Iyanla's Most Watched Advice - When You Are Not Ready To Do The Work

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  • čas přidán 11. 11. 2020
  • Whenever we face a challenge, difficulty or upset in life it is a sign that there is some work we need to do. The challenge is figuring out WHAT we need to do and HOW to do it so that we get the resolution we desire. Some of us have no clue about what needs to be done. Others know what needs to be done but now how to get it done. Then, there are those occasions when we know what to do, how to do and . . . we still don't do it. The work we must all do requires that we Begin Within! Any difficulty we face in life is a manifestation of an imbalance, dysfunction or breakdown within our mind or heart. This week on Iyanla's Fixins we will explore what to do, how to do it and the challenges of consistently doing our own internal work. Join us for a lively discussion.
    Originally aired on May 22, 2014.
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Komentáře • 61

  • @chrissy1448
    @chrissy1448 Před 3 lety +11

    I was an avid watcher of Iyanla Fix My Life and never quite understood what she meant about "doing the work". Now as a "grown woman", I fully understand what she is talking about. I have been doing the work for the past 3 years, it is real hard to look deep down within yourself... to grow and become self-aware. Since I've started doing my work, I have thrived. Love this video. Thanks Iyanla!

  • @marieshamartin2710
    @marieshamartin2710 Před 3 lety +14

    I'm at 30:19 & have paused the video twice to reflect on something you have said. This video is loaded with information on several levels. You are truly giving away gold 👑

    • @markkinkle7038
      @markkinkle7038 Před 3 měsíci

      I have had to do the same. It is as if, I am listening, taking notes, and then trying to figure out how her lessons apply to my life. And, then, it hits me! I have to pause and reflect on how deeply her lessons will change my life - and reduce suffering. Iyanla is angelic!

  • @michelec3741
    @michelec3741 Před 2 lety +2

    What a wise woman Iyanla is. She’s got the gift of clarity, well she has many gifts and I am so grateful to witness her talks. Thank you sweet lady ❤️

  • @theresamurphy6554
    @theresamurphy6554 Před 3 lety +8

    My whole life from childhood to my adult years has been nothing but toxic & me trying to escape wit the help of this lady episodes .. omg helps me so much

  • @the_chozenn_1
    @the_chozenn_1 Před 3 lety +7

    Dr.Iyanla you had me about to do the cha-cha slide - palms together, palms open, right hand

  • @colleenpanepinto3863
    @colleenpanepinto3863 Před 3 lety +6

    It is my INTENTION TO HAVE SELF CONTROL AND LOVE FOR MYSELF

  • @jocitaclarkekorkoyah8419

    I recently started following Iyanla and I'm already loving her talks. Right now I feel confuse, and sad about what I've allowed my husband get away with for years...watching the talk on healing broken relationship has given me another energy to save my marriage even though I am tired but I want to examine myself first before making a decision. I need to have a sense of clarity about myself first. Thanks so much Iyanla for going through life to come out for our sakes

  • @the_chozenn_1
    @the_chozenn_1 Před 3 lety +16

    Come onnnn Queen!! Do you Drive or are you Driven?!? 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @freespirit2593
    @freespirit2593 Před 3 lety +9

    I love your messages... and your beautiful spirit

  • @salinalee6813
    @salinalee6813 Před rokem

    I just love you so much, what a blessing you are to the lost, the broken, the unsure, and the fortunate.
    I love spending time with you

  • @deniselockhartmilledge5281

    Still a good message Six years later. ##The struggle is over! Holiness to the rescue! #Breath!

  • @the_chozenn_1
    @the_chozenn_1 Před 3 lety +4

    Come onnnn Dr.Iyanla - speak to our hearts!!!

  • @moneeauntie
    @moneeauntie Před 3 lety +1

    Always a pleasure to tune in, suit up & really dig deep. Refresh & 🧘‍♂️

  • @planterrawelllnesswninadiaz

    I’m LOVIN this beat!

  • @kitkitfiresupreme7108
    @kitkitfiresupreme7108 Před 3 lety +1

    I just purchased Trust. You are a incredible ❤ . Wishing you the best in the next leg of your life.

  • @lyviely8498
    @lyviely8498 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Iyanla ❤️ So much wisdom and joy from you !! Thank you for existing 🌈🌺 Your video lifted me up today 🕉✨ Love you 💚

  • @joycepledger7779
    @joycepledger7779 Před 2 lety

    AWESOME!

  • @MissBrendaLeeGertman
    @MissBrendaLeeGertman Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you.

