville, an hour from Daytona, like an hour away from Crystal River. We literally live in the middle of everything.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed rokem

      Yes! It's the best. Still close to action, but lower cost of living.

  • @timsharpe3498
    @timsharpe3498 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Another thing that people who are thinking about moving near Ocala should seriously consider is the utility rates. The City brags about having low property taxes but they charge big bucks for electricity to make up the difference.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 3 lety +3

      The city electric is pricey (depending on what you’re used to) For a 2000 sqft home in city limits for 4 people we are averaging $350 in the summer and $250 in the winter. However, outside of the city limits, electric is more affordable. Thank you for your comment.

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      IF YOUR 65 OR OLDER, YOU GET A DOUBE EXEMTION FOR PROPERTY TAXES, IN 2023, DUE TO THE WAR, NATURAL HAS HAS GONE UP 2 OR 3 TIMES WHAT IT NORMALLY IS, AND SINCE ALL ELECTRICY IN FLORIDA IS NOW GENERATED BY NATURAL GAS, YOU BILL WILL BE AT LEAST 50 TO 100 DOLLARS HIGHER THEN NORMAL IN OUR SHORT WINTER,

  • @bethr6550
    @bethr6550 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I thought I was going to watch this and regret my decision to buy my house here. Nope! Still good with it 😂. However, very informative! Thank you!

  • @helenstueber3943
    @helenstueber3943 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

    Why did I move to Ocala, Florida? I don't know. I don't like the heat. I don't go out all summer. When I walk to my mail box I get a sunburn. I have 1 cousin here. I like her alot. We get together about once or twice a month. It's much less expensive here than on long, Island, NY. I've been here 3 years and I don't like it. I will go back to NY if I can find a reasonably priced home on long Island.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

      I'm sorry to hear about your experience, Helen. What kinds of things are you into?

  • @lisamccue1730
    @lisamccue1730 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Reason # 6: sinkholes. Please discuss sinkholes. We were all set to look seriously into moving to Ocala, until we investigated sinkholes in central Florida. We are disappointed, to say the least, because Ocala sounds perfect for us in every other way. How much of a problem are sinkholes in Ocala?

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Sinkholes are a FL thing, not an Ocala-specific thing. I don’t know anyone who’s ever been devastatingly affected by a sinkhole nor does anyone in my wife’s family (they’re all native to Ocala). I completely understand why this seems so scary to someone who isn’t from the area, but for most it’s just another thing to be aware of (like hurricanes and sunny weather)

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem +1

      NO PROBLEM IN OCALA, MOST SINK HOLES ARE DOWN BELOW ORLANDO, AND THE WEST COAST

    • @dianecelento4974
      @dianecelento4974 Pƙed rokem

      @@domcizek That's good to know. We're looking into Fla too. We want to be somewhat close to Disney. Ocala is a possibility.

  • @beingfrank40
    @beingfrank40 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Those are the reasons WHY I would choose Ocala! Thanks

  • @boymom3
    @boymom3 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Hey Steve, what towns have better utility cost in the surrounding area of Ocala

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      SECO energy historically has the lowest energy costs. They cover random areas of the county. If you go to the city of Ocala website to their utility map you can actually see which neighborhoods are covered by which provider, it’s super handy!

  • @flexcook7459
    @flexcook7459 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    That's one place I'd never move back to

  • @ShirleyLeeCouch
    @ShirleyLeeCouch Pƙed 3 lety +1

    looking for a place in Ocala near or on a lake. Can't wait to move there! 2 bdrm 2 bath single floor home

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 3 lety

      Thanks for the comment, Shirley. If you give me a call or email with your contact information I can get some more information about your search criteria and start a search 352-598-0847 steven@thebillingtonteam.com

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem +1

      REMEMBER, ALL LAKES HAVE ALLIGATORS IN THEM

  • @calimack716
    @calimack716 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Steve I love the videos. Even listing the cons you give off a very positive vibe. My wife and I just bought a new construction house in Ocala and will be moved in by July from NY. Just wanna say keep up the great work!!

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Hey Gerardo! Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate that. Congratulations on your new home, I hope you love Ocala!

    • @sassysarina9718
      @sassysarina9718 Pƙed rokem

      How did you like Ocala?

