I'm NOT like most girls, I'm Modest

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  • @allydef
    @allydef Před rokem +11404

    I’m not like other girls. I eat bugs off the floor, I crawl on all fours, and I levitate at 3 AM while chanting in archaic Greek.

  • @snoobnoob9343
    @snoobnoob9343 Před rokem +4806

    I’m not like other girls, I have vivid hallucinations of being a puppet made of twigs and leaves

  • @loreleimonn3220
    @loreleimonn3220 Před rokem +5505

    Seriously nobody in here is talking abt Sam dropping “I want a bitch with autism” on us? I fucking screamed, it was incredible

    • @SarahPaceSings
      @SarahPaceSings Před rokem +152

      Im not sure if I got it, it hurt my feelings :(

    • @loreleimonn3220
      @loreleimonn3220 Před rokem +941

      @@SarahPaceSings I think it’s in response to the “nerd” statement from the thing he’s reacting to there. Bc us autistic peeps have special interests and get classified as “nerds”. So like basically Sam’s saying “hell yeah, give me a girl who infodumps abt some weird niche interest”, but in a very blunt way, which is where the humor lies

    • @pixelatedforest
      @pixelatedforest Před rokem +367

      Im taking it as a compliment tbh

    • @mannysthong
      @mannysthong Před rokem +476

      @@SarahPaceSings don’t let it! he meant it as a joke, not against us. he’s actually pretty accepting! i’m autistic too :) ❤❤❤

    • @Lazy_.Lavender
      @Lazy_.Lavender Před rokem +116

      ​@Ville_xthank you for removing this persons autism diagnosis by simply saying "no".

  • @grell5108
    @grell5108 Před rokem +188

    I went through the
    "I'm not like other girls"
    To
    "I think I like girls"
    To
    "I'm not a girl"
    Pipeline.

  • @whimsyrosie
    @whimsyrosie Před rokem +921

    As someone who dresses modestly, I do it for myself and my own comfort and spirituality. I don't judge others who don't because everyone is different. If someone is dressing in more revealing clothing and they feel so happy and confident, I am literally so happy for them and encouraging. Makes no sense to me why there is judgement going either way. Like I won't ever judge someone for dressing in a way that expresses themselves, and people shouldn't judge me.

    • @seducedbysasquatch
      @seducedbysasquatch Před rokem +70

      Same here! I’m not confident enough to show off my body more, so when I see someone doing so it makes me happy for them :).

    • @lesliejay4165
      @lesliejay4165 Před rokem +85

      i have lots of sensory issues and cannot stand the feeling of tight clothing. im also terrified of men s*xualizing me so i also dress modestly but i love seeing people dress how they want and feeling confident!

    • @kitecorbin3914
      @kitecorbin3914 Před rokem

      I dress modestly outside and scandalously in my house hahahaha. But I do be judging people though. Do I really have to see your fat thighs and small hank hill butt squeezed into shorts 2 sizes smaller than what you need Miss camel toe?? I also don't want to see your underwear through your freaking yoga pants. I dress modestly outside not for me, but because it is common decency. I'm sure that most people don't want to see half my boobs hanging out of my shirt. It's just gross. Keep it at home.

    • @Irenelovesnoodle
      @Irenelovesnoodle Před rokem +43

      I agree because I live in tight revealing clothes but I’ve never judged someone for dressing modest. It’s just preference, neither is inherently bad

    • @agstinacueva1673
      @agstinacueva1673 Před rokem +3

      Ok girl then its not about you

  • @snailwithatophat
    @snailwithatophat Před rokem +2764

    im not like other girls
    because im not a girl 🕺🕺

  • @britsaunders2151
    @britsaunders2151 Před rokem +894

    "I have an AMAZING personality" whilst in the same post calling other women bitches. The self awareness is ripe with this one.

    • @jessemiller4953
      @jessemiller4953 Před rokem +14

      i think im a neat person (sometimes lol) but i don't scream it at oncoming people im just vibin with my hobbies and if we get along thats cool

  • @nininoona
    @nininoona Před rokem +266

    You're never too old to date. Just today, I was on a day out with my 75 year old mother and she got hit on TWICE by two different guys. She's got a date with the first guy this weekend.

    • @chancewill6910
      @chancewill6910 Před rokem +32

      Awww that's so cute. I hope it goes well

    • @abi_cat28
      @abi_cat28 Před rokem +17

      I've been thinking I'm too old to date even though I'm 24. But it can be hard since all my coworkers and friends are in serious relationships or married. Plus, I'm secretly bi

    • @kayenjee
      @kayenjee Před rokem +6

      Nice 👌🏽

    • @sturmfrei5853
      @sturmfrei5853 Před rokem +7

      Wow, she's is still in the game! I bet your mom is a really strong, confident woman ❤

    • @Sarahizahhsum
      @Sarahizahhsum Před rokem +5

      ​@@abi_cat28Im bi and 28 and still single. You're fine honey

  • @millafilppula4083
    @millafilppula4083 Před rokem +423

    It makes me upset when people hate on those who are in a relationship. In the comment section of a couple I follow someone had said "I hope they both die" and it had SO many likes. The whole comment thread was filled with people complaining about how they cant stand seeing others, who are "undeserving", having a relationship that they "deserve". Literally wishing death upon them :/

    • @i-love-anime-idols
      @i-love-anime-idols Před rokem +24

      @Ville you replied so... Clearly you do 💀

    • @erdbar718
      @erdbar718 Před rokem +82

      it's so much projection and just jealousy it's pathetic.... really hope those people gain some self awareness someday

    • @Hippidippimahm
      @Hippidippimahm Před rokem +5

      @Bigheartoneggshells wow👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 amen

    • @iRinnda
      @iRinnda Před rokem +45

      People who are not in a relationship and have ill will towards those who are, are the least deserving people to be in a relationship.
      I don't make the rules here, this is pure fax.

