AITAH for supporting my Husband's "cruelty" towards his bio child? (With Update)
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ahh yes lets sweep that sexual assault allegation under the carpet and act like he never consented to protected sex only to get baby trapped.
The absolute lack of empathy for the father she supposedly wanted to have a relationship with is jaw dropping. All kidding aside her mother is a rapist. She is a rape baby. And her response to that is “yeah but I’m here so everything’s fine! Now about my college money…”. I don’t blame the kid for the circumstances of her birth but if she knows what happened she is definitely old enough to understand no one wanting to have a relationship with her and especially her mother.
lack of empathy? he was who decided to fuck a crazy bitch that resulted in her birth. He is just being a dick because he want to punish the crazy bitch, that's all
What ? Not a rape baby ? How is poking holes in a condom the same as rape ? Serious ?
She’s a teenager. On top of that, the circumstances of her birth are probably hard on her too? Like, how does anyone emotionally process that’s how they came into the world? What does that do to your identity? What does that do to your sense of security in the love you want from your parent? It makes complete sense to me that she didn’t want to even address it and just went right to the topic of her college, because he is her father, he should love her. That’s what she likely meant by yeah but I’m here now. She wanted to insist that her existence makes up for it because that means he loves her as she needs from him… but to acknowledge that the reason for her existence still upsets him is to acknowledge that he may not love her. How fucked up is that? Imo, she is suffering just as much as he, and she is the minor here, he is the adult, as is OP. There should be some understanding for her and her limitations in her capacity to be more empathetic to them, because her brain is literally not even done developing. Teenagers aren’t lacking in empathy, but it doesn’t come as easy because the parts of the brain that control those things are not as developed. They are ruled by their emotions and behave selfishly because they don’t have the capacity to break them down and process them like adults. It isn’t jaw dropping to me because I have been immersed in therapy and social work for years. Trust me, this teen is just behaving normally for the situation she is in and is deserving of some compassion as well.
@charbucket1830 Did you miss the part where she said What her mother did was fine because all she wanted was a family. No, she's not behaving normally. No, she's not in the right. while, I do feel bad for this girl because the only reason she thinks this is because of her mother. She is a teenager at this point. You're not going to change her and he doesn't need to. That's not his job she is a child conceived from sexual should not be his responsibility.
@@anniedeedrix6732This is coming from a person who was raped on multiple occasions. IT'S STILL SEXUAL ASSAULT. you are disgusting for thinking otherwise and it concerns me you're not in jail I genuinely worry for the people in your life.
He was sexually assaulted. I dont fault him for not wanting to be confronted with the aftermath of his trauma. We wouldn't expect a woman to keep a child thats the result of assault. I dont understand forcing men.
Unfortunately there are women who are forced to keep a child of assault. Which is beyond disgusting. Personally,no that girl isn't OP's hubby's responsibility. He shouldn't have been responsible for child support at all.
Because the woman would literally have to surrender her organs to the unborn baby for 9 months which is something risky nobody should be forced to.
What do u mean he was sexually assaulted ? Poke holes in a condom is very different to assaulting someone
@@anniedeedrix6732You sound like a person who would do this and justify it as it's not sexual assault😂 You sound like a horrible person frankly Yes, it is sexual assault.He did not consent to that And if you think otherwise you should probably be in jail
@@anniedeedrix6732unprotected sex without consent is rape
Why tf does the law require an SA victim to pay child support?
It was, if I am not insane, a consenting adult who was then subjected to that extra degree too far, but the law only cares that at one moment it was consensual
@@user-ci4dz7nc2x tampering with contraception is s3xual @ssult
@@user-ci4dz7nc2xThe law actually doesn't care if it was consensual or not (at least in america), there have been many instances of men having to pay child support to there r*pist which is pretty fed up.
not at all. the daughter wants money. its the 1st things she mentioned.
I’m pretty sure that’s a crime
Nope not at all.....
NTA
What is wrong with people? Why are you all taking it out on the daughter of the mothers decision to do that? Rather or not you wanted her, she's here without any blame on her. But, you all treat her as if she was the one who poked holes in the condom do you realize that? What if it was you going through that, you wouldn't like it. Mil needs to stay out of it yes. But, shame on you.
They aren't at least they weren't going to.
He just wanted nothing to do with her which is reasonable This is a child conceived solely because he was sexually assaulted It's reasonable for him to not want anything to do with her because she kept pushing it. Yes, she was treated like a bad person because she was being a bad person. She was poisoned by her mother to believe that her mom was right in doing so.
She is a bad person now That's just who she is.Her mom raised her this way.She didn't have any good influences.She only had her mother who SA someone so
1. She is conceived after sexual assault
2. She wants financial support
No one's owes anyone, let alone their grape baby, love. At all..
How woudl you like to be confronted with the reminder of your sexual assault? You wouldnt ask a woman to do that unless youre one of those pro life psychos
Under no circumstances is it ok to be cruel to your child what the mother did was wrong but that is absolutely no excuse to act the way your husband and you are acting
Imagine having the child you didn't want to have a relationship with, still paying child support to. Then that child to push for a relationship only to have them ask for financial help, and for them to know how they were conceived, only for the response to be. "I know what they did was wrong but they just wanted a family". Imagined if the parents's genders were reverse, the mom didn't know that the condoms were poked, she learns how her spouse poked the condoms, decides to just give birth, give custody to the dad and want NC. Then the kid comes back saying that type of response. The kid is a constant physical reminder about how you partner betrayed you and then basically says "but they just wanted to have a family with you"
What the mother did is wrong and it is not right for the girl ask for money but to treat your kid that way Is unacceptable two wrongs don’t make a right plus with a mother like the one she got you got to expect that she might not know how inappropriate asking for money was you never know what her mother taught her as a kid
YTA that is your flesh and blood regardless of how they were conceived. I'm gonna pray for that kid
Yes yes you are, I understand the mother but you guys are acting horrible to a literal child, because I will tell you right now any kid is going to get jealous if they see their own father who pretends they don't exist treating another child with love, and I'm also pretty sure the reason this poor girl thinks most things are okay it's because she's never had a good influence on her she only has her damn mother maybe if you stepped in and stopped acting like a child yourself you could see shes not some enemy but in fact, A CHILD.
You can't honestly expect a grandmother to just abandon one of her grandchildren because something bad happened for them to be conceived, again horrible what happened to you but remember it was a woman who did that to you, not the damn kid.
You literally tell this poor girl you don't even want her to lay a finger on you, I feel so bad for this kid.
Yes
How
Answer how
@@Micheal_afton1234 unnecessarily hostile. even before she asked for money
@@AjWiggins the fact he doesn’t wanna be in her life it’s literally his choice but NO the mother keeps asking them the mother and daughter is the ah
@AjWiggins He really wasn't he just said he didn't want a relationship with her.That's a pretty reasonable response. You know for a child that was conceived solely because he was sexually assaulted..