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  • These stories are not meant to insult or make fun of anyone. I simply share them for entertainment purposes and so other stylists/ future stylists can relate. These types of situations can be extremely discouraging, so if you've ever had a bad experience with a client, just know you're not alone and it happens to all of us!
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Komentáře • 738

  • @ansleywelborn9716
    @ansleywelborn9716 Před 4 lety +471

    It honestly sounds like she was genuinely unhappy with her child and that’s really sad

    • @sadbut_true500
      @sadbut_true500 Před 4 lety +15

      Yes! She was clearly frustrated about the fact that her baby was a bald bloob

    • @sadbut_true500
      @sadbut_true500 Před 4 lety

      @Scorched Earth and not European baby's? 🤔

    • @ajfisher5394
      @ajfisher5394 Před 4 lety +1

      Da Nax same thing but replace the British guy with the Michelin man lmao

    • @RegratorNovem
      @RegratorNovem Před 4 lety

      I agree.

    • @Andreawbs
      @Andreawbs Před 3 lety +1

      I would get mad when people called my baby a boy.. and I’m not unhappy with her at all. It’s irritating cause my daughter would wear all pink, with a pink blanket & pig tails and people would still say she’s a boy. It’s annoying

  • @themelonsoup
    @themelonsoup Před 5 lety +827

    I once heard someone say that misgendering a baby is an insult to the mother, but all babies look like ambiguous blobs sooo lol 😆

    • @ShanaLawson
      @ShanaLawson Před 4 lety +47

      themelonsoup Truth! Newborns all look very gender neutral. Mothers need to chill. I have two lol

    • @Dee-V-Dee
      @Dee-V-Dee Před 4 lety +44

      Babies generally look exactly the same, they all have weird smushed faces, I genuinely couldn’t tell which kid was my niece once when I was picking her up from nursery and she was 3 at the time, so yeah they have those weird identical faces for so long

    • @michellesimmons2756
      @michellesimmons2756 Před 4 lety +1

      So stupid lmao

    • @emoXjessiX2030
      @emoXjessiX2030 Před 4 lety +16

      My son had long hair until he was 2.5 years old. He would always have his hair in a ponytail. Some people would think he’s a girl and I’d politely correct them and accept the compliment of them telling me I have a beautiful child.

    • @Yumichan62
      @Yumichan62 Před 4 lety +7

      When I was little I looked alot like a boy and also liked to wear more masculine clothes so I never really wore dresses but mostly jumpers or pants. Everyone thought I was a boy and on every baby picture I looked like a boy. I didnt care at that age and my mom just corrected the people. I also did not have much hair. Now I am pretty girly and have way too much hair (so expensive to dye :c). So why would someone care about if their kid looks masculine or feminin? Just because her kid maybe looked like a boy, doesnt mean that she cant become a girly girl. And even if she doesnt, why is that so important? I really dont get it.

  • @GEOMETRICINK
    @GEOMETRICINK Před 5 lety +924

    This lady has issues. My 8 year old son to this day gets called a girl. He’s just pretty. With big blue eyes, gorgeous eye lashes. Literally no one cares. I don’t care. My husband doesn’t care. My son doesn’t care. My son just corrects them politely and we never think about it again.

    • @squidjelly9736
      @squidjelly9736 Před 4 lety +45

      K L boys always have the nicest lashes 😍 lucky boy

    • @wrinkleintime4257
      @wrinkleintime4257 Před 4 lety +29

      Gender is a social thing, he knows what he identifies as and you know what he identifies as, people who fight with a child about things like that are awful people! He’s a beautiful boy and that’s okay ! ^^

    • @123KristenB
      @123KristenB Před 4 lety +15

      That’s how it is with my 9 year old too. He has big blue eyes, beautiful lashes, and shoulder length beautiful hair. It doesn’t bother him or I when people mistake his gender. We politely correct them. What bothers me is the people that tell him he looks “too girly” when they know he’s a boy 🙄

    • @deboraht5079
      @deboraht5079 Před 4 lety +8

      K L -- Boys and girls have similar faces until they go into puberty. So since most boys have short hair of someone sees shoulder length there might be confusion. I had a pixie cut at 11 years old and was asked by strangers if I was a "boy or girl" which is why I keep my hair long to this day. It made me feel "masculine".

    • @nadia1994ization
      @nadia1994ization Před 4 lety +3

      K L absolutely you are right and she sounds very toxic because as a mother she has forgotten her baby’s priorities... the baby needs food, care and rest not a stylish haircut 😞🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @ellemorera
    @ellemorera Před 5 lety +918

    “Do you want me to put a wig on her” TOOK ME OUT 😂💀😂

    • @nataliemamwell9754
      @nataliemamwell9754 Před 5 lety +1

      "took me out" 😂 ive never heard that one, i love it!

    • @dj5180
      @dj5180 Před 5 lety +1

      Lmfaoooooooo I swear omg 🤣

    • @HannahEvans97
      @HannahEvans97 Před 5 lety +1

      Michelle Morera i was literally just about to comment this!!😂😂😂😂

    • @naynaylomeli
      @naynaylomeli Před 4 lety +1

      “Took me out” made this comment dead asf 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tempesttmonique
      @tempesttmonique Před 3 lety

      😂😂😂

  • @valnsky
    @valnsky Před 5 lety +1213

    Even side bangs sounds crazy for a baby’s hair

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +36

      True!

