Guest Reveals How Black Women Are the Cause of Pain in Black Men!

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Komentáře • 768

  • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
    @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Před 18 dny +382

    LIES!! Men were not RIPPED out the house. Black women KICKED men out the house for Uncle Sam's check.

    • @bromack3
      @bromack3 Před 17 dny +37

      And thats how it works.... they have to sign a contract to get the benefits... the man, or the money.

    • @scarvello
      @scarvello Před 17 dny +22

      No by design and systematically men were ripped from the house. It didn’t start with the women but they were pawns in the agenda.

    • @Solider7
      @Solider7 Před 16 dny +34

      Black women betrayed and sold out Black men

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Před 16 dny +3

      @@bromack3 exactly!

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Před 16 dny +18

      @@scarvelloLIES. women CHOSE. No one forced them.

  • @lsowner10
    @lsowner10 Před 18 dny +377

    “Talk to me the same way you talk to your white boss!” KS

    • @Falcon2609
      @Falcon2609 Před 17 dny +15

      Facts

    • @carlosreid51
      @carlosreid51 Před 17 dny +13

      Simple and easy
      How is a black man suppose to teach a masculine woman that do got follow his leadership.

    • @tbutler6619
      @tbutler6619 Před 17 dny +23

      I say that every time. They wouldn’t interrupt a wh man. Liars. Take responsibility.

    • @CaramelCali
      @CaramelCali Před 17 dny +6

      Why would you talk you your husband the way you talk your boss? This sounds crazy

    • @tbutler6619
      @tbutler6619 Před 17 dny +16

      @@CaramelCali respect the boss. Not respect husband.

  • @TheCollector1985
    @TheCollector1985 Před 18 dny +222

    I'm tired of this blame game and lack of accountability of these bw. It's so annoying.

    • @TheQueenrevolution
      @TheQueenrevolution Před 17 dny +3

      The blame game literally means there is a lack of accountability on both ends... or it's not a game it's just blame from one side.

    • @itsgreat7150
      @itsgreat7150 Před 17 dny

      Let's see there are 500,000 more married BM than married BW.
      54% of BM are single and childless..
      But yet 70% of BW have kids out of wedlock.
      Which means BW are having babies by the same men.
      Women will never take accountability.

    • @vctry1995
      @vctry1995 Před 17 dny +33

      @@TheQueenrevolution you tried to say something deep, and said nothing, and you liked your own comment. stop looking for people to fix YOURSELVES

    • @kojoefante
      @kojoefante Před 17 dny

      You must be a woman lol

    • @KearoJenkins
      @KearoJenkins Před 16 dny

      @@TheQueenrevolution what blame game did the blackmen say he have a preference like Chris Brown say he prefer light skin women all blackmen say they don't like dark skin women so what blame game take accountability even Lil Wayne said he like a long hair thick red bone so why y'all complaining you black men are bitter you don't like black women but you want to continue on with none since you have your desirable womenwhich is the whitewoman the light skin woman and Mexican woman why do you keep black women on your mind why continue to talk about them because it shows you are bitter you want to find a reason to hate them so you go on a rant and make up all these assumptions on black women

  • @if.i.dusse_somyself7683
    @if.i.dusse_somyself7683 Před 18 dny +209

    They just making excuses for bad behavior

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Před 18 dny +23

      that is the female playbook
      make excuses
      blame a man
      cry
      get sisterhood cheering
      repeat mistakes

    • @ComaToast1
      @ComaToast1 Před 11 dny +2

      It’s actually insane the state of mind they’re in 😂

  • @marckristian81
    @marckristian81 Před 18 dny +243

    I want every black woman to hear this. You do not have it as hard as your male counterpart. There are no governmental programs set up to protect black men from their failures. You do have struggles/issues, but it's not even close to the load we have to carry on a daily basis.

    • @bromack3
      @bromack3 Před 17 dny

      Yep.... I know of several young black females that got pregnant just so they could get a check. A man can't do that.

    • @brandonnelson-ey5mt
      @brandonnelson-ey5mt Před 16 dny +3

      How about all Women in General, not just Black

    • @DonCaban252
      @DonCaban252 Před 16 dny +35

      ​​@@brandonnelson-ey5mt he said what he said! Get that ALL LIVES MATTER bs tfoh! The topic is US. NOT EVERYBODY.

