Are Asian Men Starting To DENY Asian Women?
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I am Asian American in my 30s living in California. Throughout my whole life, Asian American women have openly made fun of Asian men. Saying they are unattractive and updateable.
I stand with you, brother!
My bros are married to Latinas, they can not deal with asian women! Maybe its like dating your sista?😂✌
Asian man here. I stopped dating Asian girls due to snobbishness and over valuing themselves. Gone Latina and Eastern European girls for years. They love me much more.
Yeah! Shallow personality will always be a turnoff. They act like gods when alot of them are 3/10 on a good day 💀💀💀
@@jeremiahm_8626Come on man, putting down your own people is terrible. The world would be so great if we all had high rates of endogamy so we don’t need to care about power dynamics and racial hierarchy and what not.
@@jeremiahm_8626 damn 3/10 is tough😂 I’m sure there’s some cute Asian women😂
@@jeremiahm_8626 3 is generous…
@@jeremiahm_8626 can't agree more
I know 5 Asian brothers .... the oldest only dates white girls/ the 3 in the middle only date Latinas, and the youngest only dates black girls.
good on your bros, go where you're loved, not where you're barely tolerated
This! It’s actually much more common than you think.
They all either got burned by Asian girls, saw the example their brother went through or hit it off with someone else first. Everyone wants a chance at happiness, and if that means socially "getting out of the preconceived notion box" then so be it. You didn't want someone like you, Asian ladies, when the brothers ran those clips of you all griefing Asian males? Then the Asian males will went folks who don't flat-out reject them without showing what they could offer.
@@theodorehsu5023 I would agree they been burned out. Asian males have always been attracted to asian females but she has a ..other race hotness and Asians are friendzone.
Good on them. It’s cool that they can find happiness wherever and with whom ever.
Being asian, I thought growing up that I would end up marrying an asian woman. However, none of the asian girls I met or dated were interested. I didn't fall in love with my wife because she was white. I fell in love with her because of she a truly awesome person. Side note: she had about 20 guys following her around thinking they had a chance with her.
Be careful with women like that. The moment things so boring or she sees another who she feels will give her a better opportunity of hypergamy, they will use anything to find a reason to leave with child support and alimony.
Bro don’t get married just have kids. Do you even have kids with her. You’re cucked out the gene pool if you don’t have kids btw getting a white girl isn’t a win procreating and making sure your dna lives in the generation is. It’s not marriage that’s win marriage is actually the worst thing for a man in the west you get cucked by the government she can cheat and leave with no fault divorce
@@wanglee21yep. They have their back up men ready to go.
Solution - NEVER PUT A RING ON IT NO MATTER WHAT! Always strive to get the milk for free till the day you die! Life is stressful and expensive enough already so nothing wrong with getting and taking advantage of all the freebees any chance you get!
@@wanglee21 lol lot of women are like that now a day so not sure how man gona dodge that it like if u try to dodge water melon u could get hit by coconut a lot of trickster now aday kinda wonder just matter of time when other people could be trick u, and man in modern day are very agressive just like women too they like lion on the hunt for their pride of lion for their own too, don't matter much if they are like normadic look for oportunity to took over and extablis their pride of lionesss, or pride male looking for expand expand their territory
Thing is, when Asian women put down Asian men, sooner or later, Asian men won't think Asian women would give them fair play. So when you feel your ethnic peers won't give you anything but grief, you go to folks who will at least give you a chance. Earlier, the Brothers ran a clip where Asian women put down Asian guys. Now the guys are going "With that attitude, ladies, WE don't like YOU either." Granted not ALL Asian women are like that, but once hurt badly, they go "Won't be hurt again."
Exactly! I found it very satisfying watching that asian woman lose her mind over asian guys dating a non-asian woman.
most white boys are broke as fuk....inflation has made them broke
As a nerdy latino i feel your pain
@michaelzero5278 don't let that get you down. Nerds can be cool.
Stay nerdy, bro!
@@michaelzero5278 Nerdy Latino and Native Americans welcomed to Asian community lol, you're Asians that left China and went to the Americas anyway
This phenomenon is interesting because it’s mostly been one sided Asian women are infamous for saying things like this
It is still a big problem in America where asian girls throw themselves at a white guy and turn down asian guys. This is the only option a lot of asian guys have right now
Now they’re getting a taste of their own medicine! 🤷🏻♂️ That’s what they get for being a bunch of sellouts 💀
Asian women have the biggest double standards.
@@jeremiahm_8626 Singaporean Chinese women really need to get that taste :D
san francisco, a 50% asian population, a good chunk refuse to date asian guys and just go for white. This is why some schools are almost entirely hapa now. There is simply way more expectations asian women and asian family puts on the asian guy vs a white guy. So that is like the only option really
Asian men used to rank low in interracial dating…Asian boys moved up in the past years so it’s more about what else they can tap into now that their value is up.
It's all about who treats you with love and respect versus who treats you with hate and rejection.
This day couldn't have come soon enough. Power to all my Asian brothers!
Lol
This day actually came a long time ago...long before Bruce Lee. White women have always liked Asian guys. The problem is Asian guys are always to shy to date white women. I know many white women who thought Asian men just don't like them. Can you see how this is an age-old misunderstanding?? Both groups thought the other does not like them. Very ironic. White women's true match is with Asian men. It's hard to explain, but this is a fact.
