I was experiencing narcissist abuse since I was a child. My mom demanded that I go to Woodhall hospital in Brooklyn New York. In 1997 The psychiatrist didn’t even evaluate me. He immediately told me that I was a schizophrenic he did not ask me if I was using drugs or alcohol doctors are profiting off narcissist abuse victims I was on every psychiatric medication that Medicaid pay for over 20 years, before I discovered that I was experiencing drug induced psychosis😢
Amen. I had cut my mom off last year and I don't regret it at all. Been doing the mind work and counseling, now I doing so much better. I'll be spending Mother's Day with my healthy loving father!!! God is so good!
Im divorcing a narc now. My narc mom is giving me silent treatment. They are working together to smear me and keep my children away. Im isolated and I feel like I have no options. This scapegoat role is no joke.
My narcissistic mother passed in 2008. I didn't learn about narcissism until 10 years after her death. If I gave her copies of your book, she'd find the 1 little thing she claims she didn't do, & say, I never did that to you. So that ruled her out for being a narcissist, in her mind. Um hum. Riiight. ❤️ Happy mother's day.
I always remember whenever I try to tell other adults or anyone who I thought were my friends to believe and understand what I went through with my horrible mother, they always choose my mother's side and never believe me at all. even if its cops, teachers, school deans, whatever the case. the narcissists are always believed they are right and not in the wrong. and it sucks that only a small amount of people who actually do care and love you like family are the actual family you never had, and they are the only people who understand the real you. the victim that had to fight the enemy which is the world. and the best solution is to cut those bad people out of your life to save yourself and the ones who stayed with you and love you always. this generation has become super toxic, that less good people are created in this world.
My narcissist mother is having severe health issues (karma), and needs my help soon enough. God is working through my narcissist so she suffers for what she's done to me and my family.
I love your Mother's Day videos! I am buying your book right now! My narc "mother" is sitting up waiting for her gift, and I don't wanna give her one cause she's a POS. Continuing to try to harrass me over text and manipulate me into doing stuff for her. She said she mailed a Easter card to me so I would send her something. She lied! She admitted she never send one after Easter when she asked about it and I said I never got one and she said Well I didn't get one from you! Haha! I said " Ya cause I didn't send one and never said I did unlike you". For some reason I feel guilty every year on Mother's Day and can't figure out My parents are also both narcissists too, and done a shit ton of damage to me. She doesn't deserve a lump of coal or Mother's Day. Hope I stay strong. You get thru to me cause you speak my language! Yes, I have a potty mouth too but it serves me well!
This is so crazy. I’m 20 and my sisters 15 and 13. I told her something important she went and told my sisters and they laugh w her while they use me for my shit. I’m a hard worker. I do everything on my own since I was 13. Scapegoat child here. God gave me a business to be able to take care of myself. God heard and seen everything.
My narcissist mother never cared about me or helped me and set me up for failure and I don't need her in my life, my life is better when she's not around. Also I want to add that loose skin does get tighten but it just takes time, no need for surgery. Also if you are in a hurry you can use derma roller or morphus 8 skin tightening treatments.
Proud of you for everything you've done for us and yourself. You really are salt of the earth, sharing the horror of narcissism and giving others hope that they too can heal. ❤ Congrats on your success, I KNOW you will keep going!
you changed my life!! after listening to u i cut off my mother and healed myself.cut off my sister and all the negative persons in my life which brought me to the right one. now im married and we both experience the smar stuff but are both healed and promise to break the cycle our children will never experience this thank u for everything that u do! god bless u!!❤
My mother spit in my daughter's face then dared my daughter to do something to her so that my mother can put my daughter in jail but NYPD told my mother that the next time they have to come here that they will arrest her and she will lose her green card or whatever she had that made her legal to live in NYC
Had to come back to this one since I’m a month early for your 2024 video. I was in a car accident last month and while, yes, I am physically okay it was a traumatizing event. My mother hasn’t seen me since before the accident but called me the other day with all the care in her heart over a sickly coworker. Visited her in the hospital and everything but told me as long as we speak on the phone that’s enough for her. She caught an attitude when I said that wasn’t enough for me and I needed my mother. She simply did not want to get off the couch and see about me.
