Absolutely beautiful Ruvheneko ❤ Congratulations!! Your story is quite similar to mine. Just like you, I wanted kids in my 20s but it never happened...waited for marriage till I was in my 30s and yes kissed a few frogs along the way😁...realising I was now 32 without kids or even a serious partner, I became so desperate and depressed I cried myself to sleep most nights, society pressures and labelling did not help matters....Long story short, I later discovered I had 2 large fibroids in my womb...went through surgery thankfully was successful! Got pregnant naturally for the first time at 37, unmarried...my daughter is the best thing to ever happen to me...I named her Vheneko, she is my light at the end of a very long tunnel 🙏🏾💖 Thank you for sharing your story, I hope it inspires women out there!
There's so many children in Zim who have no fathers because men choose not to stick around once they have created children. In this instance it's the mother, a very capable and well resourced woman, who has chosen to have a child in the absence of a father. There's no trauma or rejection involved because she walks into it of her own accord, fully armoured and blessed with a family support system. I believe she'll be fine.
@@IanVie In a ideal situation, yes. However having both parents does not exclude you from the traumas of life. I honestly wish her and the baby well in her journey.
I applaud you for your bravery, for being able to speak out. Quite a lot are in the same space but are scared of what people will say. Wishing you all the best!
Love this. I am currently a solo parent. Blessed with a son and still hoping for my God given marriage. Never live to someone else’s expectations. I was ready for my baby
This made me reflect on my life. Thank you for not living for people. There is nothing so satisfying like having kids when you know deep down you want them
By sharing your story you have encouraged many women and removed the stigma of fibroids and infertility. Thank you for opening up about such an emotional journey. Your bravery will provide healing to most women. It's high time society do away with keeping women in confined boxes of their negative preconceived ideas. It is my wish to see us women do what's right for our happiness and peace. If we normalise doing what works for us society will eventually realise that we are not on a leash to be controlled by skewed views. God bless you and wish you all the best in your motherhood journey.
I could not have said it any better. So many women stay with men who serially cheat on them coz the world has canceled our options. But here we have strong good women like Ruvheneko, not having married man's children but having her own child at her own terms and doing it right for her. Super proud
@@faithdube9545 you might have misunderstood my comment. My comment is purely to do with the health issue, am not commenting about men and women dysfunctional relationships. Personally I believe in marriage of husband and wife, mother and father for children but I do not judge people's decisions based on their life experiences.
I totally agree with you. My son is my pride and joy. Motherhood is the best gift I've ever received and I'm so grateful for the opportunity to revel in such.
Ruvheneko, what a beacon you are! Always glowing. I'm excited for you and I'm glad you decided to follow what you wanted out of this life thing. Please continue to share pages of your book. I'm one of those yet to write my own and you inspire me. Wishing you, no praying, for you and your healthy baby! 💞
My level of respect for you, has gone a level higher.I have been singing this song for a long time and being African people are against it.Am so glad that you set the example.😍😍😍 When you have accomplished all your goals you set for yourself why not , rather do it alone than with someone toxic.The good part of it is you are doing it for yourself.Am so happy for you.😍😍😍
Well done Ruvheneko. I know how you feel. I had trouble conceiving, waited while all peers my age became parents to 1, 2, 3, 4 some even went to 5! until one day, at 39years, I BECAME A MOM!! Embrace motherwood!! Be blessed. never listen to what the world will say, only listen to you, and you only!!!
Just when the road gets rough I want you read the comments below this video. May God walk with you and keep your head high. Oh Ruvheneko, look how wonderful God can be... You are going to make a good mum.
Happy Women's Day Rue. I'm also preggies for the first time in my 30's. I'm so excited and happy for this blessing. God bless you through your Motherhood journey.
Thank you for sharing your story. Your journey has surely given me hope as an unmarried expecting mother. Not much can be said but just prayers that everything in the future goes according to Gods plan.
Ruvy you really have spoken for sooo many women who are in the same experience. Kindly give us the steps on how you went about it so we can also do the same.
Way to go. The commonest cause of infertility among women is age. After 35 years of age the chances of getting pregnant gets even more difficult. I salute you on making a decision for you. And sharing with others.
Congratulations Ruvheneko. You will make a fantastic mother. You are bodacious and insightful. Im nearly 50 and have many girlfriends who wish they took your route. Keep sharing your story X
Thank u so much Ruvheneko. You going to be an amazing mum. I had a baby last year and was already feeling e urge to be a mum for years. Sometimes it's true the fairy tale never comes 🥰.