@@k.kaihsieh9998 Asian men white relationship were illegal till 1967. So you can imagine it wasn't easy even in 80s and 90s
Well, if you guys are happy I, a a Brazilian, I'm happy too. Because i like Asian girls. We are all happy then! :v Latinos are here to fill the void!
@@JohnnyLynnLeeLatin have one of most beautiful women. They all look so young and feminine. They be making food you only dream off. As Asian I don’t mind Latina women.
Here in Massachusetts, I see Asian guys with White girls in shockingly large numbers. I'm also talking about the engineer and geek types too. Most of the Asian guys in MA are high-income earners with bachelor's (or master's) from prestigious universities like Harvard or MIT. I don't think these White girls are going out of their way to find Asian guys, but they are gravitating toward someone financially successful and intelligent with a good head on their shoulders, which there are plenty among Asian guys compared to other races.
I agree!
@@maritzamartinez5376 Good future, good head on shoulders, and a better heart than someone else with entitlement issues, family money and an Ego the size of Texas. That's what everyone wants.
I’m actually from Texas 😂 but yes that’s why I’m dating an Asian man as well. I mean what more can I ask? 😩
This is dwarfed by the sheer number of wmaf couples. Go to Boston and they’re literally everywhere.
@@maritzamartinez5376 do you love asian man as in romantically or just digging gold.
As a Latino/Hispanic Im happy to see Asian men open their dating options on who date. It's bad to put any race of women on a pedestal.There are attractive and unattractive people in any race. People should who date based on the person's actual looks, character, and personality.
Hispanic women are hawt! 🔥
I'm a SE Asian man in my 50s. My ex-wife was a very attractive natural red head (arguably the biggest mistake of my life btw). My current wife is a Colombiana and was an absolute smoke show in her prime. In between my ex and current wives, I was always pulling attractive women... I can honestly say that I've turned down better women than most men have ever had. Back then I was always getting hit on and being asked out by white girls, black girls and Latinas due to the fact that I was good looking... the fact that I had solid social status didn't hurt either. That being said, even when I was in my prime, I was never asked out by an Asian girl. It's a shame really because I've always found my own kind attractive. Too bad the attraction wasn't reciprocated.
Whats your sell? Are you tall? Beautiful face? Exceptionally confident?
@@leigh7507 Tall? lol, not at all... I'm 5'6" But when I was young, I was very easy on the eyes. Random women would tell me so to my face on a regular basis. On top of that I was in shape. Even now that I'm old and way beyond my prime, women I've never met before will tell me I'm handsome. TBH, all that attention when I was younger did make me exceptionally confident, even to the point of arrogance at times. Couple that with the fact that my profession (then and now) tends to impress women, I guess you could say I was dealt a winning hand.
@ReyMundo-fx9rk fair play. Women rarely compliment men so if you get compliments you probably are in the top 10% in terms of looks
@@leigh7507 Time to hit the gym then brother... women of all stripes dig a hard body... then again, even when I had a hard body, no Asian girl ever asked me out. Ah well.
@ReyMundo-fx9rk oh I'm actually fine. I've slept around a lot too. Not with models but I was fine with.avarage women who were fun to be around
I am an Asian girl and I get the same amount of attention from both non-Asian men( this includes white, latino, middle-eastern, south asian and black) and Asian men, but would prefer to date my Asian counterpart. I NEVER feel attracted to white or black men. So really, it is a personal preference. I do have to say that Asian men who are not westernized -meaning the ones still are dominantly influenced by traditional cultures can be very difficult to get along with simply because the way we think differently. At the end of the day, people can and should date anyone they feel connection with regardless of their race or cultural backgrounds. There is no point to diss each other
preach, asian guys are always the most handsome
Why don't you like your men ? Because they are traditional? Lol
Nothing wrong with being traditional, like family values and hardwork. AM had to put up with all the bs from self-hating AFs. Many AM have had enough. With AM popularity on the rise, many are now dating out. I've dated WF and BF. I got a lot of angry looks from AF and WM, it's like they couldn't process it.
You sound like the kind of woman to generally stay away from, honestly. But enjoy your life ✌️
@@Jwebb-zh9gj huh? elaborate?
Well yeah, why would Asian men want to share their resources and wealth (that’s on the up and up) with certain types of underserving women? We all know who they are.
You guys are years behind >:) Been dissing these High Maintenance Asian Gals since the Laserdisc Karaoke Years! Greetings from Westminster in the OC!
k-pop and K-dramas put Korean guys on the map, and by proxy, all Asian men. Asia girls are now noticing Asian men because non Asian girls are checking for therm. Asian men do you and date whoever you want. I as a non Asian Brother support you and Salute you in the fight!
As a Vietnam I don’t like it. Now whites mistaken any half decent looking lighter Asian for a Korean. Vietnam already put itself on the map by defeating France, the US, and China. Handled 3 great powers in less than 4 decades
Shohei Ohtani too dominating America's past-time.
@@JapanQuestAnd Japanese football (soccer) players becoming a regular and popular sight throughout many European leagues (compared to 30 years ago) as well.
THANKS BTS AND KPOP
💯
I’ve (Asian) dated women of all races except Asian women and Im currently in a relationship with a white-latina. It’s never been a struggle to attract women of any race for me and Im open to dating any women. Personally many AFs are not my type which is why I haven’t dated one
Nothing wrong with that. Besides, why the hell would you want to date an asian woman who will just emasculate you?
do you brother!
They look like your sisters. I don't blame you.
