POV: Public speeches but you have social anxiety
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- čas přidán 1. 10. 2022
- Public speeches are the worse. If you ever have to do one, then expect yourself to be in heaven... because public speeches are deadly especially with social anxiety
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I felt physical pain watching this.
sad
Ok
Same 😢
Me 2
Nervous 😬
I have social anxiety, but I feel super confident when I’m giving speeches compared to when I’m talking to someone one-on-one
That is because social anxiety and performance anxiety is not the same.
Michael Jackson had severe social anxiety.
Yet - he performed in front of millions of people without any problem. He had live concerts, he made movies, TV specials which were live so it was not possible to fake his confidence.
Having social anxiety does not mean we are invalid, that there stupid nor that we are weak or that there is something fundamentally wrong with our character or trait that is sick.
Social anxiety is trauma - we were in abusive situation with mentally ill people who were psychopaths.
@@ranc1977 interesting
@@ranc1977 Ok maybe not exactly that. But yeah, it mostly forms from negative experiences (especially at home ;-;)
@@mr.regular589 Social anxiety is part of Complex Trauma.
Triggers - flashbacks we have which CBT labels as "cognitive distortion" are part of Complex PTSD (which is not the same as PTSD).
The more we built self worth and trust in our emotions and reactions to life, the more we will feel secure and safe in the world - that we rely on our own common sense instead of other people (external referencing locus of control is bad).
@@ranc1977 what does CBT stand for
hmm
Public speech issue is not social anxiety.
Performance anxiety - when you feel social fears when performing in public - it is totally different from social anxiety.
Social anxiety is connected with bullying, abuse and mobbing, toxic ambient like tyrannical oppression
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@@Kaka-cj3gn In detail:
CBT lumps various social inhibitions into issue with hallucination:
(1) Shyness - it is feeling social threat feelings at some social event, but social fear wear off quickly and shy person is not bothered by it again
(2) Social anxiety - it is feeling of social threat before the event, during event and after event. Fears do not wear off and you keep ruminating about it. This is due to trauma, condition called CPTSD and it is not hallucination neither delusion nor illusion.
(3) Social anxiety disorder - it is feeling of social threat at safe events, when you know that person around you will not harm you. For example in safe, empty room, and you are with Oprah or Mandela or Mother Theresa or Gandhi - the safest person you can ever imagine - but you still feel threat that they might harm you. This condition is part of Paranoid Delusional Disorder, and only 1% of population has it.
(4) Narcissistic disorder - it is feeling of social threat triggered when someone warns and alarms you for being intrusive. Due to confirmation bias you are not realizing that you are rude and arrogant and intrusive - so you conclude that you feel social anxiety due to unknown reason from random people.
(5) Autistic disorder - you live in your world and you are not aware that you appear threatening to people, for example you do not say Hi to them or smile back to them. So you feel social anxiety because you feel tense and awkward in social situations and you have no idea why.
(6) Performance anxiety - when you feel social fears when performing in public and it has nothing to do with social anxiety at all, it only overlaps panic symptoms - where primary concern is embarrassment, not violent attack from others.
(7) Borderline - half baked narcissists, often aggressive and fear of being abandoned as primary concern which mimics social anxiety symptoms.
CBT lumps all these as hallucination in order to make it easier to handle complex matter. However oversimplifications leads to distortions.
Ironically CBT is using cognitive distortion concept such as over-generalization paradoxically to explain social anxiety as cognitive distortion.
CBT does not distinguish between narcissism/boderliners with primary concern to be liked from others on one side, cannot distinguish it from the real social anxiety which is - fear of punishment, attack and fear of aggression from others. Narcissists thus became spokesmen for socially anxious, explaining the symptoms where the abuser becomes the advocate for their targets that they abuse, as if the wolf is given watchdog job to watch over sheep.
There is Jane Elliott's Blue Eyes, Brown Eyes experiment, exercise - that showed that social settings can influence the targets.
There is Narcissistic abuse: Long-Term Narcissistic Abuse Can Cause Brain Damage.
There is Stanford prison experiment where it is shown that targets of abuse in toxic ambient where they cannot escape from will develop extreme social anxiety.
There is Skinner's box and Little Albert experiment which shows that people can be conditioned and initiated into social anxiety.
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The last scene was actually Saddening to see 😔
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Shocking how many shirts this dude has
I can relate to this since I only have 4 days to work on my speech lol
That run was everything 😂
I love your memes a lot!
"Soa" -guy with social anxiety.
I feel you 😭
Too relatable..
My brother is mentally scared of public things except speeches
escape room but your friends do nothing
Andrew really said: "I commit die now"
Bro the Behind the scenes for the running is so good I swtg 💀
I once starting crying as a 6th grader giving my speech to like half the school which was like 40 kids at most lol
This is to relatable
Can u do a vid about Sports, I would love a race with the silly running
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I like your vids
this just reminded me about my piano performance
relatable
how about pov: you're at the airport? btw this was really funny, don't know how you don't have more subscribers!
The most underrated YT
Can you do POV: lunch time?
wo this was so inspairaing it dont make me spit my food while laughing[ ITS FUNNY I THINK I GOT FOOD ON MY LAPTOP]
i have an anxiety now
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the only video i relate to
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me in class:
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Do one about the school nurse
*n* *o* *i* *c* *e* .
I happens to me any time
It never happened to me the kid did the for the fail
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Do "POV you find a tornado"
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Make a video about parks
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Ah yes
Video idea: pov: lunch
literally mw when i do socratic seminar in ela
Me Fr Fr:
The ending is kind of dark though lol
he saw the dark
ong
😂
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Pov: your teacher tells you off
And then you fart.
Please do when you go to the nurse at school 🎒📚
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This is me
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420th like this is pain.
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this got 69k views
*nice*
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Stop making things relatable man.
relatable