Underwear SECRETS Every Woman Should LEARN

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  • čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
  • Today I'm sharing underwear secrets every woman should learn. These underwear secrets will help you find bras and underwear for creating the look you want and building seamless looks from head to toe. Thank you so much for watching xx
    UNDERWEAR SECRETS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD LEARN TIME STAMPS
    00:28 Finding Your Correct Bra Size
    02:00 Specialty Bra Sizes
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    03:30 How A Bra Should Fit
    03:48 What To Wear Under White
    04:44 Invisible, Seamless Underwear
    06:04 My Favorite Secret
    07:28 Strapless Bras & Sticky Bras
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Komentáře • 968

  • @missmayflower
    @missmayflower Před rokem +3713

    Any time I got a “professional bra fitting” I came out with a super expensive bra that was unbearably uncomfortable after an hour or two. So I tried using this method you demonstrated and discovered that bra sizes are definitely not standardized. A 36C from one manufacturer with be a totally different size than 36C from another manufacturer. It’s a losing battle.

    • @TarynToday
      @TarynToday Před rokem +286

      Yes, you are so right. It's a bit of a struggle until you find one that's just right and hope the manufacturer doesn't discontinue the bra.

    • @missmayflower
      @missmayflower Před rokem +344

      @@TarynToday …and they ALWAYS discontinue it, lol.

    • @HeavenlyEchoVirus
      @HeavenlyEchoVirus Před rokem +116

      They also often give you an inaccurate size when they fit you to make sure everyone fits into their smaller range-they don’t want to manufacture a large range of sizes, so cram everyone into the same narrow range. This was especially the case a decade ago when Victoria’s Secret was at its heights.

    • @naveennoordeen2394
      @naveennoordeen2394 Před rokem +41

      @missmayflower I understand your frustration. I hv wasted money like you. Later I found a brand which fits me well and stuck with that. Whenever it is on sale I will purchase as comfortable bras are expensive.

    • @An_Gold
      @An_Gold Před rokem +26

      Same about me. Recently I went to an expensive lingerie store, where the trying is with the assistance of a shop-lady. I do not know what her qualifications were, but she simply brought me several bras for me to try on. No measurements, just like that. And not much choice for larger breast size (not huge, but just larger than at skinny ladies). So to find a good bra is a difficult task. Seems that designers prefer small breasts, but we are all different.

  • @samtqm
    @samtqm Před rokem +1753

    Thank you Audrey. I'm a single parent (father) and my daughter is maturing to this point so this video has helped a great deal. I'll watch your other videos as well as getting my daughteer to watch them too. I find your presentation very professional and you have a clear and simple way of teaching. Caspian.

    • @awan3
      @awan3 Před rokem +85

      Bless you!

    • @Soshi701
      @Soshi701 Před rokem +111

      You're a great Dad. Keep going!

    • @CiceroSapiens
      @CiceroSapiens Před rokem +101

      Hey i was raised by my single dad! I'm so glad you have the internet to help now. I ended up with some pretty questionable haircuts cuz he didn't know the detangler (go to a stylist, not supercuts!) and some rather horrid clothing options (a time he gave me a free red Marlboro t shirt some smoker gave him redeemed from cigarette coupons, and i paired it with red jeans >_< like a weird crayon).
      He leveled up from my first period (" i don't know! Just read the box!") to always carying emergency tampons in his car (this was before apps that predicted the start date).
      Take her to macy's never victoria's secret! The bras are sized wrong and give stretch marks.

    • @5amlawrence704
      @5amlawrence704 Před rokem +6

      @@awan3 Thank you

    • @5amlawrence704
      @5amlawrence704 Před rokem +3

      @@shamailaahmad211 Thank you

  • @sulalee7413
    @sulalee7413 Před rokem +1615

    I don't know how you do it, Audrey, but you never judge anyone any decision they might make. You give all the options but never judge some as better than others. You are so very thoughtful. Thank you. :) All the best, Susan.

    • @karelmillard9854
      @karelmillard9854 Před rokem +11

      Completely agree with you ❤

    • @valentinaateljevic2531
      @valentinaateljevic2531 Před rokem +5

      Me too😊

    • @AlexJReil
      @AlexJReil Před rokem +15

      Yes! A pet peeve of mine is when people say your wrong from very subjective things. I like the advice, but never the judgment.

    • @AparnaBL
      @AparnaBL Před rokem +14

      Yeah she is very thoughtful and she talks so well and feels like the best friend or sis you would like to talk to . She must be awesome with her nieces and kids ...they are so lucky

    • @mhopi9744
      @mhopi9744 Před rokem +3

      So true. She is also very nice n calm ❤❤ I really enjoy her content 🙏🙏

  • @debbiemize2269
    @debbiemize2269 Před rokem +1421

    My mother was a professional bra fitter (worked in a high end department store in the foundation’s department). I have always had a properly fitted bra and because of my mother, always had the proper undergarments as well! I was probably the only girl in high school that wore a girdle (that was in the 60s before Spanx hit the market)! My Mom would tell me, “No daughter of mine is going out in public with her fanny a flappin!” And to this day (now 71 years old) I don’t go out with my fanny a flappin’!
    Good well fitted undergarments are a must! Thank you for this video! And don’t forget the slip under thinner material dresses and skirts!

    • @katem3961
      @katem3961 Před rokem +120

      😮 Oh my goodness, that word means a totally different thing in Australia. I was so shocked when I read that comment and so relieved when I realised that you are from the States.