Girl my mother tried to make me feel some type of way by saying she gave my siblings 200 dollars each except me.i didn't get $200 dollars. So in my head I was like 🤬🤬😂 my mother and dad popped up at my house to invite me to my siblings wedding and I was mad like don't pop up at my house. Weird as hell!!! My mother is messy
I’ve been in EDMR (CPTSD post divorce) therapy for narcissistic abuse and also reading Becoming The Narcissist Nightmare by Shahida Arabi. Again you covered so much.
Hey family, I graduated May 12, 2023. I did not want to invite my mom but of course she came. Let me start from the beginning. February my mom told me that when I graduated I wouldn’t do anything with my degree. She told me I was jealous of my sisters because they we’re married. Well my mom only attended school until the 6th grade. She was pregnant every year after that(6 kids). I was the first out of 5 generations to graduate high school and now college. I did not want her at my graduation but she came smh. My sister said she cried. I didn’t say anything because she said I would never be anything. Now she is telling everyone how proud she is of me and sending pictures of me in my cap and gown. I’m so hurt because she mad me feel like nothing my whole life. She abused me, I went into foster care, and she allowed her brothers to rape me from 6-13 and blamed me for it. Anyway I just proved to myself I can be anything I want to be. 😢I no longer have the fear I had as a child. No more buying her love or affection. I’m only looking out for me. Happy Mother’s Day family ❤
I’ve always related to the childhood memory Chanel shared about her mother forcing her and and her brother to watch their younger sister open Xmas gifts in front of them both while neither one of them received gifts that year only the younger sister - my mom and dad did that shit and I grew up with both my biological parents
She went to therapy because she was an alcoholic and she had a hard time controlling her anger when people mess with her. She couldn't cope well because my grandmother was a narcissist.
I should hate my golden child narc brother, but instead I pity him because I believe to this day he thinks our narc mother was a saint. He & I haven't spoken since 2020. They'd sit around talking about me like a was a piece of dirt, then she'd run back & tell me everything he said about me. He was her little spy. Anything I did. Even when we were in our 30s. He'd run back & tell her. I'm so glad to be rid of them. They don't exist to me anymore. 👋🏾
I'm in the same exact situation! I noticed my older brother was a golden child narc. In the past he would do smear campaigns with my covert narc mom and laugh about things that were traumatic like past whoopings she gave me, he would agree with her and fault me when we had fallouts when she was in the wrong, lecture me about "being a better person" after me and her would disagree on dumb ish, she would call him talking about me calling me all types of b's like I was a random female that stole from her. He rarely texted or called me throughout the years because of her brainwashing him and convincing him I'm just this awful child that never respects her. Mind you I've never called this woman out of her name nor have I ever gotten physical. The emotional incest was just disgusting and the damage that woman caused between me and my siblings is beyond repair.
@@peacedivineasmr9121 I am so sorry about you getting spanking, then being ridiculed about it. I was just thinking today, how nobody thought it was a big deal that I was hit & beat. & People laughing about it. & Talking amongst themselves about it. But not stepping in doing anything. I didn't use profanity around or at my mother either, but the way she used to talk at me. Like I was nothing. My gc youngest brother would try to belittle me & order me around too. I don't miss any of it. She's deceased and he's gone. I don't know where he is. Don't care. I hope your situation is better now. Hugs.❤️🫂
Mother’s Day is a really sad difficult day for me.. my mother passed away from cancer when I was very young and my father remarried the exact opposite of my mother, an evil narcissistic stepmother! Years of hell I suffered and she never had to answer for anything! SMH 😢
Thank you for taking the time to put this important content out for those of us who are learning, growing and healing from the narcissistic abuse we have endured & or continue to endure from our mothers. Blessings to you always! 🙏🏾❤
My mom is known for triangulation, especially when it comes to me and my sister. My sister always gets gifts and help. She always says she can’t help me at all, especially for the fact I have my degrees. When she does, I have to pay it back or when I used to visit, she just keeps mess going. It’s so sad.