    • @thekarret2066
      @thekarret2066 Před rokem +30

      I couldn't imagine; seeing happy people be happy gives me ease and lifts my spirits like "look. there's some good beans. they make the world a better place."
      Like... for me to want you to die, you gotta like... be abusive or some shit. I want abusers to die, not people in healthy loving relationships. XD Those people I'd rather kill for than want them dead.

  • @unlawfulangel
    @unlawfulangel Před rokem +344

    i’m not like other girls. i have a metal endo-skeleton. i am like the animatronics. i get a little quirky at night.

    • @poppunktwinkledork
      @poppunktwinkledork Před rokem +52

      uh hello, hello? just be aware, these characters do tend to wander at night... they probably won't recognize you as a person and will see you as an endoskeleton without the suit. that means they'll force you into one, causing a bit of discomfort... and probably death.

    • @OpalLeigh
      @OpalLeigh Před rokem +11

      It’s ok tho, they only gotta survive 5 nights and they’re good!

    • @LeaveMeAlone3omgIgotloggedouta
      @LeaveMeAlone3omgIgotloggedouta Před rokem +12

      Har har har har har haaarrre har har har harrrrr har har har haarrrr har har har

    • @WhoWhatWhe
      @WhoWhatWhe Před 8 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @LupinLovebites
      @LupinLovebites Před 6 měsíci

      FURBY?😮

  • @smoothie3993
    @smoothie3993 Před rokem +272

    she’ll put you through a series of steps and tests, she’s not like other girls because she’s jigsaw.

  • @numblina
    @numblina Před rokem +441

    I'm a hairstylist, and most of my clients are retired. They've taught me you're never too old to date. When your loving SO of 40 years passes away, you still might have the want to continue sharing life experiences with someone else by your side. It certainly becomes more difficult in advanced age, but there really is no such thing as too old to date. There really is someone out there for everybody.

    • @feykingjulian
      @feykingjulian Před rokem +46

      exactly! my mom is in her 60's now and always has dudes lining up to date her. she's been divorced since her 40's and is taking her sweet time picking a new husband (if she ever decides to remarry at all). she has a more active and fulfilling social and romantic life than most of my peers (20-30 yr olds)!

    • @seducedbysasquatch
      @seducedbysasquatch Před rokem +22

      My mom and dad got divorced in 2017, she’s 55 and has had a boyfriend for the past year that she’s totally smitten with. There’s someone for everyone :)

    • @MR-zq5gt
      @MR-zq5gt Před rokem +6

      This ! My aunt got married to a wonderful man in her late 40s… they’re still going strong almost 10 years later ! She got married when she thought it would never happen again but then there he was !

    • @sturmfrei5853
      @sturmfrei5853 Před rokem +6

      My parents divorced at 49, now my dad is 55 and his girlfriend just proposed 🤷‍♀️ it's never too late!

  • @Wil_does_stuff
    @Wil_does_stuff Před rokem +1953

    Sam, I agree with you on everything except the 7ish cats take. Me and my 3 and 0.638237 cats are a little offended honestly. Disappointed you'd say something so blatantly anti-decimal cats.

    • @ElenaV.1314
      @ElenaV.1314 Před rokem +207

      Does this mean that my kitty missing her back paw only counts as a percentage of a whole cat? 😆

    • @jahbern
      @jahbern Před rokem +76

      I’ve lived the 7-ish cats life before and it’s awesome 😂 but for me it wasn’t partial cats so much as how many cats on average would deign to be associated with me at any moment. 😂 There’s no love like the conditional love of a cat. ❤

    • @bologna2169
      @bologna2169 Před rokem +71

      Aw hell nah... you got schrödinger's cat 😢

    • @Hippidippimahm
      @Hippidippimahm Před rokem +43

      @@ElenaV.1314 that’s a solid 9/10ths of a cat ❤😂 sounds 10/10ths of super cute!

    • @SupraMan38
      @SupraMan38  Před rokem +328

      Please don’t cancel me :(

  • @TheQueerTailor
    @TheQueerTailor Před rokem +1066

    Anyone else start to fall down the modest dressing rabbit hole before coming out as trans? I definitely did because the idea of being perceived sexually as a woman made me want to die

    • @erdbar718
      @erdbar718 Před rokem +141

      yeah same. and nowadays whilst I still often just dress masc I definitely have days when I dress wayyyy sluttier than ever before. I'm not a woman because I have boobs I'm just a person happening to have them and wearing clothes that fit. Since I can't hide them (binders wouldn't work unfortunaly) I try my best to own it. And not feeling like I have to be a woman while doing so changed so much about my self image and perception

    • @someoneontheinternet16
      @someoneontheinternet16 Před rokem +31

      ​@Ville the opposit end of Man in the gender spectrum, woman Is a social construct percived differently by different people

    • @someoneontheinternet16
      @someoneontheinternet16 Před rokem +49

      @Ville you asked what a woman Is, i gave you an answer. Being Born a female and being a woman isnt the same, but if your Brain Is not smart enough to comprehend science then keep your old definitions

    • @someoneontheinternet16
      @someoneontheinternet16 Před rokem +14

      @Ville it actually Is not, im going to correct my past comment because my autocorrector Is shit and does whatever tf it wants

    • @v_bunny
      @v_bunny Před rokem +36

      ⁠@@erdbar718 i love that for you ‼️ after a while of self discovery i’m now at a point where yeah dress however tf you want cuz you know who you are, and no one can undermine that just cuz of what you have physically. sincerely a trans ftm who has embraced crop tops bc clothes are just fabric and i wear them as masc as i want 🫡

  • @karakreativevlog
    @karakreativevlog Před rokem +465

    I remember going through this phase, but I was a teenager and grew out of it. I hope these people are okay...

