Anal Sex 101: How To Try Anal Sex
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- čas přidán 8. 07. 2024
- So… you’re curious about butt stuff.
You’re not alone! Over the last few months, we’ve seen a dramatic increase in questions about anal play.
If you’ve never ventured backdoor, it can seem a little intimidating. So today we’re teaching you the basics.
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0:00 Intro
1:22 Why you should give anal a shot
2:59 Our top tips for beginners
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What a lovely sensible couple talking about a really sensitive subject in a way we can all understand,some couples like the idea others don’t but at least we all now know we’re not the only ones interested in this.
First time watching, you guys are great!
Thanks for watching!
A very nice tutorial.... Thank you
It's really pleasurable I tried with my partner and now she enjoys it more than the normal one
Fantastic class...
Very good information. Thanks.
After listening to you both about this subject I feel better about myself.
I admire a couple being open to talk about a subject that so many people find dirty to taboo. I've experienced it a couple times (giving) and me and my partner both enjoyed it.
"my partner and I"* grammar
Yes, it's actually for both. I personally love it.
Pretty informative👌😎 thank you.
I love it so much !!
Love it
It is amazing
Very informative thank you
Good advice thanks todd
Useful information!
Glad to hear that!
How do you get the traffic cone out....asking for a friend 🤔 (I'm joking, we used a flared base parking cone) 😄
Very informative and interesting. Thank you so much❤
Have you had anal sex?
❤❤❤❤Helo baby ❤❤❤
People heavily in love with each other sometimes want to come as close as possible to each other. Anal can be part of that urge to 'melt together'. It doesn't have to be something for later in the relationship. or just because you saw it in a movie.
Cool videoclip
Great information and I loved the bloopers at the end. 😂
Lol
❤❤❤❤Helo baby you beauthiful ❤❤❤❤Uuuufff Uuuufff baby you beauthiful ❤❤❤❤
Don't worry those bloopers wash off 😂
Great way☝️
😂😂😂how did i even come across this video 😂😂 ... sometimes i wonder if CZcams n my mine have some connections 😅
Are you a man or a woman ?
FANTASTIC
thanks this helped me so much!
It feels great
Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I like learn more about the video here alot
THANKK YOU!!!!$!
thanks for this
Helo Hello
Girls either love it or they don't
They love it, but it has to be done correctly, very gently and slow and patiently and with plenty of lube and absolutely open communication between the two👍👍
Amazing
i love it 😉
I think both of you have to be into this sort of thing,taking about it before hand and then proceed very slowly if you both agree to try it and of course lubrication is a must and plenty of it.
It’s HOT!! Both giving and receiving ✌️
Amazing Love it
Thanks 😆
Fantastic Information but still cant do it..and will never
Very beuatafil nice
Interested… I juu it st need to get into it
Intriguing
Yes thank you
Living in Europe in my 20s (1970s) it was often an option.
Always considered fun.
Haha, I can't stop replaying this! Too good! 😄👄👄👄🍌🍌🍌
Glad you enjoy it!
“Just a poop filled world” I’m dying 😂😂👍🏼
That was a crap joke
Good informatie thank you
Very nice
Ooh nice
I love it.
I toi pleasure
Boa tarde !! Ronaldo, do Rio de janeiro Brasil 🇧🇷
This is something new? Just about every girlfriend I've had in the past were more than willing to explore this and after all why not!
No, not at all - cultures thousands of years ago were into anal. It's not called "greek" for nothing...
How old are you? 20-30, 30-40 etc. I think it could be a generation difference. I am 60-70 and first time having anal sex with my c-k in a woman was when I was over 50 and the youngest woman 42. I have been bringing up this rather quick in the later relations and it worked rather well. I also mentioned to them that I also like if they do some kind of anal to me very easy and that made them doing that to.
Tried once, never (ever) again
You are a lovely couple. You make everything feel normal. Thank you.
Great video. - good tips! My ex-wife and current wife both enjoyed it. Its fun to explore with different lubs but we enjoy liquid coconut oil the most. A bit messy and feels awesome!
