my 9PM night routine living alone in NYC

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  • @maiphammy
    @maiphammy  Před 2 lety +2360

    yalll this video was with my DREAM BRAND 🥺😭 sit back relax while I talk about my love life

  • @iggy2biggy599
    @iggy2biggy599 Před 2 lety +3498

    Mai is slowly becoming a better version of herself every vlog

    • @jordansmith4696
      @jordansmith4696 Před 2 lety +50

      And empowering viewers to do the same 🥺 love that!

    • @misslaurynhill
      @misslaurynhill Před 2 lety +29

      oh finally a comment that doesn’t compare her to others . watching her growth day by day is a blessing and i am so glad that she is continuing to choose _her_ happiness :)

    • @ellinorarvidsson3895
      @ellinorarvidsson3895 Před 2 lety

      No. Shes just burping tired self help crudd.

    • @afortrying7922
      @afortrying7922 Před 2 lety

      Riighhttt

    • @ckailov3r277
      @ckailov3r277 Před 2 lety +1

      ong

  • @argyle7751
    @argyle7751 Před 2 lety +458

    mai genuinely seems so much happier since she moved and i’m loving it for her, like she’s embracing herself more and living her best life and she is FUCKING GLOWING

  • @almax013
    @almax013 Před 2 lety +505

    Omg I just love the way she talks and love listening to whatever she’s saying and love watching her life in every way.it’s just 100% real of how she is 😭

    • @adeeenalib
      @adeeenalib Před 2 lety +2

      literallyy like the realest youtuber

    • @Lolo-fl4gf
      @Lolo-fl4gf Před 2 lety

      So true she is so real I love that😩💕

  • @ExcuseMyAshley
    @ExcuseMyAshley Před 2 lety +263

    Mai: I'm not trying to date
    Also Mai: Manifest love meditation

  • @elizabethescalante5331
    @elizabethescalante5331 Před 2 lety +660

    I just love how original and human she is, like she’s not pretending, is her 100%, and I love how she shows herself, and I love how happy she is now 💕💕💕

  • @ohmyvoid
    @ohmyvoid Před 2 lety +56

    my night routine is increasingly changing from crying myself to sleep to watching this woman spilling tea and smile

  • @Euneekee
    @Euneekee Před 2 lety +791

    Her urge to tell us everything is just so pure , I feel like a best friend to her .💓 🥺 ( because I don't have one !.)

  • @AM-ui6fo
    @AM-ui6fo Před 2 lety +297

    I’m so happy seeing her being herself how she wants. If you see this Mai, you are so amazing and perfect in my eyes, everyone is. Take your take with blogs and ignore haters. Ily

  • @esthersun8037
    @esthersun8037 Před 2 lety +45

    Tbh I thrive to be like her when I’m older and as I grow up cause she’s does everything so aestheticly but with some of her own personality 😌🫶🏽

  • @prettiestoracle
    @prettiestoracle Před 2 lety +40

    I loved this routine! it's so realistic instead of doing too much aesthetics. I related more to this so it's really cool that you're being your authentic self, you're hella dope and I would love a real friend like you for sure. 💕

  • @adxbee
    @adxbee Před 2 lety +215

    This living alone in nyc series is gonna turn into Mai’s hot girl summer in nyc series real quick 😂❤

  • @lucy.carbonell
    @lucy.carbonell Před 2 lety +320

    Can we appreciate how much Mai posts like other people post once a month and she always has a video out amazingly edited and entertaining! Thanks and congratulations so much on the crocs sponsor that’s so cool!!

  • @bubbles580
    @bubbles580 Před 2 lety +17

    god I love her she’s such a motivator, nurturer and wholesome person I really love her outlook on life and she always makes me appreciate mine more, hopefully I get my lifestyle more in check like her 🥹 love you Mai ❤️

  • @angm5775
    @angm5775 Před 2 lety +70

    I’m a certified swim Instructor with the YMCA if you actually wanted someone to teach you, I live in PA but have family in NY so I’m there from time to time ❤️ love you

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Před 2 lety +145

    Seeing Mai live her best life in NYC inspires me to get my life together 💛👏🏽

  • @lexi.1020
    @lexi.1020 Před 2 lety +115

    I NEVER REALIZED HOW MUCH MAI MOVES HER EYEBROWS WHEN SHE TALKS ABOUT SOMETHING SHES FREAKING OUT ABOUT UNTIL THIS VIDEO AT 11:45 I LOVE HER😭