    • @debbiemize2269
      @debbiemize2269 Před rokem +33

      @@katem3961 yes, I am in the USA, Texas actually (all my life!). To which word are you referring and what does it mean in Australia?

    • @gailwilliams5278
      @gailwilliams5278 Před rokem +139

      In England and I presume in Australia, the word Fanny refers to the private area in FRONT.

    • @debbiemize2269
      @debbiemize2269 Před rokem +66

      @@gailwilliams5278 😮! In the USA, it is slang for derrière!

    • @katem3961
      @katem3961 Před rokem +46

      @Debbie Mize I sincerely meant no offence to you, Debbie, but as Gail commented from England, it means a ladies' front private part 🙄 So completely changed the meaning for me. Have an amazing day 💛

  • @oseasviewer7108
    @oseasviewer7108 Před rokem +119

    So pleased to hear the reference 'boring style is best' when it comes to a well fitting undergarment. Women tolerate a great deal of nonsense when it comes to lingerie and underwear garments, designed by men who choose not to consider comfort or function over form but focus purely on glamour and sex appeal which translates to "expensive" and "profit margins". When was the last time you saw glamour underwear for men - try never, their focus is support and comfort.

    • @Joelswinger34
      @Joelswinger34 Před rokem +9

      Yes, I love the lacy stuff but it shows under clothing!

    • @rosycathalina8581
      @rosycathalina8581 Před 14 dny

      Designed by men? Is this how you push the blame to certain people you despise when you see problems?

  • @Bhnbhn
    @Bhnbhn Před rokem +92

    You are so articulate and coherent. I came for the knowledge but stayed for your eloquence. Not to mention your voice is so soothing to hear.

    • @Random-ko8vn
      @Random-ko8vn Před 3 měsíci +2

      Yes so elegant, its just a delight to listen to her graceful voice

    • @user-lt6eb5wr9b
      @user-lt6eb5wr9b Před 3 měsíci +1

      I had the same thoughts ❤

  • @Print229
    @Print229 Před rokem +192

    There was a YT video I watched of a woman going to stores for bra fittings in search of the right bra. If memory serves, even with a bra fitting "expert", she still had to go to 4 or 5 stores and try on 4 to 5 bras, all different brands, at each store. She bought a "best of the bunch" bra at each store before she finally found the unicorn and then had to take all the others back. It took the whole weekend for her and the unicorn bra wasn't cheap. UGH. I swear, someone should come up with a bra-fit kit mailing service. You send them your measurments and they send you a box of bras (with different brand names) to try on and you can refine it from there. Lots of women just dont have a whole weekend to spare for bra shopping.

    • @joykigenrob3498
      @joykigenrob3498 Před rokem +12

      You are that person! Invent it!

    • @lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
      @lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 Před 11 měsíci +4

      The worst bra fitting I ever got was from a department store fitter! She was so far off. Best fit is in bra stores.

    • @lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
      @lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Bra manufacturers must stop thinking that big-busted means “tall”. Very busty women are far more often short, and the bras they try to force on us are too “tall”.

    • @amandaslough125
      @amandaslough125 Před 7 měsíci +4

      ​@@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042That explains why I always had to avoid a brand or two because it would always scrape into my armpits.

    • @joywebster2678
      @joywebster2678 Před 7 měsíci +5

      I was fitted by old European bra fitters. It wasn't cheap, I bought one bra. I found their 2 inch smaller band size than I normally wore very uncomfortable though likely more support. But even only hand washing this bra, the underwires poked out their seams after 6 weeks. No refunds, they accused me of using a washer dryer, which i didn't. So if I were rich I'd like to be at a proper fitter with a wide range of brands and styles to find the unicorn bra. Sigh.

  • @howaboutthatdutchflavor
    @howaboutthatdutchflavor Před rokem +162

    Great tips! As a quite light skinned person, I find that rose and coral colors work great under white clothing, the great part is that you're not wearing "boring tan color" but something fun. It helps my own mood at least 🙂

    • @Izabela-ek5nh
      @Izabela-ek5nh Před rokem +7

      Yess it was a great advice and finally I understood how to choose a bra well for my thinner, lighter clothes :) your coral choice sounds so cool to me :)

    • @MM-pb6qh
      @MM-pb6qh Před rokem +6

      Grey or silver works well under white, too if you're light skinned.

  • @celticceltic99
    @celticceltic99 Před rokem +75

    Audrey, you are so right about properly fitting foundation garments! The right bra is not only comfortable, but can make you look slimmer, your clothes will fit better, and looks neater and stylish. Every department store used to have a fitter in the lingerie section, I don’t know if this is still true. Thanks for a very helpful video!

  • @ty2seven657
    @ty2seven657 Před 3 měsíci +20

    I love that you were so inclusive with all the different possibilities and options for anyone who might be watching including those who *want* to show, not hide and even right down to those who might prefer to not wear anything underneath at all!

  • @ifetayodavidson-cade5613
    @ifetayodavidson-cade5613 Před rokem +132

    A discussion on finding well-fitting underwear below the waist could also be useful (what underwear shapes work for what body shapes).

  • @annecain3301
    @annecain3301 Před rokem +159

    In my appointment for a bra fitting I was quite surprised when the bra fitter explained that the measurement is only a guideline. Different brands and styles of bras often mean that you can up or down a size as well as have different cup sizes. She tried me with a various bras. After quite a lengthy session I came home with 3 different bras which fitted perfectly and are so comfortable.

