how to build Godly confidence: christian advice on self-worth, beat insecurities, & stop comparing💗
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This is how you build Godly confidence, stop comparing yourself to others, and find your identity in Christ.
In this video we go over tips on memorizing scripture, how to have a healthy self-esteem, how to note feel insecure, how to build confidence (especially in school), and how to stop comparing your life with others. The end of the video includes 10 bible affirmations and a few practical pieces of advice you can start using on your journey of becoming who God created you to be. XOXO, ASH
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timestamps:
0:00 - prayer for insecurity
0:28 - intro
1:50 - supplies for truth mirror
3:31 how to fight lies with God’s truth
9:18 - how to make a truth mirror
10:38 - let’s make a truth mirror together
12:01 - make a Godfidence list
14:37 - how to make battle cards
15:43 - how to stop comparison
18:35 - a faithfulness list
20:46 - stick to your commitments
22:19 - running challenge
23:19 - people pleasing tips
25:58 - work on self talk
26:55 - show up as your best
29:30 - spending time with community
32:00 - christian advice on insecurities
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This video is so good!! You have helped me SOOOO much through my journey, and I wait every Sunday to see your videos, such an inspiration, sorry I didn’t see this when it came out I was at church!! 💗
I have your book preordered!! (It’s one of my birthday gifts)
This hit me so hard. As If you were giving me God given advice. I postponing starting my youtube channel because of how hard I fell back into insecurities. 4 years. It took me 4 years to start my channel. I have encountered so much greatness and hardships throughout the 4 years and I just started my channel 2 weeks ago.I'm still struggling hard. Struggling with depression, anxiety and insecurities.
God bless you..❤..thank you
Is it okay if I join the lives? (I’m 15 and I feel like I might be the only teen there) 😭
Ashley I want you to know that you are beautiful. Once I was watching your video and I showed it to my sister and she said " She(ashley) is beautiful". So! I kindly request you to not to feel insecure. You are gorgeous my sister in CHRIST.❤ And I really mean it😊
I love the request 😂🫶🏻 and I second it!
Thank you for your sweet words sis. I appreciate you! 🫶🏼
Amos 8:10-13 Amen and Hallelujah!
Ashley, Jesus said deny the self? Do you know what that means? Salvation is by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. And to say Godly confidence that is blasphemy. People can use the name Jesus and yet have faith in the devil instead, happens all the time. Even Job in Job 27 was not yet really faithful, only self righteous.
As a teenage girl living for God in today's world, women like you are so inspirational and I truly believe God is using you to advance His kingdom. Thank you so much Ashley, keep seeking the Lord! ❤
To God be all the glory! Thank you for being in this community sis ❤️
YES!! I feel this one !
Literally
Amen 🙌
Your life doesn’t begin once you’re in a relationship, if you’re waiting for that, you’re missing some of the special moments in your life. The most important earthy relationship is the one with yourself. Enjoy this time alone. Your worth doesn’t lie in someone else.
Exactly. I found my husband when I gave up feeling sorry for myself and started living. Stop looking, stop the despair, and it'll come to you ❤
As a teenage girl who struggles with social anxiety, confident, intrusive thoughts and barely has any friends😔 your channel and especially this video has been really helpful, encouraging and inspirational. Love you and your videos😆💖. If you ever read this I just want you to know that you are special, not just to God but to me also and i thank God for you and your content❤
God loves you so much! And im glad you’re here sister ❤
I'm a teenage girl as well and I really hope you're feeling good now! I went through a lot of difficulties in my life, especially those related to friends, I used to feel ugly and boring, but God is helping me to feel more confident and to seek Him in the first place. Now I'm better and I made new friends 🙏🏻
Just don't give up, you're precious and you matter a lot! Jesus loves you 🤍 Hugs from Brazil 🥰💌
@@rafaa089 Thankyou for this wonderful comment🥰. I kind off go through the sem thing🥲. I have super low confidence because i feel like people find me boring. But I've been trying to talk to people more but its kind of hard for me because people have already classified me as a 'quiet girl'. I'm also trying to seek God more and I do feel better now. Thanks again for this comment and I hope that you would continue making more friends and have a deeper relationship with God ❤️. Hugs from the UAE🤍🥰
I’ve been church hurt so many times due to my autism diagnosis since 12. I went to a charismatic one and they called me a “demon” and an “incompetent astray” from time to time. My mother and father also never presented that Godly love for one another which made my childhood unbearable.