@@pizzlong
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Asian woman arnt ur type ur cappin 😂. Every race of men love Asian women.
I’m a mixed guy, half Asian, half white and I’ve only ever dated white women. The main reason for this is because I’ve never been able to emotionally connect with Asian women due to all of the ones I’ve met being very cold, snobby, and materialistic.
This align with my experience too.
Finally I'm seeing the Asian brothers putting these broads in check publicly.
The disrespect been at a all time high and the fellas been real respectfully silent.
Eff that lovevthe fact you dudes are using your voices.
I'm a blaque dude seeing my Asian friends going through this,been hooking them up with a lot of latinas.
I don't Asian women (2nd gen+) out of self love. Don't need to deal with their self hating, status chasing, "you remind me of my brother/father" bs. I'm still open to native or 1st gen Asian women but I'm not fluent in the language.
If a nonAsian girl's man looks like her father/brother, she would get on her knees and suck him off faster. The Asian woman strangely doesn't think like this
Nah, no thanks. As a 6 foot, rich, handsome Asian guy with lots of options, it’s still Asian women for me, 100%. Smooth skin, don’t age so quickly, smarter and less entitled. Also don’t smell.
cheers, king.
which famous asian guys do you think you look like?
@@reigenlucilfer6154 i dont like him but a lot of people say i look like wang xiaofei.
@@TD-yj8ch I prefer Asian women, mainly East Asian looks but only those from Asia. Christian Arabs, West Asian and North African women are great options too. They're beautiful and often overlooked.
@@npcsenpai1185 I don’t really discriminate, think there is beauty in all races, but at end of the day I like my women with smooth hairless skin.
@@chickendinner5572 Bruce Willis, my condolences! They tell me I look like an Asian Ted danson or Ben afflek. I think they are both so so, but I guess I got a long face!
No other Asian girl has liked me since middle school so my heart goes out to the home girls that are outside my race ever since then. 💯
Girls of other races hotter anyway
14:55 I agree, no need to be disrespectful and bash Asian women even if some of them bash us, but I will always have respect for my fellow Asian brothers dating outside their race and breaking racist stereotypes about us, and this is coming from an Asian guy who mostly hooks up with Asian women cause they find me attractive.
I'm happy Asian men are expanding their options, hope to see more ambw couples. 😉 ❤️
Bet
I love beautiful black women. It's not a fetish but it's an appreciation
This one ☝🏽
Woot! ambw!!!
Exactly the sistas have been waiting for this. I have a mostly asian friend group and so many black women ask me to hook them up with one of the men. I myself am with a white puerto rican though
If your an asian guy who's prime dating years were pre bts/kpop wave and you got any girl back then. You deserve a metal for that
@@Billdean25 eat 🍆
I deserve many medals then!
White, black and latinas all pre kpop.
@@Billdean25Found the creepy mediocre insecure yt guy 😂
Used to prefer Japanese women being Japanese myself, but years of hearing my mother and sister emasculate men right and left makes it increasingly hard to desire them. If she’s on a similar wavelength then I usually don’t care what color skin, just don’t like the ones that act like they’re too good for their own race. Dating in the US as an asian male is a whole new level of fucked, but I have had more success outside of my race despite spending a better half of my life around mostly Japanese people.
Having preference is fine but don't go to war on each other. We're better than that.
This same type of behavior is happening with other races, especially blacks.
You guys are not better than that
Nah, they started it so we are just fighting it back.
If non asian guys makes 50k its okay but asian guy they need 250k, this is sooo messed up
AF have low standards of WM.
@@silveriver9 A lot of White men have no social skills either but their race helps them get love and attention, so skills and abilities don't matter at all
Haha, good, the tables have turned. It's funny to see how Asian woman feel now. And the Latin girl's comment is spot on.
Now the turned table has.
I'm a black man and this really have nothing to do with me, But I have a lot of Asian friends and I saw the following. Asian women have been doing the same thing to them for decades. Alot of my Asian brothers been getting kicked to the side for white men alot by Asain women. They think that while they are out having fun with white men, that the asain men are just going stand there and waith for them to get done having fun with white men. then want the asian men to have the white man's leftovers? Sorry but the tides are turning and just like the black women they are getting mad and upset about it. But there is nothing that they can do about it, they made their beds and they have to slee in them. For every actions there is an equal oppsite reaction. Just like these women say, it is 2023 and we can date and marry whoever we want.
@@johnghost6462 Who were black women casting black men aside for in this parallel?
I’m happy that more Asian men are starting to expand their options💯 but bruh I knew I was gonna find a comment like this 🤣🤣
@readyornot27
Black men like to tell lies.
Those Asian girls publicly putting down Asian guys without remorse, those clips are being used by Asian Guys as "State's Exhibit A" as to why they decided "Guilty of prejudice against their own people."
Too many self-hating AF doing the work of yt supremacists.
America is late to the game.. years ago, there are already tons of Korean men dissing Korean women in the Spanish social media in the Latin world (all done in Spanish). The Latinos get a good laugh out of it. Asian women haven't felt this yet, because the wave hasn't gotten into America till just now
Asian women are spoiled, they never had to suffer in the dating market. That why they started getting cocky and putting down asian men. It's a classic human behavior, when you are so blessed, you just take for granted and started looking down at others and in this case, they started looking down at asian men. Pure evil to the max.
I'm guessing it's because America has been the one promoting hate towards Asian men and fetish towards Asian women.