    • @brandonnelson-ey5mt
      @brandonnelson-ey5mt Před 16 dny

      @@DonCaban252 well I'm sorry to hurt your feelings brother but it's the truth, black people are not special always wanna wine and complain about shit but never do nothing about it, and yes I said what I said too it's all women not just black

    • @KearoJenkins
      @KearoJenkins Před 16 dny

      @@marckristian81 quit crying grow up and be a man get out your panties why is you blaming black women black women is not the answer to your problem you are let's say if you dont pay your light bill and your lights get cut off are you going to blame black women no thats just like if you go to work and your boss man cut your hours are you going to blame black women no y'all are not babies yall are grown men so stop weeping it's annoying stop getting on internet crying to blackwomen

  • @user-sk7wv3xm6s
    @user-sk7wv3xm6s Před 17 dny +115

    They werent hearing y'all. This is how most conversations are.

  • @MssssppSoldier
    @MssssppSoldier Před 18 dny +130

    Yall need to rebrand this show as “How Women Cap” fr

  • @arthurhaywood2184
    @arthurhaywood2184 Před 18 dny +80

    Is anyone else noticing that when the men try to make a point there is immediate cut-off and pushback. Yet when one of the women say the exact same thing, they all agree!!!
    Right there that lets you know that it’s not what’s being said, it’s who’s saying it!

    • @kreativeforce532
      @kreativeforce532 Před 17 dny +13

      in the hood its called sonning. they are trying to son the men. i.e. be the mommy authority.

    • @dannymizz
      @dannymizz Před 16 dny +2

      My ex-wife was like that. The tactic is always let me diminish whatever you’re about to say before you can say it, so I don’t have to answer to it. No accountability ever.

  • @Djd271
    @Djd271 Před 18 dny +114

    Who are these big backs making all these complaints 😂

    • @KUROSHURA
      @KUROSHURA Před 16 dny

      They’re all Ugly. They all thought they had the Power. Now that they’ve aged out, they’re begging Black Men to come back to save them.

    • @djncredible503
      @djncredible503 Před 14 dny +5

      Because those sisters are dark-skinned and natural will not all that makeup on you want to call them big backs those are beautiful sisters and they representing the Black culture beautifully they don't need to be looking like a fake Barbie doll or blow up doll

    • @KUROSHURA
      @KUROSHURA Před 14 dny +11

      @@djncredible503 They can look like Naomi Campbell, Iman, Liya Kebede, Beverly Johnson, Grace Jones, Ana Fox, Osa Lovely, Naomi Banx, Jasmine Webb, Chanya Middleton and a whole plethora of other fine ass dark skinned Black Women that are fit, feminine and friendly even after children.

    • @lilouliving
      @lilouliving Před 13 dny +1

      ​@@KUROSHURAthey're not any of them you just named. They are THEMSELVES hence why we're all created uniquely.

    • @KUROSHURA
      @KUROSHURA Před 13 dny

      @@lilouliving There you go making more excuses for not becoming the best version of yourself.
      Do you think any of these Big Backs are Healthy?
      A Man has to have all of his Affairs in Order so that he can take on a Wife. And you expect Black Men that have their Affairs in Order to accept these Big Backs? You expect us to be shamed into Dating and Mating below the Standards of the Challenges that it took for us to get our respective Affairs in Order ?
      NO, that’s not happening.

  • @DanFreeman723
    @DanFreeman723 Před 17 dny +82

    Our women are always right & always must have the last word. They want you to submit to them.

    • @SemajNewton
      @SemajNewton Před 17 dny +16

      That’s why I say at some point you have to do you and not give a fuck most times when dealing with them. Make ya move and do what you plan and let them make the choice to cooperate or not, the discussion and arguments slow ya progress down.💯

    • @meezybeezy4711
      @meezybeezy4711 Před 17 dny

      EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION! THAT'S WHY IM DONE WITH BLACK WOMEN AT THIS POINT! PASSPORT BROS REDPILL M.G.T.O.W [MEN GOING THE POISONOUS MISANDRY HATRED OF MEN THE GROOMING OF THE MEDIA THE BRAINWASHING OF THE WOMEN BY THEIR OWN MOTHERS AND FEMINIST FEMALE FAMILY MEMBERS IS WAY TOO STRONG IF MICHAEL B JORDAN COULDN'T BE ENOUGH JEFF BEZOS TOM BRADY JOE SMITH WILL SMITH BIGGIE TUPAC MIKE TYSON USHER BILL COSBY ALL GOT PLAYED BY WOMEN

    • @dwaynehiler5735
      @dwaynehiler5735 Před 16 dny

      Them types aint women, and they definitely ain't ours. Them is unruly b words who subject to no one but their own feelings.

    • @bigwill9421
      @bigwill9421 Před 14 dny +8

      "The Need-To-Be-Right is pathological with the Modern Woman." ~KS

    • @marcopolo7768
      @marcopolo7768 Před 14 dny

      Not going to happen, not today

  • @BobaDavis
    @BobaDavis Před 18 dny +68

    All I just heard were reasons why it's not my problem, leave those women alone.

