Ma'am, according to book you have said that an anxious attachment style person should avoid dating an avoidant attachment style person. But, I am an anxious attachment style person and just married to the person with latter attachment style. Now, are you suggesting that it will not work? I am really worried because I am facing the exact same issues you explained in video.
You can be aware of these things and work towards making your relationship more secure or at least understanding the situation more rather than blaming yourself a lot. also, you can sneakingly make your avoidant partner aware of the dynamics indirectly and if you are lucky she will try to work over it, but the later is likely to not happen unless she has a moment of epiphany or realization which rarely happens. either way, I hope you end up understanding your partner more rather than judging and perhaps become more secure with time :), Also, I recommend you to read other similar books to expand your understanding about the same.
An anxious attachment style is definitely me. But I resist my anxiety, mood goes off, I start to feel like he never cared or he cares more for with whom he is with !! This happens when it's a long gap in communication and when I m very free n my expectations have hit a peak. I will totally agree that my type should avoid dating an avoidant type. I will definitely give this a read.
Hi, Thanks for the recommendation. I see two books 1. Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find -and keep - love 2. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--and Keep-- Love what do you recommend going for both or the first one?
Hello mam this is harshvardhan. Plz mam make video in hindi. Sorry to say but if. Sharirik sambandh k samay agar purush ka jaldi diacharge ho jaue to kya karna chahiye. Kin kaarano se purush ka jaldi dischaarge hota h ?? Pl
According to me... The more you adjust the more you are going to hurt yourself...trust me I have been through this... n atlast in ended up on medications of hypertension n anxiety.... A relationship should be a happy place for both the people not a war field
Anyone here who's reading or has read the book? What do you think?
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Ma'am, according to book you have said that an anxious attachment style person should avoid dating an avoidant attachment style person. But, I am an anxious attachment style person and just married to the person with latter attachment style. Now, are you suggesting that it will not work? I am really worried because I am facing the exact same issues you explained in video.
You can be aware of these things and work towards making your relationship more secure or at least understanding the situation more rather than blaming yourself a lot. also, you can sneakingly make your avoidant partner aware of the dynamics indirectly and if you are lucky she will try to work over it, but the later is likely to not happen unless she has a moment of epiphany or realization which rarely happens. either way, I hope you end up understanding your partner more rather than judging and perhaps become more secure with time :), Also, I recommend you to read other similar books to expand your understanding about the same.
An anxious attachment style is definitely me. But I resist my anxiety, mood goes off, I start to feel like he never cared or he cares more for with whom he is with !! This happens when it's a long gap in communication and when I m very free n my expectations have hit a peak.
I will totally agree that my type should avoid dating an avoidant type. I will definitely give this a read.
Hi, Thanks for the recommendation. I see two books 1. Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find -and keep - love 2. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--and Keep-- Love what do you recommend going for both or the first one?
Mam please, make more video about DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, ANGER FOBIA, EMOTIONEL PROBLEMS....
Thanks a lot for this video!!
This book claims that if you are in a relationship, you ARE codependent and that it's impossible not to be.
You should do the book review series more.
I can relate to this video..thanks sonali
Thank you Arun! I'm glad the video resonated with you. 🙂
God bless you
Thanks sonali for the book review. m definitely going to read this book!
Thank you Mildred
@@MentalHealthwithSonali what is this book best for relationship
Hello mam this is harshvardhan.
Plz mam make video in hindi.
Sorry to say but if.
Sharirik sambandh k samay agar purush ka jaldi diacharge ho jaue to kya karna chahiye. Kin kaarano se purush ka jaldi dischaarge hota h ?? Pl
Hindi medium books??
Does this book tell about how to change from anxious to secure/avoidant.. or atleast how to adjust with an avoidant type , if u are anxious type.
According to me... The more you adjust the more you are going to hurt yourself...trust me I have been through this... n atlast in ended up on medications of hypertension n anxiety....
A relationship should be a happy place for both the people not a war field
Is this book available in Hindi or Punjabi?
Sonali been hindime