Spiritual Whistle Blower thank you for all that you do, I watch you al constantly and you have helped me so much with staying strong during no contact with my entire immediate family. You look beautiful and love how brutally honest you are! Your videos have been my rock thank you! What a GREAT idea for gift giving your book to our narc mothers!!! I have a huge clientele and tell them about you all of the time now I can tell them about your books and the gift giving! Thanks for helping all of us understand and cope for what is best for ourselves the entire dynamic is sickening! I don't even want this crazy maker around my grandson!
Thank you for the video. I appreciate you for reminding us about the importance of therapy, and taking care of our mental health while working on our physical appearance. Continue enjoying your life!
Not wishing evil on the golden child but does anyone else ever notice how some of them die suddenly or in real tragic situations where no one saw it comeing....I believe God does this to teach the narcissistic parent a lesson in life....now some of them are left with that child who they hated the most...and we mostly don't want no parts of them....I'm learning that I don't owe my parents anything bur food and water and if there homeless I will just direct them to professionals who are willing to deal with them...smh
Good to see you, Sis! I learn something every time I watch your videos. When you said a narcissist can be created by being spoiled that hit me because I was wondering about my mom. It’s crazy how that works. ❤
I needed this video! Thank you for all of your material. The triangulation starts with my moms mom and trickles down. Going on one year no contact. I have my sad days but way more days of feeling happy and free
It's hard for me to see if my mom is the source cause she doesn't come around me..always at my sisters house. So it's hard to put my finger on it because she's playing innocent & dumbfounded when sh hit the fan with her children.
Glad you are doing well miss you So thankful to GOD I ran across yout channel and met you in D.C. I will never forget that hug you gave me telling me I was loved.❤🎉💐 Continue to grow and shine. GOD BLESS
Hey I’ve been watching your channel for a while, you actually helped me a lot as far as identifying what a narc was. I greatly appreciate you & your purpose. Just one suggestion, could you tap into the different types of narcs. Thank you 🤍. Take some time to yourself, you deserve it 🙏🏾
This hit home for me not going to lie taking accountability is super hard but I’m that toxic co depend I did a coaching session with you a few months ago know I was a hot ass mess lol I took your advice been a month and a half no contact changed my phone number also and just got back into therapy I need to change Mother’s Day is around the guilt is coming but I know I can do it baby steps thank you Chanel for this getting emotional typing this but I feel good knowing it needs to be done thank you again ❤
Fathers who do this are worst. BC they hate the Mothers. My Father have 3 children mothers and I’m the eldest who basically raised my siblings. They all hate me bc of him. It’s 7 of us 2 by my Mom and my lil sister is a narcissist with the most children and he doesn’t even take care all the grandchildren.
Swb I also struggled with obesity due to hormonal imbalances and overload of cortisol levels which are stress related.. I also need to get liposuction for the excess hanging skin on my arms and stomach mostly and my legs could use it… I had heard since it’s obesity it’s medical so I might not have to pay for it.. not sure I’m going to look into it.. congrats on your surgeries and your new body !
😱😱😱😱😱😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 It’s just realization on my behalf 😰😰😥😥😓😓 I just can to Terms of everything that I’ve been going through my ENTIRE life. Thank you!! 😪😪🤧🤧😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨 Wow, just wow!! Wow.,
Or 2 the grandkids... act like they are so important but like Chanel said it's a control thing. So siiiccckkkkk!! I'm afraid to even write what I'm going thru on here in case she spying and somehow figure out it's me 😳 but yes every holiday is a new chance to try to pull some bull
girl, I just have to tell you that I am very thankful that I came across your videos at the exact time I really needed it I love how real and raw that you are... and everything that you explain is like my life. I have toxic parents thst triangulated my sister against me and my sister is a narcissist. It’s so crazy but I really appreciate hearing this video because it’s so good to keep your mind guard in the right place because all the gas lighting and all the stuff definitely confuses your brain, so thank you for putting this out and just being so real I love it.
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I was experiencing narcissist abuse since I was a child. My mom demanded that I go to Woodhall hospital in Brooklyn New York. In 1997 The psychiatrist didn’t even evaluate me. He immediately told me that I was a schizophrenic he did not ask me if I was using drugs or alcohol doctors are profiting off narcissist abuse victims I was on every psychiatric medication that Medicaid pay for over 20 years, before I discovered that I was experiencing drug induced psychosis😢
Amen. I had cut my mom off last year and I don't regret it at all. Been doing the mind work and counseling, now I doing so much better. I'll be spending Mother's Day with my healthy loving father!!! God is so good!