  • @momikaiakapu9952
    @momikaiakapu9952 Před 3 lety

    I’m in... ready to hear it

  • @hunadirapoo6868
    @hunadirapoo6868 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Iyanla My plate filled with GOODIES again *APPRECIATE* God BLESS, ,Love U ❤🌻

  • @beverlywesley9438
    @beverlywesley9438 Před 3 lety +1

    In the meantime Iyanla u be blessed to me u r a woman of great wisdom + I'm so grateful that I have the opportunity to continue to grow in my holiness until my time is up on this side of life. I love 💕 you ((((((

  • @colleenpanepinto3863
    @colleenpanepinto3863 Před 3 lety +2

    Glory be to God

  • @joycepledger7779
    @joycepledger7779 Před 2 lety

    JUST MAGNIFICENT IYANLA VANZANT! Thank You! Blessings To You My Sister! Minister Joyce Lynn Pledger From Downtown Detroit!

  • @colleenpanepinto3863
    @colleenpanepinto3863 Před 3 lety +3

    Look at her smile

  • @yeyoof3496
    @yeyoof3496 Před 2 lety

    I understand the topic about the young people want freedom. Freedom comes with independence and responsibility. You are the CEO of your life. You have show the people around you that you in control. My points young adult and old teenagers can't be grown-up only when it benefits them.

  • @jujubee90275
    @jujubee90275 Před 3 lety

    Teach Mama Iyanla❤

  • @debnecohen001
    @debnecohen001 Před 3 lety +9

    Meditate on this question: Are You Driving (Internal) or Being Driven (External)?

  • @traumamom4338
    @traumamom4338 Před 2 lety

    Heaven sent

  • @lindaharrison1847
    @lindaharrison1847 Před 3 lety

    LUVE YOU. 💜

  • @planterrawelllnesswninadiaz

    Can hear ya loud and clear!👍🏾#inyanlafixins

  • @colleenpanepinto3863
    @colleenpanepinto3863 Před 3 lety +2

    I love you

  • @colleenpanepinto3863
    @colleenpanepinto3863 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for your service

  • @bnbtrucking5448
    @bnbtrucking5448 Před 3 lety +1

    Iyanla’s fixins

  • @marielissade4097
    @marielissade4097 Před 3 lety

    Good evening Ms Iyanla

  • @colleenpanepinto3863
    @colleenpanepinto3863 Před 3 lety +1

    Making a right decision would mean life would be easier

  • @mariad7262
    @mariad7262 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow your amazing had to delete my last post and now I see I don’t understand why I can’t forgive bc how can I forgive a child who didn’t know and yup I had issues with the most high I have to call

  • @shellyedwards2875
    @shellyedwards2875 Před 2 lety

    Freedom 💋 driving or driven

  • @QueenBMason
    @QueenBMason Před 3 lety +2

    Ms. Iylana, I just realized a horrible, horrible habit I have with women. I just visioned it and It has a lot to do with how I grew up. OMG, how will I ever correct this bad vision?

    • @dianalevans9125
      @dianalevans9125 Před 3 lety +2

      Im just scrolling preparing to sit and watch this episode.
      As long as we have breath, there is opportunity for/to change, correct, make new, redirect ask for forgiveness or be willing to forgive.
      Per my personal experience and beliefs, nothing is too hard for God. We are the embodiment of infinite possibilities.
      Be Encouraged

  • @colleenpanepinto3863
    @colleenpanepinto3863 Před 3 lety +1

    O goodness. This lady is me

  • @kuselwa6715
    @kuselwa6715 Před 3 lety +1

    How are u hustling ur abuse? The struggle is over/ Why wud u run a business and get a part time job😂😂😂 Thank you Iyanla 💛 this is priceless.

  • @mschrissystylez207
    @mschrissystylez207 Před 3 lety +2

    3 months ago I lost my Fiancé how can I heal from this Thank you

  • @badriyahabdur-rahman3653
    @badriyahabdur-rahman3653 Před 3 lety +1

    Hey 👶

  • @theluxecoach557
    @theluxecoach557 Před 3 lety

    #IyanlasFixins

  • @iynitabaker91
    @iynitabaker91 Před 3 lety

    Value or worth. I must drive! Good word

  • @anniewilson6737
    @anniewilson6737 Před 3 lety

    💞💞💞

  • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
    @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD Před 2 lety

    It’s a forgiveness and trust issue. You have to know yourself, to love yourself, to forgive yourself in order to trust
    that no matter the outcome you can take care of yourself emotionally. Knowledge of self comes from knowledge of Your Creator.

  • @indimusiq
    @indimusiq Před 3 lety

    🙄

  • @colleenpanepinto3863
    @colleenpanepinto3863 Před 3 lety +6

    Get out of Gods business and give up the struggle. Thank you

  • @Iamcarolgraham
    @Iamcarolgraham Před 3 lety

    Appreciate you from I am Carol Graham youtube channel. ✔ me out. Great information.

  • @ruthravelo1645
    @ruthravelo1645 Před 3 lety

    I have a problem with this fasten that I have to let you personal no one else you can make it to me in your own way you in your own room