You have always inspired me Ruvhy! I applaud you for choosing you, and living life...we live everyday and I now believe some societal expectations are really a set back. There's no formula to life, neither is there a one size fits all....our paths, destinies even are different, but we had been socialized to think otherwise. Wishing you a happy and safest journey to motherhood! We may have baby cries the same days ☺️☺️☺️. Let's enjoy the journey!
Congratulations Mommy!!🎉🎉 I’m so glad you shared your journey. It is great because the journey to motherhood is not traditional-fits-all. Some people are gonna make use of non-traditional methods and become a single-mother-by-choice and that’s okay
This had me choked up with so much joy like I know you personally 🥲🥲🥲🥲makorokoto this is encouraging and uplifting. Good for you may you and your be blessed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽and you look beautiful by the way 🤎🤎🤎👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I wish you a safe pregnancy and delivery. Motherhood is the most fulfilling journey for most women. Man or not you will love that child with all you've got.
Thank you Ruvheneko for sharing your story. It gives hope to those in the same situation with you and to single parents out there, YES, it is okay to be a solo parent
Amazing story 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you took the right steps. Be blessed in your motherhood journey 💞💞💞 it'll change your perspective on life forever trust me. And will be the most rewarding experience ever.
This is a befitting message for Women's Month. As women, we should love ourselves for who we are, tell our stories unapologetically and look forward to the best future that there is. I am glad your story brought to the light the thoughts most women in our generation have. I wish every woman watches this and knows that it's ok to be you and choose what you want to do with your life. Congratulations on your journey to motherhood. Please write a book to inspire even the generations to come. All the best with that and being a momma diaries. Welcome to the pack of life after childbirth💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼
Strong woman. I applaud your brevity and conviction. Your bravery and telling your story, addressing stereotypes and more importantly being honest with yourself and your realities. #break the bias in reality Taiwona. Am happy for you. Happy women's month
This is a beautiful and very inspiring story . ..thanks for being the voice of many voiceless women in Zimbabwe who are trapped and silenced by the norms and values of our culture ...and thanks for breaking new ground. ....as women our challenges are the same...we have the right to decide what is best for us without listening to what society and culture dictates to us...you have given hope to many women ....there is light at the end of the tunnel. ..
I tip my crown 👑 to you Queen ❤️, this is beyond brave! There are so many women out there who are stuck in awful marriages simply because they want to present that picture perfect family setup with a Mum & Dad which is doing more harm to their children than they realise. A child needs a home filled with love to thrive and I believe that you will give yours that. I hope that one day you will find your Prince Charming who will love your child just as much as you do. You are also super blessed to be in a position to afford the treatments because they ain't cheap. I know they are many women out there who wish they had the same opportunity. Congratulations to you and all the best on your perfectly imperfect journey🎊.
Bravo girl!! Thats a brave decision you made and I applaud👏🏿 you for that. May God grant you the grace to pull thru the pregnancy and be a great mom. Congratulations 🎊
You are brave indeed, wishing you well for pregnancy, motherhood & beyond. For those who may not fall pregnant - adoption IS an option. Zim has too many children with no parents & no homes. Women of means can "be the change" this Women's Month.
Thank you so much Ruvheneko, you are a shining light indeed. I'm so inspired by your sorry. I wish to hear more of our journey for some inspiration. Keep Shining !!!!
Currently doing the same, had a couple consultations with fertility clinics this is the best option, l am in my mid 30s and ndiyani asingade mwana, I support you and may this child bring you joy and happiness
Absolutely beautiful Ruvheneko ❤ Congratulations!! Your story is quite similar to mine. Just like you, I wanted kids in my 20s but it never happened...waited for marriage till I was in my 30s and yes kissed a few frogs along the way😁...realising I was now 32 without kids or even a serious partner, I became so desperate and depressed I cried myself to sleep most nights, society pressures and labelling did not help matters....Long story short, I later discovered I had 2 large fibroids in my womb...went through surgery thankfully was successful! Got pregnant naturally for the first time at 37, unmarried...my daughter is the best thing to ever happen to me...I named her Vheneko, she is my light at the end of a very long tunnel 🙏🏾💖
Thank you for sharing your story, I hope it inspires women out there!