  • @leannezzers
    @leannezzers Před rokem +382

    I love how accepting and encouraging this video is regarding personal style! Underwear and having details be apparent or not is a personal choice. I love that you emphasized that :) These are all great tips!

    • @ty2seven657
      @ty2seven657 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I had the very SAME thought! That's the main impression this video left on me after watching it which I thought was very admirable of her. So much so that I felt compelled to make a similar comment---but you very much articulated yours WAY better than I did on mine. 😆

  • @96unique2
    @96unique2 Před rokem +371

    Some times it’s hard for me to find underwear that’s close to my skin tone, but I found that grey is a great option. I’m probably classified as medium deep skin toned, so I use semi-dark grey undergarments and it blends right in! I’m not sure about the colour theory on this , but it works out great and I can’t see anything under white pants if tops

    • @Kathywake23
      @Kathywake23 Před rokem +7

      I wear thirdlove bras and they have a dark brown color that works for me. They also had a dark green color that worked too. Maybe this will help. Maybe not.😊

    • @chocolateearrings
      @chocolateearrings Před rokem +5

      Calvin Klein has a new nude collection

    • @daisiesandpandas1218
      @daisiesandpandas1218 Před rokem +3

      Try red or a darker red?

    • @lisajackson3743
      @lisajackson3743 Před rokem +1

      Help! I thought black would be a universal solution that wouldn’t show under white. Is that not true?

    • @catherinecronin1611
      @catherinecronin1611 Před rokem +11

      The color may be different, but if you took a picture in black and white, your skin and underwear would be very similar shades of grey, so the contrast between them in greyscale is very low, which helps it blend in. I also find that grey (in my case a pretty light grey) blends in almost as well as items close to my skin tone in colour.

  • @jooleito8462
    @jooleito8462 Před 11 měsíci +32

    I have worked in Sales at a departement store in the past ( 3 years selling Ladies underwear) in Europe.
    I've learned a few things wenn it comes to Bra fittings.
    1= a quick trick to see if a bra is too loose is to check how it looks from the side. A bra is supposed to have a horizontal line while wearing it. The backside does not belong anywhere near your shoulders, in that case it doesn't give you any type of support.
    2= A wired bra is supposed to touch your skin in between your breasts ( the wire). If you can place a finger underneeth the middle front of the bra, the cupsize is too small.
    3= for some skin tones, Red or blush Pink is also a magic trick to wear under white, in case you can't find a colour that suits you. Just try it out, it doesn't work with everyone.
    4= every country ( where it's made) and every Brand have their own system wen it comes to cupsizes. I've learnt just by seeing and feeling how to quickly judge if it has a normal, small or large fit. Therefore know your cupsize wel! Maybe you can test it out at home with a solid shape of some sort of bal. Find one that fits perfectly in your best at home bra. Next time wen you take e leap to find new ones you can save yourself al lot of time to endless fittings. People might look strange, but it works. Just try out the bal in the cup before your going to the dressing room ( i just do it with my fingers, see how far i can push them inside the cup, but that takes a lot of practice to see the difference 😅)
    I hope this might help someone..

  • @-beee-
    @-beee- Před rokem +9

    I just came across your channel. I love the way you both share pro tips and really really emphasize personal choice and comfort. The demonstrations with a range of skin tones and bust types is also appreciated!

  • @justiceisillusion5434
    @justiceisillusion5434 Před rokem +6

    Such a delicate, friendly and polite way when addressing people! Thank you for the good tips as well!

  • @cristinaph
    @cristinaph Před rokem +53

    You’re always so helpful to your fellow women, Audrey ❤️

  • @seeseesstopmotionstudio120

    My understanding was that you should get your proper size and wear it at the widest setting so that you can tighten it as the elastic stretches out. I am 28-29" and the tightest setting on a 32 is way to wide and provides virtually no support. I think that if you have a large cup size (bigger than DD), you really do have to get your proper band size, because, exactly as you mentioned, the most support is provided by the proper band fit.

    • @vocalnerd
      @vocalnerd Před rokem +10

      I have a similar underbust to you; mine is 28.5". I've found that 30B is my ideal bra size, and even though its sister size is 32A, I never buy the wrong band size anymore. It's not worth it for me.
      Sure, that limits my options since most brands start at 32 band sizes, but I'm glad there are enough brands that carry 30 band sizes that it's workable for me.
      Even with a small cup size, I just don't like going up in the band size, so I echo your overall sentiment. That said, I understand why Audrey would share all the options. I just am agreeing with you as well that I don't like wearing 32 bands myself.

    • @noctivagantlibertine
      @noctivagantlibertine Před rokem +12

      You can buy bras starting from 24 (or have them custom made if you are a midget or some other special circumstance), there is no reason to add sizes. I'm a 30J so it's not like I can just walk into a brick and mortar store and buy a bra anyway, I've been buying my bras online since the mid-00s. I need a more narrow wire than is sold for J cups anywhere globally, anyway, so I find the bra fits as well as it possibly could by getting a small/tight band on purpose and using an extender - the bigger band will tend to have a wider or larger underwire since it will be holding more volume.

    • @mizaralcor
      @mizaralcor Před rokem +9

      Yes I just came here to say the same thing! Petite folks don't need to settle for 32 bands, there's so many more options out there. My underbust is 28 and I get much better shape and support from my 30E bras than my 32DD.