  • @christophersterling6788
    @christophersterling6788 Před 18 dny +54

    😂😂😂These hyenas are delusional 😂😂😂😂

    • @meezybeezy4711
      @meezybeezy4711 Před 17 dny +2

      EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION AND US BLACK MEN ARE TOTALLY TIRED OF THE B.S. AND DRAMA SO DRIZZLE DRIZZLE KING!

  • @asaashara2592
    @asaashara2592 Před 17 dny +31

    "Their mouths are our weapons". So our hands are our weapons as men but, most of us have self control so you don't get hit while you poppin off at the mouth

  • @tscott9005
    @tscott9005 Před 17 dny +31

    I’m sorry but the “we in this together” and “unity” stuff kills me when the destruction of BM is mainly caused by BW. And before someone says we are programmed by the past. My question is, if we have knowledge of this error and WE are so important to each other that the proof of effort to change this narrative should be apparent why is it not? And this the reason people are getting their passports. The way BM OR American women USED to be is how foreign women are traditional. Not weaker, just understanding their particular power and it is not to be a man but to be a woman.

  • @Solider7
    @Solider7 Před 16 dny +9

    Black women deliberately code switch when it comes to Black men vs non-Black

  • @African_Hamlet
    @African_Hamlet Před 17 dny +36

    😂😂😂😂😂, i am from Angola, Born in 86, 30 years war in my Country and every Woman in Angola is a lady. What are this hyenas talk about? So agressiv.

    • @hitek9too255
      @hitek9too255 Před 12 dny +4

      Exactly. They love bringing up they have act masculine because of all the illegitimate children and bad decisions they've made. Never heard any other women say anything like this.

    • @jessyKPOPLyrics
      @jessyKPOPLyrics Před 12 dny +1

      Girl that was pick me as hell

    • @African_Hamlet
      @African_Hamlet Před 11 dny

      @@jessyKPOPLyrics i am from Africa, this bulshit don’t Work with me. Try again. Girls that say another woman is a pik me is a H#%}. So you are one.

    • @thechosenone2786
      @thechosenone2786 Před 11 dny +2

      @@jessyKPOPLyricsGuuurl what you said was skip me as hell. If you ain’t getting picked then you getting skipped. 🗑️🥴🤣😂

    • @envymenace8224
      @envymenace8224 Před 11 dny

      @@jessyKPOPLyricsthis is what’s wrong with yall woman anytime a woman have a opinion that’s not in support of a female there a pick me grow up

  • @tilisho
    @tilisho Před 16 dny +16

    Within the first minute, that woman in brown had shown us everything we need to know!!

  • @p4rt_t1me_g0d
    @p4rt_t1me_g0d Před 18 dny +49

    The opening statement that black men were ripped from the black household in only about half true, the other half is that we were gleefully ousted from our households.

    • @ericperry72
      @ericperry72 Před 17 dny +19

      Never was ripped we were kicked out willingly.

    • @spiral_drip
      @spiral_drip Před 17 dny +4

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @itsgreat7150
      @itsgreat7150 Před 17 dny +1

      All comments are directly on point.💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🎯

    • @meezybeezy4711
      @meezybeezy4711 Před 17 dny

      EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION!

    • @tbutler6619
      @tbutler6619 Před 17 dny

      @@p4rt_t1me_g0d no accountability

  • @bakuramaximllion6101
    @bakuramaximllion6101 Před 18 dny +108

    Glad my black woman is from a foreign country …fellas expand your options not saying date out , but there are black women world wide that don’t hold the drama and trauma that we deal with even with our own women .

    • @laugh4freedom
      @laugh4freedom Před 18 dny

      Which country did U find your black woman in?

    • @bakuramaximllion6101
      @bakuramaximllion6101 Před 18 dny +17

      @@laugh4freedom I found in her the states but she was born and raised in Belize .

    • @demetriusevans4139
      @demetriusevans4139 Před 18 dny

      Just avoid Kenya.. They're worse than ABW

    • @laugh4freedom
      @laugh4freedom Před 18 dny +5

      @@bakuramaximllion6101 nice, I've been considering going 2 Belize. I've heard good things about Belize. Thanks Bro & Congrats 2 U, finding a good woman. ✊🏿

    • @smokenojoke8182
      @smokenojoke8182 Před 18 dny +13

      Date some African queens from the motherland they still value their men and are traditional. Afro Latinos as well.

  • @X-Factor-22
    @X-Factor-22 Před 17 dny +23

    I love the Sister with the hat on because she has the most balanced perspective.
    She understands that both Black men and Black women are victims of a horrible system that has caused us to be at war with each other. In order for us to move forward we BOTH need to be accountable, support each other and HEAL!