  • @That_cat_
    @That_cat_ Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    ok every theme park and beaches is close to Ocala its the middle and public transport is pointless we have uber and that's it

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Love being in the middle of the state! We do have public transportation/bus service, but only in the city limits.

  • @tomperry5514
    @tomperry5514 Pƙed 2 lety

    im from Kentucky and i love the lay back small town area, were looking to move down that way and i think its a perfect location for the family.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      Hi, Tom - thanks for your comment. My in-laws currently live up in KY! Thinking of planning a visit here to see how you like it before moving?

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      YES, COME DOWN FOR A WEEK, MANY MOTELS ON STATE ROAD 40 AND SEVERAL UPSCALE HOTELS ALONG I75

  • @darrellblodgett2091
    @darrellblodgett2091 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Spending 2 weeks in the Ocala area in February/March to scout out the area and other Florida locales. I am retiring next May and planning to move from Fairbanks Alaska where I have spent the last 31 years, to sunny Florida, giving up the snowblower and -20 F winters. Interested in a balanced area(not too rural, but not too urban), and not too far from a Publix. WIll be looking for a minimum 2 bed/2 bath 1200+ sq foot, preferably with a pool or room to build one, as well as room for a large garden & no restrictions with raising a few animals like chickens . I am planning on having a preapproval letter for up to 300k but don't really expect buy at that time (unless I find the perfect fit of a house in an area I like & the price is right). After the trip I will be more sure of making the move & start looking more in earnest to try and move out of Alaska before the winter of 2022/2023.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 3 lety

      Darrell - thank for your comment. I don't blame you for wanting to give up the snowblower; I'm originally from Buffalo, NY đŸ„¶ It sounds like SW or NW Ocala would be a good fit for you. Can you shoot me an email or give me a call? I'd like to keep in touch as you get closer to your trip and also start keeping an eye on properties for you. Cell: 352-598-0847, email: steven@thebillingtonteam.com

    • @bb5242
      @bb5242 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Giving up snowblower to have to deal with a lot of shitty people. I dunno.

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      @@bb5242 THATS ONLY IN NEW YORK,

    • @wesleysullivan8047
      @wesleysullivan8047 Pƙed rokem

      So how did it go?

  • @kurtrobert3762
    @kurtrobert3762 Pƙed 2 lety

    Are there inexpensive mobile-manufactured home parks in or around Ocala? Is under $65,000 available? If not, what is the average cost of purchasing a mobile in that area? Thx in advance for your help.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      Hi Kurt. So, there are some parks like that scattered here in Marion County. There are only 1 or 2 that are NOT 55+. One on SR40 next to the Save-A-Lot and a couple out in the Belleview/Ocklawaha area. My inclination is that you may be able to secure a unit for under that price point, as I have seen units in the 55+ parks go for that or less. My knowledge is a bit limited on those units as buying and selling them is a little different than units containing real property (land and not lot rent). Regarding manufactured homes, we saw 96 units come to the market from March heading into April, 4 at a price point less than $50k and 12 at a price between $50k and $100k. Let me know if that answers your question.

    • @kurtrobert3762
      @kurtrobert3762 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@StevenBillington I did some research on my own as well and found that the prices are roughly the same as here in NH but the lot fees-rent are higher but include more such as pools, clubhouse, and parks. Thank you so much for getting back to me.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      @@kurtrobert3762 Absolutely. Thinking about taking a visit down here?

    • @kurtrobert3762
      @kurtrobert3762 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@StevenBillington I'm going to be 56 in a month and the winters here with the crazy heating oil prices are starting to make me think about where I'd like to be in a year or so. Next: job search!

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@kurtrobert3762 Nice man. Reach out if you need assistance in the area, happy to help!

  • @jadonbarboza1123
    @jadonbarboza1123 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Didnt u used to work at chilis?

  • @russellscott81299
    @russellscott81299 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Health care in Ocala is a big thumbs down for me, i can only compare to Massachusetts and Arizona, which I have lived.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      I hear you. The last couple of years have had good improvement.

    • @russellscott81299
      @russellscott81299 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@StevenBillington can you make any recommendations? Heart of Florida is awful.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      @@russellscott81299 AdventHealth for hospital. Ocala Regional was just renamed HCA and I have high hopes. For a primary care physician my family loved Absolute Health and I hear good things about Sabal Direct.