When did this happen and where can I find these videos
@@quincy189 coreamigo has a few vids and that's just one of them
Korean women are a different breed fr 😂
Absolutely, I know so many mid Asian guys opting out of mid Asian women and going for the hot white girls and actually succeeding. At the same time, I also know a ton of Asian girls that would prefer to date only Asian guys. So let's be civil to one another and support our own race rather than being so toxic and self hating.
It was the women starting it. They are attractive to Americans than dating their own brother with small pepee.
Think about it. If mid Asian women are only seeking out the top 1% of Asian men or below average White dudes, why should mid Asian men waste their time. When they have the same chances with hotter White girls. Slim chance vs slim chance. Ill take the White girls any day. Also we ain't dating for marriage just fun under the sheets. lol
Personally I think this transcends race. Given the right circumstances, maybe men and women of other races would do what Asian men/women have done/are doing to each other. Maybe gender is bigger than race here.
You rarely see people of other race look down on their own as a dating partner. It's only white washed Asians that that are self hating that do@@lifeissoup_iamfork
I’m one of those Asian girls who will only date Asian guys. I don’t date for fun. When I date, it’s serious, and my end goal is marriage, so it’s important to me that my husband is familiar with my culture and understands me.
I briefly had a blond gf in high school, but regardless of race, I’ve always been more attracted to women w/ brown or black hair. I was 1 of those Asian’s that mostly liked white girls in high school, but race isn’t a factor now that I’m older. I’ve been involved w/ a Filipina, Native American, 1/2 Japanese/white & I’ve been getting to know someone that seems to be Latina.
I've gone thru a male 304 phase, I've taken them slim, thick, obese, all ethnics, mothers, single, married, 18-48 years old. In the end it's all the same. I will say other ethnic groups are more open than Asian women. All I'm saying is do what makes you happy. Commitment is the key to slavery.
Seems to be latina lol
I want to see more Asian men and Latinas together😊
Say less 😊
Na. The opposite. I’m Mexican and I find Asian women more attractive than Latina’s. Latinas get fat. Lol.
Love Latinas. They have good family values.
Filipinos-Latinas couples are very common on the west coast.
@@MONEYTOPG yup they're offsprings are called Mexipinos/as there are tons of them from Diego to the Bay
i can see why, lots of asian girls raised in US be looking down on any asian guy. ive seen it a lot. like dont even think coming to me and try to have convo lol
Nah asian girls in Asia too. I live in Asia, I have seen ton of asian girls in Asia do the same.
@@CoolNumber1 but who else they gonna get in asia other than asian guys?😂
Doesn't matter, they still put down asian guys@@IamHandsome4u
@@CoolNumber1There are more Asian people in the world. How do you explain that?
Height is the main issue in the conversation. I'm 6foot and all asian women like me. My bro is 5"8. He puts so much more effort to get half the attention I get. Asian women are no different than all modern women. Hypergamus always aiming higher literally
The pendulum would eventually swing against AW honestly I'm shocked it hasn't happened sooner. Good on them.
a lot of the perceotion was because of western media, which is controlled by white men. This is now turning with things like social media, tiktok, and kpop who are exposing the truth that asian men are actually attractive
I do think asian guys should be open to more races. This is because historically asian guys struggled with their own women and couldnt do anything about it. And there is still a bunch out there especially in america. So this is kind of the only option until the lus dwindle.
you do know asian girl in america is a small percentage.. and asian make up more than half the world population.. so asian in america does not represent asian
How do you explain the high Asian population then? 😂
Glad more Asian men are expanding their options!
It baffles me that Asian women can choose to date White guys but gets triggered when Asian men turn them down.
8:31 hard disagree to the comment. It cuts/works BOTH ways.
Im british born chinese and my wife is english. All my previous girlfriends have been white bar one and she was half white, but it was never a conscious decision to just choose white girls. Im a boob man so i just gravitated towards girls with a curvier body type and those girls happened to not be asian.
My Chinese cousin has a Jewish-American wife and three good kids. So that's about the same.
Bro, I feel you and I am happy for you!
I love "full" boobs too and am attracted to Asian women as well so feel a bit conflicted on that...haha
Asian girls boobs are getting bigger
yup been doing that since high school, and im fit and good looking, not because i dont have choices. Lots of black girls ive seen are not dating black guys too, there are consequences when younger generations seen the girls not respect the men.
I think the trend has been goin to Asian men and Latinas or is that just me
It's pretty common in socal
Some logic and reasoning for this is, latinas look somewhat similar to asian girls, actually theres a saying that ABG(asian baby girls aka sexy asian girls) are essentially latinas
Asian males secretly has the hots to Latinas and shy about saying whte women are beautiful.
They usually go for white looking latina, so in a sense still white girls.@@shadowdraqon2479
@@shadowdraqon2479no they look different. Latinas are so much prettier then Asian women.
As an asian guy, I was never attracted to asian women
You look the same as the women
That's pretty racist.
Don't worry about being Asian or getting with an Asian non-Asian. Just be you. The best you that you can be. Your culture is part of you but it doesn't define you entirely. Your culture is like roots, but your individuality is the tree.
Personality and attitude is what attracts, but character and maturity is what keeps. Have both - good marketing and quality product management.
Don't trip over people who don't perceive your value, someone eventually will. Don't settle either, you have to be excited about them as they are about you.
It's not that simple.... I've been physically attacked for being with a woman back in the day.