    • @shane-bl4jk
      @shane-bl4jk Před 17 dny

      It's not the system....it's your culture that causes ALL blk problems

    • @toysrus701
      @toysrus701 Před 16 dny +17

      She doesn't. No black man wants to come home to that. No man thats making money.

    • @X-Factor-22
      @X-Factor-22 Před 16 dny +2

      @@toysrus701
      I didn’t say she was perfect, but she did present herself as being someone that’s willing to meet you halfway.

    • @toysrus701
      @toysrus701 Před 16 dny

      @X-Factor-22 DO yourself a favor and ask ALL the men, matter of fact, I'll do you one better. Men that's reading this, would you marry this women, Marry, not fuk. Thumbs up or thumbs down this post. Let's see what the men say what's halfway or not. No man putting up with that tone

    • @TheJAGMUSIC
      @TheJAGMUSIC Před 14 dny +6

      @@toysrus701exactly that’s what I said. She too aggressive. Talk too much and never shut up.

  • @janedeane3656
    @janedeane3656 Před 18 dny +24

    women across the board do not act resepctfully towards men who represent the struggle

    • @ShadowMan23914
      @ShadowMan23914 Před 15 dny +2

      No other man outside of Black men represent the struggle, and no other community outside the Black community deals with the things that Black people do, because our problems are a result of our traumas from our history.

  • @mobxewing8003
    @mobxewing8003 Před 13 dny +4

    I love how our black people keep saying we struggle we struggle... We struggle with what we have the easiest life of anytime frame of any black person in the history of America

  • @civildiscourse7626
    @civildiscourse7626 Před 17 dny +10

    A man can sympathise or even empathise what’s she’s been through, he can even try to help her out…but that doesn’t mean he must bring that trauma into his life and start a family

  • @michaelputin3960
    @michaelputin3960 Před 18 dny +24

    If we use their logic then women from war zones and extremely impoverished environments throughout the world should be very masculine, mean and combative, but they are not! What have these black women gone through that was more traumatic than what a palestinian woman has gone through? Why has the palestinian woman and other women from actual war zones been able to retain their femininity but the black woman has not?

    • @younggodmanuelel6916
      @younggodmanuelel6916 Před 18 dny +11

      Damn brother profundity of your entire statement should be pinned on ever social media platform 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

    • @michaelputin3960
      @michaelputin3960 Před 18 dny +2

      @@younggodmanuelel6916 💪

    • @olatejubucknor9022
      @olatejubucknor9022 Před 18 dny

      They were programmed to be the way they were and no amount of averting their gaze to that fact will change them as they are intoxicated with the supposed power they have been given and continuously perpetuate the toxicity by the powers that be

    • @mnkwazi
      @mnkwazi Před 15 dny

      @@michaelputin3960 Let's be honest most of them are inherently less feminine. No group of men like most ABW. They are just howling trying to twist the narrative and pile on excuses.

    • @DamienKross20
      @DamienKross20 Před 12 dny +4

      🫡 Exactly!!!! I’m so tired of the cap these black females talk. Normal everyday life is a struggle or trauma smh. Gave up & long time ago & i have no desire to comeback to this nonsense

  • @AffectionateCardGame-kx1lk
    @AffectionateCardGame-kx1lk Před 17 dny +17

    I’m good on black women✌🏿 . I live in Houston it’s nothing but spicy Latinas here

    • @meezybeezy4711
      @meezybeezy4711 Před 17 dny +2

      EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY BROTHER ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION SO DRIZZLE DRIZZLE FOR SHIZZLE KING! HOLD IT DOWN H TOWN!

    • @brandonnelson-ey5mt
      @brandonnelson-ey5mt Před 16 dny

      Latinas??? They're just as bad if not worse

    • @darklordofyocommunitah4781
      @darklordofyocommunitah4781 Před 16 dny

      BW in Houston are bringing back syphilis. Google it. Continue to follow your instincts... SYSBM

    • @TheyCallMe_TC
      @TheyCallMe_TC Před 16 dny +5

      Save me one of them Latino joints , bout to book a flight my boy

    • @Pineapples-Mango_Smoothie
      @Pineapples-Mango_Smoothie Před 16 dny

      Some of us come from a long line of cowards this is a cowards cry

  • @blaclabel4762
    @blaclabel4762 Před 18 dny +16

    We’re only dismantled cause the dominant society gave you goodness to make you seem higher and better than us.. other than dispelling our declining.. you accepted it not knowing that it’s the very thing needed to dismantle the family.

    • @laugh4freedom
      @laugh4freedom Před 18 dny +1

      Facts!