    • @sylviacrafts6704
      @sylviacrafts6704 Před 5 lety +5

      Especially cause boy's now wear side bangs.

    • @mellvee
      @mellvee Před 5 lety +29

      It's the mini I Want to Speak to Your Manager cut...training mini Karens since 2018 lol!

    • @kimwong305
      @kimwong305 Před 4 lety

      Yeahh XD

    • @nenarise359
      @nenarise359 Před 4 lety +1

      i mean for older babies (like 12 + mnth) side bangs wouldlbe a good idea, so they are out of their face while playing. but it depends on the kids hair

  • @MissJNadine
    @MissJNadine Před 5 lety +758

    I swear people with 4 hairs are the pickiest 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @baddie1shoe
      @baddie1shoe Před 5 lety +2

      Lol

    • @BoglimWrangler666
      @BoglimWrangler666 Před 5 lety +20

      well the baby had 4 hairs not the mom lol

    • @ForeverChiTonight
      @ForeverChiTonight Před 5 lety

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ashleyhumann8094
      @ashleyhumann8094 Před 5 lety +16

      I have so thick curly hair, and I have heard my friends with thin and fine hair and they are really picky with there hair. Maybe if you have less hair one piece matters more?

    • @creidy2018
      @creidy2018 Před 5 lety +6

      Ash ikr? Once you get past a certain point of volume, you have so much hair that you just can’t even be bothered to care about the little bits

  • @LunaBeauty666
    @LunaBeauty666 Před 4 lety +225

    I was once out shopping when I heard this little girl call her mother “mom” and the mother looked at her and said “excuse me what did you just say??” And the little girl quickly corrected herself calling the woman “mommy” instead. People are weird.

    • @Babydoll91919
      @Babydoll91919 Před 4 lety +47

      LauraKat87 Jesus. That’s scary, no lie. Really controlling tbh. I’d be scared 😦

    • @user-qo7vq6yx8q
      @user-qo7vq6yx8q Před 4 lety +15

      Wow 😐 poor girl.

    • @brett8460
      @brett8460 Před 4 lety +22

      My mom still thinks she's a teen and refused to speak to my brother and I if we called her "mom" growing up so we called her by her real name and everyone thought it was so weird and disrespectful that we called her by her name especially in Korea where we're from when we were children but that's because she wanted us to. She wouldn't talk to us if we called her mom. We're adults now and living in the states so when we call her by her name we don't get nearly as much backlash.

    • @rebeccafaford5417
      @rebeccafaford5417 Před 4 lety +8

      What's worse is seeing teenagers call their parents mommy and daddy 🥺🥺🥺

    • @user-qo7vq6yx8q
      @user-qo7vq6yx8q Před 4 lety +6

      @@rebeccafaford5417 are you serious? ..

  • @sierraalexisxo
    @sierraalexisxo Před 5 lety +249

    “She had like four hairs” lmaooo

  • @taurusDIVA1979
    @taurusDIVA1979 Před 4 lety +118

    The mom is projecting her own insecurities on her baby....

  • @nanicam9665
    @nanicam9665 Před 4 lety +151

    My son is 3 years old and people always tell me , “she’s so pretty “ 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ he responds with, “I’m a boy see look at my face” 😂

    • @michellesimmons2756
      @michellesimmons2756 Před 4 lety +5

      Dee Anahi so cute 😂😂

    • @codybrookehanson2346
      @codybrookehanson2346 Před 4 lety +4

      Haha that's sweet. I had a friend with a pre-k sister that insisted her best friend Oscar was a girl because he had long pretty hair. Nope, he was just a very cute Hispanic boy, he couldn't even convince her until his parents cut his hair.

    • @smartcookie374
      @smartcookie374 Před 4 lety

      My little cousin used to respond i'm a boy look at my "pipi" showing his little male parts

  • @KimberlyBarkdoll
    @KimberlyBarkdoll Před 5 lety +122

    It might make me sound like a B, but I thoroughly enjoy saying NO to people. As hairdressers, we don't get to do that very often, but when the time is right. I'm like, "No." and then I just look at them and shake my head 'no'. If they look at me like they don;t understand me , then I gently explain. But, sometimes, it pops them right into reality. Our bosses need to back us up more than they do, honestly.

    • @maeve.starlight
      @maeve.starlight Před 5 lety +13

      Teach me your ways! I have always been afraid of saying no, not just in the industry but in general life. It gives me anxiety thinking of confrontation and because of that I am basically a yes man/doormat. And now I don't know how to change that.

    • @KimberlyBarkdoll
      @KimberlyBarkdoll Před 5 lety +6

      @@maeve.starlight Aww, no doormat!!! I literally had a guy come in with a fake coupon from another state, knock on the glass before opening, and then ask me if he could use the coupon for a beard trim, because, " He was bald" And, I was like, "No." *flatly* *shakes head back and forth slowly* LOL Maybe one day, I'll do a re-enactment on YT!! Haahaa!!!

