DO THIS: Accelerate Intimacy - Crush the
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- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
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@FlyMeToThePhilippines @Chrissyinlove1993
How to - STEP by STEP - based on STUDY by psychologist Arthur Aron that explores whether intimacy between two people can be accelerated.. YES IT CAN!!
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You Seduced that beautiful woman?????? G! 😅
That’s right Chrissy😍
You two are the luckiest and happiest people I know. I can only hope and pray that someday I can be that lucky and happy. Congratulations Rob and Chrissy!
@@CptnSavage were blusing
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines "were blusing" . . . (???)
Should I pretend that you meant to Reply, "we're blushing" . . . ?😇
@@xavierkoolat6926 yes blushing
The test requires a. both partners having a sufficient level of english to understand, b. the self-reflectiveness and intellectual ability to understand the questions and c. the will to follow through with the questions and answer honestly. I think this is more a compatibility test to get to know the other person better, not a seduction.
The staring test is not a good idea, I will fall for these beautiful black eyes immediately and its better to get to know the person behind those eyes before that. 😀
Your corporate background really shows in your clear and effective communication style. Your videos all feel substantive.
Thanks a lot for that feedback
Apparently this works. You are a lucky man. You found an amazing woman. Your interaction is so fun to watch.
Wow, thanks!
I'm glad it worked for you, but I don't think I could do it. It's too much like a psychological interview for a job.
Actually, it ended up being quite a playful time and was a lot of fun, but everybody has to choose their best approach
I get that but after being a faithful providing husband and divorced twice, it is time to do something different. And screening for compatibility and personality early on sounds like a much better approach than doing the same things again and expecting a different result. Of course, another big difference is avoiding American women/society/divorce culture.
@DrJamesBWood good luck.
Ha-ha! Thank you. Very entertaining, very enjoyable to watch, and very useful. Rob and Chrissy, the quality of your videos is going through the roof. This is worthy of 250K views easily. Keep up the good work. The world is benefiting.
Wow thank you
Awesome! Awesome!! Great video. Watched it 2x. Take care..stay blessed!
Thank you! You too!
Great content! Having done many years of personal growth, my empathy, compassion, deep understanding of another, I “get” people very quickly, an a very good listener, and a great communicator and very playful - these are some of my superpowers. I’m sincere, genuine, emotionally intelligent- also some superpowers. 🙏🏼
Thanks for watching and that was a wonderful comment
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I look forward to the adventure of finding my partner. It will be fun. I’m a great loving partner. Your content is helping me as I’m just about ready to launch. I’m getting so much push back here. Your content helps 🙏🏼
That's true! I did that to my palalabs and getting stronger 💪 almost 4 years now❤ develop emotional connection first rather than physical connection.
Thanks for the feedback
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines our pleasure.
thank you both great advice
Any time Tim
I had to chuckle about you having Chrissy read about love languages. Seven years ago on the first trip to meet my now wife in the Philippines, I took along copies of a book titled something like, "How to avoid divorce...Before you ever get Married." My sweetie probably thought I was a nut job, but hey she had already said yes to marrying me. The book has two versions, one for women and one for men, with similar sets of questions. It's a workbook style that prods the two of you to talk about, religion, money, children, family, roles, etc. You write and then you talk about what you wrote. Writing is easier for some, talking for others so this helps by including both. My love was a bit uncomfortable talking about some of these subjects, it was all a bit foreign to her. We had some great conversations that came out of it and it made it easier I think to broach other sensitive subjects and open up communication in general.
Thanks Paul as usual, a well written comment makes a great contribution to our channel
Good advice....love ur channel....
Keep it going....
Thank you! Will do!
Although I agree with the concept of openness and talking from the heart…I don’t think I would do it in a structured format. You could touch on the same basic topics in a more flowing way…just as if they were bullet points in your head of the topics you would ask or reveal, only to then ask her, her thoughts on the topic.
Thanks for sharing!!
No problem 😊
Nice!!
Thanks! Thanks for watching and commenting
I'll be honest with you guys too crush competition i believe stay i shape be healthy not heavy and make sure your pockets are right and be yourself
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How to be a simp video. Guys, come on. If there are other guys chasing "your" Filipina step #1 is to move on. There are no more steps. There are 1000's of Filipinas ready to give you a shot. Take your shot and if she isn't giving you attention like within 30 minutes, move on.