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před rokem +19

      Same.

    • @pur3chao56
      @pur3chao56 Před rokem +17

      Thank god I'm not the only one who had a phase like this. I cringe just thinking about it...

    • @MaiStephanie
      @MaiStephanie Před rokem +12

      They’re probably all teenagers too

    • @msfluorescent
      @msfluorescent Před rokem +2

      ​@@MaiStephaniewell there was the 36 year old lmao but I'm willing to bet a good handful of those are adults, because you can't really be on dating apps until 18 right?

  • @MeowzaKat999
    @MeowzaKat999 Před rokem +1154

    You make me so happy. You just simply existing makes my world such a better place.

    • @SupraMan38
      @SupraMan38  Před rokem +345

      wow thank u so much

    • @rivroyerr
      @rivroyerr Před rokem +124

      @@SupraMan38 idk why I read that in a sarcastic tone 💀😭

    • @cybercirque2262
      @cybercirque2262 Před rokem +74

      @@rivroyerr NO ME TOO LIKE I CAN PICTURE HIM SAYING IT LMAO

    • @thekarret2066
      @thekarret2066 Před rokem +12

      True; he's a good bean, makes the world better. UuU

  • @FaithTheFallen
    @FaithTheFallen Před rokem +102

    "You're in Miami, get fucked up" should be the tourist boards new slogan

  • @inexena
    @inexena Před rokem +2104

    Idc what anyone says, if a guy is close to his sisters/mother, it’s an immediate green flag. Shows that he respects women and knows how to treat them right.❤✨

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před rokem +51

      THIS RIGHT HERE!

    • @alyssapinon9670
      @alyssapinon9670 Před rokem +207

      I think even young me knew this to an extent. All my male love interests I wrote had little sisters who they treated like princesses and were good to their moms too. Idk why that would be an ick for a girl. Unless it was co-dependent but that's a different story.
      Maybe they just want to be the only girl in that guy's life and see female family members as a threat.

    • @limpcheesestick
      @limpcheesestick Před rokem +8

      preach

    • @Tree-House69
      @Tree-House69 Před rokem +215

      Only exception being if his mom is a pick-me mega misogynist who will treat anyone who's afab in his proximity like trash, then him being close is a red flag.
      (Agree with you otherwise though)

    • @aminahussain8690
      @aminahussain8690 Před rokem +99

      @@alyssapinon9670 exactly and it feels a bit incestuous when someone assumes a guy's mother or sister would possibly be a rival.
      like romantic love is not the only type of love. like what were u thinking???

  • @Lyalith
    @Lyalith Před rokem +184

    Dude the thing you said last, "don't be a nice transgender", gave me some real flashbacks. Like I met this guy once, who's trans like me, and he tried SO HARD to pull the gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss routine by saying it was "just t4t solidarity bro ♥"
    dude went 0 to stalker within a *month* it was basically tonal whiplash in human form. nobody is safe from the nice guy mentality.

    • @magicalgirl4
      @magicalgirl4 Před rokem +32

      that's insane, i'm glad you're out of that now

    • @biazacha
      @biazacha Před rokem +6

      People really underplay what number body dysphoria does on someone’s mental health…. hope he found the help he clearly needs and I’m glad you’re ok, stalking is traumatizing

  • @thecraziestcrayon
    @thecraziestcrayon Před rokem +2622

    The second you call women "females" is the second your opinion becomes invalid

    • @Widdekuu91
      @Widdekuu91 Před rokem +118

      As a foreign female, with a language that does not have the two differences, I often use the word female.

    • @thecraziestcrayon
      @thecraziestcrayon Před rokem +285

      @@Widdekuu91 Good point. I suppose it's a matter of tone. There's a difference between just a dialect thing, and a clearly degrading message. Thanks for your insight. Have a great day! :)

    • @samikay626
      @samikay626 Před rokem +171

      ⁠@@Widdekuu91it’s partly what was said above^ but also cultural. When women are called females nine times out of ten it’s in a mildly to highly degrading manner. So even if you don’t mean it in a degrading manner, the word is heavily associated with bad experiences. People will say these demeaning things calling us females with a positive tone, because they don’t realize there’s a mental conversion from “women I think is lesser” -> “female”.

    • @xtonibx5770
      @xtonibx5770 Před rokem +127

      Exactly. Female is literally an adjective, not a noun. It's like constantly referring to a black person as a "black". It's degrading.

    • @tinycatfromhell
      @tinycatfromhell Před rokem

      Absolutely. "Females", "female nature", etc. Avoid like the plague.

  • @rodentsofrandomness9203
    @rodentsofrandomness9203 Před rokem +691

    I’m not like other girls I’m nonbinary

  • @xxxstellarxxx
    @xxxstellarxxx Před rokem +194

    I always forget that Sam is trans so when I see videos like this I’m like “How does he have so much perspective on the woman experience?” and then I’m like “OHHHH”

    • @hanamachii_
      @hanamachii_ Před rokem +17

      ​@Ville wow only 104 comments on this channel? nowhere near your record of around 1k on GraysonsProjects. You need to work harder and stop deleting so many comments 💕
      edit) awww Ville deleted that comment too. He'll never catch up at this rate!

    • @sillygo0oser
      @sillygo0oser Před rokem

      @@hanamachii_who is that?

    • @hanamachii_
      @hanamachii_ Před rokem

      @@sillygo0oser great question

    • @redacted8824
      @redacted8824 Před rokem +10

      @@sillygo0oser hes a comment troll he posts transphobic things and he's also on adam mcintyre's channel defending colleen ballinger so like a 12 year old

    • @deannas2778
      @deannas2778 Před rokem +4

      I'm new to the channel. I didn't know that.