  • @Tinx92
    @Tinx92 Před 4 lety +110

    What that woman wanted was a doll instead of a baby.

  • @loveandcupcakes100
    @loveandcupcakes100 Před 5 lety +96

    Moms who are concerned with their infant's masculinity/femininity make me want to scream. As if looking like the opposite gender would kill her. If they put that kind of energy on their kids with things that matter such as reading or math, they would be the next Einstein!

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +5

      Right??!!!

    • @user-gu5xx5le2j
      @user-gu5xx5le2j Před 4 lety +1

      To be fair the big change in hormones could effect their reaction when people misgender their babies.
      This women in the story does sound awful though, seriously just get some baby pink cloths for her!

  • @ashleybrady7103
    @ashleybrady7103 Před 5 lety +80

    Literally just had an older client yesterday with fine, very soft curly hair. Gave her a super cute soft angled bob to perk up her curls and make her hair look fuller. I get done, she looks in the mirror, then proceeds to tell me how her hair looks too thick and it looks messy. Mind you, when we consulted, I told her exactly what I was going to do, showed her pictures, and she was very excited to get started. It looked beautiful. I guess you just can't please everyone. Thankfully she didn't make a scene, she just gave a lot of attitude.

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +12

      It's true. Some people really are impossible to please! You can't take that stuff personally or let it get to you! Glad she didn't cause a scene at least!

    • @anon3263
      @anon3263 Před 5 lety +9

      My friend (hairstylist) says it's not the hair they're looking at it's who they're looking at 🤭

    • @ashleybrady7103
      @ashleybrady7103 Před 5 lety

      @@anon3263 I dress for success and make myself look business appropriate everyday. My attitude is positive and I do well at my job because I LOVE my job. I'm telling you, you truly can't please everyone.

    • @anon3263
      @anon3263 Před 5 lety +5

      @@ashleybrady7103 sorry I think there's a miscommunication, I wasn't talking about the hairstylist at all. It's who they're looking back at in the mirror. My bad haha

  • @mariasolano3027
    @mariasolano3027 Před 5 lety +998

    I had to quit cosmetology school. I couldn't handle the high expectations. People come in with a picture of Beyonce, but they look like freakin' Shrek.

    • @phyllysanantonio
      @phyllysanantonio Před 5 lety +11

      hahahaha

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +65

      Omg hahahaahahaha

    • @mariasolano3027
      @mariasolano3027 Před 5 lety +37

      Lmao it's true and I'm guilty of that myself!! Before I went to cosmetology school I was always attracted to Selena Gomez's short hair cuts. She makes a lob look so easy and natural!!! Well maybe it is for her. I went in to my usual stylist 1 day with literally a pic in my phone of the Selena Gomez cut I wanted, and came out looking nothing like it!! The style was cute, but it wasn't free, wavy, and natural like hers. Later in life I realized, I have course, damaged, over processed, what used to be really curly hair. I can't look like that without JUST a hair 😫😫

    • @ugighcvgi3084
      @ugighcvgi3084 Před 5 lety +29

      Mrs. Solano are you seriously comparing HUMAN BEINGS to shrek?? Why does that statement say more about you than the picky customer

    • @mariasolano3027
      @mariasolano3027 Před 5 lety +107

      @@ugighcvgi3084 Do you know what a joke is??

  • @alyxbodden8995
    @alyxbodden8995 Před 5 lety +301

    you should have asked if she wanted you to dye her babies hair pink, that might be feminine enough for her LOL

  • @crystal182
    @crystal182 Před 5 lety +76

    My son is 2 and his whole life strangers will always call him “she” because he has long curly hair and i honestly never cared 🤷🏻‍♀️ we have never cut it and we don’t plan too anytime soon

  • @niftynic115
    @niftynic115 Před 5 lety +88

    My son is a toe head blonde, as a baby his hair was transparent with teal blue eyes. People used to always say 'oh, shes so pretty' 😂 I would say thank you and move on. There strangers so who cares.

    • @lindsaybayless1861
      @lindsaybayless1861 Před 2 lety

      Yes lol we’d say thank you when people do that to my son but I’m sure they ended up hearing us call him bubba

  • @AllthePrettyPurses
    @AllthePrettyPurses Před 5 lety +519

    Who the hell brings a baby to a salon for a haircut?

    • @MarleyRae
      @MarleyRae Před 5 lety +13

      gottahaveshades Fr i would just trim my baby’s hair myself or take them to sport clips 😂😂

    • @krisklemic5260
      @krisklemic5260 Před 5 lety +14

      I took my 1 yo to a salon for his first haircut. It was cheaper than going to a barber and it’s where I get my hair done so I really trusted those people.