There's so many children in Zim who have no fathers because men choose not to stick around once they have created children. In this instance it's the mother, a very capable and well resourced woman, who has chosen to have a child in the absence of a father. There's no trauma or rejection involved because she walks into it of her own accord, fully armoured and blessed with a family support system. I believe she'll be fine.
I think every kid deserve to know and be raised by both parents
@@IanVie In a ideal situation, yes. However having both parents does not exclude you from the traumas of life. I honestly wish her and the baby well in her journey.
I applaud you for your bravery, for being able to speak out. Quite a lot are in the same space but are scared of what people will say. Wishing you all the best!
Wooow girl, congrats girl❤️❤️❤️
true wangu
Love this. I am currently a solo parent. Blessed with a son and still hoping for my God given marriage. Never live to someone else’s expectations. I was ready for my baby
WoW...
This made me reflect on my life. Thank you for not living for people. There is nothing so satisfying like having kids when you know deep down you want them
By sharing your story you have encouraged many women and removed the stigma of fibroids and infertility. Thank you for opening up about such an emotional journey. Your bravery will provide healing to most women. It's high time society do away with keeping women in confined boxes of their negative preconceived ideas. It is my wish to see us women do what's right for our happiness and peace. If we normalise doing what works for us society will eventually realise that we are not on a leash to be controlled by skewed views. God bless you and wish you all the best in your motherhood journey.
I could not have said it any better. So many women stay with men who serially cheat on them coz the world has canceled our options. But here we have strong good women like Ruvheneko, not having married man's children but having her own child at her own terms and doing it right for her. Super proud
@@faithdube9545 you might have misunderstood my comment. My comment is purely to do with the health issue, am not commenting about men and women dysfunctional relationships. Personally I believe in marriage of husband and wife, mother and father for children but I do not judge people's decisions based on their life experiences.
Being a mom is the greatest thing life has to offer. Welcome to mommy hood, you will never regret having that broke best friend ❤️❤️❤️
😂😂😂! And the bonus is that broke best friend may even turn out to be a great retirement plan!
I totally agree with you. My son is my pride and joy. Motherhood is the best gift I've ever received and I'm so grateful for the opportunity to revel in such.
I am deeply inspired, you have said what most women are scared to say and I am sure you have inspired a lot of women to be brave. Thank you.
Congratulations dear 💕💛💃💃💃I feel you 😘
Ruvheneko, what a beacon you are! Always glowing. I'm excited for you and I'm glad you decided to follow what you wanted out of this life thing. Please continue to share pages of your book. I'm one of those yet to write my own and you inspire me. Wishing you, no praying, for you and your healthy baby! 💞
I cried listening at just how brave and strong you are, congratulations mama
My level of respect for you, has gone a level higher.I have been singing this song for a long time and being African people are against it.Am so glad that you set the example.😍😍😍 When you have accomplished all your goals you set for yourself why not , rather do it alone than with someone toxic.The good part of it is you are doing it for yourself.Am so happy for you.😍😍😍
A Queen indeed! You do not need to confirm to society's standards in order to be one. You are amazing...
Well done Ruvheneko. I know how you feel. I had trouble conceiving, waited while all peers my age became parents to 1, 2, 3, 4 some even went to 5! until one day, at 39years, I BECAME A MOM!! Embrace motherwood!! Be blessed. never listen to what the world will say, only listen to you, and you only!!!
Just when the road gets rough I want you read the comments below this video. May God walk with you and keep your head high. Oh Ruvheneko, look how wonderful God can be... You are going to make a good mum.
Happy Women's Day Rue. I'm also preggies for the first time in my 30's. I'm so excited and happy for this blessing. God bless you through your Motherhood journey.
Congrats Ruvi, You're gonna be a great mother. The joy of your journey is in knowing that you're definitely ready to be MOM.
I couldn’t have said this any better. Well done Ruvi so so proud of you and your journey. You have spoken for so many of us
Thank you for sharing your story. Your journey has surely given me hope as an unmarried expecting mother. Not much can be said but just prayers that everything in the future goes according to Gods plan.
Inspiring indeed I'm a mom of five babies and am single .It's made me strong and I love every step of the way
Ruvy you really have spoken for sooo many women who are in the same experience.
Kindly give us the steps on how you went about it so we can also do the same.
Way to go.
The commonest cause of infertility among women is age.
After 35 years of age the chances of getting pregnant gets even more difficult.
I salute you on making a decision for you.
And sharing with others.