Ashley, your videos as an now 19 year old autistic Christian helped me talked to God more and less to mankind. I cut my family off by keeping my distance, I am focused on my studies, I have one close friend who is also Christian, and I’m welcomed to my college’s church better than my old home. God bless you and to all the neurodivergent Christians here, God loves you and may He keep you in His heart ❤🙏🏾✝️
🩷 Keep praying
That’s so messed up I’m autistic myself but my church never made me feel that way I’m sorry u had to go through that
I’m so proud of you for pushing through and continuing to seek God even though the people around you misrepresented Him 💓 You inspired me today and I pray that God continues to bless you and use you to show others how God’s character truly is. Just like the story of Joseph when he was betrayed and sold into slavery by his own brothers, he was able to look at them and say “You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good.” ✝️
Whoever said those bizarre things to you needs guidance. That is not Christ like in any capacity. I'm so sorry a few rotten, arrogant people tainted your experience. I mean, it's 2024- soooo many people have autism. It's quite common. My husband is autistic. We have built a happy, loving life together. Dont let any ignorant, outdated people hurt your heart anymore. Ashley's videos have helped me so much within a short period of time. With God, everything makes sense and falls into place. ❤
I follow 3 young women who share their entire lifes and thoughts in their walks with the Lord Jesus Christ. I came to the realization that men and women go through pretty much same things in life. Your videos have motivated me to transform my life. For more than 2 years I have been getting up at 5am and working out. I got so productive that I do all the house chores and even got a well paid full time job. I became more comfortable, healthy and confident. Thank you so much.
I’m a 36 y/o grown woman who just started having severe confidence issues over the last 4 years. I’ve been making great progress over the last month with God’s hand and love. This video is exactly what I needed right now. Thank you Ashley ❤
Sooo glad it spoke to you, friend!
You are beautiful! God loves you ❤
I get it. I'm 40 and struggle to feel relevant and comfortable in my new (older) skin. I'm going to try to surrender myself more to God.
It's really good to know I'm not the only one struggling with this stuff
I agree ❤
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Same 😢
Agreed here, as well.
Yess ❤
Comparison is the thief of joy. You are such a beautiful person not just on the outside but on the inside as well which is beauty that never fades. The devil is a liar and can't stand that you are helping bring so many people to the feet of Jesus 🤍
Something that was a game changer for me was this: every version of me deserves love
I am not undeserving of love, cute outfits, care, compliments and acceptance even if I am unmotivated, breaking out, feeling horrible and unproductive- I deserve that kind of self love all versions of me, not just when my skin is clear, or I feel good and am motivated and productive. God says I love YOU, YOU now and YOU later, and YOU before.
I love this ❤
We can feel like we’re only deserving in specific circles or when we perform specifically. But God loves us
Girl the lord smashed my full length mirror. It just fell off the back of my door one day and completely smashed. I haven’t had a full length mirror since. This was a few months ago and wow I don’t even miss it. I used to get stressed out when it was time for me to get dressed. I would freeze up, focus on my body & then get frustrated with my kids if they came in the room whilst I was getting dressed. The amount of time I would waist getting ready, the mood changes, the pride, self focus and focus on weight has gone. I get dressed within 2 minutes, I can focus on my kids and get out the door. Life changing
One day I was driving and admiring the beautiful creations of God and just praising Him because he is an amazing artist.
Earlier that day I had also been asking God why he loved me and how he saw me. As I thought of the beauty in His creation I remembered that I had asked Him that question. Then I felt a question rise up "why do you think the mountains and the sky are beautiful?" I replied in my mind "because you made them my Lord, because they are a work of your hand".
Then at that moment it hit me and tears filled my eyes. I am beautiful because I am His handiwork and I am his creation. The Lord of the universe who made the most awe inspiring landscapes also formed me.
Good is so good. Believe that He loves you and that you are beautiful, you are a work from His hand.
Hi Ashley! I'm 17 years old from Wisconsin and I'm growing my relationship with God (raised atheist, converted at the start of March) and your videos have helped me so much
5:08 "That was me in my BC era " i get that 😢♥️✝️
That was the best thing I've heard this year. 😂 Although, it did take me a minute to figure out the meaning. I'm an old woman. 😂
Your brother seems so genuine🥺
He is!!