    • @Mariamaria-bb9mn
      @Mariamaria-bb9mn Před 4 lety +4

      Idk if it’s me but I’m not cutting my child’s hair until she is 4 and that will be a trim. My babies hair is long and full

    • @pixie7435
      @pixie7435 Před 4 lety +8

      I did. My girl had wild , WILD full thick hair and I didnt want to cut it and destroy her curls .
      Its a good thing to get them used to being in the chair to eliminate the fear

    • @mellyross2817
      @mellyross2817 Před 4 lety +2

      I do, but my so. Has always had a LOT of hair. I’m also a stylist. But even being a mother and a stylist i really dislike having baby clients. Some stylists though are SO GOOD at it and are comfortable and do a good job of putting baby and momma at ease. Hair is different on everyone, even kiddos. My daughter was blonde and bald till she was 2 😂 meanwhile my son has always always had super long hair. Was born with it. So it’s not so crazy to have someone bring a baby in, and i don’t think that’s what she was saying. I think Sam was just saying this woman’s expectations were really skewed from reality. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @mikayland505
    @mikayland505 Před 5 lety +193

    Dear god i would not wanna be this ladys daughter

  • @susankawoya5901
    @susankawoya5901 Před 5 lety +84

    40 minutes to cut 4 hairs? That's 10 friggin minutes per hair!

  • @megancotterly9357
    @megancotterly9357 Před 5 lety +40

    Girl, I'm a bartender. The stories I could tell you about the way people behave in restaurants would kill you. My job litterally makes me gate people sometime.s I feel like some people just dont know how to be normal and kind to ANYONE

    • @CatBaxterBeauty
      @CatBaxterBeauty Před 5 lety +3

      MegsMakeupLife * I can relate so much. I work at a Hooters on a very popular spring break destination. I could write a book about the crazy shit I’ve seen 😂

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +3

      Omg I would LOVE to hear them! Lol

  • @kate09854
    @kate09854 Před 4 lety +31

    That's so superficial. My daughter at one was bald like an old man. Now at nearly 3, she finally has a comb over 😂

  • @al-gz8vc
    @al-gz8vc Před 5 lety +29

    I hate mothers that care so much about their baby’s appearance. I am a mother of a baby girl as well, and I will never understand that. I get it, it’s nice to dress them up once and awhile. But who cares if someone thinks your baby girl is a boy. Just be grateful you have your baby, and that your baby is healthy.

    • @deboraht5079
      @deboraht5079 Před 4 lety

      al -- Babies are difficult to tell if they are boy or girl because their faces are similar.

    • @breathoffreshair7795
      @breathoffreshair7795 Před 4 lety +1

      Deborah T but so what lmao? What does that matter to anything?

  • @bunhime9903
    @bunhime9903 Před 5 lety +38

    Ugh, that poor baby... I hope her mom lets go of her controlling needs as she grows up. I can't imagine being that worried about what strangers think of my baby, of her hair being freaking straight.

  • @amyrebecca6836
    @amyrebecca6836 Před 5 lety +142

    My sister got mistaken for a boy all the time, even in pink dresses. Now hes a trans man LOL

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +46

      Haha aw so it worked out perfectly! ;)

    • @amyrebecca6836
      @amyrebecca6836 Před 5 lety +9

      Sam Vay aha it all worked out in the end

    • @maeve.starlight
      @maeve.starlight Před 5 lety +13

      Seems everyone knew before he did! 😁

    • @RachelDoesntknow
      @RachelDoesntknow Před 4 lety +22

      perfect example here -- people say trans people have issues with gender, but this woman up here nearly has an aneurysm because strangers mistook her newborn blob for the blue variety. I worked at a pet supply store and people would cry themselves to sleep if I didn't know their dog's sex on sight 🙄 like ma'am your dog doesn't even know the difference and never will

    • @DemiBirdDoes
      @DemiBirdDoes Před 4 lety +8

      Hahaha that's me. I used to get mistaken for a boy on Instagram...little did I know. They were right afterall!
      Supportive sisters are the best tbh, my twin is such a lifeline for me.

  • @getdatmomo3351
    @getdatmomo3351 Před 5 lety +151

    I love your videos! PREACH!
    I worked in retail for 16 years and holy shit ladies are so rude. RUUUUUDE and misinformed 100% of the time. 🤣

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety

      Yes!

    • @Starnote16
      @Starnote16 Před 2 lety

      Yes!! I worked retail for years too. The bridal industry took the cake though. Wow. If it’s not the bride it’s someone in the family. It really was exhausting.

  • @MsMeowmix666
    @MsMeowmix666 Před 5 lety +82

    Omg I hate when parents are so picky about their babies hair !!

  • @xHarlequin
    @xHarlequin Před 5 lety +32

    Seriously most babies you can’t even tell their gender, you can dress them as either a boy or girl and it would be believable lol.

  • @mimicovers97
    @mimicovers97 Před 5 lety +30

    I love the term “peach fuzz” 😂

  • @alyssavilla8872
    @alyssavilla8872 Před 5 lety +72

    HAHAHAHA I love the disclaimer ! I work at Sephora & love client stories 😭❤️ just found your channel subscribed ! 🥰

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +5

      Haha yeah it feels like it shouldn't be necessary, but some people are overly sensitive unfortunately! :)

  • @miamaund6690
    @miamaund6690 Před 5 lety +127

    YALL I SWEAR I THOUGHT SHE WAD ANFISA OFF OF 90 DAY FIANCÉ

  • @Jessebobesse
    @Jessebobesse Před 5 lety +77

    Omg 🤣 four hairs. My boys both came out with a full head of hair and whenever I see bald babies I'm always taken back. Apparently I think every kid comes out with hair.

    • @spacemonkey340
      @spacemonkey340 Před 5 lety

      Same! All four of mine came out with thick and long AF hair.