  • @CowardlyKeith
    @CowardlyKeith Před rokem +115

    "I want a bitch with autism" had me cackling

    • @NoxBVansyn
      @NoxBVansyn Před rokem

      As a bitch with autism, I almost spit my chicken and yelled "my time has come!"

    • @truthseeker9249
      @truthseeker9249 Před měsícem

      Sorry I don't date people who like my mental disability for bad reasons.

  • @whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat

    in regards to 4:01 if you don't resolve past trauma, especially in relationships, you'll bleed on someone who never cut you

  • @LegendofCadence
    @LegendofCadence Před rokem +18

    “Hookers aren’t free, that’s the point of a hooker” I don’t know why they made me laugh so hard

  • @Junosensei
    @Junosensei Před rokem +418

    I'm a trans woman now, but before I figured all that out at the ripe age of 27, I tried dating online. I called myself a feminist on my profile because it's a major part of who I've always been growing up, and I got two women who harrassed me over it, one of them calling it a "red flag" and the other one posting my profile over social media to make fun of me. The humiliation got to me and I haven't dated anyone since.
    I was also _physically_ bullied by a girl I had a crush on when I was in middle school, and the trauma from that + my last break up of a healthy 8 year relationship + self-awareness of my own co-dependency has also made me more afraid to date again, too.
    Not trying to be a downer, but I think people need to know that this stuff is traumatizing. You don't know what someone else has as emotional baggage. Calling them names, attacking their self-worth, and making them feel unsafe is how you break someone who doesn't deserve it. Be kind, people.
    Also, that one person trying to be nice to the one threatening to stalk their flight... I felt for them so hard. Such emotional maturity, though. I'm genuinely impressed.

    • @shay4261
      @shay4261 Před rokem +110

      "wow, you value womens rights?? thats so cringe. im gonna humiliate you online to all my followers"
      where is the logic 🤣

    • @Junosensei
      @Junosensei Před rokem +90

      @@shay4261 - They basically assumed I was trying to pick up girls using "feminism" as a tag line, which was a "red flag" to... a narcissist or abuser? Which, honestly, I understand the suspicion, but since when do we drag people publicly through the mud over suspicions? I'm less critical of their motives than I am of their malice.

    • @feykingjulian
      @feykingjulian Před rokem +25

      i'm so sorry that happened to you :( people online get sooo trigger happy with any opportunity to make fun of someone sometimes and they'll act like they're righteous for it 😭 it's awful

    • @thekarret2066
      @thekarret2066 Před rokem +8

      Damn that sucks. Sorry you dealt with that shit. XmmX

    • @chio5709
      @chio5709 Před rokem

      @@shay4261 Oh, you'd be surprised at how weird some people are! I met a man who claims feminism is a Western idea that's going to destroy his country. The said country has a huge misogynist and sexist problem.

  • @disgracedgrace7613
    @disgracedgrace7613 Před rokem +98

    I never understood the whole getting jealous of a guy's family members. My bf loves his mom and sisters and personally I prefer that because he's grown up with women, respects them and is a lot more sensitive to the problems I have as a woman then other guys I've dated 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @angelazeng2985
    @angelazeng2985 Před rokem +90

    people who talk about how much they hate couples make me so sad bc yk theyre just wildly insecure with themselves and think relationships are the only value in their lives

  • @Annik_Tenacious_Felis
    @Annik_Tenacious_Felis Před rokem +71

    When someone uses the term "females" when talking about women , thats already a red flag 😅 nice girls are more of a threat because they arent as expected as nice guys , women are immediately on guard when a random man starts talking to them but not when random women do

  • @katherinemcintosh7247
    @katherinemcintosh7247 Před rokem +78

    Tip for anyone who feels it necessary to,point out how nice they are:
    Being a good person, or “different than most” in a good/interesting way, or being a “catch” are things OTHER PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU. If you feel you have to spread the word yourself, chances are (and anyone hearing you proclaim it knows) it is a lie.
    Genuinely kind people don’t brag about how kind they are or complain that they are not getting their due respect specifically because they are, in fact, kind. Kind people fully understand the cost associated with being kind, which is the fact that kindness is not transactional…in that kindness is not often/always reciprocated, so being kind has to be its own reward.

    • @neussd8752
      @neussd8752 Před rokem +7

      exactly and genuinely kind people are rare, so the fact that there are so many “nice guys” and “nice girls” on tinder should already be a red flag in itself

    • @HyLo-rule
      @HyLo-rule Před rokem +4

      idk man I'm aware of the things I try to do for others, i try to follow the golden rule as best as I can and get sad when it isnt returned, hoping one day it will be

    • @HyLo-rule
      @HyLo-rule Před rokem +2

      I think some people are just confident and know when they are spreading kindness as for some it may be a goal!