I just finished reading psalms 139 i really want to see myself the way God sees me and not the world🦋
Such a beautiful & encouraging verse ❤️
@@ashleyhetherington_ yess it truly is🦋
“I’m going to endure.” (Sticking to commitments made to self and God)
Make sure to not make promesses to God, that u will not get done, so you dont sin❤
Many gorgeous women get cheated on and are not appreciated for their real value by men. Most of them are not even attracting high value Christian men who are marriage material. Relying on men's opinions to find a sense of inner worth is the stupidest thing a woman can do! Jesus is the Perfect man and He loved us enough to accept dying for us. He sees us as beautiful despite our physical flaws and personally, He is all the Love that I need! May He help any woman struggling with jealousy or insecurity to realize their true eternal UNIQUE value!🙏💕🕊🔥💪💃
Hello God bless all of yall❤❤
God bless you too 💓🙏🙏
Literally prayer to God to see myself the way he sees me and learn what he says about me so that can be my identity and learning to combat the enemy’s lies🦋
IN JESUS’ NAME!!!
God literally made u post this video right when he knew i was starting to doubt him again. Thank u Ash ! Love u sm
Praise Jesus! 🤍
@@ashleyhetherington_ Yes Always!
I’m a 46 year old mom of 4 and needed to hear this.
Thank you for being here!
Hi😊😅
I just have to say I love this series! It’s so easy to get carried away when watching netflix or things that don’t glorify the Lord. But with Holy Girl Diaries and your other videos, I can just sit down and eat lunch all while learning how to put my trust in God and live a life that reflects my relationship with Christ. Thankyou for being an inspiration to me and so many other girls!! ❤
Thanks for being here sis!
You are great. Very pretty. I weigh 250 lbs and am a 43 year old woman. Trust me the devil lies to me all the time. But I am worthy of love because Christ died for everyone.
No doubt as we journey through life we face a spiritual battle. As Christians we must put on our spiritual armour each day, as the devil is always waiting for an opportune time. Watching your video gives me great encouragement that there are beautiful christians who are building their faith in the Lord ❤
Ashley , I remember when you made videos saying you're in a tough season where you don't have any friends and you're waiting on God to send you the right, Christian friends ❤ Look at you now 😍
Oh Ashley. At face value, when i saw you for the first time, I thought you were a pretty, bubbly girly. But now that I've been watching your videos for a while now, I think you're GORGEOUS. I know it's hard to keep those icky thoughts out of out heads though. You're amazing. Keep radiating that joy and love 💛🤍💛🤍💛
Just earlier today I was talking with God, knowing my next journey in personal growth and a closer relationship with God is my confidence. I asked Him to show me how, went to youtube and saw your caption for this video was literally "God Confidence". God is so cool! Thanks for saying yes to God, people are being changed!
When you shared that video of you waiting by your phone feeling ghosted. I wanted to give you a hug. Girl, i know how that feels and man... just wanted to remind you that you are so much more... I'm excited for your future husband... I can't wait because I know God will provide for you... it's very soon and because you're working your way to be a better version of you and prepare that with Christ. God will bless you tremendously. He loves you so much.. Ashley you're so loved.
Thank you sooo much sis! I am so glad you're a part of this community
I really just wanna say (if u come across this comment) yall r so sweet man 😭😭, like im js reading these comments and struggles us teens have and yall r so supportive towards each other broo, God bless each an every one of y'all, you guys r seriously the sweetest 🥺🥺💖💖
i love that I'm not the only one that still talks to cashiers and stuff even when they might not seem the most friendly. ashley is just so kind to everyone it helps me to keep on pushin
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Hi😊😅
These compilations are so good bc you can watch content based around god uninterrupted
This is SO GOOD. It's evident how God leads you through your life and your videos, I pray this blesses many many people out there ❤ much love Ash
In Jesus’ name!
Thank you for being here sis 💞
I am struggling with massive OCD in my life in certain areas please pray for freedom from this bondage I don’t want to live in it anymore in Jesus name
Amen.
thank you so much for this video I am a teen girl who has been teased about being homeschooled all my life and now I have no confidence to walk out into the world on a daily bases
Wow God is so great, I’ve been struggling with this for quite some time and was looking for a video about this topic this exact morning ! Thank you for everything you do 🥹💞
Me too 🥹🥹🥹
LET’S GO JESUS! ❤
As an older sister in Christ, this message of negative self-talk and creating new healthy habits drills directly into my heart this morning. This has been on my mind since I woke up. Message received, Lord!