    • @naie5683
      @naie5683 Před 5 lety

      Same. I would get the stink eye whenever I said my children's hair is thin (mine is super full. I have 2/3 shaved off - a waist length mohawk, and my long hair is fuller than the average person's full ponytail. I have fine hair, but just tons of it.) Because their hair is thinner than mine but by no means thin compared to the average baby.

  • @XxArjaypheonixxX
    @XxArjaypheonixxX Před 5 lety +21

    I felt so stressed out imagining everything go down.

  • @pescecanella4742
    @pescecanella4742 Před 2 lety +1

    I love to watch and rewatch these customer related stories, bc I can learn so much, I am not a hair stylist, but I also work with clients and find it hard to keep my boundaries.

  • @hiedao.7847
    @hiedao.7847 Před 5 lety +12

    Feeling bad for the baby, imagine when this child grows a little her mom is going to be a bully about her daughter's appearance.

  • @yulianamuniz806
    @yulianamuniz806 Před 5 lety +13

    Not a cosmetologist. Yet still love your stories their always so interesting lol . Your hair looking good girl 💁🏻‍♀️

  • @Ygucvjk
    @Ygucvjk Před 4 lety +8

    The way to get a baby girls hair to look more “feminine” is honestly just to let it grow out. Especially if she doesn’t have that much hair to begin with. This women 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @gabyilescas338
    @gabyilescas338 Před 5 lety +37

    People mistake my baby for a boy too lol we took her to get a pixie cut and of course it wasn’t perfect because she moves around a lot but I never blame the stylist for that

  • @debramccafferty2918
    @debramccafferty2918 Před 4 lety +2

    I felt so sorry for you. I’m a retired hairstylist and I know there are crazies out there.

  • @wowwee0
    @wowwee0 Před 5 lety +56

    I looked like a baby boy until I was like 6 AINT NOTHING WRONG WITH IT lol

  • @cindy846
    @cindy846 Před 5 lety +7

    - Wait, I didn't understand. What is she?
    - *A BaAaAaAaByYyYyYyYyYy*

  • @annipsy2185
    @annipsy2185 Před 5 lety +11

    that lil baby is NOT gonna have a very easy life. im sorry :(

  • @mariahcarrie23
    @mariahcarrie23 Před 5 lety +2

    I’m a stylist too! I just came across your channel! This is the real stuff we gotta deal with with clients. So relatable

  • @mattspunkingurl
    @mattspunkingurl Před 4 lety +7

    The mom sounds kind of crazy. I always let my kids’ hair grow in naturally. I don’t think I even cut my daughter’s hair until she was 4.

  • @sydneyschumacher3757
    @sydneyschumacher3757 Před 5 lety +5

    oh my gosh i can relate! i’ve been a stylist for over 3 years now and sometimes, i. my experience, the moms are worse than the children they’re bringing in.

  • @thehomebird999
    @thehomebird999 Před 5 lety +22

    Did she want you to give her baby a comb-over? 😭😭😭

  • @pillowbug3006
    @pillowbug3006 Před 5 lety +52

    Another reason why my daughter didn’t have her first haircut until she was 4!! And I love ❤️ her long hair, of course!

  • @mryftne6316
    @mryftne6316 Před 4 lety +10

    I feel bad for that baby.. she'll be having issues with expressing herself because of that feminity cliché put on her by her mom..I got that from my mom and that was hard but I had my dad thanks god..

  • @accordingtoashleeb2779
    @accordingtoashleeb2779 Před 5 lety +19

    I found your channel a few days ago and I've been binging your videos since😍 I love all your videos, you're so relatable!

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +1

      Aw thank you so much!!

    • @OMalley1203
      @OMalley1203 Před 5 lety +1

      Ashlee B Same! Me too!

    • @accordingtoashleeb2779
      @accordingtoashleeb2779 Před 5 lety

      @@OMalley1203 I'm just not getting tired of her and her content! It literally feels like hanging out with a friend

  • @pumpkin.kitty.lady18
    @pumpkin.kitty.lady18 Před 5 lety +15

    I love these videos! I work in retail and have a ton of horror stories so, it's always fun to hear other people's stories

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety +3

      Hahaha yes I've worked retail too! I feel like any job that involves dealing with the public will leave you with some good stories lol

  • @_Laura.Marie_Sierra.Destiny_

    Dude I totally agree I’m so awkward around kids. I don’t know how to talk to them either I totally 100% understand. I like kids I just usually don’t know how to interact with them. Sometimes it’s like I get embarrassed for other people to hear me talk to them

    • @lexibrandi3355
      @lexibrandi3355 Před 4 lety

      Same! Im 12 weeks pregnant right now. Sometimes I think how am I gonna be around my own baby?😂

  • @musicgal421
    @musicgal421 Před 5 lety +51

    Everyone should just say “oh so cute how old is your baby?” Then they’ll say he or she is! You could also ask for a name and hope it’s normal🤣🤣 I’ve learned from others mistakes never assume! Lol but I do hate when parents (usually moms!) are so fricken concerned about making sure they know they’re baby is a girl. If you’re that worried dress them in pink like you said haha geez

    • @lisalivingston7304
      @lisalivingston7304 Před 5 lety

      musicgal421 I had 2 girls I always dressed in pink with pink blankets and all kinds of girly frills and some completely clueless still said “ aww, he’s so cute, how old is he”. I just looked at em fora sec and said “she’s......” whatever the question. Some people do t even look or think

    • @strongeronplants
      @strongeronplants Před 4 lety +1

      So easy in English! In my language, it's very hard to avoid gender specification 😆

  • @julissac4260
    @julissac4260 Před 5 lety +7

    this is honestly a sad story, the mom is insecure and it's sad that it's going to rub off on the child in the future.