    • @katherinemcintosh7247
      @katherinemcintosh7247 Před rokem +4

      @@HyLo-rule yeah, but you know it is sometimes not reciprocated and I bet you are still kind anyway…it is disappointing when people are jerky for no discernible reason. I have had to talk with both of our children about that. Tough lesson. They say they don’t understand and I tell them, “it’s because it doesn’t make sense.” And we talk about how hard it is when that happens. And how they would feel about themselves if they were to decide to just be a jerk back…on the surface, it may be very satisfying, but it can also bring guilt with it, which is nothing to thrust on oneself.🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @krystalnguyen3285
      @krystalnguyen3285 Před rokem +1

      Hi. I'm a girl who doesn't really have the best self esteem. I'm familiar that good compliments from other people are the way to go. It's sorta confusing for me since I can get too wrapped up in what other people say about me while at the same time, not feeling enough for myself. I just wanted to put that out there since you seem like a nice person. Sending a lot of blessings to you and your family!! 💗🌼 Thanks for the tip

  • @Beeboopbop94
    @Beeboopbop94 Před rokem +8

    As a non-modest woman, I would absolutely watch and support a channel that gives advice and style tips on how to dress modestly in warm areas while staying fashionable (gives me great ideas for what to wear at work events!). The problem is so many of these “modest women” are SO judgmental towards other women that it turns me off to the content completely. How are you going to encourage modesty while insulting the very people you’re trying to turn towards modesty? Just talk about yourself and why YOU made that decision

  • @addi1626
    @addi1626 Před rokem +72

    Sam's voice is so soothing. He should make audiobooks.

  • @jaykay030
    @jaykay030 Před rokem +22

    7ish cat probably means one of three things;
    1) they're cats that can go outside and there's at least one cat that has moved out as in it left and doesn't come back except for the occasional visit. over the years, I've had that happen with two cats. especially when you have multiple male unneutered cat in the same area, one may look for a new territory
    2) she's a hoarder and hasn't seen some of them in a while (might be buried under junk), and they're constantly getting pregnant bc she doesn't have the time or money to get her cats neutered
    3) bestie can't count

  • @diosawintour1969
    @diosawintour1969 Před rokem +4

    I’m not like other girls. I am the Lorax, I speak for the trees.

  • @eli-hk8tp
    @eli-hk8tp Před rokem +51

    As a girl who dresses modestly because it makes me feel good, I think the guys, girlies, and theys can dress however they want ✨💜

  • @tarynoppendike7515
    @tarynoppendike7515 Před rokem +14

    The "I have a great personality" on dating profiles are a huge 🚩.
    It's like when people have to tell others they are a good driver, let your work speak for itself, and it's USUALLY the opposite of what they're saying 😂.

  • @xbluebirdx
    @xbluebirdx Před rokem +26

    There is nothing wrong with dressing modestly or showing skin. What IS wrong is putting others down just so that you can feel superior to them. It's very immature behaviour.

  • @Meatbonezz
    @Meatbonezz Před rokem +27

    As an autistic person , Sam saying “I want a bitch with autism” fucking killed me man 😂

  • @robinroryld
    @robinroryld Před rokem +109

    I'm not like other girls I'm autistic. And not a girl.

  • @FinnFongus
    @FinnFongus Před rokem +376

    I’m not like other girls
    I’m not like other guys
    I’m not like anything you’ve ever seen before
    I’m just a really REALLY small potato in your cabinet that fell out of the sack and is starting to sprout 🌱

  • @OrNaurItsKat
    @OrNaurItsKat Před rokem +22

    One thing that I've learned is that if someone is telling you what a great person they are, you better run! Good people don't have to tell you how good they are, you will just see it in their actions. It's a big red flag most of the time. Protect yourselves out there, everyone.

  • @babyowl8137
    @babyowl8137 Před rokem +18

    7-ISH??? IS ONE OF THEM SCHRODINGER'S?

  • @meepmoopiethe3rd
    @meepmoopiethe3rd Před rokem +33

    I used to be really bad about this kind of mindset, when I was younger. Everyone would always be nice to me and tell me how cool I was and shit, but no one ever wanted to date me or be good friends with me. And, at some point, I had to step back and say, "No, if everyone sees something wrong with me, I gotta figure that ish out." Like. You have to be accountable for your actions and behaviors at a certain point. And I did a lot of introspection, and realized I was being kinda condescending with people sometimes, and realized a bunch of childhood trauma nonsense was peeking through in random places in my life. And you know what? Changed that stuff as best as I could. Part of growing up is learning how to be the best You that you can, and for me it's controlling how much of a dick I am sometimes. And since learning to control that? Absolutely no problem with any social stuff. Licherally just out here vibin' knowing that it's not personal if someone doesn't like me and it's nothing I need to be concerned with. Does it suck if someone I care for hurts me? Sure. People gonna people. But do I take that as some "boohoo I'm unlovable" crap anymore? Thank god not. Gotta kill that ego crap that tells you you're better than others for whatever reason. It makes you a lot happier overall.

    • @MR-zq5gt
      @MR-zq5gt Před rokem +3

      That is very mature of you… I wish you all the best with continuing to heal from your trauma.. I wish you all the best with you social endeavors and I hope you find people that truly value you. You deserve it ❤

    • @yieeeeeeeeeeeeee
      @yieeeeeeeeeeeeee Před rokem +1

      sometimes? kinda?

    • @roxy4325
      @roxy4325 Před rokem +1

      "people gonna people" I'm using this from here on out

    • @small_dropin_the_big_ocean995
      @small_dropin_the_big_ocean995 Před 2 měsíci

      You are absolutely right. I am trying to do the same thing.

  • @kquinnvandevelde1384
    @kquinnvandevelde1384 Před rokem +11

    There are three paths the "I'm not like other girls" teens take
    1. Grow out of it and become well adjusted people
    2. They become a 'nice girl's
    3. Turns out they were right, but that's because they're trans

  • @LeoUnavailable
    @LeoUnavailable Před rokem +100

    you bring me so much comfort to listen to. i hope youre having a wonderful day! excited to watch.

  • @clairerogers2411
    @clairerogers2411 Před rokem +13

    There is definitely something to be said about predatory moms and just parents in general that have too much control over their adult child. But as someone who now has a pretty good relationship with my mom and whole family, after a lot of apologizing and forgiving, it is really rare and beautiful to have a positive relationship with your family members.