  • @fjugiibaby81
    @fjugiibaby81 Před 2 lety +10

    I spend a lot of time alone bc of my endometrioses and you’re the first vlogger I’ve felt like you are here in my living room 🦋

  • @beliso9526
    @beliso9526 Před 2 lety +2

    I love how real you are, Mai. Like, the way that you show yourself, so open, so real, so unique.. this is hard to foud this days on social midia. I'm really grateful for you and your content. You inspire me for real, every video that i watch makes me wanna jump out of the bed, and live my life and work on my healing. thanks for your hard work and share pieces of your life with us. i wish you the best and lots of light on your path ♡

  • @oxjuliaaaxo
    @oxjuliaaaxo Před 2 lety +77

    I just moved out at 30 with my 14 year old daughter. Your vlogs are keeping me going. Helping me eat at home, go to bed, wake up and just try. Blessed with these videos 🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @gabrielle4079
      @gabrielle4079 Před 2 lety +3

      youre an amazing strong mother!!! so much love and respect to you and all the amazing mothers out there

    • @tipperella
      @tipperella Před 2 lety +1

      props to you mama! you're doing amazing 🤍

  • @elararickenberg2311
    @elararickenberg2311 Před 2 lety +1

    I truly feel like I’ve been journey with you ever since I started watching you. Ever since you moved to New York City and I really feel like you’re finding your true self. I can tell you’re happy and I can’t help but get inspired. You make me want to get up and and find something that interests me. I really love watching your videos you’re such an inspiring person and I can’t help but watch your videos and get happy!

  • @EKMUSICFREAK
    @EKMUSICFREAK Před 2 lety +4

    Mai spilling all the tea and I'm here for it😂 it's so cool seeing how much you've grown since moving to nyc

  • @highoncoffee5556
    @highoncoffee5556 Před 2 lety +87

    MAI IS LITERALLY THE ONLY PERSON TO WHOM I LISTEN TO THE PROMOTION PART CUZ SHE JUST MAKES IT SO ENTERTAINING LIKE JUST LOVE IT MAI. IF YOU ARE READING WHICH I KNOW YOU ARE CUZ YOU READ EVERY SINGLE OF YOUR SUBSCRIBER'S COMMENTS, I JUST WANNA SAY I LOVE YOU AND YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB

  • @dhying724
    @dhying724 Před 2 lety +83

    I literally love how you talk to us like we’ve known each other for our whole entire lives. You’re inspirational and seem like a great friend, LOVE YOU and it’s so great to be seeing you heal well ^__^ !!

  • @ritvikabhati9227
    @ritvikabhati9227 Před 2 lety +3

    she just always leaves the videos with positive and playful vibe💋.. she makes her everyday so charming just by some little efforts.. just love her ✨❤

  • @THEDUTCHESS19381
    @THEDUTCHESS19381 Před 2 lety

    I love how unapologetically yourself you are Mai without this thing of not being afraid of who you truly are,wish i was that way when i was your age but we keep learning as we grow...love your vlogs keep being you💜

  • @briad2453
    @briad2453 Před 2 lety +122

    MAI girl your editing has leveled up so much this is everything and more all your hard work is showing love this love u bye

  • @giuliacasterville1525
    @giuliacasterville1525 Před 2 lety +3

    I just love how this video makes me so comfortable the energy is really of two friends talking on ft together , love you 🤠

  • @fiaa3966
    @fiaa3966 Před 2 lety

    i love seeing you be happy. your videos are so comforting, they give me a sense of hope for myself thinking of living the life that i dream of. i love you mai

  • @havinpham6999
    @havinpham6999 Před 2 lety +80

    I lover her Night Videos whenever she is filming. It’s just a whole vibe!! MAI GREAT VIDEO!!! ❤️❤️

  • @catmerchant8699
    @catmerchant8699 Před 2 lety +78

    Literally everyone who originally came to Mai’s channel for either room cleaning videos or transformations videos has stuck around and enjoyed all her videos and that shows how different and good her channel is👏 literally any other channel doesn’t engage me enough to keep following them.