Also, I relate to Wil's story. I believe I have a touch of dyslexia that the nuns in school were not equipped to recognize. I would dread having to read out loud for class because I would stumble over the orders, pronounce them wrong or add in words that were not there because in my mind the addition made more sense. Teachers would scold me and the kids would laugh. It took YEARS to get over that fear and gain confidence to do any kind of public speaking. Not to mention the anxiety that it caused...
Oh, Ashley… You have been such a help in my faith walk with the lord. Such an authentic, loving and courageous woman of Christ who wants nothing better for her subscribers to follow our lord and savior. I just thank Jesus for creating Ashley! I pray that you remind her of how beautiful she is continually, fearlessly made in you Jesus, has authority in your name. That any spirit that attacks her for you using her to reach those lost sheep will flee in Jesus name! I pray you continue to guide my sister in Christ to where you are calling her to be, to do, and to share for your kingdom, in Jesus name Amen! I love you Ashley, but Jesus loves you more❤️
I literally have the same story as William (I think that's his name). I couldn't read well and had some pretty horrible teachers. Now I'm teaching English as a second language and doing linguistics! This was so encouraging
I got ghosted recently and it REALLY hurt 😂😂 but I know God has a man out there for me somewhere!! I’m sure you’ll find your man from God soon Ashley!!! God bless.
His loss. You have a beautiful smile.
GIRLE! I just wanted to tell you that you are my inspiration. Your love for the Lord is so beautiful that I can just see Jesus radiating off you. Love you girly :)
Hi friend!! So glad this spoke to you
I love that Hebrews quote about the double edge sword because it reminds me of Revelation 19. In Revelation 19 we see a horse and a rider with a sword coming out of its mouth, which is used to kill those who wage war against the horse and its rider. This really shows how powerful the word of God is and the power of the tongue. It has the power to destroy every army that seeks to oppose it. Really makes you reconsider the quote "the power of life and death is in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21)"! Now whenever I put on the armour of God, I visualise the sword as being in my mouth like a tongue because that is what it is!
Hi Ashley! Im 12 and I just got saved not to long ago, Its like every time I listen to your videos during school, I get motivated to keep living for God and I feel happy and confident to live for God. I love you so much Ashley! Please never stop making videos , God bless youu
“Lies and insecurities from the pit of hell” is such a powerful phrase but it speaks volumes
Thank you, Ashley ❤
I needed this!!!❤ thank you!
Thank you Ashley ❤❤
Thanks for this video ❤❤
I literally needed to hear this!
Hello Ashley, I struggle with this exact same issue. Not believing myself when God believes in me! I give the enemies too much power in keep feeding into my anxiety and insecurities. Thank you so much for this video. It really helped me sort things out in my cloudy head!
Thank you so much Ashley u have helped me so much❤❤❤❤😊
Love your content so much girly❤️
Aah love these long videos from Ashley 🤧❤️
Thank you Ashely
This is right on time . I struggle with all the above and anxiety is the worst one . Makes my stomach feel like it’s boiling 😭
God loves you dear.💜
SO great! Thank you!!!
Needed this video 🥹💖
I pre-ordered your book! The waiiiit is killing me 💕😩 so excited
Thanks for this❤
I will more than likely be rewatching this again. For now I'm going to write down the 3 lies and 3 truths to combat them.
Thank you so much for posting this. I pray God continues to use you to help those like me.
This is so beautiful thank you
Thank you sis for posting this video... i needed this video so badly it's like the enemy is just having a playday in my head. I am not enough, and im not important enough to talk to, and im not beautiful and wishing i looked like somebody else... Thank you Jesus for using Ashley to show others how we can fight the enemy, when we are struggling with Godconfidence!!! Love you daughter of christ!!!
this helped me so much thank you ❤
I was waiting for the new episode! Yeah!