The proverbial shoe is on the other foot. Asian men been dealing with Asian women doing this to them for decades. Everyone is a product of their environment. What did you honestly expect?
in toronto and vancouver, its a stereotype that mid asian girls go for mid/above average white guys bc they think theyre too hot for average asian guys while high quality asian guys (handsome, tall, fit, money, treat them well etc) wont give them the time of day.
especially in the clubbing/raving scene, the hottest asian girls go for high quality asian guys
I'm Jamaican and I used to date a lot Asian guys since high school and I almost married a Japanese guy. I hope to find myself a Asian man and marry him ASAP. ❤❤❤ WE SHOULD PROMOTE MORE ASIAN MAN BLACK WOMAN RELATIONSHIPS ON SOICAL MEDIA ❤❤❤a
Shut up Keshia Asian men don’t want u👩🏿👩🏿
Ur black
Amen
Most black women date inside race in when they date out they date white
You know what it is, black and yellow! lol!
You go, Asian men! Good for you 😁
I wonder how those Lu(s) are feeling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 your men deserve better 👍🏽
Them self hating girls don't speak for all asian women. Don't let it discourage you, and make you sour bruh. Always shoot your shot reguardless, never know who likes eggroll until you try. Rejection is a thing, the world isnt going to end. What is worst than rejection is regret. Be smooth, dont let them trigger you, the world is huge, god have a plan for everyone of us. Just sayin' tho.
Easier said than done when you're seen as a piece of shit by your own women. How about the wholesome Asian girls who aren't self-hating start to ask out Asian guys you like? Since it's way easier for you than it is for them
@@UpInYourGrillsMost Asian girls prefer Asian men. You’re the only one who thinks so low of yourself. How about clean yourself up, grow some balls and be the man you wish you were.
I like your attitude 😊
If you only prefer asian woman but due to facts and statistics showing 56% percent of asian women in the west don't want asian men, meaning you have a 44% chance of success. Would you still take those chances?
You’ll just have to accept the fact that Asian men will do the same back reverse uno card they just returning the energy
I'm a half Asian guy and wrote off Asian girls for white girls in my early years. Now getting back in touch with my Asian roots as a passport bro in my motherland seeing various Asian women and couldn't be happier.
Street walkers?
@@foxylady6901😂😂😂
I see many Asian woman white guy couples that would look at me when I walk pass them like I was going to judge them. I don't even give them (Asian girls) the respect to look into their eyes. My mind: "girl, there's so many of you. You're just a number"
It's a free and open society, Asian Men can date whoever they want and Asian Women can date whoever they want.
Meh u don't even get it lol. The issue here is asian women putting down her people just to make herself feel good. That's pure evil. Good people will never do that, asian women pure evil.
No one said otherwise. Do y'all type this sh!!t intentionally? That isn't thr point of the video
I'm an adopted Korean that dated Asian and white men (and others). It was rough to watch my Asian male friends feel like they didn't have options. I can't help but agree now that there is more opportunity that men should not get hate for their preferences any more than women, and that the real crime would be hate talking on demographics.
maybe u should date your own kind
@@tednguyen7258translation she dated one Asian guy and like other 99 where white men LOL with maybe 5-7 Hispanics for the exploring bucket list and 0 black men
@lzachl that's exactly what I heard. Can't have sympathy for them
@@tednguyen7258 not every man from your kind are compatible with you even in broad spectrum.
lay off the meth buddy....
In the many topics of discussion here, the conflict is REALLY between self-hating, white-worshiping, mentally-colonized Asians vs. Asians who aren't. The conflict is NOT between Asian men vs. Asian women. The benefits of framing the conversation in the former instead of devolving it to AM vs. AW.
Instead of framing the conversation as Asian men versus Asian women, we should focus on self-hating/white-worshiping Asians versus Asians who aren't. This approach avoids simplifying the discussion and acknowledges the complexity of the issue.
I thought about it some more and, amidst the recent videos here focused on Asian women, I believe this is the best take on how to approach the conversation because the AM vs. AW dialogue clearly isn't working, even unhealthy at times. Here are three benefits in framing the conversation as "self-hating/white-worshiping Asians vs. Asians who aren't" instead of "AM vs. AW":
1. Instead of framing the conversation as Asian men versus Asian women, we should focus on self-hating/white-worshiping Asians versus Asians who aren't. This approach avoids simplifying the discussion and acknowledges the complexity of the issue.
2. By explicitly addressing the conflict in this way, we reduce the chances of misinterpreting the message and prevent misdirection from those who try to avoid confronting their biases rooted in the belief in white men's superiority.
3. Shifting the conversation to self-hating Asians versus those who aren't allows more people to join in and understand our frustrations without attacking Asian women. This prevents us from being portrayed as illogical or hateful, and helps others empathize with marginalized groups who understand the concepts of self-hate, white-worship, and mental colonization.
TL;DR: There is no BEEF between Asian men and Asian women. The BEEF here is between self-hating, white-worshiping Asians vs. Asians who aren't.
I think especially Indians are the least mentally-colonized out of all race even though they have actually been colonized. They have some of the highest rates of Endogamy (dating between your own race). I feel like it’s because no Indian wants feel like they’ve been mentally-colonized so they specifically. avoid dating white people even if their actually good people. I feel like especially East Asian women are the most self-hating , which is so frustrating when East Asian men can’t have the same opportunity as even an ugly white guy just because he’s white. Again East Asian women date white guys at 6-7x higher rates than East Asian men date white women.