  • @keepitswirlin
    @keepitswirlin Před 2 lety +1

    I’m so glad I found your vlogs. They put in a good mood, I can’t explain why lol. I love how genuine and honest you are.

  • @julietabustos6297
    @julietabustos6297 Před 2 lety +1

    mai i love you. i started watching you this week and you have already helped me so much. i’m so glad i found you. please never stop being you

  • @LFF14
    @LFF14 Před 2 lety +117

    Mia is such an amazing person see she is so inspiring and filled with joy and happiness she motivates me every single day she’s just such an amazing person she works so hard for these videos and edits for hours and hours she has grown so much like the fact of her getting sponsored by freaking crocs is crazy to me I remember watching your cleaning my room videos and you had a post Malone crock lysm mai💓💓💓

  • @sheshere3983
    @sheshere3983 Před 2 lety +26

    I love to see Mai's YT channel grow through HER growing as a person we must protect this woman at all costs

  • @rhysemarshall5751
    @rhysemarshall5751 Před 2 lety +1

    i love how raw the footage is. like it isnt rehearsed or anything and were able to see the real her, which is extremely comforting

  • @jjackson9238
    @jjackson9238 Před rokem +2

    This is a great vlog . she's got so much energy so cheerful . fun night routine . as I said before nyc is perfect for a person like you . you match ! thanks for sharing this video !

  • @ameliafoxe1512
    @ameliafoxe1512 Před 2 lety +30

    i love that Mai is really finding herself over there in NYC..seeing how you and your videos have evolved makes me soo happy and proud for you girl 🥰

  • @danee7695
    @danee7695 Před 2 lety +16

    lately i’ve been thinking ab what i want to do when i’m moving out, and mai’s really inspired me to live alone in stead of living w someone else. I cannot function on other peoples routines/schedules so seeing mai live on her own and planning her day all by herself makes me feel way more peaceful with the idea of living alone.

  • @tayla-louisee3238
    @tayla-louisee3238 Před 2 lety +72

    as someone who doesn't really stick to one CZcams, i've stuck with mai for a long time, her videos are so relatable in a way and feel so welcomed. she defienetley seems like a chill person to be around and honestly wish i was best friends with her 🤍

    • @girlyangel1434
      @girlyangel1434 Před 2 lety

      right! like i always go back to watch her videos ❤️ i don't get tired of her

  • @charissakopinga8227
    @charissakopinga8227 Před 2 lety

    I can tell that you’re really happy from the start of the video. Seeing you being happy is the best part of being in this family.and trust me we’re definitely looking forward to all the tea lmaooooo. Love you Mai xx

  • @foggiebee0880
    @foggiebee0880 Před 2 lety

    I’ve been watching alllll the videos this week and it really feels like I’m hanging out with Mai, she’s also been helping me so much with my own bad habits

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Před 2 lety +19

    Mai is literally my spirits animal. I love her 💛

  • @nija2106
    @nija2106 Před 2 lety +25

    Ugh Mai’s apt is just so peaceful, 💕like I know I would fell so comfortable and safe there lmaooo

  • @huia_music
    @huia_music Před 2 lety

    I love you mai! I stumbled upon your videos a little while ago, and fell in love with your unapologetically yourself personality, you've helped me come to terms with my real personality, can't wait to watch rhis!

  • @ob9210
    @ob9210 Před 2 lety

    You are a mood , a motivation and a muse. Love you from the bottom of my heat ❤ Thank you for fighting everyday and being the best version of yourself and above all, thank you for existing ⚘

  • @lucyrami8685
    @lucyrami8685 Před 2 lety +3

    love how real mai is with us, absolutely love you !! it's so good to see how you're just transforming into a better version of yourself day by day

  • @Alyssa-bv1wd
    @Alyssa-bv1wd Před 2 lety +17

    I found your channel back in January and honestly you’re literally my motivation to get up and be productive through out the week💚

  • @amberkf5348
    @amberkf5348 Před 2 lety +1

    oh my god mai just watching u talk about ur love life is stressing me tf out

  • @lauren4683
    @lauren4683 Před 2 lety +1

    Girl, you and your videos make me so happy!