    • @Cyber-Rain
      @Cyber-Rain Před 18 dny +4

      All it took was a welfare check and some government cheese.

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY Před 18 dny +2

      Damn shame...it wasnt thst simple but erosion is a mf

  • @TsarOfRuss
    @TsarOfRuss Před 17 dny +7

    You can easily tell the girl in blue is a very abusive and manipulative person, she looks guilty when the other girl said dont use your kids as a tool against his father !

  • @bigdaddyromeo9631
    @bigdaddyromeo9631 Před 17 dny +13

    Growing up I used to tell my mom I love her and she would say okay I will hear her say it to other people but she never said it to me until I was an adult so when I got married it was hard for me because my worst fear was my wife leaving me and the question in my head was how can someone that gave birth to you not love you so why do you love me when you can leave anytime you want that's the psychological fucked-up shit that was going through my head with the person I was with for 13 years I know it may seem stupid put my problems that I had in my childhood with my mother affected my adult relationship until I decided to get therapy

    • @ADG.Est.1988
      @ADG.Est.1988 Před 17 dny +1

      I'm happy you got therapy.

    • @ADG.Est.1988
      @ADG.Est.1988 Před 17 dny +1

      My mother rarely told me she loved me as a child she even disowned me on several occasions. I felt the same way you did. How can a woman love me when my own mother didn't . With my mom, hebr classmates and friends were always first..she would jump for them. My mother was insecure and didn't Love herself. Therefore she couldn't love me.

    • @stan_themfman
      @stan_themfman Před 16 dny

      My mom gave me an awkward smile when I said I loved you to her and I never grew up hearing her say it to me. Never said those words to her ever again

  • @BIGDDrome
    @BIGDDrome Před 17 dny +9

    Guy in the middle had something there. Black Women almost automatically exclude a black man over other races. Why?

    • @JusTheKing.
      @JusTheKing. Před 15 dny

      Because Eve still hates Adam and does everything she can to rebel against Adam's inevitable authority.

  • @calculatedrisk1
    @calculatedrisk1 Před 18 dny +11

    Damn I really be watching ya’ll content cause I remember all these old show clips. I wish you guys nothing but success…

  • @jpoupart23
    @jpoupart23 Před 16 dny +4

    After seeing how Auston Holleman treated him insulting and mistreating him…it is understandable why black guys do not want to repeat the same agony with another black woman…

  • @lordknight9908
    @lordknight9908 Před 18 dny +19

    Yo next time, ask them what struggles are they talking about, please?

    • @lsowner10
      @lsowner10 Před 18 dny +5

      They will tell you the same thing every responsible adult is going through.

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY Před 18 dny

      BW are the lowest in the dating market...thsts saying something

    • @malrofo
      @malrofo Před 17 dny +1

      The wage gap while simultaneously being girl bosses and only meeting men that make less money

    • @12stnumbers95
      @12stnumbers95 Před 16 dny +5

      Self induced from single mother-hood

  • @youngw1ze
    @youngw1ze Před 17 dny +8

    We all have "baggage"....part of being an adult is not making it other people's problem....🤷

  • @bb3ll07
    @bb3ll07 Před 17 dny +6

    I don’t struggle everyday as a black woman … she doesn’t speak for me!
    I chose not the struggle and my parents didn’t put me through struggle 😂
    I’m glad I’m married and don’t have these problem….

  • @6fig
    @6fig Před 17 dny +6

    I agree with the sister. black women have been through a lot, But so have black men. Instead of being there for each other and understanding the pain and trauma that we all have been through ... We decide to tear each other down and pedestalized The people , who historically ,have been the ones that have caused the pain and trauma.

    • @balooprime8130
      @balooprime8130 Před 10 dny

      That's why it is called "Divide and Conquer "

  • @keyz12
    @keyz12 Před 16 dny +3

    How can you get an understanding when you're constantly cut off every time someone talks they get interrupted

  • @errol484
    @errol484 Před 15 dny +2

    I would like to offer an example to paint a cycle of perpetual unaccountability.
    1. Bob is 37 and desperately in need of losing weight.
    2. Despite repeated doctor's recommendation, Bob takes no initiative to change his eating or physical activity lifestyle.
    3. Bob continues to gain.
    4. Bob blames his continued gain on "institutional racism," "slavery," and "his friends not supporting him."
    In conversations involving relationship dynamics between Black men and women, the above illustration is the mindset that I see repeated again and again.
    I have one simple question: if you do not take the daily initiative to change something in yourself, why will it change?

    • @JeffTheGent
      @JeffTheGent Před 13 dny +1

      💯! The excuses have _got_ to go.

