Stages of Family Life: Crash Course Sociology #38

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  • One way of thinking about family life says that there are stages that families move through: courtship, marriage, child-rearing, and family life in your later years. We’ll also discuss changing patterns of marriage and childbearing in the US, highlighting some of the varied family types that exist.
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    References:
    Sociology by John J. Macionis, 15th edition (2014)
    Trends in the Share of Never-Married Americans and a Look Forward, Pew Reseach Center www.pewsocialtr...
    Infidelity in heterosexual couples: demographic, interpersonal, and personality-related predictors of extradyadic sex. by Mark, Janssen, and Milhausen (2011) www.ncbi.nlm.n...
    The Divorce Surge Is Over, but the Myth Lives On www.nytimes.co...
    Sawhill (2014), analysis of Current Population Survey data www.brookings....
    Centers for Disease Control Morbidity and Mortaility Reports www.cdc.gov/mm...
    Family Size Among Mothers, Pew Research Center www.pewsocialtr...
    FastStats: Births and Natality, Centers for Disease Control www.cdc.gov/nc...
    The Cost of Raising a Child, US Department of Agriculture www.usda.gov/m...
    America’s Families and Living Arrangements: 2012, US Census www.census.gov...
    Annie E. Casey Foundation, Kids Count Data Center analysis of American Community Survey data (2015) datacenter.kids...
    Recent Declines in Nonmarital Childbearing in the United States, Centers for Disease Control www.cdc.gov/nc...
    Mean Age of Mothers on the Rise, Centers for Disease Control www.cdc.gov/nc...
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Komentáře • 161

  • @NineSun001
    @NineSun001 Před 6 lety +116

    I read the comments. Why did I punish myself with that mess. To everyone who might read this, don't go deeper. You will regret it.

    • @Kyurium
      @Kyurium Před 6 lety +6

      I just have to see the number of dislikes to know that. It's sad that some people cant argue without creating a warzone

  • @ayanverma5746
    @ayanverma5746 Před 4 lety +89

    World :- Fall in love then get Married
    India :- *Reverse this whole thing*

  • @jeffreyholder4824
    @jeffreyholder4824 Před 6 lety +35

    I grew up in a "broken" and blended family (i.e. divorced & remarried immediately). Although the relationships between my two separate families were mostly congenial, guilt tripping and being pulled between biological parents was enough to convince me I never wanted to get divorced. Thus, I waited until I was 30 to even start to look for a spouse. This, perhaps, is another factor in the trends observed in age of 1st marriage and divorce rates.

  • @chloelundabolt4128
    @chloelundabolt4128 Před 6 lety +55

    I like learning sociology from Luna Lovegood!

  • @Demerey
    @Demerey Před 6 lety +59

    I've always thought of family as a loose, Social Ideology. I've seen through life that the old Cliche: "Family is what you make it" I find true.

  • @geminibodyshop71
    @geminibodyshop71 Před 6 lety +152

    my wife and i have been together 28 years I'm 47 and love my wife more every day

    • @FluffyBuzzard2TheMax
      @FluffyBuzzard2TheMax Před 6 lety +32

      I love your wife more every day as well

    • @kimberlyporter9555
      @kimberlyporter9555 Před 6 lety +15

      You're a treasure. How do you manage to keep the flames burning?

    • @thomasgabby6214
      @thomasgabby6214 Před 6 lety +12

      You are the exception, no the rule. But still, nice work

    • @geminibodyshop71
      @geminibodyshop71 Před 6 lety +11

      work together and i think we are just supposed to be together

    • @memt1481
      @memt1481 Před 6 lety +5

      Y did u love her less yesterday

  • @poorplayer9249
    @poorplayer9249 Před 6 lety +68

    2:17 "Passion is often a less stable basis for a relationship than marital arrangements based on social and cultural compatibility." Whew, that one was a mouthful. Did you get it in one take? ;-)