We are most vulnerable in childhood. But once you're an adult those who did not protect you do no deserve your time either. 🎉🎉🎉
Im divorcing a narc now. My narc mom is giving me silent treatment. They are working together to smear me and keep my children away. Im isolated and I feel like I have no options. This scapegoat role is no joke.
Never forget what they did to you or you’ll be forced to repeat this cycle again.
My narcissistic mother passed in 2008. I didn't learn about narcissism until 10 years after her death. If I gave her copies of your book, she'd find the 1 little thing she claims she didn't do, & say, I never did that to you. So that ruled her out for being a narcissist, in her mind. Um hum. Riiight. ❤️ Happy mother's day.
Women can and are predators as well. Great videos. Thank you
Oh yes they absolutely are! The worst kind I’ve experienced!
That’s my mother ! She tortures me mentally and plays both my sisters and the rest of the family on me. Smh I don’t even speak to her no more
I always remember whenever I try to tell other adults or anyone who I thought were my friends to believe and understand what I went through with my horrible mother, they always choose my mother's side and never believe me at all. even if its cops, teachers, school deans, whatever the case. the narcissists are always believed they are right and not in the wrong. and it sucks that only a small amount of people who actually do care and love you like family are the actual family you never had, and they are the only people who understand the real you. the victim that had to fight the enemy which is the world. and the best solution is to cut those bad people out of your life to save yourself and the ones who stayed with you and love you always. this generation has become super toxic, that less good people are created in this world.
My narcissist mother is having severe health issues (karma), and needs my help soon enough. God is working through my narcissist so she suffers for what she's done to me and my family.
I’m cracking up at your lil laugh after you talked about your masters degree🤪🤣 I just love you & so proud of you!!
I love your Mother's Day videos! I am buying your book right now! My narc "mother" is sitting up waiting for her gift, and I don't wanna give her one cause she's a POS. Continuing to try to harrass me over text and manipulate me into doing stuff for her. She said she mailed a Easter card to me so I would send her something. She lied! She admitted she never send one after Easter when she asked about it and I said I never got one and she said Well I didn't get one from you! Haha! I said " Ya cause I didn't send one and never said I did unlike you". For some reason I feel guilty every year on Mother's Day and can't figure out My parents are also both narcissists too, and done a shit ton of damage to me. She doesn't deserve a lump of coal or Mother's Day. Hope I stay strong. You get thru to me cause you speak my language! Yes, I have a potty mouth too but it serves me well!
You need to change your number and threaten your family with a restraining order if they pop up to your house. Enforce your boundaries
This is so crazy. I’m 20 and my sisters 15 and 13. I told her something important she went and told my sisters and they laugh w her while they use me for my shit. I’m a hard worker. I do everything on my own since I was 13. Scapegoat child here. God gave me a business to be able to take care of myself. God heard and seen everything.
For God gave us a spirt ,not of fear but of power and Love and self control....2 Timothy 1;7
And of a sound mind. Don't forget. Most important. Theirs is not was not sound
@@irenehigginbotham6392,of course.
Triangulation- Experienced this with my mother. Learned this late in life.
Dear Heavenly Father Jehovah Save SWB From Narcissists in Jesus Name Amen Amen Amen
My narcissist mother never cared about me or helped me and set me up for failure and I don't need her in my life, my life is better when she's not around.
Also I want to add that loose skin does get tighten but it just takes time, no need for surgery. Also if you are in a hurry you can use derma roller or morphus 8 skin tightening treatments.
Proud of you for everything you've done for us and yourself. You really are salt of the earth, sharing the horror of narcissism and giving others hope that they too can heal. ❤ Congrats on your success, I KNOW you will keep going!
you changed my life!! after listening to u i cut off my mother and healed myself.cut off my sister and all the negative persons in my life which brought me to the right one. now im married and we both experience the smar stuff but are both healed and promise to break the cycle our children will never experience this thank u for everything that u do! god bless u!!❤
We're survivors of our childhood
My mother spit in my daughter's face then dared my daughter to do something to her so that my mother can put my daughter in jail but NYPD told my mother that the next time they have to come here that they will arrest her and she will lose her green card or whatever she had that made her legal to live in NYC
😂😂😂welp! serve her right!