  • @cassandrasanchez9298
    @cassandrasanchez9298 Před 5 lety +4

    I’m planning on being a hair stylist and your videos really help me in what to expect and make me laugh 😂

  • @lauraburke9700
    @lauraburke9700 Před 5 lety +20

    Some clients are nuts 😂 this angered me for you

  • @JimeTania
    @JimeTania Před 5 lety +22

    Why is a baby in a hair salon period 🤦🏻‍♀️smh maybe the mom needed a hair cut lol

  • @kseniavanderhoff4850
    @kseniavanderhoff4850 Před 4 lety +2

    Mom of a 12 month old. Totally one of those “I just want the hair out of the eyes, and please don’t cut the ears off” type of person 🤣 can’t imagine how it’s possible to ask for anything more 😅

  • @faithborocz2721
    @faithborocz2721 Před 4 lety +1

    your voice is absolutely so soothing.

  • @brenda9228
    @brenda9228 Před 4 lety +3

    This poor baby’s gonna have self-confidence issues thanks to her mom when she’s older

  • @Nico6th
    @Nico6th Před 5 lety +10

    I kind of hope the baby turns out to be of the tomboyish girls who love to play have short hair and climb trees all day xD
    (and strong enough to get her way against her mother's wishes...)

  • @reed.7395
    @reed.7395 Před 4 lety

    OMGosh Sam...I was laughing hysterically. I can see this all going down, as if I was standing there watching. People are so nutty, she’s a baby my goodness. Thanks for the story, it was so funny.

  • @TheTuneProject
    @TheTuneProject Před 2 lety

    This lady was taking her own image issues out on her poor child. I feel for that kid so much!

  • @ReBecca-rl4bi
    @ReBecca-rl4bi Před 4 lety

    Your makeup look is PERFECT! It is so nice to see a CZcamsr with a beautiful natural makeup look. You look beautiful and glowing, I love it!

  • @ryanreyes8794
    @ryanreyes8794 Před 5 lety +28

    Oh hellllll nooo🤦🏻‍♂️ I would have had to fight LMAOO

  • @mahreek8650
    @mahreek8650 Před 4 lety

    Don't apologize, you are a great story teller! You aren't rude. Pop offffff sisssssssss

  • @FIBROMOM
    @FIBROMOM Před 5 lety +35

    Dude, I put my little girl in full pink, pink blanket, carrier and toys but always had to have someone call her HIM.. Mind you she had a head full of hair I could put bows in her hair when she was born.. LOL I never got that but I always corrected with SHE really is BEAUTIFUL

    • @arickak.7364
      @arickak.7364 Před 5 lety +1

      I had my daughter in a dress blue with pink butterflies pink ballerina slippers and a pink bow. 3 months old and someone said he is so cute like no biggie I'm just like yeah she is a cute squirt and moved on lol

    • @brianna4970
      @brianna4970 Před 5 lety +1

      @@arickak.7364probably because now a lot of people put their boy babies in girl clothes because "clothes have no gender"

  • @TanyaElisabeth
    @TanyaElisabeth Před 5 lety +1

    My hairdresser stopped styling kids many years ago. She had been my stylist for over 15 years, so I wanted her to do my son’s first hair cut. She was so happy to do it. My son was so pretty as a baby, almost always got called a girl. Was not even close to bothered. Moms like her, completely freakin neurotic and psycho.

  • @ivoryandgold88
    @ivoryandgold88 Před 5 lety +16

    If you're so hell bent on everyone knowing your baby is a girl, go to her pediatrician and get her ears pierced! Crazy what some ppl automatically associate with gender but that is one thing that I'm sure would work for this woman. If she was willing to get anything done to her baby's hair she probably wouldn't mind having her ears pierced.

    • @maeve.starlight
      @maeve.starlight Před 5 lety +1

      Yup. My mom got my ears pierced when I was 2 months old.

    • @lzlz21213
      @lzlz21213 Před 5 lety

      Yea that was my first thought. Never seen someone take a babygirl younger than 1 to a hair salon.

    • @k.anderson5039
      @k.anderson5039 Před 5 lety

      Shit Clair’s

  • @makaylamelton1898
    @makaylamelton1898 Před 5 lety +1

    This is a great video! Kinda funny because I work at a little kids hair salon and moms are sometimes SO CRAZY and picky! We’re franchising too so hopefully we’ll take those littles away from your salon for ya LOL! I know how much of a hassle they can be.