    • @crashcourse
      @crashcourse  Před 6 lety +49

      Ha! This one didn't have any of my usual struggles - my nightmare is anything with a lot of er/ru (think "rural juror" which is actually just impossible)

    • @anamarquez7372
      @anamarquez7372 Před 6 lety +1

      CrashCourse no

    • @blindjoe8300
      @blindjoe8300 Před 6 lety +1

      Karl Kiefer Shut up karl

    • @lubriburnem210
      @lubriburnem210 Před 6 lety +1

      CrashCourse The rurrrr gerr

    • @dekippiesip
      @dekippiesip Před 4 lety +1

      That one is worth remembering too, it's a nice pun to throw around!

  • @theoriginalamr
    @theoriginalamr Před 6 lety +8

    "But in case it's on your final"... hahahah, how did you know? Seriously tho, Im taking a version of this course using Dalton Conley's book for Arizona State online.. beyond grateful.

  • @interfear1
    @interfear1 Před 6 lety +14

    Dang it! I can’t concentrate on the topic because I want to know what is that key on Nicole’s necklace for LOL

    • @crashcourse
      @crashcourse  Před 6 lety +19

      Ha! This seems to be the question of the day. It was a gift from a friend who bought it from a company that employs people who have struggled with homelessness and recycles keys into engraved word necklaces. Mine says "breathe" - so I guess it's...the key to remembering to breathe?
      ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @interfear1
      @interfear1 Před 6 lety +2

      CrashCourse Ooooh! That is a nice present from the friend. Thank you for the reply! Love your hair, girl!

  • @omainazahidi8804
    @omainazahidi8804 Před 6 lety +46

    what part of "typical" did all of these people in the comments not understand? Crash Course is doing a pretty good job in being as globally accurate and inclusive as possible. Besides, the examinations they have in mind are western and theyre sticking to the syllabus.

  • @quillingwithhajra8252
    @quillingwithhajra8252 Před 6 lety +15

    I think you should do a series about indo-pak sociology

  • @jaqjunes3033
    @jaqjunes3033 Před 6 lety +2

    When I first started this series, I thought you were wearing a wig but now I am convinced your hair is real. (It always looks like a wig when you cannot see the portion of hair as it connects to the scalp, ya know?)

  • @francismausley7239
    @francismausley7239 Před 6 lety +5

    A Spiritual I deal - "The life of a married couple should resemble the life of the angels in heaven-a life full of joy and spiritual delight, a life of unity and concord, a friendship both mental and physical. The home should be orderly and well-organized. Their ideas and thoughts should be like the rays of the sun of truth and the radiance of the brilliant stars in the heavens." ~ Family Life, Bha'i Faith

  • @unknownnumber6083
    @unknownnumber6083 Před 4 lety +24

    Family life stages
    Age perspective changes.
    Introduction new ways.
    1 courtship
    2 arranged marriage
    Same status marriage
    Longer age of marriage
    Declining rate of marriage
    Increase rate of divorce
    Shift from emotion to compatibility
    Increased job to women
    3 family cycle
    1 delay in child birth
    2 less number of child
    3 access to birth control, expenses of raising kids 4 high value of being a good parent
    .launch stage
    Child care to grandchild
    Sandwich generation
    Care to both aged and child's
    Marriages couple.
    Homosexual,single parent family, no child family, live in relation, blended family.

  • @MewWolf5
    @MewWolf5 Před 6 lety +66

    I like the new words I learned in this episode!

    • @FriedEgg101
      @FriedEgg101 Před 6 lety +7

      Fam - ill - eee. Family. Nice :)

  • @kamal-eldinabou-elhamd6861

    Thank you for not putting music through out the whole video

  • @MasseyEmpire
    @MasseyEmpire Před 6 lety +11

    finding the one means hunting alot of ppl and alot of ppl hurting you and if ur lucky u might find someone that you wont hurt and they wont hurt you.

  • @Acquavallo
    @Acquavallo Před 6 lety +15

    What about people who don't get married or don't have kids? How do they fit into the family life cycle?