  • @TommyMackShow
    @TommyMackShow Před 17 dny +7

    Man i just stay away from THEM.

  • @gabeneal5546
    @gabeneal5546 Před 17 dny +2

    No one in this panel is listen to each other, they are just focused on their points of view. The key is to listen and adjust and learn.

  • @cmartin6109
    @cmartin6109 Před 17 dny +19

    Stay away from these types. There are better quality black women out there

    • @southeastoriginal5668
      @southeastoriginal5668 Před 14 dny +2

      Where is the question? And bad thing is they don’t run in packs and influence the good ones. It’s like a gang and you the only square in the hood. They will turn you out

    • @hitek9too255
      @hitek9too255 Před 12 dny +2

      No they're not.

  • @alpheushill4292
    @alpheushill4292 Před 17 dny +2

    I don't need to handle no one, I don't need a headache, I will walk out, suckers stay, rich men don't get headaches from sister's. You can never get rich with headache in your house.

  • @jsonf1848
    @jsonf1848 Před 18 dny +5

    Love the channel... You guys should bring back some of yah original guests to see if their thoughts or perspectives have changed.

  • @natsusatsujinki8342
    @natsusatsujinki8342 Před 13 dny

    I've witnessed a caring and far as I know loyal black man do it all for a black woman. Took care of her and HER kids financially. She seemingly didn't appreciate her blessing but God rewards the men that takes care of widows(single mothers) and orphans (kids with no involvement from their father). He ended up with a woman that matches his energy.

  • @michaelputin3960
    @michaelputin3960 Před 18 dny +6

    But somehow magically they know how to straighten up and get feminine when they decide to "divest"! They even have books on how to soften up and become pleasant for Zaddy. The reality is that they don't think that black men are worth the effort of being cooperative and feminine for.

  • @Heavon1999
    @Heavon1999 Před 18 dny +6

    It’s not our responsibility to understand another person that’s not open! Here we go again.. it’s the same lyrics you know…

    • @technofilejr3401
      @technofilejr3401 Před 17 dny +2

      Yep life is too damned short. If she isn't on my program she can kick rocks.

  • @dannymizz
    @dannymizz Před 16 dny +1

    accountability is kryptonite for some, but it is king for all of us.

  • @philemery5644
    @philemery5644 Před 14 dny +1

    The discrimination between “black men” and “black women” never can be compared! Never!

  • @Briefly21
    @Briefly21 Před 12 dny

    The first time someone stated that I was oppressed as a woman, it p*sided me off. I knew I had any opportunity I was will to work/sacrifice for. I’m glad I never adopted the victim mentality, it just leads to bitterness, anger, and self-oppression. Victims will never be victors.
    Ladies, the only thing holding you back is your attitude and your mindset, not your race and gender. Keep claiming the latter if it makes you feel better, but it will never lead to self-awareness, growth, nor success. Let’s keep it real.

  • @r0der1ck_0nl1ne
    @r0der1ck_0nl1ne Před 12 dny +1

    I'm actually done with that narrative of us being divided because of historical legacies. We're all adults, make better decisions.

  • @jetson35georgej
    @jetson35georgej Před 16 dny +2

    Why they never want to be accountable

  • @Trying2beholy
    @Trying2beholy Před 13 dny

    I heard a wise man tell a woman:
    “When it comes to the man you don’t want, you’re the prize. But when it comes to a man you do want, he’s the prize.

  • @ManMondayMusic
    @ManMondayMusic Před 16 dny +2

    They wanna be hard-core rappers minus the danger... then when the danger comes they blame...

  • @LowGD
    @LowGD Před 12 dny

    Women swear they know men, how you know what my support system looks like as far as me and my homies. The difference between our support system is simple, we hold our brothers accountable.

  • @heruapocalypse2021
    @heruapocalypse2021 Před 18 dny +2

    When You know what You You're doing.And You're doing wrong.And You're purposely setting to out Destroy Somebody.Then at that point You absolutely must take accountability for Your Own Actions.

  • @jruss5414
    @jruss5414 Před 16 dny

    Regardless if you agree or disagree on what both parties said this is a great debate that really needs to be talked about and the way you all talk about it was top notch. It was mostly respectable and thought provoking. Bravo to these fine gentlemen and ladies. This is the right path to take, a good dialog.

  • @scarvello
    @scarvello Před 17 dny +2

    These men are giving actual life experiences and the women are speaking figuratively. Case closed

  • @ronniemills3246
    @ronniemills3246 Před 10 dny

    This year has really opened up my eyes to women they will not be honest about themselves or about other women, this morning I really found this out with my wife shr will not admit anything negative about herself or other women

  • @SlapsturntoSMMMMMACK
    @SlapsturntoSMMMMMACK Před 12 dny

    It’s not dismantlement, it’s a lack of nourishment: nowadays people’s criteria are purely material, forgetting that all that stuff just helps you get by in life, you can’t take it with you when you go. People forgot how to find a man or woman who gives them peace of mind, happiness, love, and most importantly loyalty. Is this person going to cause me drama when I get home, is this person going to lie. What we need to look for is nourishment for the heart, and all good things will follow.