@@planetmizz1224ik she was big msd 😭🤣
@@Antonio_.thagoat 💀💀💀💀
“I don’t want nun of that demon money 💴 “ 💀 lol
Had to come back to this one since I’m a month early for your 2024 video. I was in a car accident last month and while, yes, I am physically okay it was a traumatizing event. My mother hasn’t seen me since before the accident but called me the other day with all the care in her heart over a sickly coworker. Visited her in the hospital and everything but told me as long as we speak on the phone that’s enough for her. She caught an attitude when I said that wasn’t enough for me and I needed my mother. She simply did not want to get off the couch and see about me.
Girl my mother tried to make me feel some type of way by saying she gave my siblings 200 dollars each except me.i didn't get $200 dollars. So in my head I was like 🤬🤬😂 my mother and dad popped up at my house to invite me to my siblings wedding and I was mad like don't pop up at my house. Weird as hell!!! My mother is messy
Restraining order
@@SpiritualWhistleblower okay
I am just happy you are okay and doing well.
I’ve been in EDMR (CPTSD post divorce) therapy for narcissistic abuse and also reading Becoming The Narcissist Nightmare by Shahida Arabi. Again you covered so much.
Gurrr!
You be glowing up…
All good… Stay healthy, and blessed🙏🏾🥰
Hey family,
I graduated May 12, 2023. I did not want to invite my mom but of course she came. Let me start from the beginning. February my mom told me that when I graduated I wouldn’t do anything with my degree. She told me I was jealous of my sisters because they we’re married. Well my mom only attended school until the 6th grade. She was pregnant every year after that(6 kids). I was the first out of 5 generations to graduate high school and now college. I did not want her at my graduation but she came smh. My sister said she cried. I didn’t say anything because she said I would never be anything. Now she is telling everyone how proud she is of me and sending pictures of me in my cap and gown. I’m so hurt because she mad me feel like nothing my whole life. She abused me, I went into foster care, and she allowed her brothers to rape me from 6-13 and blamed me for it. Anyway I just proved to myself I can be anything I want to be. 😢I no longer have the fear I had as a child. No more buying her love or affection. I’m only looking out for me. Happy Mother’s Day family ❤
🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
prayers for you and glad you are able to get away from that.
I do not go to no family nothing no funerals nothing i stay away from all of the fake cousins the fake siblings they cant sit with me
I’ve always related to the childhood memory Chanel shared about her mother forcing her and and her brother to watch their younger sister open Xmas gifts in front of them both while neither one of them received gifts that year only the younger sister - my mom and dad did that shit and I grew up with both my biological parents
This is 💯 right here… I’m a black man and I see this all the time is the black community… I needed to hear this ❤️‼️
U have explained my whole life it's like a wound that will never heal😭
My mother wasn't a narcissist,but she was toxic.
Did she get screened by a psychiatrist? How do you know for certain that she isn’t a narc?
She went to therapy because she was an alcoholic and she had a hard time controlling her anger when people mess with her. She couldn't cope well because my grandmother was a narcissist.
I should hate my golden child narc brother, but instead I pity him because I believe to this day he thinks our narc mother was a saint. He & I haven't spoken since 2020. They'd sit around talking about me like a was a piece of dirt, then she'd run back & tell me everything he said about me. He was her little spy. Anything I did. Even when we were in our 30s. He'd run back & tell her. I'm so glad to be rid of them. They don't exist to me anymore. 👋🏾
I been through that too. My sister is the golden child
I'm in the same exact situation! I noticed my older brother was a golden child narc. In the past he would do smear campaigns with my covert narc mom and laugh about things that were traumatic like past whoopings she gave me, he would agree with her and fault me when we had fallouts when she was in the wrong, lecture me about "being a better person" after me and her would disagree on dumb ish, she would call him talking about me calling me all types of b's like I was a random female that stole from her. He rarely texted or called me throughout the years because of her brainwashing him and convincing him I'm just this awful child that never respects her. Mind you I've never called this woman out of her name nor have I ever gotten physical. The emotional incest was just disgusting and the damage that woman caused between me and my siblings is beyond repair.