    • @NineSun001
      @NineSun001 Před 6 lety

      They don't, as one single person is no family.

    • @CulturePhilter
      @CulturePhilter Před 6 lety +9

      They often will still be part of the family they are born into (I say "often") because obviously some are orphans, or estranged from their family.

    • @enriqueramos2426
      @enriqueramos2426 Před 6 lety +4

      This family cycles were created thinking in "traditional american families" and she says it at the beggining. Meaning Man + Woman + Children. she kinda makes the point at the end on how now with more types of families in the US these theories will have to change. Plus it applies to american families since in other countries and cultures a family is more than parents and children.

    • @utopistmsoc
      @utopistmsoc Před 6 lety

      They become Supreme Gentlemen and go into a high school with a couple of semi-automatic weapons. Murica.

    • @aerojetrocketdyners-2538
      @aerojetrocketdyners-2538 Před 5 lety +1

      @@utopistmsocMGTOW

  • @FreeTheDonbas
    @FreeTheDonbas Před 6 lety +38

    I like how Barney the Dinosaur defines family: "a family is people & a family is love, that's a family"

  • @criticalmaz1609
    @criticalmaz1609 Před 6 lety +7

    Wait, what? She mentioned that sometimes women are treated differently than men. Where's the avalanche of dislikes?

    • @yell0w355
      @yell0w355 Před 4 lety +11

      There's no feminism in the title so anti-feminists don't flock to this video to dislike without watching it.

  • @PunmasterSTP
    @PunmasterSTP Před 3 měsíci

    I wonder what people will think if they come (or come back) to this playlist in another 10 years...

  • @dkrbuckley
    @dkrbuckley Před 6 lety +6

    I’m 32 we have 6 kids and have been together 13years. I get the comment “you don’t see this anymore” almost everytime we all go out. We’re not married either, We only see it as a piece of paper

  • @qwertyman1511
    @qwertyman1511 Před 6 lety +2

    But what about extended family and poly families?

  • @TapanDas-ve1kd
    @TapanDas-ve1kd Před rokem

    Public has family life and enjoying every bit of it

  • @grima3156
    @grima3156 Před 6 lety +62

    Everyone is related in some way so everyone is family

    • @ShiningDialga
      @ShiningDialga Před 6 lety +1

      Malachi Grima, the Fell Dragon / the Creation If only more people in this world felt that way... also, awesome fire emblem reference in your name.

    • @chbrules
      @chbrules Před 6 lety +16

      Makes the orgies more awkward.

    • @Hollow_Theorist
      @Hollow_Theorist Před 6 lety +1

      Such a belief is fundamentally anti-human from an evolutionary standpoint; there is point were you realise that utopian thinking as such is not possible!

    • @patrickormerod3472
      @patrickormerod3472 Před 6 lety

      its adam and eve not adam and steve

  • @chickadeestevenson5440
    @chickadeestevenson5440 Před 6 lety +9

    And for a lot of us who can't afford human kids or don't feel ready, we adopt fluffy little surrogates. (or scaley)

  • @itzelescobedo1468
    @itzelescobedo1468 Před 4 lety +1

    nice hook(intro)
    I laughed! That's how you get people's attention!

  • @elliehoward1019
    @elliehoward1019 Před 6 lety +3

    What's she planning doing a key of?

  • @dragonfly7116
    @dragonfly7116 Před 5 lety

    Express delivery on marriage and babies.

  • @DarkEager
    @DarkEager Před 6 lety +1

    Thanks for the episode

  • @KhidirAzuan
    @KhidirAzuan Před 4 lety +2

    Semua amik Citra Isu-Isu Kekeluargaan ke tu huhu

  • @jordiclimentcampins2822
    @jordiclimentcampins2822 Před 6 lety +1

    I love this course

  • @twinpeaks7322
    @twinpeaks7322 Před 6 lety

    Yeah, adulthood and marriage it’s difficult things. I want to stay teenager

  • @BillyNitro
    @BillyNitro Před 6 lety +86

    Did you just assume I have a family?