  • @candlewh0r396
    @candlewh0r396 Před 2 lety +4

    Mai is so relatable and her vlogs motivate me so much to do work like- she’s definitely someone everyone needs in their life whether its virtual or not

  • @Celenee444
    @Celenee444 Před 2 lety +7

    Hey mai, ive been recently obsessed with your videos and have fallen in love with this channel and you. Ive been struggling lately and very lonely but watching all your videos has been helping so much and I dont feel as alone. you are making each day better and better and you are a big inspiration for me at the moment. lots of love from me xxx

  • @ocean2424
    @ocean2424 Před 2 lety +3

    I just did the meditation and I did it for 30 MINUTES without even realizing my legs were shaking so much and it feels amazing during and after. I just feel so relaxed, will definitely be doing this every night.

  • @mckinsey5751
    @mckinsey5751 Před 2 lety +1

    i love u spilling tea I FEEL LIKE UR BESTIE🥺💐

  • @acovocado
    @acovocado Před 2 lety +5

    i love how real you are with us. you could really be lying and having a pretend life but you show us your struggles. love you mai🤎

  • @5ft2chelle
    @5ft2chelle Před 2 lety +12

    I seriously want to manifest and see Mai win a Streamy award or a TCA surfboard,her content is really top notch and always relatable 🙌❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @laraescalant
    @laraescalant Před 2 lety +1

    mai spilling the tea is >>>

  • @andr-ease
    @andr-ease Před 2 lety +8

    you’re so cool Mai 😭 I really wish I could have you as a friend. This is the second video I’ve watched of yours and you just seem like such a chill and fun person. love your energy 🤍 also the dragon tatt is so sick I’ve wanted something similar to that for so long

  • @sanyahasan6268
    @sanyahasan6268 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m a freshman in high school and i usually have no motivation to try but i’ve been watching your videos for a couple weeks and they never fail to motivate and entertain me. Thank you ❤️

  • @kawaii_gallery
    @kawaii_gallery Před 2 lety +12

    mai's vlogs are soo well edited, aesthetically pleasing and therapeutic to watch 😌💞✨

  • @aylove3420
    @aylove3420 Před 2 lety

    i usually watch your videos right when they come out, but recently i’ve been saving them to watch because they always make me feel better. today was a rough day and watching your videos made it so much better. thank you mai 💕

  • @sierrahunt36
    @sierrahunt36 Před 2 lety

    i swam competitively growing up and it’s literally the best workout! you don’t get too sore and it’s easy on your joints it’s like my fav cardio to this day you should def learn!!! i’d give you swim lessons if i lived close LOL also my fav thing to do when swimming is breath control drills bc it feels like meditating to me

  • @gurleen_kaur_dhanoa
    @gurleen_kaur_dhanoa Před 2 lety +6

    I'm seriously obsessed with this new intro and editing. well, everything in her videos in general .♥️

  • @liviprohaska3650
    @liviprohaska3650 Před 2 lety +5

    Your my literal comfort CZcamsr!!! I could watch you all day long with no complains!!!!!!you make me feel so safe I love you sm 💗💗

  • @leahroze2129
    @leahroze2129 Před 2 lety

    how r u so like clear like u just dont care what people think like your such a role model Mai ily

  • @rurusdairy._
    @rurusdairy._ Před 2 lety

    Sister Mai is sooo awesome I've been watching her for a month now and I'm obsessed with her energy and vibes... Lota of love sister Mai💕

  • @Ayeoritse
    @Ayeoritse Před 2 lety +15

    Mai's vlogs are so satisfying to watch!!
    And i love how she's gradually become a better version of herself everyday

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee Před 2 lety

      yees me too💕 hey btw esther, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

    • @Ayeoritse
      @Ayeoritse Před 2 lety +1

      @@HannahMarieee omg i just saw this
      i'll definitely check it out

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee Před 2 lety

      @@Ayeoritse cool 🥰

  • @chawsuzarthwe8274
    @chawsuzarthwe8274 Před 2 lety +3

    Mai Pham is my inspiration in life and I really love her energy ,her advice,her deep talks everytime I watch her videos I feel like I am hanging out with my big sister ❣️❣️

  • @mm34815
    @mm34815 Před 2 lety +2

    You are so entertaining and fun to watch! Good luck with everything 😉 thanks for being so relatable and being the older sister that I don't have. Have a great day, Mai! ❤ ❤❤