@@peacedivineasmr9121 I am so sorry about you getting spanking, then being ridiculed about it. I was just thinking today, how nobody thought it was a big deal that I was hit & beat. & People laughing about it. & Talking amongst themselves about it. But not stepping in doing anything. I didn't use profanity around or at my mother either, but the way she used to talk at me. Like I was nothing. My gc youngest brother would try to belittle me & order me around too. I don't miss any of it. She's deceased and he's gone. I don't know where he is. Don't care. I hope your situation is better now. Hugs.❤️🫂
My narc mother is thinking of moving in with my narc brother 4hrs away from me!! 🤞 I hope it happens 😊
@@HeatherMcSwayde if he's a golden child, it'll be the perfect match.😆💞best wishes!!!🤞🏽
Mother’s Day is a really sad difficult day for me.. my mother passed away from cancer when I was very young and my father remarried the exact opposite of my mother, an evil narcissistic stepmother! Years of hell I suffered and she never had to answer for anything! SMH 😢
Hi Chanel 😀😀💚💚💚 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How are you ??? We missed you so much so glad to see you are doing well !!! Blessings !!
Thank you for taking the time to put this important content out for those of us who are learning, growing and healing from the narcissistic abuse we have endured & or continue to endure from our mothers. Blessings to you always! 🙏🏾❤
EMDR and DBT saved my life!!!!!
My mom is known for triangulation, especially when it comes to me and my sister. My sister always gets gifts and help. She always says she can’t help me at all, especially for the fact I have my degrees. When she does, I have to pay it back or when I used to visit, she just keeps mess going. It’s so sad.
I’m waiting on mine in the mail, it gets here on the 12!
Spiritual Whistle Blower thank you for all that you do, I watch you al constantly and you have helped me so much with staying strong during no contact with my entire immediate family. You look beautiful and love how brutally honest you are! Your videos have been my rock thank you! What a GREAT idea for gift giving your book to our narc mothers!!! I have a huge clientele and tell them about you all of the time now I can tell them about your books and the gift giving! Thanks for helping all of us understand and cope for what is best for ourselves the entire dynamic is sickening! I don't even want this crazy maker around my grandson!
Whew chile. Glad you're back. Yeah this is a holiday I'll never celebrate in this lifetime. I'm through. Anyways, lots of love to you boo.😘💚💚💚💚🙏
I really appreciate everything you do❤
Thank you for the video. I appreciate you for reminding us about the importance of therapy, and taking care of our mental health while working on our physical appearance. Continue enjoying your life!
Right on time! Thank you sis 🙏🏽💫🖤
Not wishing evil on the golden child but does anyone else ever notice how some of them die suddenly or in real tragic situations where no one saw it comeing....I believe God does this to teach the narcissistic parent a lesson in life....now some of them are left with that child who they hated the most...and we mostly don't want no parts of them....I'm learning that I don't owe my parents anything bur food and water and if there homeless I will just direct them to professionals who are willing to deal with them...smh
Yes YOU JUST SAID EVERYTHING MY MOTHER DOES
You know what, go off ! youre doing good work.
Good to see you, Sis! I learn something every time I watch your videos. When you said a narcissist can be created by being spoiled that hit me because I was wondering about my mom. It’s crazy how that works. ❤
We missed you!! Have a good Mother’s Day 🌹🌹🌺🌺
I needed this video! Thank you for all of your material. The triangulation starts with my moms mom and trickles down. Going on one year no contact. I have my sad days but way more days of feeling happy and free
It's hard for me to see if my mom is the source cause she doesn't come around me..always at my sisters house. So it's hard to put my finger on it because she's playing innocent & dumbfounded when sh hit the fan with her children.
Good morning beautiful, have a blessed and joyful day 💕
Hey ma. So glad life is continuing to treat you well and that you’re happy and healthy. Happy Mother’s Day! ❤️
You go girl 🎉❤🎉
I am so very very proud of you, we are inspired by your succces!