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      WELL, WE HAVE UNITED HEALTH CARE ADVANTAGE PLAN, AND THERE ARE TONS OF DOCTORS AND CARE FACILITIES ALL OVER THE PLACE, SO, DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN

  • @johnozolnieks5904
    @johnozolnieks5904 Pƙed 3 lety

    All of your cons. Are pros. The hell with theam parks and tourists. , the springs are beautiful all year, we don't need mass transit, and the history of the area along with a pure fla. Feel and veteran friendly.

  • @lindajayneclark767
    @lindajayneclark767 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Unfortunately I love Ocala but I could not find good work so it came back to Pennsylvania

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      I’m sorry to hear that, Linda. What industry do you work in?

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      YES, 60 PERCENT ARE RETIRED OUT HERE, AND A LOT WORK PART TIME TO FILL UP THEIR DAYS, LOW COST LIVING IS WHY THEY CAME HERE

  • @bubbagump6934
    @bubbagump6934 Pƙed 2 lety

    I lived in Ocala from 1965 to 1978. I still have many friends there. Anybody knows all 5 of these "cons". Daytona is 90 minutes east. Not a big deal. Gulf coast about 75 minutes west. Not a big deal. Disney is a 2 hours south. Gainesville and the Sad Florida Gators are 45 minutes north. Ocala is right in the middle of everything without the high prices and taxes. Publix is way better than Costco and the rest. My 'hillbilly' Marion County education served me well as I have a CPA and an MBA from a top school and had no problem getting good corporate jobs. I don't like heat and humidity and that's why I moved way north.

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      Love this comment! My family agrees that these “cons” aren’t cons for us specifically. We’re happy to have a lower cost of living and drive an hour for the activities we don’t have here.

  • @brileyvandyke5792
    @brileyvandyke5792 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    If you’re under the age of 55 Ocala, and Florida in general, isn’t for you.

  • @ctbt1832
    @ctbt1832 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Ocala is a nice place.

  • @Sebastianx007
    @Sebastianx007 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    You seem like a pretty good dude and you're spot on but let's face it ocala Is boring and backwards Af! It's one of those towns the "florida man" inhabits!

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      Depends on your circle and lifestyle. Do you currently live here?

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      NOT SO BACKWARD, MORE LAID BACK, DON;'T FORGET, 60 PERCENT ARE RETIRED IN OCALA AND CAME HERE FOR THE TRANQUILITY AND SURROUNDING AREA A GOOD PLACE TO RAISE CHILDREN

  • @salogarcia8039
    @salogarcia8039 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Reason Number 6:
    They don't have a decent barber shop or hair dressers đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

  • @robertastone7155
    @robertastone7155 Pƙed rokem

    I concur - Ocala is SO boring! MOVE TO BRANDON (TAMPA) - how i miss it1â˜č

  • @godspeedgodspeed1166
    @godspeedgodspeed1166 Pƙed rokem

    STEVE IS A COOL DUDE THO

  • @tonikenner9093
    @tonikenner9093 Pƙed 2 lety

    I am moving there it’s beautiful there omg .

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      Nice! When are you moving?

    • @tonikenner9093
      @tonikenner9093 Pƙed 2 lety

      End of Nov I will be there .

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@tonikenner9093 Nice! It will be great weather around that time. I'd be happy to help if you're still in need of a realtor to show you homes & the area, etc. Reach out at, cell:352-598-0847 email: steven@thebillingtonteam.com

    • @tonikenner9093
      @tonikenner9093 Pƙed 2 lety

      Hi Stephen thanks for helping me what I’m really looking for is some mobile homes that I can flip do you know any good parks with lower HOA’S and in nice parks?

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@tonikenner9093 you might want to browse the forest/ocklawaha/silver springs area

  • @martinmunoz4555
    @martinmunoz4555 Pƙed 2 lety

    I love Ocala

  • @samanthaschnetzler7812
    @samanthaschnetzler7812 Pƙed 2 lety

    I want to go to Ocala the most

  • @scratchcardsandcollectible7455

    😎👍

  • @mariebee3146
    @mariebee3146 Pƙed rokem +2

    Don't move there. Internet and cell service suck!

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed rokem

      I will say my cell signal varies, but I haven’t had issues with internet! Thank you for your comment 🙂

    • @mariebee3146
      @mariebee3146 Pƙed rokem

      @@StevenBillington Your cell signal shouldn't vary. It's 2023. I can go to Mexico and have better service. But if you read the local news you would see stories of it taking an hour to open up a real estate listing. That's ridiculous. My mom had better service in a town of 600 people in rural Wisconsin, 5 years ago. Ocala sucks.