    • @catgrrl42
      @catgrrl42 Před rokem +5

      Yes! 26D here and have found a few online places, esp. Europe, that carry needed size (or run tight so 28C). Absolutely don't settle for larger band sizes.

  • @livipup
    @livipup Před rokem +30

    As a fellow small-framed woman I spent years wearing bras with a 30" or 32" band and no matter what I would end up with back pain after wearing them for a while and they never looked right under clothing because the cups would be really flat and it would cause gapping. Recently, I finally decided to gamble on buying a bra online with a smaller band size. I couldn't find my actual band size, 26", but I did find a 28" band from a company that specializes in making smaller sizes. The difference that it made was unbelievable. It's much more comfortable, it doesn't look weird, and no more pain after wearing it for a few hours. I can't recommend to everybody enough to find a bra with the right band size. Going up two or more sizes is just no good.

    • @corryjookit7818
      @corryjookit7818 Před 9 měsíci

      Is the Company called PEPPER ? I don't know why you didn't mention that. If not , please say which company. Also tell them this.

    • @livipup
      @livipup Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@corryjookit7818 I don't think Pepper sells small band sizes

    • @stellafagerstedt2256
      @stellafagerstedt2256 Před 7 měsíci

      For those in the UK, john Lewis has a great selection of 28" bras which go up to cup size F :)

    • @liseb2667
      @liseb2667 Před 7 měsíci

      Yes! It is harder to find small band sizes, but it's worth it to find the proper band size and not go up.

  • @Nekochou
    @Nekochou Před rokem +12

    Your voice is so soothing. The explanations are simple and clear. The general vibe is caring and accepting... All in all, a great video.

  • @Almarilys
    @Almarilys Před rokem +6

    This video appeared in my feed and I just randomly gave it a try. I really want to leave a comment to tell you that I find your voice very soothing. I could listen to you for hours, your voice has a comforting quality to it. I already knew some of the tips, but the video is great because it's not too long. Still, you had time to go into details about what really matters. Brilliant video. I'm glad i discovered this channel, I'll be looking for more of your content!

  • @1Aroe1
    @1Aroe1 Před rokem +15

    I didn't have great fitting bras until I learned how to sew my own! The biggest thing I learned to look for in ready-to-wear garments is 1. A wider band for more support (at least 3 hooks wide in the back) and 2. Underwires that match my root tissue. A lot of plunge and pushup bras look great, but dig in at the sides. I definitely think it's good to know the North American bra sizing as a jumping off point, but once you learn what to look for to fit your body, it's ok to ignore the measurements on the tag!
    I've found Australian bras are much better designed and easier to fit than anything I ever shopped for in the US. Even the cheap ones!

  • @katem3961
    @katem3961 Před rokem +17

    Audrey, this was excellent. Easy to follow, and I know I will feel more confident now to go shopping for better bras. I am petite but have a much larger bust and wear a minimiser bra most of the time. They are often not very comfortable or very nice to look at! Now, on a mission to buy better performing items, even if they are plain to look at. Many thanks ❤ from Australia.

  • @andreiacastilho3601
    @andreiacastilho3601 Před rokem +196

    To me, one of the most important things regarding underwear is, they should be made of cotton. Dermatologists too, recommend that. In Brazil (where I'm from), it's not difficult to find skin tone underwear made of cotton, but in the USA and in Europe (where I live now), especially in Europe it's next to impossible to find the same thing. When you do find a bra made of cotton it's one skin tone and that's it (no different hue available) and they show under clothes with a tight fit due to the seams. It's very frustrating. In an ideal world, the underwear industry will cater to women's needs and stop producing so much unhealthy stuff and white underwear... What's with white underwear, I wonder!
    On another subject, I would love to hear from you about singing since this is your profession. I heard that it's harder for women than for men to sing using the diaphragm, and I would love to learn how to do this.
    Thank you for your videos, you are so great!

    • @randomvielleuse527
      @randomvielleuse527 Před rokem +5

      Diaphragm support is trainable for almost anyone who wants to sing. It's just a muscle and you can do exercises to strengthen it. I look forward to seeing if Ms. Coyne comments here and what she has to say. In the meantime, look for a reputable vocal coach who can help guide you in safe ways to develop your musculature and your voice. I do highly recommend the book Freeing The Natural Voice. It was written for speakers but all the exercises and explanations work for singers, too. Good luck- and happy singing!

    • @polinka1213
      @polinka1213 Před rokem +12

      True, in Poland this kind of underwear is almost exclusively made of polyamide. I mean, you can find cotton pants in some skin tones, but a bra? If I remember correctly Intimissimi had a line of cotton underwear like this, but they don't make it anymore.

    • @debracisneroshhp2827
      @debracisneroshhp2827 Před rokem +9

      Yes, and this is my present conundrum! I absolutely cannot wear nylon, as it makes me sweat. I cannot believe most bras now are made with microfiber and those rediculous molded foam cups. Cotton bras are almost non-existent these days__I'm just about ready to take a course in how to sew your own undergarments!
      I never had much to fit into bra cups when I was young. As an adult I went braless for many years until I became pregnant and suddenly had a reason to wear one. Afterward, went back to braless, except for work.
      Now, pushing 70 and post menopausal, as well as, post pandemic weight gain, trying my darnest to track down a simple cotton bra with a 'little' stretch__a frustratingly daunting experience. Same goes for underwear(panties).
      So, for the most part, I resolve to going braless under tee shirts unless I decide to wear a different type of top to which I resort to a cheap sport bra or tank top, depending on fabric and style of said top.
      ONE DAY, I will find what I'm looking for before I die! 😱😛💖🙌😺

    • @silviatognetti355
      @silviatognetti355 Před rokem +4

      Intimissimi has a collection of underwear made of cotton, although i'm not sure about colour range!