  • @B1ack_Manta
    @B1ack_Manta Před 16 dny +7

    This shit never gonna get fixed and there's no point in believing in "Black love". This is WHY I left "Da' Communitah".

  • @313massey
    @313massey Před 12 dny

    We both been thru the same thing, but you yelling and I can hold my composure😂

  • @lch7876
    @lch7876 Před 4 dny

    What she said, a woman's weapon is her mouth and their aloud to use it with impunity, but a man has to keep his weapon sheaved at all times, and a woman is aloud to use a mans weapon with impunity as well. This statement speaks volumes, but who will hear, or acknowledge it?😔

  • @GoddKi
    @GoddKi Před 16 dny +1

    Home girl in the brown is literally a walking contradiction. Home girl with the hat the only one up there with awareness and understanding.

  • @maleekpate6770
    @maleekpate6770 Před 16 dny

    This conversation came full circle ⭕️ different opinions but mutual understanding 🤝🏾 a move in the right direction

  • @emmaabumere2870
    @emmaabumere2870 Před 17 dny +1

    Show them the mirror of accountability and their goofiness and all of a sudden they start to be nice and stutter.

  • @URNOTADJ
    @URNOTADJ Před 15 dny +1

    “I don’t know why Men don’t approach women anymore”, yes you do…

  • @justinstamp5375
    @justinstamp5375 Před 17 dny +3

    Then they come with. We have a way harder yo, this shit is terrible How am I 24 with more common sense than my elders this shit pisses me off.

  • @WinsOnly
    @WinsOnly Před 15 dny +1

    One think I’m really starting to hate is convoluted ideas.

  • @Clue4488_
    @Clue4488_ Před 14 dny

    We will always come up with excuses why black women and men aren’t not nice to each other. Society isn’t robbing us of these things anymore. We have so much information and know better!
    We play the victim in 2024 and it’s ridiculous.

  • @jeremiahhudson302
    @jeremiahhudson302 Před 16 dny +2

    Pookie and Ray Ray aggressive black women don't know what a real black man is

  • @user-iv7bi7wg1i
    @user-iv7bi7wg1i Před 17 dny +2

    they don't want the "understanding man"

  • @malrofo
    @malrofo Před 18 dny +3

    On what planet is someone supposed to work harder for less reward?

    • @cmartin6109
      @cmartin6109 Před 17 dny +5

      planet of the mad black woman

    • @TheyCallMe_TC
      @TheyCallMe_TC Před 16 dny +3

      ​@@cmartin6109Tyler Perry movie titles be like

  • @VeganRashad
    @VeganRashad Před 10 dny

    My mother only dated married black men my father included. She was never home. My mother let men beat me . My mothers other son was repeatedly Graped for years and there were signs. He is now married to a man. I was in foster care after foster care all over the country and eventually ended up living with with my dads side of the family. My mother is now considered a black Queen who Cant do no wrong. And she is still causing hell trying to ruine me because quote “ you are the only kid that doesn't give me money”. She hangs out with my exes and talks shit about me to people who report it back to me. She has to be stopped.

  • @Letgetittv2
    @Letgetittv2 Před 13 dny

    The black woman is a lost cause. We haven’t abandoned her , but now that we actually are abandoning them they are lashing out.

  • @MrEllipsis423
    @MrEllipsis423 Před 16 dny

    This was actually a good convo

  • @kaidakemes1260
    @kaidakemes1260 Před 15 dny

    That women with the blk hat iz 1000% on piont blk men and blk women Dismantle. She on point.

  • @cmdeeqtee7057
    @cmdeeqtee7057 Před 12 dny

    I'm NOT wasting my time trying to "handle" a problematic female. Either she's with me or not with me. No man can change a woman. That female decides what kind of female she is going to be.

  • @williigillyard8210
    @williigillyard8210 Před 16 dny

    She hit the nail on the head. Im not a woman. I play my part in parenting. When its time for discipline, im on the clock for sure with my boys.

  • @philosophicalwoods
    @philosophicalwoods Před 16 dny

    She got more sense than 90% of the internet.