I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR A VIDEO!!!! THANK YOU ASHLEYYYY. GOD BLESS YOU 😊❤❤❤❤❤❤
This was soooo good! We love you Ash! 🤩
Ashhh, you have no idea how much I needed to hear all of this, it really spoke to me 😭I was lit crying about this and then just saw the notification about your new video and it helped so muchhh 💕❤ thank you so muchhh for all the content you post and all the advice that you give
Hi sister! Im so so glad this spoke to you 🥹❤️
I love this eps. ... Thanks to sharing this 💖
Oh, my sister in Christ, i wanna tell that you are beautiful. Satan, our enemy sometimes makes us feel insecure, but i want you to know that all of us are beautiful uniquely, and wonderfully, fearfully (It means he honors, and awe of all of us the way how God works on us) made by God. God loves you, so don't feel bad about yourself. ❤❤❤ Love, love. ❤❤
This is great. Thank you for sharing your journey
i love your videos Ash! God bless you
btw you're beautiful
I needed this video more than I thought today! Thank you Jesus for leading me here. I’ve been struggling, just because I’m stressed out from planning a wedding that’s a month away now & with other adult responsibilities… lol
But, God has my situation & I trust him. I am really encouraged to do the sticky notes on the mirror now. 💖
Hi friend!! So glad this spoke to you!!
Thank you Ashley
Thank you so much for these videos, ash ❤ They truly change peoples minds and lives
Love Allys explaining anythingggg.. " The Lord can ONLY SPIT FIRE" Yazzzz
I stumbled upon your channel and I can't help but root for you on your journey. I don't care what your religion is as long as it meets your spiritual needs and you find fulfillment in it. I think you're doing Christianity the correct way and I'm proud of you.
As a 14 year old girl, yes, I have insecurities, I feel un worthy. But you inspired me to bring my Bible back out and read the Word of the Lord. And for that I thank you so much.🤍
Omggg girl, don't feel that way!! U r seriously so loved by the creator of the world Mann!! All of us teens struggle w/ insecurities including myself, but we should def depend on the Lord as our Savior!! Glad ur bringing your Bible back, the Lord word is our sword for all those lies that come to us, but God bless you girlie, J's know u r so worthy for the eyes of the Lord 💓💓
Amen sister!!! God bless you ❤
Love you Long Videos 🙏🏼
I needed this, thanks Ashley🙃
“If you’re still here, he’s not done,” thank you for that Ashley. Sometimes when I’m in my insecurities and I feel like my life is meaningless I have to remind myself on that. And your video was posted at such a perfect time because I really needed to hear this. Thank you for being such a kind woman of God, he’s using you to give me help and many other girls!! ✝️🤍
wow this one hit hard…i always compare myself and i rly appreciate you speaking out abt this ❤
So glad it spoke to you!!
Definitely relatable
Loved this vlog 🤍
So glad you loved it!
Thank you Ashley, I love listening to your videos and I can feel that you are a good person ❤️
I NEEDED THIS! I am trying to teach this to my 6 year old daughter and my 3 year old son as well. Teaching them scripture by saying “ What are you” or “ Who are you” and I’ll have them repeat scripture that speaks to their identity!
I would love to know some of ya’lls favorite verses you cling to for your identity!🤍
So glad this spoke to you!!!
You’re gorgeous ashley love your videos
Thank you! your so amazing!! 😭🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻also I’m dying to read your new book!!! I can’t wait for it to come out. Love you!❤❤
hey Ashley, you might not see this but your videos have left such an impact on me and life has been great ever since! ever since i found your channel, i found myself getting so much closer to God than I’ve ever imagined. i’ve always had the desire to draw closer to Him, I just never found that motivation to keep myself going and really build my relationship with Him. Your videos have really guided me step by step on how to do that, whether that was the ACTS prayer model or your daily routine, it has changed my life. tysm Ashley for saving me.
This video is brilliant, ive learnt a lot ❤
Ashley you are doing such an amazing work, it’s so vivid that God is working through you, He must be so proud, keep going sis❤
WOW! This was and Amazing Vlog! I took notes!!! Thank you so much Ashley
Thank you!
Hi everyone good morning ❤ Thankyou so much Ashley because I am very insecure about my acne. This vidio will be so much help thank you for everything Ashly ❤
Ashley, honesty I truly didn’t know what it looked like to feel confident or having good mental health through the lord looked like until I watched your videos, thank you for making these videos and I want you to know how beautiful you are ash🩷
Powerful Thank you
Thanks for this word, that blessing!! ❤😊
Thanks a lot Ashley!! Especially for all these tips, I only knew about the truth mirror and I’m super exited to try out all the others ☺️
I have been doubting myself forever and trying to get to know the lord, because I know he is the only one that could get rid of that side of myself.
As a teen in this generation it is really hard, but I feel like this video has help me❤