I was in an emotional relationship for 14 years, with the spouses cycles every 18-21 months, had a stroke in Jan 21, left me by myself for 2 1/2 years to recover. Then claims she's lonely. Divorce in the making.
Unfortunately my wife has had to deal with court every year her ex husband tries a new narrative. There is an amicus that only seems to meet with her ex and it’s all the same tricks. The is an abundance of evidence in many forms but it’s so rhetorical that no one looks at it. Tons of examples of hypocrisy. Impossible to co parent. I see my kids let down by their biological father and his physical abuse as well as emotional and mental abuse. However I have seem this person kick his 10 year old in the hip and leave a softball shaped bruise. When confronted he said yes he did “put a foot in his ass” and would do that whenever he felt like it. When she showed the amicus she actually made excuses for him when he clearly admitted to it. She also mentioned “she had to report any abuse” so she had the hip x rayed and Dr made a call to CPS and it’s determined to be “isolated incident” how ever now there about 10 or 12 more things from the past that he denied that dont seem isolated. We truly want to co parent and move forward but it’s not us constantly creating new reasons to go to court. I feel for the kids the most. Child want people to listen to them but no one has so far so they now seem to be shut off from themselves.
I was in an emotional relationship for 14 years, with the spouses cycles every 18-21 months, had a stroke in Jan 21, left me by myself for 2 1/2 years to recover. Then claims she's lonely. Divorce in the making.
Unfortunately my wife has had to deal with court every year her ex husband tries a new narrative. There is an amicus that only seems to meet with her ex and it’s all the same tricks. The is an abundance of evidence in many forms but it’s so rhetorical that no one looks at it. Tons of examples of hypocrisy. Impossible to co parent. I see my kids let down by their biological father and his physical abuse as well as emotional and mental abuse. However I have seem this person kick his 10 year old in the hip and leave a softball shaped bruise. When confronted he said yes he did “put a foot in his ass” and would do that whenever he felt like it. When she showed the amicus she actually made excuses for him when he clearly admitted to it. She also mentioned “she had to report any abuse” so she had the hip x rayed and Dr made a call to CPS and it’s determined to be “isolated incident” how ever now there about 10 or 12 more things from the past that he denied that dont seem isolated.
We truly want to co parent and move forward but it’s not us constantly creating new reasons to go to court. I feel for the kids the most. Child want people to listen to them but no one has so far so they now seem to be shut off from themselves.