Coconut oil is great.
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It’s very pleasurable
Of course !😊
Intrested
You'd be surprised at the number of women who like it
Well as a TGirl myself its always expected 💋
I would be surprised, because I've never met one.
@@KpxUrz5745 I sure have, One woman I had preferred it over anything.
@@sierra141hy🎉
Relaxing
Relaxing? I haven't tried it in a while, perhaps things have changed back there in 30 years 😳
GREATTTTTTTT
As long as my partner enjoys it that's fine by me as long as all precautions taken before and after she's happy 😊 I'm happy
A true gentleman in 2024.......go figure.
YES !!
I love it
I want
Vanessa to do most of the talking
Wtf!!! What a recommendation 😭
Meamd my girlfriend watched this amd had amazing fun
Awesome!
Back door hahahaahh
I'm a submisive male so I love the Woman to be in charge an DOMINANT
So you’re gay ?
A case of turning the other cheek😂
Backdoor, that's the only word my missz will accept,and us kiwi couple love it 👌
Up the One Way street!😭
Very curious.
So many people are curious about trying Butt Stuff, but they have no idea where to start! We definitely recommend checking out our Butt Stuff guide, which gives all the tips and tricks to having a safe, pleasurable, pain-free experience! Head to shop.vmtherapy.com/butt-stuff/?ref=yt-analsex101& to check it out! ❤️
Hello beautiful can I get to know you sweetie?
❤❤❤Helo baby you beauthiful ❤❤Uuuufff Uuuufff baby you ❤❤❤
I would like to try anything one's but she doesn't like it we want do it anymore!
A Must Need
Lol
If it is consensual, approached with consideration, all participants are aware of the task involved and well "prepared" What is there not to like and enjoy..?
You will never know until you indulge yourselves.. Get the "stigma" out of your head..
Sounds like you guys like it, my wife loves it.
I've always liked it . But there is a stigma about it. You just have to be open minded.
How open minded are you ?🤗
Hell yeah
I believe if your in truly in love with a certain person as long as your not hurting the person don,t think there anything wrong with what ever you do with your love one
i your bedroom.
Curious
Hell ya!!!!
💀
I likt try it. Please help me..
Good
hsy
❤Helo baby ❤
What good ?
To me its the most intimate of feelings, I feel so close to my partner. I do admit there is the taboo factor too.
Interesting
My parents never explained sex to me
I love it. Male or Female.
Are you bisex?
It can be very nice!
Wow
I have found many women very curious about this through mutual understanding and patience it could be done with any woman I have never had a complaint all these times what out a condom I get mud on my turtle but there's always soap and water
Im about to put it to the test right now...lol but seriously
iLoveit
Can I practice first
There is nothing better...
😮😘
Love your honesty 😍
❤
Can be amazing ... can be nasty. Know when it's good to go but expect occasional ... ahh problems.
The word : mmmmmm
I am still leery….
I cant believe how many ppl have it regularly and its still going to take some time for me...we never last long enough...yeah, i havent gotten past the pinky 🤷
❤....its not for everyone ...but the ones that do it ...❤ it ...its kinda like avocado s some people like them ...and others hate them and others have never tried it...😂
Fun
Ok Lady & Gentleman let me put it very straight - DO U PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH ? Expecting a straight answer 🙂
It's just for money monitoring on CZcams don't believe everything on social medias 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
I can see how they talk and react that they obviously are doing it.
Answer is yes... often
European woman like are more into it
To each is own but 😳
Coconut oil & condom very useful.
Oils and condoms aren’t a good pairing - latex or polyisoprene condoms are much more susceptible to damage and even breakage when used with oil - go for water-based lubes instead. What’s more, they’re usually less likely to irritate and cause adverse reactions or aggravate existing conditions such as thrush etc.
Do it in the shower, so if there's any "cleanup on aisle 9", you're already in the clean space with soap and water to wash that shit down the drain!