Congratulations Ruvheneko. You will make a fantastic mother. You are bodacious and insightful. Im nearly 50 and have many girlfriends who wish they took your route. Keep sharing your story
X
So true. This is called living your best life not living other peoples expectations
Thank you for being who you are ....thank you holding a lot of invisible hands through your sharing. Congrats 🎉 🎉
Thank u so much Ruvheneko. You going to be an amazing mum. I had a baby last year and was already feeling e urge to be a mum for years. Sometimes it's true the fairy tale never comes 🥰.
Wouldn't have said it any better!! Wish you all the best mummy
You have always inspired me Ruvhy! I applaud you for choosing you, and living life...we live everyday and I now believe some societal expectations are really a set back. There's no formula to life, neither is there a one size fits all....our paths, destinies even are different, but we had been socialized to think otherwise. Wishing you a happy and safest journey to motherhood! We may have baby cries the same days ☺️☺️☺️. Let's enjoy the journey!
Congratulations Mommy!!🎉🎉 I’m so glad you shared your journey. It is great because the journey to motherhood is not traditional-fits-all. Some people are gonna make use of non-traditional methods and become a single-mother-by-choice and that’s okay
You’re such a beautiful woman❤️. I love your truth Sis. You’ll make an amazing Mama.
This had me choked up with so much joy like I know you personally 🥲🥲🥲🥲makorokoto this is encouraging and uplifting. Good for you may you and your be blessed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽and you look beautiful by the way 🤎🤎🤎👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Congratulstions lil sis, you are brave, uchaona hako kunakidza kwazvinoita, i have 5 bundles of joy
I wish you a safe pregnancy and delivery. Motherhood is the most fulfilling journey for most women. Man or not you will love that child with all you've got.
Beautiful Ruvheneko you did good to your self and some lovely ladies out there thank you mummy...
Congrats to you Ruvheneko! Can someone help me in simple English did she do IVF with a donor? Dont shoot me kutodawo kuziva for my sake
Wow you left me with tears .... Congratulations Rue ❤️Welcome to sleepless nights and rewarding giggles and cute gazes ❤️
Beautiful moments...congratulations on your motherhood journey ❤ and blessings 🙌
Great amai Future ..... Keep the young one happy and healthy with God's guidance being your footstep always
Congratulations Vhene… you’re looking so beautiful and radiant, you also look happy… Enjoy motherhood, I’m confident you’ll do just fine🤰🏽🤰🏽🤰🏽
What a woman of great strength!
God is great. Mwari anoropafadza anopa healing He restores. Wow Mwari makatendeka
Congratulations! This is the beginning of a beautiful journey for you.
Thank you Ruvheneko for sharing your story. It gives hope to those in the same situation with you and to single parents out there, YES, it is okay to be a solo parent
Motherhood is a blessing. As we choose not to keep in wait I salute you. Most people can't do this.
Congrats Ruvhi for being brave, you won’t regret the decision.
Thank you for sharing a story.i wish you nothing but the best in your journey to motherhood .You will make a great mum👏
Amazing story 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you took the right steps. Be blessed in your motherhood journey 💞💞💞 it'll change your perspective on life forever trust me. And will be the most rewarding experience ever.
saka hamuna kana kuperekwa, mati hazvina art ...mashandisa eloquence. bva makorokoto
Congratulations on the baby and for being brave you made a great choice🎉🎉🎉.
This is a befitting message for Women's Month. As women, we should love ourselves for who we are, tell our stories unapologetically and look forward to the best future that there is. I am glad your story brought to the light the thoughts most women in our generation have. I wish every woman watches this and knows that it's ok to be you and choose what you want to do with your life. Congratulations on your journey to motherhood. Please write a book to inspire even the generations to come. All the best with that and being a momma diaries. Welcome to the pack of life after childbirth💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼
This is sweet. Everyone deserves to be a mother. Way to go Ruvhee
Strong woman. I applaud your brevity and conviction. Your bravery and telling your story, addressing stereotypes and more importantly being honest with yourself and your realities. #break the bias in reality Taiwona. Am happy for you. Happy women's month
Thank you u for sharing your story #tomotherhood
congratulations Ruvheneko, l respect you. welcome to motherhood, wagona iwe
Pioneer... why not.... new era ... mad respect 🙏👍👏
This is a beautiful and very inspiring story . ..thanks for being the voice of many voiceless women in Zimbabwe who are trapped and silenced by the norms and values of our culture ...and thanks for breaking new ground. ....as women our challenges are the same...we have the right to decide what is best for us without listening to what society and culture dictates to us...you have given hope to many women ....there is light at the end of the tunnel. ..