This is especially true for single moms. You need to do nothing other than say "Hi" and chat for maybe 30 minutes.
I get it, you were a simp in the US and have a serious problem adjusting to being the one who is pursued. You've got to come to terms with the reality of the situation.
A lot of us have had rough experiences with American women; heck my own dad is finally free of alimony payments after 42 years of payments, may he rest in peace. I've been a faithful providing and supportive husband twice and am a bit jaded and becoming more red-pilled now. Still, while we Westerners seem to hold the better cards in the Phils, we can be the person we want to be and have a partnership relationship that we are the leader of while investing in the relationship and treating a lady like a lady. I think a little more scientific approach is helpful and obviously, Chrissy is into him but if she wasn't, these tools would help screen for that as well. I'm pretty sure Rob was a VP of a Fortune 500 company, so not exactly an unaccomplished pushover beta male. Good communication and getting to know each other is not simp; nor is treating women with respect. Putting up with a lot of the entitled, poop test, mind games and other crap on offer in the west. . . well that is a different story. If you watch his other videos, he screens for Tampo very early on.
Personally, I wouldn’t do this until you meet in person.
Yeah, I had problems with the words "seduce" and "competition" here. This turned out to be not a tool to "seduce" by one person, I think it was more like a tool to see if you should go farther with them. You were both using it.
I think the step you *didn't* mention was the biggest test and one ought to stop a moment and pay attention to it - Each of you took the step to not only risk this (and to do it playfully), but also you found you both *cared* - you were both interested enough in the other's answers.
That's key, to me. That right there at least told you 'This person could be the one.'
That leads me to this - that the best reason for doing the questions is to deepen your connection. If you see the other person's answers are canned and/or don't show much consideration... well, that tells you something essential right there - they don't value intimacy, they don't value psychology, they don't value any tests where they might fail... Things like that. Many (most) people seem to be like that, and I say thank God there's plenty of fish in the sea just like them, for them. I've got other plans.
And the most important thing about this test is - you both listened to each other, really paid attention. (I love the way you both STILL take time to listen and pay attention to one another.)
(I was with someone once who asked me all these questions but their own answers were made up in advance... so you can guess what valuable lesson I learned!)
One constructive comment, I'd've liked the questions stated slower and the words to stay on screen longer for us with slow eyes. Just a little slower. What you two are saying is too important to be rushed, like in an entertainment video's fast cuts. (And also, I love the reaction shots you insert. Priceless.) Love you both and wish you best.
Well, thanks for watching in for such a great commentary
Good to have those arrows in the quiver. Thanks.
Thanks for watching and for commenting
On my trip back into my burning house I'd take in my mother-in-law:)
lol
Another cool video.🎉
Thank you 🤗
WOW, IT SCARES ME A LITTLE (ALOT) , GREAT JOB "PLAYING" ROB CHRISSY ♥.
THANKS ROB
I'm laughing along with Chrissy 😂😂
👍
Just be yourself and be real no need to try and seduce someone.... All you need is chemistry together..
On the contrary, I think the questions exercise is all about being yourself and encouraging your partner to to do the same, in their own way. Can seduction not also be mutually benevolent?
over 3 years later I Joke with my wife, she says "I got One" LOL
😂
Thanks for these great ideas.
You are so welcome!
Great advice!
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching and commenting
Great stuff!
Glad you think so!
You know , I think these questions are really good , but I have a question about these questions......are u suppose to answer them spontaneously because some of these questions seemed to me to require sometime to THINK ABOUT it?
Yes, you’re supposed to share a copy with your potential girlfriend and go to them one of the time and answer them without practicing or thinking too hard ahead of time. Thanks for watching and commenting.
No prior research and chatGPT allowed!
thank you 🙌
You're welcome 😊 thanks for watching and commenting
Where are all 36 questions ? Thank you kindly.
Check out our recent video “how to choose between 2 lovers” In description box of video
Excellent video.
Can you please have the ending match the volume of the rest of the video? My cat is stuck on the ceiling.
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Thanks for watching all the way to the end and thank you for the feedback will definitely look into it
Nooo! Don't bite your tongue about religion. Just the opposite. It's long overdue that we speak openly about religious mythology and help encourage critical thought.
I don’t disagree
Only Beta men fall in love. Real men make women fall in love with them.
Ok 👌