    • @thekingsdaughter4233
      @thekingsdaughter4233 Před rokem

      I think she has some singing/voice videos on her channel already. Can't remember when or what title, but it should be there somewhere... I know I have seen them.

  • @feliciabailey0411
    @feliciabailey0411 Před rokem +12

    Omg this is perfect timing! I moved out of my house at 17 and never really got the appropriate training from my mom about how to do undergarments properly. Thank you!

    • @veemattt
      @veemattt Před rokem +1

      Moving out at 17 😂😂
      India, moms would come running behind us with a chappal

  • @Lily_The_Pink972
    @Lily_The_Pink972 Před rokem +23

    In the UK we have a store called Bravissimo which caters for ladies who need a large cup size. I first went there over 20 years ago and was staggered to be fitted into a 32JJ bra, when I had been wearing 36D! Turns out I have a narrow back with big boobs! What a difference it made to my life. Clothes look better on me and I feel more confident.
    Although I won't wear spanx or similar, I do believe in good undergarments. Very often wear a slip under a dress and hate to see the outline or colour of bra and knickers!

    • @PaulineWhiteley-Lang-yd3xw
      @PaulineWhiteley-Lang-yd3xw Před 5 měsíci

      I love Bravissimo...first went in my early twenties and have been going for last 15 years. I was wearing a 34C turns out I was a 30FF!

  • @karlaa9307
    @karlaa9307 Před rokem +15

    I would be interested in learning how to buy the right shape wear. I have never done it before but this video convinced me to try them. Thanks!

  • @jadiebug778
    @jadiebug778 Před rokem +20

    So grateful for this video! I would appreciate more info on proper fitting and quality shapewear. I feel overwhelmed with all of the options out there 😅. Thank you for all that you do, Audrey! ☺️♥️✨

  • @anniea.5471
    @anniea.5471 Před rokem +5

    Watching the video again and realising that it is so amazing, thank you so much for sharing such a valuable information. It makes my life better. I already saved a lot of earth resources and wasted clothes thanks to your advices ❤️

  • @CarlaStahl
    @CarlaStahl Před 4 měsíci +1

    LOVE your approach here. Being this accepting of what a woman wants to wear and helping us achieve it - that is so elegant to me.

  • @jaynekranc8607
    @jaynekranc8607 Před rokem +33

    I once found a bra that perfect. Most comfortable bra I'd ever had on. I bought ten of them. My husband thought I was crazy when he saw the bill. He just didn't get it.

  • @JoyfulJennalain
    @JoyfulJennalain Před rokem +65

    I love how thorough you are on the options, I adore your gracious presentation style, and I appreciate that you even represent the option of choosing not to wear a bra. Thank you.

  • @colors_in_noise
    @colors_in_noise Před rokem +15

    I’ve found that the variety in skintone nude shades aren’t always a good match and sometimes getting creative with the color choice can help. I can get a nude match with a pastel pink while I have a friend who I matches well with a peachy color and a very dark skinned friend that found a good match in a dark green (it was the only color that disappeared under her white dress shirt as the dark nudes were too light or orange based and black was too dark.

  • @franky8215
    @franky8215 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thank you, Audrey. This was the most informative video I've been able to find on perfecting my bra color and fit. Thank you for articulating it elegantly. You are deeply appreciated.

  • @sophiahumphrey4686
    @sophiahumphrey4686 Před rokem

    I am so glad that I found your channel. The bras that I bought recently only went from small to extra large or higher. I have not gotten the right size yet.

  • @anniea.5471
    @anniea.5471 Před rokem +6

    Wow, that’s so useful for me ! Thanks so much dear :) I would love it if you could make a video about interior design, how to match colours inside the home space , or some useful tips how to make home cozy

  • @bigsister8590
    @bigsister8590 Před rokem +5

    Wonderfully clear and precise presentation!

  • @ellamarie9429
    @ellamarie9429 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I have a really small bust and was pushed into expensive gapping bras at fittings. Thank you for your calm and well intentioned advice. Im in my 30s and have never had one fit comfortably. I feel much more well informed. Much appreciated 🙏

  • @theresah242
    @theresah242 Před rokem

    Really loved this video! I'll definitely try the shirt being tucked into my shape wear, sounds like a game changer!

  • @floridanativelh568
    @floridanativelh568 Před rokem +9

    Excellent video. Great, concise, and practical information. ❤

  • @rosechoix
    @rosechoix Před rokem +3

    I love how beautifully you frame your word choices to come across so elegantly and in a nonjudgmental manner! 💕

    • @Kumar-ne4cb
      @Kumar-ne4cb Před rokem

      💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @juliamacdonald3767
    @juliamacdonald3767 Před rokem +1

    What a lovely presentation, what a lovely presenter. So concise, so well spoken.

  • @2llab138
    @2llab138 Před rokem +2

    You approach this topic with such grace and expertise, thank you so much for sharing!

  • @marijeb278
    @marijeb278 Před rokem +16

    Thank you!
    I would also add that if you tend to get uncomfortable in underwear, the choice of material makes a great difference. Trying cotton or tencel makes a great difference compared to the polyester materials that are mostly used.
    I hack for new bra's, when the elastic is still a bit coarse, is wearing them with a thin top or shapewear underneath. that way the material doesn't chafe as much against your skin while the bra molds to your shape. It feels a bit silly to do so, but it really helps.

