Dr. Phil Gives Honest Advice on How to Avoid Dating Narcissists
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- čas přidán 27. 10. 2020
- Dr. Phil has no problem being honest with a VFF audience member about why she keeps dating narcissists and shares tips on how to stop the habit.
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Dr. Phil Gives Honest Advice on How to Avoid Dating Narcissists
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“ I find myself lowering my standards just to find someone to be with” yep! Sounds about right:(
Me too. I lower my standards just to feel love. (Im diagnosed with EUPD, so i also have a personality disorder) but i dont hurt people for my own gain. I just need to feel loved. I have been a magnet for this people. It’s destroyed me, but im working myself up to be mentally healthy and strong in therapy.
I just met a narcissist today and he was mad when I wouldn't do what he wanted. The audacity of these losers!!🙄
Number 1....TRUST THAT GUT FEELING !!!!!!!!!!!! It DOES NOT LIE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yup
Saw the red flags when I met him but was very young at the time, ended up married to him and had 28yrs of abuse, he had NO RESPECT FOR ME CHILDREN AND FAMILY, no values if I knew then what I know now woukd have RUN, only thing is have 3 grown up children and 4 Grandkids whom I ADORE so living FREE CONTENTED PEACEFUL LIFE NOW please anyone dating an Narrisist get OUT PLEASE, look after yourself 1st. I didn't know anything about Narrisists until 14 yrs ago. Had to learn the hard way, now he can have ANY WOMAN HE WANTS and I don't give a hoot.
That was sweet what Dr. Phil said at the end to Mary. "You don't have to compromise."
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So many of them today! Fake no self reflection….. you can’t save them save yourself. God loves you you must love you more. Healthy love
Love love love this !! It really hit me when Dr.Phil had said nothing is worse than being in that relationship for one month and one day. It took me 3 years to learn this lesson, and I wish I heard this sooner. Always put yourself first!
13 yrs with a cover one since 2008. Met online Inna video game when in was 23 she was 27. Helped her raise her daughter from 8 to now 21. Got discarded 7 months ago abruptly. She got what she wanted, took all the stuff put it in a storage unit and lives w her brother and sister. So bizzar. Completly fine and justlike a switch flipped.
It has taken me around 6 years and im letting it sink in. I think i still love them and can’t get myself to break up cause i know they probably wont
CZcams is full of great videos on Narcissism. To be exact,
Dr. Ramini is Awesome.
Assoc Direct is too and Lisa Romano.
She is the best
Dr. George Simon.
Richard Grannon - "Why your family hates you" and "Golden child and scape goat" very informative.!
Dr. Les Carter and Dr. George Simon too.
Also "The Little Shaman..." She is excellent. And Melanie Tonia Evans and Richard Brannon. Sam Vaknin, in small doses for me. He is a self proclaimed narcissist himself.
Thank Lord, I detect Narcissistic person even over the phone 📱 yes, over the phone!!! By observing and analyzing the ton of voice and the words, I tell exactly what the man wants from me and, I do not trust or believe in any man until he shows that he can be trusted, another important thing, I do check if he has or had any criminal records! My life is precious to me, I love myself First!!!
Something I read on a wall where I used to get roofing supplies. If we always do what we've always done we will always get what we've always had.
Haha, I was the same. “But you haven’t met me yet...” Knowing what you want is key in being able to recognize it in someone, I think. It’s just that it takes some time for some of us to learn what it is that we want.
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Distressingly, some dates present a false, deceitful facade because they want something out of you. They have an agenda. They may put on a convincing show of courtesy, kindness and warmth for a period of time and it's only later that you see the cracks in their presentation and their authentic offensive self emerges. It can be very confusing and frightening. Even the most astute and perceptive individuals can be fooled and victimised. If you encounter such a personality... leave and don't look back.
I agree. And you gotta get better at smelling the lie when you see it right in front of you.
Yes listen to what they say. And watch what they do. How do they treat wait staff at a restaurant? That's a good clue.
Or how they treat an animal
I absolutely LOVE this! Pay attention, do your selfs work and the right guy will be attracted to you in the end. or girl or whatever you're into!
Dr. Phil and his final words were everything! thanks for coming on the show Dr!
and thank you Drew for touching base on this topic, I sent the clip to my sister cause I feel like she needed to hear these messages too!
It's tough though when they lie and say they want something serious and then act a fool... then when you end it suddenly you're the bad guy...
I felt like he was talking about how I was.
You don't want a bad boy. Look for someone kind.
Mine was kind...he had a "kind" exterior in fact they're really good at putting up a kind front to others because they want to be liked by others.
No, my husband was a con and a master manipulator. I didn't know who he was until we were married. I had no clue that he lived a triple life...was with four women and with men at the same time.He manipulated all of us. He was so charming and presented himself as the perfect man....I thought I had hit the jack pot with him....so did the other 3 women.
He looks at you like a toaster. They need supply. Men. Women. Does not matter
Aw thank you for this Drew. Needed that.
Exactly Drew, we think « with me he’ll be different »
WRONG
We have huge egos
Thank you 😊 I needed to hear that
Wow. This advice was directly to me.