@@Wolf-yr1qyyou have the wrong mindset. You’re a cuck.
Men date women. We choose. The white guys choose to date Asian women.
Most Asian guys prefer to date/marry Asian women. It’s that plain and simple.
It’s true though that many Asian guys are shy and won’t ask anybody out.
There are shy white guys and Latino and blacks. Many try for Asian women and fail miserably. That’s why many Asian females are stalked and even killed by many non-Asian males.
East Asian women are usually seen as most attractive by all men. Southeast Asians are nice looking too.
Some Asian countries are poor and dating sites exist.
Mentally colonized. Beautiful phrase. You know who most overrates white looks. Old Asian fobs who experienced European power in their homeland
Asian women are the most brainwashed women in the world. They believe being used as a toy by a yellow fever yt guy will bring them yt privilege. The self-hating AF are pathetic.
Im a self hating SE asian because I never grew up with an asian social circle and never had any dating success with asian women. The only time I was ever approached by a girl for a random conversation was a blonde Swedish girl
I’m dating a wf and I’m an AM
I actually prefer an AF specially Chinese
Chinese girls have very high standards for Chinese guys
Money car job status etc …
IDK why there is anything wrong with this if the reverse has been ok
Man if these girls are only grading Asian men based on shallow standards regarding their looks, skin color, and height then our modern society about dating is already doomed. Masculinity goes beyond looks, height, size, or skin color. Good thing for me though because I do not really care about women judging me about things that I cannot control and change like my ethnicity, skin color, height, or facial features. What I am focused though are the things that I can bring to the table and how I can be a better person to my future partner whether she's Asian like me or not. Though men all over the world love women from different races, but at the end of the day, you can only look and go for any woman who actually cares, love, and respect you for being you as well as your cultural background.
I'm an Asian guy and have never dated an Asian women because I simply don't find them very attractive.
Why? Cmon Asian girls are superior
Seems pretty racist.
I've preferred Asian and Latino guys forever. Gals do not know what they are missing by excluding dating them. Just like who you like and be happy. Lots of great Asian guys out there who will make great partners, I've never understood why there's this stigma they are not desirable.
Im asian and have no preference race wise. As long as they are attractive in my eyes. I
Oh the Hell I will get from this comment, but this is something my boyfriend who is Asian has said before. Ive been with him for 15 years and as he put it " Asian women have a fuck ton of plastic surgery to get features you only find on somebody in the west, they wear fake blue or green contacts, and they dye their hair blonde and Red they also like to look as pale white as possible. He said they can say what they want but those are traits and features you only see on a white girl why have an imitation when I can get the real thing. So fellas, dont settle get the real thing".
You're right and again white women coming as a good choice bcuz she give chance to every men she likes not just white skin and blonde hair they actually date anyone what they like not this asian. Women who always cry about i need a Scandinavian chad blah blah blah
I'm Asian, a lot of girls liked me. I want my wife to be Asian though. I do have a crush on an Asian girl. I pass white models for her because she's good looking and peaceful.
This is so sad to see, but insightful nevertheless. From my experience living in a western-european country, most Asians only date other fellow Asians here. Even if some people don't, we at least appreciate the people from our country. That Kor-Am man in the first video seems to be hide his own insecurity with this arrogant attitude (probably due to his inner self-hatred of his own culture). I know because I've been there. He probably can't even speak one word of Korean except 안녕하세요. Praying for you brother.
Oh that’s complete bs, everyone knows that Korean women are looking for White men more than Korean Men. In the US, White man/Korean women is 7x more likely than Korean man/white women. Korean man have long been discriminated against by their own kind and they feel like they just don’t get the same opportunity as even an ugly/mid white guy. I’m so happy for Koreans seeing the trend change for once. And it’s funny to see you say that Korean men have self-hate even though it’s 7x more likely for Korean women to be married to someone of another race.
He was actually joking lmao that Asian women was his friend
I always thought "snow bunnies" meant cute girls that like to ski/snowboard
Nooooo lol
I was shocked because I thought she would rate him a 1 or 2. I guess it changed now but when I was grow up, all women thought asian guys were ugly
I think it's the personality that comes to our head when we see how they look. I grew up in America all my life and when i see an Asian girl that looks super cute I automatically think I'll have very little in common with her and if I see a girl boss asian girl i just see my tiger mom.
As a white guy I say that Asian women need to chill on WMAF and QUIT bashing Asian men.
The clip in question is fake😭We go to uni together and girl and guy are good friends. The guy who made the tik tok didn’t tell them he would edit it to make it look non-satirical.
Asians are great.. asian babies are cute. Asian culture is great. Only an asian man and asian woman can continue this greatness. We need more asian couples. There'll be bad apples out there, but there are plenty of nice asian men and woman out there also.
He'll no we don't need them I don't even want to have Sex with Asian women I don't think they are attractive
@@marsdweller7735 not really. Culture varies on which community they grow up in or which country
@@marsdweller7735Exactly. Men preserve culture not women.
What's great about 5000 years of stagnation, ignorance, weakness, oppression, and failure disguised as virtues?
@theia1653 we need a break.. what about the west declining economy.
I’m glad Asian men are getting more attention because side I think a lot of nonasians used to look down on them more including Asian women so I like to see the come up for Asian males in the dating world. I really don’t have much preference but my husband is Latino and so sweet to me so I feel like Latin women can be really sweet to Asian men.