  • @heyitsminaa
    @heyitsminaa Před 5 lety +3

    So funny to hear this story, I work at a kids salon/ adult salon which 70 percent of our clients are kids Lol I’ve herd it all.. parents can be something let me tell ya.. 😂😂😂😂

  • @bobbij7089
    @bobbij7089 Před 5 lety +1

    I don't do hair but I do work in childcare and I can say with 100% honestly that the parents are WAY MORE WORK than their kids ever are! Even if a fussy, miserable baby cried all day that is still less stressful than the 10 minutes I spend with the mom. I feel bad for these kids in the end. God forbid her daughter not love pink and bows growing up. Yikes.

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety

      So true!

    • @tristenchunise8030
      @tristenchunise8030 Před 5 lety

      I can agree with this. I worked at Justice for Girls, and I actually loved the kids! It was the parents, especially the mothers, who always gave me a hard time.

  • @salma31000
    @salma31000 Před 5 lety +2

    i'm not into hair or anything but i like listening abt crazy client stories so do more and thanks for sharing =)

  • @Lanadelrae92
    @Lanadelrae92 Před 5 lety +6

    We need lots more stories. I love your stories :)

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  Před 5 lety

      Hahaha don't worry, I have a whole list of them!! ;)

  • @madisonl3401
    @madisonl3401 Před 5 lety +1

    I am loving these storytimes! You just gained a new sub, you are so funny and genuine 💚

  • @ilovesoiboiboobies
    @ilovesoiboiboobies Před 4 lety +1

    I’ve had a mom come into our salon and her daughter was 4 years old Asian, with long dark hair. She showed the stylist a picture of PLATINUM BALAYAGE. And the mom was like “I just want her hair to have dimension, like it’s all one color now and I want it to be blonde with dimension” meanwhile the kid can barely sit still for the consultation and could care less what her hair looks like because SHE’S 4! We were like “uhm that’s a hair color most adults won’t want to pay for, maintain, or sit that long for as it takes hours” (also your daughter is 4 let her have her natural hair you absolute psycho???) she kept insisting she wanted blonde and the stylist she was booked with ended up doing it and talking her into just doing a few subtle highlights on the ends. But I would have told he “no lady this isn’t create-a-character, I’m not bleaching your baby’s hair, get some therapy and put some money aside for your daughter’s therapy too because she’s probably going to need it.”

    • @ilovesoiboiboobies
      @ilovesoiboiboobies Před 4 lety +1

      Also side note, I’m all for coloring kids hair if they want it, if some kid is like “I want unicorn hair” I’m like “hell yeah! Let’s do it” but no 4 year old is scrolling through Pinterest like “omg yas her hair is #goals I need that dImEnSiOn”

  • @charliewright6273
    @charliewright6273 Před 4 lety

    People who get weird about their babies assigned gender just make no sense. If you're that convinced she needs to "look like a girl" put a pink dress and bows on her. Just accept the compliment about your baby being adorable, and politely correct people if it really bothers you. Also, I'm in love with this lip color so much!

  • @madik4191
    @madik4191 Před 4 lety

    I really appreciate your videos as a new stylist I definitely put a lot of pressure on myself and I will lose sleep over making a mistake. It is very refreshing to hear that every stylist goes through this

  • @ashleyclark4691
    @ashleyclark4691 Před 5 lety +1

    LOL you’re too funny! I’m a hairstylist also, so I totally get it! Some people have crazy expectations.

  • @OoMASEoO
    @OoMASEoO Před 4 lety +2

    Lmao [picturing a baby with extensions]

  • @codybrookehanson2346
    @codybrookehanson2346 Před 4 lety +1

    I have 3 daughters, they all got called boys and depending on the person/situation I would correct them politely and never think about it again. This baby was likely younger than 1 year if she had that little of hair and needed mom's support in a chair, like 6 or 8 months old tops. I don't do hair cuts on my girls until they get curious and do it to themselves first or they need a small trim here or there, usually about age 1 1/2 to 2 (they have the most amazing natural shirley temple curls - so I also never straight iron their hair).

    • @codybrookehanson2346
      @codybrookehanson2346 Před 4 lety +1

      And when I say depending on the situation or person I mean is it someone I could run into again, are they very old or hard of hearing etc. Just let it slide if it's a one time encounter, repeat encounters then I correct them. Even in super frilly girl clothes they would be called boys typically by older people (but look at your grandpa's baby photos, he was likely in a dress looking ensemble too - mom's sewed their own baby clothes without knowing what they were expecting).

  • @sadiehelen
    @sadiehelen Před rokem

    I feel so sad for that little girl. She’s going to go through her whole life with a mother that is overly worried about her looks. My mom was overly worried about mine, got me started with makeup at a young age. I had the same skin issues as her so I know she was trying to protect me, but now in my 30’s I cannot and will not be seen in public without a full face of makeup.

  • @BoringTroublemaker
    @BoringTroublemaker Před 5 lety +6

    Baby's going full Homer Simpson. 👴

  • @purplepeggy9027
    @purplepeggy9027 Před 4 lety

    Hello. I'm a mother of 2. They're grown & out on their own.
    I love babies,kids crack me up. I'm very livey dovey.
    BUT, I have zero,
    ZERO patience with them. I completely 150% understand how you feel. I could NEVER work with children. I often say that I'm so glad I'm done with all that Jazz. You remind me of my daughter. She is a lovely, beautiful soul. But she wants Nothing to do with kids. 😂
    Maybe in the future who knows. But yeah she's told me "I just dont lime lids, they annoy me" lololol
    I'm your classic love up the babies for 20mins then Okay, where's your mom ,or dad. Gotta go. lolol.
    You were VERY accommodating to the Eyelash Nazi from your other Horror Client Story.