  • @47ratsinahoodie
    @47ratsinahoodie Před rokem +195

    I think like nice girls feel so much worse than nice guys because instead of men being mad at women, it's women being mad at other women because of men so instead of misogyny, there's added internalized misogyny as well. So trying to stand out as 'the one good one' feels worse cause now you're not just saying the others have these bad traits (like how some nice guys might general say other guys are assholes or aggressive), you're just bashing femininity and/or individuality as a whole (the Miami woman comes to mind, bashing women for dressing as they please, and then ofc the classic 'popular girl vs me' posts that tried to shame women for liking certain colors or whatever). The way some women will relentlessly trash other women who've done nothing wrong simply because of thoughts they have due to a society built by men is just insane. Idk, that's my two cents

    • @gpgp1841
      @gpgp1841 Před rokem +18

      I agree with you and the amount of internalized sexism or misogyny is truly sad:(

    • @tarathoughts13
      @tarathoughts13 Před 3 měsíci

      I’ve always said this, if guys dislike you they wil be aggressive and mean to your face, if girls dislike you, they will go behind your back and ruin your reputation, bc unlike guys, they know exactly how to hurt you.

  • @NEMOsleeps24
    @NEMOsleeps24 Před rokem +18

    Im guessing 7ish cats means some strays that come around occasionally and 7 that live inside

  • @victorious521
    @victorious521 Před rokem +62

    I hope you’re having a brewtiful day- I’ve bean thinking of you a latte.😊

  • @greenbeantm1096
    @greenbeantm1096 Před rokem +10

    11:14 it’s not always a bad thing, but often if a guy is best friends with his mom than you will always be second to her. I’ve seen so many stories of mother in laws being flat out abusive to girlfriends and wife’s because she’s “trying to take my son from me” and the son just refuses to see that anything is wrong, or even if he does see that his mom is in the wrong refuses to stand up to her.

    • @cw9475
      @cw9475 Před rokem +5

      That, or a guy being super close to his mum CAN be a sign that he can't take care of himself like a grown adult, bc his mum has always done everything for him (cleaning up after him, laundry, booking his apts, cooking his every meal etc.).
      When you are an able bodied adult you shouldn't have mummy slaving away after you.

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 Před rokem +2

      @@cw9475 this too definitely! I’ve been reading too many toxic “am I the asshole” posts that I completely forgot what you said was another reason 😂

  • @badlie4858
    @badlie4858 Před rokem +15

    well, to be honest, i see the point at not dating a "mommy's little boy". it's rarely a healthy relationship. these moms usually have very strong separation anxiety (even though their sons are adults), and you, as his girlfriend, have to deal with all that comes with it. it's not about you two, it's about you, him and his mom for some reason.

    • @miaomiaochan
      @miaomiaochan Před rokem +1

      I can't help but feel pity for these women that grow overly attached to their sons, as this is another example of how, in a patriarchal society, a woman's worth is determined by her relationship status, and marrying and producing offspring, particularly sons that can carry on the family name, raises her status and improves how she's treated.

  • @Numerosity
    @Numerosity Před rokem +22

    The 1st girl is literally like a female Andrew Tate
    Like 'what do you bring to the table' is a quote of his

  • @daniellewillis2767
    @daniellewillis2767 Před rokem +6

    Tinder is not the place to find loyalty. It's where you go to hook up. Anything that happens beyond that is bonus material.

  • @tod1way
    @tod1way Před rokem +15

    Is there a way we can hook up these girls with the "nice guys"? I don't know how they keep missing each other, but they'd be perfect together. 😂

  • @elizabethclementi6858
    @elizabethclementi6858 Před rokem +49

    These "nice girls" are toxic. Red flags. Love you Sam! :)

  • @kaydenallen9786
    @kaydenallen9786 Před rokem +31

    Always posting when I need serotonin ❤ thanks homie 🥲

  • @_geno_
    @_geno_ Před rokem +7

    7:49 IM FUCKING DYING WHERE DID THAT COME FROM 💀

  • @garfsoup
    @garfsoup Před rokem +42

    i’m a 5’ 8” trans guy and i’m proud to be a troll 🧌❤️

    • @rivroyerr
      @rivroyerr Před rokem +6

      I’m a 5’8 trans guy troll too 🤭🤭

    • @garfsoup
      @garfsoup Před rokem +6

      @@rivroyerr 🏳️‍⚧️🧌 🤝 🧌🏳️‍⚧️

    • @rivroyerr
      @rivroyerr Před rokem +15

      @Ville literally why are you here 💀

    • @demoniccherry5246
      @demoniccherry5246 Před rokem +5

      Goblin here, very proud of our short cryptid community

    • @ChipsofShrimp
      @ChipsofShrimp Před rokem +5

      I am 5’3 trans guy and I am a dwarf!

  • @monodrama8500
    @monodrama8500 Před rokem +15

    im not in a relationship with any of these people and i already wanna break up. 💀

  • @antonialopez473
    @antonialopez473 Před rokem +53

    I want to be like all girls, because girls are amazing and I love girls (I’m gay af)

    • @antonialopez473
      @antonialopez473 Před rokem +2

      Update: Are any girls here a doctor, I think I accidentally gave myself another piercing in the same hole as another piercing

    • @cynister7384
      @cynister7384 Před rokem +4

      @@antonialopez473 Huhhhh

    • @antonialopez473
      @antonialopez473 Před rokem +2

      @@cynister7384 my earlobe is bleeding send help

    • @Mr.Rob_Bob
      @Mr.Rob_Bob Před rokem +1

      @@antonialopez473help is on the way

  • @aname5102
    @aname5102 Před rokem +52

    i'm not like other girls. Because I'm a man

  • @monkfruit2389
    @monkfruit2389 Před rokem +3

    The "I want a bitch with autism" being the most replayed part of this video is so funny to me🤣

  • @ForTheLoveofFood758
    @ForTheLoveofFood758 Před rokem +14

    Let's just respect each other for what we wear please? Modest or sexy, we all deserve respect. We must stand up against the predatory, perverted men that want to sexualize us for anything we wear and demand they view us as human beings first

    • @stelharpwood5752
      @stelharpwood5752 Před rokem +3

      True. It's okay to be either as long as you don't hurt others or degrade them.