I’m nowhere near being a tall guy, but in public, I’ve always gotten way more attention from white girls than East Asian.
On the apps, it’s a complete 180° though. 😂
Man! All I can say it’s ABOUT TIME! 🎉
The vast majority of western Asian men like white women; the feeling just isn't reciprocal most of the time.
The comment correcting snowbunnies in regards to AAVE... Speaking as a black Millennial from MD... Yes Snow Bunny is an AAVE term, but At least where im from in the DMV, it never referred to specifically white women who like black guys, Snow Bunny was/is any white woman.
If you're looking for something that references white women who specifically like black men... check out Spades Tattoos, though the spades tattoo isnt from AAVE or black culture, its a thing from white people who fetishize black men. Any black guy, with self respect, that sees white women with a spades tattoo, (especially on their ankle or wrist) should just avoid them. They're probably into raceplay too, and it's a fair chance they're not safe to engage with.
You opened up a can of worms I didn't even know existed (in regards to the tattoo). Wow
@@jabbaweezy Yep, wild
U moco or pg?
It's satisfying seeing the uproar from certain Asian women about this. Only thing is the Asian dude in the vid didn't diss/step on the Asian girl though. Let's see a retake where he disses Asian women. Let the drama commence!!! *eats popcorn*
if they're that upset with him giving her a low rating, imagine how mad they'd get if he actually dissed her like how asian women diss asian men. why are you trying to get bro killed
As a Dominican man I'm here too let you know that our women love asian men no 🧢 i fully support my Asian brothers exploring there fields I'm telling you latin women is where its at!
@@Flexed_qt I don’t think anyone is into anyone who’s different. My theory is that there’s a correlation between sexual attraction to other ethnicities/cultures and trauma from parental issues depending on what gender you are and which gender your parent is whom you have issues with.
women feel more compelled to join the majority social order, whatever color. I have seen groups of Brazilian tourists girls at Disneyworld. In Brazil the Portugese race is number 1; so the group of girls was led by Portugese girls ; the white skinned girls who were taller were always at the tail end of the group as they were the weak minorities. Power dictates who is beautiful and desired and it changes nation to nation.
Im a hot Asian guy and it feels good turning down an Asian girl😅😅😅
Both asian girls and whte girls have been dissing asian men for decades so to get revenge like sasuke..it should be 20 years.
Nah white girls never dissed us. White girls in the past weren't interested, but they dont talk shit like asian girls does.@@exalkalibor924
@@CoolNumber1 nah they do
Nah only asian girls. White girls didn't really do much.@@exalkalibor924
@@GLAMZARAM Don’t generalize them bro. Just because a group of Asian women hurt you doesn’t mean all Asian women are like that. All of us human beings are limited physically and concentrated to an ethnic group which we’re inevitably associated with but we are all different in the soul. The love of your life could be Asian for all you know.
As us younger Asian men are coming up. We’re becoming fitter in addition to some of us having the benefit of looks and/or height. We’re just now exercising our options.
You better watch out. You have a wave of self hating black women coming for you and going to parade you around as a thumb up their nose to BM.
Very interesting topic. I’m extremely mixed and racial ambiguous. Mom if full Filipina. My dad is Mexican and white. Like you guys said, it’s more about the culture than the race. I’m really into women who are into a holistic lifestyle. So yoga, healthy eating, nature stuff, active, adventurous, emotional intelligence and awareness, etc. I noticed that most of these women are either white or a type of Latina who is into this stuff and they don’t come off as the thicc Latina baddie. Really interesting how that manifests externally. But I noticed that the Asian girls that DO stand out…guess what, they typically don’t hang out with other Asians and aren’t into the same things other Asians are into. But I feel the vibe immediately! Pretty crazy. For me, the average Asian woman seems to have completely separated from me lol. Can’t even get a single match on the apps! It’s usually white, black, or Latina. Black women are attracted to me but we usually have the least in common which is the problem. I’ve met very few black women who are also into that holistic life stuff. I like the Latina baddie but I feel like I have to always bring out a heightened version of myself and I just can’t do that long term. All in all, white women with booty and a little sauce!!! 🤤 that’s my type lol
I do have to catch myself and not disrespect Asian women. I do it out of spite because it’s like I’ve tried for so long and just never felt like I belonged or was accepted into those circles. I still have so many Asian friends so I gotta keep it chill. Thanks for that reminder.
The majority of my Asian buddies have married white or Latina women. I’m the only one from the group that married an Asian woman.
Maybe the whte women are running.out of men going passport bros or maybe they hit their head real hard they woke up the bad boys they used to like has done with their body as count.
It’s good to see Asian men getting more options, but let’s be honest, a large amount of the time, the white girls that usually date Asian guys aren’t typically the ones that are popular with white men. Asian women also seem to often date a white 4 and swear he’s an 8.
SMOKED! Andrew really put the UM kid in check about having no chance at a Margot Robbie caliber girl. Everyone has preferences, people shouldn't get all worked up about that. If an Asian guy likes girls with a dump truck, he's unlikely to find that in an Asian girl
Happily married to fellow Asian woman here from south east Asia. Gotta admit, the yellow girls I’ve met in my life are mostly VERY STUCK UP. They dig white men coz they seem more global and expressive and therefore more fun, not to mention they supposedly have lotsa moolah. Puts em on a higher level.
I totally understand coz the yellow fellas in my south East Asian country are mostly average geeky guys with a very linear orientation.