  • @kayjaybeauty5568
    @kayjaybeauty5568 Před 5 lety +12

    my brother looked like a little girl when he was a baby, who cares? Theyre babies its hard to figure out different gender features until they grow a little. You want her to look more like a girl soooooooo bad then dress her better like she said

  • @jamilas3491
    @jamilas3491 Před 5 lety +5

    When you said she had 4 hairs....😂😭

  • @emilypresleysee
    @emilypresleysee Před 4 lety

    I have to say, as a mother of two boys, it drives me kind of nuts when people comment on my "beautiful girl" when they are clearly dressed in very "boy" clothing. I am usually polite unless I'm correcting someone for the 3rd or 4th time. I even have strangers butt in and say "can't you see that's a boy and not a girl?" Or "don't call that boy a girl!" 😆 In your defense though, I don't expect my friend, our stylist, to work miracles. She can only work with what she's got and I'm grateful that she had the patience to work with them. I appreciate her and everything she does!

  • @missmelodyjoy
    @missmelodyjoy Před 4 lety

    This is by far like, the funniest salon horror story I have ever heard 😂😂😂😂

  • @kayjaybeauty5568
    @kayjaybeauty5568 Před 5 lety +1

    girl you need to make more stories like this they are addicting

  • @MiFFiL
    @MiFFiL Před 4 lety

    I worked in a couple of kids salons.. moms are just crazy. They get so mad at you for things you cant control

  • @sarikatimmi
    @sarikatimmi Před 4 lety

    so great that ure not afraid to ask for help.
    esp when it comes to baby side swoops
    also, just tell ur next client this story abt why you were late and she’ll die laughing and be totally ok w it

  • @dominiqueeeee6179
    @dominiqueeeee6179 Před 5 lety +2

    Crazy!!! My daughter is 2 1/2 and we haven’t cut her hair, she has super fine dark brown hair and her hair is growing a natural “V cut”. She has short hair in the front around her face and she has long hair in the back! I couldn’t imagine cutting her hair at 1 or even now.

  • @themakeupdiary1
    @themakeupdiary1 Před 4 lety +1

    Sorry, this is hilarious!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
    I’m so sorry for u! I laughed out loud about 4 times!!!!
    There are so many crazy people in this world🤦‍♀️🤪🤪🤪🤪

  • @kburke1933
    @kburke1933 Před 5 lety

    You and the business went well beyond to please this woman. She's ridiculous. And kudos for you for asking for help / a second opinion. SO many people won't. 👏

  • @highpricedkid28
    @highpricedkid28 Před 3 lety

    Is it wrong of me anytime I hear/see people like this I secretly hope the child grows up super secure into their own ..and it's the complete opposite of what the parents are pushing/want to project on the kid

  • @MaggieGueder
    @MaggieGueder Před 4 lety +1

    CRAZY PEOPLE!! I know a woman who put acne products on her baby because she have a little "something" in her face, more like a rash to me, but whatever. She caused a huge alergy on her baby skin!!

  • @EmGrace4012
    @EmGrace4012 Před 5 lety

    Okay I’m late to the party here but I’ve just found your channel and i have been BINGING your videos! Love them all lol you’re great

  • @shellyluthultz8470
    @shellyluthultz8470 Před 4 lety

    From my experience you get to recognize people like that and you need to take control right off the bat(dont let them take control) . Also when they ask your opinion give it to them and then that's it.... dont let them keep talking. Just take control right away.

  • @michellehoman5351
    @michellehoman5351 Před 4 lety +6

    When my daughter was 2 months old she was wearing all pink had a pink head band on and frilly booties. A police officer asks me if it’s a boy or a girl I said oh she’s a boy, he looked at me strangely like “did I just hear that right” he says what’s his name I said Chelsea. 😂😂😂ask stupid questions you get stupid answers!

  • @sighcantthinkofaname
    @sighcantthinkofaname Před 4 lety +1

    God, people who care that much about gender are the WORST.
    I use to work at build a bear, and once this dad was like so uncomfortable with the whole thing because he thought build a bear was just for girls.
    I kept saying stuff about how boys come in all the time, especially since the store started getting Star Wars and Pokemon stuff, but he's clearly only dealing with the experience because mom really wanted to do it (the kid was a newborn, adorable little baby, mom clearly wanted to do something special).
    So they pick out a cute monkey that's popular with a lot of boys, stuff it, then we get to the heart ceremony.
    I offer the $6 beating heart, as is my job, he says no, I say that's fine and say they can pick out a plush heart, dad says no. I say it's included with the cost of the bear, and dad says "no, 'cause it's for a boy."
    I was a little struck, because this is something that goes inside the bear. It's not visible at all. Mom probably would've loved making a wish on the heart. But I just said ok and moved on....
    But according to this guys strict gender norms boys don't have hearts.