  • @urmotherdotgov_6502
    @urmotherdotgov_6502 Před rokem +31

    i’m not like other girls. i watch sam collins.

  • @darcy230
    @darcy230 Před rokem +26

    I can already tell this is gonna be comedy gold

  • @dahliaisley-quinzel3453
    @dahliaisley-quinzel3453 Před rokem +8

    My brother and I just started watching and he immediately said "Grande!" When you couldn't think of a pun lol😂

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +83

    Happy Pride Month, everyone! Thank you, Sam, for your videos and I hope everyone has a great month ahead.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před rokem +5

      🏳‍🌈🏳‍⚧

    • @L0rdOfThePies
      @L0rdOfThePies Před rokem +6

      I have exams through pride month 😂 not feeling very proud

    • @sora-gy5rp
      @sora-gy5rp Před rokem +4

      ​@@L0rdOfThePiesgood luck on those exams!

  • @healerofthewaters6508
    @healerofthewaters6508 Před rokem +14

    I'm not like other girls. I sing musicals loudly and often and in public and it unnerves people because I get a little too into it and then run into windows and glass doors like a bird.

    •  Před rokem +1

      Have you tried _not_ running into things? Just a thought! ;-)

  • @dawn_isatotalqueen
    @dawn_isatotalqueen Před rokem +10

    I like that half of these r dating profiles it just makes it a little funnier

  • @justsomethoughts6110
    @justsomethoughts6110 Před rokem +13

    There are "nice guys" who generally like to claim to be superior but then treat people with terrible disregard even when it's pretty polite. You are right that there is a counterpart, but it's not the same.
    Often these "nice guy" comments come from people who have clearly made someone uncomfortable. And yet they keep going.... Are women capable of the same YES. But the point is don't try pretend be a nice guy if someone seems uncomfortable with your actions. Male or female. This is good basic advice, don't harass or stalk someone.

  • @HeyNowx111
    @HeyNowx111 Před rokem +6

    “Hookers aren’t free that a point of a hooker” 💀

  • @themightyboots2436
    @themightyboots2436 Před rokem +67

    Was anyone else a "nice girl" in middle achool saying the whole "im not like other girls" but then later realized its because you're not a girl. Just me? Okay.

    • @Amely2014
      @Amely2014 Před rokem +3

      I had a nice girl phase and said to myself I would never do vodka, clubs and anything else from this opera, guess what I`m doing last year))

    • @LWeOAreVOneE
      @LWeOAreVOneE Před rokem +20

      Yeah, I was very proud about not being "like the other girls." I wore my tomboy badge like it made me better than "all the other girls." I also made a comment during a theatre production about needing someone to do my makeup because, "I'm not a real woman." Which was ridiculous on so many levels (first, everyone in theatre should be able to do their own makeup and that was a weakness I should have worked on, and second, women don't have to wear makeup to be 'real women,' and third, men can wear makeup too). I always despised "girly girls" until I finally realized that it's because I saw them as who I thought society was pushing me to be. I was projecting myself in their place and being repulsed by the idea of myself in that way. A friend in college dressed me up one night, and I felt confident about being attractive to other people, but I didn't feel like me. I'm 31, and it has been a very long road to figuring out who I am. I'm honestly still not entirely sure where I am on the gender spectrum, but I'm leaning toward transmasc, and I'm definitely not a woman. Just thinking of myself as a woman or being referred to as a woman makes me cringe.

  • @marisolmartinez5097
    @marisolmartinez5097 Před rokem +7

    A man who is close with his family and has a good relationship with them is important. You made a really good point Sam!

  • @_se3_thru9h_9
    @_se3_thru9h_9 Před rokem +2

    2:03 man, you unintentionally flipped us off…😂

  • @iniyama
    @iniyama Před rokem +5

    "boohoo i'm 36 and too old to date"
    meanwhile my mum and her partner (of 10 years&counting) met aged 45, 2 of my aunts found new partners and got married in their 50's
    i don't date but if i did i feel like mid-late 30's would be the best time to actually look seriously to potentially find someone long-term since ideally you'd have yourself and your life somewhat figured out

    • @roxy4325
      @roxy4325 Před rokem +1

      Okay, I legitimately had this epiphany yesterday. I was watching TV and I'm 26F and I thought about how all my friends who are 30+ DREADED their 30th birthday and I contemplated this and thought, I CAN'T WAIT FOR MY 30s! I feel like my teens are when I was learning to human, 20s I am learning to adult, 30s I'll be in my groove and still young enough to engage in youthful shenanigans, 40s I swear sound like they will be my prime, and heck if I'm still alive past 50 I'll just be happy to be here

  • @GiornoLovesDeathGrips
    @GiornoLovesDeathGrips Před rokem +23

    I've been watching you for so long now man. You are like one of the channels I've come back to regularly for years and years!

  • @user-pt4ry1bi9l
    @user-pt4ry1bi9l Před rokem +8

    femcels are wild💀

    • @fin8094
      @fin8094 Před rokem

      I agree. Femcels are very wild.