But cross the border to Malaysia and you’ll find the cool ones!
Meh, I've rarely been attracted to white girls. Sometimes I feel like I'm the crazy one cuz everyone apparently goes crazy over white girls, but to me, their pasty thin skin just looks unhealthy and their colored hair and eyes look unnatural. I really like black hair and black eyes on women. Especially jet black, long straight hair. I always preferred latinas and asians the most.
yeah as an Asian guy I prefer WoC over white
I’m 1/2 Asian and 1/2 white (look Latino). For many years it was only short Asian girls that would date me. That’s not really a bad thing, even though I’m also attracted to other races. I have Asian guy friends that only want to date white women. I think that it’s like a status symbol for some Asian guys to have a white wife/girlfriend. I know white guys that will only date Asian women. The most important thing is to find a nice, reasonable, and sane partner. Everything else doesn’t matter.
THEYRE FRIENDS!
HAHAHA THE WAY EVERYONES TAKING THIS SERIOUSLY
I like Margot Robbie sometimes but dude is crazy to think that first girl was somehow a 1 or 2, even if she's not your type
Margot is mid; that girl was a 5-6.
Nah that girl has makeup and fake blonde hair. Margot is better in her younger years.@@ayowser01
You see this kind of thing only among 2nd or 3rd gen Asian Americans. For Asian Asian men or even for 1st or 1.5 gen Asian American men I believe Asian women would still be their top choice.
I have seen wht woman and asian man living in asia happy for 30 years.
@@exalkalibor924 Rare cases or exceptions do exist, but they certainly aren't the norm. Most Asian guys from Asia prefer Asian women over white women.
@@weifan9533 the main land is a different story. The asian women there prefers their men still.
@@exalkalibor924 Yep u're right, in mainland China men and women prefer each other rather than people from other races, though I think this is true for many other Asian countries as well. Really the media has largely exaggerated the number of Asian women and men dating outside of their race.
@@weifan9533and Asian women from Asia prefer Asian Man than white Man
Asian women who were vocal about only dating white guys & bashing Asian guys had a lot of visibility. As time went on, Asian guys got tired of it. I’m a 50 year old Filipino guy and growing up, Asian girls would not give me the time of day… some called me ugly to my face! When a white girl said I was “hot”, I couldn’t believe it! So I think Asian guys are more and more dating white girls because we’re tired of being berated by the loud, racist Asian girls. Not all Asian women are like this, but the ones who are drown out the Asian girls who aren’t as vocal.
Yup. I've never, ever, ever had an Asian woman call me hot. I've had so many non-AF call me hot it's crazy. I don't even know if I'm hot or not.
unless your top 10 percent most guys dont have the luxury to be picky. margot robbie types have so many options they most likely want a tom brady type. highly unlikely its a minority guy unless he gives he 10xs more value
Asian women upset about something they've been guilty of is hilarious. I'm an asian guy, I love white girls and I don't even bother mentioning about asian girls at all but then I have people that keeps bringing up asian girls like, "oh what about asian girls" lol like what about them? "oh you don't like asian girls?" haha, like I said I like white girls, why you guys have to bring up asian girls for no reason lmao.
About time
Race self hate whether guy or girl is bad
facts
I’m an Asian guy who’s married to a white girl. I don’t have anything against Asian women but I just never been attracted to them honestly. Everyone has a preference and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Hmm, I've dated mostly non Asian women, and I don't have self hate. 😂 I'm just attracted to blonde white women. 🤷♂️
Asian American women have been self hating and denouncing Asian men for so long... NOW that K-pop guys and the new BTS Asian wave is a thing, a lot of women are getting into Asian dudes now! I love my Asian girls, but if there's a white girl into K-pop and Asian food, then I might have to switch sides lol
What about a black girl? 👀
@@MizuHarajuku56 don't even
Me, personally, if you're cute, into Asian culture and don't do hoodrat shit then yea. I can't speak for all Asian guys but I don't discriminate, all about chemistry, vibes and preferences!@@MizuHarajuku56
My taste change from year to year…I am currently back into Asian guys
Just sayin snow bunnies sounds 🤢 to me it's like sayin chocolate queen for black girls ...
Snow Bunnies to me meant girls who go to the mountains to ski, so it was misogynistic and now it’s racist and misogynistic?
true
@@marinashalimai98 Cultural differences
@@AllisonFischer It’s not racist at all whatsoever. Nor misogynistic. The term is simply considered derogatory for certain individuals whom apply to the term especially if it’s in a first basis.
I'm an asian girl and it's great for the community to have more men dating out and to have more people appreciate Asian masculinity. This will lead to a more balanced community and less animosity in the future. I hope people will approach interracial dating with more positive intentions instead of self-hatrerd, bitterness towards their counterpart, or other negative things, as well as stop fixating only on white people only. There will always be the loud ones who are self-hating but we should stop giving those people so much attention.
did your white bf tell u this?
Yep, I always wanted to Asian boys get more girls of other races , and be happy ,so they wouldn’t hate us for dating out
@@tednguyen7258 I don't have a white bf
@@Moonshinesgreen I want to see all Asians happy in relationships whether same or other race
@@Moonshinesgreentranslation: I want to see my half Asian son who looks totally Asian be able to get white girls so my grandchildren can be white passing. 😂 come on you wouldn’t approve if your son dated and married a black girl and ruined your bloodline while you attempted to go while he just turned your future grandkids black and went the opposite direction