I know I see you on IG but omg I missed your videos on here😂😂 Always spitting facts!!❤
Glad you are doing well miss you So thankful to GOD I ran across yout channel and met you in D.C. I will never forget that hug you gave me telling me I was loved.❤🎉💐 Continue to grow and shine. GOD BLESS
Hey I’ve been watching your channel for a while, you actually helped me a lot as far as identifying what a narc was. I greatly appreciate you & your purpose. Just one suggestion, could you tap into the different types of narcs. Thank you 🤍.
Take some time to yourself, you deserve it 🙏🏾
MISS YOU CHANEL.. SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU. ❤😊
This hit home for me not going to lie taking accountability is super hard but I’m that toxic co depend I did a coaching session with you a few months ago know I was a hot ass mess lol I took your advice been a month and a half no contact changed my phone number also and just got back into therapy I need to change Mother’s Day is around the guilt is coming but I know I can do it baby steps thank you Chanel for this getting emotional typing this but I feel good knowing it needs to be done thank you again ❤
Congratulations
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I love Dr Judith, I follow her and u. Y'all saved me
U Live..
Thx Queen
May God continue to bless you! ❤️
Fathers who do this are worst. BC they hate the Mothers. My Father have 3 children mothers and I’m the eldest who basically raised my siblings. They all hate me bc of him. It’s 7 of us 2 by my Mom and my lil sister is a narcissist with the most children and he doesn’t even take care all the grandchildren.
🎯Enjoy your weekend
I know GOD is going to bless me i know girl i know
Swb I also struggled with obesity due to hormonal imbalances and overload of cortisol levels which are stress related.. I also need to get liposuction for the excess hanging skin on my arms and stomach mostly and my legs could use it… I had heard since it’s obesity it’s medical so I might not have to pay for it.. not sure I’m going to look into it.. congrats on your surgeries and your new body !
@ 6:18 this is exactly what happened to me. No contact.
I love my parents , but i love your video’s ❤there are people who needs this info. Blessings
I am very happy for you 😊😊😊😊
It's Dr Judith Joseph. I follow her too. She's wonderful
Good to hear from you Chanel! I've missed you! ♥
Thank you. . .💜🌹💜
😱😱😱😱😱😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 It’s just realization on my behalf 😰😰😥😥😓😓 I just can to Terms of everything that I’ve been going through my ENTIRE life. Thank you!! 😪😪🤧🤧😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨 Wow, just wow!! Wow.,
Welcome comrade... the rabbit hole goes deep! 😢
Nice video SWB…HAPPY MOTHER’S 2U🌷🌻🌷
Hey Beautiful! Continue to be love!
then they try to act like the best parents on social media like they love their children so much smh big pump fakers
Or 2 the grandkids... act like they are so important but like Chanel said it's a control thing. So siiiccckkkkk!!
I'm afraid to even write what I'm going thru on here in case she spying and somehow figure out it's me 😳 but yes every holiday is a new chance to try to pull some bull
Hiii🖐🏾🖐🏾 Queen!! Welcoming your spirit 🙂
I love you! You go tf in on these demonic entities 💯🎯
My 2023 is going horrible ugh
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That's what they do. Lived it first hand.
So proud of u
Oh you are so right! God does bless us. It is hard though, my mother is next in line ready to be blocked.
girl, I just have to tell you that I am very thankful that I came across your videos at the exact time I really needed it I love how real and raw that you are... and everything that you explain is like my life. I have toxic parents thst triangulated my sister against me and my sister is a narcissist. It’s so crazy but I really appreciate hearing this video because it’s so good to keep your mind guard in the right place because all the gas lighting and all the stuff definitely confuses your brain, so thank you for putting this out and just being so real I love it.
We miss you, Queen, be blessed 🙏🏼
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Missed you on these YT streets sweetheart. Happy Mothers Day glamorous love ❤️
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I’ll spend Mother’s Day with my grandmother :)
Yes, she is and the grandkids are being the little instigators
remember if u are or were with a narcist its was your fault not the narcist.
Hi Beautiful, Miss you ❤
i don't go to not family nothing no funerals no nothing
Thanks so happy ❤❤❤❤
Been cut the whole family off !!!!
Happy Mothers day
WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?! 😂 Hope you're doing well. 😊
exactly