It was for every one not directly to you if think that you need hlep
“DUMP HIM!”
I'm a survivor! Still discovering the good parts of the old me and learning and discovering the healed me!
I ignored the first signs 35 years later after a roller-coaster relationship he discarded me and the children.
He blessed you with his absence Sis' Mapitso. Enjoy your beautiful new life and children. Enjoy your freedom. The worst is over. Now, you can begin to truly live. Maybe God bless you and your children.
Don’t look at it as he ‘discarded’ you. Look at it as the rubbish taking itself out 😌🙌🏻🙌🏻
Thank you for the support team. I now know who I am, my true capabilities, my power and strength, I have made so much progress in my life, I am now educated about narcissism and empowered. I am healthy, strong, positive, fit and more now. Yes I thank God for removing him out of my life, but why didn't God do it earlier? God's timing is always spot on time. I am watching karma operating and I am not surprised.
Everyone is a NARRSSSIT when they don't let the person with less stuff in front of them.
"Want Mr Right, not Mr Right-Now." 🎯
They love the fixer! Don’t do it
Good information, lisen and think what you want take time and trust you instinkt🥰
Dam Mary you working at lids stop cappin 🤣
Dr Phil: describes narcissist
Drew: 👀
Some people will compromise on everything but looks.
Believe everything thats been said its spot on🤔
Instictual drift I have to remember that! That's exactly what happened with my now ex bf of 2 1/2 years he's good for a while then those lack of core values brings him right back to start. This vid is a god send especially now with my ruminating doubts over this! So I must be on the right path! He's a former drug addict and given his history maybe God is saving me from a painful future path? If he bounced backwards on everything else its just a sad matter of time he will relapse too, if he doesn't get professional help.
2 1/2 years is a God send narcissists eat lifetimes
Another piece of advice is to do some soul searching and find out why we settle for less than we deserve.
Mary seems like the rescuer type, she needs a man to fix. Stop that.
How to avoid Amber Heards
ay it’s my boi dr. phil!
Look up Dr. Ramani Durvasala, she is a clinical psychologist and a world renowned expert on narcissism. Don’t ignore the red flags! Find a way to say no early on in the dating process, set a boundary form the beginning. Their reaction to you saying “no” to them will tell you everything you need to know about them.
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Narcissistic Chad may be the worst guy you ever had.
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Do they need to be… employed? 😂
lol
Dr Phil about if all people 😂😂
She needs better advice. HG Tudor for instance. If u really want to be narc free.
Dr. Phil rocks!!!!!
🗽BROOKLYN! 🌁
Brasil ❤🇧🇷
Hi my name is Esther how do I get out from a narcissistic marriage I am marry a long time I have no place 2 go I have serious health problems
Is there a women's refuge or a church organisation or even a homeless soup kitchen where people might be able to tell you where you could stay?
Isn't it narcissistic to not compromise every single one of us has their set of pros and cons
Byergin Kyergin from Yurgin still Rules!!!.....................
No empathy for you always a victim! Big red flag
How do you know if they’re narcissistic or just autistic?
Very controlling people !
I think aswell you have to look at yourself not just others. You have to ask yourself, am I narcissistic? Am I entitled? Do I have humility? Am I an honest person with good intentions towards the person I want to be in a relationship with?
It's easy to look at others and blame, not so easy to look at ourselves.
The irony of Dr Phil talking about narcissism on the Drew Barrymore show... 🙄
Stop giving it up, why pay for the milk if the cow is free.
Oh just like that she's ready for Mr Right. Thanks Dr Fool. I don't think so. This pattern goes deep. There's a strong reason why you got for men who hurt you. Hint - usually goes back to childhood and your parents. Go there dig deep and do the work.
The host Lady of that show when she says oh you don't know me yet I think she's a narcissist I washing her body language and facial expressions and she's not all that as far as looks. I think she's got some issues herself cuz I yeah 🤣
what??
Drew Barrymore has been an actress since young childhood.
Drew will you marry me please
Probably not
@HydroMate,Or one Ingenious,Fun workout Mate she's been married...and divorced...three times. I think James should take his shot.
This is why we need Kevin Samuels. Don't be a simp
The universe didn't think we needed Kevin Samuels. Good riddance. Women, particularly black women don't need the abuse, misogyny or narcissism from our own men. We have it bad enough.
That is absolutely terrible. Advice That's as insightful as just say no to drugs if it was that easy nobody would have that problem
I feel like Dr. Phil spouts a bunch of cliches and doesn’t give real solid answers that can help someone to grasp the at the root of the issue. Maybe I’ve just been watching too much Psychology in Seattle, and now I know too much to be appeased by this watered down, half ass advice.
I thought I was the only one who thought he wasn't really answering the question...
Why would you invite him to your show after his controversial coronavirus stance
His stance doesn’t define him as a person, Aastha.
@@RichardGalindo96 what’s his stance?
Absolutely useless advice.
Oh, no no no Drew, not Dr Phil. No. I used to be a fan and over the past 5 years really do not support him or his show. Awful. I'm sorry, this video was good but not his show attitude anymore and the damage he's caused.