  • @jaidanicole2023
    @jaidanicole2023 Před rokem

    i’m rewatching all your videos & it’s literally like watching you grow up🥹

  • @nicolehernandezg.6354
    @nicolehernandezg.6354 Před 2 lety +6

    Mai I am literally dying through finals rn and also I broke up w my boyfriend so it’s fair to say things are NOT going well… but when I say thank you so much for making these videos. Genuinely this is the only thing that has brought me happiness today. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jl-dw8qf
    @jl-dw8qf Před 2 lety +2

    Mai is a inspirational person, and the fact she spends time doing videos just for us is very touching, and shes very motivating lysm mai💓

  • @ericadanielle6779
    @ericadanielle6779 Před 2 lety +1

    i love that she actually treats us like her besties and not just her subscribers😚

  • @rodsitamara
    @rodsitamara Před 2 lety

    journaling is really the 2022 version of a diary and i love it

  • @yuvikachaturvedi
    @yuvikachaturvedi Před 2 lety +9

    hey mai! girl you’re amazing and so inspiring i recently started watching your videos and commented on the last week’s video and followed both of your accounts. i’m literally obsessed and im going through a hard time too rn mentally and physically both so watching you like this gives me hope and i really really lover your videos. YOU GO GIRL!

    • @anxiousbaddie444
      @anxiousbaddie444 Před 2 lety

      i hope you get through whatever you ate going through stronger and better than you were before, all the best

  • @mendozamarkjohnp.2723
    @mendozamarkjohnp.2723 Před 2 lety +6

    the all-week election anxiety that I got here in my country, now this is what I really need now, thanks mai for this. Definitely going to live my life, as I should because u inspires me big time!! ✨❤

    • @katv3116
      @katv3116 Před 2 lety

      The Philippines? I hope all the best with you 🙏Sending love from Cali, take care!

  • @hera.4438
    @hera.4438 Před 2 lety

    I love the way that you are truly yourself 💕

  • @mydiamondgrave
    @mydiamondgrave Před 2 lety

    i am literally in love with ur personality

  • @Aurie_d
    @Aurie_d Před 2 lety +5

    I started watching Mai because of her moving series, but now, I watch her for her personality. She inspires me 💕
    At 6:46, the way she was staring at that cut as though she couldn't believe that she could have a cut...😶I would probably have screamed if that were me 😅
    11:30 Her nonexistent love life is more interesting than mine 😅

  • @axagretal9313
    @axagretal9313 Před 2 lety +15

    I love how honest you are in your videos, recently I've been wanting to improve my routine and productivity so I've been relating so hard to your recent videos 💕

  • @eylembaskin6031
    @eylembaskin6031 Před 2 lety

    I really love how real you are and I always feel so comfortable watching your videos!!

  • @itskailaaa
    @itskailaaa Před 2 lety +4

    Love this vlog !!

  • @xsstellax
    @xsstellax Před 2 lety +3

    this is so inspiring omg!! your vlogs are always so motivating and realistic at the same time, and GAAAHHH CONGRATS ON WORKING W/ CROCS

  • @danielisai5680
    @danielisai5680 Před 2 lety +3

    Mai is truly my inspiration, I’ve never met anyone like her ♥️

  • @denisa82
    @denisa82 Před 2 lety

    I like how ur content is literally like having a best friend that u talk to 24/7 ♥️ and also,thx for motivating me in lots of things:]

  • @bdaines9764
    @bdaines9764 Před 2 lety

    I was literally journaling today about how I needed a nighttime routine and then you made this! Love it!

  • @ivy3602
    @ivy3602 Před 2 lety +10

    My grandpa just passed away, and watching this really helped comforting me❤️ I love your videos Mai

  • @musicclarenson8953
    @musicclarenson8953 Před 2 lety +4

    I absolutely can’t get enough of your new editing style. It truly is so beautiful

  • @hrishitapandey1528
    @hrishitapandey1528 Před 2 lety +1

    Mai u are so inspirational 💕 love you 💕

  • @leilawishney295
    @leilawishney295 Před 2 lety

    Mai, I look up to you so much! I love how honest you are

  • @alanacroft8475
    @alanacroft8475 Před 2 lety +3

    "I catch myself on the toilet" had me dying 😆 I love your relationship with sterling! loved the video when he ate chocolate lol.