  • @krysiannapena904
    @krysiannapena904 Před rokem +40

    YAYY another amazing video by the legend!!! Btw i just wanna say good work with the video, i know us (your fans) appreciate you and the time you take out of your day to make us content. Thank you for being you and for inspiring so many young trans people and young men (like myself). You are amazing and i hope you have an amazing day because you deserve it!

  • @jennyjay7816
    @jennyjay7816 Před rokem +7

    The “did i stutter?”
    Does she think that people with a stutter actually type the stutter ? 😭💀

  • @dariadaniellemusic
    @dariadaniellemusic Před rokem +6

    The bit about girls who are jealous of their man's relationship with the women in his family hit a little too close to home. My cousin almost married a girl who was jealous of me and my grandma because of how close we were to him (he lives so far away I hadn't seen him since before they even got together but OK 🤨). Anywayyy... they broke up recently, and I feel really bad for him but at the same time, bullet DODGED.

  • @coolworms7297
    @coolworms7297 Před rokem +6

    How many teeth does that girl want though? Is there a minimum number of teeth? "Hey, you gotta have AT LEAST 28/32 teeth to date me!"

  • @aangymp4798
    @aangymp4798 Před rokem +19

    me when i realize that women are different and act differently around humans and that they don’t have to act a certain way all the time 😱

    • @emocrab7545
      @emocrab7545 Před rokem +4

      ...?? you say that like women being abusive is okay? because they're women?

    • @Insanebehaviordude
      @Insanebehaviordude Před rokem +4

      ​@@emocrab7545 wait I'm so lost, where does this imply anything about abuse?

    • @aangymp4798
      @aangymp4798 Před rokem

      @@Insanebehaviordudeyea, just abt to reply saying that.

    • @aangymp4798
      @aangymp4798 Před rokem

      @@emocrab7545I was talking about the women in this video that are trying to push women to act a certain way and if they don’t they are wrong

  • @ruin4766
    @ruin4766 Před rokem +8

    I’m not like other girls, i’m not a girl anymore

  • @michellemarie1197
    @michellemarie1197 Před rokem +5

    there should also be one called "im NOT like most girls, im a slut"

  • @azaria7528
    @azaria7528 Před rokem +11

    Telling someone to get off tinder and go to therapy is accurate bc ppl on tinder just need therapy in general 😭

  • @miaomiaochan
    @miaomiaochan Před rokem +8

    I dress modestly because I'm deeply self-conscious and have moderate social anxiety. I'm also asexual, as the thought of sex makes me want to sew up my privates.
    All that said, I am all for people expressing themselves in whichever ways make them feel the most fulfilled. To be honest, I kind of envy the confidence some people have to wear more adventurous outfits.

  • @gravymilk8244
    @gravymilk8244 Před rokem +8

    man people like this that are so infatuated with themselves and their own gigantic ego really need to experience a single day with anxiety. like seriously, please, it'll do us all some good

  • @DH-dl3ll
    @DH-dl3ll Před rokem +8

    A) you have a great voice
    2) my dinner is way too spicy
    D) I'm not like other comments

  • @readyforclarity
    @readyforclarity Před rokem +21

    Sam, when you said I want a bitch with autism, I got some feelings. As a bitch with autism 😅 your videos crack me up and give me a bit of validation

  • @milaliah
    @milaliah Před rokem +1

    for the flight tracker part i would have messaged her and then as soon as the harassment started i would have blocked her.. like if she wants to think i’m a gaslighting freak then she got that imma mind my business lmao

  • @nerf_or_nothin9551
    @nerf_or_nothin9551 Před rokem +3

    9:15 this girl obviously thinks that she's the main character 😺

  • @wrappedaroundmyfinger
    @wrappedaroundmyfinger Před rokem +1

    Modesty goes hand in hand with victim blaming.

  • @thedamian033
    @thedamian033 Před rokem +11

    Jesus I hope I don't end up on a dating app at 80 and people do suck it's hard to find love

  • @lynno.c.6529
    @lynno.c.6529 Před rokem +2

    I just love when a guy tells me that I am not like other girls, I mean it's almost like he's realising that we're all different people

  • @JDMimeTHEFIRST
    @JDMimeTHEFIRST Před rokem +3

    Non married people seem to be the most interesting (women and men). I think it’s what “Lovett it or Leave it” said in which most people are navy blue/beige people and they match up right away with little effort. Some people are polka dot/stripe and it’s tougher to find people who get us.

  • @loriag3444
    @loriag3444 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I'm 62 and I love you. You just tell it like it is. You don't know how much you have enlighted me. Thanks for you

  • @ninaweinberg5008
    @ninaweinberg5008 Před rokem +1

    I love dressing "modestly" because it protects me from the sun and I am too lazy to put on suncream 😅

  • @ferninthehouse
    @ferninthehouse Před rokem +5

    "why dont you like chicken nuggets"
    I AM LITERALLY ORDERING CHICKEN NUGGETS ON DD RN WTF

  • @CheesePoutine
    @CheesePoutine Před rokem +2

    10:56 "...without mother, sister, or bestie" ... a man without healthy female relationships in his life is a huge red flag, how is he supposed to know how to treat a woman if there aren't any around him? Also, any successful and enduring male-female friendship is a tiny rebellion of sorts against anachronistic notions of uncontrollable male desire and the female sirens that lure and distract them. The male-female friendships involve the whole-hearted recognition of the other person’s humanity and our many shades of grey. We need men and women to seek out and maintain these friendships more than ever, not draw ridiculous lines in the sand that they promise never to cross. Because, when we are forced to promise not to cross a line, when we’re told that dining with a man or a woman other than your partner is to be avoided, then it takes on an illicit, prurient sheen that cheapens us all.

  • @victoriaross9658
    @victoriaross9658 Před rokem +4

    can i hear your voice every day? its so calming and i just really like hearing you talk.