  • @prashantdahiya711
    @prashantdahiya711 Před 5 lety

    Thanks

  • @boldjawad
    @boldjawad Před 6 lety +18

    If you are not from USA, this video is completely unrelated to you.

  • @lewiscoote4871
    @lewiscoote4871 Před rokem

    can any one tell me what the differece is between homogamy and endogamy please i cant get my head around it

  • @geraltofrivia4100
    @geraltofrivia4100 Před 6 lety +1

    If its unconditional love then its a great and stable relationship. If its about giving and taking then its decadent and volatile.

  • @pummisher1186
    @pummisher1186 Před 6 lety

    The CBC once deleted my FB comment. The article was about an old couple that stayed married for 60 years or something. And the article was going on about why they stayed married for so long. I said it was probably because before 1968, it wasn't easy to get a divorce. -=deleted=-
    I just assumed that maybe they reached a threshold in their marriage where they were comfortable. Every marriage has problems and when it's hard to get a divorce, I assume people just don't.

  • @EAGLE-of6th
    @EAGLE-of6th Před 6 lety +1

    Great

  • @Sgt-Gravy
    @Sgt-Gravy Před 6 lety +1

    Is a mother and child; by themselves, a family? I wouldn't call an only child- orphan, by himself a family. How many people or connections does it take to be labeled as a family?

    • @perer005
      @perer005 Před 6 lety +1

      Michael Harig One, you can be a family of one. Then when you get married your family grows. Some people fail to understand that they themselves are part of their family.

  • @JugheadJones03
    @JugheadJones03 Před 6 lety +1

    What does the key unlock Nicole? :)

  • @sequii_chan
    @sequii_chan Před 4 lety

    *1:45* Nisekoi feels

  • @sanfran1976
    @sanfran1976 Před 5 lety

    Stages of family life include the 20 yr old mama cat and the 3 20 yr old kittens as mama cat walked around the corner to make sure the coast was clear for the (kittens) to Scamper to the next block? Man in the car who's eyes widened and floored it. Dunno either but tampa fl, whitting and franklin intersection 2013. I thought mama cat looked at me inquisitive like cause they weren't into men. And by the way where were their families?

  • @pyoheliobros5773
    @pyoheliobros5773 Před 6 lety +1

    I wonder what that key is for

  • @RH571987
    @RH571987 Před 6 lety

    lacks alot of death and other tragedies

  • @smd2030
    @smd2030 Před 6 lety +39

    Why don't you Look at other cultures and make more crash courses on a "family life cycle" to learn from.

    • @commandershepard1944
      @commandershepard1944 Před 6 lety +5

      Saleh Mohammed Because in other cultures a family is made when a man rapes a woman and her father sells her to the rapist.

    • @oldcowbb
      @oldcowbb Před 6 lety +2

      you mean indian

  • @dragonfly7116
    @dragonfly7116 Před 5 lety

    Economically

  • @artesiningart4961
    @artesiningart4961 Před 6 lety +1

    There are different forms and types of family, but for most of us here in the Philippines, a family is usually bonded by marriage and families come in forms such as: married couples with or without children, or unmarried couples with children, a single-parent family, partnerships or co-living of couples of either from opposite sexes or same sex, a family of grandparents with grandchildren and without or with one parent, a family of niece/s or nephew/s with one or both of their aunts and uncles or close friends of their parents without the biological parents, adopted child/ren with foster parent/s, a bond of nuclear family with the friends of their parents and their children, a bond of nuclear family with extended and even the beyond the extended family including friends, colleagues, and the extended family of families in the nuclear family's extended family. There are so many families. Also along as there's love or some sort of bondage like living in one roof, religious marriage, family arrangement or arranged marriage, or civil marriage or civil union, then there's family. So, you can consider friends, co-workers, and a community based on tribe, religion, ethnicity, or ideology as a family too.
    But again, the "usual", "common", or even "ideal" family in the Philippines being a really religious country (Muslims, Protestant Christians, and Catholics) is a married or arranged married couple with or without children bonded by religious marriage or civil marriage/union or even both.