    • @yuuri9064
      @yuuri9064 Před rokem +2

      That's what we did for corsets too! A layer to keep things clean and comfy

    • @lesleymcneill1403
      @lesleymcneill1403 Před rokem

      I know someon ho sweated heavily. She did this to prolong the life of her bras.

  • @Auritilien
    @Auritilien Před 10 měsíci +3

    To be honest, as someone who isn't too much into fashion the subject matter was nice, but your voice is so soothing and relaxing!

  • @p28-nx4qs
    @p28-nx4qs Před 11 dny

    very helpful and informational video, Audrey. also the validation for not wearing a bra at the end is💯

  • @tanyawatkins7206
    @tanyawatkins7206 Před rokem +2

    Excellent video. I appreciate that you are teaching what CAN look best, but that we also need to do what feels good to our bodies. I also believe there are times to do certain things. We should be thinking of others and not just ourselves… especially outside the house.

  • @Dimension2364
    @Dimension2364 Před rokem +5

    Such a good video! I rarely hear someone explaining fashion so well and with so much competence.
    Thank you for putting yourself out there!

  • @lurategh
    @lurategh Před rokem +30

    It was actually from one of your previous videos that I learned to wear nude-colored underwear under sheer clothing, so huge thank you for that. It seems so obvious but I'd wager a lot of people don't know about it just as I didn't. As for strapless bras, I have a tiny bust and have nearly given up on trying to find a strapless bra that doesn't slip down. Granted, I've only ever tried the bandeau styles and not the sticky bras, but what I have tried ALWAYS, without fail, slips down after even just a moderate amount of movement, making me constantly have to adjust. The only way to not have them slip down is to just sit still and not move all day. It's caused so much frustration that I just go without a bra. It's wayyy more comfortable for me and I already tend to go braless as much as I can inside the house anyway, but I'm just afraid of accidentally flashing someone if my strapless top falls down in public. I used to put band-aids over my nips but sometimes the silhouette of the band-aid was visible through my top. I've been wanting to try the reusable nipple pasties but I'm worried their shape will also be visible.

    • @debracisneroshhp2827
      @debracisneroshhp2827 Před rokem

      @lurategh,
      Have no fear! Just saw an ad on YT a couple of days ago for a company who specializes in strapless bras for more petite proportions__start clicking on other ads for undergarments and it will eventually show up in your feed! 🙏💖🙌😺

    • @Serena-or7sl
      @Serena-or7sl Před rokem +4

      If you are comfortable going braless, why don't you try taping your strapless top instead? They sell skin-appropriate double tape. No risk of flashing then :)

    • @luci4087
      @luci4087 Před rokem +3

      i use medical tape instead of bandaids and put them on my nipples/boobs at an upward to side angle. can’t see the outline of it.

    • @lurategh
      @lurategh Před rokem

      @@Serena-or7sl I've def heard of that and will have to look into it. Thanks!

    • @lurategh
      @lurategh Před rokem +2

      @@luci4087 Never thought of medical tape! I'll have to try that. Thanks!

  • @katherinerichardson1767
    @katherinerichardson1767 Před rokem +1

    This was the best video on undergarments selection. Thank you for sharing.

  • @cathtaylor2771
    @cathtaylor2771 Před rokem +1

    This has come at the perfect time. Thankyou so much Audrey xx

  • @crunchtimewalkthroughs2141

    You got a new subscriber. So informative and pleasant delivery. Also not many creators have content that relates to small framed ladies!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @sally3570
    @sally3570 Před rokem +6

    Thank you! This was so helpful! I needed to revisit this topic and you did such a wonderful job Audrey!

  • @Sara-xz8yr
    @Sara-xz8yr Před rokem +2

    I clicked this video for the information, stayed and finished it because of the information AND the soothing voice. Thank you for the advice, it's as if everything I knew was a lie and a new life has opened up to me

  • @katherinekraayvanger1344

    This is so brilliant! So helpful and you give off such a kind vibe too. Thank you :)

  • @crispycookie9739
    @crispycookie9739 Před rokem +4

    This is so helpful! Thank you

  • @AsDicasdaFafa
    @AsDicasdaFafa Před rokem +7

    Hi and greetings from Portugal. I just came across your channel with this video because as a 32 DD (I know, right?), it's incredibly difficult for me to find bras that fit well and give me the smooth effect I'm after. I found that getting fitted was a game changer and found the PERFECT strapless bra at 44 years of age. Better late than never. I'm planning on filming a video with underwear hacks for us large busted girls and that's how I came across this video and quite frankly... I'm hooked. Thank you so much for your soothing voice and beautiful content. xoxo

  • @sharonbrinders1224
    @sharonbrinders1224 Před rokem +1

    Thank you Audrey. This was extremely helpful. Remain blessed xxx

  • @daiseyze
    @daiseyze Před 3 měsíci

    I love your classy gentle style and your approach to discussing something so personal as women’s undergarment.

  • @emilybaxter
    @emilybaxter Před rokem +6

    support stockings under pants (so long as you are wearing an enclosed shoe) is also a great option to smooth my silhouette. I also like a good support short too under skirts. I found one that supports my thighs and hips more so than my tummy which is great for me. Thanks for the bra fitting tips. I would like to find more styles with a wider band in 32C cup, it would certainly help to smooth things out as I get a bit older.