I tip my crown 👑 to you Queen ❤️, this is beyond brave! There are so many women out there who are stuck in awful marriages simply because they want to present that picture perfect family setup with a Mum & Dad which is doing more harm to their children than they realise. A child needs a home filled with love to thrive and I believe that you will give yours that. I hope that one day you will find your Prince Charming who will love your child just as much as you do. You are also super blessed to be in a position to afford the treatments because they ain't cheap. I know they are many women out there who wish they had the same opportunity. Congratulations to you and all the best on your perfectly imperfect journey🎊.
Congratulations love .... thank you for stepping up and being brave like that ... greatly inspired
I love you mami, congratulations.... Soldier on and May the good Lord be with you in this journey may He grant you all the joy and love
Congratulations Ru. I’m so happy for you ❤️
The feeling of being a mom is so amazing. Wishing you a prosperous pregnancy journey
Well done. Good for you girl. Your life is yours and only yours. Hugs to you and your baby
Well, l am not a fan but l love the way you presented your story. You so outstanding Ruvheneko. Congratulations!
Bravo girl!! Thats a brave decision you made and I applaud👏🏿 you for that. May God grant you the grace to pull thru the pregnancy and be a great mom. Congratulations 🎊
Congratulations! I applaud you for having the courage to write your own story, and it’s a beautiful one, which will inspire so many women.
Powerful and inspirational, best wishes!
❤️❤️❤️❤️Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your story.
You are brave indeed, wishing you well for pregnancy, motherhood & beyond. For those who may not fall pregnant - adoption IS an option. Zim has too many children with no parents & no homes. Women of means can "be the change" this Women's Month.
Congratulations Ruvheneko. This made me reflect on my life. Children are a gift from God, and He has given you one!
Well Done 🌼 Thank you, You have broken a Barrier And inspired many , God Bless Your Pregnancy
She remains my queeen 💕💕💕💕💕always inspiring thank you darling!
Who wouldn't smile after watching this. Thank you Ruvheneko for sharing your experience. Indeed you are a light to the lives of many.
I'm so happy for you dear thank you sharing your story
😭😭😭😭😭😭l understand you ,,l stand with with you ,,may God shower you with happiness with this bundle of joy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘hugs to you mumy
It's a priceless gift being a mother ...enjoy it love ,♥️
Congrats and all the best, you made the right decision for yourself and the baby.
Congrats Ruvi, you are one of a kind.
Oww God bless you and the fruit of your womb.
Love and light dear
Yu are truly an incredible amazing lady, yu are the voice to the voiceless
Well done Ruvhi!!! Makorokoto, this is inspirational. I love your bravery and honesty❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hanzi ndewa Genarari wani. Loooool
Thank you so much Ruvheneko, you are a shining light indeed. I'm so inspired by your sorry. I wish to hear more of our journey for some inspiration. Keep Shining !!!!
Oh congrats you are such a brave woman and u inspire many
Wow congrats Beautiful 😍💗
Waaal very inspiring coming from a true humble beginning well done Ruvheneko
You are brave girl….congratulations and enjoy motherwood
Glory to God am happy for you and would like to learn the journey also because l so desire to become a mother.
Wow you were soo honest with yourself... God bless your new journey, motherhood is the best hood 🤣🥰😘
Congratulations Rue.motherhood suits u already
Congrats on your pregnancy may God bless that child
Wow Beautiful.... Thank you for sharing..
Beautiful in all ways. Be blessed.
Woooow what an encouraging story congratulations RUE may the Lord bless you throughout this journey
Congratulations being a mom is a blessing ❤❤❤❤
Currently doing the same, had a couple consultations with fertility clinics this is the best option, l am in my mid 30s and ndiyani asingade mwana, I support you and may this child bring you joy and happiness
Welldone Rue I do salute for that great decision you made for yourself
Makamitiswa chete...dzimwe dzese inhooroondo kutsvaka pekutsika chete
You are a very strong woman. Congratulations
You are brave, congratulations and wish you all the best in your motherhood journey
Congrats Ruve,You know what, even guys have been waiting for the right moment conventional or not and you've just inspired a whole nation!!!
Congratulations 🎊
You're an inspiration to many generations! 🙏🏾
You have freed a lot of women
Congrats Ru, what an inspiration to the girl child.