  • @Julika7
    @Julika7 Před 6 lety +2

    You forgot to animate condoms as birth control and not only pills.

  • @TheAidenSanders
    @TheAidenSanders Před 6 lety +8

    guys take care of their mothers too...

  • @edgarmanuelcambaza6459
    @edgarmanuelcambaza6459 Před 6 lety +1

    Education + health = apple logo?

  • @DeadAccount43_
    @DeadAccount43_ Před rokem

    Cool

  • @westerncentristrants525
    @westerncentristrants525 Před 6 lety +1

    I do want the person I meet on Tinder to join my family.

  • @russneho
    @russneho Před 6 lety

    can you lower the music at the end, can't hear on my shitty lil tablet

  • @patrickormerod3472
    @patrickormerod3472 Před 6 lety +6

    can u do a video on scientology plz

  • @amanbk1049
    @amanbk1049 Před 6 lety +1

    yay

  • @cayanne3420
    @cayanne3420 Před 6 lety

    Not related to the video but the key around her neck reminds me of Zoey 101

  • @syafiarizkyhanifah4478

    Is this the end of sociology series?

    • @crashcourse
      @crashcourse  Před 6 lety +4

      Nope - the office was just closed for the holidays the last two Mondays. We've got a few more episodes left!

    • @syafiarizkyhanifah4478
      @syafiarizkyhanifah4478 Před 6 lety +2

      CrashCourse ah, what a relief. Thank you!

    • @kimtae9329
      @kimtae9329 Před 5 lety +1

      @@crashcourse please Nicole could you make some videos for Sociology of India?☺

  • @tapandas2831
    @tapandas2831 Před rokem

    The earth has lost every family life

  • @jagmaster6595
    @jagmaster6595 Před 5 lety +1

    Not all lovers become married.

  • @leslypandapatan9173
    @leslypandapatan9173 Před 4 lety +2

    she speak so fast 😂 being Asian hard for me to understand what she's xplaining 😅

    • @anuragchopra4956
      @anuragchopra4956 Před 4 lety +3

      She speaks fast because that is her native language. To improve your understanding, You can either turn on Close caption or Else slow down the speed to 0.75x. I hope it helps.

  • @lizerdspherex
    @lizerdspherex Před 6 lety +10

    To me marriage is something one does in the heat of the moment, or when you get a girl pregnant and want to pretend to be responsible for the child because of social pressures.

    • @qwertyman1511
      @qwertyman1511 Před 6 lety +4

      It can also be a regular show of commitment.
      You are purposefully making it hard for your future self to betray whom you are married to.

  • @dorisagobe1687
    @dorisagobe1687 Před 6 lety +4

    I think laws should be made to assist biological parents who had their children separated from them by any means to establish regular contact with their children under supervision by a welfare or legal guardians.

  • @kishon8
    @kishon8 Před 6 lety

    too many statistics

  • @lucosias
    @lucosias Před 6 lety

    Sounds more like the discussion is based more around divorce instead of stages of family life. Clarity across stages is not clear.

  • @CRiver396
    @CRiver396 Před 6 lety

    "Just because you're related. Doesn't make us family." Have you heard that saying before?

  • @nesa1126
    @nesa1126 Před 6 lety +5

    OMG I can't believe it. First Crash Course Sociology episode that almost isn't completely far left/marxist/social justice propaganda. You guys can do it! Nice! I can't believe it. Damn. This day has come.

  • @dragonfly7116
    @dragonfly7116 Před 5 lety

    Romantic money love

  • @kenmken
    @kenmken Před 6 lety +1

    Why is this all either so obvious, or so general that it can be applied to anything. Academic institutions nowadays will make a major out of everything..