  • @hopeyhope2012
    @hopeyhope2012 Před rokem +4

    Would love some brand recommendations! I’ve been struggling to find comfortable bras that also fit well.

  • @everythingikram
    @everythingikram Před rokem +1

    Youre a real life Janet from the Good Place 🥰💛 such useful information and the delivery was very calming ~ thank you!

  • @sustainablestylecoach
    @sustainablestylecoach Před 4 měsíci +1

    I almost fall asleep watching this lol, not because you are boring, but because your voice... is so calming!

  • @gayane_igityan
    @gayane_igityan Před rokem +15

    Thanks for the video and all the tips, Audrey. You have such an elegant and soothing aura, and a very gentle way of communicating ❤. If possible i would like to see a part 2 of the video with advice on different bras for different breast shapes. Have a lovely Sunday.

  • @Shakashack2022
    @Shakashack2022 Před rokem +3

    NEEDED THIS, thank you!!! What us women have to wear to please society. Some men need to wear bras too.

  • @hldo00
    @hldo00 Před měsícem

    I have enjoyed watching this more than I thought. Most non-judgmental video about clothing and underwear I’ve seen in a while. Thank you ! ❤🙏🏻

  • @jessicahuynh7648
    @jessicahuynh7648 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Your voice is so soothing, and thanks so much for these detailed guides.

  • @BridgeOfLifeStudio
    @BridgeOfLifeStudio Před rokem +84

    I have worked in higher end lingerie for years and yes, I do agree on most of your points 😜 And a little pro tip, for a lot of people red works great under white as well.

    • @weebizzom1495
      @weebizzom1495 Před rokem +22

      Interesting about the red. I have very pale skin and find pink works for me. I hate beige and the like, they are “non-colours” to me, but I like the sound of red. I must try it - thanks for the tip.

    • @Deelitee
      @Deelitee Před rokem +9

      Well it’s visible then, no??

    • @daisiesandpandas1218
      @daisiesandpandas1218 Před rokem +6

      ​@@Deelitee for since odd reason is not visible, get a red that's as bright as your skin tone though.

    • @Deelitee
      @Deelitee Před rokem +2

      @@daisiesandpandas1218 that is sooo interesting!!! I’m all curious now. :)

  • @reeselee1501
    @reeselee1501 Před rokem +9

    I'm in my late 30s and this is the first time I learned how to get a proper bra size. Thank you!

  • @ViktorijaBastete
    @ViktorijaBastete Před rokem

    Thank you for this video, it's so informative and your voice is so calming

  • @dr.r15
    @dr.r15 Před rokem +1

    The way words come out of your mouth is so perfect and calm…adorable !!

  • @user-gu5ph5zq2s
    @user-gu5ph5zq2s Před rokem +5

    Hi, can you make a video on backpacks for uni/work that don't ruin your outfit but still are practical. Tysm

  • @lj6079
    @lj6079 Před rokem +8

    I learnt about bra fittings from clothes catalogues when in my teens and had no issues finding a comfortable fit. However these days it seems to be a challenge as each manufacturer has a different idea about sizing, same applies to clothes.

  • @isles8387
    @isles8387 Před rokem

    Excellent vidéo - full of information every woman needs to see. Thank you!

  • @gordanaplackoska1961
    @gordanaplackoska1961 Před rokem +1

    Exceptional video. Thank you for making it and sharing your knowledge.

  • @anahidkassabian4471
    @anahidkassabian4471 Před rokem +12

    This is a great video, and it’s awesome that you cover slender women, but there’s not a word about us larger girls. Bra fitting is nightmarish, and most shops don’t carry our sizes. Even worse, plus size shopping is moving totally online, which means trying different shapes and styles means endless trips to the post office to return things that didn’t work. Any insights you might have that could help us would be very welcome indeed!

  • @weebizzom1495
    @weebizzom1495 Před rokem +62

    Thank you, Audrey, this is really interesting. I would like to see a video about things like slips and underskirts. Most dresses and skirts I have seen in the shops are not lined and show every lump and bump, or are even almost see-through in the wrong light, but I don’t want to wear something that looks like Granny’s petticoat!

    • @MelissaClaasen
      @MelissaClaasen Před rokem +8

      Oh this. This is such a great point. Agreed. I have scary memories of my mom's and gran's petticoats.

    • @Himmiefan
      @Himmiefan Před rokem +11

      Totally agree with showing all of the lumps and bumps. I have half slips in a variety of lengths and wearing them makes my skirts look much better.

    • @ShelleB
      @ShelleB Před rokem +9

      I have found it difficult to find a full slip. I feel like the young women don’t wear them nowadays but I still want one!

    • @fashcyn8878
      @fashcyn8878 Před rokem +6

      Great tips. Slips have fallen out of favour, and lined garments are a rare thing these days. But definitely a must have for a great look. A lot of women won't wear jersey type material in a fitted dress because it clings to lumps and bumps, but with the right slip/chemise, they look amazing even on curvier women. Unlined skirts with tights? Annoying until you get a slip. 🙂

    • @lesleymcneill1403
      @lesleymcneill1403 Před rokem +3

      I made my own silk half slip, ivory and black. They are cut on the bias with elastic waist. Comfortable and light weight.

  • @NoirLune8
    @NoirLune8 Před 9 měsíci

    I feel like I've just had a very important maturing lesson from Mom, so soothing, comfortable and must known. Thank you so much for the video!