  • @loutlaw854
    @loutlaw854 Před 12 dny

    It's your responsibility as a Woman to NOT over talk the man or interrupt him in the midst of his speech ....😳🧐🧐🧐

  • @oldmanmag9905
    @oldmanmag9905 Před 17 dny +3

    So sick of the victim talk. "They havent faced what we faced!" So that should make you more understanding not more hard. The kindest men are the ones who have went through the worst shit in their lives. We go through it so we know how hard life can be and are more kind/ understanding to what people are going through. Women just go in the other direction oh bad thing happens to me so everyone else needs to be KIND TO ME OR ELSE!! Just sad. They could have the world if they stop trying to be victims and instead try not to make more victims by their shitty behavior

  • @geniuse8332
    @geniuse8332 Před 14 dny

    Them: It’s because of things that happened when I was a baby, or before I was even born, that I am the way that I am.
    Me: Ok, but after learning how you are now is problematic, why do you choose to stay the same while blaming everyone else?

  • @jzurita6186
    @jzurita6186 Před 17 dny +1

    Just the fact that they're dancing around the points being made while over talking them is proof enough that they don't respect men

  • @manuelshaul9244
    @manuelshaul9244 Před 13 dny

    I'm a black man. I get it. The women saying we both been torture and that's it. It's nothing else we a destroy nation. We all need GOD first to heal us. We trying to live properly in a destroyed nations and we keep blaming each other we it's not our fault. We just tortured people

  • @dekoflores3637
    @dekoflores3637 Před 16 dny +1

    They don't care is just like my mom, and my son got the same problem they just don't care

  • @ankhhaftukuhfu2322
    @ankhhaftukuhfu2322 Před 16 dny

    To fix the problem, we address the person who started the problem. That's the responsibility of the man as problem solvers. It can't be done by one man, which is why black men have to learn to work together on a larger scale

  • @carbonneutron7678
    @carbonneutron7678 Před 16 dny

    I can’t believe as a man he said why not go outside your race bc it’s to hard to work with black women not saying simp but if our women are going out we go with them…

  • @zachashh4864
    @zachashh4864 Před 16 dny +1

    The black men were ripped out of the black household by the black women. Smh

  • @mr.dennis5503
    @mr.dennis5503 Před 3 dny

    "So when you meet me I'm guarded!"
    Unless I'm 6'5", with a face like Prince, and look like I live in a gym! If "that dude" approaches, all her "guards" collapse like the Walls of Jericho!
    "Women's mouth; that's our weapon!" Ma'am, that's not a flex!

  • @atoiswearableart4196
    @atoiswearableart4196 Před 12 dny

    She got a point

  • @ShadowMan23914
    @ShadowMan23914 Před 15 dny +2

    Yall brothas need to stop talking if yall can't keep yourselves together. Too often I see that we fail to get our points across because yall show weakness in the face of their aggression and you allow yourselves to be tripped up. These sistas spouting this nonsense have no points, and they aren't being genuine. When issues are one-sided then we need to stop tryna compromise and take half the blame, we need to let it be what it is, and we need to beam them down with facts rather than choking up. These sistas talking points were easily refutable but yall let them control the conversation. Smdh, yall betta drop yall nutts and tell it how it is, otherwise there ain't no point in even attempting to have these discussions, there ain't no agreeing to disagree in the sphere of solutions nor problem solving.

  • @PhatzTheMedia
    @PhatzTheMedia Před 14 dny

    The problem with these podcasts/platforms is, people constantly talk over each other. How can you debate a topic without being able to explain yourself?

  • @Mysteriouslyhidden7
    @Mysteriouslyhidden7 Před 13 dny +1

    Stop using the past as an excuse for treating your man bad..✌🏾

  • @JayTillman45
    @JayTillman45 Před 11 dny

    I’ve been fortunate enough to have traveled all over the world; can someone please explain why so many women in poverty stricken areas and obviously struggling, still maintain their femininity?

  • @Jazz313
    @Jazz313 Před 15 dny

    True

  • @kennethwill246
    @kennethwill246 Před 16 dny

    Yall let that women on the far left end talk. She's on point with what she is saying.

  • @corwinjkabuki
    @corwinjkabuki Před 17 dny +1

    It is NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY to understand you Beau.

  • @outkast40
    @outkast40 Před 13 dny

    Black folks from other countries don't spend time blaming Europeans for the past. They come here to get things done.

  • @BoxingTheologian
    @BoxingTheologian Před 14 dny

    1:32 He wrong right here. Yes, men should be the one to not only teach women femininity but also, their true God-given role as women first the betterment of the family unit.

  • @tekkamansol1228
    @tekkamansol1228 Před 15 dny

    So strong women

  • @angelodavis4069
    @angelodavis4069 Před 11 dny

    What I've learned with bw, is that they'll make any excuse to still be on bs, but complain about the atmosphere they created.