  • @azeller09
    @azeller09 Před 6 lety +3

    the honeymoon phase exists in all drugs, not just love

  • @trying-to-learn
    @trying-to-learn Před 6 lety +14

    only a few minutes in, but im a bit disappointed that the language in this video only reflects monogamy. overall, good video though!!

    • @qwertyman1511
      @qwertyman1511 Před 6 lety +6

      BARDOCK because the 80's freelove period never happened.
      Or western rulers having multiple wives.
      Or certain american religions allowing it.
      Or people actively partaking in it.

    • @qwertyman1511
      @qwertyman1511 Před 6 lety +3

      BARDOCK just so we are clear, all partners are on equal footing, know about eachothers partners and consent to the behavior.
      to me, this is ethical, why isn't it to you?

    • @joshuapeterson9691
      @joshuapeterson9691 Před 6 lety +1

      you will never get an answer from Bardock, as he has no argument. his first comment was silly nonsense that 12 year olds come up with

  • @EAGLE-of6th
    @EAGLE-of6th Před 6 lety +1

    I Love U

  • @Stephii-bd1ed
    @Stephii-bd1ed Před 4 lety

    How can a woman have 2.4 children

  • @ChubbyChecker182
    @ChubbyChecker182 Před 6 lety

    And then There's Elton John

  • @Bella-ri6lj
    @Bella-ri6lj Před 6 lety +1

    how can you have 2.4 children??? how can you have 0.4 of a child?

    • @antifagoat6591
      @antifagoat6591 Před 6 lety +2

      Isabella Denney-Strother It means that somewhere between 1/3 - 1/2 of families have 3 kids, but most have two... But that's only if you take the number averages.

    • @Bella-ri6lj
      @Bella-ri6lj Před 6 lety +1

      oh, thank you! I thought it was something along those lines but could have meant miscarriages

    • @qwertyman1511
      @qwertyman1511 Před 6 lety

      Pregnancy.
      Tho some people get furious when you round down.
      /s

  • @sequii_chan
    @sequii_chan Před 4 lety

    first one to comment in 2020

  • @dragonfly7116
    @dragonfly7116 Před 5 lety

    Wtf..is a .5 child

  • @nrrork
    @nrrork Před 6 lety

    So men and women have similar rates of infidelity. At least you mentioned that, it gets omitted from the subject quite a bit-- by accident I'm SURE, with no malicious intent. *eyeroll*

    • @joshuapeterson9691
      @joshuapeterson9691 Před 6 lety +1

      So you complain even when you get your way? you must be an awesome person. @.@

  • @evildoesnotsleep-x2b
    @evildoesnotsleep-x2b Před 6 lety +3

    stop talking ONLY about american families. there are billions of people besides them and are also important

    • @joshuapeterson9691
      @joshuapeterson9691 Před 6 lety +4

      And this is a crash course created by Americans that can't possibly have a comprehensive review of every single sociological element around the world. Stop being so demanding and appreciate that they spent their time doing this at all.

  • @Michael-el8xl
    @Michael-el8xl Před 6 lety +8

    love the sweater with your hair ...cool and sexy

  • @sierra5746
    @sierra5746 Před 6 lety

    Early

  • @CarlosMoreno-wb5tr
    @CarlosMoreno-wb5tr Před 6 lety

    Second

  • @samiullahkhan2391
    @samiullahkhan2391 Před 4 lety

    Family values and the best possible solution of Problems related to it are explained by Allah in Quran !

  • @trashpanda314
    @trashpanda314 Před 6 lety +4

    Look kids, it's the gender studies class that took the place of the mechanical engineering pipeline at you local university! Lol

  • @heitoroliveira5243
    @heitoroliveira5243 Před 6 lety

    Her teeth are nightmarish

  • @Mr.Shiesty727
    @Mr.Shiesty727 Před 6 lety +1

    WE WANT JOHN GREEN NOT U