  • @tinxe6821
    @tinxe6821 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Come on vacation, leave on probation.

  • @danf3937
    @danf3937 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    You remind me of shaggy

  • @billwill1337
    @billwill1337 Pƙed 2 lety

    sink holes? tornadoes? high property taxes?

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Thanks for you comment. Reason I didn’t include those: I would not agree that Ocala has high property taxes compared to other comparable cities. Tornados can happen anywhere, we’re not a hotspot. And sinkholes aren’t Ocala specific, thats Florida in general.

    • @billwill1337
      @billwill1337 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@StevenBillington 👍 ( But when other realtors have a channel and deny that Ocala had a significant tornado in 2020.....)

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      Sorry for the confusion - not denying. Maybe I misunderstood your initial comment. I’m just saying tornados are everywhere so I didn’t feel it was something significant to mention, but maybe I should’ve after reading your comments.

    • @billwill1337
      @billwill1337 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@StevenBillington People from all over look to Florida as a moving destination and very often where they are, have No tornadoes, sinkholes,etc. All I`m trying to say is these types of issues should not be covered up. What that other channel does is very dishonest . Sorry to vent

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      @@billwill1337 I hear you. I'm not familiar with the channel you're referring to, but agree it stinks when people are dishonest. I hope nothing on my channel is ever perceived that way and if I ever have wrong info, I want people to tell me!

  • @tonikenner9093
    @tonikenner9093 Pƙed 2 lety

    Costco is coming to Ocala

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      We haven’t been able to confirm that, where’d you hear?

    • @tonikenner9093
      @tonikenner9093 Pƙed 2 lety

      I heard this from Costco in Sarasota .

    • @robertastone7155
      @robertastone7155 Pƙed rokem

      Yeah...that's the biggest news here in this creepy town of Slow-cala - the place of nowhere....

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      NO YET, AND IT IS ALREADY FEB 2023

  • @jdavis8610
    @jdavis8610 Pƙed 2 lety

    You forgot the high rents

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      Depends on where you’re comparing it to

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      THEY HAVE WENT UP 30 PERCENT IN ONE YEAR, BUT CHEAER THEN ANYWHERE ELSE AROUND THE WHOLE COUNTRY,

  • @kevinh8736
    @kevinh8736 Pƙed 2 lety

    Looks like you grab your curling iron every morning and flip your hair upward. đŸ€ŁđŸ˜…đŸ˜†đŸ˜‚

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Luckily, it’s not that complicated. I just shampoo it!

    • @kevinh8736
      @kevinh8736 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@StevenBillington - I moved to Ocala in 2004 left by 2007. It wasn't as great as everyone said and the sink hole risks there are quite scary!

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      @@kevinh8736 I hear you. Ocala is a different world since 2007.

  • @BibleSamurai
    @BibleSamurai Pƙed 2 lety

    the klan out there?

    • @jeremiahalbu2149
      @jeremiahalbu2149 Pƙed rokem

      Yes racist people are in Ocala they hide it deep and well

    • @domcizek
      @domcizek Pƙed rokem

      SORRY, NO CLUBS LIKE THAT FOR YOU TO JOIN, STAY IN KENTUCKY

  • @socialsimulator9118
    @socialsimulator9118 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    Bruh whats with your hair, why di you have a 5 year old haircut

  • @rodolfoalvajr5430
    @rodolfoalvajr5430 Pƙed 2 lety

    What’s up with his hair

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      You tell me!

    • @rodolfoalvajr5430
      @rodolfoalvajr5430 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@StevenBillington ok you asked I like your videos lots of great info thinking of relocating. You look like the youngest kid from the Brady bunch. 70’s look

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 2 lety

      @@rodolfoalvajr5430 Glad you find my videos useful!

  • @user-th6jp1pr2v
    @user-th6jp1pr2v Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

    You need to get haircut

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

      Why?

    • @user-th6jp1pr2v
      @user-th6jp1pr2v Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

      Because it does not look nice. @@StevenBillington

    • @StevenBillington
      @StevenBillington  Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

      Says you? Do you style yourself based on everyone else’s opinion? You do you, boo.