  • @user-sl2gu3in3g
    @user-sl2gu3in3g Před 9 měsíci +1

    The way you articulate this information is amazing , and very informative video.. amazing skill of presentation you have ; keep it up! Thanku😊

  • @dromes5118
    @dromes5118 Před rokem +7

    Love all your videos! ❤

  • @dougbodrero
    @dougbodrero Před rokem +23

    I have narrow shoulders and always struggle with the shoulder strap staying up. Now I buy bras that are constructed like the black one in your video. I cut the strap off and resew it an inch closer to the back. That is enough to keep the straps up where they belong. Thanks for your videos!

    • @trendy-retro
      @trendy-retro Před rokem +2

      Narrow shoulders, here... and same struggles 😅 Thank you for sharing what you do! I'm going to try it 😃

  • @KittyCat_D
    @KittyCat_D Před rokem

    Her voice and her presence is so calming!!!

  • @firzen2010
    @firzen2010 Před rokem

    Loved the way you talked and great information... thanks for making the video :)

  • @wandateree
    @wandateree Před 10 měsíci +4

    This is a real elegant woman right there! No judgment on people's styles whatsoever!❤

  • @Lara-np1gc
    @Lara-np1gc Před rokem +7

    The most valuable advise i have ever gotten concerning underwear is: only wear underpants made out of cotton and wash it at 60° Celsius (140 Fahrenheit) for hygiene reasons. The material is breathable and so much more healthy! Thank you for the tip with skin-toned underwear under white clothing! :)

  • @moonmun
    @moonmun Před 3 měsíci

    I didn't know about the colors! These are nice tips thank you~

  • @elizabethscott3048
    @elizabethscott3048 Před rokem +1

    As always, excellent content!
    This is the very best video on undergarments that I’ve seen!

  • @LavenderSunshine
    @LavenderSunshine Před rokem +8

    Wish I knew all these tips 10 years ago 😅 I’ve gained weight lately and have not been able to find any comfortable new bras, going shopping tomorrow with my newfound knowledge. Thanks Audrey!

  • @orlando71284
    @orlando71284 Před rokem +30

    Very nice video. Audrey could you please talk about your favourite underwear brands for achieving this??😊

  • @dinapawlow1622
    @dinapawlow1622 Před rokem +1

    So thoughtful and helpful ❤

  • @nimiravindranath19
    @nimiravindranath19 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Great tips Audrey
    Class & elegance , that’s what you are & teach us as well
    Thank you 😊

  • @corinnegunter3889
    @corinnegunter3889 Před rokem +7

    Im 30 and for the past few years have given up on conventional bras and been exclusively wearing sports bras or just tape for special occasions. I did not know how to measure my bra size until this. I always thought I was a 34B and according to this with measurements of 34 and 39... Im a 34DD. Ordering bras right now to see if this is why nothing every fit right!

  • @juliehinshaw5623
    @juliehinshaw5623 Před rokem +5

    Love the look of the bra and would like brand detail if possible. Thank you❤

  • @astridsallerlei5355
    @astridsallerlei5355 Před 3 měsíci

    Finally someone talking about this - thank you so much!! ❤

  • @mariellegrant6248
    @mariellegrant6248 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much Audrey, your advice was very useful!

  • @meg4275
    @meg4275 Před rokem +87

    I would love to hear your thoughts on asymmetrical cup sizing.
    I know this is a common thing, it is definitely not just me!
    I've struggled with fitting myself comfortably in bras since the beginning, my cup difference is at least one size different. Thanks so much.

    • @miharin
      @miharin Před rokem +6

      Omg this, recently got a bra by measuring exactly how it's mentioned here and matching the chart size, but for some reason when it arrived, one of my boob just didn't fit!

    • @AlexisS998
      @AlexisS998 Před rokem +22

      Could you maybe buy a bra that fits the bigger boob, and put an insert in the other side?
      I’m breastfeeding and I often get one bigger than the other, I have these little pads that I stick in after I’ve breastfed so my bra fits again lol

    • @sweetmother2406
      @sweetmother2406 Před rokem +1

      Yes!! After breast feeding five babies my boobs are so asymmetrical and finding a bra that fits is impossible

    • @deejawhitegrass
      @deejawhitegrass Před 8 měsíci

      I gave up on bras after breastfeeding. I use one of those silicone nipple covers. Just have to make sure you wear a form-fitting shirt or undershirt.

    • @its-apple-yo
      @its-apple-yo Před 6 měsíci

      Always measure off the larger breast. Try the abtf calculator ​@@miharin

  • @user-im3os5xf8i
    @user-im3os5xf8i Před rokem +13

    I heard from one rather well-known fashion blogger that the colour of your bra and panties must be one shade darker than your skin tone (for invisible look). And yes, it works perfectly well (for me at least)

    • @Jehraldeen
      @Jehraldeen Před rokem +2

      That’s what my mom says as well. I protested loudly when she got me dark brown boxer panties since I’m very pale skinned, but they worked SO well, that I was confident enough to snap back “No you can’t” with zero hesitation when a guy (jokingly) said he could see my panty through my pants.

  • @sylviarodriguez1644
    @sylviarodriguez1644 Před rokem

    Thank you for the information. It's essential to pull off an outfit.

  • @user-qp1dz9cb8t
    @user-qp1dz9cb8t Před měsícem

    Omg her voice made me relax and the information really helpful