  • @unaysahx7780
    @unaysahx7780 Před 2 lety +7

    Ly Mai you’re so inspirational and inspiring! You’ve come such a long way and I love you so much omg 💗

    • @mariankhan3906
      @mariankhan3906 Před 2 lety

      No cuss y is my name unaysah 2😂😂😂

    • @unaysahx7780
      @unaysahx7780 Před 2 lety

      @@mariankhan3906 omggg sickkk haha 💗💗

  • @maceylatman
    @maceylatman Před 2 lety +1

    Mai your literally glowing and it’s not just from the skincare products your just beautiful! 💗

  • @jadeetaaylorr
    @jadeetaaylorr Před 2 lety

    Aw we love you and how you talk to us like your best friends 🥺

  • @cloudjelly97
    @cloudjelly97 Před 2 lety +13

    if i wasnt a literal middleschooler and stranger to mai i would totally be her friend if i had the opportunity, she seems like the kind of person that would be bring you along on all this crazy activities or drag you into cool ideas and i basically feed off of those kinds of people, i guess i can only guess for now 😔🤞 (btw if you read this hi mai i havent made it through the video but if you ate it off camera i hope you enjoyed your little baked fishy in the beginning :D))

  • @imanipeterson959
    @imanipeterson959 Před 2 lety +8

    I’m also 19 living alone in NYC and I feel like we would be really good friends if we met! love your videos!💗

  • @madisoncool
    @madisoncool Před rokem

    I love her videos sm she is so comforting

  • @aurelie6577
    @aurelie6577 Před 2 lety

    Omg Mai I'm literally obsessed with ur videos

  • @shelsavv9049
    @shelsavv9049 Před 2 lety +14

    Im kinda in a "bad" situation in my life rn, my friends r slowly leaving me and i dont rlly go outside and dont rlly feel myself and havent felt like myself in a while, but i just feel like watching you makes me want to start all these good habits in my life and iw also ordered the atomic habits book cause i feel like that might help me too. Love you vlogs

    • @x-starlight-x
      @x-starlight-x Před 2 lety +1

      If you mean your friends are leaving you because they have to go away for work, school, family commitments etc then that may be understandable and there will always be times in life when this occurs, but if they are just leaving in the sense that you feel alone and like no one cares for you, then perhaps either speak to them and tell them how you feel or maybe it's a good thing that you have realised that these people aren't so reliable at being the friends you thought they were. It's ok to be alone and spend time by yourself, i think that's the best time to truly make yourself happy. Maybe work on what makes you feel good, even if that's just relaxing and watching movies. Don't ever pressure yourself to be someone your not, I think society, social media and even books about self help can sometimes exaggerate unrealistic expectations

    • @tomaetos6350
      @tomaetos6350 Před 2 lety

      same here !

    • @shelsavv9049
      @shelsavv9049 Před 2 lety

      @@x-starlight-x Yea the second way, iv just noticed that my friends never invite me anywhere anymore and give me kinda of an attitude when i ask about like heyy i wasnt invited then they always say the same things ” aah i was invited here” or something like that and they use it so many times that i feel like they r lying to me and avoiding me and just doesnt wanna hang w me anymore, wich feels awfull bcause my low amount of friends already. Especially the fact that im talking about my first bestfriend from my childhood so we’v basically known eachother our whole lives :,). Sucks.

    • @x-starlight-x
      @x-starlight-x Před 2 lety

      @@shelsavv9049 Its really hard when something like this happens especially when you are already feeling low or perhaps that is what is causing you to feel low and everything else can feel like it is spiralling. I'm a bit older now and all I can say is unfortunately in life people drift apart sometimes, whether that's naturally or for a good reason. And in a situation like this where it is causing you stress, and you can identify that the people have no regard for you, then it's safe to say that as much as you may care for them, you are worth so much more than that, and in order to be good to yourself and love yourself you need to make yourself happy first before anyone else. There will always be opportunities to meet new people. But spending time on your own and truly enjoying your own company and being happy with yourself is most important. Do whatever it is that makes you happy, and don't worry about anyone else, especially those that don't care about you. Having said that be the best person you can be and spread love, because being positive can really help

  • @kaylacecil6392
    @kaylacecil6392 Před 2 lety +3

    Mai is like the older sister I wish I had ♥️😭